May 13, 2025 • 6 mins
Chris calls us to see if we can connect with Julie. They met at a networking event in SF recently and really hit it off! Lots of texting and funny banter and they FINALLY had dinner a couple weeks ago. Everything was going so smoothly (and he rarely dates so this is a big deal for him) and in the middle of dinner she said she "wasn't feeling well" and left abruptly. He followed up that night on text....no word back. Was it something he said about her daughter?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands than nineties.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
And to day it's Star one on one three, It's
Marcus and Corey and we're back with second date update. Everyone.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
We just want to help you in your dating life. Well,
you know, you went on that first date. You thought
it was swell, yes, and now you can't get the
second date, and we're going to figure out why. Get
Chris on the phone. Chris, was your first date with
Julie Swell?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
You know, honestly, I thought we hit it off swimmingly.
I was in San Francisco and we were at a
networking event and just you know, we started texting and.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Funny banter, and then we finally.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Got together and had dinner about a week and a
half ago, and everything seemed to be going great. I
stepped out on a limb here, but right in the
middle of dinner, she looks at me and she says
that she wasn't feeling well and she just got up
and left, okay, And so I was concerned about her welfare.
(00:50):
So I texted her later that night, you are you okay?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
And sure, not a word.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
So she's ghosting me and I don't have a clue.
While because I thought we were doing an okay, and
I'm just trying to make sure that she was not
having some sort of medical issue.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Here's what I love about this is that because San
Francisco is San Francisco, you could have a networking event
and still live locally. I'm guessing Chris is a Bay
Area transplant because I did hear an.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Act accident there at the end. Some southerns So where
are you from, Chris?
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I'm from a town in Tennessee called Memphis, the birthplace
of rock and roll.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
I knew it anyway. Sorry, I'm getting off track, but.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
I've been out here for about twenty seven years now,
So okay, this is home.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
You just want to lose that draws how he gets
the chicks?
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
You sure, right?
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Boy?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Why do you have such a look on your face, Corey.
I'm just trying to, you know, get my theory in there,
and you just keep talking. Oh I'm sorry, Here's what
I'm thinking. Go ahead, please. She leaves. She jumps in
her car, which happens to be a Dolorean. She hits
eighty eight miles an hour and ends up in nineteen
fifty five. I know this, h yeah, I don't. I
(01:59):
don't know if you're familiar with Corey's theories, Chris, but
there you go. That might have been what happened to Julie.
We're not sure.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
You never know.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I'll tell you what, Corey.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I don't know what kind of drugs you're on, but
I want two of them.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Chris. We're going to call her trying to figure this out.
Can you hang on for a song?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah? Yeah, please put me out.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I got you're going to do that next Second Date
update Star one on one three, what variety from the
two thousands, the nineties and today it's Star one on
one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing Second Date Update.
We've got Chris on the phone, and he and Julie met.
They both live locally.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
But their companies happened to do their thing in the city.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
So Chris, this was a few weeks ago, and then
you guys did a dinner and the only clue that
we have is that Julie left the dinner abruptly.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
She said she didn't feel well.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Something happened, and Chris has been radio silence since then,
like she's ghosted.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Is that right?
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
And I just y'at didn't know if she had some
sort of medical problem, was concerned about it. But she's
going she just vanquished.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
All right, let's let's call her and see if we
can't figure out where I was gonna let it.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
It's a euphemism.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Okay to the grammar police.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Let's get her on the phone. All right, go ahead
and meet your phone Chris. Here we go.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Okay, made it.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Hello, I may speak with Julie please.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, this is Julie.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Hi, Julie. It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
Win three. Hey, Julie, really yeah, Oh.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
My gosh, I listened to you all the time. Why
are you calling me?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Well, check your phone. It's second date update time, right,
I don't know if you're familiar.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
Oh is this about me?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yes, yes it is.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
You've been on a date recently with a guy named Chris,
and would you mind discussing because he okay, so this
is almost perfect. This because you guys met at this
event and then you went out and you would like.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
To see you again. He had a good time, he says.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
You go.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Well, now you left the day you said you didn't
feel well, are you okay? That's true? I left that
part out yeah, I'm fine. Okay, I feel fine, all right,
I just.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Did you know why.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Why did you ghost?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Well?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Did Chris not tell you what he said?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Well?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Here, let's I forgot Chris. Are you there? We might
as well bring him on. Chris?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
What is Yeah? I'm here?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Okay? What did you say?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Said?
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (04:43):
Well, well, we were talking and it was going great,
and we were talking about our families. We both have
kids from prior relationships, and I brought my phone out
to show Chris a pick of my kids, you.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Know, totally normal kids.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
My kids, well, my daughter is twenty okay, and my
son is eighteen, so you know they're off at college.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (05:10):
I pull up the phone and I'm showing him pictures
of the kids, and CHRISZ when he sees my daughter,
he says, Okay, don't take this the wrong way.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
But she's kind of hot. Gross right nooa, whoa, whoa,
whoa whoa. Hump the brakes there, okay, listen. I said
to you, don't take this the wrong way. Right up front? Hot, Okay,
she's a very pretty girl, And I mean, don't you
(05:41):
want people to find your daughter attractive? But I didn't
say hot.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I said she's hot.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
Chris, you don't you don't, you don't know that.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
That's disgusting.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
It feels like you're you're dating me to get to
my daughter.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
No, that's not okay what you said I said she
I said, you know, she's hot, and it's like she's hot,
like you.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Said, you might as well have focusing on Does that
make it okay?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Really? Is it? Really?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
You said she was hot, and I'm now paranoid that
you're going to be checking out my daughter.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
So no, this is no. Yeah, yeah, that's thank you
for so Okay, you're welcome. I got plenty more.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Oh wait, Chris, you're tapping out too. I mean this
isn't going to go so who cares?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Yeah, you know, all right, Yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Yeah, I'm gonna No.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
I don't want I don't want people checking out my
children that I'm dating.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
I wasn't checking out your children. I was paying shut Okay.
The popple didn't fall for from the tree.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
And you're kind of hot too, okay, so at least
I thought you were. I started talking.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
We're gonna call it. I'm gonna call no second date
for anybody, Is that okay?
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Yeah? Let's call that that's correct.
More variety from the two thousands than nineties.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
And to day it's Star one on one three, It's
Marcus and Corey and we're back with second date update. Everyone.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
We just want to help you in your dating life. Well,
you know, you went on that first date. You thought
it was swell, yes, and now you can't get the
second date, and we're going to figure out why. Get
Chris on the phone. Chris, was your first date with
Julie Swell?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
You know, honestly, I thought we hit it off swimmingly.
I was in San Francisco and we were at a
networking event and just you know, we started texting and.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Funny banter, and then we finally.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Got together and had dinner about a week and a
half ago, and everything seemed to be going great. I
stepped out on a limb here, but right in the
middle of dinner, she looks at me and she says
that she wasn't feeling well and she just got up
and left, okay, And so I was concerned about her welfare.
(00:50):
So I texted her later that night, you are you okay?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
And sure, not a word.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
So she's ghosting me and I don't have a clue.
While because I thought we were doing an okay, and
I'm just trying to make sure that she was not
having some sort of medical issue.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Here's what I love about this is that because San
Francisco is San Francisco, you could have a networking event
and still live locally. I'm guessing Chris is a Bay
Area transplant because I did hear an.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Act accident there at the end. Some southerns So where
are you from, Chris?
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I'm from a town in Tennessee called Memphis, the birthplace
of rock and roll.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
I knew it anyway. Sorry, I'm getting off track, but.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
I've been out here for about twenty seven years now,
So okay, this is home.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
You just want to lose that draws how he gets
the chicks?
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
You sure, right?
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Boy?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Why do you have such a look on your face, Corey.
I'm just trying to, you know, get my theory in there,
and you just keep talking. Oh I'm sorry, Here's what
I'm thinking. Go ahead, please. She leaves. She jumps in
her car, which happens to be a Dolorean. She hits
eighty eight miles an hour and ends up in nineteen
fifty five. I know this, h yeah, I don't. I
(01:59):
don't know if you're familiar with Corey's theories, Chris, but
there you go. That might have been what happened to Julie.
We're not sure.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
You never know.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I'll tell you what, Corey.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I don't know what kind of drugs you're on, but
I want two of them.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Chris. We're going to call her trying to figure this out.
Can you hang on for a song?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah? Yeah, please put me out.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I got you're going to do that next Second Date
update Star one on one three, what variety from the
two thousands, the nineties and today it's Star one on
one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing Second Date Update.
We've got Chris on the phone, and he and Julie met.
They both live locally.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
But their companies happened to do their thing in the city.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
So Chris, this was a few weeks ago, and then
you guys did a dinner and the only clue that
we have is that Julie left the dinner abruptly.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
She said she didn't feel well.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Something happened, and Chris has been radio silence since then,
like she's ghosted.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Is that right?
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
And I just y'at didn't know if she had some
sort of medical problem, was concerned about it. But she's
going she just vanquished.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
All right, let's let's call her and see if we
can't figure out where I was gonna let it.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
It's a euphemism.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Okay to the grammar police.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Let's get her on the phone. All right, go ahead
and meet your phone Chris. Here we go.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Okay, made it.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Hello, I may speak with Julie please.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, this is Julie.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Hi, Julie. It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
Win three. Hey, Julie, really yeah, Oh.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
My gosh, I listened to you all the time. Why
are you calling me?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Well, check your phone. It's second date update time, right,
I don't know if you're familiar.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
Oh is this about me?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yes, yes it is.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
You've been on a date recently with a guy named Chris,
and would you mind discussing because he okay, so this
is almost perfect. This because you guys met at this
event and then you went out and you would like.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
To see you again. He had a good time, he says.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
You go.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Well, now you left the day you said you didn't
feel well, are you okay? That's true? I left that
part out yeah, I'm fine. Okay, I feel fine, all right,
I just.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Did you know why.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Why did you ghost?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Well?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Did Chris not tell you what he said?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Well?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Here, let's I forgot Chris. Are you there? We might
as well bring him on. Chris?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
What is Yeah? I'm here?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Okay? What did you say?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Said?
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (04:43):
Well, well, we were talking and it was going great,
and we were talking about our families. We both have
kids from prior relationships, and I brought my phone out
to show Chris a pick of my kids, you.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Know, totally normal kids.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
My kids, well, my daughter is twenty okay, and my
son is eighteen, so you know they're off at college.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (05:10):
I pull up the phone and I'm showing him pictures
of the kids, and CHRISZ when he sees my daughter,
he says, Okay, don't take this the wrong way.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
But she's kind of hot. Gross right nooa, whoa, whoa,
whoa whoa. Hump the brakes there, okay, listen. I said
to you, don't take this the wrong way. Right up front? Hot, Okay,
she's a very pretty girl, And I mean, don't you
(05:41):
want people to find your daughter attractive? But I didn't
say hot.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I said she's hot.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
Chris, you don't you don't, you don't know that.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
That's disgusting.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
It feels like you're you're dating me to get to
my daughter.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
No, that's not okay what you said I said she
I said, you know, she's hot, and it's like she's hot,
like you.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Said, you might as well have focusing on Does that
make it okay?
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Really? Is it? Really?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
You said she was hot, and I'm now paranoid that
you're going to be checking out my daughter.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
So no, this is no. Yeah, yeah, that's thank you
for so Okay, you're welcome. I got plenty more.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Oh wait, Chris, you're tapping out too. I mean this
isn't going to go so who cares?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Yeah, you know, all right, Yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Yeah, I'm gonna No.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
I don't want I don't want people checking out my
children that I'm dating.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
I wasn't checking out your children. I was paying shut Okay.
The popple didn't fall for from the tree.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
And you're kind of hot too, okay, so at least
I thought you were. I started talking.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
We're gonna call it. I'm gonna call no second date
for anybody, Is that okay?
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Yeah? Let's call that that's correct.
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