Raj is Just Getting Back Into The Dating Scene

He's recently divorced, so he's dipping slowly back into dating, and his experience with Sofia was awesome, and he really wants to connect with her again. Problem is, she's not making it easy.

Episode Transcript

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Whole variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
O one three. It's Marcus andCorey time once again for second date update.
It's your favorite it is. Thisis where we dive into the dating
world. And even though we've beenmarried for a long long time, we
were going to help you with yourlove life. Yo. We killed it
last week for five last week.Okay, these are good odds. You're

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right, You're right. Don't worry, Raj, we got your back.
Are you there, I'm here?Okay. Good With regards to your email,
it sounds like she's ghosted, Butwhy don't we just talk about it?
Uh? Sophia was her name?How did you guys meet and then
tell us about the first date wemet online? Hinge? I think you've
heard of that, of course,of course. And yes, we decided

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to grab drinks on a Friday indowntown San Jose, okay, like a
few weeks back, and you know, it seems like a pretty good day
to me. She works in marketingand I'm a general contractor. I mean,
what what two perfect people like?It's absolutely perfect? You know that
match right there? She sells thehouses, you build the houses. Come

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on, that's right. Yes,and just a backstory. I've been divorced
for about a year and a half, so I'm just getting back in the
game. Sure, I don't thinkI'm rusty in any way. You know,
I thought again, she was prettycool. Our conversations were, you
know, they flowed. I wasn'tlike missing a beat here. I was
pretty sure that I made her laugh. That's kind of the thing you make,

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you make them laugh. But likeat the very end, it kind
of was like it was all great, but then we hugged it out and
then she goes to me. Okay, so we need to figure out what
happened, what made her disappear.Yeah, okay, let's call her.
Let's just we'll just cut right tothe chase. Hang on the line,

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we'll play a song, we'll regroup, and then we'll give Sophia a call.
Okay, and that sounds good?All right, dude, Hang on
one second Second date up Star oneon one three variety from the two thousands,
the nineties and today it's Star oneon one three. It's Marcus and
Corey. We are doing second Dateupdate. We've been talking to Raj on
the phone. He and Sophia metup in santose first. Was it drinks
or was it drinks some dinner?Rag? It was just drink Okay,

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sometimes that segues into appetizers. Younever know sometimes, but I have to
wonder. Yeah, I didn't.So she is. Yeah, so she's
ghosted right completely. I'm just recappinghere. Yeah, it's been about a
couple of weeks. Let's call her, let's figure it out. Yeah,
hang online. Oh go ahead andmute please and we'll get started here.

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We got it, Thank you,thank you. Hello, h I may
speak with Sophia please. Hi,am the ish. Hi Sophia. It
is Marcus and Corey from Star oneone three. What's up? Sophia?
Are you serious? How are you? Let's have I'm so good. I

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listen to you guys every morning.Oh my god, I love it,
so you know watch mama? Wait? Wait, am I on second date?
Update? You know it? Sarah? You cool talking to us about
the date? You and way?Oh my god, I honestly take a
deep breath. Can you do this? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, no,

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I'm good. I'm okay, wecan do this. Okay. Any
idea who we're calling about that mightbe sitting on the phone right now is
this for Raj? It is?It is? Hey, Raj? Are
you there? Oh god? Ohyeah, I'm here. Okay, Okay,
she knows the drills, so sheknows you're on the phone. Hi,

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Hi Raj. So uh, drinkswent well? But did you ghost?
I mean, if I'm asking,I, I yes, I did
ghost. But okay, so letme say this, Raj. You're like,
he's very I don't even know howto say this. Okay, I'll

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just say it is a very hairyguy, like maybe too hairy, okay,
like too much like long hair,well like, oh my gosh,
I'm just gonna say it. Okay, you just like you need to do
some landscaping. I don't know,his got hair on his back and his

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chest that's like so thick that itwas like poking through his shirt. And
I mean he was sweating and itwas just it was too much. Like
I think you just need to takebetter care of yourself and respect your body
a little more. I think you'rereally exaggerating. First of all, how
did you see my back? AndI don't have your shirt. I do

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not have that much hair. AndI gotta tell you, like, what
are you actually looking for? Menhave hair, you know. It's yeah,
it's like I'm not some kind oftoy boys. You want me to
be like one of the sissy boyswaxes. They're like whoa, whoa wow,
And we didn't have hair too.I have hair, Yes, I

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have manly hair, and that's whata real man has. I mean,
I think you're being really short sightedhere. There's nothing wrong with making yourself
presentable, and like, I mean, I feel really bad and I'm sorry,
Like I know this is a superawkward topic, but you have like
ear hair and like nose hair comingout and was so distracting. I couldn't
even like pay attention to the date. It was so much like I don't

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know if anybody told you this,but but someone close to you should have
told you, like this is aproblem that you need to fix. Like
I mean, you don't have togo crazy, like you don't have to
be an Olympic swimmer here, butyou should just like just like rein it
in a little bit. I can'tbelieve you just called me short sighted because
like we had a great date andyou're just gonna go somebody because of a

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little body hair. I feel likethat's the short sighted person don't you think
I mean a little hair. Ithink I could have knitted a sweater and
a scarf. So it's true youhaven't seen this guy. All right,
Well, look we could go backand forth in I'm gonna no second date.
Huh no no no, no,all right, very good? Uh

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wow, not very good at all. Second Date Update seven oh five.
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