January 16, 2025 • 7 mins
Mateo took Kira for sushi in San Mateo. He said the evening was perfect. He can't think of any reason she would ghost.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three, It's Marcus and Corey
and we're back with Second Date Update its own.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We really do like to help you in your dating life. Now,
whether we actually add any help, I'm not sure, but
we're trying to get you the second date. That's what
we call it. Second Date Update.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
So much confidence folly, I think, so let's bring the
tale on Mittel.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Good morning, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Hey man, you're welcome, thanks for calling us. We want
to talk about your date with Kira, because I understand
she's ghosted and we want to try to work toward
getting you a second date. So what can you tell us, Like,
how did you guys meet? And then what did you
guys do for the first date?
Speaker 4 (00:38):
Okay, so we met on the apps and then we
end up going to dinner in San Mateo.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Okay, what happened to name? I was going to say,
did that on purpose? I was kidding.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
I went to my favorite sushi played and after messaging
for a couple of weeks, I was excited to meet
her because this like flirtation going, you know, you build
up the excitement. Sure, and I was so relieved when
I was sitting next to her, because so many of
these dates have been missus and it's like, I started
feeling these dreads going to these dates. But I got
(01:14):
to put myself out there. But it was so nice
meeting someone who mastered her profile picked for once. She
was who she said she was, and we connected online
because we both like hiking and we like old movies
like I like Turner Closic movies. It's kind of a
weird combination. So I was like, oh, I found someone
they liked these things, and I thought it would work out.
But obviously I'm calling you guys because she's ghosted me.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Almost it almost worked out. Yeah, but you had a
good vibe.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Right, I had a great vibe.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Yeah, Okay, Okay, here's what I think. Yes, please Corey.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
After the date, you said you and Samonteo. Right yeah, Okay,
So after the date, she's saying, can you know I
don't want to kind of clear my head, and so
thinks I'm gonna go take a stroll. Coyote points right there.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Sure, she wants to take a walk scenic.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
She's drolln by the windsurfing area, right, Okay. Cut two
impaled by a sail boom.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
We've talked about cutting to a cut too.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
You don't cut to a cut to different than a slice.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
I guess he's not wrong.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
You have to stop. Okay, I'm so sorry, Mittela.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Corey's got these theories and she watches too much dateline
and I apologie.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Anyway, let's get back to it. I'll tell you what.
Why don't we call Kira and find out? Can you
hang on the line?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
All right, Yeah, we're gonna.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Try to help you out.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Man.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
It's right after this. We'll give her a shout. It's
Star one three, a variety from the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus
and Corey. We're doing second date update. We've been talking
to Matteo about his date with Kira and they went
to sushi in Sanmitteo his joint. Yeh, just fun and Matteo,
you guys bonded over a couple of different hobbies, hiking
and old movies, and you admit that you love Turner classics,
(02:58):
which is fantastic.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
I don't know if you guys can get me a
deal with merchandise.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Now there you go.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Wow, let's call her because I understand she's ghosted, So
go ahead and mute.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Now's the time, all right, we'll call Kira and find
out here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Hello, May I speak with Kira? Please?
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Yeah, that's a she who's calling?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Hi, Kira, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one O
one three?
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Hey girl, shut up?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Oh my god, I love you guys.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Him. Hey, it's second Date update time. That's what's up?
Speaker 6 (03:43):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
No, do you mind being on second Date update with us?
We won't talked about a date, he went on.
Speaker 6 (03:50):
I mean, I love you guys. I normally wouldn't, but
yes I will.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Okay, okay, do you know who might be on the line?
Speaker 6 (03:57):
Yeah, I maybe, Well maybe I shouldn't say anything.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Let's say I don't want to put you in a
bad situation. Yeah, Matteo, are you there?
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I here?
Speaker 6 (04:10):
So awkward.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
It's way more awkward when it's you and you're not
hearing it.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
On this look, we will.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
We all have a common goal, and that's just to
see if we can make something happen. And since you
know about second Date update, and Mateo obviously knows about
second day of the update, and it's us let's just
cut right to it. Can we get a second date?
And if not, what what happened?
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Uh?
Speaker 6 (04:33):
Listen, Matteo, You're awesome. You know when you finally showed up,
you know we had a good time.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
But I don't know what does that mean when he
finally showed.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
Up, did he like not tell you like he was
an hour late? No? Left that out of course of course.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Info.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
I tried to brush it off, honestly, because like the date,
really it was great. But I I don't think I
can date someone with like such a low regard for
other people's time, because I've did in that situation before,
Like I've been ghosted for days trying to date people.
I dated this one guy who used to blame being
late on being like Latin. He's like all Latin people
(05:15):
are late, and he would like show up late to
like work events, birthday parties for my friends, and eventually
I found out he was cheating on me. So for me,
when you show up late, it's you have a disregard
for other people and it's not a good look and
it kind of like brings back that for me, like
I don't want to go through that again. And so
I had no. Yeah, when he.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
Showed up, it was fun.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
But so Matteo, this is very cut and dry. What
happened to make you an hour late?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
I got to ask, this is embarrassing. I didn't think
it was that late. But I mean, I'm not saying
you're wrong. I just didn't realize it was that late.
I am Latin, but that's not why it was l
So I didn't want to get into it. But my
sister she called me last minute and she asked me
to take my niece to a soccer game because my
(06:08):
sister was sick. So I did I mean that. I
thought the game was early enough that I could still
make the date on time. But the game went into
extra time and I was kind of trapped. I couldn't
just leave my niece there, and I just didn't I.
Can I get a do over? Can I get it?
Can I try again?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
I'm sorry here.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
My guys thrown himself out there.
Speaker 6 (06:30):
I know I wouldn't believe it, but you sound so uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
I guarantee you he's on his knees right now. I
can almost guarantee.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
I wish he'd said something.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Yeah, you just should have been honest and said hey,
I'm like at my niece's game and I'm going to
be a little late. If you would have said I'm
going to be late, that would have been fine. But
just showing up like very late.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Like it was nothing.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Just be honest about it next time. I should have.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
I just didn't want to get into it. It just
sounds like a whole story, Like I just I just
realized just saying it is better than what doing this?
Speaker 3 (07:03):
So are we hold on?
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
All right?
Speaker 4 (07:06):
And it goes to it?
Speaker 3 (07:06):
I guess kerk. Can we make this happen though? Can
we get a second date a do over?
Speaker 6 (07:11):
If you will?
Speaker 5 (07:12):
I think so? Yeah. I mean we had a really
good time. And honestly, I would have loved to hear
this story because it sounds like you're a really good
uncle and that you prioritize your family, so you're you
actually do have regard for other people. You just have
to tell people you regard other people.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Oh yes, okay, So well what have we learned today?
Disclosure is key, and we've got a second date and
you'll be.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Honest, yes, be honest?
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Yes, and gets.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Ring the bell championship cow bill. All right, you guys,
I love it. This is exciting. Thank you, you got it, everybody,
hang on, I will.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
Thanks for having me on.
Speaker 6 (07:51):
I love you guys.
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three, It's Marcus and Corey
and we're back with Second Date Update its own.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
We really do like to help you in your dating life. Now,
whether we actually add any help, I'm not sure, but
we're trying to get you the second date. That's what
we call it. Second Date Update.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
So much confidence folly, I think, so let's bring the
tale on Mittel.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Good morning, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Hey man, you're welcome, thanks for calling us. We want
to talk about your date with Kira, because I understand
she's ghosted and we want to try to work toward
getting you a second date. So what can you tell us, Like,
how did you guys meet? And then what did you
guys do for the first date?
Speaker 4 (00:38):
Okay, so we met on the apps and then we
end up going to dinner in San Mateo.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Okay, what happened to name? I was going to say,
did that on purpose? I was kidding.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
I went to my favorite sushi played and after messaging
for a couple of weeks, I was excited to meet
her because this like flirtation going, you know, you build
up the excitement. Sure, and I was so relieved when
I was sitting next to her, because so many of
these dates have been missus and it's like, I started
feeling these dreads going to these dates. But I got
(01:14):
to put myself out there. But it was so nice
meeting someone who mastered her profile picked for once. She
was who she said she was, and we connected online
because we both like hiking and we like old movies
like I like Turner Closic movies. It's kind of a
weird combination. So I was like, oh, I found someone
they liked these things, and I thought it would work out.
But obviously I'm calling you guys because she's ghosted me.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Almost it almost worked out. Yeah, but you had a
good vibe.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Right, I had a great vibe.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Yeah, Okay, Okay, here's what I think. Yes, please Corey.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
After the date, you said you and Samonteo. Right yeah, Okay,
So after the date, she's saying, can you know I
don't want to kind of clear my head, and so
thinks I'm gonna go take a stroll. Coyote points right there.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Sure, she wants to take a walk scenic.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
She's drolln by the windsurfing area, right, Okay. Cut two
impaled by a sail boom.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
We've talked about cutting to a cut too.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
You don't cut to a cut to different than a slice.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
I guess he's not wrong.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
You have to stop. Okay, I'm so sorry, Mittela.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Corey's got these theories and she watches too much dateline
and I apologie.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Anyway, let's get back to it. I'll tell you what.
Why don't we call Kira and find out? Can you
hang on the line?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
All right, Yeah, we're gonna.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Try to help you out.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Man.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
It's right after this. We'll give her a shout. It's
Star one three, a variety from the two thousands, the nineties,
and today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus
and Corey. We're doing second date update. We've been talking
to Matteo about his date with Kira and they went
to sushi in Sanmitteo his joint. Yeh, just fun and Matteo,
you guys bonded over a couple of different hobbies, hiking
and old movies, and you admit that you love Turner classics,
(02:58):
which is fantastic.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
I don't know if you guys can get me a
deal with merchandise.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Now there you go.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Wow, let's call her because I understand she's ghosted, So
go ahead and mute.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Now's the time, all right, we'll call Kira and find
out here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Hello, May I speak with Kira? Please?
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Yeah, that's a she who's calling?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Hi, Kira, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one O
one three?
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Hey girl, shut up?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Oh my god, I love you guys.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Him. Hey, it's second Date update time. That's what's up?
Speaker 6 (03:43):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
No, do you mind being on second Date update with us?
We won't talked about a date, he went on.
Speaker 6 (03:50):
I mean, I love you guys. I normally wouldn't, but
yes I will.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Okay, okay, do you know who might be on the line?
Speaker 6 (03:57):
Yeah, I maybe, Well maybe I shouldn't say anything.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Let's say I don't want to put you in a
bad situation. Yeah, Matteo, are you there?
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I here?
Speaker 6 (04:10):
So awkward.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
It's way more awkward when it's you and you're not
hearing it.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
On this look, we will.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
We all have a common goal, and that's just to
see if we can make something happen. And since you
know about second Date update, and Mateo obviously knows about
second day of the update, and it's us let's just
cut right to it. Can we get a second date?
And if not, what what happened?
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Uh?
Speaker 6 (04:33):
Listen, Matteo, You're awesome. You know when you finally showed up,
you know we had a good time.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
But I don't know what does that mean when he
finally showed.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
Up, did he like not tell you like he was
an hour late? No? Left that out of course of course.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Info.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
I tried to brush it off, honestly, because like the date,
really it was great. But I I don't think I
can date someone with like such a low regard for
other people's time, because I've did in that situation before,
Like I've been ghosted for days trying to date people.
I dated this one guy who used to blame being
late on being like Latin. He's like all Latin people
(05:15):
are late, and he would like show up late to
like work events, birthday parties for my friends, and eventually
I found out he was cheating on me. So for me,
when you show up late, it's you have a disregard
for other people and it's not a good look and
it kind of like brings back that for me, like
I don't want to go through that again. And so
I had no. Yeah, when he.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
Showed up, it was fun.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
But so Matteo, this is very cut and dry. What
happened to make you an hour late?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
I got to ask, this is embarrassing. I didn't think
it was that late. But I mean, I'm not saying
you're wrong. I just didn't realize it was that late.
I am Latin, but that's not why it was l
So I didn't want to get into it. But my
sister she called me last minute and she asked me
to take my niece to a soccer game because my
(06:08):
sister was sick. So I did I mean that. I
thought the game was early enough that I could still
make the date on time. But the game went into
extra time and I was kind of trapped. I couldn't
just leave my niece there, and I just didn't I.
Can I get a do over? Can I get it?
Can I try again?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
I'm sorry here.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
My guys thrown himself out there.
Speaker 6 (06:30):
I know I wouldn't believe it, but you sound so uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
I guarantee you he's on his knees right now. I
can almost guarantee.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
I wish he'd said something.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Yeah, you just should have been honest and said hey,
I'm like at my niece's game and I'm going to
be a little late. If you would have said I'm
going to be late, that would have been fine. But
just showing up like very late.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Like it was nothing.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Just be honest about it next time. I should have.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
I just didn't want to get into it. It just
sounds like a whole story, Like I just I just
realized just saying it is better than what doing this?
Speaker 3 (07:03):
So are we hold on?
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
All right?
Speaker 4 (07:06):
And it goes to it?
Speaker 3 (07:06):
I guess kerk. Can we make this happen though? Can
we get a second date a do over?
Speaker 6 (07:11):
If you will?
Speaker 5 (07:12):
I think so? Yeah. I mean we had a really
good time. And honestly, I would have loved to hear
this story because it sounds like you're a really good
uncle and that you prioritize your family, so you're you
actually do have regard for other people. You just have
to tell people you regard other people.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Oh yes, okay, So well what have we learned today?
Disclosure is key, and we've got a second date and
you'll be.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Honest, yes, be honest?
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Yes, and gets.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Ring the bell championship cow bill. All right, you guys,
I love it. This is exciting. Thank you, you got it, everybody,
hang on, I will.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
Thanks for having me on.
Speaker 6 (07:51):
I love you guys.
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