Episode Transcript
Star one on one three. It's Marcus and it's time
once again for second date update. We've talked about it
for years. You go on a date, you get ghosted,
we will call your date to figure out, Hey, if
you screwed up, b if they've just been busy, or
see what the deal is. And that's why Felix is here.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Yeah, yeah, hi, good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Obviously we want to talk about this date with this girl, Dana. Yes,
so yes, Now you said you met online. What did
you do for the first date?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Oh my god. We went to Japantown, went to the
sushi joint for dinner. Okay, this day it was amazing.
I love this place is like warm lighting and it
feels like one of those first dates that intributed a movie.
And we talked about travel. She had just been to Japan,
so it's perfect. We like talk embarrassing childhood stories. Anyway,
at one point, you got a bit of soft on
(00:51):
her nose and I got my neck and I wiped
it off and she blushed and I actually said out loud,
like total wrong, calm moment. Yeah, and she like smiled
and I was like, oh my god, this is this
is incredible. So after dinner we hit a karaoke bar
nearby and we closed the place. We had so much fun.
(01:11):
And I do not say this about dates, but it
felt magical, Like I thought, oh my god, this is
what I've been waiting for. This is the kind of
first date you tell your you know, kids about.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
But I'm shocked.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
She's vanished, like completely.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
I was just talking to my producer Taylor about dating online.
She says, it's horrible, So this must have just been
like a cool moment.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I guess, huh, very all right, But I know you
guys helped out people. Uh, we have people get ghosted.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We got Felix on the phone. We're in the middle
of second date update. I do like your date, Felix,
quite a bit. You. So, just to recap, you all
went for sushi in Japantown in San Francisco and then
karaoke lounge afterwards, and you basically shut the place down.
I get it, all right, she has ghosted, So let's
figure it out. You can't think of anything that might
(02:01):
have happened.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
No, I keep playing it over my head because there's
nothing else I can't sure.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Go ahead and mut your phone. Let's do this right, Oh,
let's hope here we go. Well, Hi, can I talk
to Dana please?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Yes? This is her.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Hi Dana, this is Marcus from Star one one three
in the morning. Hi.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Hey, I've been listening to the second Day Update for years.
I have a feeling I know what this is about.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Somebody just checked.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Hi, Hi, So you're good to be on Second Date
Update because you know who is holding.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
I figured if I'd be on this it would be
because of something wild happening. And I have a story
for you.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
So okay, great to be here. Do I bring Felix
on an hour later?
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Sure you can. I mean, it's totally.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Up to you.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Felix. Are you there, Bud?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Hey, hey man?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Hi, So Felix said you had a great time. This
was the date at the with sushi and then karaoke.
I don't know if you remember.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Oh I remember?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Okay, So how did you ghost?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I mean it was the first date, so I don't
consider it ghosting, but yeah, I obviously did not.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That's like the fourth time I've heard that. So is
it not technically ghosting if it's just one date?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
I personally one date, I don't consider it.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Okay, maybe after I learned things every day, so okay,
let's not call it ghosting, but you're done.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Yeah, definitely, all right, So yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Tell us about the date from your perspective.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Well, Hi'm Felix. I mean, honestly, it started off really great, Felix.
You're handsome, you know, you're funny. We had a great
conversation and then things kind of went downhill when we
got karaoke first. I mean, you definitely got really drunk,
(04:12):
like you were like leaning on the mic stand drunk
at karaoke, and I really was turned off by the
fact that you were snapping at the bartender when you
wanted another drink. I thought that was just so disrespectful.
And Scott was already bad enough. But then you got
up on stage and you started singing I'll make Love
(04:33):
to You by Boys to Men, and you looked at
me in the eye and it was just so uncomfortable.
So cringe. Yes, yes, and like for our first date,
I was just already you were you're very, very drunk,
and then adding that it was just such a turnoff,
and I was, yeah, I just didn't know why you
(04:53):
thought that any of that was okay.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
The visuals alone, Felix, what is going on?
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Okay, of all, Yes, I had a few. I mean
you had a couple of drinks too. We were celebrating,
like you were vibing. I was vibing. It's karaoke night,
you know, we had dinner like a party at here.
Let's go, you know, let's have fun.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah. And when you were king on the mic, yeah
you were. You were super bartender.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I was not rude. I was just trying to get
their attention because it's a loud place, there's music playing.
What do you want? Like, am I supposed to yell
at him? I feel like fingersnapping is like more considerate.
I'm not gonna yell it.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Have you ever worked in like a restaurant or anything, like,
don't snap at people. I think it's super disrespect. Well,
you can get up and go talk to them. You
don't have to yell, you don't.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
You have to get their attention. That's not rude, you know.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
I just that's the way you treat service people. I
feel like it's a is a big tell.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
I mean, I agree, but I feel like I wasn't
rude to them.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
I want to get to the serenade though, because that's
my favorite part come on.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
That is apt solutly a classic song for a karaoke night,
and I was trying to be funny. I was not
being creepy. You cannot yes, yeah, I was playing up
the song we haven't even.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Kissed yet, you can't be singing I'll make love to
you like It's just it was such a turn off.
I feel like it was just way too much, too soon.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
All right, Is there any shot at a do over?
Speaker 3 (06:24):
No? No, no, no, absolutely no no second day for me.
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