December 18, 2025 • 6 mins
Leo met Jasmine on Hinge and went for cocktails in Oakland. She was stylish, sharp, and had an edge he loved. They talked music, travel, and dating horror stories, and by the end of the night, Leo felt locked in. We break down the moment you realize a date might be more than just a date…or was it?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Variety from the two thousands of the nineties and today
it's Star one on one three, it's Marcus and we're
back with it.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Man.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Second date update, finishing up the week strong. Let's say
good morning to Leo. What's up? Leo?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hey man, hoos up. I appreciate you guys helping me
out here.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Sure now you know why we're here because you got ghosted.
So I want to hear all about Jasmine in your
first date? How did you guys meet? And then like,
what did y'all do you know?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
So like we met on hinge, we got the mutual
like and that was quite exactly because her picture looked hot,
you know, right, and things went well. We were vibing.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Now let me ask you something. You're in the uber
on the way to the date. Are you thinking to yourself?
Please don't catfish me, Please don't catfish me. Please don't
catfish me.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Doesn't everybody?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Don't let it be about the angles. Don't let it
be about the angles exactly.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Was probably just the light, but no, man, everything turned out.
We went to have drakes, we got some cocktails, and
she was dope man like. She was stylish, sharp, had
a little bit of an edge, you know, I like
a little grit, sure, and you know, and things went well,
like she talked about music, she had really good music taste,
you know, talked about our dating, horror stories like we
(01:03):
all do on the ass right, and travel which she
has the passport, which already that's like leagues above a
lot of girls, you know what I'm saying. And then
by the other night, you know, I just I just
fell locked in. I thought we were vibing and right
there and then ghosts. Man, Gone, I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Okay, Gone, I'm going back to the part where you
said she had an edgetor I laughed because the joke
on our show, we talk about it all the time.
I'm I'm attracted to a woman that could probably take
me in a fight.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I feel you, I feel you. Okay, Well let's try
to figure this out.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Man.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
So I'm a caller.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We're gonna have you on mute, and I'm gonna ask
her how the date went, and we'll see if she's
just been busy or if somehow you screwed it up
or what happened.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Okay, can you take it all?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Right?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
You could take it?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Can take it.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Let's go.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
I got my guy leone on the phone. He knows
the assignment. We're gonna have him on mute. We're gonna
call his date, Jasmine, she has ghosted.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
It went on a date.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Looks pretty basic, y'all had cocktails in Oakland. Seemed to
work out, but she's gone.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
So you ready to meete up and do this. Let's
do it, man, Let's figure some things out here we go. Hello, Hello,
May I speak to Jasmine? Please? Hi, Jasmine, It's it's
Marcus calling from Star one one three. Good morning.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Morning.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Hey, how are you?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
I'm great?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Tell me that you're that you listen every morning, Tell
me that I do. Tell me that you know absolutely
do all about second date?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Update, it's gonna happen. I can't believe it's Leo right
like it has to be him.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Yeah, Leo? Are you there?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Guy?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Starting strong?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
So I mean, yeah, Jasmine, he likes you, Apparently you're amazing.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
And Leo would like to go out again. So we're
here to figure out did my guy screw it up?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Do you just been busy? I know it's the holidays.
Can we get a second date? I have so many questions?
How did it go for you?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Well?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
It was fine, it was fine, Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
The food was good. Like he dressed.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Decently, like with the polo top, you know, like very
put together. Okay, like that was all cool. You going
in and like we had a good conversation. You know,
it's the usual basic stuff over and over, but that's fine.
That's part of dating, right, right. And then I'm talking
and then he brings out his phone, which I think
is a little weird because I'm very much you know,
phones away during dinner kind of deal. But he brings
(03:44):
out his phone and he starts like putting notes in it,
and so I asked him he's texting. He's like no,
and I was like, okay, what are you doing? And so,
like I finally get him to admit that he has
this like ranking a girl that he's dated, and I
was like, huh. I was like, okay, tell me more.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
So like he's like the.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Pos calms sexuality compatibility scores, and I was like, okay,
Like this dude's literally taking notes.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Like literally, so he literally has a spreadsheet on every
woman he's dated.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Yeah, continue, He's just like I'm spotting patterns. It's just
like I'm i don't know, like a test subject or
something right and then like probably rank high once he
had more data, and like, so I figured it's talking
about like the bedroom kind of stuff. But I don't
I don't know what's going on with him. And so
after all that, he also tells me he's just like
(04:34):
I also do updates on breakups.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
You know, it's just like just like like after the breakoup.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
I don't know, like yeah, like after every single one.
So it's just I don't want to ask those numbers
or anything like that because it's just a little too
forwards as well. But like this isn't you know. I'm like,
I'm not a science experiment. I'm never saying myself as
a science experiment or or an object at all.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Uh huh, leo, what is happening here?
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Tell me? You know what was happening. He was that
I was opening my app to give her a good ranking.
You know.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
The date.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yeah, you know, just she looked well put together. We
had a good conversation, so I had to check out
that she looks good and the conversation was good, you know,
just keeping my notes updated and that's a that's a compliment.
I told her that, you know, being ranked high on
my list is a is a privilege, you know, not
every girl gets that, and she was she was climbing
that lists best.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
It's a privilege.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Cha, that's right.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Apparently I'm just being forward about this, you know, I'm honest.
That's called masculine honesty. You know what I mean. You
were ranked high, so here to give you a second
chance to you know, let me take you out on
a date again, because I think we're both high value together.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Because absolutely I'm being evaluated.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
You got a chance with the with the real man here,
you know, so now you understand, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I'm sure every you're telling me you don't want a
second chance, Jasmine, what's up?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Now? The fact that like he sees, he doesn't just
has an issue for one is like the first you know,
red flag. But it's just like the state isn't transactional.
I'm not a product to be reviewed, especially against other girls,
Like I don't compare myself and I don't necessarily compare
him to other people either. So now, absolutely no second date.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Sure, hang on a reminder, there is such a thing
as an internal monologue.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Second date update, be back tomorrow morning.
Variety from the two thousands of the nineties and today
it's Star one on one three, it's Marcus and we're
back with it.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Man.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Second date update, finishing up the week strong. Let's say
good morning to Leo. What's up? Leo?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hey man, hoos up. I appreciate you guys helping me
out here.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Sure now you know why we're here because you got ghosted.
So I want to hear all about Jasmine in your
first date? How did you guys meet? And then like,
what did y'all do you know?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
So like we met on hinge, we got the mutual
like and that was quite exactly because her picture looked hot,
you know, right, and things went well. We were vibing.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Now let me ask you something. You're in the uber
on the way to the date. Are you thinking to yourself?
Please don't catfish me, Please don't catfish me. Please don't
catfish me.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Doesn't everybody?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Don't let it be about the angles. Don't let it
be about the angles exactly.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Was probably just the light, but no, man, everything turned out.
We went to have drakes, we got some cocktails, and
she was dope man like. She was stylish, sharp, had
a little bit of an edge, you know, I like
a little grit, sure, and you know, and things went well,
like she talked about music, she had really good music taste,
you know, talked about our dating, horror stories like we
(01:03):
all do on the ass right, and travel which she
has the passport, which already that's like leagues above a
lot of girls, you know what I'm saying. And then
by the other night, you know, I just I just
fell locked in. I thought we were vibing and right
there and then ghosts. Man, Gone, I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Okay, Gone, I'm going back to the part where you
said she had an edgetor I laughed because the joke
on our show, we talk about it all the time.
I'm I'm attracted to a woman that could probably take
me in a fight.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I feel you, I feel you. Okay, Well let's try
to figure this out.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Man.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
So I'm a caller.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We're gonna have you on mute, and I'm gonna ask
her how the date went, and we'll see if she's
just been busy or if somehow you screwed it up
or what happened.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Okay, can you take it all?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Right?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
You could take it?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Can take it.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Let's go.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
I got my guy leone on the phone. He knows
the assignment. We're gonna have him on mute. We're gonna
call his date, Jasmine, she has ghosted.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
It went on a date.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Looks pretty basic, y'all had cocktails in Oakland. Seemed to
work out, but she's gone.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
So you ready to meete up and do this. Let's
do it, man, Let's figure some things out here we go. Hello, Hello,
May I speak to Jasmine? Please? Hi, Jasmine, It's it's
Marcus calling from Star one one three. Good morning.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Morning.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Hey, how are you?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
I'm great?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Tell me that you're that you listen every morning, Tell
me that I do. Tell me that you know absolutely
do all about second date?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Update, it's gonna happen. I can't believe it's Leo right
like it has to be him.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Yeah, Leo? Are you there?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Guy?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Starting strong?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
So I mean, yeah, Jasmine, he likes you, Apparently you're amazing.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
And Leo would like to go out again. So we're
here to figure out did my guy screw it up?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Do you just been busy? I know it's the holidays.
Can we get a second date? I have so many questions?
How did it go for you?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Well?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
It was fine, it was fine, Okay.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
The food was good. Like he dressed.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Decently, like with the polo top, you know, like very
put together. Okay, like that was all cool. You going
in and like we had a good conversation. You know,
it's the usual basic stuff over and over, but that's fine.
That's part of dating, right, right. And then I'm talking
and then he brings out his phone, which I think
is a little weird because I'm very much you know,
phones away during dinner kind of deal. But he brings
(03:44):
out his phone and he starts like putting notes in it,
and so I asked him he's texting. He's like no,
and I was like, okay, what are you doing? And so,
like I finally get him to admit that he has
this like ranking a girl that he's dated, and I
was like, huh. I was like, okay, tell me more.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
So like he's like the.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Pos calms sexuality compatibility scores, and I was like, okay,
Like this dude's literally taking notes.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Like literally, so he literally has a spreadsheet on every
woman he's dated.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Yeah, continue, He's just like I'm spotting patterns. It's just
like I'm i don't know, like a test subject or
something right and then like probably rank high once he
had more data, and like, so I figured it's talking
about like the bedroom kind of stuff. But I don't
I don't know what's going on with him. And so
after all that, he also tells me he's just like
(04:34):
I also do updates on breakups.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
You know, it's just like just like like after the breakoup.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
I don't know, like yeah, like after every single one.
So it's just I don't want to ask those numbers
or anything like that because it's just a little too
forwards as well. But like this isn't you know. I'm like,
I'm not a science experiment. I'm never saying myself as
a science experiment or or an object at all.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Uh huh, leo, what is happening here?
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Tell me? You know what was happening. He was that
I was opening my app to give her a good ranking.
You know.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
The date.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yeah, you know, just she looked well put together. We
had a good conversation, so I had to check out
that she looks good and the conversation was good, you know,
just keeping my notes updated and that's a that's a compliment.
I told her that, you know, being ranked high on
my list is a is a privilege, you know, not
every girl gets that, and she was she was climbing
that lists best.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
It's a privilege.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Cha, that's right.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Apparently I'm just being forward about this, you know, I'm honest.
That's called masculine honesty. You know what I mean. You
were ranked high, so here to give you a second
chance to you know, let me take you out on
a date again, because I think we're both high value together.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Because absolutely I'm being evaluated.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
You got a chance with the with the real man here,
you know, so now you understand, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I'm sure every you're telling me you don't want a
second chance, Jasmine, what's up?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Now? The fact that like he sees, he doesn't just
has an issue for one is like the first you know,
red flag. But it's just like the state isn't transactional.
I'm not a product to be reviewed, especially against other girls,
Like I don't compare myself and I don't necessarily compare
him to other people either. So now, absolutely no second date.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Sure, hang on a reminder, there is such a thing
as an internal monologue.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Second date update, be back tomorrow morning.
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