November 19, 2025 • 6 mins
Nico’s date with Vanessa started off sweet: Italian food in Burlingame, beach talk, and a cute saucy moment he handled with care. But just as quickly as it started, she ghosted. We uncover the story behind the no-show.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three, It's Marcus back with
second date update. Not much success this week. However, every
day is a new day, am I right?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Nico? Are you there?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I'm here, I'm here, Thanks for having me. Yeah, man,
every day is a new date. Right.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Tell me about Vanessa, Like, how did you guys meet?
Because I understand she's ghosted cent your date. So what happened?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
How'd you guys meet? First of all, we.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Matched on bumble, had like a nice little back and forth,
you know, right, we went to this Italian place, and how.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Was the conversation would you guys talk about?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
We were talking about like childhood vacations, favorite areas and
beaches in the Bay Area. You know. A little cute
moment also happened, like she got a little bit of
marinaire on our sleeve and I gently like tapped it off.
I felt like I'd been training for that exact emergency
my entire life.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
My guy, I couldn't couldn't flag the server down for
soda water fast enough.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, and then like she just ghosted. I don't know,
It's it's weird. Like she had a good time. I think, yeah,
you know, but it's tough to get to read on
these dates these days. Man. Sure, I just really.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Liked the sum up like online dating in one word.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Too many options, too much sip. So like when you
match with someone that you actually is like there's a
top not human being, you know, Then when you get
ghosted on that, you're like, was I not the top being?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
All right, well, obviously we're gonna call her. Obviously I'm
gonna have you listening, not on hold, but like literally listening.
So let's make sure you mute your phone Star one
on one three, It's Marcus. We're doing second date update
right now. I've got Nico on the phone talking to
him off the air. I hope you don't mind me saying, Nico,
like I feel for you with the online dating. You
sound defeated and exhausted.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
I am. I am, but going for a second wind year.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
All right, positive vibes. Let's call Vanessa and see what's up.
Like I said, she she ghosted after your dates. Sot'
see if we can figure some things out. I would
love to get you a second date, but let's see
how it goes.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Hello, Hi, is this Vanessa?
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Hi, Vanessa, this is Marcus calling from Star one on
one three.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I listen every morning.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Yeah wow, oh I'm having such good luck with listeners.
I'm so glad. So what do you know about second
date update anything?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Gosh, yes, I know all of it. I great, Oh
my gosh, am I on the second date Update?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Yes, welcome, it's your time. You are now officially the Star.
So we've got a gentleman who took you out recently
holding he's listening obviously.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yeah, yeah it is n Hi, come on in Nico. Okay,
how are you?
Speaker 4 (03:07):
I know how this goes? He's there.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Great, So he's feeling like you ghosted.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
I don't want to accuse you of anything, but like
I'm genuinely curious did you ghost and if so, did
my guy do something?
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Have you been busy not feeling it? Obviously? You know,
honesty is the best policy.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
So yeah, what happened? You know? Honestly, Like, I feel
like the date just kind of went sideways when he
basically pulled out this like meal prep container from his
backpack and like ate this like pre measured chicken and
sweet potatoes at the table, and it was just really strange.
I felt like I was like dining with like a
(03:49):
nutrition TikTok situation. I don't know, it was very strange.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Did he ask for a cutting board to eat it
off of? I'm just kidding no, but.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
That wouldn't have been like out of the route. It's
so strange.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
So this was at the restaurant. Yeah, okay, you go,
like anything.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
About my macros? Yeah, Like I know, it's not like
as common, but like anybody that you look up to,
like who's in the fitness world, like they do it.
Even joined the Rock Johnson actually, like he's known for
taking his own meal prep. It's not like something that
I just came up with. It just makes it so
much easier to track macros. Like I just am, really
(04:33):
I am, and like you know, but I like still
splurged on my calories, actually saved up throughout the week
because I never do wine on a weekday for her,
like I wanted to, so like that was within my
intake that I could take.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Okay, but like you you invited me to dinner and
I ate the dinner and you ate out of temperware,
And I'm sorry, but like a single bass of wine
does not make the meal prep situation romantic.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
I didn't think it was the food that was going
to make a romantic. I thought it was our personalities
and company. You know, we were there to get to
know one another and.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Vanessa, Vanessa, was he hot enough to make the cut anyway?
I mean, you did say he's basically said he's the rock.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Basically, I mean, I.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Like, yeah, he's a good looking guy. But at the
end of the day, like, I'm not just looking for
a good looking guy like that. That's just like a
very awkward first date. I'm sorry if I can't, I
couldn't get over it, and I don't know, I don't
think I can.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Okay, that's a bummer.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
That's a part of my life though, you know, It's
like I still think she's great, but at the same time,
I'm looking for someone who's not as closed minded when
it comes to people's health, Okay.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I mean, I don't know a single girl that would
find this normal. Like if you can't put away your
meal prep for one day, I mean that's extreme.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
And hang on, hang on, you guys, hang on one second. Vanessa,
can I be honest with you, not the first time
this has happened, It's so weird, so weird to me,
this is little like we've been doing second up here,
change bro, I've been doing this for almost ten years.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
This is probably the third time. It's alright, I'm gonna.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
These men are still single.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I hear you. Hang on for me. I'd be back
tomorrow after seven o'clock
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three, It's Marcus back with
second date update. Not much success this week. However, every
day is a new day, am I right?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Nico? Are you there?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I'm here, I'm here, Thanks for having me. Yeah, man,
every day is a new date. Right.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Tell me about Vanessa, Like, how did you guys meet?
Because I understand she's ghosted cent your date. So what happened?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
How'd you guys meet? First of all, we.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Matched on bumble, had like a nice little back and forth,
you know, right, we went to this Italian place, and how.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Was the conversation would you guys talk about?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
We were talking about like childhood vacations, favorite areas and
beaches in the Bay Area. You know. A little cute
moment also happened, like she got a little bit of
marinaire on our sleeve and I gently like tapped it off.
I felt like I'd been training for that exact emergency
my entire life.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
My guy, I couldn't couldn't flag the server down for
soda water fast enough.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, and then like she just ghosted. I don't know,
It's it's weird. Like she had a good time. I think, yeah,
you know, but it's tough to get to read on
these dates these days. Man. Sure, I just really.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Liked the sum up like online dating in one word.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Too many options, too much sip. So like when you
match with someone that you actually is like there's a
top not human being, you know, Then when you get
ghosted on that, you're like, was I not the top being?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
All right, well, obviously we're gonna call her. Obviously I'm
gonna have you listening, not on hold, but like literally listening.
So let's make sure you mute your phone Star one
on one three, It's Marcus. We're doing second date update
right now. I've got Nico on the phone talking to
him off the air. I hope you don't mind me saying, Nico,
like I feel for you with the online dating. You
sound defeated and exhausted.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
I am. I am, but going for a second wind year.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
All right, positive vibes. Let's call Vanessa and see what's up.
Like I said, she she ghosted after your dates. Sot'
see if we can figure some things out. I would
love to get you a second date, but let's see
how it goes.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Hello, Hi, is this Vanessa?
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Hi, Vanessa, this is Marcus calling from Star one on
one three.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I listen every morning.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Yeah wow, oh I'm having such good luck with listeners.
I'm so glad. So what do you know about second
date update anything?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Gosh, yes, I know all of it. I great, Oh
my gosh, am I on the second date Update?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Yes, welcome, it's your time. You are now officially the Star.
So we've got a gentleman who took you out recently
holding he's listening obviously.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yeah, yeah it is n Hi, come on in Nico. Okay,
how are you?
Speaker 4 (03:07):
I know how this goes? He's there.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Great, So he's feeling like you ghosted.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
I don't want to accuse you of anything, but like
I'm genuinely curious did you ghost and if so, did
my guy do something?
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Have you been busy not feeling it? Obviously? You know,
honesty is the best policy.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
So yeah, what happened? You know? Honestly, Like, I feel
like the date just kind of went sideways when he
basically pulled out this like meal prep container from his
backpack and like ate this like pre measured chicken and
sweet potatoes at the table, and it was just really strange.
I felt like I was like dining with like a
(03:49):
nutrition TikTok situation. I don't know, it was very strange.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Did he ask for a cutting board to eat it
off of? I'm just kidding no, but.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
That wouldn't have been like out of the route. It's
so strange.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
So this was at the restaurant. Yeah, okay, you go,
like anything.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
About my macros? Yeah, Like I know, it's not like
as common, but like anybody that you look up to,
like who's in the fitness world, like they do it.
Even joined the Rock Johnson actually, like he's known for
taking his own meal prep. It's not like something that
I just came up with. It just makes it so
much easier to track macros. Like I just am, really
(04:33):
I am, and like you know, but I like still
splurged on my calories, actually saved up throughout the week
because I never do wine on a weekday for her,
like I wanted to, so like that was within my
intake that I could take.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Okay, but like you you invited me to dinner and
I ate the dinner and you ate out of temperware,
And I'm sorry, but like a single bass of wine
does not make the meal prep situation romantic.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
I didn't think it was the food that was going
to make a romantic. I thought it was our personalities
and company. You know, we were there to get to
know one another and.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Vanessa, Vanessa, was he hot enough to make the cut anyway?
I mean, you did say he's basically said he's the rock.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Basically, I mean, I.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Like, yeah, he's a good looking guy. But at the
end of the day, like, I'm not just looking for
a good looking guy like that. That's just like a
very awkward first date. I'm sorry if I can't, I
couldn't get over it, and I don't know, I don't
think I can.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Okay, that's a bummer.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
That's a part of my life though, you know, It's
like I still think she's great, but at the same time,
I'm looking for someone who's not as closed minded when
it comes to people's health, Okay.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I mean, I don't know a single girl that would
find this normal. Like if you can't put away your
meal prep for one day, I mean that's extreme.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
And hang on, hang on, you guys, hang on one second. Vanessa,
can I be honest with you, not the first time
this has happened, It's so weird, so weird to me,
this is little like we've been doing second up here,
change bro, I've been doing this for almost ten years.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
This is probably the third time. It's alright, I'm gonna.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
These men are still single.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I hear you. Hang on for me. I'd be back
tomorrow after seven o'clock
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