November 21, 2025 • 5 mins
Jared met Cassie online and went for drinks at a rooftop bar. They swapped travel stories and cracked up over cringey dating profiles. The vibe was fun enough that they stayed for dessert. Jared left thinking date number two was a sure thing. Then… silence. Now he’s wondering what happened.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It is Marcus.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
It is Thursday, good morning, it is time for second
date update. Y'all already know how it works. We've done
it for what I almost a decade. But so you've
been on a first date, you've been ghosted. We call
your date because you've probably called them a few times,
and then we try to ask them how the date went,
Why did they ghost? Did they ghost at all? Was
it a misunderstanding? Jared is holding hoping for a misunderstanding.
(00:27):
I'm sure, Jared.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Are you there?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Yeah, Hey, I want to talk about Cassie. So let's
talk about A how did you meet? And then B
what did you do on your date? Because I understand
she's ghosted and let's try to figure this out.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Yeah. So we met online and that was, you know great.
We just started off texting and then eventually we met
and I felt like things were going good. And then
you know, we had this like rooftop kind of drinks
day thing that was going on, and I think the
(01:02):
looptop drinks were easy. I mean, we talked about traveling,
we laughed, we talked about bad dating, profiles like, like,
I could give you a few examples. Oh god, please
venom me for good vibes, And so she had some too,
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, there was one that she mentioned.
She it was, if you can't handle me at my
(01:26):
gym selfies, you don't deserve me at brunch. Wow.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Now, let me ask you she was as engaging in
person as she was like on text or online, because
I know, sometimes, like you meet somebody in person, all
of a sudden, it just kind of falls flat, like
you feel like you've been texting with AI or something.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Yeah, yeah, and this wasn't the case. Like we were
just having fun, lapping about the profiles, having great drinks,
and I thought that was great, you know.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Okay, and she has ghosted sense.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Yeah yeah, just can't figure it.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
It's Marcus. We're in the middle of second date update.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
I've got Jared on the phone, and I feel like
there has been a just a glut of rooftop first
dates only because the weather's been so nice. Jared, it
doesn't even feel like October right now. I mean, Halloween
is what like a week away. It was eighty degrees
on Monday, you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, I
(02:23):
like that he's in position ready to go. So you
guys had drinks and everything went cool. She's ghosted. Let's
call her and figure some things out. Go ahead and
go back on mute.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Okay, Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Cassie.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
That's me.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
My name is Marcus. I do a Hi.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
So I do a morning radio show here in the
Bay and I oh hey, it's Star one on one three.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
I'm wondering if you have a second to chat on
the air. Okay, so we're doing second date update right now.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
No, yes, I know who you're talking about too. So
a baller move on his part for Colin.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
I don't know if that's good or bad.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Jared, right, it is. I know it because he loves
your show. Jared there, yes, wow, Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
So let's let's seat it out. Let's adult for a second.
I mean, Jessey, you know how it works.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, liked you. He liked you. He did so I
know I too.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
But stuff was weird.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Okay, what happened?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Ed?
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Did you ghost?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I did? I mean?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
I flat out ghosted you. Okay, sorry, I just can't
like you. Literal tet peeves were happening and I just can't.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
What did he do.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Okay, you corrected the bartender not once, but twice about
the pronunciation of negroni. And honestly, I think she had
a little bit of a plang to her voice, so
I think she was pronouncing it correctly. But like it
just I don't know. That's like a big pet peeve
of mine.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Well, sidebar, how are you supposed to pronounce negroni negroni?
Speaker 3 (04:19):
It's nicgronie. She said negronie. Like that's awful, it's disrespectful.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
It's the same thing.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Mcgarne gonna say, mcgronie, not nigronie negronie. E. No.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
Wow, yeah, see okay, but now now you're hearing it. Also,
you had date cards, man, you had date cards, like
date cards, things written down of like just like notes
to himself.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Well, nobody just goes out and doesn't know what they're doing.
I mean, everybody's got to do some sort of study
and before they go out to the real test, you know.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Yeah, but you had no about me have since we
talked about online. That was just so weird.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I mean it just made me feel like a compliment.
I mean, I put in at the effort to know you.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
No, it just felt like a job application. Yeah, Like
I just felt like you were interviewing me to be
your future girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Isn't that what we were doing?
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah, but that's kind of and it shouldn't feel like
a job. No, but it shouldn't feel like a job interview.
I mean honestly, some of the questions that you were
asking just felt so like you read a book about dating?
Where do you see yourself in five years?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Like no, come on, okay, so that's like a hard note,
like no second date, No No. So that was a
Second Date update replay, obviously from about a month ago,
and I apologized for that. We had if I'm pulling
the curtain all the way back, we had huge technical
issues yesterday which prevented me from being able to make
phocals
Speaker 2 (05:52):
And you know what, Second Date up base got to
go on.
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It is Marcus.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
It is Thursday, good morning, it is time for second
date update. Y'all already know how it works. We've done
it for what I almost a decade. But so you've
been on a first date, you've been ghosted. We call
your date because you've probably called them a few times,
and then we try to ask them how the date went,
Why did they ghost? Did they ghost at all? Was
it a misunderstanding? Jared is holding hoping for a misunderstanding.
(00:27):
I'm sure, Jared.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Are you there?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Yeah, Hey, I want to talk about Cassie. So let's
talk about A how did you meet? And then B
what did you do on your date? Because I understand
she's ghosted and let's try to figure this out.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Yeah. So we met online and that was, you know great.
We just started off texting and then eventually we met
and I felt like things were going good. And then
you know, we had this like rooftop kind of drinks
day thing that was going on, and I think the
(01:02):
looptop drinks were easy. I mean, we talked about traveling,
we laughed, we talked about bad dating, profiles like, like,
I could give you a few examples. Oh god, please
venom me for good vibes, And so she had some too,
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, there was one that she mentioned.
She it was, if you can't handle me at my
(01:26):
gym selfies, you don't deserve me at brunch. Wow.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Now, let me ask you she was as engaging in
person as she was like on text or online, because
I know, sometimes, like you meet somebody in person, all
of a sudden, it just kind of falls flat, like
you feel like you've been texting with AI or something.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Yeah, yeah, and this wasn't the case. Like we were
just having fun, lapping about the profiles, having great drinks,
and I thought that was great, you know.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Okay, and she has ghosted sense.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Yeah yeah, just can't figure it.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
It's Marcus. We're in the middle of second date update.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
I've got Jared on the phone, and I feel like
there has been a just a glut of rooftop first
dates only because the weather's been so nice. Jared, it
doesn't even feel like October right now. I mean, Halloween
is what like a week away. It was eighty degrees
on Monday, you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, I
(02:23):
like that he's in position ready to go. So you
guys had drinks and everything went cool. She's ghosted. Let's
call her and figure some things out. Go ahead and
go back on mute.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Okay, Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Cassie.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
That's me.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
My name is Marcus. I do a Hi.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
So I do a morning radio show here in the
Bay and I oh hey, it's Star one on one three.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
I'm wondering if you have a second to chat on
the air. Okay, so we're doing second date update right now.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
No, yes, I know who you're talking about too. So
a baller move on his part for Colin.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
I don't know if that's good or bad.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Jared, right, it is. I know it because he loves
your show. Jared there, yes, wow, Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
So let's let's seat it out. Let's adult for a second.
I mean, Jessey, you know how it works.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, liked you. He liked you. He did so I
know I too.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
But stuff was weird.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Okay, what happened?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Ed?
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Did you ghost?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I did? I mean?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
I flat out ghosted you. Okay, sorry, I just can't
like you. Literal tet peeves were happening and I just can't.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
What did he do.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Okay, you corrected the bartender not once, but twice about
the pronunciation of negroni. And honestly, I think she had
a little bit of a plang to her voice, so
I think she was pronouncing it correctly. But like it
just I don't know. That's like a big pet peeve
of mine.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Well, sidebar, how are you supposed to pronounce negroni negroni?
Speaker 3 (04:19):
It's nicgronie. She said negronie. Like that's awful, it's disrespectful.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
It's the same thing.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Mcgarne gonna say, mcgronie, not nigronie negronie. E. No.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
Wow, yeah, see okay, but now now you're hearing it. Also,
you had date cards, man, you had date cards, like
date cards, things written down of like just like notes
to himself.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Well, nobody just goes out and doesn't know what they're doing.
I mean, everybody's got to do some sort of study
and before they go out to the real test, you know.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
Yeah, but you had no about me have since we
talked about online. That was just so weird.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I mean it just made me feel like a compliment.
I mean, I put in at the effort to know you.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
No, it just felt like a job application. Yeah, Like
I just felt like you were interviewing me to be
your future girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Isn't that what we were doing?
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah, but that's kind of and it shouldn't feel like
a job. No, but it shouldn't feel like a job interview.
I mean honestly, some of the questions that you were
asking just felt so like you read a book about dating?
Where do you see yourself in five years?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Like no, come on, okay, so that's like a hard note,
like no second date, No No. So that was a
Second Date update replay, obviously from about a month ago,
and I apologized for that. We had if I'm pulling
the curtain all the way back, we had huge technical
issues yesterday which prevented me from being able to make
phocals
Speaker 2 (05:52):
And you know what, Second Date up base got to
go on.
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