Emma Is Ghosting Paul. Did His Outfit Have Something To Do With It?

Did Paul make big mistake when he opted not to change his outfit for their date?

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's a star one on one three Marcus and Corey
and it is time once again for second date updates.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Why are you not getting that second date exact? We
want to help you in your dating life, So we're
going to get you on the phone. You're going to
tell us about your date, and then we're going to
try and figure out why or how to get the
second date correct.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Let's get Emma on the phone.

Speaker 1 (00:19):
Emma, good morning, Hi, good morning, Hey, welcome.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
We want to talk about this guy, Paul.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
You wrote in your DM that this isn't the first
time you've been ghosted, but the first time you felt
that a guy was worthy to get answers about because
you liked him so much.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
Fair.

Speaker 4 (00:37):
Yeah, that's exactly right. I feel like I finally found
what I think to be like a serious contender for
a partner, you know, like he was just like the
whole package. He seemed like he was seriously wanting to
date me from the very beginning. He was talking about
how intentional he is, which is just rare with men

(00:58):
these days. And yeah, he just said that he wouldn't
even go on a date unless he saw future, so
that immediately kind of excited me.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
Paul has a very high EQ emotional intelligence. It sounds
very mature. Yeah, all right, and.

Speaker 4 (01:13):
He's like a super traditional guy, uh huh, which I
like too, Like I appreciate that. Like he took me
on a real date, you know, like he went to
a dinner and a really cute Italian place in downtown Pleasanton,
and it was just like so amazing. He talked about
his life. He was like opening up, you know, he
talked about his views and how he like centers his

(01:34):
life on faith. It was beautiful, like honestly, and I
felt like, I don't know, we were just kind of
aligned on everything. And you know, he took me home.
He was super respectful. He gave me a kiss on
the cheek, and then I saw that he like waited
outside until I got inside my house to leave, which
you know, just those little things.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
Like that.

Speaker 4 (01:54):
And yeah, like we talked a little bit over text
the next day, but I don't know, it's kind of
become clear to me that he's kind of given me
the brush off.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
All right, Okay, here's what I'm thinking, your thoughts.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
He joins a civilian diving team. That has been enlisted
to search for a lost nuclear submarine and fazes danger
while encountering an alien aquatic species Aliens, No Alien, no Alien.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
The Resurrection. No, it's not an Aliens movie. Oh, I
have no idea. The abyss that was my next guest. No,
it wasn't. Poor Emma, am I. I'm sure he's fine.
I'll tell you what. She's still there. He lost her,
he's complete. He has no idea how to take you.
No one does. It's all right, let's just call Paul.

(02:43):
We're gonna call him and try to figure this out. Okay.
I liked him all the way up to the ghosting
to be fair, Hey, can you hang on the line
for a song, Yeah, definitely, all right, great, we're gonna
call him right after this.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
All right, it's Second Date updates Star one O one three,
what variety from the two thousands, the nineties and today
it's Star one on one three.

Speaker 3 (02:58):
It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing Second Date Update right now.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
And we have been talking with Emma about Paul and
to her point, like days haven't worked out before, but
Paul is worth it.

Speaker 3 (03:08):
That sounds that's the headline. A mature gentleman up until
the point where he ghosted. Some docking points for that,
and are you ready to call him figure out what
happened with the first date?

Speaker 4 (03:17):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (03:18):
Okay, deep breath the mutual phone. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
may speak with Paul. Please.

Speaker 5 (03:31):
This is he.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
Hi Paul, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one to
Win three.

Speaker 4 (03:36):
Hey.

Speaker 5 (03:37):
Hey, I love your show.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
Oh, thank you, thanks man. We appreciate you listening. Do
you listen? You listen to Second Date Update?

Speaker 4 (03:45):
Ever?

Speaker 5 (03:46):
Yeah? For sure, I'm pretty familiar with it.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
Great.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Well that's what we're doing right now. Yeah, and we're
wondering if you wouldn't mind doing it with us.

Speaker 5 (03:54):
Oh okay, yeah, I think I think I know who
this is. Do you have Emma on the line?

Speaker 3 (04:00):
A matter of fact, we do, we do Emma?

Speaker 5 (04:02):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (04:05):
Hi, Hey, okay, So Paul, she really liked you man,
up until the point where you ghosted.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
So what Yeah, how did the date go for you?
I mean, you know why we're here. We're trying to
get her a second date? So what's up?

Speaker 4 (04:22):
So?

Speaker 5 (04:22):
Emma's a really great person and there's nothing like personal
or anything like that. The reason why I didn't kind
of let her. Know what was up was because I
don't want it to sound judgmental or like I'm putting
her down or I think any less of her as
a human being. It's it's just one of those things
that was kind of hard to like particulate without coming

(04:43):
across the wrong way.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
Quit. Okay, okay, can you elaborate.

Speaker 5 (04:49):
Yeah. So one thing is that she has like quite
a few tattoos, and that you know, I don't have
a problem with tattoos, Like I have a couple of
friends that have them, but if the same time, like
for me, my body is my temple and when like
you're getting married to somebody, you're sharing your body with them,
and I just don't see that. It's something that like

(05:11):
I kind of see eye to eye her where, you know,
with with her, and I think I take it pretty seriously.
You know, obviously, like a lot of people have them. Now,
I don't think it's like makes you a bad person
or it's a bad character.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
Sign or anything like that, but it's a cup of tea,
not for you.

Speaker 5 (05:30):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (05:34):
And you know, kind of the other thing was she
told me a little bit about her dating history, and
I think we have different ideas on premarital sext, like
I'm saving myself for marriage, and I don't believe in
like shocking out before marriage either, like living together. So
it's like it's just one of those things. It's nothing personal.
I just wanted somebody that I'm a little bit more

(05:54):
on the same pin with.

Speaker 3 (05:57):
Got it? Okay, Emi, we got some answers. How do
you feel? How are you feeling?

Speaker 4 (06:05):
I mean, look, I'm bummed and and everything, but at
the same time, I understand and like I like I said,
like he was really intentional about you know, who he
was and what he wanted, and so honestly, like I
feel like I can't even be mad, and I do understand.

Speaker 3 (06:23):
Sure, And yeah, no hard feeling.

Speaker 4 (06:25):
So I think he's a great guy.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
This is the nicest, is just gonna say the nicest.

Speaker 3 (06:31):
Not successful. Evolved is the word I was looking for.
You guys are adults. Let's give it up. Wow.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
Well, so okay, it's not going to work out, sorry
to say, but thank you guys for ball again for
being adults.

Speaker 3 (06:47):
Yeah, and can you guys hang on the line.

Speaker 4 (06:50):
Yeah, sure, Thanks