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More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one O one three, It's Marcus. Good morning.
We're doing second date update on y'all know how we
do it? I forgot to. So there's a gentleman holding
his name also Marcus. I'm going to try not to
confuse myself right now. It's going to be touch and go. Marcus,
are you there? Yeah, I'm here, So let me explain
second date up there real quick before we start. So
(00:20):
Marcus went on a date with a lady named Jade.
You DMed me because she has ghosted and the date
sounds pretty cool. What we'll do eventually is call Jade
and have Marcus on the line, have him listen in
and try to figure out if he did something wrong
or if she's just been busy, or if there was
some sort of miscommunication that has caused him to ghost her.
So are you ready?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:40):
So let's lay it out, like how did you guys meet?
And then what how did how was the date? Like
what happened?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
So you know, I was doing an online thing founder
on one of the little dating apps. We're out of
San Mama, Taylo area, and like after out, say let's
let's go to bars some drinks. You know, maybe eat
a little appetizer or something. Keep it super light. I
don't want to go all out, you know. I just
(01:05):
gradually worked my way into it. Wherever fun. You know,
everything was like cool with drinks of porn. We're laughing.
She's banning her eyes at me. You know, we shared
some fries. I felt like we really quickened.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
You know, I don't know if I farted. I don't
know what happens, but I just know that she ghosted
in the wind like a fart.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I love the metaphor. I'll tell you what. We're going
to regroup for a song, and then we will give
her a shout, and like I said, we'll see what's up. Marcus.
Are you ready to call Jade?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Okay, So we're gonna try to figure out why she ghosted.
Go ahead and mut your phone. I'll see what she
says about your date.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Hello, I gonna speak to Jade. Please speaking Hi, Jade,
This is Marcus. I do a radio morning show for
iHeartRadio out of San Francis. Go on Star one on
one three.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
I don't suppose you listen do you I've heard you before?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Okay, I appreciate that pretty name, by the way. First
of all, sidebar. Second of all, so we're wondering if
you might go on the air with me real quick.
I would love to talk to you about a date
you've been on recently. We're doing second date update.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
Oh gosh, okay.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Have you heard second date update?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
I've heard it before.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Okay, now, but well, here we are. So do you
want me to bring Marcus on now or later?
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Oh it's Marcus. Okay, it's up to you.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Okay, fine, Marcus either.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Okay, I mean, listen, we're all adults, so let's try
to figure this out. Jade, Marcus, okay, we can. We
can do that too, right into it.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Okay. I think you're a nice guys.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I really do like I like you.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
It was just a few things that kind of were
I'm not gonna say red flags, but just kind of
this is a little weird.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
It's a little weird, okay, just progressively got more weird
as it went on.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
What happened, Okay, Well, first of all, we went out
for drinks, and every time we sipped he would say
cheers to us, and I just was.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Like, this is our first day, you know.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
I mean maybe it was like a quirky thing, and
that's fine that you do that, but I just I
don't know. It was a little a little odd after
a drink, but cheers to us after every sip.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
It just was kind of that part was just a
little That's fine.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
I could have got over that part, right, Marcus Well
radio Marcus, Okay, So I could have got over that part,
no problem.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I could have got over that part.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Were you still into it at that point? You hadn't
written him off yet? Had you not.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
All the way off?
Speaker 4 (04:03):
You know, I understand, you know with online you never
know what you're going to get. The problem really is that.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
At that point it just got stupid. Like I just
was like, okay, what are we doing here?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
What happened?
Speaker 4 (04:15):
He told me that he was technically between leases, which
to me is like borderline homeless. I just didn't know
I was signing up for dating a hobosexual, which that's.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Fine, that's where he's at. What now, a hobosexual?
Speaker 1 (04:31):
What does that mean?
Speaker 4 (04:33):
I mean, if you just break it down, he's just
trying to get some I don't know if you're trying
to find some place to live.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
I wasn't trying to be that lady. Okay.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Basically means that he told me, admitted to me, which
out of respect, that he's been crashing in his ex
girlfriend's spare bedroom because he doesn't have a place to go,
and I just am not trying to date somebody to
be the next place that he has to go.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Like, no, I didn't want to do that. That was
too much for me, got it, So.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I don't get in my own place.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
How come you don't have your own place, Marcus.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
It's just weird.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
You know.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
I had a little situation. She needed help for me,
so I was trying to help out. But at the
same time, like I'm trying to get my credit right
and the pocket is a little tight because I'm in
between jobs too. So I'm in between jobs and in
between leases. Wow, so I'm just in between uh huh.
But yeah, look it's on the horizon.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
That's fine.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
I respect that, but also like, I'm not trying to
be in a relationship with somebody that is not established,
Like you should probably focus on your stuff and not
trying to date me.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
I can do both.
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