October 6, 2025 • 7 mins
Rachel called us about Mateo. They connected on Bumble and grabbed drinks in Berkeley. Rachel said they talked about work, music, and even shared nachos. She said she thought he was charming. But Mateo ghosted.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey and
we're back with it from the weekend. This is second
date Update. What about love? Don't you want someone to
care about you?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I mean, that's the whole point of this second d update.
Wants to find out why you baited me, why you're
not getting that second date.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Let's bring Rachel on real quick. Rachel, are you there?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Yeah? Hello?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
What about love? Rachel? Don't let it slip away? God,
I can't stop. Oh well, good morning, good morning. Understand
that you've been ghosted and we want to talk about
your date with Matteo. What can you tell us? Okay,
So how did you meet first? And then and then
run us through the first date?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Okay? So we met on Bumble. We were chatting on
there for a bit, you know, I thought he was
really cute. We matched. Then we decided to like meet
up and we grabbed drinks in Berkeley and I thought
it went great. I mean, we just talked for a while,
we talked about work, you did like, we shared nachos.
It was such a cute little moment.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Nacho. It's the international language of love.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Well, I was gonna say, once you share a finger food,
you're already that's already thirty base. See totally, that's like
exactly nice guy.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Though so nice, I mean like I had the best time.
I thought he was super sweet, and then I just
never heard from him again.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
What's really going on? Corey? Your thoughts?
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Well, what I'm thinking is that Matteo is actually a
well intentioned young officer who thinks he's found his ticket
to becoming a detective by working with an undercover officer.
So this undercover officer is a notorious figure in the
streets and in the office. He also has the authority
to make Mateo's professional wishes come true, provided Matteo is
(01:47):
able to prove his.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Worth training day. Thank bang, Rachel doesn't even know what's
going on.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I thought that sounded like training day.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
So where it is Mateo? Is he on a side?
He's still undercover? Oh well, Rachel, we're gonna We're gonna
call him and get the real deal. Are you ready
to do this?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Right?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
I guess, so let's do it. We're gonna call him.
We'll have you on the line. Feeling kind of unappreciated,
all have you muted it out, hang on, Okay, we'll
do it next. Second Date updates Star one O one
three more variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and
today it's Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey.
We're doing second date updates. Yes, and we've been chatting
with Rachel. Do not with mateo. They met online and
(02:29):
they grabbed drinks in Berkeley and the conversation went from
work to music sharing. Is they shared nachos? Yeah, which
may not seem like a big deal to some people,
but to others. Love language. Rachel, you still there?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Okay, did I get all that right? Perfect? Okay, let's
call him and try to figure this out. I want
to get you a second date, but let me get
some answers at least. So go ahead and mute your phone.
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Hello, Hi, may speak with the teo please, I'm Mateo.
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one O one three.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
My man, Hello, Hello.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Like a radio station.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Yes, do you listen to our show?
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I'm sorry to say I do not.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
I already knew that.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Delightful.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
So we're doing a dating segment right now, and one
of our listeners send us your phone number, says that
you went on on a date, says you're a really
nice guy, had the best time, but she's feeling ghosted.
So first I have to ask if you would be
willing to talk about said date on the air with
this for at.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Few Yes, is this about Rachel?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
I'm guessing it is what it is, you know what,
at least he remember his names. I like that.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
I know you're not.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Trying to like trap me into saying anything if I mean,
I'm happy to talk about.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
It, just okay, you know, just for a couple of
minutes on the air, if you have the time. Is
that okay?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay? Did you did you ghost?
Speaker 5 (04:02):
I mean I did stop contact. I don't know if
it's really ghosting.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
I mean we had one date and it's it's not
like I you know, I feel like ghosting you have
to build something a little bit and then drop communication.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
I just I think it kind of fizzled out as
how i'd.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Say it, okay, but yeah, I just the vibes were
not really what I was looking for at this point
in my my dating life. So I just didn't really
see it going any further and didn't feel like pursuing
her at all.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Did something happen.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Yeah, well it happened on the date.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Okay, so she didn't do anything, you know, there wasn't
one thing that she did necessarily. Again, it was just
kind of a vibe she kept. She kept doing things
like she would she would be biting her straw kind
of suggestively and like making eye contact. And you know,
I've I've been around enough to know when someone's like
flirting in that way.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
And she said something.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
Like she always judges a man by how he hand
his hands. She kept talking about like physical traits of
me in a way that again was kind of like
a little wink wink, a little pointed.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
I'm sorry, did you get objectified on a date? Asking
if objectified, I.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Wouldn't say that. It's just again, not not what I wanted.
She even at one.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Point asked if she thought we'd have good physical chemistry,
which you know is basically like hey, are you good
in bed?
Speaker 5 (05:23):
Can you can you lay it down? And I just
wasn't really what I was after, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Okay, so you just what this first date to be
where you get to know her, and it got a
little more suggestive than you were comfortable with.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yeah, exactly, it kind of seemed like she was ready
to kind of jump into that night and I I'm
a little past my.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Uh my Netflix and show hookup phase. So just.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Can I ask any question though, Corey, doesn't this happen
to women all the time?
Speaker 2 (05:50):
What do you mean you mean, like if the roles
were reversed?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah, not necessarily.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I mean, sometimes you're gonna run into a guy who's
gonna go wink wink, nudgs nudge. But I would hope
most of the time in a date, there's some lines
not to be crossed.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Sure, well, of course there are. But do they get honored?
That's my question? Doesn't matter, Matteo. So just you just
decided it's not your thing? Is that accurate?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Yeah? Again, the vibes were off.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
It's more of like a turnoff and a turn on,
And that's kind of how he has all the time.
It's it's not a match.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
So the other half of this is that Rachel is listening.
She's on the phone right now, She's hearing what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
It's a teachable moment.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Rachel, are you there?
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, Rachel? Matteo mateo, Rachel.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Hey Mateo. Uh yeah, Okay, I hear what you said,
but I was just being bold. It's twenty twenty five.
Why can't women put out a vibe? Also? That's part
of it. I mean, physical chemistry is part of dating.
So I don't really understand why you would be turned
off by that. That's like a little confusing. But like,
(06:54):
if there's a spark, why not go for our? Life short?
Speaker 1 (06:57):
And I see her side of it too.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
You know this is women are just as equal as
men in the fact that if you know you're on
that vibe, why not go for it?
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Sure, sure, But again, I mean you're saying twenty twenty five.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
I feel like society has kind of changed a little
bit to where that's just you know, I clearly put
in my profile like I'm looking for a relationship.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
There's things in there about Hey.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
I'm you know, life is short, You're right, and I
don't want to waste time as in, you know, I'm
looking for something real and you know, I think those
those physical boxes to check come a little later down
the line, and I want someone with similar values and
perspectives as all.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Okay, so you don't like anyone to flirt with you,
all right, Well we'll keep that in mind next time,
Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey and
we're back with it from the weekend. This is second
date Update. What about love? Don't you want someone to
care about you?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I mean, that's the whole point of this second d update.
Wants to find out why you baited me, why you're
not getting that second date.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Let's bring Rachel on real quick. Rachel, are you there?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Yeah? Hello?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
What about love? Rachel? Don't let it slip away? God,
I can't stop. Oh well, good morning, good morning. Understand
that you've been ghosted and we want to talk about
your date with Matteo. What can you tell us? Okay,
So how did you meet first? And then and then
run us through the first date?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Okay? So we met on Bumble. We were chatting on
there for a bit, you know, I thought he was
really cute. We matched. Then we decided to like meet
up and we grabbed drinks in Berkeley and I thought
it went great. I mean, we just talked for a while,
we talked about work, you did like, we shared nachos.
It was such a cute little moment.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Nacho. It's the international language of love.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Well, I was gonna say, once you share a finger food,
you're already that's already thirty base. See totally, that's like
exactly nice guy.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Though so nice, I mean like I had the best time.
I thought he was super sweet, and then I just
never heard from him again.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
What's really going on? Corey? Your thoughts?
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Well, what I'm thinking is that Matteo is actually a
well intentioned young officer who thinks he's found his ticket
to becoming a detective by working with an undercover officer.
So this undercover officer is a notorious figure in the
streets and in the office. He also has the authority
to make Mateo's professional wishes come true, provided Matteo is
(01:47):
able to prove his.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Worth training day. Thank bang, Rachel doesn't even know what's
going on.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I thought that sounded like training day.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
So where it is Mateo? Is he on a side?
He's still undercover? Oh well, Rachel, we're gonna We're gonna
call him and get the real deal. Are you ready
to do this?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Right?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
I guess, so let's do it. We're gonna call him.
We'll have you on the line. Feeling kind of unappreciated,
all have you muted it out, hang on, Okay, we'll
do it next. Second Date updates Star one O one
three more variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and
today it's Star one O one three. It's Marcus and Corey.
We're doing second date updates. Yes, and we've been chatting
with Rachel. Do not with mateo. They met online and
(02:29):
they grabbed drinks in Berkeley and the conversation went from
work to music sharing. Is they shared nachos? Yeah, which
may not seem like a big deal to some people,
but to others. Love language. Rachel, you still there?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Okay, did I get all that right? Perfect? Okay, let's
call him and try to figure this out. I want
to get you a second date, but let me get
some answers at least. So go ahead and mute your phone.
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Hello, Hi, may speak with the teo please, I'm Mateo.
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one O one three.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
My man, Hello, Hello.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Like a radio station.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Yes, do you listen to our show?
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I'm sorry to say I do not.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
I already knew that.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Delightful.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
So we're doing a dating segment right now, and one
of our listeners send us your phone number, says that
you went on on a date, says you're a really
nice guy, had the best time, but she's feeling ghosted.
So first I have to ask if you would be
willing to talk about said date on the air with
this for at.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Few Yes, is this about Rachel?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
I'm guessing it is what it is, you know what,
at least he remember his names. I like that.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
I know you're not.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Trying to like trap me into saying anything if I mean,
I'm happy to talk about.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
It, just okay, you know, just for a couple of
minutes on the air, if you have the time. Is
that okay?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay? Did you did you ghost?
Speaker 5 (04:02):
I mean I did stop contact. I don't know if
it's really ghosting.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
I mean we had one date and it's it's not
like I you know, I feel like ghosting you have
to build something a little bit and then drop communication.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
I just I think it kind of fizzled out as
how i'd.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Say it, okay, but yeah, I just the vibes were
not really what I was looking for at this point
in my my dating life. So I just didn't really
see it going any further and didn't feel like pursuing
her at all.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Did something happen.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Yeah, well it happened on the date.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Okay, so she didn't do anything, you know, there wasn't
one thing that she did necessarily. Again, it was just
kind of a vibe she kept. She kept doing things
like she would she would be biting her straw kind
of suggestively and like making eye contact. And you know,
I've I've been around enough to know when someone's like
flirting in that way.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
And she said something.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
Like she always judges a man by how he hand
his hands. She kept talking about like physical traits of
me in a way that again was kind of like
a little wink wink, a little pointed.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
I'm sorry, did you get objectified on a date? Asking
if objectified, I.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Wouldn't say that. It's just again, not not what I wanted.
She even at one.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Point asked if she thought we'd have good physical chemistry,
which you know is basically like hey, are you good
in bed?
Speaker 5 (05:23):
Can you can you lay it down? And I just
wasn't really what I was after, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Okay, so you just what this first date to be
where you get to know her, and it got a
little more suggestive than you were comfortable with.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yeah, exactly, it kind of seemed like she was ready
to kind of jump into that night and I I'm
a little past my.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Uh my Netflix and show hookup phase. So just.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Can I ask any question though, Corey, doesn't this happen
to women all the time?
Speaker 2 (05:50):
What do you mean you mean, like if the roles
were reversed?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah, not necessarily.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
I mean, sometimes you're gonna run into a guy who's
gonna go wink wink, nudgs nudge. But I would hope
most of the time in a date, there's some lines
not to be crossed.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Sure, well, of course there are. But do they get honored?
That's my question? Doesn't matter, Matteo. So just you just
decided it's not your thing? Is that accurate?
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Yeah? Again, the vibes were off.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
It's more of like a turnoff and a turn on,
And that's kind of how he has all the time.
It's it's not a match.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
So the other half of this is that Rachel is listening.
She's on the phone right now, She's hearing what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
It's a teachable moment.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Rachel, are you there?
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, Rachel? Matteo mateo, Rachel.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Hey Mateo. Uh yeah, Okay, I hear what you said,
but I was just being bold. It's twenty twenty five.
Why can't women put out a vibe? Also? That's part
of it. I mean, physical chemistry is part of dating.
So I don't really understand why you would be turned
off by that. That's like a little confusing. But like,
(06:54):
if there's a spark, why not go for our? Life short?
Speaker 1 (06:57):
And I see her side of it too.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
You know this is women are just as equal as
men in the fact that if you know you're on
that vibe, why not go for it?
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Sure, sure, But again, I mean you're saying twenty twenty five.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
I feel like society has kind of changed a little
bit to where that's just you know, I clearly put
in my profile like I'm looking for a relationship.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
There's things in there about Hey.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
I'm you know, life is short, You're right, and I
don't want to waste time as in, you know, I'm
looking for something real and you know, I think those
those physical boxes to check come a little later down
the line, and I want someone with similar values and
perspectives as all.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Okay, so you don't like anyone to flirt with you,
all right, Well we'll keep that in mind next time,
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