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December 2, 2023 15 mins
The holiday season is here, and while this is normally a time full of joy and togetherness, it can also be a time of extreme loneliness for seniors who may not be able to get out and about as much as they used to, or aren't receiving as many visits from family and friends. Little Brothers - Friends of the Elderly in Boston engage with seniors in public and affordable housing all year long, helping them socialize with their neighbors and learn new skills. Nikki Shults, Executive Director of LBFE Boston, joins Nichole on the show this week to talk about their work and their holiday plans for local seniors.
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From WBZ News Radio in Boston.This is New England Weekend. Each week
we come together and talk about allthe topics important to you and the place
where you live. So happy tobe back with you again this week.
I'm Nicole Davis. The holiday seasonis all about coming together with the people
we love and spending precious time togetherand you know, also eating snacks.

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Unfortunately, though, it can reallybe a time of year when many seniors
find themselves to be more alone thanever you see a senior's age. People
in their circles often move out ofthe neighborhood or pass away, and family
members just might not be able tovisit as much physically. It's also not
quite as easy to get out andabout as it used to be. Those
factors combined can cause many elders tofind themselves struggling with depression and isolation,

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not just around the holidays, butreally all year round. Little Brothers friends
of the elderly are there to help. Special programs set up with eager volunteers
to bring a smile to seniors faces, to remind them they're cared for and
they are certainly not alone. NickiSchultz is the executive director of Little Brothers.
She's here now to talk about theirgreat work. NICKI thank you so
much for your time. So let'sstart here with a bit of a rundown.

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I guess tell us how long LittleBrothers has been around. It's been
some time, if I remember correctly. And tell us a bit more too,
about how you're connecting with these seniors. Yeah, we've been in Boston
since nineteen seventy nine, which makesthis, I think our forty fifth anniversary
coming up in twenty twenty four.And in Boston, our mission is to

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relieve isolation and loneliness among older adults, and we do that through intergenerational programs.
We bring college students into public andaffordable senior housing buildings and senior centers
for social activities, tech access programs, and creative arts. All right,
we'll break down those programs a littlebit here in a moment. But I
was curious to know how do youconnect with these older adults because obviously Boston

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and the Boston area, we havea lot of seniors around. How do
you find these adults who might needsome assistance or just time with somebody.
So we have a broad community partnernetwork. So the older adults we work
with they live in senior housing communities, and we bring our programs into the
common spaces of those housing buildings,and we work with the resident service coordinators

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or resident task forces to make surepeople know that our students are coming in,
we have activities planned, and thatanyone that lives in those buildings are
welcome to join. Now, tellus a little bit for people who might
not be familiar about the fact that, look, seniors don't get a lot
of socialization sometimes, especially as theyget older, they go into these facilities
or these nursing homes. Tell usabout the impact that that can have on

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somebody who's older. Sure, soin our society, you know, there
are a lot of housing communities thatare designed for people five plus, and
so we often see like, okay, older people are over here, and
then the rest of us are overhere, and that creates these silos where
people are aging, often in isolationor without contact from other generations other people

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in their community. And so it'sreally important for programs like LBF and others
to bring the community into those spaces. And you know, for there's many
reasons why older adult might not beable to access community on their own,
might be You know, Boston hasa very complex transportation system. We'll just

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leave it at that, and transportationis costly too, there might be mobility
issues, even linguistic isolation. Asof twenty fifteen, and I would wager
that this number has grown, nineteenpercent of older adults for linguists isolated in
Boston. So there's, you know, many reasons why older adults might be

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isolated in these communities. And honestly, I've noticed personally and others I've spoken
to have told me this as well. COVID really did a number on seniors,
especially those who already weren't around alot of people to socialize with.
So what was it like for youduring the height of the pandemic as you
worked with seniors. Well, thosewere hard years, I believe it.

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So the first thing that we did, the City of Boston and the as
Strong Commission did a really great jobof mobilizing aging services community, and I
think that we've done a good jobat keeping up the mentum post pandemic too.
But really, you know, theACE apps, aging services providers,
community organizations, the city, everyonedid a great job at mobilizing and making

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sure that older adults had access toyou know, the essentials, food,
medical care, shelter, and thenvery quickly it was like, okay,
but what about socialized I mean weall felt it, not just older adults,
everyone of every age felt this newprofound sense of loneliness and isolation.
As you know, we were inlockdowns, are staying at home, and

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you know, we've seen that,you know, for for some older people
it's been hard to get out ofthat mindset or hard to re enter into
the community. We've seen a lotof people again of all ages, that
just didn't thrive and maybe their healthdeclined more rapidly than it would have in
normal times. And so you know, again by bringing programs to where people

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live and not expecting that transportation ortravel, peace really helps provide access to
too activities and socialization and community engagement. And did the pandemic change how you
work with seniors at all? Becauseobviously COVID has not left us. COVID
is still here. It's just certainlynot as pronounced as it was. But

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you know, we are of coursein flu and RSP and cold season.
Has the pandemic changed how you workwith seniors? I feel like everyone I
noticed it right now and you andme both. I'm surprised to we're not.
Frankly, I just got over it, like two days ago. I
did my time. So during theheight of the pandemic, we made the
decision to bring all of our programsonline, which of course is a whole

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other barrier to access issue. Manyolder adults either lack devices or connectivity or
instruction and know how how to usetechnology for communication. We did, you
know, a lot of work helpingto get older adults online using the Internet.
Again. H Strong did a greatjob providing tablets for us to distribute

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to our program participants in hotspots withWi Fi. And you know, the
first few weeks of these online programswas really about you know, how do
you turn on the tablet? Howdo you use zoom? What is zoom?
And then you know, a fewweeks later, the community building aspect
really started to kick back in andpeople were sharing items from their homes like

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a show and tell and like whythis is important to them? What is
the history? We did some PowerPointtours of like someone's life. Maybe they
shared pictures of a trip that theyhad gone on or of their family.
We used Google Earth to show wheremany of the people we work with are
immigrants, and so maybe they showedus the town, the city, the

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village that they grew up in.So we really get to have these robust
connections online, which you know,a lot of older adults were surprised about,
like, yeah, you know,I was kind of skeptical. I
didn't think that there was any waythat we were going to build connection and
community. But we did it,and here we are. I'm happy to
say now that all of our programsare back in person. Of course,

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you know, depending on health,you know, we might have to take
a pause, we might have towear masks, we might have people maybe
in and out, but we're allback in person. And probably the biggest
change is that, because of thepandemic, we introduced our Digital Dividends program,
which is a digital access program wherewe provide chromebooks to older adults living
in public and affordable housing. Weprovide hotspots for the duration of the program

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that has unlimited data plans, andthen our students from mostly Northeastern and Boston
College, they go into the housingcommunities on a weekly basis to provide both
classroom and one on one instruction andsupport. I love that because look,
I'm an older millennial, right,an exxennial as they say, and technology
has been moving quickly. For me, I cannot even imagine being seventy five,

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eighty ninety years old and trying tojust watch and see how technology has
progressed, trying to grasp everything goingon. It's a lot when technology just
continues to quickly expand and grow.So I'm grateful you have that for them.
I know it's wild azillennial with anex as well. Oh yeah,
and even now just like, oh, I think I'm falling behind. I

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didn't think I ever would, buthere we are, right, Oh gosh.
And that's one of the many programs. You actually have four seniors,
so let's kind of talk about afew more of these. I really like
the Creative Connections program, So what'sgoing on with that? So Creative Connections
is another new program for us lastyear, so twenty twenty two was our
first year, a pilot year,and this program brings local instructors, professional

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artists into public and affordable senior housingon a weekly basis, and they do
six to eight week fine arts andcreative courses and these these instructors they offer
culturally informed and linguistically appropriate content andprograms for the neighborhoods that we serve.

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So we have we have dance classes, we have painting, we have some
arts, different type of mixed mein arts classes. We've had instructors as
speak English and Spanish and Vietnamese andthey're they're really well attended. And we
just received some funding to keep thisprogram going in the year ahead and has

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become very popular. And then there'sanother one that really stuck out to me
Gen two jen Q. This onereally focused on the lgbt Q i A
community. So how does that allwork? So this is a brand new
program and it's about to launch.So our program director, Cynthia Wilkerson,
was awarded an Eisner Fellowship this yearand so this is a pilot her pilot

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program through this this fellowship, andit's really bringing an intergenerational lens into LGBTQ
programming and bringing older and younger adultstogether. Do you have anything going on
specifically for the holidays. Let's kindof switch into holiday talk first and foremost,
actually before we go any further,you had a big Thanksgiving Day lunch
for older adults. It was overat the highat recently tell us about how

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that went. Yeah, the Thanksgivingprogram is honestly one of my favorite days
of the year. So the Hyattat Boston Herber has been doing this program
for I was asking one of theolder adults, like, how long have
we been here? I think it'sabout twenty five years, And they're wonderful.
They sponsor the entire event and webring older adults volunteers, pick them
up at their home, bring themto the event. There's a whole buffet,

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you know, there's wine pores,there's every type of pie you can
think of. We bring in agreat DJ, Craig Sutton. Go to
an event guy and he does triviaand music. There's dancing one man al
he gets up and he sings forus every year. He's kind of like
a crooner Sinatra Kana style guy.And then Mary gets up and tells a
few jokes and there are always alittle off color, but like perfect.

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It's just a really fun day.Oh I love that. And then of
course we have the holidays through December. We've got Honukah and Christmas and Gwan's
all sorts of holidays. What doyou have planned to sell it? Break?
Yeah, So the holidays have traditionallybeen a core program for LBAF,
not just in Boston, but allour chapters across the US and across North
America and Europe. It's one ofthe things that really brings us all together.

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So in Boston, it's a realcommunity effort to celebrate the holidays with
the older adults in our programs.So we have a few corporate and student
groups that are making holiday cards thatwill distribute to about five hundred older adults.
We have other corporate volunteers that arehosting a supply drive. We have

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several community partners at work with olderadults who are coming out of homelessness,
and so they put together welcome homekits to distribute. And then we have
our students and staff that and inour Board of Directors putting together holiday packages
and gifts that include all these cardsamong other things, and those get hand

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delivered to all of the older adultsand all of our programs across city sites
and digital dividends, Creative Connections bookthat comes to our Thanksgiving party. So
it's a big effort. There arehundreds and hundreds of gifts and the community
all comes together to make it happen. And is all part of our general
season of giving well, and youknow it's certainly not cheap. I'm sure

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to get that done. It takesa lot of time and energy and money.
So then my question for you is, if anybody wants to help,
if they're listening, how can theyhelp you keep all this going, especially
not just for the holidays, buteverything you're doing all year round. This
time of year is a really bigyear for fundraising for us, and we
have nearly half of our annual donationscome in in the month of December,

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and those donations allow us to runour programs all year round. So the
best way to support LBFE is tomake a donation. You can go to
Lbfeboston dot org and contribute to ourseason of giving, and that will help
us all year round to provide theseprograms that really try to marrior the opportunities
that older adults in market rate housinghave access to. And what about volunteers,

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because you need humans to help makethis all happen too. So are
you looking for volunteers at this pointor are you just on a pause?
What do you need for our holidayprograms? I believe that we are all
set for individual volunteers. Okay,but we all are looking for more corporate
groups to host those supply drives,to collect and distribute and deliver those welcome

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home packages to our partners at workwith formerly homeless older adults, and you
know, for long term volunteering,you know, we do every year,
we do a recruitment season for ourBoard of directors and for committee work,
and then for our regular day today programs. Those are intergenerational programs.

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So we, like I said,we work with our university partners to have
our students and community engage in servicelearning programs to join us. Okay,
cool. So if anybody wants tolearn more about you and what you're working
on at Little Brothers all these programs, how can they do so? The
best way is to go to ourwebsite Lbfeboston dot org and you can learn

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all about our programs and there's acontact form if you want to get in
touch with us directly, and youcan also look at all the staff members
and all our email addresses are thereas well. Easy enough, all right,
Nicki Schultz, the executive director ofLittle Brothers Friends of the Elderly,
thank you so much and have agreat holiday season. Great same to you.
Thank you so much, Nicole,have a safe and healthy weekend.
Join me again next week for anotheredition of the show. I'm Nicole Davis

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