Alaina and James Are Both Vegetarian

Alaina says she had an amazing time with James, and really wants to see him again after their date in the city. James isn't making it easy. Let's get him on the phone and see what's up.

Episode Transcript

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Boor variety from the two thousands,the nineties and today it's Star one oh
one three, It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing it again, y'all.
Second date update. We try toget you a second date after you think
you had a wonderful first date andyou don't hear from the person again.
Yeah, so we've got Elena onthe phone. Hello, Hi, Elena.
Elena is up on Match and accordingto your email, you're frustrated,

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right, absolutely, I just Idon't know what I did. Tell many,
he didn't do anything. Who knows? Tell us about James. You
guys met on match obviously, butthen how did the first date go?
Oh my god? I thought itwas amazing, Like I was so excited
to meet him in person. Youknow, we'd only been chatting for like
the last week or so after wemet on match, and we seem to

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have everything you could have am andthat's important. You know. We both
have dogs that we love, Welove to go hiking, we are vegetarians,
just different. You know, thingsthat are important at the end of
the day, if you're going to, you know, spend the rest of
your life possibly with somebody. AndI thought the date was beautiful. We
went to this Millennium restaurant, vegetarian, we chatted, We had a great

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time. He was so chill.Yes, he's a handsome guy, but
also it just seems like he's agenuine guy, you know, and responsible
and ready to settle down. Andit went so well. I mean,
we didn't kiss at the end ofthe day. We hugged, but I
mean the fact that we hugged onour first date I thought was pretty cool.

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And then I texted him next dayand I haven't heard from him at
all. Huh. Also, Millenniumis swank, like the right that is
uh, dude, if you're aveg like I'm not, but I'd go
there to eat anyway. Okay,so let's see what we can figure out.
You've been listening to the show longenough, you know, we're gonna
We're gonna call James and we'll gethis vibe on the date. And maybe

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he's just been busy, maybe somethingwent sideways, who knows. Can you
hang on for a song. Maybehe's arrested. Maybe thank you Corey,
you know, yeah, maybe hangon and we'll call James next. It's
second date update. It's Star oneon one three more variety from the two
thousands, the nineties, and todayit's Star one on one three. It's
Marcus and Corey. We're doing secondDate Update. We've been talking to Elena

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about James. Elena who is burntout on online dating, which you know,
not shocked. I get it.I have a lot of friends who
are dating on apps and it canbe very frustrating, tough out there.
But she met James on Match andyou guys are both vegetarians, right,
Yeah, so we got that goingfor us. And let's see met up
in Oakland. It sounds like theyhad a lot in common. Yeah,

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so, and it how did itend? Again? I forget? Did
it end with a kiss? Ha hug? Okay, well maybe he's
a slow play who knows. Look, we're gonna call James and let's see
what he says about the date.Okay, okay, all right, hang
on, here we go. Goodmorning. It may I speak with James

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please, I'm so polite right atthe jump, James, Yeah, this
is he. Hello, Hi James, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one
one three. Good morning, James. Okay, how are you do you
do you listen to Star? Yeah? Of course nice. No, No,
I love it. Do you knowdo you know about second date update?
Yeah? Is this? Are youguys calling about Elena? Wow?

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Wow, dude, he's all overit. Yeah. I don't know if
I need you, Marcus. Ithink I need to show James. What
if we are calling about Elena?Could you discuss your date? I mean,
oh, well, here a wholeFirst of all, Elena, are
you there? Yeah? So heknows you're there. Yeah? Yeah,

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okay, So you know what seconddate updates about. Elena said, you
guys had a great time on yourfirst date. She'd love to go out
again. What's the deal? No, No, I'm not interested. Well
that you're coming hot? Here's thewow. On our date, I was
yeah, I'm sorry. On ourdate, I was really hopeful about everything.
I thought she was really beautiful inher pictures and when we were messaging,

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you know, she was really seriousabout a lot of the same things
I am. You know, shewas into she was a spiritual person,
and I feel like I had amomentary connection with her. But then the
moment we left the restaurant, Iheld her hand sort of romantically and she

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I think she was flirting or Idon't know. I honestly. It just
it was the wrong thing because Iwas being sincere and she just said in
six months I had better have abun in the oven or a rock on
my finger. I just thought thatwas pretty tacky, and I don't want
to commit to someone who is talkingabout marriage and Elena, Hold Elena,

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you said what now? I saidit in six months, I better have
a ring on my finger or abun in the oven. I mean seriously,
Yeah, I'm serious. I mean, at our age, why not
why waste time with people on severaldates? You know, like, why
not just be upfront and honest fromthe beginning, you know, But I
don't know. He was holding myhand. Yeah, I mean I don't

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think. I don't think there issuch a thing as wasted time. I
mean, I think we only havea certain amount of time on earth,
and I don't want to waste it. You know of someone who is only
concerned with these goals, these kindof artificial, socially constructed goals, like
I just want to actually date you, but now I don't, Oh,

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you want to date me so thatyou can just have me in bed and
then dump me when you want togo onto the next girl. I get
it is this adults talk and no, oh my god. Wait, hold,
I don't think let's just bring itin. Let's just bring it in
for a sec. I don't thinkthere's anybody else you realize how this is
a little aggressive though. Right,Look, I'm sorry, I'm just I'm

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maybe I'm just having a midlife crisis. I don't know. I just I
feel like everybody else in my lifeis married and has kids, and I
mean, James and I are atthat age where there isn't much more time.
So what's wrong with being upfront andhonest right away? Right? Right?
Hey, hang on you guys,hang on one second. James that

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Wow, we're sorry to bother you. That would freak me out if I
was a dude. She's on hold, so just all take a breath.
Yeah, I'm sorry, I'm actuallyI'm doing someone new. I'm bisexual son
with a guy named Seth, andit's been going great. This is a
whole other thing. Okay, Well, you and Seth have the best time.

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I just fell in love with you. Yes, thank you. Wow.
I did not did not have thaton my bingo card this morning.
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