May 13, 2024 • 8 mins
Stella loved that Troy looked just like his pictures, and she said they had a great time eating and drinking together. He's ghosted on her though. Let's figure out why.
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(00:00):
More variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three, it's Marcus andCorey in his time. For our dating
segment, it's called second Date Update. This is where we talked to you
about a date you went on andyou can't get a second date, so
we try to figure out why.Let's get Stella on the phone. Stell,
are you there? Yeah, Hi, welcome. Hi. So Troy,
(00:21):
huh, how did you guys meet? First of all, this guy
Troy, how'd you meet him?It's so stupid for me to say this,
but we met on Tinder. Oh, it's not stupid anymore, girls,
unless I think, are you embarrassed? Because like that automatically means you
just tried to hook up. Yeah. Yeah, that was the last place
I would find myself on but justgetting desperate. And you know what's really
(00:45):
surprising though, is we're actually normalpeople, probably the only ones from that
app. But like, I'm soglad we found each other through there.
Okay, so what did you guysdo on your date? Our date was
super fun. Well, first timeI saw him and I just I loved
what I saw. He looked exactlylike his pictures. We went to dinner
in the mission and we just hadlike, we had the best time.
(01:08):
We had drinks. We were ata dive bar, and surprisingly we both
love dive bars. We've gone toso many, so it was cool to
kind of have that experience together.I guess we just we had fun.
There was a lot of laugh Igot to know him, you know.
I felt like I was a teenageragain. Cute. Yeah, he paid
(01:29):
for the bill and then at theend he kissed me on the cheek.
Yeah, and that's it. LikeI haven't heard anything from him since,
literally, nothing like full ghost ohghosts. I don't know what happened like
this day I had, he hadthe best time. Oh, just doesn't
make any sense. Sounds dreamy.Maybe he went to another dive bar and
got into a bar fight. No, you have to understand, Corey has
(01:52):
theories every morning. She watches alot of Dayline. Maybe he got hit
in ahead and he's in a coma. Jesus, No, I hope you
don't know. Stella, hang onthe line. We're gonna call Troy.
We'll have you on mute and we'lljust ask him about the date. Can
you hang on for a song?Okay, Okay, all right, don't
move, We'll regroup and we'll callTroy next. It's Second Date updates Star
(02:14):
one on one three more variety fromthe two thousands, the nineties, and
today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing
Second Date Update right now. We'vebeen chatting with Stella. She and Troy
met on Tinder. Selly, youmade me laugh. You said you're the
last two remaining normal people on Tinder. I mean, I don't know how
(02:35):
you verify that, but I willtake your word for it. Right anyway,
everybody was looking for the same thingat the same time. You guys.
You went to the Mission District,had some dinner, ended up at
a dive bar, a little bitof kissing afterwards. But he has ghosted.
Do I have my story straight?Yep, that's what happened. Okay,
Well, let's call him. Let'ssee what's up. Go ahead and
(02:59):
mute and we're gonna give him ashout. Here we go. Hello,
I may speak with Troy please.Yeah, this is he. Who's this?
Hi Troy. It's Marcus and Coreyfrom Star one on one three.
(03:22):
Yo, Hi Troy? Uh?Hello? Okay, what's going on.
Sorry, do you you don't listen? Do you listen to our show?
We do a morning show for iHeartRadioon Star one on one three. I
know of you. Yeah, I'mjust a little weirded out right now.
Sure, little caught off guard.Okay, we're in the middle of a
segment. It's a dating segment.It's called Second Date Update, and we
(03:46):
got a call from a woman thatyou took out on a date. She
had the best time, she'd loveto go out again. She's feeling like
she's being ghosted. I'm not accusingyou of anything. We're just wondering if
you wouldn't mind talking about your datewith with staf on the air with us.
Is that okay? Oh my god, she Stella contacted you. Are
you serious? Yes? Yes,she did. This is ridiculous. Oh
(04:09):
my god. I can't believe I'mhere right now now. I want to
know what happened. Yeah, youmind talking about the date? She'd love
to go out again. Now,that's fine. I'll talk about it.
I mean, listen, I'll behonest. The date seemed fine. During
dinner, we had some great conversation. I thought she was really cute.
We ended up at like a funlittle dive bar, which is cool.
(04:32):
I'm I'm all for dive bars.And you know, she was looking hot
and we were drinking, like Ipart of me wanted to make out with
her like right then and there atthe bar. Okay, But then she
did something that I don't know,it was just it was kind of weird.
It kind of weirded me out,like everything. So towards the end
(04:56):
of the date, Stella just likereaches over the bar when no one's looked
and take the cocktail stir right offthe bar and like jammed it in her
purse like all you know, likesecretly, and I looked. I gave
her, you know, this oddlook, and she's like, oh,
well, you know, I collectstuff from dive bars, you know,
especially if I'm having a good timeand I want a good story to tell,
(05:16):
and you know, this will helpme. Remember hold on, she
swiped a cocktail stir yeah, likestraight yep, yep, and then she
like stuck it in her purse takinga match book or a coaster. But
I don't know if I start stealingbar utensils. Did you say something?
(05:38):
No, I just gave her alook like, you know, just like
you know, a puzzled look andshe's like I said, she was like,
oh, well did I do this? I collect stuff from dive bars
when I you know, I reallywant to remember this night, and I'm
like okay, and I just kindof played it off, you know,
to finish the date. Sure,you know what, you guys want to
hear something crazy. I hurt.Psychologically, human beings are predisp to do
(06:00):
the right thing. So when wesee somebody doing something weird, our brains
can't handle it, and that's whywe freeze up and we're like wait,
what, Like we're expecting everybody todo the right thing now, and then
when they don't, it's like gettinghit in the face. I feel like
people are getting further and further awayfrom doing the right thing. So,
Okay, here's the part I needto tell you about. Stella is actually
(06:24):
on listening right now. Stella,Yeah, I figured true what you told
me that you thought what I wasdoing was cool, and now you're like
backtracking and saying it was weird.What the hell? Well, first of
all, I was drunk at themoment, so you know, at the
time I thought it was weird.But whatever, we you know, we
(06:46):
were having a good time. Butthen when I got home, you know,
and started to think about it,it was weird, you know,
like basically it made me think ofyou like a cleptomaniac. You know,
what else have you stolen from otherplaces? Really? I didn't. I
didn't take anything valuable or anything likethat. Okay, I want I want
(07:09):
something that I can remember so Ican use it like as a keepsake,
you know, Like my apartment hasa lot of things that just keep me
happy, keep me remembering, likeall the best experiences my life. Yeah,
but you know, how do Iknow that if I take you back
to my place, that you're notstealing my stuff as your keepsake memories?
You know? And then I comeover and I'm like, oh, wow,
look I recognize that lamp. That'sridiculous. I'm not a thief.
(07:32):
I take little things that nobody evencares about that are sentimental to me.
What's the bigs? Even worse?So you're saying you'd steal something and be
so small that I might not evenrealize it. So, oh my god,
second second date or no, thisguy? You know what? Never
mind, I don't want to seconddate with you. Troy. Hey,
(07:54):
thanks, hold on, hold on. Wow, that was a lot of
things at once. I just it'sMonday, man uh Second Date Update seven
oh five. Weekday Mornings replays itnine oh five. It's got a podcast
too. It's Marcus and Corey's SecondDate Update on demand on the iHeartRadio app
More variety from the two thousands,the nineties, and today it's Star one
on one three, it's Marcus andCorey in his time. For our dating
segment, it's called second Date Update. This is where we talked to you
about a date you went on andyou can't get a second date, so
we try to figure out why.Let's get Stella on the phone. Stell,
are you there? Yeah, Hi, welcome. Hi. So Troy,
(00:21):
huh, how did you guys meet? First of all, this guy
Troy, how'd you meet him?It's so stupid for me to say this,
but we met on Tinder. Oh, it's not stupid anymore, girls,
unless I think, are you embarrassed? Because like that automatically means you
just tried to hook up. Yeah. Yeah, that was the last place
I would find myself on but justgetting desperate. And you know what's really
(00:45):
surprising though, is we're actually normalpeople, probably the only ones from that
app. But like, I'm soglad we found each other through there.
Okay, so what did you guysdo on your date? Our date was
super fun. Well, first timeI saw him and I just I loved
what I saw. He looked exactlylike his pictures. We went to dinner
in the mission and we just hadlike, we had the best time.
(01:08):
We had drinks. We were ata dive bar, and surprisingly we both
love dive bars. We've gone toso many, so it was cool to
kind of have that experience together.I guess we just we had fun.
There was a lot of laugh Igot to know him, you know.
I felt like I was a teenageragain. Cute. Yeah, he paid
(01:29):
for the bill and then at theend he kissed me on the cheek.
Yeah, and that's it. LikeI haven't heard anything from him since,
literally, nothing like full ghost ohghosts. I don't know what happened like
this day I had, he hadthe best time. Oh, just doesn't
make any sense. Sounds dreamy.Maybe he went to another dive bar and
got into a bar fight. No, you have to understand, Corey has
(01:52):
theories every morning. She watches alot of Dayline. Maybe he got hit
in ahead and he's in a coma. Jesus, No, I hope you
don't know. Stella, hang onthe line. We're gonna call Troy.
We'll have you on mute and we'lljust ask him about the date. Can
you hang on for a song?Okay, Okay, all right, don't
move, We'll regroup and we'll callTroy next. It's Second Date updates Star
(02:14):
one on one three more variety fromthe two thousands, the nineties, and
today it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey. We're doing
Second Date Update right now. We'vebeen chatting with Stella. She and Troy
met on Tinder. Selly, youmade me laugh. You said you're the
last two remaining normal people on Tinder. I mean, I don't know how
(02:35):
you verify that, but I willtake your word for it. Right anyway,
everybody was looking for the same thingat the same time. You guys.
You went to the Mission District,had some dinner, ended up at
a dive bar, a little bitof kissing afterwards. But he has ghosted.
Do I have my story straight?Yep, that's what happened. Okay,
Well, let's call him. Let'ssee what's up. Go ahead and
(02:59):
mute and we're gonna give him ashout. Here we go. Hello,
I may speak with Troy please.Yeah, this is he. Who's this?
Hi Troy. It's Marcus and Coreyfrom Star one on one three.
(03:22):
Yo, Hi Troy? Uh?Hello? Okay, what's going on.
Sorry, do you you don't listen? Do you listen to our show?
We do a morning show for iHeartRadioon Star one on one three. I
know of you. Yeah, I'mjust a little weirded out right now.
Sure, little caught off guard.Okay, we're in the middle of a
segment. It's a dating segment.It's called Second Date Update, and we
(03:46):
got a call from a woman thatyou took out on a date. She
had the best time, she'd loveto go out again. She's feeling like
she's being ghosted. I'm not accusingyou of anything. We're just wondering if
you wouldn't mind talking about your datewith with staf on the air with us.
Is that okay? Oh my god, she Stella contacted you. Are
you serious? Yes? Yes,she did. This is ridiculous. Oh
(04:09):
my god. I can't believe I'mhere right now now. I want to
know what happened. Yeah, youmind talking about the date? She'd love
to go out again. Now,that's fine. I'll talk about it.
I mean, listen, I'll behonest. The date seemed fine. During
dinner, we had some great conversation. I thought she was really cute.
We ended up at like a funlittle dive bar, which is cool.
(04:32):
I'm I'm all for dive bars.And you know, she was looking hot
and we were drinking, like Ipart of me wanted to make out with
her like right then and there atthe bar. Okay, But then she
did something that I don't know,it was just it was kind of weird.
It kind of weirded me out,like everything. So towards the end
(04:56):
of the date, Stella just likereaches over the bar when no one's looked
and take the cocktail stir right offthe bar and like jammed it in her
purse like all you know, likesecretly, and I looked. I gave
her, you know, this oddlook, and she's like, oh,
well, you know, I collectstuff from dive bars, you know,
especially if I'm having a good timeand I want a good story to tell,
(05:16):
and you know, this will helpme. Remember hold on, she
swiped a cocktail stir yeah, likestraight yep, yep, and then she
like stuck it in her purse takinga match book or a coaster. But
I don't know if I start stealingbar utensils. Did you say something?
(05:38):
No, I just gave her alook like, you know, just like
you know, a puzzled look andshe's like I said, she was like,
oh, well did I do this? I collect stuff from dive bars
when I you know, I reallywant to remember this night, and I'm
like okay, and I just kindof played it off, you know,
to finish the date. Sure,you know what, you guys want to
hear something crazy. I hurt.Psychologically, human beings are predisp to do
(06:00):
the right thing. So when wesee somebody doing something weird, our brains
can't handle it, and that's whywe freeze up and we're like wait,
what, Like we're expecting everybody todo the right thing now, and then
when they don't, it's like gettinghit in the face. I feel like
people are getting further and further awayfrom doing the right thing. So,
Okay, here's the part I needto tell you about. Stella is actually
(06:24):
on listening right now. Stella,Yeah, I figured true what you told
me that you thought what I wasdoing was cool, and now you're like
backtracking and saying it was weird.What the hell? Well, first of
all, I was drunk at themoment, so you know, at the
time I thought it was weird.But whatever, we you know, we
(06:46):
were having a good time. Butthen when I got home, you know,
and started to think about it,it was weird, you know,
like basically it made me think ofyou like a cleptomaniac. You know,
what else have you stolen from otherplaces? Really? I didn't. I
didn't take anything valuable or anything likethat. Okay, I want I want
(07:09):
something that I can remember so Ican use it like as a keepsake,
you know, Like my apartment hasa lot of things that just keep me
happy, keep me remembering, likeall the best experiences my life. Yeah,
but you know, how do Iknow that if I take you back
to my place, that you're notstealing my stuff as your keepsake memories?
You know? And then I comeover and I'm like, oh, wow,
look I recognize that lamp. That'sridiculous. I'm not a thief.
(07:32):
I take little things that nobody evencares about that are sentimental to me.
What's the bigs? Even worse?So you're saying you'd steal something and be
so small that I might not evenrealize it. So, oh my god,
second second date or no, thisguy? You know what? Never
mind, I don't want to seconddate with you. Troy. Hey,
(07:54):
thanks, hold on, hold on. Wow, that was a lot of
things at once. I just it'sMonday, man uh Second Date Update seven
oh five. Weekday Mornings replays itnine oh five. It's got a podcast
too. It's Marcus and Corey's SecondDate Update on demand on the iHeartRadio app
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