October 31, 2025 • 8 mins
It started with a concert under the stars and ended with burritos and a hug that felt like something more. Jen says her night with Cody was effortless — fun, easy, and full of chemistry. But a few weeks later, he’s gone silent. What gives?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's a star one on one three morning. It's Marcus
time once again for second date update. Let's do this.
We're trying to bring people together. Has not been a
successful week. I'm not gonna lie. This is a hell
of a lead up. Jen's on the phone. Hi, Jen, Hi,
I think you're the one though. I do think you're
the one. This is gonna work. I just feel like
we're going to get you a second date. I feel
(00:21):
like this is gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
I mean, I just want to meet the one fore.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, I understand if you're just joining the show. The
way this works is Jen went on a date with
a guy named Cody, and then he has ghosted. Now
you're gonna tell us about the date. Here in a second,
we're gonna call Cody with you on the phone on
mute so we can't hear you, and we're all just
going to try to figure out if something went sideways
or if he's just been busy or what. So, how
(00:44):
did you guys meet? And then what did you do
for your first date?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Okay, so we actually met at a bar.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I was doing this Grandma crawl and I was in
my grandma outfit and you.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Were doing a one. Now a grandma what is that?
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Like?
Speaker 3 (01:02):
We're a group of like women, we dress as grandma's
and it's around Halloween time, so we bar hopped through town.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
You know why that's crazy is just this week I
was talking to my producer about grandma hobbies that you
should pick up and she does them all crochet like scrapbooking,
so like.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Baking cookies, cakes. Definitely.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Can we just id okay, can we just agree that
grandma's are bosses? Like for real?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Yeah, I don't see why anybody would hate.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
On grandma's Like that is actually a red flag.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
So when I met Cody, he was very open minded
and like that's one of the main reasons why we
got along.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
We just had a very chill and free spirited vibe.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
And then I met the bar with his friend.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
We got each other's numbers, and he asked me out
to go to a concert and so we did that
a few weeks ago.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Okay, indoor or outdoor, I don't know if it matters,
but I'm just curious.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
It was outdoors, okay, Yeah, the energy was electric.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I even brought my own tambourine.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
And okay, I just don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
He hasn't talked, like texted me for like a while now,
so I guess I'm wondering, like did I do anything wrong?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Or like what happens? Like where did he go?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Did you did you? What did you guys do after
the concert? Did you did anything else happen? Like what
happened at the end? Kiss or hugger?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
We didn't kiss, but we did hug and it was
a pretty strong one.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Okay, you know what, like when there's a good hug. Sure,
Sincere I.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Felt like that, and he is ghosted, I would say
so that he's since so, like.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I said, you know the drill, We're gonna have you
mute your phone and we will try to get some answers.
Hopefully I can get you a second date. I'm gonna
cross my fingers, Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I mean hopefully he's alive.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
You're the second person to say that this week.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Yes, I also I also hope he's alive, but we'll
find out after this song. It's a second date update.
Star one oh one three, Star one O one three.
It's Marcus. We're doing second date Update. I've got Jen
on the phone, and she was telling me a couple
of things. Jen, you were telling me not only about
your date with Cody, who ghosted and we are going
to call him, but also about this Grandma crawl that
(03:16):
you and your girlfriends went on.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Yeah, that's how I met Cody.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
And also the tradition that you're like, this is my
fourth year doing Grandma crawl.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
And yeah, like you literally dress up his grandma's and
go drinking.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Yes, and we also twork so uh yeah, like we
we love to like get the energy up.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Yeah people in the bar.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Yeah, I did not have twerking Grandma's on my bingo card,
but like the visuals alone are stunning. Okay, let's get
back to business. Go go ahead and mut your phone
and we're gonna call Cody. Here we go. Hello, Yeah,
(03:58):
can I speak to Cody please?
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Oh yeah, let's see.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Hey Cody. My name is Marcus. I do a morning show,
a radio show for iHeartRadio out of San Francisco on
Star one on one three. Do you have a second
to be on the radio with us? Have you ever
heard the show?
Speaker 6 (04:13):
No? I'm sorry, No, I'm sorry, All.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Good, bro, I'm sorry if I woke you up too,
by the.
Speaker 6 (04:17):
Way, Yeah, sure, Is it like a survey or something.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
No.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
So I got floated your phone number from a girl
who listens to my show, and she went on a
date with you recently, and she's feeling like you're ghostinger,
and we're just trying to figure out like if she
did something wrong or something go sideways, or maybe you've
just been busy. I don't know. And if you have
a couple seconds to talk about the date, I'd love
to get your perspective. Her name is Jen. Are you
(04:42):
comfortable talking about your date with Jen on the air?
Speaker 7 (04:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Sure, okay, thank you. So how did it go?
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Did you ghost?
Speaker 6 (04:55):
Yeah? I guess technically I did.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
Okay, but she's really hot, you know, uh okay, smile.
Speaker 7 (05:07):
And you know when we first met us, you.
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Know, she's really funny and.
Speaker 7 (05:13):
Like just all like an old lady and stuff.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
She said, you guys kind of had the same vibe,
like the same kind of energy.
Speaker 7 (05:21):
Yeah, I would not say that, Okay, Yeah, her vibes.
Speaker 6 (05:26):
A little much.
Speaker 7 (05:28):
So well, we went to this like concert thing like this,
like I don't festival or whatever, and she got.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
So hammered off white claws, which I didn't even really
know was possible. She had like two or three and
she was just like just suic a super mess.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (05:49):
She's like yeah, yelling at the band, and you know,
she had the tambourine. She was just like playing offbeat.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
Like throughout every song okay, and I was just like.
Speaker 6 (06:03):
Embarrassing man Like she was like fluttering her words and
like she kept you know that bit when people yelled
free bird, like try to get people to play free bird.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Yes, yeah, she's doing that like way past the point
of it being funny.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
And she kept she kept asking me to like film
her for her TikTok hot Girl hang okay, And it
was just so it was so much to be.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Honest, that's her TikTok.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
And then I looked it up and the hot Girl hanged,
it's not even a thing.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Okay, it doesn't even exist, Okay, Cody.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Okay. So actually Jen's on the phone, Cody. She's listening in,
which is, like I said, trying to make this a
teachable moment. Sorry for sneaking up on you is sorry, Hey,
can I like sure, hot.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Girl, I am going to make that little movement myself,
like so it's funny, how like I feel like you're
kind of doubting what I can make, but it's I'm
gonna start that, so it's gonna be a trend from me.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Okay, can we talk about the other stuff? Though, didn't
feel obnoxious to you at all with the tambourine and
the and the shouting and the free bird and then
miss a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I don't see how I was obnoxious. Like we're at
a concert.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
It's outdoor, right, so like we're all here to have entertainment,
and like if you're there being stuck energy, how is
that fun?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Right? Like what do you.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
Want to But I'm all for people having fun.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Everybody wants able to enjoy the concert or whatever. Like
people are moving away from us, like the band kept
like looking over like with these weird looks.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Like I think the band loved me. Actually, so I don't.
Speaker 7 (07:52):
I'm pretty sure they're actually trying to get security.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Okay, all right, you guys, I don't think this is
a match, so I'm gonna call it. Hang hang on,
you you too? Hang on?
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Uh that was a lot. Uh second date update, it's
Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's a star one on one three morning. It's Marcus
time once again for second date update. Let's do this.
We're trying to bring people together. Has not been a
successful week. I'm not gonna lie. This is a hell
of a lead up. Jen's on the phone. Hi, Jen, Hi,
I think you're the one though. I do think you're
the one. This is gonna work. I just feel like
we're going to get you a second date. I feel
(00:21):
like this is gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
I mean, I just want to meet the one fore.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, I understand if you're just joining the show. The
way this works is Jen went on a date with
a guy named Cody, and then he has ghosted. Now
you're gonna tell us about the date. Here in a second,
we're gonna call Cody with you on the phone on
mute so we can't hear you, and we're all just
going to try to figure out if something went sideways
or if he's just been busy or what. So, how
(00:44):
did you guys meet? And then what did you do
for your first date?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Okay, so we actually met at a bar.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I was doing this Grandma crawl and I was in
my grandma outfit and you.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Were doing a one. Now a grandma what is that?
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Like?
Speaker 3 (01:02):
We're a group of like women, we dress as grandma's
and it's around Halloween time, so we bar hopped through town.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
You know why that's crazy is just this week I
was talking to my producer about grandma hobbies that you
should pick up and she does them all crochet like scrapbooking,
so like.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Baking cookies, cakes. Definitely.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Can we just id okay, can we just agree that
grandma's are bosses? Like for real?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Yeah, I don't see why anybody would hate.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
On grandma's Like that is actually a red flag.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
So when I met Cody, he was very open minded
and like that's one of the main reasons why we
got along.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
We just had a very chill and free spirited vibe.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
And then I met the bar with his friend.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
We got each other's numbers, and he asked me out
to go to a concert and so we did that
a few weeks ago.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Okay, indoor or outdoor, I don't know if it matters,
but I'm just curious.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
It was outdoors, okay, Yeah, the energy was electric.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I even brought my own tambourine.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
And okay, I just don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
He hasn't talked, like texted me for like a while now,
so I guess I'm wondering, like did I do anything wrong?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Or like what happens? Like where did he go?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Did you did you? What did you guys do after
the concert? Did you did anything else happen? Like what
happened at the end? Kiss or hugger?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
We didn't kiss, but we did hug and it was
a pretty strong one.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Okay, you know what, like when there's a good hug. Sure,
Sincere I.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Felt like that, and he is ghosted, I would say
so that he's since so, like.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I said, you know the drill, We're gonna have you
mute your phone and we will try to get some answers.
Hopefully I can get you a second date. I'm gonna
cross my fingers, Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I mean hopefully he's alive.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
You're the second person to say that this week.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Yes, I also I also hope he's alive, but we'll
find out after this song. It's a second date update.
Star one oh one three, Star one O one three.
It's Marcus. We're doing second date Update. I've got Jen
on the phone, and she was telling me a couple
of things. Jen, you were telling me not only about
your date with Cody, who ghosted and we are going
to call him, but also about this Grandma crawl that
(03:16):
you and your girlfriends went on.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Yeah, that's how I met Cody.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
And also the tradition that you're like, this is my
fourth year doing Grandma crawl.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
And yeah, like you literally dress up his grandma's and
go drinking.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Yes, and we also twork so uh yeah, like we
we love to like get the energy up.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Yeah people in the bar.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Yeah, I did not have twerking Grandma's on my bingo card,
but like the visuals alone are stunning. Okay, let's get
back to business. Go go ahead and mut your phone
and we're gonna call Cody. Here we go. Hello, Yeah,
(03:58):
can I speak to Cody please?
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Oh yeah, let's see.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Hey Cody. My name is Marcus. I do a morning show,
a radio show for iHeartRadio out of San Francisco on
Star one on one three. Do you have a second
to be on the radio with us? Have you ever
heard the show?
Speaker 6 (04:13):
No? I'm sorry, No, I'm sorry, All.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Good, bro, I'm sorry if I woke you up too,
by the.
Speaker 6 (04:17):
Way, Yeah, sure, Is it like a survey or something.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
No.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
So I got floated your phone number from a girl
who listens to my show, and she went on a
date with you recently, and she's feeling like you're ghostinger,
and we're just trying to figure out like if she
did something wrong or something go sideways, or maybe you've
just been busy. I don't know. And if you have
a couple seconds to talk about the date, I'd love
to get your perspective. Her name is Jen. Are you
(04:42):
comfortable talking about your date with Jen on the air?
Speaker 7 (04:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Sure, okay, thank you. So how did it go?
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Did you ghost?
Speaker 6 (04:55):
Yeah? I guess technically I did.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
Okay, but she's really hot, you know, uh okay, smile.
Speaker 7 (05:07):
And you know when we first met us, you.
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Know, she's really funny and.
Speaker 7 (05:13):
Like just all like an old lady and stuff.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
She said, you guys kind of had the same vibe,
like the same kind of energy.
Speaker 7 (05:21):
Yeah, I would not say that, Okay, Yeah, her vibes.
Speaker 6 (05:26):
A little much.
Speaker 7 (05:28):
So well, we went to this like concert thing like this,
like I don't festival or whatever, and she got.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
So hammered off white claws, which I didn't even really
know was possible. She had like two or three and
she was just like just suic a super mess.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (05:49):
She's like yeah, yelling at the band, and you know,
she had the tambourine. She was just like playing offbeat.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
Like throughout every song okay, and I was just like.
Speaker 6 (06:03):
Embarrassing man Like she was like fluttering her words and
like she kept you know that bit when people yelled
free bird, like try to get people to play free bird.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Yes, yeah, she's doing that like way past the point
of it being funny.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
And she kept she kept asking me to like film
her for her TikTok hot Girl hang okay, And it
was just so it was so much to be.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Honest, that's her TikTok.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
And then I looked it up and the hot Girl hanged,
it's not even a thing.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Okay, it doesn't even exist, Okay, Cody.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Okay. So actually Jen's on the phone, Cody. She's listening in,
which is, like I said, trying to make this a
teachable moment. Sorry for sneaking up on you is sorry, Hey,
can I like sure, hot.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Girl, I am going to make that little movement myself,
like so it's funny, how like I feel like you're
kind of doubting what I can make, but it's I'm
gonna start that, so it's gonna be a trend from me.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Okay, can we talk about the other stuff? Though, didn't
feel obnoxious to you at all with the tambourine and
the and the shouting and the free bird and then
miss a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I don't see how I was obnoxious. Like we're at
a concert.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
It's outdoor, right, so like we're all here to have entertainment,
and like if you're there being stuck energy, how is
that fun?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Right? Like what do you.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
Want to But I'm all for people having fun.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Everybody wants able to enjoy the concert or whatever. Like
people are moving away from us, like the band kept
like looking over like with these weird looks.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Like I think the band loved me. Actually, so I don't.
Speaker 7 (07:52):
I'm pretty sure they're actually trying to get security.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Okay, all right, you guys, I don't think this is
a match, so I'm gonna call it. Hang hang on,
you you too? Hang on?
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Uh that was a lot. Uh second date update, it's
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