October 4, 2024 • 7 mins
Mina says she felt an instant connection with Tim, and really wants to see him again soon. She's been trying to reach out to him, but he's pulled a total ghost.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey
time once again for Second Date Update everyone.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Second Date Update is something we do because we've found
that there is such a need to figure out why
people ghost. It happens a lot, so we help you
after you go on a first date with somebody and
then they ghost you.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Se good morning to Mina, Good morning, Mina.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Are you.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
I'm okay, how are you?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
We're doing all right? We wanted to talk about your date?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Uh yeah, please.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
So the DM that you said us said that you
met a guy named tim On Hinge. Now I do
like the fact your words you felt a connection immediately.
Let's talk about how the first date kind of unfolded.
What did you guys do? What is transpired since then?
And we'll go from there.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Well, okay, so after we met a Hinge, we were
like texting and messaging, and you know, we have a
lot in common, like he likes new restaurants, like checking
out new restaurants like I do. He likes going to
move movies. So much in common. So we decided to
go out for a date to have some sushi in
(01:07):
San Mateo, and everything was amazing. It was great, I thought.
I mean, I've gone over every moment of the date
and I can't think of anything that could have made
it awful for him.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Okay, but I have not heard from him. There's nothing
like the replay in your head the worst sushi andhi, yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
And then I asked him to come back to my
house some movies. Yeah, I think he's great.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
When we went back and watched some movies and like,
that's all that happened. Now, that's like, that's it, just
watching movies, nothing else.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Not a traditional Netflix and chill. Then I was just
gonna ask the same question, okay.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Right, just the Netflix. And then I hugg him goodbye,
and now like nothing, okay.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Okay, here's what I think.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Tim says goodbye, starts to drive home, and he sees
a guy hitch hiking on the side of that.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I don't want let's see a guy on the side
of the road.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
What hold on?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Okay, So he sees a guy hitch hiking out the
side of the road. Cut to Tim's at Verizon getting
a new phone because he gave it to the hitcher
who is down on his luck.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
God, do you think I was gonna say, I don't know?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Guys on the side of the road in the middle
of the night, hitch hiking. This never ends, well.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Oh your little faith.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
So you think he's got a new phone?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Yes, he couldn't get his old number.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Okay, that's pretty benign. Yeah, totally possible. Am I right? Mina?
Maybe tell you what. Let's let's call him, let's hope
he answers, and then we'll see.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Ultimately we want to get you a second date, So
let's see what happens. Hang on the line for a song.
We'll do it right after this. It's it's second Date Update,
Star one on one three. More variety from the two thousands,
the nineties, and today it's Star one on one three.
Marcus and Corey. We're doing second Date Update. We've been
talking to Mina about our date with Tim. They meant
on hinge. We liked him up until the point where
he ghosted, right, but other than that very connected? Is
(03:10):
this correct? Mina like, that's correct? The vibe was cool.
They went for sushi and then he got to go
back to her place.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
They watched movies and.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
They watched movies and then like nothing happened. So hug
and gone and now he's ghosted. So let's call him.
Go ahead, Mina, you know the drill. Mute your phone
and we're gonna give him a shout to you.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Here we go, Hi, MA, speak with Tim. Please.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
This is Tim.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Hi Tim, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Hey, Tim, I know who you are.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
You do it?
Speaker 5 (03:52):
I was every day on my way to work.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Oh my god, tell your friends this guy gets to do.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
I mean, I'm gonna tell him about this? What what?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
What is this?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
So second date update is what we're doing.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Yeah, man, do you mind doing it with us?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Wow?
Speaker 5 (04:09):
I yeah? Okay, So somebody don't have the line? Yes, yes,
is it Mina or Kelly?
Speaker 1 (04:20):
It's it's Mina. Say hi Mina and uh and who's Kelly?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
And congrats to you on your very successful dating life.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Never mind, because I.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Went on a date. Before we we went on a date,
I didn't know how who was calling?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Right, Okay, that's fair.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Congratulations on your success. I guess yeah whatever.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
Okay, you know you made her on a dating site.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Let's let's here, let's move forward. So Tim you listen,
you know what this is about. You know, Mina, Doug
you and you ghosted? Yes?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Did you ghost?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
And if so? Why?
Speaker 5 (04:57):
I mean I wanted to to keep, you know, just
to not be a big deal. But yeah, I just
found We went to her place and we were watching movies, right,
And I don't know, I just fell out of attracted
to her and I didn't want to, you know, make
this a big thing, especially on the radio.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Well here we are, so what is it?
Speaker 5 (05:19):
Yeah? I don't know, so I don't know if you
So we went to her place. We were watching Kung
Fu Panda two. Look, no, it's a fun movie. The
thing is, Mina, you laughed at like everything. I remember
how I was just comed on it the whole time.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Funny thing.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
Man, it's not just a laugh. It's like a cackle.
It's like it's like this wicked Witch of the West
type stuff. And it was just very distracting and you
left it everything, and it just started to drive me crazy.
And I wasn't trying to make a big deal out
of it, because you know, I know it's a comedy,
you know what I mean, But it was just starting
to drive me kind of weird and even when we
changed movies. I even put on a movie that wasn't
(05:58):
as much of a comedy, like we put on Iron Man.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Okay, and.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Man, you were just cracking up. But everything about that too,
even stuff that wasn't even funny, and it was like
driving me mad, like I like to watch movies, like
I pay attention to the movies. I don't even talk
during movies. And it was just a right, like you're
just laughing at every little thing. It's driving me could
out like is this a performance? It's just like a
It was very distracting and.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
So just so I understand, it's her laughs. Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
It's entirely the laugh, and that you'd laugh everything, and
then man, I didn't want to talk about it, like, yeah,
it's a weird laugh. It's like loud and cackoli.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
I remember one time I was dating this guy, not
my husband right now, but it was dating a guy
and we went and saw my big fat Greek wedding
in the movie theater and he shushed.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Me, well, you have several different laughs. I know, I know,
I wouldn't want to go to a comedy with you.
What sorry, that was out loud. Oops, let's move on.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
I mean the second one was, but the rest of
that day.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Was cool though, Like this seems slightly ridiculous, Emina, what
do you think? I mean, where are we here?
Speaker 3 (07:08):
I think him doing that makes him seem really shallow,
just because it doesn't like my lack. So that's kind
of offensive.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I'm kind of with her because I do have a
unique laugh and I have been shushed and I don't
like it.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Unique is a good word to use.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Well, y'all, this is what I avoided by trying to
ghost her. I didn't want this conversation that we're having
now on the radio.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You know what.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I didn't want to say it anymore because you could
have just manned up and told me that in the
first place, that I have me call radio stations.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Okay, so everybody's out, Glad I'm not single because I
got a laugh too.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Newly noted Hang on, everybody, Hang on all right? Second
date update seven oh five weekday mornings, replace it nine
oh five. As you know you can binge listen get
yourself caught up over the weekend on the iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
It's got its own podcast. Go search out Marcus and
Corey
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey
time once again for Second Date Update everyone.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Second Date Update is something we do because we've found
that there is such a need to figure out why
people ghost. It happens a lot, so we help you
after you go on a first date with somebody and
then they ghost you.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Se good morning to Mina, Good morning, Mina.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Are you.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
I'm okay, how are you?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
We're doing all right? We wanted to talk about your date?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Uh yeah, please.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
So the DM that you said us said that you
met a guy named tim On Hinge. Now I do
like the fact your words you felt a connection immediately.
Let's talk about how the first date kind of unfolded.
What did you guys do? What is transpired since then?
And we'll go from there.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Well, okay, so after we met a Hinge, we were
like texting and messaging, and you know, we have a
lot in common, like he likes new restaurants, like checking
out new restaurants like I do. He likes going to
move movies. So much in common. So we decided to
go out for a date to have some sushi in
(01:07):
San Mateo, and everything was amazing. It was great, I thought.
I mean, I've gone over every moment of the date
and I can't think of anything that could have made
it awful for him.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Okay, but I have not heard from him. There's nothing
like the replay in your head the worst sushi andhi, yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
And then I asked him to come back to my
house some movies. Yeah, I think he's great.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
When we went back and watched some movies and like,
that's all that happened. Now, that's like, that's it, just
watching movies, nothing else.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Not a traditional Netflix and chill. Then I was just
gonna ask the same question, okay.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Right, just the Netflix. And then I hugg him goodbye,
and now like nothing, okay.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Okay, here's what I think.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Tim says goodbye, starts to drive home, and he sees
a guy hitch hiking on the side of that.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
I don't want let's see a guy on the side
of the road.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
What hold on?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Okay, So he sees a guy hitch hiking out the
side of the road. Cut to Tim's at Verizon getting
a new phone because he gave it to the hitcher
who is down on his luck.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
God, do you think I was gonna say, I don't know?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Guys on the side of the road in the middle
of the night, hitch hiking. This never ends, well.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Oh your little faith.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
So you think he's got a new phone?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Yes, he couldn't get his old number.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Okay, that's pretty benign. Yeah, totally possible. Am I right? Mina?
Maybe tell you what. Let's let's call him, let's hope
he answers, and then we'll see.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Ultimately we want to get you a second date, So
let's see what happens. Hang on the line for a song.
We'll do it right after this. It's it's second Date Update,
Star one on one three. More variety from the two thousands,
the nineties, and today it's Star one on one three.
Marcus and Corey. We're doing second Date Update. We've been
talking to Mina about our date with Tim. They meant
on hinge. We liked him up until the point where
he ghosted, right, but other than that very connected? Is
(03:10):
this correct? Mina like, that's correct? The vibe was cool.
They went for sushi and then he got to go
back to her place.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
They watched movies and.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
They watched movies and then like nothing happened. So hug
and gone and now he's ghosted. So let's call him.
Go ahead, Mina, you know the drill. Mute your phone
and we're gonna give him a shout to you.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Here we go, Hi, MA, speak with Tim. Please.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
This is Tim.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Hi Tim, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Hey, Tim, I know who you are.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
You do it?
Speaker 5 (03:52):
I was every day on my way to work.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Oh my god, tell your friends this guy gets to do.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
I mean, I'm gonna tell him about this? What what?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
What is this?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
So second date update is what we're doing.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Yeah, man, do you mind doing it with us?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Wow?
Speaker 5 (04:09):
I yeah? Okay, So somebody don't have the line? Yes, yes,
is it Mina or Kelly?
Speaker 1 (04:20):
It's it's Mina. Say hi Mina and uh and who's Kelly?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
And congrats to you on your very successful dating life.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Never mind, because I.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
Went on a date. Before we we went on a date,
I didn't know how who was calling?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Right, Okay, that's fair.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Congratulations on your success. I guess yeah whatever.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
Okay, you know you made her on a dating site.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Let's let's here, let's move forward. So Tim you listen,
you know what this is about. You know, Mina, Doug
you and you ghosted? Yes?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Did you ghost?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
And if so? Why?
Speaker 5 (04:57):
I mean I wanted to to keep, you know, just
to not be a big deal. But yeah, I just
found We went to her place and we were watching movies, right,
And I don't know, I just fell out of attracted
to her and I didn't want to, you know, make
this a big thing, especially on the radio.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Well here we are, so what is it?
Speaker 5 (05:19):
Yeah? I don't know, so I don't know if you
So we went to her place. We were watching Kung
Fu Panda two. Look, no, it's a fun movie. The
thing is, Mina, you laughed at like everything. I remember
how I was just comed on it the whole time.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Funny thing.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
Man, it's not just a laugh. It's like a cackle.
It's like it's like this wicked Witch of the West
type stuff. And it was just very distracting and you
left it everything, and it just started to drive me crazy.
And I wasn't trying to make a big deal out
of it, because you know, I know it's a comedy,
you know what I mean, But it was just starting
to drive me kind of weird and even when we
changed movies. I even put on a movie that wasn't
(05:58):
as much of a comedy, like we put on Iron Man.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Okay, and.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Man, you were just cracking up. But everything about that too,
even stuff that wasn't even funny, and it was like
driving me mad, like I like to watch movies, like
I pay attention to the movies. I don't even talk
during movies. And it was just a right, like you're
just laughing at every little thing. It's driving me could
out like is this a performance? It's just like a
It was very distracting and.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
So just so I understand, it's her laughs. Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
It's entirely the laugh, and that you'd laugh everything, and
then man, I didn't want to talk about it, like, yeah,
it's a weird laugh. It's like loud and cackoli.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
I remember one time I was dating this guy, not
my husband right now, but it was dating a guy
and we went and saw my big fat Greek wedding
in the movie theater and he shushed.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Me, well, you have several different laughs. I know, I know,
I wouldn't want to go to a comedy with you.
What sorry, that was out loud. Oops, let's move on.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
I mean the second one was, but the rest of
that day.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Was cool though, Like this seems slightly ridiculous, Emina, what
do you think? I mean, where are we here?
Speaker 3 (07:08):
I think him doing that makes him seem really shallow,
just because it doesn't like my lack. So that's kind
of offensive.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I'm kind of with her because I do have a
unique laugh and I have been shushed and I don't
like it.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Unique is a good word to use.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Well, y'all, this is what I avoided by trying to
ghost her. I didn't want this conversation that we're having
now on the radio.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You know what.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I didn't want to say it anymore because you could
have just manned up and told me that in the
first place, that I have me call radio stations.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Okay, so everybody's out, Glad I'm not single because I
got a laugh too.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Newly noted Hang on, everybody, Hang on all right? Second
date update seven oh five weekday mornings, replace it nine
oh five. As you know you can binge listen get
yourself caught up over the weekend on the iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
It's got its own podcast. Go search out Marcus and
Corey
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