Chase Did Dinner in the Mission with Blair

It was a city night for Chase and Blair, and he says he had a great time. Maybe Blair didn't though because she's ghosted on him. 

Episode Transcript

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More variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three, It's Marcus andCorey and time once again for a second
date update. We want you tofollow. What are we even doing?
I have no idea. We're tryingto get somebody a second date, That's
what we're doing. Yes, let'ssay good morning to Chase. Chase.
Are you there? Hey guys,what's up? Hey man, what's happening?

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Uh? We want to help dissectyour date with Blair because I understand
that she's ghosted. And so let'sstart. Oh my god, I almost
did it? What start at thevery beginning? Jeez, don't start singing?
No, how did you guys meet? And then let's run through the

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first date really quick. Absolutely,I'll start in the best place to start.
We've met on match and we chatted, you know, we were emailing
for a couple of weeks before jumpingon the phone. No, had a
nice back and forth there too.I started could translate to a good in

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person meetup. So we decided togo on a date. We had a
great time. We met up inthe mission in San Francisco and like restaurant
was really cool and I could lose. I thought she could lose once again.
Great banter, and we said goodbye. I thought left things really well.

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And now she's not calm back,and I've been reviewing the whole night
in my head. I cannot figureout what happened. Right, is it's
something I did come up for her? I don't. I don't know.
Getting ghost on's gotta suck. Imean, it happens to me on email
every once in a while. ButI can't even imagine dating right now.
No, would you like my theory? Oh? Yes, Chase, we

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have to stand by Corey has adaily theory. Go for Corey? Maybe
as the date. Yes. Shedecided to take herself on a self guided
walking tour of the mission. Okay, and she got lost and she asked
a stranger for directions and then Idon't like where this is going. You
know where it's going. I don'twant it to go there. Can we

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go somewhere else? And then theywent and had ice cream? Perfect?
Thank you? It wasn't where Iwas going. Sorry, Chase, Corey
watched this way too much dateline?Oh yeah, Okay, I don't think
that's what happened. I don't thinkit ended with ice cream, so to
speak. But let's I'll tell youwhat, Chase, thank you for indulging

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us. Let's call her and figureout what's going on. We'll ask her
about the date directly. We'll haveyou mute, but let's play a song
first and then we'll get to it. All right, It's Second Date Update
Star one oh one three more varietyfrom the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one on onethree. It's Marcus and Corey. We
are in the middle of second Dateupdates, and Chase has been waiting Paige

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because we're about to call his dateBlair. They met in the Mission district
and and I thought it went reallywell, right Chase, Yeah, honestly,
nothing but green flaggs okay, butshe has ghosted. So let's call
her and try to figure this out. Here we go go ahead and mut
your phone. I'm gonna give hera shout Hello, I mean to speak

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with Blair. Please? Yeah,who says Hi Blair? It's Marcus and
Corey from Star one on one three. Good morning, I don't okay,
sorry, we do a morning radioshow in San Francisco and just I'm wondering
if you might have a second tobe on the air with us for a

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segment that we're doing. Let meexplain. It's called second Sure, it's
called Second Date Update. We gota call from a guy who've been on
a date with recently and he's feelingghosted, and I just I wonder if
you might be willing to talk aboutyour date with Chase and how that went

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for you. Is that? Okay? Sure, thank you, thank you?
So what can you tell us?How did it go from your perspective?
Because he'd love to take you outagain? Oh boy, okay,
oh this is so strange. Okay, yeah, I don't know. Chase
and I just met on match andwe had dinner like a week ago.
I don't know if he told youthat, but he did. It was

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like, yeah, okay, sowhat why this is so weird? All
right? It was one of thoserestaurants where like the tables are pretty close
together, and there were two womenwho were sitting at a table near us,
and it actually turned out that Chaseknew one of them from college,
and she was so sweet and cool. Okay, but Chase kept like including

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her in their conversations, like inour conversations, I mean, like we
it was just it wasn't like,hey, catch up and then focus back
on us. It was consistently interjecting. He would ask me a question and
then like turn to his friend fromcollege and ask the same question, or
like we would be talking and thenhe would turn to his friend from college

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and be like, isn't that crazy? We we went just including her so
a group dates? Yeah? Yeah, and there was There was even at
one point where like, yeah,like offered for her to taste something off
his plate. I was really justlike not. I was like, okay,
this guy, no, sure,it doesn't really sound like a first

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date. It sounds more like anepisode of Sister Wives. Thank you.
It just felt like a little tonedeaf, you know, to be like,
Okay, this isn't the time tolike catch up with your college friend.
Like right, I don't know's it'smissing. It feels like he might
be missing a chip in terms oflike social etiquette and like you're on a
date, like you just say hi, you sweet and then keep the focus.

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Did you say missing a chip?Missing a chip? I like it,
Like my mom used to say that, I love it. Yeah,
like they're missing a chip. That'smy new favorite saying these one chip short
of a bag at the Reno's likemicro chip, like your microchip? Yeah,

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you're missing a chip. I likeprinkles better. You're okay? Well,
okay, I hear you. Iunderstand why that might be weird.
Let's make it a little weirder becauseChase is actually listening, right, Hey,
oh god, okay, sorry,yeah, hey, what's going on?
Chase is here? No, simplyrequired, what's going on? I'm

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kind of confused because I thought wewere having a good time. Well you,
Chase, you had another lady onyour date though apparently I was just
trying to be friendly. She wassomeone I yeah, like like like you
were saying, Blair, Like thetables were obnoxiously closed together, so like

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of course I'm gonna they were alreadyoverhearing everything. Plus like the food thing,
the food is really good, LikeI remember that it was something that
she might have liked, so thatI was trying to include. There were
three leads. What was I supposedto do? What you're supposed to do
is give me your attention, likeshow me that you know this is about
you and me getting to know eachother. It just feels a little like

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were we not talking the entire night. Were we not with like communicating about
like how were we not joking abouthow to split to build a proper way?
Like yeah, I hear in thatconversation. I'm just kind of concused
why you think someone being generous wouldbe a problem. Time out, Time
out for one second. So theweird thing to me, Corey, you

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haven't been here that long, butwe've been doing this these calls for a
long time. This is probably thethird or fourth time that we've had this
exact same situation where so somebody wasjust being friendly, and I just want
to say it again. Like I'vesaid before, it's important to keep your
eyes on the price. Yes,it is during a date. Yes,

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it's really that simple. Chase,I'm speaking directly to you, without speaking
directly to you, but I understandthe need to be friendly. But like
this feels a little over the topand it sounds like you made Blair uncomfortable?
Is that accural? Yeah, okay, I apologize, clearly you're not.
It's okay, thank you for theapology. I think the fact that

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you probably don't understand and you don'tsee anything wrong with it, like God
bless you, but like not I'mnot interested in explaining this to someone.
So you've already answered my follow upquestion. If now that we have some
self awareness, hopefully Chase understands wherewe're coming from, can we get a
second date? Or is this awhat I'm gauging from you dude, and
you can speak to it. Islike that you actually are apologizing, but

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you don't really understand. Is thatcorrect? I get what you're saying,
I guess, but like, ultimatelyyou're overreacting. It's not that big of
a deal. I was just beingkind. I was just trying include people
in. Oh, yeah, I'mtalking to you. I'm good. I'm
good. I'm good. I'm gonnabow out. Thank you so much.
All right, hang on, hangon. I feel like a broken record,

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But you gotta stay focused on thetask at hand, in this case,
a first date and the lady orthe gentleman or whatever. Sometimes I
wonder if they even want a seconddate. It's like they act like they
do, but at the same time, you're like, what it was?
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