October 28, 2025 • 6 mins
Wine, charcuterie, and easy laughs — Ryan thought his Burlingame date with Chelsea had it all. He even got what he called a “promising” hug. But did that moment mean what he thought it did?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
A variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's a star one O one three.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
It's Marcus and we're back with second date update. Let's go.
You know what we're trying to do. We're trying to
bring people together.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
As always, if you go on a first date, you
get ghosted, you call me and then we call your
date together and just to figure out what the heck happened.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I think this is what happened to Ryan. So let's
bring him on.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Ryan.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Are you there?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Hey dude, so scirled Chelsea? Did she ghost on you?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yeah? She did ghost on me.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Okay, let's lay it out. How did you guys meet?
And then like, what was the first date about?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Well, our first date we went to this slight wine
bar in Berlin Game and I thought it was effortless. Honestly.
We shared like a charcuterie board. We swapped childhood stories.
I thought there was chemistry, Like for sure. She gave
me a hug at the end, like a like a good.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Long hug, you know, like a side hugger I can't
wait to get out of here hug, but.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Like a real one. It was a real hug. We
didn't kiss or anything. But you know, so, yeah, I
thought it went cool. I thought it was great. Then damn,
she just didn't call me back.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
So okay, there's nothing more embarrassing than getting a hug,
going in for a kiss, and catching an ear lobe.
I'm not gonna say that's happened to me, but I'm
not gonna say it hasn't either. Anyway back to you,
Ryan can't decide whether to feel.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Sorry for me or not. It's fine, it's part of
my story. Let's call her, let's see if we can
figure this out.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Typically, what I'll do is we'll play a song so
we can all regroup, and then we will reach out
to Chelsea and see what the issue was if there
was one.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Okay, awesome, let's do it.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
We'll do it next.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Second Date update Star one O one three variety from
the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one
O one three. It's Marcus. We're doing second Date up date.
We've got our guy Ryan on the phone. We're all
now on team Ryan and we're gonna call Chelsea and
figure out why she ghosted on him after the first date.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Dude, are you there still?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I'm here?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Just want to make sure. Okay, this is my reminder.
I was gonna say my reminder to go ahead and mute.
Maybe let's see what we can figure out. Here we go, Bud. Hello, Hi,
I'm looking for Chelsea. Please.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Oh my god, Marcus. I listen to you every morning
since I was in like high school. I would know
that voice anywhere.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Oh my god, you're ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Really, I want to tell you you're doing a good job.
The thing with Corey was such a bummer, but you're
really handling it so well.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
I appreciate that. I didn't know how to deal with
Layoffs are tough. I gotta be honest with you.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yeah, And so.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Everything is tough right now. The world is so hard
right now.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I know, and you know what, everybody's been so kind,
so you know what, thank you for giving me a
minute to be able to say that too. But I mean,
I feel like, you know why we're here.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I have an idea. Yeah, it's so weird. This is wild.
I've been listening to that Date Update like it's Ryan right.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Yes, and now you're the star of the show.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Yeah, I'm not so glad.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Come on down, Ryan, are you there?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Yeah, out here?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Okay, what's up you guys. So look, we're all adults,
we know why we're here. And Chelsea, Ryan, he enjoyed
your date and would like to take you out again.
He felt like the hug was promising his words, So okay,
(03:26):
can we get a second date?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Or god, this is really weird. Okay. I will say
the first like ten seconds of the day were great. Okay,
I did not feel the same about the hug.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Okay, what did what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Ryan is a very good looking guy. He's got a
great smile, he's got a good energy. But mostly it
was not for me, like, okay, so it isn't the
first twenty minutes of the day talking about the custom
Tesla head he wants to get, like like I had
to look at pictures of the trim that every single
(04:09):
detail and said.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Did you say custom Tesla?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
I had to look at pictures of the custom Tesla
he wants, which so in so many ways I already
says everything you need to know, okay, And then it
was weird because he keeps saying he's like he wanted
to prove he was close to buying it by showing
me more pictures, which makes no sense I don't know. Okay,
it was the Tesla. Yeah, the Tesla was strange. But
(04:39):
then at the end of dinner.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
It got really weird.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Okay, here's the first. He asked me if I've ever
been hypnotized, and then he wanted to demonstrate based on
a YouTube video that he saw hypnotized. Yeah, hypnotized, Like
he didn't think it was weird at all. I thought
it was really creepy.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Well, now this all about the.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Tesla thing too, and he got really defensive.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
All right, Ryan, your turn hypnotized.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Well, the hypnotized I was just joking. I didn't really
want to hypnotize you trying to break the ice. I
think you were a little uncomfortable after me talking about
a car.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I want to buy.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
The thing with the cheese. The cheese thing made me
uncomfortable too.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
What's the cheese thing? There's a cheese thing.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
He's told me that, like everyone knows that there's a
certain order you need to eat a cheeseboard in, and
I apparently that it's in the wrong order.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
What's the hold on what's the right order for a cheeseboard?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
I don't know, but apparently you're not supposed to eat the.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Blue cheese first, You're not the soft cheese, cheddars whatever.
Then blue cheese is at the end, and you know
everybody does know that.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
I mean, you.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Would have to mean, blue cheese is so strong you
have to eat it last.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
So well, what did you eat it first?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Clearly messed up?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yeah she did.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
I'm disgusting. Why would you even want a second day
with me? If I messed up that badly?
Speaker 3 (06:13):
I mean, now that you mentioned the cheese, I kind
of don't, but you know, I just want to find
out you never texted me back.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
So I can't even tell if you're kidding.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Ryan, I've got goals. Some girls are into guys with goals.
You know.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
I'm not not into guys. Look, nothing about the proving
you about the goal is not attractive.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
So second date.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Then, point oh, this is weird, all right?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Hang on, hang on, that not happening anyway. Second date
update seven oh five weekday mornings. He replace it nine
oh five. You know this
A variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's a star one O one three.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
It's Marcus and we're back with second date update. Let's go.
You know what we're trying to do. We're trying to
bring people together.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
As always, if you go on a first date, you
get ghosted, you call me and then we call your
date together and just to figure out what the heck happened.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I think this is what happened to Ryan. So let's
bring him on.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Ryan.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Are you there?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Hey dude, so scirled Chelsea? Did she ghost on you?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yeah? She did ghost on me.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Okay, let's lay it out. How did you guys meet?
And then like, what was the first date about?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Well, our first date we went to this slight wine
bar in Berlin Game and I thought it was effortless. Honestly.
We shared like a charcuterie board. We swapped childhood stories.
I thought there was chemistry, Like for sure. She gave
me a hug at the end, like a like a good.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Long hug, you know, like a side hugger I can't
wait to get out of here hug, but.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Like a real one. It was a real hug. We
didn't kiss or anything. But you know, so, yeah, I
thought it went cool. I thought it was great. Then damn,
she just didn't call me back.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
So okay, there's nothing more embarrassing than getting a hug,
going in for a kiss, and catching an ear lobe.
I'm not gonna say that's happened to me, but I'm
not gonna say it hasn't either. Anyway back to you,
Ryan can't decide whether to feel.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Sorry for me or not. It's fine, it's part of
my story. Let's call her, let's see if we can
figure this out.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Typically, what I'll do is we'll play a song so
we can all regroup, and then we will reach out
to Chelsea and see what the issue was if there
was one.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Okay, awesome, let's do it.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
We'll do it next.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Second Date update Star one O one three variety from
the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one
O one three. It's Marcus. We're doing second Date up date.
We've got our guy Ryan on the phone. We're all
now on team Ryan and we're gonna call Chelsea and
figure out why she ghosted on him after the first date.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Dude, are you there still?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I'm here?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Just want to make sure. Okay, this is my reminder.
I was gonna say my reminder to go ahead and mute.
Maybe let's see what we can figure out. Here we go, Bud. Hello, Hi,
I'm looking for Chelsea. Please.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Oh my god, Marcus. I listen to you every morning
since I was in like high school. I would know
that voice anywhere.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Oh my god, you're ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Really, I want to tell you you're doing a good job.
The thing with Corey was such a bummer, but you're
really handling it so well.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
I appreciate that. I didn't know how to deal with
Layoffs are tough. I gotta be honest with you.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yeah, And so.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Everything is tough right now. The world is so hard
right now.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I know, and you know what, everybody's been so kind,
so you know what, thank you for giving me a
minute to be able to say that too. But I mean,
I feel like, you know why we're here.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I have an idea. Yeah, it's so weird. This is wild.
I've been listening to that Date Update like it's Ryan right.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Yes, and now you're the star of the show.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Yeah, I'm not so glad.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Come on down, Ryan, are you there?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Yeah, out here?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Okay, what's up you guys. So look, we're all adults,
we know why we're here. And Chelsea, Ryan, he enjoyed
your date and would like to take you out again.
He felt like the hug was promising his words, So okay,
(03:26):
can we get a second date?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Or god, this is really weird. Okay. I will say
the first like ten seconds of the day were great. Okay,
I did not feel the same about the hug.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Okay, what did what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Ryan is a very good looking guy. He's got a
great smile, he's got a good energy. But mostly it
was not for me, like, okay, so it isn't the
first twenty minutes of the day talking about the custom
Tesla head he wants to get, like like I had
to look at pictures of the trim that every single
(04:09):
detail and said.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Did you say custom Tesla?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
I had to look at pictures of the custom Tesla
he wants, which so in so many ways I already
says everything you need to know, okay, And then it
was weird because he keeps saying he's like he wanted
to prove he was close to buying it by showing
me more pictures, which makes no sense I don't know. Okay,
it was the Tesla. Yeah, the Tesla was strange. But
(04:39):
then at the end of dinner.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
It got really weird.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Okay, here's the first. He asked me if I've ever
been hypnotized, and then he wanted to demonstrate based on
a YouTube video that he saw hypnotized. Yeah, hypnotized, Like
he didn't think it was weird at all. I thought
it was really creepy.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Well, now this all about the.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Tesla thing too, and he got really defensive.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
All right, Ryan, your turn hypnotized.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Well, the hypnotized I was just joking. I didn't really
want to hypnotize you trying to break the ice. I
think you were a little uncomfortable after me talking about
a car.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I want to buy.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
The thing with the cheese. The cheese thing made me
uncomfortable too.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
What's the cheese thing? There's a cheese thing.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
He's told me that, like everyone knows that there's a
certain order you need to eat a cheeseboard in, and
I apparently that it's in the wrong order.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
What's the hold on what's the right order for a cheeseboard?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
I don't know, but apparently you're not supposed to eat the.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Blue cheese first, You're not the soft cheese, cheddars whatever.
Then blue cheese is at the end, and you know
everybody does know that.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
I mean, you.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Would have to mean, blue cheese is so strong you
have to eat it last.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
So well, what did you eat it first?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Clearly messed up?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yeah she did.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
I'm disgusting. Why would you even want a second day
with me? If I messed up that badly?
Speaker 3 (06:13):
I mean, now that you mentioned the cheese, I kind
of don't, but you know, I just want to find
out you never texted me back.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
So I can't even tell if you're kidding.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Ryan, I've got goals. Some girls are into guys with goals.
You know.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
I'm not not into guys. Look, nothing about the proving
you about the goal is not attractive.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
So second date.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Then, point oh, this is weird, all right?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Hang on, hang on, that not happening anyway. Second date
update seven oh five weekday mornings. He replace it nine
oh five. You know this
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