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More variety from the two thousands thannineties. In today, it's Star one,
one three, It's Marcus and Corey, and it's back y'all. Second
date update. Here we go.We want to find out how your first
date went and why you think you'renot getting a second date, so we
can try and maybe get the seconddate for you. That wasn't confusing at
all. It wasn't. No.Okay, did go on a first date?
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Somebody goes, oh, no,I got it. You want to
know why. Here's what happened.You meet somebody, Wow, you go
on a date, still going.Maybe something happens and you don't hear from
again. We figure it out.This is great. Grant is falling asleep.
Grant, are you there? Yeah? So okay, sure you understand
how this works barely. Grant hasbeen on a date with Hailey. He
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can't get her to agree to committo another date. That's kind of what
I got from your email. Isthat right? But tell us how you
guys met first of all, andthen run us through the first date.
Yeah, that's right. So wemet on a dating app that I guaranteed
no one here has heard of.Okay, so we're both vegans, and
we met on an app called Grazer. Oh my god, that's a thing.
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That's great. It's a it's adating app for vegans, specifically made
for vegans. There's a dating appfor everybody, farmers. Is it hard
to date if you're a vegan?I guess so. I guess it would
be. I think it's hard todate if you're anybody. That's true.
That's true too. Yeah, youknow, being vegan actually dating is pretty
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tough. Just trying to figure out, you know, someone who has the
same pace as you. Um,it just made that makes it a lot
easier. Sure. And I alsothink their slogan is really funny. It's
more leaf no beef. I likeit. But you know what, why
not? Why not? Okay?So yeah, we met on we met
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on Grazier. We went on ouron a date to the Vegan butcher Shop
in Berkeley for lunch and yeah,everything, I thought. Everything was fine.
You know, there were no lullsin the conversation. Uh, you
know, I made her laugh acouple of times. We're you know,
we're making each other laugh, feedingoff of each other, and you know,
we hugged at the end of theday, so you know, I
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thought everything was cool, but sincethat date, the de texting is really
cooled off it. You know,she hasn't really ghosted me per se,
but she definitely it doesn't seem whatshe's interested in going on a second date.
Okay, I'm just from the waythat we've been texting, and I
just want to figure out what happened. Maybe she started eating meat? Stop
it? That's offensive? Is it? Yes? How is it offensive?
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Sorry? Grant, I'm sorry aboutmy friend. Just kidding. Sorry.
Okay, so well, let's justcall her. Okay, let's just regroup.
Let's give her a shout and seehow she thought the date win.
Can you hang on for a second, yes, sir, Okay, We're
gonna call Haley Red after this.It's Second Date Updates Star one O one
three more variety from the two thousandsof the nineties and today it's Star one
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on one three. It's Marcus andCorey. We're doing Second Date Update.
We're talking to Grant and I learnedsomething today. I learned about dating app
for vegans called Grazer. There isan app for everybody. Tell you what
Grant? What was their slogan again? More leaf, no beef. That's
what I'm talking about. That's clever. It's like farmers only dot com,
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plant based and in your face ourtime dot com? Yeah, why not?
So anyway, Ashley Madison dot com. No, that's that's a bridge
too far. So grant you guyswent to the butcher shop there in in
Berkeley. I can't remember the name, but it's a vegan butcher shop.
Yeah, okay, and it wentall right according to you, right yeahem
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do you go really well? Okay, hug And she's just are you guys
still communicating? Yeah, it's it'swe're it's pretty lights in terms of texting.
You know, we don't call.It's just been mostly texts, and
it feels like it takes a reallylong time to get back to me on
anything. All right, well,let's call her and see what she thought
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of the date. Hang on onesecond, Oh, mute your phone so
she doesn't know you're there. Herewe go, Hello, Hi, missed
week with Haley? Please? Thisis she who's calling? Hi, Haley.
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It's Marcus and Corey from star WinI Win three. Hello. What's
that? It's a radio station inthe Bay Area and we do a morning
show. I'm taking it. Youdon't listen. I'm sorry. I can't
say that I listened. I'm sosorry. Oh well you should because it's
a fantastic time. I will takeyour word for it. So, Haley,
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the reason we're calling you is wegot your number from someone you recently
went on a date with. Ihope you don't mind that we're calling.
And would you be willing to talkwith us on the air? I guess
that depends on who was it?Fair question? That is a fair question.
So we want to ask you aboutyour date with Grant. Are you
comfortable to discuss o? He hewould love to take you out again.
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He's you know, he thought youguys were a pretty good match. He's
trying to figure out maybe what hedid wrong because he's feeling like he's not
feeling ghosted, but he's feeling You'relike, you're like, you're not committal
on a second cooled off? Sowhat's happening? That's fair, that's fair,
you know what? I Okay,I will talk about it. Okay,
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thank you? Sure? Yeah,So tell us tell us how the
date went. Yeah? So,um, the date went surely well.
In the beginning, the food atthe butcher's shop was great, Um,
we did have some really good conversation, which you know, I feel is
pretty difficult on the first date.You know, surely the nerves get involved.
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Um. But at the end oflunch, um Grant said that he
forgot his wallet and there is thisjust really awkward momentum when he realized he
had no money and I had topay for lunch. And I'm totally fine
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with like equality, you know,like I go datcha all the time.
You know, I do not expectmen to pay for me. But I
have been burned so often by guyswho and and this sounds switched right,
like usually it's the woman like tryingto quote unquote get the free mail.
But for some reason in this area, I feel like that happens to me
all the time, with like theguys trying to get a free mail.
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Oh so you think he didn't bringhis well in on purpose. I've just
been burned so many times. Maybethat wasn't even you know, the situation,
but you know, it's that traumathat just gets triggered. Yeah,
and it just really left a badtaste in my mouth, like overcits broccoli.
You know, sorry, I'm sojoke. That was that was a
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bad Ugan joke. Okay, soGrant is listening right now, he's on
the line with us. We're tryingto use this as sorry as well.
Thank you, Grant. Yeah,so did you are you trying to get
a free meal? No? Notnot at all. I I apologize for
that, you know, I'm I'mreally sorry. I I was super nervous
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about making an impression, just likea good first impression for you. Um,
I walked out the door and Ijust forgot my wallet. It truly
was. I was not trying toget a free meal. I wasn't trying
to get anything out of you.I just I just walked up the door
without my wallet. I'm really embarrassedabout it. So, Hayley, what
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if we try again and Grant paysfor sure? I mean, was it
not have to worry about anything forthe second day? I mean, yeah,
I will make it up to youin any way I can if you
want to go back out. Hesounds sincere to me. I mean,
you know, this happens unfortunately tome a lot. You know, UM
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my trauma and probably just got triggered. You know, I'm sorry for that,
Grant. Uh yeah, you know, Um, let's try again.
Can I do it? Can Ido it? Hold on you, guys,
Corey's got her cowbell out out.Yes, when we are sorry.
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We all do that when we geta win. So if we get a
win, the cowbell comes out atany rate. It's pretty dusty. I'm
excited for both of you. MoreLeaf and no beef. Can't wait?
Uh tell you about that? Hedid? He did tell me the greatest
slogan for a dating it all time. Okay, we'll have fun you guys.
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You guys are great. Thank you? How cute are they? So
very exciting? Cowbell and all.I love the cowboy. I love a win.