December 8, 2023 • 8 mins
Brenda describes herself as a free spirit, and she appreciates that Lance likes that about her. They had fun at Fort Funston, and Brenda wants to see Lance again, but he's making it hard.
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(00:00):
A variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three. It's Marcus andCorey and we are doing Second Date Update.
It's on It's where we try toget you a second date after your
first one that you thought went reallywell, but now you're getting ghosted.
Say good morning to Brenda who ison the phone. Hi, Brenda,
Hey, hey, good morning,good morning. She's for this time of
(00:22):
the morning. She Yeah, I'mnot what's going on with you? Hey?
So tell us about Lance? Okay, how did you guys meet?
Let's start there totally. Yes,we met on changed and he seemed like
a really good match because I'm justI guess I would say I'm like a
free spirit and Lance him to belike sad. He loved to travel and
(00:48):
try new stuff, and he seemedhis interests And that's like, totally up
my alley. What does it meanwhen somebody says they're a free spirit?
By the way, what are theytelegraphing? I do? What A won't?
I won't? I think? Okay, I don't have the same vibe
as everyone else, you know,I guess I don't know. Anyway,
(01:11):
we we were cheating for a bit, and then we decided, since we're
both in Daily City, we wouldgo to Fourth Funts. Then it's like
a walk, you know, walkingaround getting to know each other. Yeah,
so I guess I just I thoughtit was so well, the weather
was beautiful, and Lance was sofunny and smart, and she's kind of
(01:36):
like everything I'm looking for. Idon't know. But when the walk was
over, you know, I leanedinto a hug and I was like,
I was like, I'm definitely goingto see this guy again. But I
just I haven't heard anything, andI'm like wondering if I said something weird
or I just don't. I trulydo not know, like what happened?
(02:00):
All right, Okay, so likeonce again everything seems to go smoothly,
but now you're getting ghosted. Admittedly, she's a free spirit, so did
the filter come off accidentally at somepoint? These are the questions that I
have free spirit? You know,Well, there's a difference between a free
spirit and what I am, whichis someone with very little self awareness.
(02:21):
There's a difference. Yeah, Brenda, you seem lovely, so oh,
thank you, thank you. Let'ssee if we can get him on the
phone. I would I want tofind out like from his perspective, how
the date? When can you hangout for a song? Oh? Definitely,
excellent, excellent, all right,we'll be right back. Second date
update. We'll make that call Starone one three. Well, right,
the two thousands of the nineties andtoday it's Star one on one three.
(02:44):
It's Marcus and Corey. We're doingsecond date Update. We've been talking with
Brenda, who is lovely. She'sfun to talk to. Hi. Brenda,
Hi, So let's talk about Lance. A real recap for anybody who's
just tuning in. You guys metup to do a walk at Fort Funston
and Daily City. You like theoutdoors. Brenda calls herself a free spirit.
I respect that, and it's agood way to get to know each
(03:07):
other and get your steps in atthe same time. There you go.
Yeah fair Marcus, you got it, nailed it. Thank you. The
problem is he is ghosted, solet's let's call him and figure it out
and see what he thought of thedate. Here we go. Okay,
Brenda, So here's what you do. You're gonna mute your phone and we're
gonna give him a shout. Okay, okay, here we go. I
(03:35):
may speak with Lance. Please.Hi Lance, It's Marcus and Corey from
Star one on one three. I'msorry who So it's Marcus and Corey.
We do a radio show in SanFrancisco and wondering if you have a second
to be on with us. Uh, okay, thank you, thanks.
(03:58):
We just needed your permission. Sowe do a dating segment on our show.
It's called second Date Update. Andwe heard from someone who has been
on a date with you recently wouldlove to go out again, said that
you called you and I quote funnyand smart and well anyway, she's feeling
(04:19):
like you're ghostinger and we just wantto figure out if you are. And
then did something happen? How canwe broke her a second date? These
are the questions. So what canyou tell us about your date with Brenda?
With Brenda? Yes? Oh no, what can I tell you?
This is going to be awesome?All right, Brenda, she's you know,
(04:44):
she's one of a kind. Okay, you know that may be cool
for people, We don't. Idon't know how much you guys know,
but you know, we went ona hype for fun heard that and she
was you know, I thought shewas uh entertaining anyway, but I don't
(05:09):
know. It wasn't it wasn't.It wasn't a bad time, Okay,
I like I thought I had agood time. Well getting there, he's
getting there, guys. You guysseem like those Nalgene bottles, like those
big, giant like reusable bottles.Yeah. I don't know how long she's
(05:33):
had it. She must have hadit for at least five years. She
was just going wild with that thing. And right before the end of the
hike, she was like, Ireally really got a pee. I really
got a pee. I'm like,uh huh, cool, I don't see
a bathroom. So she went behinda tree, like straight up, just
(05:58):
straight straight up. I'll be rightback. And you know there's people out,
there's people in a very crowded place. Yeah, and there's a tree.
She just capped the squad. That'sshe just popped the squad. She's
just you know, there's no placeto wash your hands. I mean there's
no bathroom. So well, we'velived through, uh some hand washing times.
(06:30):
We're pretty uh you know, Idon't know mandatory. Okay, So
let's let's pause really quick. Sothe thing is, Brenda is on the
phone. She's listening what we're learningsome things. Yes, uh, Brenda,
yes you corroborate this story. Wow. I'm just I'm gonna say I'm
(06:54):
thrown right now because this is notexactly sounding like the person that I've spent
all of this time with. It'sso interesting to me, Like I'm just
really thrown right now, Like allI did was pee, which is human
nature, and this like is ahuge problem. Okay, okay, very
(07:18):
please the different questions like how oftendo you shower? I don't know,
you know, I mean, areyou if you're going to go in nature
and not have a game plan forthat? Like I didn't Sorry, were
you born in like a concrete officebuilding or something? Like? You know
that we are alive and so isnature. Have you ever been camping?
(07:42):
I don't know, like you knowwhat plans? Like I can't even deal
with your energy right now, honestly, and I don't even really feel like
I want to spend time around youanyway, you know what I mean?
Like this is not only fine,that's fine. I don't think I like
(08:03):
your hygiene practices, uncod Man,many sunshine and rainbows to you and your
future lance whatever it holds. Yeah, man, I hear you. Hang
on not happening. No, nope, I don't know, dude, I'd
dig her. I mean, exceptfor the whizzing in public, I guess
(08:24):
I just think. You know,it's like usually when we do this right,
you do something that's a little toomuch on a first date. There
seems to be a theme at anyrate. Second Date Update. It'll be
back from the weekend on Monday.You can binge listen until then if you're
just hearing it maybe for the firsttime. We have all the calls up
on the podcast on the iHeartRadio app. It's called Marcus and Corey Second Date Update.
A variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three. It's Marcus andCorey and we are doing Second Date Update.
It's on It's where we try toget you a second date after your
first one that you thought went reallywell, but now you're getting ghosted.
Say good morning to Brenda who ison the phone. Hi, Brenda,
Hey, hey, good morning,good morning. She's for this time of
(00:22):
the morning. She Yeah, I'mnot what's going on with you? Hey?
So tell us about Lance? Okay, how did you guys meet?
Let's start there totally. Yes,we met on changed and he seemed like
a really good match because I'm justI guess I would say I'm like a
free spirit and Lance him to belike sad. He loved to travel and
(00:48):
try new stuff, and he seemedhis interests And that's like, totally up
my alley. What does it meanwhen somebody says they're a free spirit?
By the way, what are theytelegraphing? I do? What A won't?
I won't? I think? Okay, I don't have the same vibe
as everyone else, you know,I guess I don't know. Anyway,
(01:11):
we we were cheating for a bit, and then we decided, since we're
both in Daily City, we wouldgo to Fourth Funts. Then it's like
a walk, you know, walkingaround getting to know each other. Yeah,
so I guess I just I thoughtit was so well, the weather
was beautiful, and Lance was sofunny and smart, and she's kind of
(01:36):
like everything I'm looking for. Idon't know. But when the walk was
over, you know, I leanedinto a hug and I was like,
I was like, I'm definitely goingto see this guy again. But I
just I haven't heard anything, andI'm like wondering if I said something weird
or I just don't. I trulydo not know, like what happened?
(02:00):
All right, Okay, so likeonce again everything seems to go smoothly,
but now you're getting ghosted. Admittedly, she's a free spirit, so did
the filter come off accidentally at somepoint? These are the questions that I
have free spirit? You know,Well, there's a difference between a free
spirit and what I am, whichis someone with very little self awareness.
(02:21):
There's a difference. Yeah, Brenda, you seem lovely, so oh,
thank you, thank you. Let'ssee if we can get him on the
phone. I would I want tofind out like from his perspective, how
the date? When can you hangout for a song? Oh? Definitely,
excellent, excellent, all right,we'll be right back. Second date
update. We'll make that call Starone one three. Well, right,
the two thousands of the nineties andtoday it's Star one on one three.
(02:44):
It's Marcus and Corey. We're doingsecond date Update. We've been talking with
Brenda, who is lovely. She'sfun to talk to. Hi. Brenda,
Hi, So let's talk about Lance. A real recap for anybody who's
just tuning in. You guys metup to do a walk at Fort Funston
and Daily City. You like theoutdoors. Brenda calls herself a free spirit.
I respect that, and it's agood way to get to know each
(03:07):
other and get your steps in atthe same time. There you go.
Yeah fair Marcus, you got it, nailed it. Thank you. The
problem is he is ghosted, solet's let's call him and figure it out
and see what he thought of thedate. Here we go. Okay,
Brenda, So here's what you do. You're gonna mute your phone and we're
gonna give him a shout. Okay, okay, here we go. I
(03:35):
may speak with Lance. Please.Hi Lance, It's Marcus and Corey from
Star one on one three. I'msorry who So it's Marcus and Corey.
We do a radio show in SanFrancisco and wondering if you have a second
to be on with us. Uh, okay, thank you, thanks.
(03:58):
We just needed your permission. Sowe do a dating segment on our show.
It's called second Date Update. Andwe heard from someone who has been
on a date with you recently wouldlove to go out again, said that
you called you and I quote funnyand smart and well anyway, she's feeling
(04:19):
like you're ghostinger and we just wantto figure out if you are. And
then did something happen? How canwe broke her a second date? These
are the questions. So what canyou tell us about your date with Brenda?
With Brenda? Yes? Oh no, what can I tell you?
This is going to be awesome?All right, Brenda, she's you know,
(04:44):
she's one of a kind. Okay, you know that may be cool
for people, We don't. Idon't know how much you guys know,
but you know, we went ona hype for fun heard that and she
was you know, I thought shewas uh entertaining anyway, but I don't
(05:09):
know. It wasn't it wasn't.It wasn't a bad time, Okay,
I like I thought I had agood time. Well getting there, he's
getting there, guys. You guysseem like those Nalgene bottles, like those
big, giant like reusable bottles.Yeah. I don't know how long she's
(05:33):
had it. She must have hadit for at least five years. She
was just going wild with that thing. And right before the end of the
hike, she was like, Ireally really got a pee. I really
got a pee. I'm like,uh huh, cool, I don't see
a bathroom. So she went behinda tree, like straight up, just
(05:58):
straight straight up. I'll be rightback. And you know there's people out,
there's people in a very crowded place. Yeah, and there's a tree.
She just capped the squad. That'sshe just popped the squad. She's
just you know, there's no placeto wash your hands. I mean there's
no bathroom. So well, we'velived through, uh some hand washing times.
(06:30):
We're pretty uh you know, Idon't know mandatory. Okay, So
let's let's pause really quick. Sothe thing is, Brenda is on the
phone. She's listening what we're learningsome things. Yes, uh, Brenda,
yes you corroborate this story. Wow. I'm just I'm gonna say I'm
(06:54):
thrown right now because this is notexactly sounding like the person that I've spent
all of this time with. It'sso interesting to me, Like I'm just
really thrown right now, Like allI did was pee, which is human
nature, and this like is ahuge problem. Okay, okay, very
(07:18):
please the different questions like how oftendo you shower? I don't know,
you know, I mean, areyou if you're going to go in nature
and not have a game plan forthat? Like I didn't Sorry, were
you born in like a concrete officebuilding or something? Like? You know
that we are alive and so isnature. Have you ever been camping?
(07:42):
I don't know, like you knowwhat plans? Like I can't even deal
with your energy right now, honestly, and I don't even really feel like
I want to spend time around youanyway, you know what I mean?
Like this is not only fine,that's fine. I don't think I like
(08:03):
your hygiene practices, uncod Man,many sunshine and rainbows to you and your
future lance whatever it holds. Yeah, man, I hear you. Hang
on not happening. No, nope, I don't know, dude, I'd
dig her. I mean, exceptfor the whizzing in public, I guess
(08:24):
I just think. You know,it's like usually when we do this right,
you do something that's a little toomuch on a first date. There
seems to be a theme at anyrate. Second Date Update. It'll be
back from the weekend on Monday.You can binge listen until then if you're
just hearing it maybe for the firsttime. We have all the calls up
on the podcast on the iHeartRadio app. It's called Marcus and Corey Second Date Update.
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