October 30, 2025 • 6 mins
Felix called his date with Dana “a rom-com come to life.” Sushi in Japantown, playful banter, karaoke till closing — pure magic. So why did she disappear?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's
Star one on one three, It's Marcus and it's time
once again for second date update. We've talked about it
for years. You go on a date, you get ghosted,
we will call your date to figure out, Hey, if
you screwed up, b if they've just been busy, or
see what the deal is. And that's why Felix is here. Yeah, yeah, Hi,
(00:21):
good morning. Obviously we want to talk about this date
with this girl, Dana.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Yes, so yes, Now you said.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
You met online. What did you do for the first date?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Oh my god. We went to Japantown, went to the
sushi joint for dinner. Okay, this day was It was amazing.
I love this place is like warm lighting and it
feels like one of those first dates that attributed a movie.
And we talked about travel. She had just been to Japan,
so it's perfect. We like talk embarrassing childhood stories. Anyway,
at one point, you got a put of soft on
(00:54):
her nose and I got my neck and I wiped
it off and she blushed and I actually said out loud,
like total rom com moment. Yeah, and she like smiled,
and I was like, oh my god, this is this
is incredible. So after dinner, we hit a karaoke bar
nearby and we closed the place. We had so much fun.
(01:14):
And I do not say this about dates, but it
felt magical, Like I thought, oh my god, this is
what I've been waiting for. This is the kind of
first date you tell your you know, kids about. But
I'm shocked. She's vanished quite completely.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
I was just talking to my producer Taylor about dating online.
She says it's horrible. So this must have just been
like a cool moment.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I guess, huh, very all right, but I know you
guys help out people. People get ghosted.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
I'll tell you what. We're gonna call her, So let
me play a song, we'll regroup, and then we'll call Dana. Okay,
all right, all right. We'll have you on the line
when we do it, so i'll have you mute out.
But that's happening. Next, it's it's Second Date Update, Star
one one three, poor variety from the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus
Thursday morning. We've got Felix on the phone. We're in
the middle of Second Date Update. I do like your date,
(02:04):
Felix quite a bit. You. So, just to recap, you
all went for sushi in Japantown in San Francisco, and
then karaoke lounge afterwards, and you basically shut the place down.
I get it all right, she has ghosted, so let's
figure it out. You can't think of anything that might
have happened.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
No, I keep playing it over my head because there's
nothing else I can't.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Sure, go ahead and mut your phone. Let's do this right, Oh,
let's hope. Here we go. Hell, Hi, can I talk
to Dana please?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yes? This is her?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Hi, Dana, this is Marcus from Star one one three
in the morning.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Hi. Hey, I've been listening to the second Day Update
for years. I have a feeling I know what this
is about.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Oh my god, somebody just checked your time.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Hi, Hi, So you're good to be on second Date
Update because you know who was holding.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Yeah. I figured if I'd be on this it would
be because of something wild happening. And I have a
story for you.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
So okay, great, gat to be here. Do I bring
Felix on hour later?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Sure you can. I mean, it's totally up to you.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Felix.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Are you there, Bud, Hey, hey man.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Hi. So Felix said you had a great time. This
was the date at the with sushi and then karaoke.
I don't know if you remember, Oh I remember? Okay,
So how did you ghost?
Speaker 3 (03:42):
I mean it was the first date, so I don't
consider it ghosting.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
But yeah, I obviously did not.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
That's like the fourth time I've heard that. So is
it not technically ghosting if it's just one date?
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I personally one date, I don't consider it.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Okay, maybe after I learned things every day, So okay,
let's not call it ghosting. But you're done, Yeah, definitely
all right, So tell us about the date from your perspective.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Well, hi, Felix, I mean, honestly, it started off really great.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Felix.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
You're handsome, you know, you're funny. We had a great conversation,
and then things kind of went downhill. We got karaoke.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
First.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I mean, you definitely got really drunk, like you were
like leaning on the mic stand drunk at karaoke, and
I really was turned off by the fact that you
were snapping at the bartender when you wanted another drink.
I thought that was just so disrespectful, and that was
already bad enough. But then you got up on stage
(04:50):
and you started singing I'll make Love to You by
Boys to Men, and you looked at me in the eye.
It was just so uncomfortable, so cringe. Yes, yes, and
like for a first date. I was just already you
were You're very, very drunk, and then adding that it
was just such a turn off, and I was, yeah,
(05:12):
I just didn't know why he thought that any of
that was.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Okay, the visuals alone, what is going on?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Okay? First of all, yes, I had a few. I
mean you had a couple of drinks too. We were celebrating,
like you were vibing. I was vibing. It's karaoke night,
you know, we had dinner like a party at here.
Let's go, you know, let's have fun.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
When you were on the mic, yeah you were. You
were super bartender.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I was not rude. I was just trying to get
their attention because it's a loud place, there's music playing.
What do you want, Like, am I supposed to yell
at him? I feel like fingers snapping is like more considerate.
I'm not gonna yell.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
I you ever worked in like a restaurant or anything, like,
don't snap at people. I think it's super disrespect. Well,
you can get up and go talk to them. You
don't yell.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
You have to get their tension. That's not really you know.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I just that's the way you treat service people. I
feel like is a is a big tell.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
I mean, I agree, but I feel like I wasn't
rude to them.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
I want to get to the serenade though, because that's
my favor favorite part.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Come on, it was really uns That is absolutely a
classic song for karaoke night, and I was trying to
be funny. I was not being creepy. You cannot Yeah,
I was playing up the song we haven't even kissed yet.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
You can't be singing I'll make love to you. Like
It's just it was such a turn off. I feel
like it was just way too much, too soon.
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's
Star one on one three, It's Marcus and it's time
once again for second date update. We've talked about it
for years. You go on a date, you get ghosted,
we will call your date to figure out, Hey, if
you screwed up, b if they've just been busy, or
see what the deal is. And that's why Felix is here. Yeah, yeah, Hi,
(00:21):
good morning. Obviously we want to talk about this date
with this girl, Dana.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Yes, so yes, Now you said.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
You met online. What did you do for the first date?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Oh my god. We went to Japantown, went to the
sushi joint for dinner. Okay, this day was It was amazing.
I love this place is like warm lighting and it
feels like one of those first dates that attributed a movie.
And we talked about travel. She had just been to Japan,
so it's perfect. We like talk embarrassing childhood stories. Anyway,
at one point, you got a put of soft on
(00:54):
her nose and I got my neck and I wiped
it off and she blushed and I actually said out loud,
like total rom com moment. Yeah, and she like smiled,
and I was like, oh my god, this is this
is incredible. So after dinner, we hit a karaoke bar
nearby and we closed the place. We had so much fun.
(01:14):
And I do not say this about dates, but it
felt magical, Like I thought, oh my god, this is
what I've been waiting for. This is the kind of
first date you tell your you know, kids about. But
I'm shocked. She's vanished quite completely.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
I was just talking to my producer Taylor about dating online.
She says it's horrible. So this must have just been
like a cool moment.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I guess, huh, very all right, but I know you
guys help out people. People get ghosted.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
I'll tell you what. We're gonna call her, So let
me play a song, we'll regroup, and then we'll call Dana. Okay,
all right, all right. We'll have you on the line
when we do it, so i'll have you mute out.
But that's happening. Next, it's it's Second Date Update, Star
one one three, poor variety from the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus
Thursday morning. We've got Felix on the phone. We're in
the middle of Second Date Update. I do like your date,
(02:04):
Felix quite a bit. You. So, just to recap, you
all went for sushi in Japantown in San Francisco, and
then karaoke lounge afterwards, and you basically shut the place down.
I get it all right, she has ghosted, so let's
figure it out. You can't think of anything that might
have happened.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
No, I keep playing it over my head because there's
nothing else I can't.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Sure, go ahead and mut your phone. Let's do this right, Oh,
let's hope. Here we go. Hell, Hi, can I talk
to Dana please?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yes? This is her?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Hi, Dana, this is Marcus from Star one one three
in the morning.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Hi. Hey, I've been listening to the second Day Update
for years. I have a feeling I know what this
is about.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Oh my god, somebody just checked your time.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Hi, Hi, So you're good to be on second Date
Update because you know who was holding.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Yeah. I figured if I'd be on this it would
be because of something wild happening. And I have a
story for you.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
So okay, great, gat to be here. Do I bring
Felix on hour later?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Sure you can. I mean, it's totally up to you.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Felix.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Are you there, Bud, Hey, hey man.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Hi. So Felix said you had a great time. This
was the date at the with sushi and then karaoke.
I don't know if you remember, Oh I remember? Okay,
So how did you ghost?
Speaker 3 (03:42):
I mean it was the first date, so I don't
consider it ghosting.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
But yeah, I obviously did not.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
That's like the fourth time I've heard that. So is
it not technically ghosting if it's just one date?
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I personally one date, I don't consider it.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Okay, maybe after I learned things every day, So okay,
let's not call it ghosting. But you're done, Yeah, definitely
all right, So tell us about the date from your perspective.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Well, hi, Felix, I mean, honestly, it started off really great.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Felix.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
You're handsome, you know, you're funny. We had a great conversation,
and then things kind of went downhill. We got karaoke.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
First.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I mean, you definitely got really drunk, like you were
like leaning on the mic stand drunk at karaoke, and
I really was turned off by the fact that you
were snapping at the bartender when you wanted another drink.
I thought that was just so disrespectful, and that was
already bad enough. But then you got up on stage
(04:50):
and you started singing I'll make Love to You by
Boys to Men, and you looked at me in the eye.
It was just so uncomfortable, so cringe. Yes, yes, and
like for a first date. I was just already you
were You're very, very drunk, and then adding that it
was just such a turn off, and I was, yeah,
(05:12):
I just didn't know why he thought that any of
that was.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Okay, the visuals alone, what is going on?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Okay? First of all, yes, I had a few. I
mean you had a couple of drinks too. We were celebrating,
like you were vibing. I was vibing. It's karaoke night,
you know, we had dinner like a party at here.
Let's go, you know, let's have fun.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
When you were on the mic, yeah you were. You
were super bartender.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I was not rude. I was just trying to get
their attention because it's a loud place, there's music playing.
What do you want, Like, am I supposed to yell
at him? I feel like fingers snapping is like more considerate.
I'm not gonna yell.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
I you ever worked in like a restaurant or anything, like,
don't snap at people. I think it's super disrespect. Well,
you can get up and go talk to them. You
don't yell.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
You have to get their tension. That's not really you know.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I just that's the way you treat service people. I
feel like is a is a big tell.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
I mean, I agree, but I feel like I wasn't
rude to them.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
I want to get to the serenade though, because that's
my favor favorite part.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Come on, it was really uns That is absolutely a
classic song for karaoke night, and I was trying to
be funny. I was not being creepy. You cannot Yeah,
I was playing up the song we haven't even kissed yet.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
You can't be singing I'll make love to you. Like
It's just it was such a turn off. I feel
like it was just way too much, too soon.
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