September 9, 2024 • 9 mins
She was digging how easy it was to spend time with Trevor. She wants to keep the good vibes going, but he's avoiding her now. Let's find out why.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands of the nineties, and
today it's Star one O one three, It's Marcus and Corey,
and it is time once again for our favorite called
second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Okay, so what happens is people are looking for love.
They're on dating sites, they're going to bars there, they're
going to a pumpkin patch.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
They just want to meet somebody. Better people than we are.
You have way more intestinal fortitude. Yes, I couldn't do
it now.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
The problem is they find somebody, they go on the
first date and then here fo on.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Yeah, we tried to figure out why Elena. Is this
true to life? Is this happening right now in real time? Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
It's rough out there, man, So like I know anything,
tell us about Trevor. How did you guys meet? And
then and then let's run through the first date so
we can get some some intel here.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Okay, Yeah, so we met on Hinge and he was
like very good at conversations. It wasn't any of those
like lame starters that you know, guys us on every
single girl they send a message too. Sure, so like
green check right off the bat, you.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Can I ask a question before you continue? Can you
think of a good lame red flag starter that you've
been victim to.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
No, I've definitely had. Like the lamest one was did
it hurt? And I knew he was waiting for me
to be like did we hurt when I fell from heaven?
Or whatever lame pickup line he's trying to do.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
You know, that's a quick google huh, yeah, one.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Hundred percent, Like you don't even need CHAP, GPT or whatever.
You just like google it and it's been around for
like what fifty years oldie?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Sure, But so Trevor was different. Apparently he was different. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
He seems like very in tune, like very grounded, Like
he likes nature and he meditates and he's into yoga
and like I'm all about that, Like I'm into the
wu wu stuff, you know, the w Yeah, and like
you know, like I'm actually like I'm a vegetarian and
it turns out he's a vegan, so it was like
(02:00):
compatible in the kitchen, you know. Sure, So, like I
don't know, we talked for a couple of weeks and
then we decided to meet for tapas and pollow out
to us. You know, on university app there's really great
plays I don't know if I can say.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Nothing says romance like shared plates, right exactly.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
You don't need like a big thing, Like I feel
like big plates now are like what giant meatballs or something,
and like neither of us are into that, so it
works out right, Okay, Yeah it was great. He was charming,
like we never ran out of anything to talk about,
and like it was a conversation. It wasn't just me
like yap and away, like and not only were there tapas,
but there was this like great little salad bar with
(02:38):
like a ton of like different things you could choose from,
and like I don't know, we definitely ate a lot
and like hugged good night and like I don't know,
like he said that we should like do it again
sometime and then totally like ghosted gone.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Okay, we really liked up until that moment. Yeah, so
so here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Okay, you had tapas, that's great, everything's fine.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Salad bar. I'm thinking salad bar.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Right, Trevor gets a little lettuce mixture, and maybe it's
tainted with Coli.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I knew you were gonna go e Coli for the wind.
Really I knew it. You know you just might be
down for the count. Can't find his phone. Yeah, you know,
it wasn't the right scenario for botulism. It was more
of a Colli thing. Well, let us you know what
are we talking here? Ulus, Sorry, Elena, I don't know
what just happened. You do not apologize for me. Let's
(03:31):
hope Trevor didn't get a coli. You know, we'll find out.
We'll call him, find out. We'll call him with you
on the line. Now, he's gonna be able to hear you,
so make sure you mute out your phone. But we're
gonna do it after this song.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
All right.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
It's Second Date Update Star one oh one three. Well
variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's
a Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey.
This is Second Date Update. We have been on the
line with Elena, who met up with Trevor on Hinge,
and we liked Trevor up until the point where he ghosted. Well,
of course, Elena, to your point, he LIKESIOGA. He's very mindful,
(04:02):
very present, and you guys have the same dietary restrictions
as I understand. You're like, you're a vegetarian, he's a vegan. Yes,
different but similar, compatible exactly. Okay, okay, well let's call
him and figure out what happened because I am curious. Okay,
go ahead and mut your phone. Let me give him
a shout.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Hello, May I speak with Trevor please? Yeah, this is Trevor.
Hi Trevor, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three. Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
I'm not really familiar with uh, with that radio stage.
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Right, Well, we do something.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
It was a morning show here in the Bay Area,
and we do a segment on our show called Second
Date Update, and we talked to people about a date
they went on, and we were wondering if you wouldn't
mind speaking to us on the air. Oh, yeah, no problem.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
So we want to talk about a date you went
on with a girl named Elena, who really enjoyed your company,
liked your vibe. She said you were compatible, but she's
she's feeling ghosted, so she'd love to go out again.
Wanted to get your thoughts on maybe a second date.
Did you have a good time?
Speaker 3 (05:24):
You know, I actually did have a good time, Like
I liked her.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
She was really pretty well read, smart, and I didn't
want to see her again initially, Uh huh, But.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I mean this is a little weird.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Where did they Where did it get weird?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Well, I mean as we got up to leave, a
chicken wing fell out of her pocket.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
And yet I'm not I'm not making that up.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
It again? It again.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
A chicken wing fell out of her pocket.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
That is literally a sentence I did not know I
was going to hear today.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
That's not a sentence I ever thought I was going
to say.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Was it wrapped in something? I don't even why am
I asking? Why? You asking that?
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I mean it might have been wrapped in a napkin,
But when it hit the ground, it rolled.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Okay, what somebody's stuck it in there? And you think
like somebody was like playing a prank and she did.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
It's not a plant.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
No, He awkwardly like laughed it off and just made
a quick exit.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
And I was just like, what did you did you
ask about it? Yeah? Yeah I did, and she said she.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Was saving it for like later.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Why so she tells me that she doesn't eat chicken
before eight pm?
Speaker 3 (06:41):
That just blew my mind.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
It doesn't make you still a vegetarian. She's never heard
that she still thinks she's a vegetarian with that if
she waits still after eight If she does, now I
got questions, all right, Trevor. I think Elena is actually listening.
She's on the phone, and I am made of questions. Elena. Yeah, oh,
(07:04):
I just want to make sure I've got this correct.
Because you don't eat chicken til after eight pm, you
still identify as a vegetarian.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Well?
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Yeah, because it's like cutting down on like, you know,
the carbon emissions because it's not like I'm eating like
any red meat at all, or like you know, even
any fish or anything like that. And like you know,
it's just like chicken in a very small time period.
You can't eat that much, you know, before sun arrive.
And like there's lots of different types of vegetarians, like
you know, for instance, like if my parents like make
(07:37):
a burger or something when I'm at their house and
they don't finish their plate, I'm not going to let
them like waste that animal's meat, so like I'll finish
it for them, you know what I mean, Like you
are not being a vegetarian. That's not a vegetarian.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
I got I can't my brain I mean, it's fine
if you're not a vegetarian, but don't lie about it.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
You don't need to lie about it would.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Have been funny.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
But that's the thing it like, is a vegetarian. It's
like a spectrum. It's like an umbrella now, like you
know what I mean. It's all about like I'm not
gonna let other people around me waste it. And also
like if I'm just having chicken every once in a
while between like the hours of eight and midnight, Like
it's not like I'm the one who's causing global warming,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
An I'm a vegetarian, Elena, I adore you, but I
don't I'm not sure that's how that works. Yeah, I
mean you can.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Like literally go online and talk to like there's a
ton of people who do this, you know what I mean.
Some people are like vegetarians on like Monday, Wednesday, Friday,
you know what I mean. Like it's just everybody in
the world like decided I'm only gonna eat chicken from
eight pm to midnight like twice a week. The planet
would be better for it.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
I mean it would be, But that still doesn't make
you a vegetarian, Okay, all right, well let's just let's
bring it back. Uh, Elena, look you do you you're great.
But the question is Trevor, with this information, can we
get a second date? I mean no, no, I mean
she's a funny line. I mean if she's lying already,
(09:12):
what's next,
More variety from the two thousands of the nineties, and
today it's Star one O one three, It's Marcus and Corey,
and it is time once again for our favorite called
second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Okay, so what happens is people are looking for love.
They're on dating sites, they're going to bars there, they're
going to a pumpkin patch.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
They just want to meet somebody. Better people than we are.
You have way more intestinal fortitude. Yes, I couldn't do
it now.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
The problem is they find somebody, they go on the
first date and then here fo on.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Yeah, we tried to figure out why Elena. Is this
true to life? Is this happening right now in real time? Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
It's rough out there, man, So like I know anything,
tell us about Trevor. How did you guys meet? And
then and then let's run through the first date so
we can get some some intel here.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Okay, Yeah, so we met on Hinge and he was
like very good at conversations. It wasn't any of those
like lame starters that you know, guys us on every
single girl they send a message too. Sure, so like
green check right off the bat, you.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Can I ask a question before you continue? Can you
think of a good lame red flag starter that you've
been victim to.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
No, I've definitely had. Like the lamest one was did
it hurt? And I knew he was waiting for me
to be like did we hurt when I fell from heaven?
Or whatever lame pickup line he's trying to do.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
You know, that's a quick google huh, yeah, one.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Hundred percent, Like you don't even need CHAP, GPT or whatever.
You just like google it and it's been around for
like what fifty years oldie?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Sure, But so Trevor was different. Apparently he was different. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
He seems like very in tune, like very grounded, Like
he likes nature and he meditates and he's into yoga
and like I'm all about that, Like I'm into the
wu wu stuff, you know, the w Yeah, and like
you know, like I'm actually like I'm a vegetarian and
it turns out he's a vegan, so it was like
(02:00):
compatible in the kitchen, you know. Sure, So, like I
don't know, we talked for a couple of weeks and
then we decided to meet for tapas and pollow out
to us. You know, on university app there's really great
plays I don't know if I can say.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Nothing says romance like shared plates, right exactly.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
You don't need like a big thing, Like I feel
like big plates now are like what giant meatballs or something,
and like neither of us are into that, so it
works out right, Okay, Yeah it was great. He was charming,
like we never ran out of anything to talk about,
and like it was a conversation. It wasn't just me
like yap and away, like and not only were there tapas,
but there was this like great little salad bar with
(02:38):
like a ton of like different things you could choose from,
and like I don't know, we definitely ate a lot
and like hugged good night and like I don't know,
like he said that we should like do it again
sometime and then totally like ghosted gone.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Okay, we really liked up until that moment. Yeah, so
so here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Okay, you had tapas, that's great, everything's fine.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Salad bar. I'm thinking salad bar.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Right, Trevor gets a little lettuce mixture, and maybe it's
tainted with Coli.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I knew you were gonna go e Coli for the wind.
Really I knew it. You know you just might be
down for the count. Can't find his phone. Yeah, you know,
it wasn't the right scenario for botulism. It was more
of a Colli thing. Well, let us you know what
are we talking here? Ulus, Sorry, Elena, I don't know
what just happened. You do not apologize for me. Let's
(03:31):
hope Trevor didn't get a coli. You know, we'll find out.
We'll call him, find out. We'll call him with you
on the line. Now, he's gonna be able to hear you,
so make sure you mute out your phone. But we're
gonna do it after this song.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
All right.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
It's Second Date Update Star one oh one three. Well
variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's
a Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey.
This is Second Date Update. We have been on the
line with Elena, who met up with Trevor on Hinge,
and we liked Trevor up until the point where he ghosted. Well,
of course, Elena, to your point, he LIKESIOGA. He's very mindful,
(04:02):
very present, and you guys have the same dietary restrictions
as I understand. You're like, you're a vegetarian, he's a vegan. Yes,
different but similar, compatible exactly. Okay, okay, well let's call
him and figure out what happened because I am curious. Okay,
go ahead and mut your phone. Let me give him
a shout.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Hello, May I speak with Trevor please? Yeah, this is Trevor.
Hi Trevor, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three. Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
I'm not really familiar with uh, with that radio stage.
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Right, Well, we do something.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
It was a morning show here in the Bay Area,
and we do a segment on our show called Second
Date Update, and we talked to people about a date
they went on, and we were wondering if you wouldn't
mind speaking to us on the air. Oh, yeah, no problem.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
So we want to talk about a date you went
on with a girl named Elena, who really enjoyed your company,
liked your vibe. She said you were compatible, but she's
she's feeling ghosted, so she'd love to go out again.
Wanted to get your thoughts on maybe a second date.
Did you have a good time?
Speaker 3 (05:24):
You know, I actually did have a good time, Like
I liked her.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
She was really pretty well read, smart, and I didn't
want to see her again initially, Uh huh, But.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I mean this is a little weird.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Where did they Where did it get weird?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Well, I mean as we got up to leave, a
chicken wing fell out of her pocket.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
And yet I'm not I'm not making that up.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
It again? It again.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
A chicken wing fell out of her pocket.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
That is literally a sentence I did not know I
was going to hear today.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
That's not a sentence I ever thought I was going
to say.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Was it wrapped in something? I don't even why am
I asking? Why? You asking that?
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I mean it might have been wrapped in a napkin,
But when it hit the ground, it rolled.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Okay, what somebody's stuck it in there? And you think
like somebody was like playing a prank and she did.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
It's not a plant.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
No, He awkwardly like laughed it off and just made
a quick exit.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
And I was just like, what did you did you
ask about it? Yeah? Yeah I did, and she said she.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Was saving it for like later.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Why so she tells me that she doesn't eat chicken
before eight pm?
Speaker 3 (06:41):
That just blew my mind.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
It doesn't make you still a vegetarian. She's never heard
that she still thinks she's a vegetarian with that if
she waits still after eight If she does, now I
got questions, all right, Trevor. I think Elena is actually listening.
She's on the phone, and I am made of questions. Elena. Yeah, oh,
(07:04):
I just want to make sure I've got this correct.
Because you don't eat chicken til after eight pm, you
still identify as a vegetarian.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Well?
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Yeah, because it's like cutting down on like, you know,
the carbon emissions because it's not like I'm eating like
any red meat at all, or like you know, even
any fish or anything like that. And like you know,
it's just like chicken in a very small time period.
You can't eat that much, you know, before sun arrive.
And like there's lots of different types of vegetarians, like
you know, for instance, like if my parents like make
(07:37):
a burger or something when I'm at their house and
they don't finish their plate, I'm not going to let
them like waste that animal's meat, so like I'll finish
it for them, you know what I mean, Like you
are not being a vegetarian. That's not a vegetarian.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
I got I can't my brain I mean, it's fine
if you're not a vegetarian, but don't lie about it.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
You don't need to lie about it would.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Have been funny.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
But that's the thing it like, is a vegetarian. It's
like a spectrum. It's like an umbrella now, like you
know what I mean. It's all about like I'm not
gonna let other people around me waste it. And also
like if I'm just having chicken every once in a
while between like the hours of eight and midnight, Like
it's not like I'm the one who's causing global warming,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
An I'm a vegetarian, Elena, I adore you, but I
don't I'm not sure that's how that works. Yeah, I
mean you can.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Like literally go online and talk to like there's a
ton of people who do this, you know what I mean.
Some people are like vegetarians on like Monday, Wednesday, Friday,
you know what I mean. Like it's just everybody in
the world like decided I'm only gonna eat chicken from
eight pm to midnight like twice a week. The planet
would be better for it.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
I mean it would be, But that still doesn't make
you a vegetarian, Okay, all right, well let's just let's
bring it back. Uh, Elena, look you do you you're great.
But the question is Trevor, with this information, can we
get a second date? I mean no, no, I mean
she's a funny line. I mean if she's lying already,
(09:12):
what's next,
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