September 12, 2025 • 8 mins
Rosa called us about Miguel. They matched on Hinge and went out for dinner in Walnut Creek. Rosa said they split calamari, ordered pasta, and lingered over dessert because the conversation was going so well. She thought Miguel was funny and attentive, and she couldn’t figure out why he ghosted.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Or variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey and
we're doing second Date Update again. Get this thing started.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
We're pulling the curtain all the way back on your
first dates, examining it to see why you're not getting
a second date.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Here to help out our lady, Rosa Rosa, Hello, good morning,
Good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
How are you guys?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Good? How are you holding up? Okay?
Speaker 5 (00:21):
Whoa?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Since the great ghosting of I mean, how dare he?
Let's be honest, I am right.
Speaker 5 (00:29):
Oh.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
I thought everything was so amazing, just incredible, undefiled myself by.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
The way that sigh you just let out epitomized everybody's
dating life right now.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I think, yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Not great. At least it's not the Tinder swindler. I've
been watching this new you know, Netflix documentary called like
rom Com Revenge or something, and at least he didn't
take me for you know, thousands of dollars.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
At least he's not that person.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Yeah, all right, well, she's seeing the glasses half full.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
I like it. Let's talk about it. How did you
guys meet though? And then like, what did you do?
Run us?
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Through the first date we did meet on a dating app,
it was hinge. I liked that he wanted to do
a traditional dinner date. It wasn't let's just grab a
drink somewhere. He wanted to actually sit down and eat
and have conversations. So that was nice. But we went
out in Walnut Creek and we split some great foods.
We did a whole pasta dinner and had some great
(01:26):
kalmari together, and dessert was going great. I mean we
were just talking up the storm. I mean, dessert was
like half as long as dinner. I mean it lasted
for a really long time, and I thought it was
going great. And I don't know, he was funny, he
was attentive, and he seemed interested like he would go
out again, right. He didn't say that. I mean he
(01:49):
gave me a kiss on the cheek at the end
and said, hey, had a great night, you get home safe,
you know, put me in my list, and that was it.
I thought it went great.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Okay, fair enough, Corey. Do you have any idea what happens?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Yeah, I'm thinking mcguel is like a sales guy and
he's with his coworker and they end up trashing their
company truck, which is actually in the shape of the minotaur,
and so the court gives them a choice. They can
either do jail time or community service in like this
kid's club called Sturdy Wings, and they take the kids
(02:21):
club because they don't want to go to jail. But
they have a really hard time with it because one
of them's into LARPing and the other was just sassy
kid who doesn't like anybody, and so they're busy trying
to get their hours done for the judge.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
What is happening right now?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (02:37):
What?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Oh my god?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Is it? Wait? Is it a movie plot?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Don't even worry about it. We have to take care
of Rosa right now.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
All right, let's call Miguel and see if we can
figure out what happened.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
I hope, I hope it's not as exciting as that.
But if it was as exciting as that plot, I'm okay.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Hoping for the mentor truck. All right, hang on the line.
We're going to call them after this. It's second Date Updates,
Star one oh one three, more variety from the two thousands,
the nineties, and today it's Star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey were doing Second Date Update talking
to Rosa about her date with Miguel. They met on
hinge and had dinner and one in the creek.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
So easy. Yeah, and Rosa, your words.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
He was attentive, he was charming, nice guy, kiss on
the cheek, and then he was never to be seen again, disappear.
Let's call Miguel and see if we can figure this out.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
I'd love to get you a second date, Rosa. So
let's just cross our fingers. Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Hello, I may speak with Miguel.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Please, Yeah, let's see Miguel.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
It is Marcus and Corey from Star.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
One, O one three, Hello a radio fas. Yes, do
you listen to our show?
Speaker 5 (03:55):
I can't say that I do.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I'm sorry. Why that's fine? I mean, Corey, are we delightful?
Speaker 2 (04:01):
We're delightful. We're doing our dating segment. It's called Second
Date Update. And someone called us about you.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Wondering do you have a second to be on the
air with us by chance?
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (04:13):
Yeah, but I've never heard of this.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Oh don't worry, we'll walk you through it. So okay,
Rosa floated us your phone number. She said that she
had a great time at dinner with you. This was
in Walnut Creek and she's thought you were into it.
She'd love to go out again. She's feeling like you ghost.
Did you even remember Rosa?
Speaker 5 (04:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Yeah I do?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Okay, did you ghost Rosa? I did?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
I did?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Okay, that's all right. Can you tell us why?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Like we're trying to trying to use this as a
as a learning experience and maybe figure out something go wrong.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
I mean not really. I mean she was nice, we
had a good conversation, but overall, the best way I
can say, she was just a little a little much
like a little too much.
Speaker 6 (05:03):
And what kind of area, well, you know, and I'm
using like too much in the vein when you say
somebody just they're just a lot like okay.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
For example, she asked the waiter to triple check if
the bread was gluten free three times.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
She has to go back, can you make sure?
Speaker 5 (05:23):
And then she didn't even eat the bread.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Okay, okay, And so that was a little like, oh
that's a lot.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
You let that go though, you get that like that
was I meanebody's got securiarities.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
And then like also like every between every course, she
would use hand sanitizer, sanitize her utensils, with the with
the sanitizer.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Like literally scrub onto the utensils. Yeah, like with the
napkin and like clean it. Okay, I'm still I'm still
in I mean.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
It's not sure. Some people are I guess odd or.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Was this a nice restaurant?
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Yeah, okay, Like I said, it's necessarily bad things, just
maybe not for me. And then we were talking and
he asked me to like retell one of the stories
I was telling her in a more romantic way so
that she could picture like the two of us doing
it together as.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
A couple doing what his story.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Yeah, I was talking about like hiking, you know, I
like doing outstore stuff and like that. And then she
was like, oh, well, can you say it like in
a moral like if we were there together. I'm like,
that was all off to me, was just and that's
you know, honestly, those are only three things I think
it again, It's nothing terrible, but it's a lot not
for me.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
All right. So here's the other part of this, if
I may, Rosa is listening right now. We're just trying
to well you didn't tell me that, no, I forgot. Yeah,
we're just trying to learn some things.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Rosa are you there. Okay, this does seem like a lot.
I'm not going to lie, so.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
I just want to preface the way he's presenting this
information and say that the bread had an odor to it,
and I can smell glue it. So even though they
told me the bread was gluten free, I had an
inkling that it actually had gluten.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
It he smoked gluten.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
After COVID, I never got away from not using hand sanitizer.
It's kind of just a habit. But beyond that, I think,
at the end of the day, I have high standards,
and I just don't feel like Miguel understood that if
we're going to consider dating, I want to be able
to picture it. I want to be able to imagine it.
And I'm sorry if I want to be able to
(07:43):
imagine that while I have clean hands and I want
to not have dirty silverware. I mean, you know how
it is when you go to a restaurant and you
look at your silverware and there's water spots or a
little like dried on food crumbs, Like that's just a
pet of mine, and it's disgusting. I just think I
have high standards, and he was put off by my,
my high standards, and I just think he's a cop
out of a man who just doesn't understand that when
(08:04):
women have high standards, maybe you're just not good enough.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Hold on, are you, Miguel?
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Now you're not interrupting me, Miguel because you know I'm right.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Are you tapping out? Did she just tap? I think so.
Or variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey and
we're doing second Date Update again. Get this thing started.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
We're pulling the curtain all the way back on your
first dates, examining it to see why you're not getting
a second date.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Here to help out our lady, Rosa Rosa, Hello, good morning,
Good morning.
Speaker 4 (00:18):
How are you guys?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Good? How are you holding up? Okay?
Speaker 5 (00:21):
Whoa?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Since the great ghosting of I mean, how dare he?
Let's be honest, I am right.
Speaker 5 (00:29):
Oh.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
I thought everything was so amazing, just incredible, undefiled myself by.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
The way that sigh you just let out epitomized everybody's
dating life right now.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I think, yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Not great. At least it's not the Tinder swindler. I've
been watching this new you know, Netflix documentary called like
rom Com Revenge or something, and at least he didn't
take me for you know, thousands of dollars.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
At least he's not that person.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Yeah, all right, well, she's seeing the glasses half full.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
I like it. Let's talk about it. How did you
guys meet though? And then like, what did you do?
Run us?
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Through the first date we did meet on a dating app,
it was hinge. I liked that he wanted to do
a traditional dinner date. It wasn't let's just grab a
drink somewhere. He wanted to actually sit down and eat
and have conversations. So that was nice. But we went
out in Walnut Creek and we split some great foods.
We did a whole pasta dinner and had some great
(01:26):
kalmari together, and dessert was going great. I mean we
were just talking up the storm. I mean, dessert was
like half as long as dinner. I mean it lasted
for a really long time, and I thought it was
going great. And I don't know, he was funny, he
was attentive, and he seemed interested like he would go
out again, right. He didn't say that. I mean he
(01:49):
gave me a kiss on the cheek at the end
and said, hey, had a great night, you get home safe,
you know, put me in my list, and that was it.
I thought it went great.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Okay, fair enough, Corey. Do you have any idea what happens?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Yeah, I'm thinking mcguel is like a sales guy and
he's with his coworker and they end up trashing their
company truck, which is actually in the shape of the minotaur,
and so the court gives them a choice. They can
either do jail time or community service in like this
kid's club called Sturdy Wings, and they take the kids
(02:21):
club because they don't want to go to jail. But
they have a really hard time with it because one
of them's into LARPing and the other was just sassy
kid who doesn't like anybody, and so they're busy trying
to get their hours done for the judge.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
What is happening right now?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (02:37):
What?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Oh my god?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Is it? Wait? Is it a movie plot?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Don't even worry about it. We have to take care
of Rosa right now.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
All right, let's call Miguel and see if we can
figure out what happened.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
I hope, I hope it's not as exciting as that.
But if it was as exciting as that plot, I'm okay.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Hoping for the mentor truck. All right, hang on the line.
We're going to call them after this. It's second Date Updates,
Star one oh one three, more variety from the two thousands,
the nineties, and today it's Star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey were doing Second Date Update talking
to Rosa about her date with Miguel. They met on
hinge and had dinner and one in the creek.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
So easy. Yeah, and Rosa, your words.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
He was attentive, he was charming, nice guy, kiss on
the cheek, and then he was never to be seen again, disappear.
Let's call Miguel and see if we can figure this out.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
I'd love to get you a second date, Rosa. So
let's just cross our fingers. Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Hello, I may speak with Miguel.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Please, Yeah, let's see Miguel.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
It is Marcus and Corey from Star.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
One, O one three, Hello a radio fas. Yes, do
you listen to our show?
Speaker 5 (03:55):
I can't say that I do.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I'm sorry. Why that's fine? I mean, Corey, are we delightful?
Speaker 2 (04:01):
We're delightful. We're doing our dating segment. It's called Second
Date Update. And someone called us about you.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Wondering do you have a second to be on the
air with us by chance?
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (04:13):
Yeah, but I've never heard of this.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Oh don't worry, we'll walk you through it. So okay,
Rosa floated us your phone number. She said that she
had a great time at dinner with you. This was
in Walnut Creek and she's thought you were into it.
She'd love to go out again. She's feeling like you ghost.
Did you even remember Rosa?
Speaker 5 (04:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Yeah I do?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Okay, did you ghost Rosa? I did?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
I did?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Okay, that's all right. Can you tell us why?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Like we're trying to trying to use this as a
as a learning experience and maybe figure out something go wrong.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
I mean not really. I mean she was nice, we
had a good conversation, but overall, the best way I
can say, she was just a little a little much
like a little too much.
Speaker 6 (05:03):
And what kind of area, well, you know, and I'm
using like too much in the vein when you say
somebody just they're just a lot like okay.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
For example, she asked the waiter to triple check if
the bread was gluten free three times.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
She has to go back, can you make sure?
Speaker 5 (05:23):
And then she didn't even eat the bread.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Okay, okay, And so that was a little like, oh
that's a lot.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
You let that go though, you get that like that
was I meanebody's got securiarities.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
And then like also like every between every course, she
would use hand sanitizer, sanitize her utensils, with the with
the sanitizer.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Like literally scrub onto the utensils. Yeah, like with the
napkin and like clean it. Okay, I'm still I'm still
in I mean.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
It's not sure. Some people are I guess odd or.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Was this a nice restaurant?
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Yeah, okay, Like I said, it's necessarily bad things, just
maybe not for me. And then we were talking and
he asked me to like retell one of the stories
I was telling her in a more romantic way so
that she could picture like the two of us doing
it together as.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
A couple doing what his story.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Yeah, I was talking about like hiking, you know, I
like doing outstore stuff and like that. And then she
was like, oh, well, can you say it like in
a moral like if we were there together. I'm like,
that was all off to me, was just and that's
you know, honestly, those are only three things I think
it again, It's nothing terrible, but it's a lot not
for me.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
All right. So here's the other part of this, if
I may, Rosa is listening right now. We're just trying
to well you didn't tell me that, no, I forgot. Yeah,
we're just trying to learn some things.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Rosa are you there. Okay, this does seem like a lot.
I'm not going to lie, so.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
I just want to preface the way he's presenting this
information and say that the bread had an odor to it,
and I can smell glue it. So even though they
told me the bread was gluten free, I had an
inkling that it actually had gluten.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
It he smoked gluten.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
After COVID, I never got away from not using hand sanitizer.
It's kind of just a habit. But beyond that, I think,
at the end of the day, I have high standards,
and I just don't feel like Miguel understood that if
we're going to consider dating, I want to be able
to picture it. I want to be able to imagine it.
And I'm sorry if I want to be able to
(07:43):
imagine that while I have clean hands and I want
to not have dirty silverware. I mean, you know how
it is when you go to a restaurant and you
look at your silverware and there's water spots or a
little like dried on food crumbs, Like that's just a
pet of mine, and it's disgusting. I just think I
have high standards, and he was put off by my,
my high standards, and I just think he's a cop
out of a man who just doesn't understand that when
(08:04):
women have high standards, maybe you're just not good enough.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Hold on, are you, Miguel?
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Now you're not interrupting me, Miguel because you know I'm right.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Are you tapping out? Did she just tap? I think so.
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