Tori and Evan went for Mediterranean food in Jack London Square. Tori said Evan was sweet, artsy, and “had poet energy.” It really matched her vibe. She thought the date was very sweet and was sure there would be a second date, but Evan has disappeared.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
at Star one on one three, it's Marcus and Corey
back with Second Date Update.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Here we go. We're off in your dating game.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
You want to know why you can't get a second date,
and that's why we do Second Date Update to track
down that mystery and figure it out.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Bringing Tory on right now. Good morning, toy, Hi Hi,
So let's get right to it. This guy, Evan. What
I want to know is how did you guys meet,
and then what did you do on your first date?
Because I'm understanding that he has absolutely disappeared.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
So yeah, So okay, we met on Hinge and we
messaged for a while, like I think it was probably
a few weeks before we met up in person. And
that was on purpose on my part because I was
trying to be really intentional about my dating, you know,
And I don't know, I just I really really vibed
(00:50):
him out before we met up, sure, and I thought
it was going to go well, and then it went
even better than I thought. We got mediterranean food in
jack London Square, and he was so compassionate and he
was so creative. He had hip poet vibes Okay, you
know what I mean? Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Actual was off the charts? Is that what you're telling me?
Speaker 5 (01:14):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah, yeah, totally are. We were vibing together. I just
really felt like we were vibrating together, like on a
really high frequency. And he was so kind and considerate too,
and I was positive we were going to go on
a second date. But then he completely dropped out, and
I'm just at a loss about what could have happened.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I love a creative vibe.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
I do too.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Some on with imaginations sound like very evolved adults. All right,
So yes, scale he's ghosting. Uh huh, here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Toby Evan decides to rent a house at the beach
to relax with the summer, and just one thing after
another keeps going wrong, including crashing his small sailboat into
his landlord's big yacht. He now must compete in a
regatta to win his rental back, because the landlord's like,
you gotta pay for my boat.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
He's like, I can't afford it.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
He's like, I'm gonna yank your rental, and so right
now he's fixing up his boat to prepare to be
in the regatta.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
He's got a lot going on.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Yeah, yeah, oh my gosh, that would be I mean,
I would absolutely understand and free.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
That would explain everything totally right.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
It would and then some no.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Idea, no idea, no summer rental? Sure, John Candy, Thank you, Tory.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Why don't we just call him. We're gonna call him
and try to figure this all out.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Take a deep breath, let's reset, We'll play a song
and we will do it right after this. It's Second
Date Update, Star one O one three. More variety from
the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one
O one three. It's Marcus and Corey and we're back
with Second Date Update. Obviously, we've been talking to Toy
about her date with Evan. The date was very intentional. Again,
I'll reiterate. They seemed like very evolved humans and they
(02:53):
had a vibe well, she said, also he had poet vibes.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I love that, eq high, I love that.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
So are you still there? I'm here, Okay, I'm understanding
that he ghosted, So let's call him and see if
we I'd love to figure out what happened, but let's
try to get you a second date. Go ahead and mute.
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Hello, Hi, may I speak with Evan? Please? Hi Evan.
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one oh one three.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Good morning.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
Hey.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Are you familiar with our morning radio show?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Uh? No, idea? Is this a telemarketing call?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
No, we do a radio show and we'd love to
have you on if you don't mind. We're doing a
dating segment and we got floated your phone number by
a friend of ours and she says that you guys
wanted a date and that you she feels ghosted. So
I'm trying to figure out did you ghost and we
want to try to broke her a second date. Her
name is Tory.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Now do you mind talking on the air with us
about this?
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Yeah? I wasn't expecting this, but sure, I know the.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Tori is okay.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
So she loved your vibe. Yes, in fact, she said,
and I quote, he's got poet vibes. She would love
to go out again. Did something happen or like it
just busy or what's the deal.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
So she's a lovely person and I loved her energy
when we first met. Sure, but about you know, three
fourths of the way into the day, she got really
intense and uh. She pulled out a napkin and a
pen and wrote out like a weird manifesto and handed
to me, declaring that this is her philosophy on dating
(04:36):
with bullet points and a doodle of a phoenix. And
she called it radical vulnerability. But it was just a
little bit too much for me.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Radical vulnerability, that is.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Yeah, I'm actually.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Surprised if someone's going to do something like this, they
wouldn't have an already, like in a notebook, ready to
present to you rather than just doing it.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
It's probably person a person. I don't know. We're not
a power point, sure, Evan. Here, here's the deal is.
So I've got Tory actually listening on the phone. Yeah,
we're trying to create a teachable moment here, Tory, are
you there?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Hi, I'm I'm here.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Yeah, okay, So why did you feel the need to
write down all these things?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I just I thought we were both adults. He could
handle this kind of transparency. That seemed like the kind
of person that he was. And I'm really tried to
check my ego during this whole process of being vulnerable
with each other, but I can't help that I'm feeling
in a certain type of way. Right now, I feel
(05:41):
like I feel like it's just raining on my parade.
Like I'm I have showed him my heart and he
is just trashing.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
It, right, Okay, Evan, what do you think about that?
Speaker 5 (05:52):
Yeah, I guess I'm sorry, but it's just a little
bit too much and do out there for me. So, uh,
I think it's beastly part ways here right, Okay.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
Well, there's nothing more important to me at this point
in my journey than my full devolution. So if you're
not able to meet me where I am and go
on this journey with me, then I also think it's.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Beast Okay, there is a mutual conversation.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
I'm impressed.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Tom. All Right, you guys, I think we've reached a
conclusion here. Hang on, you two, hang on.
Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
at Star one on one three, it's Marcus and Corey
back with Second Date Update.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Here we go. We're off in your dating game.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
You want to know why you can't get a second date,
and that's why we do Second Date Update to track
down that mystery and figure it out.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Bringing Tory on right now. Good morning, toy, Hi Hi,
So let's get right to it. This guy, Evan. What
I want to know is how did you guys meet,
and then what did you do on your first date?
Because I'm understanding that he has absolutely disappeared.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
So yeah, So okay, we met on Hinge and we
messaged for a while, like I think it was probably
a few weeks before we met up in person. And
that was on purpose on my part because I was
trying to be really intentional about my dating, you know,
And I don't know, I just I really really vibed
(00:50):
him out before we met up, sure, and I thought
it was going to go well, and then it went
even better than I thought. We got mediterranean food in
jack London Square, and he was so compassionate and he
was so creative. He had hip poet vibes Okay, you
know what I mean? Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Actual was off the charts? Is that what you're telling me?
Speaker 5 (01:14):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah, yeah, totally are. We were vibing together. I just
really felt like we were vibrating together, like on a
really high frequency. And he was so kind and considerate too,
and I was positive we were going to go on
a second date. But then he completely dropped out, and
I'm just at a loss about what could have happened.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I love a creative vibe.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
I do too.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Some on with imaginations sound like very evolved adults. All right,
So yes, scale he's ghosting. Uh huh, here's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Toby Evan decides to rent a house at the beach
to relax with the summer, and just one thing after
another keeps going wrong, including crashing his small sailboat into
his landlord's big yacht. He now must compete in a
regatta to win his rental back, because the landlord's like,
you gotta pay for my boat.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
He's like, I can't afford it.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
He's like, I'm gonna yank your rental, and so right
now he's fixing up his boat to prepare to be
in the regatta.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
He's got a lot going on.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Yeah, yeah, oh my gosh, that would be I mean,
I would absolutely understand and free.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
That would explain everything totally right.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
It would and then some no.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Idea, no idea, no summer rental? Sure, John Candy, Thank you, Tory.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Why don't we just call him. We're gonna call him
and try to figure this all out.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Take a deep breath, let's reset, We'll play a song
and we will do it right after this. It's Second
Date Update, Star one O one three. More variety from
the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one
O one three. It's Marcus and Corey and we're back
with Second Date Update. Obviously, we've been talking to Toy
about her date with Evan. The date was very intentional. Again,
I'll reiterate. They seemed like very evolved humans and they
(02:53):
had a vibe well, she said, also he had poet vibes.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I love that, eq high, I love that.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
So are you still there? I'm here, Okay, I'm understanding
that he ghosted, So let's call him and see if
we I'd love to figure out what happened, but let's
try to get you a second date. Go ahead and mute.
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Hello, Hi, may I speak with Evan? Please? Hi Evan.
It's Marcus and Corey from Star one oh one three.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Good morning.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
Hey.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Are you familiar with our morning radio show?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Uh? No, idea? Is this a telemarketing call?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
No, we do a radio show and we'd love to
have you on if you don't mind. We're doing a
dating segment and we got floated your phone number by
a friend of ours and she says that you guys
wanted a date and that you she feels ghosted. So
I'm trying to figure out did you ghost and we
want to try to broke her a second date. Her
name is Tory.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Now do you mind talking on the air with us
about this?
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Yeah? I wasn't expecting this, but sure, I know the.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Tori is okay.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
So she loved your vibe. Yes, in fact, she said,
and I quote, he's got poet vibes. She would love
to go out again. Did something happen or like it
just busy or what's the deal.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
So she's a lovely person and I loved her energy
when we first met. Sure, but about you know, three
fourths of the way into the day, she got really
intense and uh. She pulled out a napkin and a
pen and wrote out like a weird manifesto and handed
to me, declaring that this is her philosophy on dating
(04:36):
with bullet points and a doodle of a phoenix. And
she called it radical vulnerability. But it was just a
little bit too much for me.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Radical vulnerability, that is.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Yeah, I'm actually.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Surprised if someone's going to do something like this, they
wouldn't have an already, like in a notebook, ready to
present to you rather than just doing it.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
It's probably person a person. I don't know. We're not
a power point, sure, Evan. Here, here's the deal is.
So I've got Tory actually listening on the phone. Yeah,
we're trying to create a teachable moment here, Tory, are
you there?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Hi, I'm I'm here.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Yeah, okay, So why did you feel the need to
write down all these things?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I just I thought we were both adults. He could
handle this kind of transparency. That seemed like the kind
of person that he was. And I'm really tried to
check my ego during this whole process of being vulnerable
with each other, but I can't help that I'm feeling
in a certain type of way. Right now, I feel
(05:41):
like I feel like it's just raining on my parade.
Like I'm I have showed him my heart and he
is just trashing.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
It, right, Okay, Evan, what do you think about that?
Speaker 5 (05:52):
Yeah, I guess I'm sorry, but it's just a little
bit too much and do out there for me. So, uh,
I think it's beastly part ways here right, Okay.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
Well, there's nothing more important to me at this point
in my journey than my full devolution. So if you're
not able to meet me where I am and go
on this journey with me, then I also think it's.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Beast Okay, there is a mutual conversation.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
I'm impressed.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Tom. All Right, you guys, I think we've reached a
conclusion here. Hang on, you two, hang on.
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