April 21, 2025 • 6 mins
Indy and Scott actually go on two dates. Why is he ghosting? Was she too needy?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's a star one on one three. It's Marcus and
Corey doing second Date update again. It's back from the weekend.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We just want to help, that's what we're here for.
You know, we haven't been on the dating scene in forever,
so we're the perfect people to help you with your love.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Life obvious experts. Indy is on the phone contemplating her
life decision to call in the show today. Hello, Indy,
how are you?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
I'm good? How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
That is a very interesting name. Is that short for Indiana?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Uh No, it's just Indy, just Indy.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Just all I think about is what's that life? We
named the dog Indiana.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
From Come on down to me somebody? Is that your
best John Connery?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Yes, actually it was, thank you. So anyway, Indy, let's
talk about Scott. How did you guys meet or what's
your story?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Well, you know, Scott and I we we've been on
two dates. Oh, pretty quickly, okay, it kind of honestly
just felt like very natural and like, you know, we
were already dating. You know, there was a lot of
effort put in on my end, which you know, no problem.
I'm doing a lot of you know, girlfriend kind of things,
(01:09):
and I would check in on him, listen to him
when he needed someone to listen. I supported him, you know.
I took care of him what any woman should do.
I even made his favorite meal and dropped it off
to him one day. And I don't know how we
got like to that level, and things were going so well,
and then all of a sudden, like he just dropped
(01:29):
off the face of the earth.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
You sounds very thoughtful.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah, I like someone I'm thoughtful.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
Okay, here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Please.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
Okay. So he's at an old school arcade, right.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Okay, and he went high scores in Alameda, Yes, thank you.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
He wins the high score in a game and the
game is actually secretly a simulation test.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
And so he's recruited by an alien defense force to
fight in an interstellar war.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
You really went all in on this one.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Is there a parallel dimension involved?
Speaker 5 (02:04):
No?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Okay, just headed to space?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Is he okay?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Sure he's fighting in the war.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I feel like that's something my mom would believe, but.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
I don't know. She just called me.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
I'll tell you what. Why don't we just call him
make sure he's still with us.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Yeah, hopefully he's got a signal.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Indy, can you hang on the line. Absolutely all right,
we're gonna We're gonna call Scott right after this. It's
a Second Date Update Star one to one three more
variety from the two thousands of the nineties and today
Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing
Second Date Update. We've got Indy on the phone. She
was telling us about Scott. Yes, this feels a little
fast tracked to me. I'm not gonna lie, but she
(02:45):
seems also very thoughtful. You guys have actually been on
two dates, Is that right, Indy? Yeah, she's doing.
Speaker 6 (02:50):
A lot of she's checking in on him, she's bringing
him food, and he has disappeared like gone, gone, Let's
see what's up, you know the drill.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Go ahead and mute your phone. We're gonna call him
and see what the deal is. Okay, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Hello, I may speak with Scott. Please.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
This is Scott.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Hi, Scott, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one oh
and three.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Good morning Scott. Hi, Hi, do you listen to our
radio show?
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Uh? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Are you familiar with Second Date Update?
Speaker 5 (03:37):
I love second date update?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Great, yay, do you want to be on second date?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Up?
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (03:42):
Wait a second, wait wait, wait, no, I know how
this goes. Wait you're calling me about Oh yes, damn, okay,
all right, bring it on.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Have you been on a date recently?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Yeah, I've been on a couple, but yeah, we'd like.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
To talk to you about it.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Indy is on the phone. Yes, all right, I her words,
but you have fallen off the face of the earth
after a couple of dates, So what's really going on?
Speaker 7 (04:10):
I feel like an ass, like honestly, but like I
couldn't do it. She tells you went on two dates,
right right? Are you guys married?
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Not to each other?
Speaker 7 (04:23):
And then how many dates did you go on before
like you started acting like you were married with your partner.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Well, we moved in together after three dates, so we're
not a good example.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
We didn't move in together until at least after a year.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
The point is is that she was acting like she
was trying to move in man after two dates, and
I just I couldn't do it. So we go on
two dates like it's nice, We get drinks, like, we
have good conversation, we talk about our families, we have
things in common. She's the great girl India. I'm sorry,
but like she just trans formed like really fast, Like
(05:02):
she went from like somebody that, like I was interested,
into somebody who was suddenly like taking over in a
way that I didn't understand.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
So you got spooked.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
But let's let's give Indy a chance to speak.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
Do you know that you cooked me a full meal,
like a three course meal and brought it to my house.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
I like to cook. I like the bake, but I
like you.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Okay, So basically, Scott, you're saying she moved too fast.
Speaker 7 (05:29):
Yeah, I think a sweater in April is pretty fast.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Like what does that mean you'll do that?
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Were you up all night knitting me a sweater?
Speaker 7 (05:35):
She knitted a sweater and a scarf.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
That's I hear it here.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
It's just moving way too fast for you.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
Yes, yeah, yeah, like just wanting to like just nest
or something, and I'm just like I need a little
bit of space.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Okay, So let's distill it down. So so Indy, can
you pump the brakes a little bit here?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
I mean I just thought even appreciate how thoughtful I am.
Speaker 7 (05:59):
Like if you don't get
Speaker 3 (06:00):
That, and you're just not the right one for me,
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's a star one on one three. It's Marcus and
Corey doing second Date update again. It's back from the weekend.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We just want to help, that's what we're here for.
You know, we haven't been on the dating scene in forever,
so we're the perfect people to help you with your love.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Life obvious experts. Indy is on the phone contemplating her
life decision to call in the show today. Hello, Indy,
how are you?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
I'm good? How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
That is a very interesting name. Is that short for Indiana?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Uh No, it's just Indy, just Indy.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Just all I think about is what's that life? We
named the dog Indiana.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
From Come on down to me somebody? Is that your
best John Connery?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Yes, actually it was, thank you. So anyway, Indy, let's
talk about Scott. How did you guys meet or what's
your story?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Well, you know, Scott and I we we've been on
two dates. Oh, pretty quickly, okay, it kind of honestly
just felt like very natural and like, you know, we
were already dating. You know, there was a lot of
effort put in on my end, which you know, no problem.
I'm doing a lot of you know, girlfriend kind of things,
(01:09):
and I would check in on him, listen to him
when he needed someone to listen. I supported him, you know.
I took care of him what any woman should do.
I even made his favorite meal and dropped it off
to him one day. And I don't know how we
got like to that level, and things were going so well,
and then all of a sudden, like he just dropped
(01:29):
off the face of the earth.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
You sounds very thoughtful.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah, I like someone I'm thoughtful.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
Okay, here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Please.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
Okay. So he's at an old school arcade, right.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Okay, and he went high scores in Alameda, Yes, thank you.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
He wins the high score in a game and the
game is actually secretly a simulation test.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
And so he's recruited by an alien defense force to
fight in an interstellar war.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
You really went all in on this one.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Is there a parallel dimension involved?
Speaker 5 (02:04):
No?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Okay, just headed to space?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Is he okay?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Sure he's fighting in the war.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I feel like that's something my mom would believe, but.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
I don't know. She just called me.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
I'll tell you what. Why don't we just call him
make sure he's still with us.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Yeah, hopefully he's got a signal.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Indy, can you hang on the line. Absolutely all right,
we're gonna We're gonna call Scott right after this. It's
a Second Date Update Star one to one three more
variety from the two thousands of the nineties and today
Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing
Second Date Update. We've got Indy on the phone. She
was telling us about Scott. Yes, this feels a little
fast tracked to me. I'm not gonna lie, but she
(02:45):
seems also very thoughtful. You guys have actually been on
two dates, Is that right, Indy? Yeah, she's doing.
Speaker 6 (02:50):
A lot of she's checking in on him, she's bringing
him food, and he has disappeared like gone, gone, Let's
see what's up, you know the drill.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Go ahead and mute your phone. We're gonna call him
and see what the deal is. Okay, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Hello, I may speak with Scott. Please.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
This is Scott.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Hi, Scott, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one oh
and three.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Good morning Scott. Hi, Hi, do you listen to our
radio show?
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Uh? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Are you familiar with Second Date Update?
Speaker 5 (03:37):
I love second date update?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Great, yay, do you want to be on second date?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Up?
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (03:42):
Wait a second, wait wait, wait, no, I know how
this goes. Wait you're calling me about Oh yes, damn, okay,
all right, bring it on.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Have you been on a date recently?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Yeah, I've been on a couple, but yeah, we'd like.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
To talk to you about it.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Indy is on the phone. Yes, all right, I her words,
but you have fallen off the face of the earth
after a couple of dates, So what's really going on?
Speaker 7 (04:10):
I feel like an ass, like honestly, but like I
couldn't do it. She tells you went on two dates,
right right? Are you guys married?
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Not to each other?
Speaker 7 (04:23):
And then how many dates did you go on before
like you started acting like you were married with your partner.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Well, we moved in together after three dates, so we're
not a good example.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
We didn't move in together until at least after a year.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
The point is is that she was acting like she
was trying to move in man after two dates, and
I just I couldn't do it. So we go on
two dates like it's nice, We get drinks, like, we
have good conversation, we talk about our families, we have
things in common. She's the great girl India. I'm sorry,
but like she just trans formed like really fast, Like
(05:02):
she went from like somebody that, like I was interested,
into somebody who was suddenly like taking over in a
way that I didn't understand.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
So you got spooked.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
But let's let's give Indy a chance to speak.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
Do you know that you cooked me a full meal,
like a three course meal and brought it to my house.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
I like to cook. I like the bake, but I
like you.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Okay, So basically, Scott, you're saying she moved too fast.
Speaker 7 (05:29):
Yeah, I think a sweater in April is pretty fast.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Like what does that mean you'll do that?
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Were you up all night knitting me a sweater?
Speaker 7 (05:35):
She knitted a sweater and a scarf.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
That's I hear it here.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
It's just moving way too fast for you.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
Yes, yeah, yeah, like just wanting to like just nest
or something, and I'm just like I need a little
bit of space.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Okay, So let's distill it down. So so Indy, can
you pump the brakes a little bit here?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
I mean I just thought even appreciate how thoughtful I am.
Speaker 7 (05:59):
Like if you don't get
Speaker 3 (06:00):
That, and you're just not the right one for me,
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