November 19, 2025 • 5 mins
Tapas, sangria, and a spoon swap—what could go wrong? Trent thought he nailed his date with Kayla, but after their Walnut Creek night out, she vanished faster than a reality show rose ceremony. Let’s unpack this one.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Variety from the two thousands of the nineties and today
it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus from doing
Second Date Update. If you are just starting to listen,
we've been doing this for about a decade. But literally,
you go on a first date, your date ghosts. We
call them and try to figure everything out. So we'll
try to figure out what happened. Maybe they're just busy,
maybe they lost your number. We don't know, so let's
(00:20):
hop out our guy, Trent.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Trent, are you there, Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I understand you. Guys went out to dinner in Walnut Creek,
So tell me about Kayla.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Got along like super well and like I just kind
of felt like super comfortable around her, like very homey. Okay,
And yeah, we went out to dinner and you know,
we went out for coffee afterwards. You know, we had
great conversations, and like haven't heard from her since.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Would you guys talk about.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Traveling, Like she went to Portugal recently, I went to Iceland,
so like we were kind of sharing stories back and forth.
I don't just life our past, like you know, where
we grew up and stuff things like that.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Okay, and she's completely disappeared. Yeah, okay, so you know
the deal. We'll have you on the line. We're gonna
call her. We're gonna try to figure this out. Okay,
it's Marcus from doing Second Date Update. I've got Trent
on the phone. We're about to call his date, Kayla
from your DM trend. You guys met on Hinge and
then you were telling us on the air. A few
minutes ago you went out for top of us and
(01:21):
won the creek some coffee. Afterwards, it must have been going. Okay, uh,
let's call her and try to figure it out.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Are you ready?
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Yeah, I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
All right, here we go. Go ahead and meet your phone.
Here we go. Hello, can I speak to Kayla?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Please? Hi Kayla, this is Marcus from Star one on
one three. Good morning, How are you?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Are you busy?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (01:49):
The radio show? Yi?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Yes, I don't know if you listen. So we do
a thing called second Date Update. Are you familiar I do?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Oh gosh, yeah, I'm familiar.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Perfect.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
So there's a guy that you've been on a date
with recently who this telling me. He's thinking maybe you
ghosted him. We're just trying to figure out what he
did wrong. His name is Trent, and.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Yeah, he's listening, right.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
He is, he is, Trent.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Are you there?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Okay, so Calein have you been busy? Did you ghost?
I have many questions where to begin? How did the
how did the date?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
How did the tape go for you?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
You know?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
The thing is like it was kind of amazing. Honestly, yeah,
we haven't been in touch since then. I sort of
I haven't really followed up. It was going really well,
I'll be honest, but like halfway through the meal, he
sort of slipped his shoes off under the table like
he was just he was just in.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Sock at the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Yeah, like at the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Okay, yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Just thought that that was a little kind of like unhygienic.
I don't know, I thought that that was kind of weird.
Although I guess I shouldn't say he's unhygienic because like
at the end of the meal he also pulled out
like floss picks and literally cleaned his teeth at the table.
So I don't know, there's just some stuff going on
at the table that I thought maybe you shouldn't maybe
shouldn't be happening.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
So flossing shoeless at the table. I'm just trying to
get a visual.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Yeah, yep, that's it's a double landing.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Okay, Trent, back to you.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
I mean she's not rying, but yeah, like I guess
I just felt comfortable, like you know, I said, socks
on and stuff. So it wasn't like I was, you know,
barefoot at dinner or anything like that. Like you know,
my feet were still under the table. So like I
didn't even know what she saw, but like definitely calling
and LS would have noticed, and like, you know, it's
a work day, you know, my feet were tired, like.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Were they did they? Was it? God? Did they smell?
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Okay? Yeah, I don't even have to do Peter anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I wasn't asking you, Trent.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Sorry, thankfully I did not smell, you know, like like
it socks keep your feet warm, you know, they don't
keep your feet off the floor. We're in public.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Yeah yeah, but they were like under the table and
everything I was out. You know, I wasn't like, you know,
put my feet on the table or you know, across
the aisle or anything.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
You know.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
At work, you know, I take my shoes off, you know,
keep the mind at the desk all the time. Like
it's not a big deal, Trent.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
It's it's not where, it's a date. And also like
where are you working that allows that?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
No, I just think that's kind of gross.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Sure, and I haven't even gotten to the flossing thing.
Did you really you pulled out a floss pick at
the table?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Yeah? I took them with me everywhere, Like you know,
you know the best time, you know to get that
stuff out of your teeth. It's like right after you eat,
you know, otherwise you get ginger bitis like like, I
like taking care of my teeth. You know, I don't
want any big dental bills.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
So I mean you couldn't just get up and go
to the men's I mean.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
It's the same thing like restaurants offer, like toothpicks, Like
what's the difference between a blosstick and a toothpick?
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I don't want to see toothpicks at the table. I
don't want to see feet socks at the table. Like,
I can't. I cannot believe I'm saying this out loud.
I just I don't think where a match. Unfortunately, I'm
so sorry it's a no for me.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Oh my god, hang on.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
You guys, it's not going to work out.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Second Date update. It's seven oh five weekday mornings. You
replace at nine oh five. You got the podcast as
you know. On the iHeartRadio app, you can always bins
listen if you want to catch up.
Variety from the two thousands of the nineties and today
it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus from doing
Second Date Update. If you are just starting to listen,
we've been doing this for about a decade. But literally,
you go on a first date, your date ghosts. We
call them and try to figure everything out. So we'll
try to figure out what happened. Maybe they're just busy,
maybe they lost your number. We don't know, so let's
(00:20):
hop out our guy, Trent.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Trent, are you there, Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I understand you. Guys went out to dinner in Walnut Creek,
So tell me about Kayla.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Got along like super well and like I just kind
of felt like super comfortable around her, like very homey. Okay,
And yeah, we went out to dinner and you know,
we went out for coffee afterwards. You know, we had
great conversations, and like haven't heard from her since.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Would you guys talk about.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Traveling, Like she went to Portugal recently, I went to Iceland,
so like we were kind of sharing stories back and forth.
I don't just life our past, like you know, where
we grew up and stuff things like that.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Okay, and she's completely disappeared. Yeah, okay, so you know
the deal. We'll have you on the line. We're gonna
call her. We're gonna try to figure this out. Okay,
it's Marcus from doing Second Date Update. I've got Trent
on the phone. We're about to call his date, Kayla
from your DM trend. You guys met on Hinge and
then you were telling us on the air. A few
minutes ago you went out for top of us and
(01:21):
won the creek some coffee. Afterwards, it must have been going. Okay, uh,
let's call her and try to figure it out.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Are you ready?
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Yeah, I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
All right, here we go. Go ahead and meet your phone.
Here we go. Hello, can I speak to Kayla?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Please? Hi Kayla, this is Marcus from Star one on
one three. Good morning, How are you?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Are you busy?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (01:49):
The radio show? Yi?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Yes, I don't know if you listen. So we do
a thing called second Date Update. Are you familiar I do?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Oh gosh, yeah, I'm familiar.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Perfect.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
So there's a guy that you've been on a date
with recently who this telling me. He's thinking maybe you
ghosted him. We're just trying to figure out what he
did wrong. His name is Trent, and.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Yeah, he's listening, right.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
He is, he is, Trent.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Are you there?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Okay, so Calein have you been busy? Did you ghost?
I have many questions where to begin? How did the
how did the date?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
How did the tape go for you?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
You know?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
The thing is like it was kind of amazing. Honestly, yeah,
we haven't been in touch since then. I sort of
I haven't really followed up. It was going really well,
I'll be honest, but like halfway through the meal, he
sort of slipped his shoes off under the table like
he was just he was just in.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Sock at the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Yeah, like at the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Okay, yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Just thought that that was a little kind of like unhygienic.
I don't know, I thought that that was kind of weird.
Although I guess I shouldn't say he's unhygienic because like
at the end of the meal he also pulled out
like floss picks and literally cleaned his teeth at the table.
So I don't know, there's just some stuff going on
at the table that I thought maybe you shouldn't maybe
shouldn't be happening.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
So flossing shoeless at the table. I'm just trying to
get a visual.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Yeah, yep, that's it's a double landing.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Okay, Trent, back to you.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
I mean she's not rying, but yeah, like I guess
I just felt comfortable, like you know, I said, socks
on and stuff. So it wasn't like I was, you know,
barefoot at dinner or anything like that. Like you know,
my feet were still under the table. So like I
didn't even know what she saw, but like definitely calling
and LS would have noticed, and like, you know, it's
a work day, you know, my feet were tired, like.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Were they did they? Was it? God? Did they smell?
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Okay? Yeah, I don't even have to do Peter anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I wasn't asking you, Trent.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Sorry, thankfully I did not smell, you know, like like
it socks keep your feet warm, you know, they don't
keep your feet off the floor. We're in public.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Yeah yeah, but they were like under the table and
everything I was out. You know, I wasn't like, you know,
put my feet on the table or you know, across
the aisle or anything.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
You know.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
At work, you know, I take my shoes off, you know,
keep the mind at the desk all the time. Like
it's not a big deal, Trent.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
It's it's not where, it's a date. And also like
where are you working that allows that?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
No, I just think that's kind of gross.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Sure, and I haven't even gotten to the flossing thing.
Did you really you pulled out a floss pick at
the table?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Yeah? I took them with me everywhere, Like you know,
you know the best time, you know to get that
stuff out of your teeth. It's like right after you eat,
you know, otherwise you get ginger bitis like like, I
like taking care of my teeth. You know, I don't
want any big dental bills.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
So I mean you couldn't just get up and go
to the men's I mean.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
It's the same thing like restaurants offer, like toothpicks, Like
what's the difference between a blosstick and a toothpick?
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I don't want to see toothpicks at the table. I
don't want to see feet socks at the table. Like,
I can't. I cannot believe I'm saying this out loud.
I just I don't think where a match. Unfortunately, I'm
so sorry it's a no for me.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Oh my god, hang on.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
You guys, it's not going to work out.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Second Date update. It's seven oh five weekday mornings. You
replace at nine oh five. You got the podcast as
you know. On the iHeartRadio app, you can always bins
listen if you want to catch up.
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