July 5, 2024 • 8 mins
They actually saw each other twice already? Gary had some great times with Rachel and wants to hang again, but she's making it difficult.
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(00:00):
More variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's star one
on one three. It's back onceagain. Second date update. Here we
go. You go on a firstdate, of course, yes, and
then somebody disappears, right, youdon't hear from the person again, and
we want to get you a seconddate. Usually there's a ghoster and a
ghost e. Sometimes it's a breadcrumb. What does that mean? Sometimes
you get zombied. Bread Crumbing iswhen they leave you just interested enough like
(00:24):
emojis. Yes, sorry, Gary, we're working out your worst nightmare here
live on the air. Our fault. Gary, you there, okay,
okay, let's switch to helpful mode. Corey my bad. Yes, we're
going to try and get you seconddate. We're going to figure out what
the the bugaboo is. So I'mseeing here from the email you actually went
on two dates already I did.Yeah, I mean this awesome girl,
(00:49):
Rachel, we went on two dates. Yeah, we should call this third
data. Third data. So okay, tell us how you guys met,
and then tell us about your day. Sure, saying, by the way,
if I'm laughing, it's just justso it doesn't hurt as much.
So exactly, so Uh. Yeah, yeah, like I said, Uh
(01:14):
went on two dates and honestly Iwould love to go on a third.
The thing is now I'm ghosted afterthe second, which, you know,
weird. So we met on Hingelike you know, so I've been chatting
chatting for about a week and thenasked her out and the first date went
really well. I you know,wanted to kind of go a little little
(01:34):
old school, a little old schooland ask her to, you know,
have a nice picnic because you know, that way we don't get distracted by
Mike you have to watch performance oranything. I don't like, you know,
it's it's fun. Like you know, you start with the with the
food, and then what I normallydo is I bring like a little bottle
of champagne and I'm like, ifit's going really well, I'm like,
hey, I have this bottle ofchampagne too, and you know, I
(01:59):
kind of do a little romantic gesturethat way. Excellent Golden Oh yeah,
we went to Golden Gate Park.It was pretty awesome. Conversation flowed really
easily. Last and then next weekendwe met up again, went to the
Museum of Modern Art in the cityand again super fun time. Laughed at.
(02:20):
You know, they've got some piecesthat are more serious and some that
we didn't quite get, and youknow, got to laugh at those total
vibe and so yeah, I'm justconfused why she's not responding to any of
my texts. I mean I evencalled, I left a voicemail, but
no school. Yeah, check outGary. Gary's trying to make it happen.
I appreciate that. All right,you got to put in the effort.
(02:43):
So here's what we're gonna do.Gary, you're invested. We're gonna
call Rachel and see what she thoughtof the dates. And maybe she's just
maybe she's been busy, who knows, I don't know. But let's give
her a cool Let's play a songand we'll give her a call. We'll
have you meet your phone so youcan listen in. Okay, okay,
all right, that's next Second dateupdates Star one on one three more variety
from the two thousands of the ninetiesand today it's Star one on one three.
(03:06):
It's Marcus and Corey. We're inthe middle of second date update.
We've been talking to Gary. Thisis actually third date update for him.
Yes, Gary has gotten past thegauntlet of the second date, and now
now Rachel has disappeared. Did Iget that right? Gary? Yeah,
I'm sorry. Sucks when I sayit out loud. All right, you're
your phone. Let's call her andsee what's up. Okay, all right,
(03:27):
here we go. Hello, Hi, Mak speak with Rachel. Please.
Well, this is hi Rachel.It's Marcus and Corey from Star one
one three Rachel. H huh uhoh that was very inspected. Gadget of
you. That's very weird. Yeah, I know what it was about.
(03:52):
You do great? This would beeasy, Gary, Gary again, I
can go home. She can fillin for me. Rachel. So you're
familiar with second date update, I'mguessing I am very familiar. I really
enjoy listening to it usually, whatif you're the star? Are you okay?
(04:12):
Yeah, it's it's fine, Gary, yep. Hello, Hey there,
Hi, Hi Rachel. So Gary'stelling us you guys got to date
number three almost almost? Well,yeah, we went on two dates.
Did something go wrong? So he'sfeeling ghosted. So I'm just being honest
(04:36):
and I get it, and I'mreally sorry. I'm just really bad with
confrontation and I wasn't exactly sure howto bring this up. So. Yeah,
So on our first date, thepicnic date, I thought that was
a wonderful idea. You know,I don't get invited to picnics very often.
Sure, but the way I wasraised, you only wear sweatpants at
(04:58):
home or in the gym. AndGary showed up to picnic in sweatpants.
Okay, well, it's a it'sa picnic. I mean, I think
it can be casual for me.Were they those cool twenty twenty three sweatpants
or did he just look like hegot kicked out of seventh grade jim Ball
gym class jimbos? Quite honestly,to me, it just looked like he
had like rolled out of that.And even though the picnic itself was very
(05:21):
planned, I don't know, itjust it just made me feel like he
didn't put as much care into it, Okay, as in my mind you
should when it's a first date.You know, like, this is the
first time we're seeing each other inperson. But you gave him a pass
because you mean, I gave hima pass because he's attractive. Okay,
don't get me wrong. He lookslike his pictures. He's a very attractive
(05:45):
man, and you know, he'spretty funny so I figured, you know
what, maybe he just thought picnic. He didn't want to get like his
nice clothes dirty. Okay, Okay, I feel that. I get that.
You know, even though it wasthe first time we're seeing each other,
I gave him a path to that. However, Okay, our second
date at the museum, right themuseum, right right, she wore sweatpants.
(06:06):
Again. Were they the same onesor different ones? They looked like
the same ones. I mean,so by that moment in time, I'm
sorry, but it's like, youknow, he got a pass for sweatpants
at the park, but sweatpants atthe museum. I mean I was dressed
pretty nicely. You know, Ihad a cute little dress on, you
(06:29):
know, little shawl. I hadsome heels on carrim walking around this museum,
I mean yeah, from of thepieces of art we had little conversations
about and laughed about. But partof it I was almost laughing at his
pants. And I mean, Iknow that sound petty and like a horrible
person, but come on, okay, Gary, you've lost me sweatpants for
(06:51):
two dates. What's the deal.Well, I'll say, uh, they're
comfortable. I first want to sayI'm sorry, but those. I do
like to be comfortable, especially whenin public, when I'm you know,
in nervous situations, like, yeah, I wear them every day? So
(07:15):
what who really? I mean,who really cares about clothes? Right,
It's more about the personality connection Racheldoes. I'm sorry, And again maybe
this makes me a petty, horribleperson that I care about clothes. I
care about appearance. You know,if we're out together, I don't want
to look like a million dollars.Well you look like you know, you
went to you know, the store, like the corner store for some milk.
(07:39):
That just doesn't work for me.I mean, now that we've got
some self awareness here, Gary,can you buy some jeans or something?
I mean, look, if Ihad to go somewhere nice, yeah I
get a nice pair of pants,like if the occasion came up. But
this situation just hasn't come up,and I don't know if I don't know
when it will. You don't thinkgoing to museum is occasion to like buy
(08:03):
jeans or pants? Not? Imean, no, it's a museum.
Gary. You're a really nice guyand yet you are hot. But I'm
sorry, that just isn't for me. I just don't think we work out
as a couple,
More variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's star one
on one three. It's back onceagain. Second date update. Here we
go. You go on a firstdate, of course, yes, and
then somebody disappears, right, youdon't hear from the person again, and
we want to get you a seconddate. Usually there's a ghoster and a
ghost e. Sometimes it's a breadcrumb. What does that mean? Sometimes
you get zombied. Bread Crumbing iswhen they leave you just interested enough like
(00:24):
emojis. Yes, sorry, Gary, we're working out your worst nightmare here
live on the air. Our fault. Gary, you there, okay,
okay, let's switch to helpful mode. Corey my bad. Yes, we're
going to try and get you seconddate. We're going to figure out what
the the bugaboo is. So I'mseeing here from the email you actually went
on two dates already I did.Yeah, I mean this awesome girl,
(00:49):
Rachel, we went on two dates. Yeah, we should call this third
data. Third data. So okay, tell us how you guys met,
and then tell us about your day. Sure, saying, by the way,
if I'm laughing, it's just justso it doesn't hurt as much.
So exactly, so Uh. Yeah, yeah, like I said, Uh
(01:14):
went on two dates and honestly Iwould love to go on a third.
The thing is now I'm ghosted afterthe second, which, you know,
weird. So we met on Hingelike you know, so I've been chatting
chatting for about a week and thenasked her out and the first date went
really well. I you know,wanted to kind of go a little little
(01:34):
old school, a little old schooland ask her to, you know,
have a nice picnic because you know, that way we don't get distracted by
Mike you have to watch performance oranything. I don't like, you know,
it's it's fun. Like you know, you start with the with the
food, and then what I normallydo is I bring like a little bottle
of champagne and I'm like, ifit's going really well, I'm like,
hey, I have this bottle ofchampagne too, and you know, I
(01:59):
kind of do a little romantic gesturethat way. Excellent Golden Oh yeah,
we went to Golden Gate Park.It was pretty awesome. Conversation flowed really
easily. Last and then next weekendwe met up again, went to the
Museum of Modern Art in the cityand again super fun time. Laughed at.
(02:20):
You know, they've got some piecesthat are more serious and some that
we didn't quite get, and youknow, got to laugh at those total
vibe and so yeah, I'm justconfused why she's not responding to any of
my texts. I mean I evencalled, I left a voicemail, but
no school. Yeah, check outGary. Gary's trying to make it happen.
I appreciate that. All right,you got to put in the effort.
(02:43):
So here's what we're gonna do.Gary, you're invested. We're gonna
call Rachel and see what she thoughtof the dates. And maybe she's just
maybe she's been busy, who knows, I don't know. But let's give
her a cool Let's play a songand we'll give her a call. We'll
have you meet your phone so youcan listen in. Okay, okay,
all right, that's next Second dateupdates Star one on one three more variety
from the two thousands of the ninetiesand today it's Star one on one three.
(03:06):
It's Marcus and Corey. We're inthe middle of second date update.
We've been talking to Gary. Thisis actually third date update for him.
Yes, Gary has gotten past thegauntlet of the second date, and now
now Rachel has disappeared. Did Iget that right? Gary? Yeah,
I'm sorry. Sucks when I sayit out loud. All right, you're
your phone. Let's call her andsee what's up. Okay, all right,
(03:27):
here we go. Hello, Hi, Mak speak with Rachel. Please.
Well, this is hi Rachel.It's Marcus and Corey from Star one
one three Rachel. H huh uhoh that was very inspected. Gadget of
you. That's very weird. Yeah, I know what it was about.
(03:52):
You do great? This would beeasy, Gary, Gary again, I
can go home. She can fillin for me. Rachel. So you're
familiar with second date update, I'mguessing I am very familiar. I really
enjoy listening to it usually, whatif you're the star? Are you okay?
(04:12):
Yeah, it's it's fine, Gary, yep. Hello, Hey there,
Hi, Hi Rachel. So Gary'stelling us you guys got to date
number three almost almost? Well,yeah, we went on two dates.
Did something go wrong? So he'sfeeling ghosted. So I'm just being honest
(04:36):
and I get it, and I'mreally sorry. I'm just really bad with
confrontation and I wasn't exactly sure howto bring this up. So. Yeah,
So on our first date, thepicnic date, I thought that was
a wonderful idea. You know,I don't get invited to picnics very often.
Sure, but the way I wasraised, you only wear sweatpants at
(04:58):
home or in the gym. AndGary showed up to picnic in sweatpants.
Okay, well, it's a it'sa picnic. I mean, I think
it can be casual for me.Were they those cool twenty twenty three sweatpants
or did he just look like hegot kicked out of seventh grade jim Ball
gym class jimbos? Quite honestly,to me, it just looked like he
had like rolled out of that.And even though the picnic itself was very
(05:21):
planned, I don't know, itjust it just made me feel like he
didn't put as much care into it, Okay, as in my mind you
should when it's a first date.You know, like, this is the
first time we're seeing each other inperson. But you gave him a pass
because you mean, I gave hima pass because he's attractive. Okay,
don't get me wrong. He lookslike his pictures. He's a very attractive
(05:45):
man, and you know, he'spretty funny so I figured, you know
what, maybe he just thought picnic. He didn't want to get like his
nice clothes dirty. Okay, Okay, I feel that. I get that.
You know, even though it wasthe first time we're seeing each other,
I gave him a path to that. However, Okay, our second
date at the museum, right themuseum, right right, she wore sweatpants.
(06:06):
Again. Were they the same onesor different ones? They looked like
the same ones. I mean,so by that moment in time, I'm
sorry, but it's like, youknow, he got a pass for sweatpants
at the park, but sweatpants atthe museum. I mean I was dressed
pretty nicely. You know, Ihad a cute little dress on, you
(06:29):
know, little shawl. I hadsome heels on carrim walking around this museum,
I mean yeah, from of thepieces of art we had little conversations
about and laughed about. But partof it I was almost laughing at his
pants. And I mean, Iknow that sound petty and like a horrible
person, but come on, okay, Gary, you've lost me sweatpants for
(06:51):
two dates. What's the deal.Well, I'll say, uh, they're
comfortable. I first want to sayI'm sorry, but those. I do
like to be comfortable, especially whenin public, when I'm you know,
in nervous situations, like, yeah, I wear them every day? So
(07:15):
what who really? I mean,who really cares about clothes? Right,
It's more about the personality connection Racheldoes. I'm sorry, And again maybe
this makes me a petty, horribleperson that I care about clothes. I
care about appearance. You know,if we're out together, I don't want
to look like a million dollars.Well you look like you know, you
went to you know, the store, like the corner store for some milk.
(07:39):
That just doesn't work for me.I mean, now that we've got
some self awareness here, Gary,can you buy some jeans or something?
I mean, look, if Ihad to go somewhere nice, yeah I
get a nice pair of pants,like if the occasion came up. But
this situation just hasn't come up,and I don't know if I don't know
when it will. You don't thinkgoing to museum is occasion to like buy
(08:03):
jeans or pants? Not? Imean, no, it's a museum.
Gary. You're a really nice guyand yet you are hot. But I'm
sorry, that just isn't for me. I just don't think we work out
as a couple,
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