August 5, 2024 • 8 mins
They had drinks, started feelin each other, and even made out a little bit! Why then, is Amelia ghosting on Bernard?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one oh one three. It's Marcus and Corey
is back from the weekend. This is second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
We want to figure out why you're not getting that
second date. That's right, we're talking about ghosting. We're talking
about disappointment because you had a really good time on
that first date and now you want to know where
you're not getting the second one.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yep, this is uh in an East Bay romance. Bernard
is on the phone. Bernard, Hello, good morning, hy, good morning.
Tell us about Amelia, who apparently you've met on Tinder.
And then did you guys hooked up for drinks in
Walnut Creek? Is that right?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Yeah, okay, so we both swiped right, went to Walnut Creek.
It went so well. Actually we were like, we started making.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Out at the bar, so that's a good sign.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Seems like it's a pretty good sign, right, yeah, exactly.
So and then I'm like, hey, you know, you want
to go back to my house check it out, and
she's like sure. So we actually go back to my place,
made out a little bit more, and then like something
happened where she was like whoa look, at the time,
I gotta get going, like you know. And then so
(01:05):
he just called an uber and then left, and I'm like.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
What that was?
Speaker 4 (01:09):
That was abrupt? Like what happened? It was?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
She was quick?
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, all right, sounded like it. You did well through
most of it. That's what it sounds like. Hold on,
we got to pause for Corey's daily theory.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Well, first off, I want to say, maybe she didn't
want to go too far in your first date. She
probably wanted to cut off because she didn't want to see,
you know, too fast.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Because Bernard is so unbelievably irresistible and attractive.
Speaker 6 (01:31):
But here's my theory.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yes, she left in an uber right, Yes, Okay, maybe
she got in the wrong car.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
It wasn't actually the uber she ordered. God, cute oil drum.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
No, it's too many oil drums.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
No, we haven't done an oil drum in a while. Okay,
don't be so sensitive.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
I'll tell you what, Bernard. Why don't we call her
and find out.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
Let's hope she got into the right one.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Corey watches a lot of Dateline. I do. I don't
know if you have friends like this and like.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
Marcus, like you know, the majority of people are good.
I'm like, now they're not.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Oh stop, I'll tell you what, Bernard. We're gonna let's
play a song. We'll reset, and we will call Amelia
and see see what happened. Something obviously happened. But can
you hang out for a song for sure? Okay, we're
gonna do this next Second Date Update Star one oh
one three more variety from the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one O one three. It's Marcus
(02:24):
and Corey. We are doing Second Date Update right now.
This is where we try to bring people who may
have had a misunderstanding on their first date back together.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Right.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
So, Bernard is on the phone he's been holding patiently,
and he met Amelia on Tinder. They went to for
drinks and Walnut Creek and the game was good because
they made you all made out and then went back
to your place, right Bernard, and my gu I got
the facts rate Yeah, so far okay? And then somehow
she abruptly left, so let's figure it out. Go ahead
and mute so she can't hear you, and then we're
(02:52):
gonna call Amelia.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Here we go, Hello, who is this Hi?
Speaker 6 (03:04):
May you speak with Amelia? Please?
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Yeah? This is Amelia.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
Hi, Amelia, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one to
Win three.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
In my life, I've never heard somebody answer the phone
like that.
Speaker 6 (03:15):
Well, it probably doesn't have any caller ID.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Hello, good morning.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Wait Cory, I'm obsessed with you.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Oh my god, Oh my god, tell us who the
star of the show is. Without telling us who the
star of the show is. Okay, oh whatever, Well, but
it was a number.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
It's like came up as like a number I've never seen.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
That's why it's like it's calling.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
I'm gonna go ahead and take off. Don't do that
in the parking garage. You got to push all the buttons.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
Do that.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
No, Marcus, you're cool. But Corey is my girl.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I've been here ten years, she's been here ten minutes.
This is great.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
What is this though?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
We're doing second Date Update. That's our dating segment. We
try to figure out what someone's ghosted.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Are you familiar with that?
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Yeah, I've heard many of these.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Yeah, great.
Speaker 6 (04:07):
Do you mind being on it with us?
Speaker 5 (04:09):
I mean I like listening to other people's business versus.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Like, well, let's get into your business.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
I'm okay to go on for this ride. Let's see
what happened.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Okay, do you know who's listening?
Speaker 5 (04:24):
Well, it's got to be Bernard.
Speaker 6 (04:25):
Ye, yes, yes, and he is on the phone.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
You can unmute.
Speaker 6 (04:30):
Yeah, she knows.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Hello.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Okay, oh boy.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
So Amelia, something happened. We've we've ascertained that much because
I guess you guys really hit it off, got back
to his place, and then something went wrong. Apparently you
couldn't get an uber fast enough. So can you explain?
And can we get a second date? These are my questions.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
First of all, this is this is very cute Bernard
in this track, but like, why do you have to
be so to a little boy?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I just don't understand.
Speaker 6 (05:03):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yes? Do tell?
Speaker 5 (05:07):
Okay? Well, basically, yes, the date was great and Bernard
is very good looking. He works out. I feel like
our conversation was good. But when we got to his house,
I shouldn't even call it his house. He still lives
at home with his parents, which, like, personally, that's not
the end of the world. I get it, he can
(05:29):
save money whatever, A lot of people do that. But
when I went to go.
Speaker 7 (05:36):
To the bathroom, like when we were making out on
the couch, I kind of like snuck a peek into
his bedroom. Yeah, and he didn't tell you about his bed.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
No, okay, well he absolutely has a child's bed.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
It's like this tiny twin bed that literally looks like
the Batmobile, like from Batman.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
The Batmobile. Did you say the Batmobile?
Speaker 5 (06:08):
I sure did, Yeah, the Batmobile tuns This tiny kid's bed.
Speaker 7 (06:13):
From Batman was like pushed up against the wall.
Speaker 5 (06:17):
So like, how is a lady he was supposed to
get in? Like even even if she wanted to? Which
who would? But like, like.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
What may I ask a question? Is this a thing?
Because we had this happened years ago, really very similar.
The guy had a race car bed. Are there grown
men out there? Is this some sort of club that
I don't know about? Grown men out there with little
(06:49):
boy beds?
Speaker 6 (06:50):
I've never run into this. This is a new one
on me.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Okay, well Bernard, Bernard back to you.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Yeah, yeah, okay, so I admit to if I gets ignorance,
it's a bed. It's my childhood bed that I just
I never even I never even gave it a thought.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Do you still feel it? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Yeah, I still fit in it. Like it's just it's
I literally didn't even think about it's not even a priority.
It's not even on my radar, Like, it's just a bed.
I do think it's big enough. I have no problem
being on it. And you're gonna ask me, like if
I had anybody else on it? Yeah, you know, as
long as it's not like a bigger girl or something like, yeah,
I've had other people.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Oh my god, Like who thinks about that?
Speaker 6 (07:31):
He's got ride restrictions?
Speaker 1 (07:33):
What right now?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
You can't be as tall to stop what?
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (07:43):
Okay. So the fact that you're still defending this, so listen, Bernard,
I date men and not boys with fatmobile beds.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
The fact that you.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Don't see how this is an issue. It's just like
megal red flag.
Speaker 7 (07:59):
I'm out.
Speaker 5 (08:00):
This is this is I'm saying no already. You don't
even have to ask me no to the second date.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Okay. I don't think I've ever been shut down quite
that hard. Hang on, hang on, I again, I'll reiterate,
not the first time this has happened.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Which is very surprising to me. I mean, I was
embarrassed that I had a waterbed in high school.
Speaker 7 (08:23):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
I don't want to spend money either, but sometimes you
got an update second date update seven oh five weekday
mornings replays at nine oh five. It's got a podcast,
of course, on the iHeartRadio app. Go look for Marcus
and Corey and you'll see all of our podcasts right there.
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one oh one three. It's Marcus and Corey
is back from the weekend. This is second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
We want to figure out why you're not getting that
second date. That's right, we're talking about ghosting. We're talking
about disappointment because you had a really good time on
that first date and now you want to know where
you're not getting the second one.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yep, this is uh in an East Bay romance. Bernard
is on the phone. Bernard, Hello, good morning, hy, good morning.
Tell us about Amelia, who apparently you've met on Tinder.
And then did you guys hooked up for drinks in
Walnut Creek? Is that right?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Yeah, okay, so we both swiped right, went to Walnut Creek.
It went so well. Actually we were like, we started making.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Out at the bar, so that's a good sign.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Seems like it's a pretty good sign, right, yeah, exactly.
So and then I'm like, hey, you know, you want
to go back to my house check it out, and
she's like sure. So we actually go back to my place,
made out a little bit more, and then like something
happened where she was like whoa look, at the time,
I gotta get going, like you know. And then so
(01:05):
he just called an uber and then left, and I'm like.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
What that was?
Speaker 4 (01:09):
That was abrupt? Like what happened? It was?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
She was quick?
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, all right, sounded like it. You did well through
most of it. That's what it sounds like. Hold on,
we got to pause for Corey's daily theory.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Well, first off, I want to say, maybe she didn't
want to go too far in your first date. She
probably wanted to cut off because she didn't want to see,
you know, too fast.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Because Bernard is so unbelievably irresistible and attractive.
Speaker 6 (01:31):
But here's my theory.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yes, she left in an uber right, Yes, Okay, maybe
she got in the wrong car.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
It wasn't actually the uber she ordered. God, cute oil drum.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
No, it's too many oil drums.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
No, we haven't done an oil drum in a while. Okay,
don't be so sensitive.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
I'll tell you what, Bernard. Why don't we call her
and find out.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
Let's hope she got into the right one.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Corey watches a lot of Dateline. I do. I don't
know if you have friends like this and like.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
Marcus, like you know, the majority of people are good.
I'm like, now they're not.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Oh stop, I'll tell you what, Bernard. We're gonna let's
play a song. We'll reset, and we will call Amelia
and see see what happened. Something obviously happened. But can
you hang out for a song for sure? Okay, we're
gonna do this next Second Date Update Star one oh
one three more variety from the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one O one three. It's Marcus
(02:24):
and Corey. We are doing Second Date Update right now.
This is where we try to bring people who may
have had a misunderstanding on their first date back together.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Right.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
So, Bernard is on the phone he's been holding patiently,
and he met Amelia on Tinder. They went to for
drinks and Walnut Creek and the game was good because
they made you all made out and then went back
to your place, right Bernard, and my gu I got
the facts rate Yeah, so far okay? And then somehow
she abruptly left, so let's figure it out. Go ahead
and mute so she can't hear you, and then we're
(02:52):
gonna call Amelia.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Here we go, Hello, who is this Hi?
Speaker 6 (03:04):
May you speak with Amelia? Please?
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Yeah? This is Amelia.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
Hi, Amelia, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one to
Win three.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
In my life, I've never heard somebody answer the phone
like that.
Speaker 6 (03:15):
Well, it probably doesn't have any caller ID.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Hello, good morning.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Wait Cory, I'm obsessed with you.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Oh my god, Oh my god, tell us who the
star of the show is. Without telling us who the
star of the show is. Okay, oh whatever, Well, but
it was a number.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
It's like came up as like a number I've never seen.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
That's why it's like it's calling.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
I'm gonna go ahead and take off. Don't do that
in the parking garage. You got to push all the buttons.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
Do that.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
No, Marcus, you're cool. But Corey is my girl.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I've been here ten years, she's been here ten minutes.
This is great.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
What is this though?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
We're doing second Date Update. That's our dating segment. We
try to figure out what someone's ghosted.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Are you familiar with that?
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Yeah, I've heard many of these.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Yeah, great.
Speaker 6 (04:07):
Do you mind being on it with us?
Speaker 5 (04:09):
I mean I like listening to other people's business versus.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Like, well, let's get into your business.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
I'm okay to go on for this ride. Let's see
what happened.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Okay, do you know who's listening?
Speaker 5 (04:24):
Well, it's got to be Bernard.
Speaker 6 (04:25):
Ye, yes, yes, and he is on the phone.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
You can unmute.
Speaker 6 (04:30):
Yeah, she knows.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Hello.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Okay, oh boy.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
So Amelia, something happened. We've we've ascertained that much because
I guess you guys really hit it off, got back
to his place, and then something went wrong. Apparently you
couldn't get an uber fast enough. So can you explain?
And can we get a second date? These are my questions.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
First of all, this is this is very cute Bernard
in this track, but like, why do you have to
be so to a little boy?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I just don't understand.
Speaker 6 (05:03):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yes? Do tell?
Speaker 5 (05:07):
Okay? Well, basically, yes, the date was great and Bernard
is very good looking. He works out. I feel like
our conversation was good. But when we got to his house,
I shouldn't even call it his house. He still lives
at home with his parents, which, like, personally, that's not
the end of the world. I get it, he can
(05:29):
save money whatever, A lot of people do that. But
when I went to go.
Speaker 7 (05:36):
To the bathroom, like when we were making out on
the couch, I kind of like snuck a peek into
his bedroom. Yeah, and he didn't tell you about his bed.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
No, okay, well he absolutely has a child's bed.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
It's like this tiny twin bed that literally looks like
the Batmobile, like from Batman.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
The Batmobile. Did you say the Batmobile?
Speaker 5 (06:08):
I sure did, Yeah, the Batmobile tuns This tiny kid's bed.
Speaker 7 (06:13):
From Batman was like pushed up against the wall.
Speaker 5 (06:17):
So like, how is a lady he was supposed to
get in? Like even even if she wanted to? Which
who would? But like, like.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
What may I ask a question? Is this a thing?
Because we had this happened years ago, really very similar.
The guy had a race car bed. Are there grown
men out there? Is this some sort of club that
I don't know about? Grown men out there with little
(06:49):
boy beds?
Speaker 6 (06:50):
I've never run into this. This is a new one
on me.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Okay, well Bernard, Bernard back to you.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Yeah, yeah, okay, so I admit to if I gets ignorance,
it's a bed. It's my childhood bed that I just
I never even I never even gave it a thought.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Do you still feel it? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Yeah, I still fit in it. Like it's just it's
I literally didn't even think about it's not even a priority.
It's not even on my radar, Like, it's just a bed.
I do think it's big enough. I have no problem
being on it. And you're gonna ask me, like if
I had anybody else on it? Yeah, you know, as
long as it's not like a bigger girl or something like, yeah,
I've had other people.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Oh my god, Like who thinks about that?
Speaker 6 (07:31):
He's got ride restrictions?
Speaker 1 (07:33):
What right now?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
You can't be as tall to stop what?
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (07:43):
Okay. So the fact that you're still defending this, so listen, Bernard,
I date men and not boys with fatmobile beds.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
The fact that you.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Don't see how this is an issue. It's just like
megal red flag.
Speaker 7 (07:59):
I'm out.
Speaker 5 (08:00):
This is this is I'm saying no already. You don't
even have to ask me no to the second date.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Okay. I don't think I've ever been shut down quite
that hard. Hang on, hang on, I again, I'll reiterate,
not the first time this has happened.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Which is very surprising to me. I mean, I was
embarrassed that I had a waterbed in high school.
Speaker 7 (08:23):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
I don't want to spend money either, but sometimes you
got an update second date update seven oh five weekday
mornings replays at nine oh five. It's got a podcast,
of course, on the iHeartRadio app. Go look for Marcus
and Corey and you'll see all of our podcasts right there.
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