September 4, 2025 • 6 mins
Sean got in touch about Rachel. They met on Hinge and went to a late-night diner in Oakland. Sean said they clicked right away, were laughing over milkshakes and fries, and he left thinking the chemistry was strong. But Rachel ghosted him afterward, so he called us for help.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three, It's Marcus a Chori
and we're back with second Date Update.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
We help you try to get to the bottom of
why you're not snagging that second date.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
That's right, got to say. What's up to Sean this morning? Sean?
Are you there?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Good. We want to hear all about Rachel. Let's just
start there. I understand you you've been ghosted, so let's
just talk about it. How did you guys meet and
then what did you end up doing for your first date?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Yeah, we met on Hinge and uh, you know we
met up. Both of us, you know, work afternoon, so
we went out to a late night diner, you know,
had some food.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
You know.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I thought we had a great conversation everything, and then
she's been doing the old ghosting trick to me ever since.
So I'm not sure what's up.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Remember the last time you worked in afternoon shift and
could stay out all night.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
No, Well, when I got let go during the pandemic,
I had plenty of time, but I couldn't go anywhere.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Oh well, I'm not talking about being unemployed. I just
John I'll be honest, I miss working in the afternoon,
being able to just go out and have a milkshake
in the middle of the night. I love the fact
you guys are on the same schedule, is my point.
Chemistry was good.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, I thought so, And like you know, we chatted
a bit before we ever met. We had multiple nice conversations.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
So yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Sure what's up?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Okay, and she has disappeared, Corey, what are your thoughts?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Well, I'm thinking that her dad is a climatologist who
is largely ignored by u N officials when he says
he's worried about environmental concerns, and his research proves true
when a superstorm developed, setting off catastrophic natural disasters throughout
the world. So she's trapped in a library covered in
(01:42):
snow and he's got to go by foot to go
rescue her in.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
The snow twister. What does snow have to do with
a twister? No, it's just like, is this overgetting I
don't know if anybody knows what that was, Please hit
us with a talkback. Somebody out there is going, oh,
I know that one. Yes, I don't think that's what happened.
(02:08):
Sean why don't we call Rachel and try to figure
this out? All right, that sounds great, Okay, He's like, cool,
we're back. Let's move on, all right, we'll do it
after this song. Second Date Update Star one O one three,
more variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
Star one on one three. Marcus and Corey doing Second
Date Update because Sean on the phone, so he met
up with Rachel on hinge. I still am enamored with
(02:28):
the fact that they both kind of worked the same shift,
so they you guys work afternoons and you went to
dinner late night in Oakland. Accurate? Yep, okay, milkshakes fries.
Just going over my notes here. She has ghosted, so
let's reach out, go ahead and go back on mute.
Let's do this.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Hello, Hi, miss speak with Rachel please okay him Rachel,
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on one three.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Hi, Yeah, do you listen to our show?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
I do?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I thought I caught a glimmer of recognition and I
was excited.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Wait, oh my god, wait, welcome.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
To Second Date Update.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Would you mind being a part of Second Date Update
with us?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
I would love to Sean's on the phone is a knee.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yes he is.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Sean.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
You should say hello, hey, Rachel.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Okay, perfect, because I think you need to hear this.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Doesn't even give him a hello, not really, Oh Sean,
hold on, let me grab my popcorn. Rachel, tell us
all about it.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Yeah, oh god, okay. So red flag number one was
ordering fries with six different dipping sauces, licking all of
his fingers and then just like double dipping like it
was no big deal. Like he literally like he would
dip the fries in to the sauce, lick all of
(04:10):
his fingers, okay, and then dip it in the next
sauce and then do the same thing with all of
the sauces.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Is this our second finger licker in two weeks?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
I think so. But the other one I think had
to do with bowling.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Put a PSA out. No finger licking on the first date.
I can't believe I have to say that out loud.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
I do like a lot of dips, but I don't
know if I'm double dipping and or doing this on
a first date.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Cheun, were you double dipping?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
I mean I do like my dip dips, so yeah,
like you know, I was just you know, you know,
we're just taking out sharing food. I don't get what
the big deal is, but I don't know. Yeah, we
shared some food together.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
It was really gross, to be honest. Sure, yeah, I
was like pretty I was almost gagging. Like he literally
went finger first into every bowl okay, literally all six
dips finger first.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Well I wouldn't share at that point.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
No, I mean I stopped eating. It was so gross.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
I mean, if you're going to go on a date
with a person, you should be willing to share food,
like like, yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
I literally don't even know you, Like, it's.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Hard to avoid germs in the dating world. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
So that was like gross enough about the sauces, but
then also full deal breaker was when the waiter asked
if we wanted dessert, and he like leaned in really
close and was like we should split dessert in the
bedroom Insteady, that's a.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Bit much, did you really, sean?
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Yeah, I was just playing, like I don't know, like,
you know, guys, like I was just playing. I mean
I was like playing, but like you know, I wouldn't have.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Cool.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
But I wasn't trying to be pushy or anything like that.
Like I'm just playing.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Did you think he was playing Rachel?
Speaker 4 (06:07):
No, it was gross. You like, he was just being
cocky in a really weird way and it wasn't cute,
especially with Rinch dressing on his knuckles. Like, I was
just not having it.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Visuals are true.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
You just don't have it. I just don't think you
have a sense of humor at all. Like, you know,
a lot of girls would thought that was funny and
just laughed it off, and you know, would have liked
guys being plurty and stuff like I don't get it.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Okay, great, you should probably go find one of them then,
because there's no way I'm signing up for a guy
who thinks condiments are full play.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
No,
More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three, It's Marcus a Chori
and we're back with second Date Update.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
We help you try to get to the bottom of
why you're not snagging that second date.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
That's right, got to say. What's up to Sean this morning? Sean?
Are you there?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Good. We want to hear all about Rachel. Let's just
start there. I understand you you've been ghosted, so let's
just talk about it. How did you guys meet and
then what did you end up doing for your first date?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Yeah, we met on Hinge and uh, you know we
met up. Both of us, you know, work afternoon, so
we went out to a late night diner, you know,
had some food.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
You know.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I thought we had a great conversation everything, and then
she's been doing the old ghosting trick to me ever since.
So I'm not sure what's up.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Remember the last time you worked in afternoon shift and
could stay out all night.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
No, Well, when I got let go during the pandemic,
I had plenty of time, but I couldn't go anywhere.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Oh well, I'm not talking about being unemployed. I just
John I'll be honest, I miss working in the afternoon,
being able to just go out and have a milkshake
in the middle of the night. I love the fact
you guys are on the same schedule, is my point.
Chemistry was good.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, I thought so, And like you know, we chatted
a bit before we ever met. We had multiple nice conversations.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
So yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Sure what's up?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Okay, and she has disappeared, Corey, what are your thoughts?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Well, I'm thinking that her dad is a climatologist who
is largely ignored by u N officials when he says
he's worried about environmental concerns, and his research proves true
when a superstorm developed, setting off catastrophic natural disasters throughout
the world. So she's trapped in a library covered in
(01:42):
snow and he's got to go by foot to go
rescue her in.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
The snow twister. What does snow have to do with
a twister? No, it's just like, is this overgetting I
don't know if anybody knows what that was, Please hit
us with a talkback. Somebody out there is going, oh,
I know that one. Yes, I don't think that's what happened.
(02:08):
Sean why don't we call Rachel and try to figure
this out? All right, that sounds great, Okay, He's like, cool,
we're back. Let's move on, all right, we'll do it
after this song. Second Date Update Star one O one three,
more variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
Star one on one three. Marcus and Corey doing Second
Date Update because Sean on the phone, so he met
up with Rachel on hinge. I still am enamored with
(02:28):
the fact that they both kind of worked the same shift,
so they you guys work afternoons and you went to
dinner late night in Oakland. Accurate? Yep, okay, milkshakes fries.
Just going over my notes here. She has ghosted, so
let's reach out, go ahead and go back on mute.
Let's do this.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Hello, Hi, miss speak with Rachel please okay him Rachel,
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on one three.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Hi, Yeah, do you listen to our show?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
I do?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I thought I caught a glimmer of recognition and I
was excited.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Wait, oh my god, wait, welcome.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
To Second Date Update.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Would you mind being a part of Second Date Update
with us?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
I would love to Sean's on the phone is a knee.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yes he is.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Sean.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
You should say hello, hey, Rachel.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Okay, perfect, because I think you need to hear this.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Doesn't even give him a hello, not really, Oh Sean,
hold on, let me grab my popcorn. Rachel, tell us
all about it.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Yeah, oh god, okay. So red flag number one was
ordering fries with six different dipping sauces, licking all of
his fingers and then just like double dipping like it
was no big deal. Like he literally like he would
dip the fries in to the sauce, lick all of
(04:10):
his fingers, okay, and then dip it in the next
sauce and then do the same thing with all of
the sauces.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Is this our second finger licker in two weeks?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
I think so. But the other one I think had
to do with bowling.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Put a PSA out. No finger licking on the first date.
I can't believe I have to say that out loud.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
I do like a lot of dips, but I don't
know if I'm double dipping and or doing this on
a first date.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Cheun, were you double dipping?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
I mean I do like my dip dips, so yeah,
like you know, I was just you know, you know,
we're just taking out sharing food. I don't get what
the big deal is, but I don't know. Yeah, we
shared some food together.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
It was really gross, to be honest. Sure, yeah, I
was like pretty I was almost gagging. Like he literally
went finger first into every bowl okay, literally all six
dips finger first.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Well I wouldn't share at that point.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
No, I mean I stopped eating. It was so gross.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
I mean, if you're going to go on a date
with a person, you should be willing to share food,
like like, yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
I literally don't even know you, Like, it's.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Hard to avoid germs in the dating world. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
So that was like gross enough about the sauces, but
then also full deal breaker was when the waiter asked
if we wanted dessert, and he like leaned in really
close and was like we should split dessert in the
bedroom Insteady, that's a.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Bit much, did you really, sean?
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Yeah, I was just playing, like I don't know, like,
you know, guys, like I was just playing. I mean
I was like playing, but like you know, I wouldn't have.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Cool.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
But I wasn't trying to be pushy or anything like that.
Like I'm just playing.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Did you think he was playing Rachel?
Speaker 4 (06:07):
No, it was gross. You like, he was just being
cocky in a really weird way and it wasn't cute,
especially with Rinch dressing on his knuckles. Like, I was
just not having it.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Visuals are true.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
You just don't have it. I just don't think you
have a sense of humor at all. Like, you know,
a lot of girls would thought that was funny and
just laughed it off, and you know, would have liked
guys being plurty and stuff like I don't get it.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Okay, great, you should probably go find one of them then,
because there's no way I'm signing up for a guy
who thinks condiments are full play.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
No,
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