August 27, 2025 • 6 mins
Brynn calls us about Patrick. They met on Hinge. Brynn thought they clicked — but Patrick ghosted. They went for coffee for their first date. Nothing sticks out in her mind that went wrong on the date. They had a lot in common. She was attracted to him. She was sure there would be a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one, O one three, it's Marcus and Corey. Midweek.
We're still doing it at second date update, y'all's.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We want to help you in your love life.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
What we do?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Maybe you had a great first date or you thought
it was a great first date and now you're not
getting a second one. H We're going to figure it.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Out, Brandon, We're going to figure it out. Corey says, so, well,
good good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Bye, yes, good morning. How are you?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
We're doing well. We genuinely want to help you. Let's
talk about Patrick. Yes, well, like how did you guys meet?
And then like what did you do for the first date?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (00:33):
So, I mean we just met actually just online, and
we had a first coffee date and it was really good,
Like I was super attracted him.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
We had a really good conversation. But now he I
haven't heard anything from him, and he won't get back
and I just can't figure out what went wrong.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
So he's ghosted completely standing out to you that happened?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
How do you mess up a coffee date? I mean, well,
let me just relax for a minute.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
It was so great.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
We just order a coffee, sat down, talked for like
a couple hours. But now he's just completely ghosted from
him at all.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Well, okay, here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 6 (01:11):
So after he leaves her, it turns out it's his
first day as an officer of the law, and he's
got his first day with a guy who's a veteran,
you know, someone who's been around the block a few times,
and there's a time when he has to decide what's necessary,
whether it's heroic, what crosses the line and the harrowing
(01:34):
gray zone of fighting urban crime? Does this law abiding
enforcement come at the expense of justice and public safety?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Did you say, Harry, grayzone?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Harrowing, harrowing gray zone.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I'm guessing Britain doesn't know about your theories.
Speaker 6 (01:47):
No, probably noting this training training day.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
I nailed it.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
It's kind of easy.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
With my harrowing gray area. I can't help you with that, Brinn. Sorry,
thank you for being patient with us.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
It all sounds exciting.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Back to your it all sounds very exciting. Let's get
back to Patrick. I'm sure that's not it, so let's
call him and try to figure this out. Okay, Yeah,
that sounds great. We'll give Michelle. We'll see what's up.
We'll have you on mute so we can't hear you,
but we'll figure this out. Okay, we'll do it next
Second Date Update Star one oh one three, Well variety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing
(02:27):
Second Date Update. We've got Brinn on the phone, very
very innocuous date. She and Patrick just went for coffee. Yeah,
let's talk for a couple of hours, and then he ghosted, Yeah,
so Berni, are you ready to make this call?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
I'm ready?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
All right, deep breath, mute your phone. Okay, we're going
to give Patrick a call and see if we can
figure this out.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Here we go, Hi may speak with Patrick? Please, Hi Patrick,
It's Marcus Corey from Star one on one three.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Good morning, heyd good morning.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
How are you?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
I'm good Patrick?
Speaker 1 (03:08):
With that sound of familiarity. So do you know about
second date update on our show?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Yes, yes I do.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Excellent, we're doing it right now.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Would you like to be a part of it?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
So we understand you've been on a date recently. She's
probably holding listening in right now. As you know, I'd
like to just go ahead and bring Brynn on because
she's feeling ghosted. So I wanted to ask you a
few questions if that's.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Okay, Yeah, all right, all right.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Very good Brin.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Hi Patrick?
Speaker 1 (03:44):
He so, hey, it's not awkward at all. No, No, Patrick,
did you ghost? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
You know what I did?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Sorry? I mean yeah, maybe I should have.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Been a little bit more forward, but what happened.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
So we did go for coffee. I don't know if
she told you guys that I'm about up for dapes?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Was it a good thing?
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Like?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Did you have fun?
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Date was fine. There's just some red flags that I
probably should have been a little bit more upfront about.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
But I was like, yeah, it's not for me, so
what okay, give us a red flag.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
So we ordered her coffee and she ordered you know whatever,
And she orders this coffee, but she doesn't order any
creamer or anything else, so it's like, all right, But
she pulls out like a little like cup or like
a pharmas or something out of her bag and ordered
it into her coffee at the table and then asked
for a discount because she wasn't gonna she wasn't using
(04:53):
their milk, so a discount for it? Maybe it could be.
I don't think so, but I don't know that.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
No, first of all, No, it wasn't. It was just
some almond milk. And don't I don't see how that's
a red flag. I mean, I'm resourceful, I'm frugal.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
So hold on, So you brought almond milk from home, like, yeah,
in a container.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
So you didn't think they'd have almond milk there.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
No, I knew that they probably would, but like I
had half a gallon that needed to be drunk.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Anyways, And I don't know, I you know, I.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Like being resourceful and frugal, and I just thought it'd
be a good way to save some money. It only
costs five cents to make a comp of coffee, I
mean without milk. I don't see why I have to
pay like four dollars for just a black cup of coffee.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
So you were looking for a discount.
Speaker 5 (05:49):
Like you said, Yeah, and I like my brand of
almond milk. Anyways, I am a little bit picky of
an eater, so I don't know. I don't know if,
like what brand this coffee shop used.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Did they give you a discount.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
No they didn't. Isn't that ridiculous?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yeah, no, they didn't. And then she made it weird.
It was it was weird.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Well, I'm frugal and I'm also lactose and tolerance, so
I don't want there to be a chance to.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Mess that up.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
But on a first date, would.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
It have been better if it was liquor?
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Where is your head right there?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
You're the one who brought it up?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Okay, all right, all right, this is backup for a sec.
I see the issue. Could we get a do over?
Does anybody still want a second date? I don't feel
like we're seeing eye to eye here, but maybe there's
more discussion to be had.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Patrick, I'm I think I'm good
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one, O one three, it's Marcus and Corey. Midweek.
We're still doing it at second date update, y'all's.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We want to help you in your love life.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
What we do?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Maybe you had a great first date or you thought
it was a great first date and now you're not
getting a second one. H We're going to figure it.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Out, Brandon, We're going to figure it out. Corey says, so, well,
good good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Bye, yes, good morning. How are you?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
We're doing well. We genuinely want to help you. Let's
talk about Patrick. Yes, well, like how did you guys meet?
And then like what did you do for the first date?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (00:33):
So, I mean we just met actually just online, and
we had a first coffee date and it was really good,
Like I was super attracted him.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
We had a really good conversation. But now he I
haven't heard anything from him, and he won't get back
and I just can't figure out what went wrong.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
So he's ghosted completely standing out to you that happened?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
How do you mess up a coffee date? I mean, well,
let me just relax for a minute.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
It was so great.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
We just order a coffee, sat down, talked for like
a couple hours. But now he's just completely ghosted from
him at all.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Well, okay, here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 6 (01:11):
So after he leaves her, it turns out it's his
first day as an officer of the law, and he's
got his first day with a guy who's a veteran,
you know, someone who's been around the block a few times,
and there's a time when he has to decide what's necessary,
whether it's heroic, what crosses the line and the harrowing
(01:34):
gray zone of fighting urban crime? Does this law abiding
enforcement come at the expense of justice and public safety?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Did you say, Harry, grayzone?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Harrowing, harrowing gray zone.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I'm guessing Britain doesn't know about your theories.
Speaker 6 (01:47):
No, probably noting this training training day.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
I nailed it.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
It's kind of easy.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
With my harrowing gray area. I can't help you with that, Brinn. Sorry,
thank you for being patient with us.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
It all sounds exciting.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Back to your it all sounds very exciting. Let's get
back to Patrick. I'm sure that's not it, so let's
call him and try to figure this out. Okay, Yeah,
that sounds great. We'll give Michelle. We'll see what's up.
We'll have you on mute so we can't hear you,
but we'll figure this out. Okay, we'll do it next
Second Date Update Star one oh one three, Well variety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing
(02:27):
Second Date Update. We've got Brinn on the phone, very
very innocuous date. She and Patrick just went for coffee. Yeah,
let's talk for a couple of hours, and then he ghosted, Yeah,
so Berni, are you ready to make this call?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
I'm ready?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
All right, deep breath, mute your phone. Okay, we're going
to give Patrick a call and see if we can
figure this out.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Here we go, Hi may speak with Patrick? Please, Hi Patrick,
It's Marcus Corey from Star one on one three.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Good morning, heyd good morning.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
How are you?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
I'm good Patrick?
Speaker 1 (03:08):
With that sound of familiarity. So do you know about
second date update on our show?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Yes, yes I do.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Excellent, we're doing it right now.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Would you like to be a part of it?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
So we understand you've been on a date recently. She's
probably holding listening in right now. As you know, I'd
like to just go ahead and bring Brynn on because
she's feeling ghosted. So I wanted to ask you a
few questions if that's.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Okay, Yeah, all right, all right.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Very good Brin.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Hi Patrick?
Speaker 1 (03:44):
He so, hey, it's not awkward at all. No, No, Patrick,
did you ghost? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
You know what I did?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Sorry? I mean yeah, maybe I should have.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Been a little bit more forward, but what happened.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
So we did go for coffee. I don't know if
she told you guys that I'm about up for dapes?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Was it a good thing?
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Like?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Did you have fun?
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Date was fine. There's just some red flags that I
probably should have been a little bit more upfront about.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
But I was like, yeah, it's not for me, so
what okay, give us a red flag.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
So we ordered her coffee and she ordered you know whatever,
And she orders this coffee, but she doesn't order any
creamer or anything else, so it's like, all right, But
she pulls out like a little like cup or like
a pharmas or something out of her bag and ordered
it into her coffee at the table and then asked
for a discount because she wasn't gonna she wasn't using
(04:53):
their milk, so a discount for it? Maybe it could be.
I don't think so, but I don't know that.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
No, first of all, No, it wasn't. It was just
some almond milk. And don't I don't see how that's
a red flag. I mean, I'm resourceful, I'm frugal.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
So hold on, So you brought almond milk from home, like, yeah,
in a container.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
So you didn't think they'd have almond milk there.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
No, I knew that they probably would, but like I
had half a gallon that needed to be drunk.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Anyways, And I don't know, I you know, I.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Like being resourceful and frugal, and I just thought it'd
be a good way to save some money. It only
costs five cents to make a comp of coffee, I
mean without milk. I don't see why I have to
pay like four dollars for just a black cup of coffee.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
So you were looking for a discount.
Speaker 5 (05:49):
Like you said, Yeah, and I like my brand of
almond milk. Anyways, I am a little bit picky of
an eater, so I don't know. I don't know if,
like what brand this coffee shop used.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Did they give you a discount.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
No they didn't. Isn't that ridiculous?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yeah, no, they didn't. And then she made it weird.
It was it was weird.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Well, I'm frugal and I'm also lactose and tolerance, so
I don't want there to be a chance to.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Mess that up.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
But on a first date, would.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
It have been better if it was liquor?
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Where is your head right there?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
You're the one who brought it up?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Okay, all right, all right, this is backup for a sec.
I see the issue. Could we get a do over?
Does anybody still want a second date? I don't feel
like we're seeing eye to eye here, but maybe there's
more discussion to be had.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Patrick, I'm I think I'm good
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