Can You Get a Mulligan on the Rejected Proposal?

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Georgia's number one for new country ninetyfour point nine. The ball hope you're
having a great Thursday morning. It'smoot. Kimmy Otis got another study from
the No Duh Research. I lovethese studies where we could be like,
you can give me money and I'lltell you the same exact thing. If
you're up right now, you mayagree with this stick around coming up with
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And they say like people drink whenthey're stressed out, And you're like,
who did you get to participate?Well, I'll help you knows me.
This was pretty neat how they didthis though, finding out that five
am is the worst time for yourmood. Okay, people, but it's
not into it. If you readthe headline, it's like researchers have found
out the worst hour of the day, five am. And I'm like,

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how did you get money for that? Like funding for that? I could
have asked everyone if five am isfun? We all have been like,
no, I'm up every day atthat time. It was done at the
University of Michigan, Dartmouth Health.They actually did it a really cool way.
They studied these health students fit bits. Oh yeah, I love looking
at my sleep statistics, biometrics,and their mood has this natural sway to

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it. And five am is oneof the lowest points for your mood.
Five pm highest points in your mood, probably because you got off work it
suns out again again. Throw itin the no do file kind of.
I mean, I do love thatthey're actually confirming how we all feel using
biometrics or they're looking at like yourheart rate, like blood pressure, sleep

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movement, things like that. Butalso it's like, yeah, five pm
in a bit of a better moodthan five am every day generally for me.
I'm trying to think for me,personally, I don't know. That's
what I was gonna say. I'mgonna throw a wrench in this research.
They did it with students who don'thave kids. I guarantee you I've got
three children. You want to knowwhen the worst part of my mood is
nine pm? When they need togo to bed and get a shower and

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brush their teeth and I want togo to bed. That's my worst time.
I feel like you could just say, you know, when you're a
parent, the worst hour for me? Every hour their home, every single
hour their home. I look,I love you, I love being around
you. I beget the cutest.But also it is considerably a harder hour
for me than before you existed,because when I didn't have kids, every

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hour was awesome. But also,I love you. You're sweet. I'd
never change anything. Keep your handsoff each other and stop fighting all the
time. Yeah, we just didour own study right there. Hours are
harder with kids. No, okay, I want a new study with kids.
How do we get money for thismood? Kimmy otis? You guys

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do the only things to help meget from Bill Rick Adultonville every Day's ninety
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We've got the six headlines right nowwith Kimmy Karuba. We'll talk about post

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Malone and is Toby Heath at tributein just a second. But first,
if you like to take road tripswith the family, otis, I know
you're brave and you do this withyour three kids cheap you mean, I'm
gonna say Motus could find flights forcheaper than a road trip. Five tickets
on an airplane is very expensed.That is true. Well, I think
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experience. They built a breakfast themedhouse so it looks like a stack of
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We have fun there front. They'vegot a little place. I forget what

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it's called, but they had There'schickens all the way around and they sing
and dance while you eat too.You gotta go to that place. See,
I feel like we already have abreakfast inspired places the International House of
Pancakes. I do love you haveyou've seen the shutdown ones. Those are
sad because we all know what theylook like, the little a frame house
and then you're missing here, Brian. It doesn't look like a stack of
pants. It does not not likethis. Okay, so this is pretty

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cool. Chris Stapleton announced yesterday thathe is going to be on Saturday Night
Live. The way he did itthough everybody is loving. He said,
I'm just Chris because he is themusical guest when Ryan Gosling is going to
be the host, and people cannotget enough of it. All the comments
are saying, like, Chris enoughand stuff like that. I don't write
for ESNL, but if somebody doesn'tput Chris Stapleton in a pink suit to

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do the kN song, you're missing, or just add him to a barbie
sketch like the weird Barbies have likebearded Barbie and they're like, look at
this guy. Chris Stapleton as Alanyou love Allan, you love it?
Well, that's gonna be April thirteenth. Okay, so this is really cool
postmal Loan. He is on Hickstape that new mixed Joe Diffy. Well,
uh, he really really loves countrymusic and at a recent show he

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picked up a red solo cup,took a drink, and then launched into
his rendition of the late Toby Keith'sAs Good as I Once was, So
I love him nice and rest ofpeace, Toby Listen, Peace to Keith,

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Ladies and journey. We're gonna heara lot of that this year from
a lot of artists. I wantto hear Al Deane do some covers when
he comes through. Ye man,big hole in country music. Losen Toby
Keith and you can see it inall genres for sure. That's the headlines
with keeping krub every day at sixtten and eight ten. That's you are
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you know right now, Kimmi Karuba, So blueberries aren't actually blue. Your
eyes are playing tricks on you.So there was a British study that found
that pigments and blueberries and other fruitsthat appear to be blue are actually a
very dark red. And there isa thin natural wax coating on the skin
of blueberries that causes your eyes andyour brain to give the appearance of blue

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to you. Blueberries creep me out. I don't like blueberries. I don't
like things that explode in my mouth. Me neither, gushers cherry tomatoes.
Blueberries are different. But also likewhen you eat sushi and they have the
little tiny salmon eggs, those littlethings explode in your mouth. Noah,
No, it roastes me out.This takes me back to and this,

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you know, those moments in lifethat you just it sticks in your brain.
Rent free forever, and Brian,you're like this. You remember the
comedian George Carlon right, one ofthe legends, there's no blue food.
Don't say blueberries. You know thatpurple blueberry and you see that sucker's purple
blue cheese. No blue cheese isjust white cheese with a bunch of mold.

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Very true. And yeah, youcan smash up a bowl of blueberries
and you'll see dark red, almostpurple color. Every time somebody asks in
the order wings at a restaurant,the blue cheese or ranch, I look
at them like, who would chooseblue cheese? What a shocking number of
people choose blue cheese? I workedup aff lit wild wings. I think
it's absolutely no eat it. Theyjust have it on the table. Nobody
does. I refuse to believe it. You know your blueberries, they're red.

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Smash one on your shirt. You'llfigure that out. Ninety four point
now on the bull you can alwaysget the entire show catch up you miss
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Hold a little microphone down, tellus the weirdest email address you've ever seen.
We were talking about that yesterday,Like whether it was one your company
gave you that was awkward with theway your name fit together with your initials,
or you just made a terrible choice. There's a woman going viral whose

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name is Samantha Hart, and inthe company email they abbreviate to your first
initial and heart name shirt. That'sa fun one, juvenile colleagues. Yeah,
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you laugh when you see it.My nephew had changed my sister's email address.
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he changed her email, so sugarand emil genius from him, just
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will want it in their inbox.Yet what did she do when she found
out? Oh, she about beatthe wife at him, I imagine,
because either regardless, she's not gettingthe emails, but then also, no
matter what the judgments that every schooladministrator put when they're like, oh my
god, so his mom. Hismom's a stripper, right, like she
watched the ball. Oh oh mygod, she was embarrassed to go to

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school. Well, I guess missionaccomplished if you're him still yeah, yeah,
they went contact her about what missionwork he has that so fantastic.
Appreciate you calling this morning. Yeah, you can't fix stupid, proven it
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Ohtis, who do we got?One of the most infamous voyages in
human history may sail again. AChinese com company called Sidic wants to bring
back the Titanic for another voyage likethe actual Titanic or start over again,
not the one on the ball,because I'm like, I think the last

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time we went down there, Ifeel like that one's a lemon. Yes,
who's but there are car facts onthat Titanic can do well. The
engineers going on and can't fix stupidlist, because who's buying a ticket to
that, Denise? Are you?Yes? Yeah, I would like the
Titanic experience. You wouldn't wait forthe second voyage, you'd go on the
first one. Yeah, first time? Would Well, no, if I

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had a second chance, because nowit's going to be a good ship,
it's not going to well. Youknow, the karma has a way of
fine and its way back around.The original voyage did not go well,
but engineers are now going to rebuildstick for stick, iron for iron the
Titanic so that it can have avoyage in twenty twenty seven, since it's
newer times. I would, Ithink I would. But you know those

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people that tried to where was it? They tried to go and try to
go down to the Titanic, andthey like smashed like a tennis. The
whole thing collapse like a can,like a cokecaine. If you're buying a
ticket to the Titanic, might Ioffer you a ride on the Challenger voyage
from NASA. Trying to find anon offensive joke right now with that is

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really hard. I've been looking throughmy mind for all sorts of other disasters
I can make a joke about rightnow, and I'm just not gonna do
it. We're gonna have another voyageon the Hinden Bird if you want to
join in, Denise. So youknow what the problem is gonna be with
this second boat is everyone's going tobe falling off the front of it trying
to recreate the scene between Jack andRose. I mean, that is one
of the best moments. You're like, crash, but we lost every passenger

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off the front of the boat andit probably has to clip into everybody was
up there. And also the onlyuh, the only entertainment they'd have to
be Celine Dion, So I thinka lot of people going overboard it.
They gotta you gotta have her asthe lounge singer again every night Selene's playing.
Really appreciate you, Denise, can'tfix stupid? Why are we doing

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that again? Let's let's let's leavethat where it's at the bottom of the
ocean. Coming up next at sixfifty five and ask the show and you
need to know what you think aboutthis. Have you ever had to propose
to the same person for a secondtime because they shot you down the first
time? Did it work out foryou? Four oh four seven four to
one zero ninety four nine. Thanksfor listening to Moove, Kimmy and Otis
in the morning. I've been greatlove waking up driving thirty thirty five minutes.

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Do you guys this in the morning? Ninety four point nine The Bull
ninety four point nine The Bull.You think the moment's right, you ask
somebody to marry you, you're sonervous and they say no, How do
you come back from that? Hasthat happened to you? Four oh four
seven four one zero ninety four nine. It's mook Kimmy Otis and that's the
question asked the show this morning Chadfrom Duluth. I'm otis you dropped to
one knee the perfect moment to askher? And she said no. Me

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and my girlfriend haven't see each otherfor about two years, and I propose.
I asked her parents and everything,and her dad was like, of
course, go ahead. I thoughtit was the right time, but she
told me she wasn't ready, soit really sucked and stuff, and I've
been pretty bummed. But has thishappened to anyone else and things actually work
out in the end, or hey, it's moved by the way, Sorry

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man, that's brutal. Yeah,that's awful. But it was it a
no or was it not right now? Because those are very different, like
are you guys broken up? No? No, no, not at all.
It's just a not right now,quick stand up? Stand up?
Right now? Stand up? Imean not right now doesn't mean like it's
going to be yes right. Butshe's also not cutting you loose either.
No, she hasn't cut me looseor anything like that. But it's still

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just kind of a weird feeling.Like I said, we've been together for
years already, so I don't knowwhen the right time will be. Like
she didn't really give any specifics ofwhat she was waiting for what else I
could do, so kind of takesthe fire out of it though, right,
you know what I mean, LikeI would be so deflated that I
probably would give up on it.I mean, I don't want to like
be a negative on it. I'msaying I don't think I can get past
Yeah. Yeah, I mean that'sthe problem. Really hard to know you're

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feeling like she still wants to bewith you. I mean that's a positive
if this is a girl that youreally love, But at the same time,
is it something that's always going tobe in the back of your mind,
like why didn't she say yes?Or is it something that you can
get over right now? You know, I'm so deflated about everything, but
I mean, I'm still hoping allthe work. I was just wondering if

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anyone else knew of any similar circumstancewhere it actually did work out. Four
four seven four to one oh ninetyfour nine. Did you get shot down
or did you shoot someone down?Or do you have an opinion if you
think that's a bad sign for thisrelationship? It's not ninety four point non
in the ball minutes away seven tenfrom finding out who that artist is to
listen for at eight o'clock for thatiHeart Country Music festival trip in Austin,

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Texas, or on moot Kimmy andOtis, or asked the show Chad,
if he makes it to the altarwith the woman that said no to his
proposal, I hope they danced apretty little poisonous That would be a good
one. It's like a Holley Lujahor something happened four four seven four one
zero ninety four eight nine. Youask someone to marry you, they say
no, do you hang in thereand ask again and did it work out
for you? But that's it?In con Welcome to the Commanotas show.

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I'm otis, do you think sinceChad got turned down once that this relationship
is actually gonna work out? Prettymuch? No, it really is a
gut feeling, and so she saidno, it's probably gonna stay no because
you can feel if this person youwant to be connected with them forever,
and apparently she didn't. It happenedto me. I said no to a
guy who proposed. I tried tosay but it just didn't work. If

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she said no, I think heshould take that as a sign that meets
forever. I don't think I agree. Eventually, you get burned enough when
you're dating people where in your headyou're like, I think I do really
like this person, but I wantto be more sure and we need more
time, which is why you wouldsay no. Now, Brian, I
know you watched The Bachelor and thosereality shows like I do. What's always

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funny to me is when they finallylook at somebody and they be like,
I don't really want to get marriedon this show, but I'd have to
keep dating a few of them havesaid that, and then they always are
like, oh my good shamed,like oh my god, this it doesn't
want to put a ring on itafter three months, six weeks in a
jungle resort. Most reasonable thing everis when they're like, I love you,
but I want to just happen onLove is Blind and we did in
real life. Please thank you justfor a little bit. I mean,

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you're trying to tell me that forwon't work on a reality show. What
are the odds that will work foryou? I'd like to find somebody that
it is Michael Ray's think a littleless hero in George's number one for New
country ninety four point non in theBulls. Sometimes we'd all use a little
bit of that advice. Smoot.Kimmy and Otis On asked the show we're
talking about, if you've ever proposedto somebody and they said no, you

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did it a second time? Didit work out for you? Four o
four seven four one zero ninety fourto nine. But I know people are
waiting with baited breath for this question. Robin, Hey, what song what
am I listening for? You arelistening for Old Dominion. Listen for that
eight o'clock hour and you could winyour trip to our Heart Country Festival at
Austin, Texas, presented by CapitalOne. Okay, thank you guys,
have a great day you too,Robin, appreciate you. Megan and Dallas,

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you were listening to the proposal thatyou got to know for what's your
thoughts? My opinion would be tohave the perversation about what's expected out of
this relationship, because it doesn't reallysound like she's too committed. After two
years of being with somebody, youshould know by then, if you know
marriage is what you want or not. Yeah, we didn't bring that up

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too much. Two years is along time you're still questioning things, then
there's maybe a bigger red flag,or like you said, have an honest
conversation about maybe she was just surprisedin the moment, maybe had time to
think about it. But his voicesounded so deflated that that was kind of
sad, like, yeah, youknow when you feel like this, like
the spark is Yeah, but no, she she shouldn't need to just still

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think about It's something she should havealready been. Any woman would be thinking
at that point of two years inrelationship. Hmm. I wonder if you've
got to propose, you know,and should be hoping for it, right.
So, no, it's not likemarriage has not crossed her mind.
I definitely don't think that. Ithink that she doesn't want to, but
she's not ready to let go ofhim. Yeah, but nobody wants to

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waste time. No, we don'thave a lot of it here on earth,
so let's not waste it together ifthis isn't something for the long haul,
right, because that's even worse havingto go back to the dating apps.
She's like, I'm not going backin. I'll just stick with what
I got. You know what,I'll marry this guy just because I don't
want to pay for a date andmaybe she made a mistake go back and

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say yes, just take it,just sticking with him until she randomly needs
somebody and hit it off. Imean that sucks to say, but after
two years you ought to know.Much like you find a job on Craigslist,
go there and find love as well. No, that is not a
good recommendation, Megan, Thank youso much. You guys are great.

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Save us as your favorites. Putus right in your favorites on your phone.
I just did. I'm Brian Mudand asked the show the question.
This morning, we had Chad whowas concerned about hanging in there after he
got shot down proposing to his girlfriend. Was there a choice? Should you?
Did it? Ruin? Everything didtake the sparkle away. A lot
of callers were saying, like,he's got to call it off, that's

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it, likes she doesn't want you. I wasn't sure about that. Good
morning, Kay, indicator. I'motis you actually said no to your husband
before when you've thought about proposing?Yeah, I mean I disagree with a
lot of the callers I'm hearing.I was dating my husband for three years
the first time he brought up gettingmarried, and I had goals. I
wanted to finish my degree and havesome other things checked off my list.

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First, ye had nothing to dowith him. Marry him four years later
and we've been married for thirty twoyears. So all this fairytale stuff about
she should have been thinking it badafter two years. Maybe she had other
things on her list that she wasthinking of. It didn't mean she wasn't
thinking of him, but he's notthe only thing she was thinking about.
Yeah, that's definitely something that Iuh as a single woman in my thirties

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deal with a lot. Everybody isalways like, when are you getting married?
I'm like, that's just not mypriority. We had a great relationship
and I was enjoyed the relationship,but marriage was not at the top of
my list at that point. Likewhat happened to Chad is she didn't really
say anything, this is not theright time. But when you came with,
look, I want to finish mydegree with these other things, I
feel like there's still room to grow. I actually didn't get a chance to

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do that. He told somebody hewas gonna propose to me, and they
called and told me, and sothen I called him and said I called
it. I said stop him,because I don't think he don't take it
well. If I say no,I think it just goes back to that
old adage, Why by the carunless you can test drive it for seven
years? You know what I mean? What we're saying, I feel like

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that's what I hear from every cardealership. Kids. Cha had some positive
vibes. He might not be theend awesome on Moo Kimmy and ODIs George's
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got shot a little dosed of thegood vibes for you, Kimy Cripple.
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They noticed that some of the olderkids were struggling as they began to age
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and I think there's a couple oforganizations popping up here around North Georgia.
We can find the info put thatont kimiotis. But it is so huge
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These kids are ripped from their familieswith nothing. And jambo is another good
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