July 18, 2025 • 6 mins
Alejandra met Chris on Tinder. They started messaging and really hit it off. They decided to go for a walk around Lake Merced as the first date followed by some Ramen on 19th avenue. They both go to SF State and neither one of them have a car so they decided to keep it in the neighborhood. Now, she has disappeared.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands of the nineties and
today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey.
We're back with second date update. How does it go?
Corey Foley?
Speaker 2 (00:08):
You know, we we've got some pretty successful relationships, sure personally,
I mean, I think, but we want to make sure
you have that special person in your life. And you
went on the first date. Want to find out why
you aren't getting the second date.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
So somebody got ghosted. Typically, let's talk to Chris. Who's
on the phone.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Chris, Hello, Hey, good morning guys.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Hey man, So Chris met you met Alejandra on Tinder.
According to your DM, the rough part is to understand
that Alejandra has ghosted. How did it start? Like, what
did you guys do for your first date?
Speaker 4 (00:36):
So we just went for a walk around Lake Mercedaed
and went for some ramen after the walk, for some
ramen at that spot off the nineteen Okay, yeah, so
we both go to State and all that you know
of us have a car, so we were just like,
we'll keep it in the neighborhood. I thought it was
all cool, right, It wasn't anything too crazy. Walk around
the lake a little bit of Ramen, and you know,
(00:57):
we just were getting to know each other and stuff.
You know, there wasn't any crazy like this first date stuff, right,
and I do. Everything went really well, but she goes
to me saying, so I just really don't understand.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Corey, what are your thoughts?
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Well, I'm thinking that Alexandra has been having money troubles
and you know, she's in school, so she decides to
hit the corner. She meets a businessman who makes a
living buying and breaking up companies. He hires her to
be his companion while he's in town. They eventually fall
for each other. Que the rock set.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
That is either Alexandra's Story or Pretty Woman. Yes, Ah,
nailed it. Chris has no idea what's happening right now?
It's totally fine, sorry, Chris, Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank god
he's still with us. All right, why don't we call
her and find out what really happened? Can you hang
on the line for a minute.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
Here, Yeah? Absolutely, all right, kickback, We're.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Gonna call her. We'll play a song. We'll get to it.
It's second Date Update Star one, O one three, Well
variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today. It's
Star one on one three Marcus and Corey doing Second
Date Update. We've got Chris on the phone. It's interesting
he and Alejandra both go to go to state. They
go to San Francisco State. So we kept the date
on Nineteenth Avenue, which I like. Yeah, kah Ramen walk
(02:09):
around Lake merced I like all of this, very low key, thoughtful.
I like it. You're ready to make this phone call
because apparently she's ghosted, So Chris, let's give her a shot.
You're still there.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Yeah, I'm definitely curious. I want the man.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Sure, that's what I'm saying. All right, go ahead and
mut your phone so you can listen in. But let's
give her a call. Here we go.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Hello, I may speak with Alejandra. Please? Who is This
is Marcus and Corey from Star one oh one three.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Hello, Oh my god, there's no way way up.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
No finally, Oh my god, it's been so long.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
I love like your show, like I listened to like
every morning when I'm walking the class.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Oh, I was gonna say, please tell me you listen
every more. It's warming my heart.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
We appreciate it very much.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Well, Alejandra, you must know about second Date update. Then
I would guess, Oh, yeah, yeah, is it Chris.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
It is Chris, Chris. You might as well say hi,
she knows you're there, Chris, are you there?
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Oh my god, Chris, there's such a nerd. Oh my god.
I can't believe this is real.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
How do you mean he's a nerd?
Speaker 5 (03:43):
It was kind of like this, We're talking on Tinder
and we decided to go to Lake Merced to like
just walk around get to know each other. When it
got there, like Chris, he was like in like in
a full like how do we explain this? Like ready
(04:05):
to roller blade? Helmet, knee pads, like anything, right?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Did you say a roller blade?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Did you plan on rollerblading?
Speaker 4 (04:15):
No?
Speaker 5 (04:15):
We were just gonna like walk around. So when I
got there, like I see Chris and I'm kind of like, oh,
is he trying to be funny? And then he was
like are you ready? And he was gonna roller blade
and asked me like to jog like following him for
us to like have a conversation, and like, I'm not
(04:36):
a runner, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I'm trying to get a visual here. So he is
in full rollerblading gear. You're jogging next to him.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Almost like having a heart attack. You know, I'm like
shopping and puffing.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Oh, I would be all sweating and laughable moments.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
Oh my god, And like I wasn't like ready to run.
I'm like, first of all, I never do right, and
second of all, I came to like just walk around
on a like little cute date. So I'm not wearing
like runny shoes.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Right, Chris may I ask you couldn't give the lady
the heads up on the rollerblader.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Look like, Okay, here's the thing, Like, I get how
that sounds a little bit weird, like I maybe should
have given some heads up, But to be honest, I
thought it was kind of romantic. I thought it was
kind of fun, Like, yeah, I had rollerblading gear on,
but like I kind of wanted to like kind of
express myself a little bit, and I thought that that's
what I was doing.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
And to be honest, I thought it would have been
kind of kind of quirky, kind of cute vibe for
the date. I didn't think this would be that weird.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
I like, I didn't, like, you just sound like a
trigger to roller derby or something crazy.
Speaker 5 (05:44):
That's so cute.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Okay, so you don't sound completely turned off. No, yeah, cute.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Yeah, it was kind of like a little weird. Uh huh.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
You know, so let me ask did you like them?
Can we get a second date?
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Or what?
Speaker 5 (06:00):
I want to go on a second date, but like
Fritz this time, like please leave the gear at home?
Like I can't run anymore?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Can I do it?
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Go for it, go for it. We gotta win the
cow bell of destiny. You guys, these things I love.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
That, you know what. I'm so down, Alejandro also down.
That sounds that sounds good to be. I'll leave the Rogan.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Player gear home excellent. Hang on, you guys,
More variety from the two thousands of the nineties and
today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey.
We're back with second date update. How does it go?
Corey Foley?
Speaker 2 (00:08):
You know, we we've got some pretty successful relationships, sure personally,
I mean, I think, but we want to make sure
you have that special person in your life. And you
went on the first date. Want to find out why
you aren't getting the second date.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
So somebody got ghosted. Typically, let's talk to Chris. Who's
on the phone.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Chris, Hello, Hey, good morning guys.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Hey man, So Chris met you met Alejandra on Tinder.
According to your DM, the rough part is to understand
that Alejandra has ghosted. How did it start? Like, what
did you guys do for your first date?
Speaker 4 (00:36):
So we just went for a walk around Lake Mercedaed
and went for some ramen after the walk, for some
ramen at that spot off the nineteen Okay, yeah, so
we both go to State and all that you know
of us have a car, so we were just like,
we'll keep it in the neighborhood. I thought it was
all cool, right, It wasn't anything too crazy. Walk around
the lake a little bit of Ramen, and you know,
(00:57):
we just were getting to know each other and stuff.
You know, there wasn't any crazy like this first date stuff, right,
and I do. Everything went really well, but she goes
to me saying, so I just really don't understand.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Corey, what are your thoughts?
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Well, I'm thinking that Alexandra has been having money troubles
and you know, she's in school, so she decides to
hit the corner. She meets a businessman who makes a
living buying and breaking up companies. He hires her to
be his companion while he's in town. They eventually fall
for each other. Que the rock set.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
That is either Alexandra's Story or Pretty Woman. Yes, Ah,
nailed it. Chris has no idea what's happening right now?
It's totally fine, sorry, Chris, Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank god
he's still with us. All right, why don't we call
her and find out what really happened? Can you hang
on the line for a minute.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
Here, Yeah? Absolutely, all right, kickback, We're.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Gonna call her. We'll play a song. We'll get to it.
It's second Date Update Star one, O one three, Well
variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today. It's
Star one on one three Marcus and Corey doing Second
Date Update. We've got Chris on the phone. It's interesting
he and Alejandra both go to go to state. They
go to San Francisco State. So we kept the date
on Nineteenth Avenue, which I like. Yeah, kah Ramen walk
(02:09):
around Lake merced I like all of this, very low key, thoughtful.
I like it. You're ready to make this phone call
because apparently she's ghosted, So Chris, let's give her a shot.
You're still there.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Yeah, I'm definitely curious. I want the man.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Sure, that's what I'm saying. All right, go ahead and
mut your phone so you can listen in. But let's
give her a call. Here we go.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Hello, I may speak with Alejandra. Please? Who is This
is Marcus and Corey from Star one oh one three.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Hello, Oh my god, there's no way way up.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
No finally, Oh my god, it's been so long.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
I love like your show, like I listened to like
every morning when I'm walking the class.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Oh, I was gonna say, please tell me you listen
every more. It's warming my heart.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
We appreciate it very much.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Well, Alejandra, you must know about second Date update. Then
I would guess, Oh, yeah, yeah, is it Chris.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
It is Chris, Chris. You might as well say hi,
she knows you're there, Chris, are you there?
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Oh my god, Chris, there's such a nerd. Oh my god.
I can't believe this is real.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
How do you mean he's a nerd?
Speaker 5 (03:43):
It was kind of like this, We're talking on Tinder
and we decided to go to Lake Merced to like
just walk around get to know each other. When it
got there, like Chris, he was like in like in
a full like how do we explain this? Like ready
(04:05):
to roller blade? Helmet, knee pads, like anything, right?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Did you say a roller blade?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Did you plan on rollerblading?
Speaker 4 (04:15):
No?
Speaker 5 (04:15):
We were just gonna like walk around. So when I
got there, like I see Chris and I'm kind of like, oh,
is he trying to be funny? And then he was
like are you ready? And he was gonna roller blade
and asked me like to jog like following him for
us to like have a conversation, and like, I'm not
(04:36):
a runner, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I'm trying to get a visual here. So he is
in full rollerblading gear. You're jogging next to him.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Almost like having a heart attack. You know, I'm like
shopping and puffing.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Oh, I would be all sweating and laughable moments.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
Oh my god, And like I wasn't like ready to run.
I'm like, first of all, I never do right, and
second of all, I came to like just walk around
on a like little cute date. So I'm not wearing
like runny shoes.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Right, Chris may I ask you couldn't give the lady
the heads up on the rollerblader.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Look like, Okay, here's the thing, Like, I get how
that sounds a little bit weird, like I maybe should
have given some heads up, But to be honest, I
thought it was kind of romantic. I thought it was
kind of fun, Like, yeah, I had rollerblading gear on,
but like I kind of wanted to like kind of
express myself a little bit, and I thought that that's
what I was doing.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
And to be honest, I thought it would have been
kind of kind of quirky, kind of cute vibe for
the date. I didn't think this would be that weird.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
I like, I didn't, like, you just sound like a
trigger to roller derby or something crazy.
Speaker 5 (05:44):
That's so cute.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Okay, so you don't sound completely turned off. No, yeah, cute.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Yeah, it was kind of like a little weird. Uh huh.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
You know, so let me ask did you like them?
Can we get a second date?
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Or what?
Speaker 5 (06:00):
I want to go on a second date, but like
Fritz this time, like please leave the gear at home?
Like I can't run anymore?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Can I do it?
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Go for it, go for it. We gotta win the
cow bell of destiny. You guys, these things I love.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
That, you know what. I'm so down, Alejandro also down.
That sounds that sounds good to be. I'll leave the Rogan.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Player gear home excellent. Hang on, you guys,
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