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August 11, 2025 11 mins
Caleb and Roxanne met on Tinder. They went out for cocktails ins Berkeley. He is really surprised she is ghosting.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
One variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
Star one O one three. Marcus and Corey were doing
Second Date Update, chatting with our guy Caleb, who has
been holding he's waiting for us to call Roxanne. They
matched on Tinder cocktails in Berkeley and by all accounts,
Caleb like, it was fine. You did hug at the end.
There was no kiss. However, you didn't make it weird.
You promise, promise? Okay, all right, let's call her and

(00:22):
find out. Go ahead and mutu your phone. Obviously, we're
gonna have you listen in and we'll see what she says.

Speaker 2 (00:26):
Okay, cool, Hello, Hi, may speak of Roxanne? Please?

Speaker 3 (00:38):
Yes, this is she.

Speaker 4 (00:40):
Hi Roxanne. It's Marcus and Corey from Star one O
one three.

Speaker 5 (00:44):
Good morning, Hello, good morning.

Speaker 6 (00:47):
Do you listen to our show?

Speaker 7 (00:49):
I do when I'm confused while you're calling me?

Speaker 8 (00:52):
Well, have you ever heard of Second Date Update? Yes,
we would like to invite you to be a part
of it today.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
Oh god, okay, we understand your dating, you know here
and there trying. So there's a guy says you met
it for cocktails in Berkeley and really dug you, and
he's feeling feeling like you ghosted. I wonder if you
have a second to talk about your date with Caleb
and whether or not we should bring him on now

(01:22):
or later.

Speaker 7 (01:23):
I mean we didn't talk about it for sure.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
A well, hold on, Caleb, we don't want to talk
about you like you're not here?

Speaker 8 (01:28):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:29):
Yeah, I'm like, I know he's.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
There, Caleb.

Speaker 9 (01:33):
Hello, all right, Hello, this.

Speaker 6 (01:35):
Is what adulting sounds like.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
Sounds very mature here we are so rock sand uh.
I guess I asked the same question I ask everybody,
did you ghost?

Speaker 6 (01:44):
And then, if so, what happened?

Speaker 1 (01:46):
Because my guy enjoyed your time and would love to
take you out again.

Speaker 10 (01:51):
Yeah, I mean I enjoyed my time. I just do
not see it going anywhere.

Speaker 7 (01:56):
So yes, I ghosted, Okay, and why I feel.

Speaker 11 (02:02):
Him?

Speaker 3 (02:02):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (02:03):
I should have just told him up front.

Speaker 10 (02:05):
I just didn't want to be like, hey, I think
you're cheap and I can't date you.

Speaker 9 (02:11):
Because that just seems mean he's cheap.

Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (02:14):
He he showed up to our date in a an
uber pool like there are strangers in the call her
when he caught out to go on a date with me.

Speaker 5 (02:27):
Is that the one where you.

Speaker 11 (02:29):
Very much?

Speaker 3 (02:30):
Yes?

Speaker 10 (02:30):
Oh?

Speaker 12 (02:31):
Okay, sure, Okay, that's the one where you share the
ride with people.

Speaker 11 (02:38):
Okay, sometimes you can get it by yourself though, and
it's cheaper.

Speaker 10 (02:43):
That Okay, I didn't know that, but yeah, I just
I felt like, I don't know, like it was a
cheap move, like and I just feel like it shows
like what kind of partner he would be, and like
I don't want to have to sit there and think
about like what am I ordering?

Speaker 7 (02:59):
Can he afford?

Speaker 13 (03:00):
This?

Speaker 7 (03:00):
Is he going to be weird about money?

Speaker 3 (03:02):
And so I just I was like, I.

Speaker 7 (03:04):
Can't long term do that. I can't. I can't. I'm
a princess. I just want to be treated like a princess.
And I'm not going to ride in uberpool.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Oh wow, okay, yeah, this is all right, Caleb, your thoughts?

Speaker 3 (03:17):
Do you know?

Speaker 11 (03:18):
I'm good?

Speaker 13 (03:20):
Oh yeah, that might be one of the quickest resolutions ever.

Speaker 1 (03:29):
Wow, this is over, isn't it already?

Speaker 9 (03:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (03:32):
Okay, well, hey we're you know what, let's just pretend
like we're in we weren't even here, you guys.

Speaker 10 (03:39):
I didn't think he wanted to know this information. That's
why I didn't send it.

Speaker 13 (03:42):
No.

Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah, look, at the end of the day, you guys
aren't compatible and we can just leave it that, I think.

Speaker 11 (03:47):
Yeah, yeah, Well.

Speaker 1 (03:49):
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today Star
one O one three. Marcus and Corey were doing Second
Date Update, chatting with our guy Caleb, who has been
holding he's waiting for us to call Roxanne. They matched
on Tinder cocktails in Berkeley, and by all accounts, Caleb like,
it was fine. You did hug at the end. There
was no kiss, however, you didn't make it weird, you promise. Okay,

(04:10):
all right, let's call her and find out. Go ahead
and mute your phone. Obviously, we're gonna have you listen
in and we'll see what she says.

Speaker 6 (04:16):
Okay, cool?

Speaker 2 (04:23):
Hello, Hi, may speak of Roxanne? Please?

Speaker 7 (04:27):
Yes, this is she.

Speaker 4 (04:29):
Hi Roxanne, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three.

Speaker 5 (04:33):
Good morning, Hello, good morning.

Speaker 6 (04:36):
Do you listen to our show?

Speaker 7 (04:38):
I do when I'm confused while you're calling me?

Speaker 8 (04:41):
Well, have you ever heard of Second Date Update? Yes,
we would like to invite you to be a part
of it today.

Speaker 1 (04:50):
Oh god, okay, we understand your dating. You know, Hi
here and there trying So there's a guy says you
met it for cocktail. I was in Berkeley and really
dug you, and he's feeling feeling like you ghosted. I
wonder if you have a second to talk about your
date with Caleb and whether or not we should bring

(05:10):
him on now or later.

Speaker 7 (05:12):
I mean we didn't talk about it for sure.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Well hold on, Caleb. We don't want to talk about
you like you're not here.

Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, I'm like, I know he's.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
There, Caleb.

Speaker 9 (05:22):
Hello, all right, Hello, this is.

Speaker 6 (05:24):
What adulting sounds like.

Speaker 4 (05:26):
Sounds very mature.

Speaker 6 (05:27):
Here we are so rock Sande.

Speaker 11 (05:29):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
I guess I asked the same question I ask everybody,
did you ghost and then, if so, what happened? Because
my guy enjoyed your time and would love to take
you out again.

Speaker 10 (05:40):
Yeah, I mean I enjoyed my time. I just do
not see it going anywhere.

Speaker 7 (05:45):
So yes, I.

Speaker 8 (05:47):
Ghosted, Okay, and why do you feel like it's not
going anywhere?

Speaker 10 (05:50):
Told him, Yes, I should have just hold him up front. Yes,
I just didn't want to be like, hey, I think
you're cheap and I can't date you.

Speaker 9 (06:00):
Because that just seems mean he's cheap.

Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (06:04):
He he showed up to our date in a an
uber pool, like there are strangers in the call her
when he caught out to.

Speaker 7 (06:13):
Go on a date with me.

Speaker 11 (06:18):
Very much?

Speaker 7 (06:19):
Yes, Oh okay.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
Sure, Okay, that's the one where you share the ride
with people.

Speaker 11 (06:27):
Okay, sometimes you can get it by yourself though, and
it's cheaper.

Speaker 10 (06:32):
That Okay, I didn't know that, but yeah, I just
I felt like, I don't know, like it was a
cheap move, like and I just feel like it shows
like what kind of partner he would be, and like
I don't want to have to sit there and think
about like what am I ordering?

Speaker 3 (06:48):
Can he afford?

Speaker 11 (06:49):
This?

Speaker 10 (06:50):
Is he going to be weird about money? And so
I just I was like, I can't long term do that.

Speaker 7 (06:55):
I can't. I can't. I'm a princess. I just don't
have to be treated like a princess.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
And I'm not going to ride and oh wow, okay, yeah,
all right, Caleb, your thoughts?

Speaker 11 (07:06):
Do you know? I'm good?

Speaker 13 (07:09):
Oh yeah, that might be one of the quickest resolutions ever.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
Wow, this is over, isn't it already?

Speaker 9 (07:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (07:21):
Okay, well, hey we're you know what, let's just pretend
like we're in we weren't even here, you guys.

Speaker 10 (07:28):
I didn't think he wanted to know this information. That's
why I didn't send it.

Speaker 12 (07:31):
No.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
Yeah, look, at the end of the day, you guys
aren't compatible and we can just leave it that I think.

Speaker 11 (07:36):
Yeah, yeah, well.

Speaker 1 (07:38):
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today Star
one O one three. Marcus and Corey were doing Second
Date Update, chatting with our guy Caleb, who has been
holding he's waiting for us to call Roxanne. They matched
on Tinder cocktails in Berkeley, and by all accounts, Caleb like,
it was fine. You did hug at the end, there
was no kiss. However, you didn't make it weird. You promise, promise. Okay, right,

(08:00):
let's call her and find out. Go ahead and mute
your phone. Obviously we're gonna have you listen in and
we'll see what she says.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
Okay, cool, Hello, Hi, may speak of Roxanne?

Speaker 4 (08:14):
Please?

Speaker 7 (08:17):
Yes, this is she.

Speaker 4 (08:18):
Hi Roxanne, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three.

Speaker 5 (08:22):
Good morning, Hello, good morning.

Speaker 6 (08:25):
Do you listen to our show?

Speaker 7 (08:27):
I do when I'm confused while you're calling me?

Speaker 8 (08:30):
Well, have you ever heard of Second Date Update? Yes,
we would like to invite you to be a part
of it today.

Speaker 1 (08:39):
Oh god, okay, we understand your dating you know, hi
here and there trying. So there's a guy says you
met her for cocktails in Berkeley and really dug you,
and he's feeling feeling like you ghosted. I wonder if
you have a second to talk about your date with
Caleb and whether or not we should bring him on

(08:59):
now later.

Speaker 7 (09:01):
I mean, we didn't talk about it for sure.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
Well hold on, Caleb. We don't want to talk about
you like you're not here.

Speaker 3 (09:08):
Yeah, I'm like, I know he's there, Caleb.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
Hello, all right, Hello, this is what adulting sounds like.

Speaker 4 (09:15):
Sounds very mature.

Speaker 6 (09:16):
Here we are so rock Sande.

Speaker 11 (09:18):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (09:19):
I guess I asked the same question I ask everybody.

Speaker 6 (09:21):
Did you ghost? And then, if so, what happened?

Speaker 1 (09:24):
Because my guy enjoyed your time and would love to
take you out again.

Speaker 10 (09:29):
Yeah, I mean I enjoyed my time. I just do
not see it going anywhere. So, yes, I.

Speaker 8 (09:36):
Ghosted, okay, And why do you feel like it's not
going anywhere?

Speaker 7 (09:39):
Told? Yes, I should have just hold him up front.

Speaker 10 (09:42):
Yes, I just didn't want to be like, hey, I
think you're cheap and I can't date you.

Speaker 9 (09:49):
Because that just seems mean he's cheap.

Speaker 10 (09:52):
Yeah he he showed up to our date in an
uber pool, like there are strangers in the call her
when he got out to go on a date with me.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
Okay, is that.

Speaker 11 (10:05):
Where you share thank you very much?

Speaker 3 (10:08):
Yes?

Speaker 12 (10:08):
Oh okay, sure, okay, that's the one where you share
the ride with people.

Speaker 6 (10:16):
Okay.

Speaker 11 (10:17):
Yeah. Sometimes you can get it by yourself though, and it's.

Speaker 10 (10:19):
Cheaper that got Okay, I didn't know that, but yeah,
I just I felt like, I don't know, like it
was a cheap move, like, and I just feel like
it shows like what kind of partner he would be,
and like I don't want to have to sit there
and think about like what am I ordering?

Speaker 3 (10:37):
Can he afford?

Speaker 9 (10:38):
This?

Speaker 10 (10:39):
Is he going to be weird about money? And so
I just I was like, I can't long term do that.

Speaker 7 (10:44):
I can't. I can't.

Speaker 10 (10:45):
I'm a princess. I just don't have to be treated
like a princess. And I'm not going to ride in uberpool.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
Oh wow, okay, yeah, this is all right, Caleb, your thoughts?

Speaker 11 (10:55):
Do you know? I'm good?

Speaker 6 (10:58):
Oh yeah, that might be one of.

Speaker 4 (11:04):
The quickest resolutions ever.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
Wow, this is over, isn't it already?

Speaker 9 (11:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (11:10):
Okay, well, hey, we're you know, what let's just pretend
like we're in.

Speaker 6 (11:14):
We weren't even here if you guys.

Speaker 7 (11:17):
I didn't think he wanted to know this information.

Speaker 3 (11:19):
That's why I didn't send it.

Speaker 8 (11:20):
No.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
Yeah, look, at the end of the day, you guys
aren't compatible, and we can just leave with that.

Speaker 6 (11:25):
I think, Yeah, yeah, no,
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