September 23, 2025 • 8 mins
Dylan thought his rooftop wine bar date with Marissa was classy. He said they sipped, laughed, and leaned in close...he even thought they might kiss before saying goodnight. Dylan couldn’t believe she ghosted. He thought it was pretty unforgettable.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey back
with it again this morning. It's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
It is not easy to find a partner in line.
It is, and maybe you're hitting the apps. Maybe you're
trying to meet people in real life. We're just trying
to figure out how to get you that second date.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Let's spring on Dylan. Good morning, Dylan, Hey, good morning,
hey man, So thanks for getting up early with us.
We want to hear all about Marissa. I understand you
guys went to a wine bar.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, we did. It was a rooftop wine bar, and
I thought it was a pretty classy.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Did you guys meet online or you how'd you meet?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
So we met online? Yeah, on an app? Easy, but yeah,
I wanted to, you know, kind of make a classy
with the rooftop wine bar. So, you know, we sipped
some wine, laughed, and at one point we've been leaning close.
I thought somebody even kissed before say good night, but
then I had ghosted after that. I mean, I thought
(00:57):
it was a pretty un forgettable night. I'm forget, but
I'm just I don't.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Know what happened Okay, you didn't mess anything up, did
you think? I hate to phrase it like that, but
it's always like somebody did something, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah, but it might not be fault.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
No, you're right, you're right. Before we call her, Corey,
do you have a theorist to what might have happened
to Marissa?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Well? I think what we don't realize is that Marissa
works a day job in a steel mill and dances
in a bar at night. And when she discovers that
her boss is both interested in her and supportive of
her performing career, she renews her efforts to get accepted
into a prestigious dance and conservatory.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
She's frightened a failure, but she's.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Cheered on by her boss as well as her mentor
and former ballet performer Hannah Long.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Are you saying that Marissa is like the woman from
Flash Dance?
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Maybe she could be studying right now.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
I was gonna say, Kyote Ugly.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Was anyone in Coyote Ugly a steel worker during the day?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
All right, let's move on, Dylan. Here's what we're gonna do.
We're gonna call Marissa. We're gonna see what happened. Can
you hang on the line. Yeah, sure, great, all right,
we'll do it next. Second Date update Star one O
one three, Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus
and Corey doing second Date Update. We've got Dylan on
the phone. I like this date a lot. Hey man,
(02:27):
roof top wine bar in the city, and you thought
you might get a kiss because she leaned in. Not
only did he not get a kiss, my guy got ghosted.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Well, we gotta figure it out.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Yeah, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna have you
on the line. As you know, we're gonna call Marissa
and we're gonna try to figure some things out. So
let's cross our fingers for a second date. Here we go,
go ahead and meet your phone.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Okay, Hello, I may speak with Marissa.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Please.
Speaker 6 (03:05):
This is shit.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Hi Marissa, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
She sounds very pleasant.
Speaker 6 (03:11):
Oh my gosh, you're kidding me.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
What's up? How are you?
Speaker 6 (03:14):
Hey? Hi? Hi?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Do you listen to our show?
Speaker 6 (03:20):
Yeah all the time.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Are you wondering why we have your phone number?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
She probably knows very much.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Can you guess what.
Speaker 6 (03:33):
A couple of things I have in mind? I'm hoping
it's maybe not one of them. But what of it?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Second date update?
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Would you mind participating in our second.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Date up date?
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Do you have a couple of minutes?
Speaker 6 (03:46):
Yeah, yeah, I do.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
So there's a guy who gave us your phone number,
so he called his date with you unforgettable. This was
before you ghosted. Hold on, let me did you ghost on? Dylan?
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:02):
Okay, yep, that makes sense. Okay, and he's listening right.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Yes, yes, Dylan, say hello, Dylan.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Hey, Hey, okay, Rinsa.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
We're trying to figure out how to make a love connection.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Let's go right for it. Hey, fully Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I mean it's funny too because you always ask if
they ghosted, and obviously they did.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I mean, I wouldn't be doing this, you mean like
she's gonna say, I'm super busy.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I don't know anyway, Marissa, my guy liked you. So
how was the date for you?
Speaker 6 (04:39):
All? Right, well, listen, you called it was not it was?
It was? It was an.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Experience, Okay, just details.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
You want to start with the good stuff and then
move on to the weird stuff. For how do we
want to do this.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
I mean, look like the place is nice, but like
that's where the good details kind of stop.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Okay, So what happened?
Speaker 6 (05:06):
Well, like, okay, if I'm starting from the beginning, we
start with drink orders, and he orders a vodka froze,
which is not a thing. I've never heard of that,
and then he gets like poudy that they didn't have it.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Okay, yeah, maybe I was bummed that they didn't have it,
but come on, that would have been amazing. I was.
I was trying to keep it fun and you know,
not order something boring.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Well, Dylan, don't you have to have a machine to
make a froze it?
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Anyway?
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Well, Dylan let her let her finish.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Okay, all right, okay, okay, than was that? No?
Speaker 6 (05:49):
No, I kind of looked past that, but it just
keeps getting weirder. So, like we get like part way
through dinner and he has got a selfie stick out
okay that he brought with him, and he starts filming
video of us eating and drinking, and he says it's
for something called first Dates in San Francisco.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Like online.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah, it's like it's like a kicktok series. Look like
that's that's my content, Okay, Like I'm trying to grow
my channel, I'm trying to grow my following. It's kind
of flattering, right. I thought he'd showed that I was
excited to be there, Like I was excited to be there.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
It's the first date still and it's not your time?
Can we can we let the lady finish?
Speaker 5 (06:33):
But I will say this, huh, you need to ask.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Her permission, right, I mean technically okay, Okay, Marissa, was
there anything else?
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Yeah? I mean this is this is the nail in
the coffin on that like everything else. Could have talked
about it maybe, but like we get to the end
and he wants to split it. He wants to split
this is his idea, by the way, like this place
is this whole place is his idea, he asked, And
he's wanting to split the check down the middle, like literally,
(07:04):
like takes up a calculator on his phone and he's
like figuring it out down to the penny, like okay,
like oh, I oh, like something something twenty six and
you owe twenty seven like that much?
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Yeah, down to the change. Look, here's the thing. Equality
should go both ways. Like I'm not made of money.
I still have a lot to do, uh, you know,
money wise, and I figured you'd at least appreciate me
being in front instead of, you know, playing games.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, I could see how this could be off putting.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
That's not upfront, like discussing that the end is not upfront.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Okay, I don't know what to say to this, because
I would at least do the reach for my wallet.
But also, if you invited me and you took me
to a swinky place, I'm kind of gonna assume you're
going to pick up the.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Tab, You're going to still do the fake reach.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
But yeah, I'm totally going to reach for my back.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
All right, Well, let's just cut right to it, Maurissa.
Should we even ask about a second day?
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:56):
No, that was a lot. It was a weird experience.
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey back
with it again this morning. It's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
It is not easy to find a partner in line.
It is, and maybe you're hitting the apps. Maybe you're
trying to meet people in real life. We're just trying
to figure out how to get you that second date.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Let's spring on Dylan. Good morning, Dylan, Hey, good morning,
hey man, So thanks for getting up early with us.
We want to hear all about Marissa. I understand you
guys went to a wine bar.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, we did. It was a rooftop wine bar, and
I thought it was a pretty classy.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Did you guys meet online or you how'd you meet?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
So we met online? Yeah, on an app? Easy, but yeah,
I wanted to, you know, kind of make a classy
with the rooftop wine bar. So, you know, we sipped
some wine, laughed, and at one point we've been leaning close.
I thought somebody even kissed before say good night, but
then I had ghosted after that. I mean, I thought
(00:57):
it was a pretty un forgettable night. I'm forget, but
I'm just I don't.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Know what happened Okay, you didn't mess anything up, did
you think? I hate to phrase it like that, but
it's always like somebody did something, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah, but it might not be fault.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
No, you're right, you're right. Before we call her, Corey,
do you have a theorist to what might have happened
to Marissa?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Well? I think what we don't realize is that Marissa
works a day job in a steel mill and dances
in a bar at night. And when she discovers that
her boss is both interested in her and supportive of
her performing career, she renews her efforts to get accepted
into a prestigious dance and conservatory.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
She's frightened a failure, but she's.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Cheered on by her boss as well as her mentor
and former ballet performer Hannah Long.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Are you saying that Marissa is like the woman from
Flash Dance?
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Maybe she could be studying right now.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
I was gonna say, Kyote Ugly.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Was anyone in Coyote Ugly a steel worker during the day?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
All right, let's move on, Dylan. Here's what we're gonna do.
We're gonna call Marissa. We're gonna see what happened. Can
you hang on the line. Yeah, sure, great, all right,
we'll do it next. Second Date update Star one O
one three, Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus
and Corey doing second Date Update. We've got Dylan on
the phone. I like this date a lot. Hey man,
(02:27):
roof top wine bar in the city, and you thought
you might get a kiss because she leaned in. Not
only did he not get a kiss, my guy got ghosted.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Well, we gotta figure it out.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Yeah, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna have you
on the line. As you know, we're gonna call Marissa
and we're gonna try to figure some things out. So
let's cross our fingers for a second date. Here we go,
go ahead and meet your phone.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Okay, Hello, I may speak with Marissa.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Please.
Speaker 6 (03:05):
This is shit.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Hi Marissa, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
She sounds very pleasant.
Speaker 6 (03:11):
Oh my gosh, you're kidding me.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
What's up? How are you?
Speaker 6 (03:14):
Hey? Hi? Hi?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Do you listen to our show?
Speaker 6 (03:20):
Yeah all the time.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Are you wondering why we have your phone number?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
She probably knows very much.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Can you guess what.
Speaker 6 (03:33):
A couple of things I have in mind? I'm hoping
it's maybe not one of them. But what of it?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Second date update?
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Would you mind participating in our second.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Date up date?
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Do you have a couple of minutes?
Speaker 6 (03:46):
Yeah, yeah, I do.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
So there's a guy who gave us your phone number,
so he called his date with you unforgettable. This was
before you ghosted. Hold on, let me did you ghost on? Dylan?
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:02):
Okay, yep, that makes sense. Okay, and he's listening right.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Yes, yes, Dylan, say hello, Dylan.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Hey, Hey, okay, Rinsa.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
We're trying to figure out how to make a love connection.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Let's go right for it. Hey, fully Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I mean it's funny too because you always ask if
they ghosted, and obviously they did.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I mean, I wouldn't be doing this, you mean like
she's gonna say, I'm super busy.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I don't know anyway, Marissa, my guy liked you. So
how was the date for you?
Speaker 6 (04:39):
All? Right, well, listen, you called it was not it was?
It was? It was an.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Experience, Okay, just details.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
You want to start with the good stuff and then
move on to the weird stuff. For how do we
want to do this.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
I mean, look like the place is nice, but like
that's where the good details kind of stop.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Okay, So what happened?
Speaker 6 (05:06):
Well, like, okay, if I'm starting from the beginning, we
start with drink orders, and he orders a vodka froze,
which is not a thing. I've never heard of that,
and then he gets like poudy that they didn't have it.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Okay, yeah, maybe I was bummed that they didn't have it,
but come on, that would have been amazing. I was.
I was trying to keep it fun and you know,
not order something boring.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Well, Dylan, don't you have to have a machine to
make a froze it?
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Anyway?
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Well, Dylan let her let her finish.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Okay, all right, okay, okay, than was that? No?
Speaker 6 (05:49):
No, I kind of looked past that, but it just
keeps getting weirder. So, like we get like part way
through dinner and he has got a selfie stick out
okay that he brought with him, and he starts filming
video of us eating and drinking, and he says it's
for something called first Dates in San Francisco.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Like online.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah, it's like it's like a kicktok series. Look like
that's that's my content, Okay, Like I'm trying to grow
my channel, I'm trying to grow my following. It's kind
of flattering, right. I thought he'd showed that I was
excited to be there, Like I was excited to be there.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
It's the first date still and it's not your time?
Can we can we let the lady finish?
Speaker 5 (06:33):
But I will say this, huh, you need to ask.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Her permission, right, I mean technically okay, Okay, Marissa, was
there anything else?
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Yeah? I mean this is this is the nail in
the coffin on that like everything else. Could have talked
about it maybe, but like we get to the end
and he wants to split it. He wants to split
this is his idea, by the way, like this place
is this whole place is his idea, he asked, And
he's wanting to split the check down the middle, like literally,
(07:04):
like takes up a calculator on his phone and he's
like figuring it out down to the penny, like okay,
like oh, I oh, like something something twenty six and
you owe twenty seven like that much?
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Yeah, down to the change. Look, here's the thing. Equality
should go both ways. Like I'm not made of money.
I still have a lot to do, uh, you know,
money wise, and I figured you'd at least appreciate me
being in front instead of, you know, playing games.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, I could see how this could be off putting.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
That's not upfront, like discussing that the end is not upfront.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Okay, I don't know what to say to this, because
I would at least do the reach for my wallet.
But also, if you invited me and you took me
to a swinky place, I'm kind of gonna assume you're
going to pick up the.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Tab, You're going to still do the fake reach.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
But yeah, I'm totally going to reach for my back.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
All right, Well, let's just cut right to it, Maurissa.
Should we even ask about a second day?
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:56):
No, that was a lot. It was a weird experience.
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