October 21, 2025 • 7 mins
Caleb met Naomi online and their Lake Merced date felt easy with a jog, a coffee, and real chemistry. He thought he’d finally found someone who matched his energy. Now she’s gone silent, and he wants to know why.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands of the nineties and
today it's Star one, O one three, It's Monday morning,
It's Marcus and second Date update is back from the weekend.
Hopefully you had a chance to catch up on the
past episodes that have been posted on the iHeartRadio app.
Make sure you set that preset. We're trying to bring
people together. Obviously, go on a date. Your date ghosts.
There's that empty feeling, that void, if you will, We're
trying to call them with you on the phone and
(00:21):
figure out, get some answers and maybe it was a
misunderstanding and we can grab a second date for you.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Let's bring on Caleb. Caleb, good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Hey, what's up guys. Thanks a lot for getting me on.
I really appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
You got it, dude.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
I want to talk about Naomi because it sounds like
your date was pretty laid back. But let's let's discuss.
So how did you guys meet and then like, what
did you do for your date?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, it was really really chill. I met Naomi on
a dating app and we agreed to meet up in
the park and just kind of, you know, hang out,
just sort of feel each other out. And it was
really really fun. She's like me, she's super fitness story.
So it was kind of like, you know, like a
workout date. Like we went for like a little run
(01:03):
and then just kind of got some ice cream and
like hung out on the park bench, talked about the
places that we wanted to travel in twenty twenty six,
and she was just really inspiring and I just felt
like we had a really good connection. And she's kind
of just frozen me out since then. So I figured,
what the hell, I'm a fan of the show. I
(01:24):
figured I'd call you guys and take a risk, see
what happens.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Screw it, let me call Marcus.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Yeah, yeah, man, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
My favorite I got from your DM that so you
guys go to SF State. So I'm assuming were you, like,
did you run around Lake Mercet or what?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Exactly, Okay, so full blown jog around the lake and
then just hanging out. You're right, it sounds very chill.
I'll tell you what. I'm gonna call her. We're gonna
see if if something went sideways during the date, or
if it's just been misunderstanding or she's just busy, or
what the deal is?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Can you hang on for a song.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Yeah, thanks a lot.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
You got it, dude, We'll do it next.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
It's Second Date Update, Star one one three more variety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
It is Marcus. Monday morning.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
We're in the middle of Second Date Update and we're
talking to Caleb and he and Naomi both go to
s F State date. It was like a jogging date
around Lake Merced sounds cute to me. A little coffee,
little conversation to confirm Caleb, she's completely ghosted, right, just
to recap.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, that's right. Like we went out and we were
up there for a couple hours.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
It wasn't like.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
We didn't just like meet up and like hug and
oh nice meeting you. You know, we talked for a while.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Okay, well go ahead and mute. We're gonna call her.
We're gonna see what's going on. I want to get
you a second date, but let's at least get you
some answers.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Okay, here we go go ahead. Listen in Hello, is
this Naomi? Uh?
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Yeah, this is her.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I always feel weird asking. I'm sorry I should lead
with This is Marcus from Star one oh one three
The Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
How you doing?
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Do you listen?
Speaker 5 (03:07):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (03:08):
You know, I listen often. I listened every morning. Actually
I miss Corey, but I think you're doing a fantastic
job on your own.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
You know what, I'll be honest with you. Nobody misses
Corey as much as I do. And I probably appreciate
you saying that. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Of course, for those of you that didn't hear, Corey
got laid off a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
So it was it was. It was definitely a shock.
I'm trying to move forward. I appreciate it anyway. The
reason I called, so we're doing second Date Update? Do
you know it?
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Yeah, great?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
So Caleb's on the phone, right he is Caleb?
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Are you there? Hi?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Yeah there? He is all right. For second I thought
he passed out me too.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
So.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Naomi like the tup. So my guy, he likes you
and he wants to go again. I mean, I don't
have to tell you how second date Update works. Did
you did you ghost or let's start with that.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
I most definitely ghosted him. Okay, So all right, I'm
just going to lay it down. So I'm going to
paint a picture, try and bull appointed as I go
along please. Okay. So, you know, we went out for
a little date.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
It was great.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
You know, we were jogging, we were talking, everything was great.
Speaker 5 (04:23):
And then he kept stopping to high five joggers going
by while they were running. Okay, we would be running,
you know, and then joggers would be come our way,
and instead of just you know, giving them like a
little polite nod or like a good job, or like
a thumbs up, something inaudible or something that doesn't require
physical touch, because it looked like some of the people
(04:45):
didn't want.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
To be touched, he was stopping to give these people
high fives, and I was like, what is going on?
What I It was very awkward, very ichy feeling, and
it cringed me out. But that wasn't the only thing
that cringed me out.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I know.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
He was humming the same four bars of the final
countdown for like an hour.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
All right, all right, Caleb, calm down for a sec.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Please can this happen?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I can think about it as like a bad thing,
but yeah, you know, like when I go out, I
like to hide people up.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
All right. I don't even want to ask what was
that it?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Or no, So after he did that obnoxious final countdown
humming thing. He was already on my last nerve.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
But you know what, he's a good guy.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
We're both into fitness. I thought, you know what it is,
what it is, I could let this slide. So after
the whole irritating humming of final countdown, which I could
live with, we went and sat on the bench for
a while and we had really good conversation.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Right, so he's coming back, he's on the comeback.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Yeah, yeah, I was okay. And then earlier he did
he did. He told me he collects sand from beach
as he visits. Ye had sand from ocean beach, Surfer's
beach and half mobay alan.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Hang on.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
He offered me a jar from his trunk.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Okay, that is.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
One hundred percent true and I stand by it all.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Right, So what was the thought process? Exactly? Kayleb?
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Yeah, at what point was I on your final countdown?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Boy?
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Are you asking me that? Or are you like just
trying to get under my.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
That you you you have no joy in life and
can't have fun.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
But it's just you're cringey, dude, You're cringey.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
You know, this is some of my most precious like
value memories and I was just trying to share them
with you. And if that's cringey to you, then you
know what, I'm really glad that I got my answer.
Thanks a lot,
More variety from the two thousands of the nineties and
today it's Star one, O one three, It's Monday morning,
It's Marcus and second Date update is back from the weekend.
Hopefully you had a chance to catch up on the
past episodes that have been posted on the iHeartRadio app.
Make sure you set that preset. We're trying to bring
people together. Obviously, go on a date. Your date ghosts.
There's that empty feeling, that void, if you will, We're
trying to call them with you on the phone and
(00:21):
figure out, get some answers and maybe it was a
misunderstanding and we can grab a second date for you.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Let's bring on Caleb. Caleb, good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Hey, what's up guys. Thanks a lot for getting me on.
I really appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
You got it, dude.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
I want to talk about Naomi because it sounds like
your date was pretty laid back. But let's let's discuss.
So how did you guys meet and then like, what
did you do for your date?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, it was really really chill. I met Naomi on
a dating app and we agreed to meet up in
the park and just kind of, you know, hang out,
just sort of feel each other out. And it was
really really fun. She's like me, she's super fitness story.
So it was kind of like, you know, like a
workout date. Like we went for like a little run
(01:03):
and then just kind of got some ice cream and
like hung out on the park bench, talked about the
places that we wanted to travel in twenty twenty six,
and she was just really inspiring and I just felt
like we had a really good connection. And she's kind
of just frozen me out since then. So I figured,
what the hell, I'm a fan of the show. I
(01:24):
figured I'd call you guys and take a risk, see
what happens.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Screw it, let me call Marcus.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Yeah, yeah, man, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
My favorite I got from your DM that so you
guys go to SF State. So I'm assuming were you, like,
did you run around Lake Mercet or what?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Exactly, Okay, so full blown jog around the lake and
then just hanging out. You're right, it sounds very chill.
I'll tell you what. I'm gonna call her. We're gonna
see if if something went sideways during the date, or
if it's just been misunderstanding or she's just busy, or
what the deal is?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Can you hang on for a song.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Yeah, thanks a lot.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
You got it, dude, We'll do it next.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
It's Second Date Update, Star one one three more variety
from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star
one on one three.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
It is Marcus. Monday morning.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
We're in the middle of Second Date Update and we're
talking to Caleb and he and Naomi both go to
s F State date. It was like a jogging date
around Lake Merced sounds cute to me. A little coffee,
little conversation to confirm Caleb, she's completely ghosted, right, just
to recap.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, that's right. Like we went out and we were
up there for a couple hours.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
It wasn't like.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
We didn't just like meet up and like hug and
oh nice meeting you. You know, we talked for a while.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Okay, well go ahead and mute. We're gonna call her.
We're gonna see what's going on. I want to get
you a second date, but let's at least get you
some answers.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Okay, here we go go ahead. Listen in Hello, is
this Naomi? Uh?
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Yeah, this is her.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I always feel weird asking. I'm sorry I should lead
with This is Marcus from Star one oh one three
The Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
How you doing?
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Do you listen?
Speaker 5 (03:07):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (03:08):
You know, I listen often. I listened every morning. Actually
I miss Corey, but I think you're doing a fantastic
job on your own.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
You know what, I'll be honest with you. Nobody misses
Corey as much as I do. And I probably appreciate
you saying that. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Of course, for those of you that didn't hear, Corey
got laid off a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
So it was it was. It was definitely a shock.
I'm trying to move forward. I appreciate it anyway. The
reason I called, so we're doing second Date Update? Do
you know it?
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Yeah, great?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
So Caleb's on the phone, right he is Caleb?
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Are you there? Hi?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Yeah there? He is all right. For second I thought
he passed out me too.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
So.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Naomi like the tup. So my guy, he likes you
and he wants to go again. I mean, I don't
have to tell you how second date Update works. Did
you did you ghost or let's start with that.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
I most definitely ghosted him. Okay, So all right, I'm
just going to lay it down. So I'm going to
paint a picture, try and bull appointed as I go
along please. Okay. So, you know, we went out for
a little date.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
It was great.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
You know, we were jogging, we were talking, everything was great.
Speaker 5 (04:23):
And then he kept stopping to high five joggers going
by while they were running. Okay, we would be running,
you know, and then joggers would be come our way,
and instead of just you know, giving them like a
little polite nod or like a good job, or like
a thumbs up, something inaudible or something that doesn't require
physical touch, because it looked like some of the people
(04:45):
didn't want.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
To be touched, he was stopping to give these people
high fives, and I was like, what is going on?
What I It was very awkward, very ichy feeling, and
it cringed me out. But that wasn't the only thing
that cringed me out.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I know.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
He was humming the same four bars of the final
countdown for like an hour.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
All right, all right, Caleb, calm down for a sec.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Please can this happen?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I can think about it as like a bad thing,
but yeah, you know, like when I go out, I
like to hide people up.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
All right. I don't even want to ask what was
that it?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Or no, So after he did that obnoxious final countdown
humming thing. He was already on my last nerve.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
But you know what, he's a good guy.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
We're both into fitness. I thought, you know what it is,
what it is, I could let this slide. So after
the whole irritating humming of final countdown, which I could
live with, we went and sat on the bench for
a while and we had really good conversation.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Right, so he's coming back, he's on the comeback.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Yeah, yeah, I was okay. And then earlier he did
he did. He told me he collects sand from beach
as he visits. Ye had sand from ocean beach, Surfer's
beach and half mobay alan.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Hang on.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
He offered me a jar from his trunk.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Okay, that is.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
One hundred percent true and I stand by it all.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Right, So what was the thought process? Exactly? Kayleb?
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Yeah, at what point was I on your final countdown?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Boy?
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Are you asking me that? Or are you like just
trying to get under my.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
That you you you have no joy in life and
can't have fun.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
But it's just you're cringey, dude, You're cringey.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
You know, this is some of my most precious like
value memories and I was just trying to share them
with you. And if that's cringey to you, then you
know what, I'm really glad that I got my answer.
Thanks a lot,
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