October 27, 2025 • 6 mins
Jared met Cassie online and went for drinks at a rooftop bar. They swapped travel stories and cracked up over cringey dating profiles. The vibe was fun enough that they stayed for dessert. Jared left thinking date number two was a sure thing. Then… silence. Now he’s wondering what happened.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's
Star one on one three, it is Marcus. It is Thursday,
good morning, it is time for second date update. Y'all
already know how it works. We've done it for almost
a decade. But so you've been on a first date,
you've been ghosted. We call your date because you've probably
called them a few times, and then we try to
(00:20):
ask them how the date went, Why did they ghost?
Did they ghost at all? Was it a misunderstanding? Jared
is holding hoping for a misunderstanding. I'm sure, Jared? Are
you there? Yeah, Hey, I want to talk about Cassie.
So let's talk about A how.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Did you meet?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
And then B what did you do on your date?
Because I understand she's ghosted and let's try to figure
this out.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Yeah. So we met online and that was, you know, great.
We just started off texting and then eventually we met
and I felt like things were going good. And then
you know, we had this like rooftop kind of drinks
date thing that was going on. And I think the
(01:03):
looftop drinks were easy. I mean, we talked about traveling,
we laughed, we talked about bad dating profiles, like, like
I could give you a few examples. Oh god, please
venom me for good vibes, And so she had some too,
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, there was one that she mentioned.
She it was, if you can't handle me at my
(01:26):
gym selfies, you don't deserve me at brunch.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Wow. Now, let me ask you she was as engaging
in person as she was like on text or online,
because I know, sometimes, like you meet somebody in person,
all of a sudden, it just kind of falls flat,
like you feel like you've been texting with AI or something.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Yeah yeah, and this wasn't the case. Like we were
just having fun, lapping about the profiles, having great drinks,
and I thought that was great, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Okay, and she has ghosted sense yeah yeah, just hear
it out. Well, like I said, we're gonna call her,
so we'll have you mute your phone and then we'll
try to figure it out. Okay, okay, all right, we'll
do it. Next. Second Date Update Star one oh one
three variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one oh one three. It's Marcus. We're in
(02:15):
the middle of Second Date Update. I've got Jared on
the phone and I feel like there has been a
just a glut of rooftop first dates only because the
weather's been so nice. Jared, it doesn't even feel like
October right now. I mean Halloween is what like a
week away. It was eighty degrees on Monday, you know
what I mean?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Yeah, yeah, I was on that. I like that.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
He's in position ready to go. So you guys had
drinks and everything went cool. She's ghosted. Let's call her
and figure some things out. Go ahead and go back
on mute. Okay, Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Cassie.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
That's me.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
My name is Marcus. I do a Hi So I
do a morning radio show here in the Bay, and
I know who you are. I O hey, it's Star
one on one three. I'm wondering if you have a
second to chat on the air. Okay, so we're doing
second date up date right now? No, yes, a minute.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I know who you're talking about too. So a baller
move on his part for Colin.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I don't know if that's good or bad.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Jared, right, it is. I know it because he loves
your show, jaredy either.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Wow, Okay, so let's let's seat it out.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Let's adult for a second. I mean Jessey, you know
how it works. Yeah, Jared liked you. He liked you.
He did so I know I did too.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
But stuff was weird.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Okay, what happened? Did you ghost?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
I did?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I mean, I.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Flat out okay, Sorry, I just can't like you. Literal
pet peeves were happening, and I just.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Can't What did he do?
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
You corrected the bartender not once, but twice about the
pronunciation of negroni, And honestly, I think she had a
little bit of a plang to her voice, so I
think she was pronouncing it correctly, but like it just
I don't know. That's like a big pet.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Peeve of mine.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Well, sidebar, how are you supposed to pronounce ngroni nigroni?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
It's nicgronie. She said, nigronie. Like that's awful, it's disrespectful.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
It's the same thing, literally, ronie, not nigronie.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Negronie. No. Wow.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Yeah, see, okay, but now now you're hearing it. Also,
you have a date cards, man, you had date cards,
like date cards, things written down of like just like
notes to himself.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Well, nobody just goes out and doesn't know what they're doing.
I mean, everybody's got to do some sort of study
and before they go out to the real test, you know.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah, but you had notes about me e since we
talked about online. That was just so weird.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
I mean it made me feel like a compliment. I mean,
I put an extra effort to know you.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
No, it just felt like a job application. Yeah, Like
I just felt like you were interviewing me to be
your future girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Isn't that what we were doing?
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Yeah, but that's kind of.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
That's what it is.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
And it shouldn't feel like a job. No, but it
shouldn't feel like a job interview. I mean, honestly, some
of the questions that you were asking just felt so
like you read a book about dating. Where do you
see yourself in five years?
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Like no, come on, okay, so that's like a hard note,
Like no second date? No, no, all right, hang on, Yeah,
that's not happening. It's Second Date update seven oh five
weekday mornings. Your replays it nine oh five. You've got
the podcast, which is now being updated daily on the
iHeartRadio app. You can set a pre set for that.
(06:10):
On the way, don't forget. We've got more tickets for
the Disneyland resort. I'm just gonna keep reminding you, so
be on this man. It's a four pack, it's seven
thirty five star one on one, three
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's
Star one on one three, it is Marcus. It is Thursday,
good morning, it is time for second date update. Y'all
already know how it works. We've done it for almost
a decade. But so you've been on a first date,
you've been ghosted. We call your date because you've probably
called them a few times, and then we try to
(00:20):
ask them how the date went, Why did they ghost?
Did they ghost at all? Was it a misunderstanding? Jared
is holding hoping for a misunderstanding. I'm sure, Jared? Are
you there? Yeah, Hey, I want to talk about Cassie.
So let's talk about A how.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Did you meet?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
And then B what did you do on your date?
Because I understand she's ghosted and let's try to figure
this out.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Yeah. So we met online and that was, you know, great.
We just started off texting and then eventually we met
and I felt like things were going good. And then
you know, we had this like rooftop kind of drinks
date thing that was going on. And I think the
(01:03):
looftop drinks were easy. I mean, we talked about traveling,
we laughed, we talked about bad dating profiles, like, like
I could give you a few examples. Oh god, please
venom me for good vibes, And so she had some too,
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, there was one that she mentioned.
She it was, if you can't handle me at my
(01:26):
gym selfies, you don't deserve me at brunch.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Wow. Now, let me ask you she was as engaging
in person as she was like on text or online,
because I know, sometimes, like you meet somebody in person,
all of a sudden, it just kind of falls flat,
like you feel like you've been texting with AI or something.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Yeah yeah, and this wasn't the case. Like we were
just having fun, lapping about the profiles, having great drinks,
and I thought that was great, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Okay, and she has ghosted sense yeah yeah, just hear
it out. Well, like I said, we're gonna call her,
so we'll have you mute your phone and then we'll
try to figure it out. Okay, okay, all right, we'll
do it. Next. Second Date Update Star one oh one
three variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one oh one three. It's Marcus. We're in
(02:15):
the middle of Second Date Update. I've got Jared on
the phone and I feel like there has been a
just a glut of rooftop first dates only because the
weather's been so nice. Jared, it doesn't even feel like
October right now. I mean Halloween is what like a
week away. It was eighty degrees on Monday, you know
what I mean?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Yeah, yeah, I was on that. I like that.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
He's in position ready to go. So you guys had
drinks and everything went cool. She's ghosted. Let's call her
and figure some things out. Go ahead and go back
on mute. Okay, Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Cassie.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
That's me.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
My name is Marcus. I do a Hi So I
do a morning radio show here in the Bay, and
I know who you are. I O hey, it's Star
one on one three. I'm wondering if you have a
second to chat on the air. Okay, so we're doing
second date up date right now? No, yes, a minute.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I know who you're talking about too. So a baller
move on his part for Colin.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I don't know if that's good or bad.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Jared, right, it is. I know it because he loves
your show, jaredy either.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Wow, Okay, so let's let's seat it out.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Let's adult for a second. I mean Jessey, you know
how it works. Yeah, Jared liked you. He liked you.
He did so I know I did too.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
But stuff was weird.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Okay, what happened? Did you ghost?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
I did?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I mean, I.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Flat out okay, Sorry, I just can't like you. Literal
pet peeves were happening, and I just.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Can't What did he do?
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
You corrected the bartender not once, but twice about the
pronunciation of negroni, And honestly, I think she had a
little bit of a plang to her voice, so I
think she was pronouncing it correctly, but like it just
I don't know. That's like a big pet.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Peeve of mine.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Well, sidebar, how are you supposed to pronounce ngroni nigroni?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
It's nicgronie. She said, nigronie. Like that's awful, it's disrespectful.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
It's the same thing, literally, ronie, not nigronie.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Negronie. No. Wow.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Yeah, see, okay, but now now you're hearing it. Also,
you have a date cards, man, you had date cards,
like date cards, things written down of like just like
notes to himself.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Well, nobody just goes out and doesn't know what they're doing.
I mean, everybody's got to do some sort of study
and before they go out to the real test, you know.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah, but you had notes about me e since we
talked about online. That was just so weird.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
I mean it made me feel like a compliment. I mean,
I put an extra effort to know you.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
No, it just felt like a job application. Yeah, Like
I just felt like you were interviewing me to be
your future girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Isn't that what we were doing?
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Yeah, but that's kind of.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
That's what it is.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
And it shouldn't feel like a job. No, but it
shouldn't feel like a job interview. I mean, honestly, some
of the questions that you were asking just felt so
like you read a book about dating. Where do you
see yourself in five years?
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Like no, come on, okay, so that's like a hard note,
Like no second date? No, no, all right, hang on, Yeah,
that's not happening. It's Second Date update seven oh five
weekday mornings. Your replays it nine oh five. You've got
the podcast, which is now being updated daily on the
iHeartRadio app. You can set a pre set for that.
(06:10):
On the way, don't forget. We've got more tickets for
the Disneyland resort. I'm just gonna keep reminding you, so
be on this man. It's a four pack, it's seven
thirty five star one on one, three
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