Carlos & Darla Did Drinks and Apps

Carlos thought he was feeling a real vibe. He dying to see Darla again, but she isn't making it easy. Let's find out why.

Episode Transcript

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Variety from the two thousands of thenineties and today it's Star one on one
three, it's Marcus and Core athis time once again for second date Update.
This is where someone goes on firstdate and they think everything was swell
and then they don't get a seconddate. So we talked to you about
your date and figure out what wentwrong or was our misunderstanding, hence the
name second date Update. Let's talkto Carlos. Carlos, good morning,

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good morning, good morning, goodmorning. So Darla, huh, so
it's from your email you say she'sghosted you. You guys have been on
a date, So how did you? Guys? Pete, we met on
Tinder okay easy and like, yeah, she's not responding to any of my
texts, and we spoke for likea couple of weeks, and then we

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went out and we had drinks appetizersat a bar in the city. Like
that's like two weeks ago. Andwe were talking after that a little bit
here and there, but no,like after that date specifically, she like
goes to me completely. And Ieven went back and messaged her like on
Tinder okay, and I've got nothinglike literally not literally zero nope, and

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in the day was nice. Shelooked super cute. I look good too.
You know. I made sure Ididn't mess up in any kind of
way. I went over to myhead. It even turns out like we
lived three blocks away from each other. You know, it's like, what
are the odds? So I reallylike this, just cruised by your house?
Oh yeah, six love that carbro worked for me. I don't

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know exactly, but like, Iwouldn't even do that. That's kind of
a little creepy. But I justI know you're just joking. I just
want to know what's up. Likethis is kind of how do you even
go on a neighborhood walk or ajog? And like, I haven't had
anyone leave anything on my car sincehigh school. Uh, actually I've got

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a nasty note, but that's different. I did that in high school.
It was a friend of my sisters. And yeah, high school did not
end well. Don't pop in,don't pop over, don't leave notes on
the car. No, anyway,back to your issues, Carlos, mine
are still trauma. Obviously. Let'scall her. Let's call her and figure

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it out. Okay, I feelgood about today. We're gonna play a
song. Right, let's see,Well, we're gonna play a song,
we'll regroup, we'll call Darla,we'll ask her about the date, and
ultimately we want to try to getyou a second date. But dang,
we just want to answers. Solet's do that. Hang on the line

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up day, Okay, all right, we'll do it. Next Second Date
Update Star one more variety from thetwo thousands of the nineties, and today
Star one on one three. It'sMarcus and Corey. We're doing Second Date
Update. We've been chatting with Carlosabout his date with Darla, and they
live in the same neighborhood. Yeah, really close, just obviously not comfortable
just cruising by her place and knockingon the door. You know what,
People love that when you just popin. I will literally on my floor

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until you go away. Carlos,are you still there? Did? Okay,
let's give her a shout, let'sget the date from her perspective.
Go ahead and go on mute,and let's get this thing started. Hi.

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May I speak with Darla? Please? Hi Darla, It's Marcus and
Corey from Star one on one three. Hi, Hey, do you listen
to our show? I like Iknow of it. I haven't really listened
to a lot of it. No, okay, you're familiar with with second

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Date Update our dating segment, areyou? No? I'm not okay.
So what we do is we talkedto somebody about a first date they went
on, and we try to figureout why they can't get a second date.
Would you be okay talking on theair with us? Uh? Yeah,
sure, okay, cool, thankyou. There is a gentleman by
the name of Carlos said he wenton a date with you, would love

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to take you out again. Andwe're just wondering what's up because now he's
feeling ghosted. He's feeling like you'relike you're ducking him, and it's and
it's extra weird because I guess youguys live in the same neighborhood. Yeah,
what's going on? Like did youdid you have fun on the date?
I mean, like, yeah,I have. He's like a really

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nice guy and stuff, and itwas it was cool to meet him.
I just like, sound bad,but he just kind of felt like my
dad, Like I I'll say it. Basically, we went to this bar
and he showed up and I likeI didn't know it was him at first,
Like, it took me a secondbecause he looked so much older than

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what he did in the photos,kids so much gray hair, and so
I thought he was like in hissixties, and I'm like, I'm like
pretty young. I'm in my twenties. So I don't know. I just
I saw photos on Cinder and theywere all really dark brown hair. It's
like I really wasn't expecting it.And then I don't know, I just
felt like I was like my owndad was that Oh wow? Was the

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face that his face look older too? His face but no, his face
was like his face was nice andhe was like handsome and stuff. But
it was just like he just withthe gray hair, Like there's just something
about him that was just like screamingmy dad. It's like terrible. I
know it, got it. Okay, Well, here's the thing. When
we do second date update, theperson who went on the first date calls

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us and Curls is on the phoneright now. Yeah he's listening. Oh
my gosh. Okay, yeah,hey Darla, So going on, were
you using old pictures on your Tinderprofile or what I was using? I
mean, I don't have that manygray hairs, so like maybe I had

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at a few that popped out.I don't know, but I honestly think
that it's kind of a little showbecause gray hair happened, you know,
I know. I mean that's justlike you might be in your twenties,
but like it's coming for you totrust me, you know, it's like
the g Both my parents got grayhair in high school. Really yeah,
no wonder they linked up. It'sa special club. But he's not wrong.

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You can get gray hair at anyage. Okay, Jeff blames his
gray hair on me stressing him out. I do too. It's your mouth,
Darla. Back to you. Imean, like, go ahead,
yeah, I like, I gotit, I totally get it. I
just felt I felt like kind oflike swrown slowly because I felt like all

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the pictures you put up didn't haveany gray hair, and so I don't
know, I just I felt likeyou, like I would have liked to
see what you actually were like onlinefirst before coming and meeting you in person.
And then also you like not sothe mean, but like you wore
khakis and stuff like I just remindedme that doesn't how how to khakis and

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a few gray hairs just changes aperson completely. That's I don't know.
I think you're being a little ridiculous. Like I've been gray since twenty five,
so I don't see the big deal. Like nobody, nobody has ever
complained about it before. I don'tknow. The photos might not have show
this. It's just specific little grayhairs, but I'm not like a full
gray haired man. That's like,I don't know what you're seeing. I

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guess maybe it's something else and you'rejust blaming on the gray hair. Look,
I feel bad because you're really nice. I just like I think that
we're better off, like just notgoing out again, right, got it?
Hold on? Hold on? Imean it's weird what sets people off,
Yes, but I kind of getit. So that was not gonna

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