June 11, 2025 • 41 mins
Welcome back! In this episode KT, Kayla and Producer Jordyn talk about their bottomless mimosas brunch at a New Orleans themed restaurant. They also discuss Kayla clearing her roster and focusing on her new man, Halle Bailey's text messages to DDG and the topic of postpartum depression. The ladies also talk about the current state on Los Angeles and the protests that are happening against ICE.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Petty Is Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hie, welcome back to the Petty I'm Kayla, I'm Kayla.
Now Jordan's let's good, Jordan's. We've had a fun week weekend.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
I mean, weekend was up. It was y'all was up
with the Bottomless Mimosas. I was trapped.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Oh my gosh. Yeah, we wanted you to come so bad.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Tell me about it.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Well, first of all, I just needed a good weekend.
I feel like I haven't had one since a long time,
you know what I mean. And so I was like,
I want to do something this weekend. And I remember
I said to somebody, I was like, I'm about to
be outside Friday, Saturday and Sunday, like I'm doing something
like I want to. I want to.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
And so before me, Vonn and.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Tato were talking or I think you were there too,
about how this place in Sherman Oaks has ten dollars
mimosas bottomless mimosas.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
We will be back by the way, which is unheard of.
Wait is it every day or is it only on
the weekends. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I feel like it's only on Saturdays.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
You try to go to where can we go?
Speaker 2 (01:05):
But yeah, so it's like a it's like super hole
in the wall, like you could easily miss it. But
it's like Marty Gross theme. It's New Orleans themed. I
guess the owner is probably from New Orleans. But you
walk in and they're playing the jazz music. And we
sat outside in the back. It was like this beautiful,
like I don't know, a patio type of vibe, green,
(01:25):
very like very green lights everywhere. It's just like a vibe.
And so we sat down and we were like, like,
let's get to it, and we had the best time ever.
We should go ever, Oh, I won't even be here
Juneteenth weekend, but that would be a good I'm going
back home. I'm being back in the DMV finally after
a few years. I haven't been back to Maryland years.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Wow. Yeah, I don't know. How do you not go
home for years? I don't home like four or five
times a year. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Well, I've seen my parents and maybe even come here
or we met halfway in Houston, but yeah, I haven't been.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Oh, so I'm gonna go home.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I don't go but yeah, So we had so much fun,
and I think the staff took a liking to us
because they kept just like even after the bottomless was
supposed to be over at two o'clock, they just kept
giving us like more.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I was up. I was like checking in out of ten,
how are you feeling? I was like between a seven
and eight the whole time?
Speaker 2 (02:23):
What were you on a scale? The ten bottom with
at the end of the day. At the end of
the day probably a ten. Wow, eleven, Yeah, you were
damn well. The vines were so immaculate, like, I love
black so much.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Well, I had the ox by the end of that.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
So we there was another party that came in after us,
and it was like they're celebrating a birthday and it
was like ten.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Black women and they were already lit, like you know.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yelling like yes all that, and so our table kind
of vibed with their table because we were on that
same type time and so we were just going back
and forth with them, and then eventually, like you know,
I asked, can I have the music? And I started
playing the Ratchet Ship.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Hey, you forgot to mention the people across were chanting
for it was like a song or like something like
oh yeah, it was like to chuck their mimosas yes.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
It was like yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Like to drink with Jordan's because Jordan is my name.
I like to drink with Jordan because she gets it
done it eight seven six You.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Did you get it done? I did it? Did you
get it done? I did?
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, she could have done it and she really tried.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
But yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
They had all the great New Orleans food, like the
char boiled oysters, you like, those are so good.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
It was like my second time having oysters, but like
that one was like fantastic.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Yes, I'm jealous, Chris is when I had what else
we had?
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
What were the hush puppies.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Here? Yeah? Man, oh my god.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Yeah, you you definitely need to come whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
So I was stuck out. It was a crazy day and.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
The protests completely kind of took over my shows. I
had shows planned and we had to do wall the
wall coverage because it is getting crazy out there.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Have you guys seen it?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
It's so bad and it's very upsetting, so sad.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
As I'm doing show prep, I'm seeing like nine year
old who have been taken out of class and are
being you know, processed for deportation with their parents and
they're separated from their parents, kidnapping, showing up to graduations
home depot where you could get a nice little person
to get some work done around your house. If you
go to home depot, they're rounding them up, and it's
(04:35):
like completely no judicial process being done.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
It's just like you're out of here.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I don't understand how this is happening at all.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Yeah, And a lot of my friends, I have so
many Latina friends, you know, and I know that we've
been texting and a lot of them are scared. They
don't even want to leave their home. Like I was
supposed to meet up tonight with somebody to eat and
because of all the protests and even riots, and I
saw something on fire, like she doesn't want to leave
her house just because it's like a lot going on
in downtown La. My dad actually just texted me and
(05:02):
was like, stay away from downtown La. There's a lot
going on. But it is just so sad, and my
heart breaks for all the families that are being torn apart.
I did see the graduation one. How dare you right?
Do you not have any like any what's what's the word?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Heart?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, he's celebrating something and you are just like you
It's like you don't even care and you just uh, well,
time to go.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
And then we got our president out a fucking fight, dude,
a usc fight.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Are you kidding me? This is happening?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Well, all this is happening. And so yeah, my friend
told me that it's supposed to come up to Bourbank
around today. But I don't really know, like what is
what is going on? Like, hey, why California?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Why La right now? Like because California is a hotspot.
California is a hot spot.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
I know Governor Newsom is like against what's happening, and
he's telling like they're really sing the National Guard on
these people. They are getting heavy machinery ready to fight
these people. To your guys, I saw a bunch of
people like standing in front of the ice trout so
that it couldn't drive.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
They're just trying to stop what's happening.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
And I just feel like this is really what people
voted for, Like this is really what you want it
for people to be torn apart like this, and I
just don't see it coming to an end anytime soon.
I see it getting much worse before it gets any better.
And it's so sad, And like you said, I have
so many Latina friends as well, who are also super scared.
They were super scared from the moment he became president.
They knew that this was a possibility, and to see
it happening in real time as aggressive as it's happening,
(06:30):
it's just I really wasn't mentally prepared for this.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Yeah, so sad, and we got what four years, I mean,
this is the beginning of his presidency, thank you.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
And it's just it hits different when you like we're
here in La you know, like people are texting me
and they don't understand the gravity of what it's like
to live.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
We're literally living.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
We're watching it out history, yeah, right right outside our
window right now. And so it's just you can feel
the tension in the air. And a lot of my
friends who are kids of immigrants who are just like
terrified right now, but still have to go to work,
still have to you know, live and do things on
a day to day basis. But this is happening. You
never know, like they could come up in here, true.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
They yeah, And I know a lot of people are
texting me as well to see if I'm okay, which
I really appreciate.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
But I feel as though what the hell is my point. God,
damn it.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Oh, I want to know, Like it's so clear that
these people are being targeted, like I don't know where
the European immigrants hang out, or you know, it's not
only the Hispanics who are here illegally, Like this certain
demographic is absolutely being targeted.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
But I do appreciate.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Things like ring ring cameras and they're using that as
a certain community to like, hey, i've seen ice in
this area and make sure you stay away, Like they're
communicating through the neighborhood watches, and it's nice to see
how many people are having each other's back. But at
the same time, like these people are completely being targeted.
It's completely unfair, and I respect the fight that they're
putting up because they're not in the wrong for it.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Me too, praying for everybody involved, Stay safe, everybody who
is listening who lives in La. It's a really weird time,
but you gotta fight for what's right, and that's what
we're doing.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
And only for what's right.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Because you remember you talked a couple seasons ago about
the fight that appened in Mexico where those girl was
her name, Shanquila Robinson, yes, her friends fought her in
Mexico and she ended up passing away unfortunately, like so sad,
and then her friends went into hiding.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
They just stopped one of the people.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yeah, and they aren't they like extraditing her back to Mexico.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
To Mexico, that's where she'll have to face her her crimes,
because that's where she committed the crime.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
First of all, this Shanquola thing happened years ago literally,
like and for those who are unfamiliar with this situation,
a group of friends went to Mexico. I don't know
if it was like Cancun or something, just to party,
and I think Shanquila wasn't as close with the majority
of the girls that were there. She had one quote
unquote best friend that she was, you know, really there
(08:54):
for a fight ended up happening. They ended up and
we saw the fight in four k wait.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Was that the one where the she got pushed? No?
Speaker 2 (09:04):
No, like there was a there was a video of
the what is the girl's name? But she that was
a girl who passed away, but the girl who who
did it? But basically there there was a fight.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
There was a video of it. It went viral.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
She was like throwing Shanquila around, and what we all
think happened is like she broke her spine or something
like that. But they tried to act like she got
food poisoning and that's how she died. It was though
it was alcohol poisoning and she just got sick from
something that happened out in Mexico, and we didn't have
anything to do with her death. It was like she
just got sick, right, And they didn't tell the mom
for a long time. They were hiding it and then
(09:40):
it came out later. Wait, she has a broken skull,
she has a broken spine, Like she didn't die from
alcohol poisoning, like she was beat up. And so you
would think right after that they would hurry up and
arrest the people because there was a video. But for
some reason they came they were able to come back
to the United States. The United States government didn't retally
want to handle it, and I feel like and because
it was happening in Mexico, they had to be the
(10:01):
ones to take care of it. And so that's why
the process took so long to extradite her from America
back to Mexico. So do process can happen? Yeah, And
I think her name is d Jena Jack, Yes.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
That's the one. You know.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
She tried to change her name.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Who wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
I think all of them tried to change their name. Everybody,
everybody we hate.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
You, like obviously America hates you. And I know the
rest of the people are in hiding. I don't even
know how many people are actually facing charges for what happened
to her, but just because she is she was found Intoto, Mexico.
It's not confirmed that she's guilty as of yet, so
allegedly allegedly allegedly. But I know one thing for sure,
two things for certain. I will never want to end
(10:42):
up at a Mexican prison like that is the worst
case scenario.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Jesus keep me in America.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Yeah, she got she got along, so I'm glad she's going.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Yeah, and hopefully they find the rest of them too,
because that was some nasty work they did.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
It was that's crazy. So uh, that was some good
news that came out of this week. What else happened
this week for you?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Honestly, it's been a little bit of an annoying week. My
curate broke.
Speaker 4 (11:07):
I'm clearing my roster, so I'm just cutting people off
left and right sometimes a little uh, what's it called
impulsively if you're their phone and it's like, what the
hell is Kayla talking about? Like why am I receiving
this text message out of nowhere? But Jess, so it
makes sense to me and to my friend group because
I send them screenshots.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
To right cale, Yes, right, thank.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
You, and yeah, I'm honestly, the reactions I've gotten after
making such changes just shows that I am making the
right choices and attracting everything that is meant for me,
because honestly, I'm in love with my with my new boyfriend,
and that's just what I'm gonna focus on. She said, Well,
(11:51):
he says boyfriend, But I don't really know. Do men
ask you to be their girlfriend anymore? Is it just
like an understored things?
Speaker 1 (11:57):
A good question.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I had this conversation with somebody, and I think the
order you get doesn't even really matter, Like it was
such a big deal when we were in high school
in college, like to make it official for everybody else,
But now that we are literally in our thirties, like
does it matter what's understood should already just be understood?
Speaker 4 (12:14):
And it's like with his age, I feel like saying
boyfriend just sounds stupid.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
I mean they don't.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
People don't even say boyfriend and girlfriend at our age anymore.
It's like my partner, yeah, my man, friend, yeah, my man,
my man.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
So how do you feel about clearing the roster?
Speaker 4 (12:27):
Do you feel I feel like maybe I need some
girls' days where I just hang out with my girlfriends
and just laugh and kick it, because it is.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Like a little bit of a grieving period.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
You know, you do have feelings for these people, and
you expect something to happen when you first connect with
that person, and then when it does, it's always like, oh,
got to throw you back to the fishes, but you
know the fishes are unlucky because you suck. And it's
just yeah, it's just it's a it's a transitional process.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Yeah, this is everything is just so new.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
I feel like, yeah, I mean I'm in the same
situation too, how to cut somebody off and then got
disrespected and was like he wanted to ask me if
we could be friends with benefits, And I'm like, are
you kidding me? Like you didn't want me as your girlfriend,
but now you wanna You really think that I am going.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
To give you access to give body. Yeah, on your terms.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
It's just like, I think the audacity of some of
these people, these men nowadays, it's.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Crazy, crazy in twenty twenty five.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
And then it's just I sent a strongly worded message
so well, I don't know how strongly it was worded,
but I'm just like, yeah, I'm done, this is done.
That was cute, it was fun, good luck with everything.
And the person said, that's not nice. You have a
good day, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
He didn't fight for me.
Speaker 4 (13:39):
No, he didn't even beg So you know what I'm doing.
I'm having a nice fucking day. That's what I'm doing.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Isn't that?
Speaker 2 (13:46):
That is painful though, literally, like when it seems like
he doesn't even care.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
No, no, And I also feel like because I tried
to calm him off a few times, he's probably not
taken me seriously and that's my fault. But this time
I meant it, and I hope he knows that he doesn't.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
You got to stand on it on it, I guess
so at uh bottomless yesterday, our waiter, our waiter was
just was very funny, very interesting, and he would always
give us these looks like he was just very very fasty.
(14:22):
You could tell he didn't want to be there because
he didn't like his job and he was taking it
out on us, like he wouldn't even give Tato, Like
he would fill up everybody, refill everybody else's wine glass,
but skip over Tato, like no.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
He was the only one that was finishing his drinks
and all of ours were filled. They would just talk
urs off and he would walk away.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
I don't know what his issue. I don't know what
his issue specifically was with Tato, but I don't know.
They just give you like an overview of like the
guy's vibe the entire time, and whenever we would ask
for something or ask a question about the menu or something,
he would give us a look like.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
And I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Like if he was joking or if he was it
was just like stinky and he was trying to be
funny or what.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
But I just started going like this back too, like
as you should.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Gara had a stare down. It was like a good
five to ten seconds.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Probably, and oh, I just didn't understand, like why are
you guys, why are you giving us this energy. We're
just here to we're paying, we're tip to tip you
like thank you. It was just it was mad, weird,
and so I just I will always give you the
energy back that you kiss me.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
You're a mirror in this world.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
I don't care what you are. There is no rising
above with me.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
I don't believe in that. I don't believe in that.
I go lowerod period. Did you tip them?
Speaker 2 (15:41):
I did?
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You guys are so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
We did, and we actually tipped him more because he
came around by the end of the session gave us
and gave us a free bottle, like the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
We got an extra hour of bottomless formoses. We were
already there for like two hours already.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Yeah, damned a good time you did.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I was dancing on that. I was up on the
table they got to the chair.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
It got to that point, but a cry. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
There was a little family in the back that was
like not really vibe, like not not vibing with us.
But they weren't a part of our celebrations. Eventually we
saw that they were doing bottles moss too, and uh,
they were hype with us.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
They did the chugging game mm hmu. And then we found.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Out that they were celebrating a graduation for their son
who graduated high school, so he gifted them after.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Yeah, one of the ladies from the other table was like, hey,
you guys want a pitchion, so you know, give him
something because he couldn't drink it and they can't buy
him a shot, right, So we were like, so we
all gave like buy dollars two dollars and they presented
it to him at the end and then he was like,
no one's near years. So it was really it was
like a really good moment.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
I love that so much. That's beautiful.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
Yeah, I had just come from a woman's empowering event
with visionary women.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
It was very nice.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
H Marrielle, Jimingway and Alyssa good Men gave just super
powerful and motivational speeches and how important it is to
connect with yourself and meditate and just get to know yourself.
And my girl Tiffany Hobb, somebody I produced for and
one of my closest friends, she moderated the conversation.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
It was just so perfect.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
And as I'm leaving this event event feeling empowered, ready
to connect with myself and know myself better, you know
the la highways that's going to take you out of
that move real quick, real quick. So I'm driving in
this car like beeped at me and then cut me off,
and I'm just like, what the hell, Like what did
I do? I zone back out, because you know whatever,
(17:37):
if you have a hissy fit after every person does
that to you in LA, you'll be having hissy fits
all day and tomorrow. But I did realize that later
in my drive that that car was behind me again somehow,
so I made sure to go very very very very
slowly and.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Kind of keep the pace of the car right next
to me.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Just go anywhay, Yeah, beep at this bitch And that's.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
Life, felt Seeddy.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Things our listeners have done this week I cannot.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
I was out and a guy asked me for my number.
I gave him my exes number and the name of
my ex's new girlfriend. So when he calls my ex'es phone,
he's going to ask for my ex's new girlfriend and
cause a whole tiff.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
In their relationship.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
Okay, hold on, break that down.
Speaker 4 (18:26):
So okay, so you're walking down the street, a guy
asked for your number, your ex is in a new relationship,
and you know the girl's name because we all have
social media and Jessica. Jessica is her name. So a
guy asked for your number, You say, oh, my name
is Jessica. Here's my number. You give your ex's number.
The guy calls your ex, here's Jessica there.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Oh that's so he thinks that somebody is asking for
his girl.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Right right?
Speaker 2 (18:53):
That is nasty like that one.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
All right?
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Someone said some lady was mad at us, so she
blocked our driveway with her car. So we took it
a step further, got our cars and blocked her in
on both sides with our cars, and then called the
tow truck. Oh wow, Okay, So I think that we
should talk about DDG and Hallie.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Have you guys been keeping up with that?
Speaker 4 (19:22):
It's so messy. I actually feel really bad for how
messy it is getting.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
I hate how public it is, and I.
Speaker 4 (19:29):
Really like I had my feelings about DDG, but I
thought that they were super cute as a couple, Like
I thought they really loved each other. Maybe they did
at one point, but this is just nasty.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
I mean, it just goes to show you that social
media is fraud and don't believe everything that you see.
But I know we talked about this before they've been
going back and forth about she accused him of abuse
and hurting her, and there was a lawsuit that was
fired or restraining order that was filed, and there was
like bruises on her arm and apparently he chipped her
(19:58):
tooth and she went sold custody. She's about to go
film in Italy and wants to take Halo with her,
and so there was like this big old thing with that. Well,
this week he came back out and retaliated and basically
also followed a restraining order on her, but then also
came out with proof of his own abuse from Hallie, right,
and along with that, like he has stuff from his
(20:22):
mom saying that she witnessed this and that Hallie would
put air tags in his car and in his bag
to track him, and then one time showed up at
a movie theater where he was with another woman, and then.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
I mean I would I would fight the girl at
the movie theater too.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Okay, So yeah, all this stuff that came out, but
also what really got me were the text messages that
he put out there. Basically, he is trying to prove
that she is not mentally stable enough to take care
of Halo on her own and there were text messages
dating all the way back to twenty twenty two of
(21:03):
her being suicidal and her you know, basically threatening to
end her life and saying it was all his fault.
And you know, there was just text messages after text messages.
There was a situation where, you know, I think this
was after Halo was born, she took his gun from
his house, was like, I'm about to go end it
(21:25):
right now, and then left and then he's like, how
would you, like, why would you leave Halo without a mom?
And she's like, I just need you to take him
from me. I just need you to you know, you
never show up and help me. Like, the text messages
were heartbreaking to read. Yeah, absolutely heartbreaking, and you can
absolutely tell that she was just in a state of distress.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
Yeah, from what I understand, postpartum is very very real,
you know, And I've never experienced postpartum, but I have
experienced a lyon and cheat and nigga that can also
drive you to that point of crazy where it's just.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Like people aren't doing that right.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Well, I don't know, I've seen a lot of support
for Holly. I haven't really seen anybody on GGG.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Side I have you have. Honestly, I'm gonna be protecting
my peace.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
I think it's a pretty much fifty to fifty really,
I think, yeah, from what I've been seeing.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
It's heartbreaking because I've seen people and my family like
go through postpartum and it's real, like, it's really heartbreaking
that people are siding with DDG, calling her crazy, calling
her like unstable and like crazy.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
I don't know, it's just I don't like it because
they don't get it.
Speaker 4 (22:32):
And from what I understand, she's always kind of been
open about her mental health struggle, so it's not like
this is a surprise. We we act like we advocate
and understand. People say oh I have depression or oh
I have this or I have that. We're like, oh,
we get it. We're so sorry, but you know you're not.
But then when they see it, like the actual actions
that come with that or the consequence, it's like, oh, wow,
you you you know, now I'm judging you.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
Now I'm better than you.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
And it's just it's you wouldn't judge somebody who had
a physical illness or.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
A physical wound.
Speaker 4 (22:59):
So the way we are so hard on people in
mental wounds is just super super disheartening.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
I think it's really crazy because DDG can't talk about this.
You're legally you're not allowed. He can't say anything. But
his friends have been speaking out and his family, so
basically like they're the voice for him right now. And
the consensus that I've been gathering because I've been doing
I've been on all sides, right just you know, research, researching.
(23:24):
People are saying that Hallie was abusive to him, that
she has a side to her that a lot of
people don't see. I mean, we see her as like
the little mermaid, innocent girl, but she would actually put
her hands on him. They would say that she was
just she got she had this side where she was
just scary, you know, and they would say, yeah, we've
(23:45):
seen her do this, We've seen her yell at him,
we've seen him her do this and then this, and
so it's like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Well, I think it's super telling that because he tried
to get a temporary restraining order against her and it
got denied.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
So no, that one, they came out later that was false.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
So he didn't get it. He didn't try to get
a restraining order period.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
No, he did, but his was approved. Something else got denied.
I think it was like the immediate he requested. Fact,
don't quote me, but everybody was like, oh, it got denied,
It got denied, and then his lawyer came out and said, no,
the restraining order was approved. So he has a temporary
restraining order against halle But I think what was denied
(24:25):
was the immediate halt of Hallee taking Halo out of
the country. She can so he was trying to stop
that from happening immediately. That didn't happen. She can take him.
They'll they have to wait for the initial trial, which
is like at the end of the month or in July.
But he was able to get the restraining order.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Order positive because La Times reported that, well.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
Well, look at what part, not the restraining order part.
I mean, that's just what Maybe maybe his lawyer had
came out and was like, no, this was what.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
Yeah, it says if he failed to get a temporary
domestic violence or training order preventing Haley from taking their
son out of the country, but he didn't. It didn't
get denied for lack of trying. But you're right, it's
more about this son out of the country more than
it is about the domestic violence that was that was denied. Hmmm,
all right, well that goes my point. But I will
(25:23):
say again when somebody is sticking their penis and other
women in Mexico, as one of the text messages said, right,
it was in Mexico, but.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
La La.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
I had the text message right here she said, I
just found out you had you slept with Lalla in Mexico. Listen,
I'll crash out it like this and not be impost
part on depression exactly. A nigga will really drive you
to insanity and then drop text messages like this and
make it seem like you're crazy.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Like they're the calm one.
Speaker 4 (25:56):
Poke the bear poked, the bear poked the bear. The
bear reacts. Now I got my camera out. Now you're
the crazy one. And I can't like especially younger Kala
Like today, I don't have the energy to deal with
any of it, and I firmly believe in protecting my peace.
I'm just out before it even gets to that point.
But and I think Holly is in her twenties, so
I just think, yeah, it's just it's quite it's quite
normal to act like that, especially when your man's disrespecting
(26:19):
you cheating on you. You're out here dominating the world.
You just want the person that you care about to
see what the world he's in you, and he's just
not giving you that satisfaction.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
And sometimes it just comes out in ugly ways. So
make this very clear.
Speaker 4 (26:30):
I am team Holly and damn like keep it, keep
it private because also like the person's gonna be impacted
the most, is gonna be a little halo when he
grows up and reads what his dad and mom were
saying about each other to each other.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
Well, that's the thing. I don't think they either of
them wanted it to be like this, right or Halle
has been so great at not saying anything.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Yes, but he posts those screenshots of their messages too,
Like what's he saying to her?
Speaker 1 (26:56):
You saying she should like if she wanted.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
To, right, I know, but basically I don't know. It's
just like Hallie has been so tight lipped. Everything that
she has said has been the legal way, like things
have come out because she never went to social media
and went on live and said this is what happened.
Ddg's side has been so messy with his family, like
just spilling all the tea. But He also says that
he never even wanted to expose these text messages, and
(27:19):
the reason why he did it was because obviously.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
He had to go to the legal way.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
He wants to get Halo back too, so then that's
what that's how this came out. So I don't know.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
I'm not co parenting with anybody, so I don't really
have the right answers. But it just does seem like, Uh,
I don't know if you needed to do that, re
least those text messages publicly to get custy of your child.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
I really don't. But again I don't. I'm not co parenting,
so I don't.
Speaker 4 (27:40):
I could be dead wrong about that, but getting way
too messy for my liking.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Yeah, I don't know. It's just May was Mental Health
Awareness month, and anybody that is struggling, like you know,
please seek help. I mean, I feel like we've we've
all been there, you know, and no relationship is worth
like your piece, your piece and driving you to this point, you.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
Know, right, never lose yourself over a nigga. Never again.
I have been there, done that, been that during hmm.
Speaker 3 (28:09):
Unfortunately, tell us about it, well, if you want, I'll
give you a scenario. There was one time when I
already knew he was cheating on me. That was my
first relationship. I already knew he was like being weird.
So he leaves the car, but he leaves his phone
in the car. I open it just to see check FaceTime,
(28:32):
because that's that was his thing, to FaceTime, and I
just see the girl.
Speaker 1 (28:36):
I freaking knew. You always know. I'm so pressed. So
what I did?
Speaker 3 (28:42):
I left the FaceTime open and the phone open unlocked,
and he found out that I was snooping.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
But I've been snooping. I hate him, did you, girl?
That's the first thing I did. Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (28:57):
I'm calling I was for checking my man's phone and
calling numbers back. He would have to like delete them
because I'm calling them. The second I see the number,
I'm gonna say the number call them my phone. That
energy took so much energy. You you did it the right way.
She probably don't even know about you, or she not
worth your broth.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
She did oh she knew me? No, damn damn. Well,
you know what's so crazy?
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Like I had an ex who told me, like, if
you go through my phone, the relationship is over.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
Like that means there's no trust. Oh.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
He literally told me that in the beginning. He was like,
you go through my phone, the relationship is over, and
I'm like, And then of course it turned out he
had all this he had horn in his phone for days,
like screenshot of all this, all these women he had
was cheating on me with this person and this person,
this person, and it was just like that was a
manipulation tactic from the beginning to warn me. Basically, Hey,
(29:48):
I got this ship in my phone.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
If you yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
I feel like at this age, I'm not going through phones.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
I don't want to.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I'm not doing it.
Speaker 4 (30:00):
I feel like I have to. You gotta go, Like
I just can't. I just I can't.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
I don't know if I told you this, but I
have PTSD around anybody's phone now, Like I am so
scarred from the things that I have found in my
last relationship that my mom handed me her phone and
I said, I don't it's okay, Like I don't want
to touch your phone. I will never touch your phone.
If you give me your phone to look at something,
I'm not looking at it for long because I literally
it's just a natural response to get anxiety when you know,
(30:26):
holding someone's phone because I don't know. Let's say, Kayla,
you are to give me your phone because you want
me to see something. I'm afraid that something's gonna pop
up that will break my heart.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
I hate kayleb yes, something like that because or that
notification bar I hen'll ever get other people just in
case something.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
But yeah, because it's like that, that that physical reaction
that you have when you're going through somebody's phone and you're
know you're about to find something and you're kind of
like shaking and your breath is like really fast and
it's in your butt and it's just like I can't eat,
I can't sleep. I just like I hate that feeling.
I will never give myself that feeling again. And I'm
just not dealing with somebody I can't try, that's not
a trustworthy person.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
So if you ever feel like you get to that
point where you have to check the phone instead of
actually suppressing that feeling, you're just going to break up
with the person.
Speaker 4 (31:09):
That is a confident person speaking who is not in
that situation currently right now, I can be like hell, yeah,
I'm walking away, Like, let me be in that situation
where I love that man, and I just really want
him to be honest.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
I just I don't know.
Speaker 4 (31:22):
I'm just social communication and I feel like one thing
I've learned in my years of single them is that
communication is key. And if I don't have a strong
communication with you, I don't even know the word. Like,
if there's not a strong relationship there where I can
communicate with you and vice versa, then we're probably not
even going to make it to this next step anyway,
because that's something I look for in value in relationships. Yeah,
and if he switches that up on me, man, I just.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
Don't even know what it's like to have a relationship
where you can freely just like hand the phone over
and it would it's not even a thing.
Speaker 4 (31:51):
But you can always hand your phone over and it
wasn't a thing. Oh why don't you deserve that always?
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Yes, I don't know, I'm getting like pts. I'm like
shaking thinking about phones. I just get, I get, I get,
I get again.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Thank God, my mama is like a hundred. I hope
my life the same way with you, Kayla.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
Like I'm so open with giving my phone away just
in case, because I'm like, I want you to trust
me here. You want to play a phone a song
on my phone, go ahead, take it, right, I just
like turn away, but I know, like I ain't got
nothing to hide, so it's fine, but vice versa.
Speaker 1 (32:23):
Nope, No, that's the flag right there.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
My heart is beating really fast right now. I don't
know why.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
I don't know why, but yeah, be grateful that your
man is old. He probably don't even know how to what.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
You're the one who said glossed over that like Jordan
started talking, like nobody really noticed it. Now you're like
making it a thing and it's just like I don't
want to listen.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
I don't think you're a hundred both.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
No, he is very handsome, isn't he handsome? Yes, I'm
about to get me a white man.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
Can I see a photo after this?
Speaker 4 (32:50):
You can definitely see a photo after this. Yeah, he's
a cute rite.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Now wait, I have a question. So because I'm bored,
I'm talking to somebody else. He is an Android.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Look that's is that.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
I'm sorry, but I'm turned off? Is that really petty? Yes?
Speaker 1 (33:05):
And are really good phones?
Speaker 4 (33:06):
Actually, like they have actually better normal quality than iPhones,
Like iPhone got us in a fucking choke hold, that's
not even realistic. Like iPhone, they can make me buy
new charges every single time. You like, I'm so over
Apple and being a slave to them, and I'm very
much a slave to them.
Speaker 1 (33:20):
I'm going to buy another one.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
So yeah, that's I can't even FACETI I don't know
if it's the list who does delivered?
Speaker 4 (33:28):
It does say delivered, And I be seeing my man
reads my messages because he got Android.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
To Androids have the red messages too, right, yeah, red,
that is delivered. I send them pictures, pictures.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
I don't know why I have like a I don't know.
I just whenever I see that, I'm like, oh god,
it's the green listen, And I think it's because they
like Apple installed that and us like when they first
came out.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
Like yeah, better than Android. People are cheap, they don't
have like they're smart. They're smart, and they don't have
to follow fucking the herd like.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
It's the Selphie camera. Don't you'll only use your phone
for pictures?
Speaker 2 (34:06):
Okay, gotcha, cameras.
Speaker 1 (34:08):
Not the Sephie camera. Ye're right, you're right, you're right, right.
Speaker 2 (34:12):
Right, you're right, all right, Well you should we get
into penny where we eat. Let's do it, Okay, I'll
go first. I think this whole Trump versus Elon thing
is so hilarious. Like, first of all, they were so
besties during the campaign, right, they were, you know, best friends.
He even made him a part of his cabinet or
what was he like the secretary of some type of
like doze or I don't even know.
Speaker 4 (34:33):
I checked out January when when everything switched over, but
sounds about right.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
Yeah, So they were like best friends. They recently had
a falling out. I don't even know what about specifically,
but Elon, you know, quit his job in Trump's administration.
Now he's threatening to leave the party, the Republican Party altogether,
and so they're going back and forth on Twitter, which
I think it's hilarious. Like Trump's like, there'll be serious
consequences if if Elon goes against me. He doesn't want it,
(35:01):
like they're really going back and forth. I think the
whole thing is just extremely, extremely petty, and.
Speaker 4 (35:06):
I think it's just so funny that it's like y'all
used to say women would be too emotional to run
the country because we react too much on our emotions,
And look at these two billionaire men going back and
for two boyfriends that just broke up.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
I can't even stand it. I literally can't.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
It's a lot. Also, since Elon left Trump's administration, his
network went down by like five billion or five million
or something like that.
Speaker 4 (35:27):
That's why some people are speculating that this is like
a publicity stunt, because like Elon may want to get
his moneys back up, and him being associated with Trump
kind of knocked his value down. So they're saying this
maybe a publicity stunt, or we'll be like, oh, Elon's
against Trump. Now let's all by Teslas, And I'm seeing
way too much Teslas with f Elon on the back
of them. So I don't think that's gonna happen anytime soon.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
You might be right, it's gotta be yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (35:52):
Last week I voted Natalie Nune over Offset, and I
have regretted it and not.
Speaker 1 (35:56):
Been able to sleep at night ever since, which is
why I looked.
Speaker 4 (36:00):
Today because off Set and Cardi B are giving me
all the petty guds that I need right now.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
So have you seen the latest?
Speaker 4 (36:07):
Yes, I'm gonna give my Petty Award to my girl
Cardi B because she did her son's hair or got
her son's hair done just like her new man Stepan Diggs,
and cast Offset to completely spiral. He tweeted, now, when
somebody died for playing with my son, then call me
a crash out. I don't care how I look trolling
(36:28):
with my kids and it's bad, And then he deleted
all his social media because he needed to. I think
that the public is not on his side. I don't
think the public is going to be on his side.
Somebody even commented, like, you so absent in these kids lives.
Don't even realize your son's hair has been like that
for like months.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
I don't know if that's true or not.
Speaker 4 (36:46):
But the internet's fucking ruthless and Cardi B and Stefan Diggs.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
My chest hurts and that's not even my ex yo.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
It's funny as hell.
Speaker 1 (36:54):
I forgot.
Speaker 2 (36:54):
I don't know who it was. Who was Los Angeles Confidential? Yes, okay,
So he put a side by side of like Stephan
Diggs and then Cardi B's some with the same hairstyle.
Then he tagged off set and was like, what you
gonna do? Or like just inserting himself into the mix
is just hell.
Speaker 4 (37:13):
They keep posting like videos of of Stefan Diggs working
out and then Offset with like smaller rates struggling, Like
I feel bad for Offset, but at the end of
the day, like you made your bed and this is
you lying. I hope that you are a lesson for
all niggas to come, Like, don't do the girl that
treats you right.
Speaker 2 (37:28):
Like that you cheated on her set for years and
she took you back multiple times. Now she's with a
fine ass man that treats her right, and she wants
to show him off, so fucking be it.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
And one thing she said that I really want to
She's like I had to get rid of him because
he was a liability. Like nobody could say anything to me,
I about my money. I'm successful, I'm beautiful, I can
wrap Like nobody could say shit to me except for you.
Speaker 1 (37:50):
Like that's the only thing people had on me. You
became a liability. You had to go.
Speaker 2 (37:54):
And I'm just like I love that.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
That's a bar. That's a bar. He gets it. I'm
a stick to myself. I think yeah, I think so too.
Speaker 2 (38:04):
Yeah to the tea. Why okay, lak.
Speaker 1 (38:18):
Bye, Yes, Carnie love you. Yes, all right, let's get
in to this petty mail.
Speaker 4 (38:23):
Dear Kayline, Kaylan Jordan, My boyfriend always leaves exactly one
sip of juice or milk in the fridge, just enough
that it technically isn't empty, but obviously not enough for
anyone to use. I've asked him why, and he says, well,
he didn't finish it, like sir, you finished it for
all practical purposes. I've started doing the same thing back,
(38:45):
like leaving one chip in the bag won by the leftovers,
et cetera. Now he's annoying and saying, I'm being childish?
Am I patty? Or am I just playing his game?
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Love that so much?
Speaker 2 (38:56):
He's not being considered of you. Yes, she's being petty. Yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (39:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (39:03):
I think it's funny.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
I think it's super hilarious, but I do think that
it's just going to be a lot of tip for
tap if one of y'all don't just exactly except the
other one.
Speaker 1 (39:10):
A lot of empty bags in the house, right.
Speaker 4 (39:14):
I do commend their self control, though, because I was
never saving one chip ever, kidding me figure it out.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
I'm drinking. I'm meeting it all right, But good luck girl,
I like your patty.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Good luck. Thank you guys so much for listening. We
have fun. What do you guys have coming up this week?
Speaker 4 (39:30):
I gotta go to Atlanta fun. Yeah, I've never been
my first time, so I'm really excited.
Speaker 2 (39:36):
Okay, yeah, Jordan.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
I'm meeting a very important celebrity this week. You should
cold awesome.
Speaker 2 (39:48):
God, that's gonna be amazing.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
That's gonna be a lot of fun. What about you, Kayla.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
I have a lot of interviews this week, a lot,
but a lot of baby artists, which are my favorite.
I like the up and coming artists. I love of
just sitting down and picking their brains. They're so much
more open than the than the season artist, like yeah,
because they sometimes the season artists will come in and
not really want to talk, you know, but like the
babies are, you know, they're hungry, they want to share
(40:13):
about themselves, and so I love like conversations. So I
have about three interviews. I'm airing my Adam Levigne interview
this week too.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
Five is back.
Speaker 2 (40:21):
So I got a really big interview last week that
will come out this week, and I'm really excited about that.
And I think that's it. Just focusing on me, and
that's it. Trying not to.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
Cry, no crying, no crying. You're right here here, Hi, Jordan.
Speaker 4 (40:40):
Make sure you follow us at the Pettish Podcast, follow
me at Kayla Auston.
Speaker 2 (40:44):
At Kayla Thomas forty at
Speaker 1 (40:46):
Jordan Jackson three and the next week Bye,
The Petty Is Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hie, welcome back to the Petty I'm Kayla, I'm Kayla.
Now Jordan's let's good, Jordan's. We've had a fun week weekend.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
I mean, weekend was up. It was y'all was up
with the Bottomless Mimosas. I was trapped.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Oh my gosh. Yeah, we wanted you to come so bad.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Tell me about it.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Well, first of all, I just needed a good weekend.
I feel like I haven't had one since a long time,
you know what I mean. And so I was like,
I want to do something this weekend. And I remember
I said to somebody, I was like, I'm about to
be outside Friday, Saturday and Sunday, like I'm doing something
like I want to. I want to.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
And so before me, Vonn and.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Tato were talking or I think you were there too,
about how this place in Sherman Oaks has ten dollars
mimosas bottomless mimosas.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
We will be back by the way, which is unheard of.
Wait is it every day or is it only on
the weekends. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I feel like it's only on Saturdays.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
You try to go to where can we go?
Speaker 2 (01:05):
But yeah, so it's like a it's like super hole
in the wall, like you could easily miss it. But
it's like Marty Gross theme. It's New Orleans themed. I
guess the owner is probably from New Orleans. But you
walk in and they're playing the jazz music. And we
sat outside in the back. It was like this beautiful,
like I don't know, a patio type of vibe, green,
(01:25):
very like very green lights everywhere. It's just like a vibe.
And so we sat down and we were like, like,
let's get to it, and we had the best time ever.
We should go ever, Oh, I won't even be here
Juneteenth weekend, but that would be a good I'm going
back home. I'm being back in the DMV finally after
a few years. I haven't been back to Maryland years.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Wow. Yeah, I don't know. How do you not go
home for years? I don't home like four or five
times a year. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Well, I've seen my parents and maybe even come here
or we met halfway in Houston, but yeah, I haven't been.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Oh, so I'm gonna go home.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I don't go but yeah, So we had so much fun,
and I think the staff took a liking to us
because they kept just like even after the bottomless was
supposed to be over at two o'clock, they just kept
giving us like more.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I was up. I was like checking in out of ten,
how are you feeling? I was like between a seven
and eight the whole time?
Speaker 2 (02:23):
What were you on a scale? The ten bottom with
at the end of the day. At the end of
the day probably a ten. Wow, eleven, Yeah, you were
damn well. The vines were so immaculate, like, I love
black so much.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Well, I had the ox by the end of that.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
So we there was another party that came in after us,
and it was like they're celebrating a birthday and it
was like ten.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Black women and they were already lit, like you know.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yelling like yes all that, and so our table kind
of vibed with their table because we were on that
same type time and so we were just going back
and forth with them, and then eventually, like you know,
I asked, can I have the music? And I started
playing the Ratchet Ship.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Hey, you forgot to mention the people across were chanting
for it was like a song or like something like
oh yeah, it was like to chuck their mimosas yes.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
It was like yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Like to drink with Jordan's because Jordan is my name.
I like to drink with Jordan because she gets it
done it eight seven six You.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Did you get it done? I did it? Did you
get it done? I did?
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, she could have done it and she really tried.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
But yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
They had all the great New Orleans food, like the
char boiled oysters, you like, those are so good.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
It was like my second time having oysters, but like
that one was like fantastic.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Yes, I'm jealous, Chris is when I had what else
we had?
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
What were the hush puppies.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Here? Yeah? Man, oh my god.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Yeah, you you definitely need to come whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
So I was stuck out. It was a crazy day and.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
The protests completely kind of took over my shows. I
had shows planned and we had to do wall the
wall coverage because it is getting crazy out there.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Have you guys seen it?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
It's so bad and it's very upsetting, so sad.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
As I'm doing show prep, I'm seeing like nine year
old who have been taken out of class and are
being you know, processed for deportation with their parents and
they're separated from their parents, kidnapping, showing up to graduations
home depot where you could get a nice little person
to get some work done around your house. If you
go to home depot, they're rounding them up, and it's
(04:35):
like completely no judicial process being done.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
It's just like you're out of here.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I don't understand how this is happening at all.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Yeah, And a lot of my friends, I have so
many Latina friends, you know, and I know that we've
been texting and a lot of them are scared. They
don't even want to leave their home. Like I was
supposed to meet up tonight with somebody to eat and
because of all the protests and even riots, and I
saw something on fire, like she doesn't want to leave
her house just because it's like a lot going on
in downtown La. My dad actually just texted me and
(05:02):
was like, stay away from downtown La. There's a lot
going on. But it is just so sad, and my
heart breaks for all the families that are being torn apart.
I did see the graduation one. How dare you right?
Do you not have any like any what's what's the word?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Heart?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, he's celebrating something and you are just like you
It's like you don't even care and you just uh, well,
time to go.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
And then we got our president out a fucking fight, dude,
a usc fight.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Are you kidding me? This is happening?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Well, all this is happening. And so yeah, my friend
told me that it's supposed to come up to Bourbank
around today. But I don't really know, like what is
what is going on? Like, hey, why California?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Why La right now? Like because California is a hotspot.
California is a hot spot.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
I know Governor Newsom is like against what's happening, and
he's telling like they're really sing the National Guard on
these people. They are getting heavy machinery ready to fight
these people. To your guys, I saw a bunch of
people like standing in front of the ice trout so
that it couldn't drive.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
They're just trying to stop what's happening.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
And I just feel like this is really what people
voted for, Like this is really what you want it
for people to be torn apart like this, and I
just don't see it coming to an end anytime soon.
I see it getting much worse before it gets any better.
And it's so sad, And like you said, I have
so many Latina friends as well, who are also super scared.
They were super scared from the moment he became president.
They knew that this was a possibility, and to see
it happening in real time as aggressive as it's happening,
(06:30):
it's just I really wasn't mentally prepared for this.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Yeah, so sad, and we got what four years, I mean,
this is the beginning of his presidency, thank you.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
And it's just it hits different when you like we're
here in La you know, like people are texting me
and they don't understand the gravity of what it's like
to live.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
We're literally living.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
We're watching it out history, yeah, right right outside our
window right now. And so it's just you can feel
the tension in the air. And a lot of my
friends who are kids of immigrants who are just like
terrified right now, but still have to go to work,
still have to you know, live and do things on
a day to day basis. But this is happening. You
never know, like they could come up in here, true.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
They yeah, And I know a lot of people are
texting me as well to see if I'm okay, which
I really appreciate.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
But I feel as though what the hell is my point. God,
damn it.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Oh, I want to know, Like it's so clear that
these people are being targeted, like I don't know where
the European immigrants hang out, or you know, it's not
only the Hispanics who are here illegally, Like this certain
demographic is absolutely being targeted.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
But I do appreciate.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Things like ring ring cameras and they're using that as
a certain community to like, hey, i've seen ice in
this area and make sure you stay away, Like they're
communicating through the neighborhood watches, and it's nice to see
how many people are having each other's back. But at
the same time, like these people are completely being targeted.
It's completely unfair, and I respect the fight that they're
putting up because they're not in the wrong for it.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Me too, praying for everybody involved, Stay safe, everybody who
is listening who lives in La. It's a really weird time,
but you gotta fight for what's right, and that's what
we're doing.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
And only for what's right.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Because you remember you talked a couple seasons ago about
the fight that appened in Mexico where those girl was
her name, Shanquila Robinson, yes, her friends fought her in
Mexico and she ended up passing away unfortunately, like so sad,
and then her friends went into hiding.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
They just stopped one of the people.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yeah, and they aren't they like extraditing her back to Mexico.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
To Mexico, that's where she'll have to face her her crimes,
because that's where she committed the crime.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
First of all, this Shanquola thing happened years ago literally,
like and for those who are unfamiliar with this situation,
a group of friends went to Mexico. I don't know
if it was like Cancun or something, just to party,
and I think Shanquila wasn't as close with the majority
of the girls that were there. She had one quote
unquote best friend that she was, you know, really there
(08:54):
for a fight ended up happening. They ended up and
we saw the fight in four k wait.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Was that the one where the she got pushed? No?
Speaker 2 (09:04):
No, like there was a there was a video of
the what is the girl's name? But she that was
a girl who passed away, but the girl who who
did it? But basically there there was a fight.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
There was a video of it. It went viral.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
She was like throwing Shanquila around, and what we all
think happened is like she broke her spine or something
like that. But they tried to act like she got
food poisoning and that's how she died. It was though
it was alcohol poisoning and she just got sick from
something that happened out in Mexico, and we didn't have
anything to do with her death. It was like she
just got sick, right, And they didn't tell the mom
for a long time. They were hiding it and then
(09:40):
it came out later. Wait, she has a broken skull,
she has a broken spine, Like she didn't die from
alcohol poisoning, like she was beat up. And so you
would think right after that they would hurry up and
arrest the people because there was a video. But for
some reason they came they were able to come back
to the United States. The United States government didn't retally
want to handle it, and I feel like and because
it was happening in Mexico, they had to be the
(10:01):
ones to take care of it. And so that's why
the process took so long to extradite her from America
back to Mexico. So do process can happen? Yeah, And
I think her name is d Jena Jack, Yes.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
That's the one. You know.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
She tried to change her name.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Who wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
I think all of them tried to change their name. Everybody,
everybody we hate.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
You, like obviously America hates you. And I know the
rest of the people are in hiding. I don't even
know how many people are actually facing charges for what happened
to her, but just because she is she was found Intoto, Mexico.
It's not confirmed that she's guilty as of yet, so
allegedly allegedly allegedly. But I know one thing for sure,
two things for certain. I will never want to end
(10:42):
up at a Mexican prison like that is the worst
case scenario.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Jesus keep me in America.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Yeah, she got she got along, so I'm glad she's going.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Yeah, and hopefully they find the rest of them too,
because that was some nasty work they did.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
It was that's crazy. So uh, that was some good
news that came out of this week. What else happened
this week for you?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Honestly, it's been a little bit of an annoying week. My
curate broke.
Speaker 4 (11:07):
I'm clearing my roster, so I'm just cutting people off
left and right sometimes a little uh, what's it called
impulsively if you're their phone and it's like, what the
hell is Kayla talking about? Like why am I receiving
this text message out of nowhere? But Jess, so it
makes sense to me and to my friend group because
I send them screenshots.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
To right cale, Yes, right, thank.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
You, and yeah, I'm honestly, the reactions I've gotten after
making such changes just shows that I am making the
right choices and attracting everything that is meant for me,
because honestly, I'm in love with my with my new boyfriend,
and that's just what I'm gonna focus on. She said, Well,
(11:51):
he says boyfriend, But I don't really know. Do men
ask you to be their girlfriend anymore? Is it just
like an understored things?
Speaker 1 (11:57):
A good question.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I had this conversation with somebody, and I think the
order you get doesn't even really matter, Like it was
such a big deal when we were in high school
in college, like to make it official for everybody else,
But now that we are literally in our thirties, like
does it matter what's understood should already just be understood?
Speaker 4 (12:14):
And it's like with his age, I feel like saying
boyfriend just sounds stupid.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
I mean they don't.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
People don't even say boyfriend and girlfriend at our age anymore.
It's like my partner, yeah, my man, friend, yeah, my man,
my man.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
So how do you feel about clearing the roster?
Speaker 4 (12:27):
Do you feel I feel like maybe I need some
girls' days where I just hang out with my girlfriends
and just laugh and kick it, because it is.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Like a little bit of a grieving period.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
You know, you do have feelings for these people, and
you expect something to happen when you first connect with
that person, and then when it does, it's always like, oh,
got to throw you back to the fishes, but you
know the fishes are unlucky because you suck. And it's
just yeah, it's just it's a it's a transitional process.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Yeah, this is everything is just so new.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
I feel like, yeah, I mean I'm in the same
situation too, how to cut somebody off and then got
disrespected and was like he wanted to ask me if
we could be friends with benefits, And I'm like, are
you kidding me? Like you didn't want me as your girlfriend,
but now you wanna You really think that I am going.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
To give you access to give body. Yeah, on your terms.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
It's just like, I think the audacity of some of
these people, these men nowadays, it's.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Crazy, crazy in twenty twenty five.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
And then it's just I sent a strongly worded message
so well, I don't know how strongly it was worded,
but I'm just like, yeah, I'm done, this is done.
That was cute, it was fun, good luck with everything.
And the person said, that's not nice. You have a
good day, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
He didn't fight for me.
Speaker 4 (13:39):
No, he didn't even beg So you know what I'm doing.
I'm having a nice fucking day. That's what I'm doing.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Isn't that?
Speaker 2 (13:46):
That is painful though, literally, like when it seems like
he doesn't even care.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
No, no, And I also feel like because I tried
to calm him off a few times, he's probably not
taken me seriously and that's my fault. But this time
I meant it, and I hope he knows that he doesn't.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
You got to stand on it on it, I guess
so at uh bottomless yesterday, our waiter, our waiter was
just was very funny, very interesting, and he would always
give us these looks like he was just very very fasty.
(14:22):
You could tell he didn't want to be there because
he didn't like his job and he was taking it
out on us, like he wouldn't even give Tato, Like
he would fill up everybody, refill everybody else's wine glass,
but skip over Tato, like no.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
He was the only one that was finishing his drinks
and all of ours were filled. They would just talk
urs off and he would walk away.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
I don't know what his issue. I don't know what
his issue specifically was with Tato, but I don't know.
They just give you like an overview of like the
guy's vibe the entire time, and whenever we would ask
for something or ask a question about the menu or something,
he would give us a look like.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
And I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Like if he was joking or if he was it
was just like stinky and he was trying to be
funny or what.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
But I just started going like this back too, like
as you should.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Gara had a stare down. It was like a good
five to ten seconds.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Probably, and oh, I just didn't understand, like why are
you guys, why are you giving us this energy. We're
just here to we're paying, we're tip to tip you
like thank you. It was just it was mad, weird,
and so I just I will always give you the
energy back that you kiss me.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
You're a mirror in this world.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
I don't care what you are. There is no rising
above with me.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
I don't believe in that. I don't believe in that.
I go lowerod period. Did you tip them?
Speaker 2 (15:41):
I did?
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You guys are so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
We did, and we actually tipped him more because he
came around by the end of the session gave us
and gave us a free bottle, like the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
We got an extra hour of bottomless formoses. We were
already there for like two hours already.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Yeah, damned a good time you did.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I was dancing on that. I was up on the
table they got to the chair.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
It got to that point, but a cry. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
There was a little family in the back that was
like not really vibe, like not not vibing with us.
But they weren't a part of our celebrations. Eventually we
saw that they were doing bottles moss too, and uh,
they were hype with us.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
They did the chugging game mm hmu. And then we found.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Out that they were celebrating a graduation for their son
who graduated high school, so he gifted them after.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Yeah, one of the ladies from the other table was like, hey,
you guys want a pitchion, so you know, give him
something because he couldn't drink it and they can't buy
him a shot, right, So we were like, so we
all gave like buy dollars two dollars and they presented
it to him at the end and then he was like,
no one's near years. So it was really it was
like a really good moment.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
I love that so much. That's beautiful.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
Yeah, I had just come from a woman's empowering event
with visionary women.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
It was very nice.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
H Marrielle, Jimingway and Alyssa good Men gave just super
powerful and motivational speeches and how important it is to
connect with yourself and meditate and just get to know yourself.
And my girl Tiffany Hobb, somebody I produced for and
one of my closest friends, she moderated the conversation.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
It was just so perfect.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
And as I'm leaving this event event feeling empowered, ready
to connect with myself and know myself better, you know
the la highways that's going to take you out of
that move real quick, real quick. So I'm driving in
this car like beeped at me and then cut me off,
and I'm just like, what the hell, Like what did
I do? I zone back out, because you know whatever,
(17:37):
if you have a hissy fit after every person does
that to you in LA, you'll be having hissy fits
all day and tomorrow. But I did realize that later
in my drive that that car was behind me again somehow,
so I made sure to go very very very very
slowly and.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Kind of keep the pace of the car right next
to me.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Just go anywhay, Yeah, beep at this bitch And that's.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
Life, felt Seeddy.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Things our listeners have done this week I cannot.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
I was out and a guy asked me for my number.
I gave him my exes number and the name of
my ex's new girlfriend. So when he calls my ex'es phone,
he's going to ask for my ex's new girlfriend and
cause a whole tiff.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
In their relationship.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
Okay, hold on, break that down.
Speaker 4 (18:26):
So okay, so you're walking down the street, a guy
asked for your number, your ex is in a new relationship,
and you know the girl's name because we all have
social media and Jessica. Jessica is her name. So a
guy asked for your number, You say, oh, my name
is Jessica. Here's my number. You give your ex's number.
The guy calls your ex, here's Jessica there.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Oh that's so he thinks that somebody is asking for
his girl.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
Right right?
Speaker 2 (18:53):
That is nasty like that one.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
All right?
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Someone said some lady was mad at us, so she
blocked our driveway with her car. So we took it
a step further, got our cars and blocked her in
on both sides with our cars, and then called the
tow truck. Oh wow, Okay, So I think that we
should talk about DDG and Hallie.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Have you guys been keeping up with that?
Speaker 4 (19:22):
It's so messy. I actually feel really bad for how
messy it is getting.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
I hate how public it is, and I.
Speaker 4 (19:29):
Really like I had my feelings about DDG, but I
thought that they were super cute as a couple, Like
I thought they really loved each other. Maybe they did
at one point, but this is just nasty.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
I mean, it just goes to show you that social
media is fraud and don't believe everything that you see.
But I know we talked about this before they've been
going back and forth about she accused him of abuse
and hurting her, and there was a lawsuit that was
fired or restraining order that was filed, and there was
like bruises on her arm and apparently he chipped her
(19:58):
tooth and she went sold custody. She's about to go
film in Italy and wants to take Halo with her,
and so there was like this big old thing with that. Well,
this week he came back out and retaliated and basically
also followed a restraining order on her, but then also
came out with proof of his own abuse from Hallie, right,
and along with that, like he has stuff from his
(20:22):
mom saying that she witnessed this and that Hallie would
put air tags in his car and in his bag
to track him, and then one time showed up at
a movie theater where he was with another woman, and then.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
I mean I would I would fight the girl at
the movie theater too.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Okay, So yeah, all this stuff that came out, but
also what really got me were the text messages that
he put out there. Basically, he is trying to prove
that she is not mentally stable enough to take care
of Halo on her own and there were text messages
dating all the way back to twenty twenty two of
(21:03):
her being suicidal and her you know, basically threatening to
end her life and saying it was all his fault.
And you know, there was just text messages after text messages.
There was a situation where, you know, I think this
was after Halo was born, she took his gun from
his house, was like, I'm about to go end it
(21:25):
right now, and then left and then he's like, how
would you, like, why would you leave Halo without a mom?
And she's like, I just need you to take him
from me. I just need you to you know, you
never show up and help me. Like, the text messages
were heartbreaking to read. Yeah, absolutely heartbreaking, and you can
absolutely tell that she was just in a state of distress.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
Yeah, from what I understand, postpartum is very very real,
you know, And I've never experienced postpartum, but I have
experienced a lyon and cheat and nigga that can also
drive you to that point of crazy where it's just.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Like people aren't doing that right.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Well, I don't know, I've seen a lot of support
for Holly. I haven't really seen anybody on GGG.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Side I have you have. Honestly, I'm gonna be protecting
my peace.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
I think it's a pretty much fifty to fifty really,
I think, yeah, from what I've been seeing.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
It's heartbreaking because I've seen people and my family like
go through postpartum and it's real, like, it's really heartbreaking
that people are siding with DDG, calling her crazy, calling
her like unstable and like crazy.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
I don't know, it's just I don't like it because
they don't get it.
Speaker 4 (22:32):
And from what I understand, she's always kind of been
open about her mental health struggle, so it's not like
this is a surprise. We we act like we advocate
and understand. People say oh I have depression or oh
I have this or I have that. We're like, oh,
we get it. We're so sorry, but you know you're not.
But then when they see it, like the actual actions
that come with that or the consequence, it's like, oh, wow,
you you you know, now I'm judging you.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
Now I'm better than you.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
And it's just it's you wouldn't judge somebody who had
a physical illness or.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
A physical wound.
Speaker 4 (22:59):
So the way we are so hard on people in
mental wounds is just super super disheartening.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
I think it's really crazy because DDG can't talk about this.
You're legally you're not allowed. He can't say anything. But
his friends have been speaking out and his family, so
basically like they're the voice for him right now. And
the consensus that I've been gathering because I've been doing
I've been on all sides, right just you know, research, researching.
(23:24):
People are saying that Hallie was abusive to him, that
she has a side to her that a lot of
people don't see. I mean, we see her as like
the little mermaid, innocent girl, but she would actually put
her hands on him. They would say that she was
just she got she had this side where she was
just scary, you know, and they would say, yeah, we've
(23:45):
seen her do this, We've seen her yell at him,
we've seen him her do this and then this, and
so it's like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Well, I think it's super telling that because he tried
to get a temporary restraining order against her and it
got denied.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
So no, that one, they came out later that was false.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
So he didn't get it. He didn't try to get
a restraining order period.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
No, he did, but his was approved. Something else got denied.
I think it was like the immediate he requested. Fact,
don't quote me, but everybody was like, oh, it got denied,
It got denied, and then his lawyer came out and said, no,
the restraining order was approved. So he has a temporary
restraining order against halle But I think what was denied
(24:25):
was the immediate halt of Hallee taking Halo out of
the country. She can so he was trying to stop
that from happening immediately. That didn't happen. She can take him.
They'll they have to wait for the initial trial, which
is like at the end of the month or in July.
But he was able to get the restraining order.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Order positive because La Times reported that, well.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
Well, look at what part, not the restraining order part.
I mean, that's just what Maybe maybe his lawyer had
came out and was like, no, this was what.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
Yeah, it says if he failed to get a temporary
domestic violence or training order preventing Haley from taking their
son out of the country, but he didn't. It didn't
get denied for lack of trying. But you're right, it's
more about this son out of the country more than
it is about the domestic violence that was that was denied. Hmmm,
all right, well that goes my point. But I will
(25:23):
say again when somebody is sticking their penis and other
women in Mexico, as one of the text messages said, right,
it was in Mexico, but.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
La La.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
I had the text message right here she said, I
just found out you had you slept with Lalla in Mexico. Listen,
I'll crash out it like this and not be impost
part on depression exactly. A nigga will really drive you
to insanity and then drop text messages like this and
make it seem like you're crazy.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Like they're the calm one.
Speaker 4 (25:56):
Poke the bear poked, the bear poked the bear. The
bear reacts. Now I got my camera out. Now you're
the crazy one. And I can't like especially younger Kala
Like today, I don't have the energy to deal with
any of it, and I firmly believe in protecting my peace.
I'm just out before it even gets to that point.
But and I think Holly is in her twenties, so
I just think, yeah, it's just it's quite it's quite
normal to act like that, especially when your man's disrespecting
(26:19):
you cheating on you. You're out here dominating the world.
You just want the person that you care about to
see what the world he's in you, and he's just
not giving you that satisfaction.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
And sometimes it just comes out in ugly ways. So
make this very clear.
Speaker 4 (26:30):
I am team Holly and damn like keep it, keep
it private because also like the person's gonna be impacted
the most, is gonna be a little halo when he
grows up and reads what his dad and mom were
saying about each other to each other.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
Well, that's the thing. I don't think they either of
them wanted it to be like this, right or Halle
has been so great at not saying anything.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Yes, but he posts those screenshots of their messages too,
Like what's he saying to her?
Speaker 1 (26:56):
You saying she should like if she wanted.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
To, right, I know, but basically I don't know. It's
just like Hallie has been so tight lipped. Everything that
she has said has been the legal way, like things
have come out because she never went to social media
and went on live and said this is what happened.
Ddg's side has been so messy with his family, like
just spilling all the tea. But He also says that
he never even wanted to expose these text messages, and
(27:19):
the reason why he did it was because obviously.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
He had to go to the legal way.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
He wants to get Halo back too, so then that's
what that's how this came out. So I don't know.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
I'm not co parenting with anybody, so I don't really
have the right answers. But it just does seem like, Uh,
I don't know if you needed to do that, re
least those text messages publicly to get custy of your child.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
I really don't. But again I don't. I'm not co parenting,
so I don't.
Speaker 4 (27:40):
I could be dead wrong about that, but getting way
too messy for my liking.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Yeah, I don't know. It's just May was Mental Health
Awareness month, and anybody that is struggling, like you know,
please seek help. I mean, I feel like we've we've
all been there, you know, and no relationship is worth
like your piece, your piece and driving you to this point, you.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
Know, right, never lose yourself over a nigga. Never again.
I have been there, done that, been that during hmm.
Speaker 3 (28:09):
Unfortunately, tell us about it, well, if you want, I'll
give you a scenario. There was one time when I
already knew he was cheating on me. That was my
first relationship. I already knew he was like being weird.
So he leaves the car, but he leaves his phone
in the car. I open it just to see check FaceTime,
(28:32):
because that's that was his thing, to FaceTime, and I
just see the girl.
Speaker 1 (28:36):
I freaking knew. You always know. I'm so pressed. So
what I did?
Speaker 3 (28:42):
I left the FaceTime open and the phone open unlocked,
and he found out that I was snooping.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
But I've been snooping. I hate him, did you, girl?
That's the first thing I did. Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (28:57):
I'm calling I was for checking my man's phone and
calling numbers back. He would have to like delete them
because I'm calling them. The second I see the number,
I'm gonna say the number call them my phone. That
energy took so much energy. You you did it the right way.
She probably don't even know about you, or she not
worth your broth.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
She did oh she knew me? No, damn damn. Well,
you know what's so crazy?
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Like I had an ex who told me, like, if
you go through my phone, the relationship is over.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
Like that means there's no trust. Oh.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
He literally told me that in the beginning. He was like,
you go through my phone, the relationship is over, and
I'm like, And then of course it turned out he
had all this he had horn in his phone for days,
like screenshot of all this, all these women he had
was cheating on me with this person and this person,
this person, and it was just like that was a
manipulation tactic from the beginning to warn me. Basically, Hey,
(29:48):
I got this ship in my phone.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
If you yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
I feel like at this age, I'm not going through phones.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
I don't want to.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I'm not doing it.
Speaker 4 (30:00):
I feel like I have to. You gotta go, Like
I just can't. I just I can't.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
I don't know if I told you this, but I
have PTSD around anybody's phone now, Like I am so
scarred from the things that I have found in my
last relationship that my mom handed me her phone and
I said, I don't it's okay, Like I don't want
to touch your phone. I will never touch your phone.
If you give me your phone to look at something,
I'm not looking at it for long because I literally
it's just a natural response to get anxiety when you know,
(30:26):
holding someone's phone because I don't know. Let's say, Kayla,
you are to give me your phone because you want
me to see something. I'm afraid that something's gonna pop
up that will break my heart.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
I hate kayleb yes, something like that because or that
notification bar I hen'll ever get other people just in
case something.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
But yeah, because it's like that, that that physical reaction
that you have when you're going through somebody's phone and you're
know you're about to find something and you're kind of
like shaking and your breath is like really fast and
it's in your butt and it's just like I can't eat,
I can't sleep. I just like I hate that feeling.
I will never give myself that feeling again. And I'm
just not dealing with somebody I can't try, that's not
a trustworthy person.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
So if you ever feel like you get to that
point where you have to check the phone instead of
actually suppressing that feeling, you're just going to break up
with the person.
Speaker 4 (31:09):
That is a confident person speaking who is not in
that situation currently right now, I can be like hell, yeah,
I'm walking away, Like, let me be in that situation
where I love that man, and I just really want
him to be honest.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
I just I don't know.
Speaker 4 (31:22):
I'm just social communication and I feel like one thing
I've learned in my years of single them is that
communication is key. And if I don't have a strong
communication with you, I don't even know the word. Like,
if there's not a strong relationship there where I can
communicate with you and vice versa, then we're probably not
even going to make it to this next step anyway,
because that's something I look for in value in relationships. Yeah,
and if he switches that up on me, man, I just.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
Don't even know what it's like to have a relationship
where you can freely just like hand the phone over
and it would it's not even a thing.
Speaker 4 (31:51):
But you can always hand your phone over and it
wasn't a thing. Oh why don't you deserve that always?
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Yes, I don't know, I'm getting like pts. I'm like
shaking thinking about phones. I just get, I get, I get,
I get again.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Thank God, my mama is like a hundred. I hope
my life the same way with you, Kayla.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
Like I'm so open with giving my phone away just
in case, because I'm like, I want you to trust
me here. You want to play a phone a song
on my phone, go ahead, take it, right, I just
like turn away, but I know, like I ain't got
nothing to hide, so it's fine, but vice versa.
Speaker 1 (32:23):
Nope, No, that's the flag right there.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
My heart is beating really fast right now. I don't
know why.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
I don't know why, but yeah, be grateful that your
man is old. He probably don't even know how to what.
Speaker 4 (32:34):
You're the one who said glossed over that like Jordan
started talking, like nobody really noticed it. Now you're like
making it a thing and it's just like I don't
want to listen.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
I don't think you're a hundred both.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
No, he is very handsome, isn't he handsome? Yes, I'm
about to get me a white man.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
Can I see a photo after this?
Speaker 4 (32:50):
You can definitely see a photo after this. Yeah, he's
a cute rite.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Now wait, I have a question. So because I'm bored,
I'm talking to somebody else. He is an Android.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Look that's is that.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
I'm sorry, but I'm turned off? Is that really petty? Yes?
Speaker 1 (33:05):
And are really good phones?
Speaker 4 (33:06):
Actually, like they have actually better normal quality than iPhones,
Like iPhone got us in a fucking choke hold, that's
not even realistic. Like iPhone, they can make me buy
new charges every single time. You like, I'm so over
Apple and being a slave to them, and I'm very
much a slave to them.
Speaker 1 (33:20):
I'm going to buy another one.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
So yeah, that's I can't even FACETI I don't know
if it's the list who does delivered?
Speaker 4 (33:28):
It does say delivered, And I be seeing my man
reads my messages because he got Android.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
To Androids have the red messages too, right, yeah, red,
that is delivered. I send them pictures, pictures.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
I don't know why I have like a I don't know.
I just whenever I see that, I'm like, oh god,
it's the green listen, And I think it's because they
like Apple installed that and us like when they first
came out.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
Like yeah, better than Android. People are cheap, they don't
have like they're smart. They're smart, and they don't have
to follow fucking the herd like.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
It's the Selphie camera. Don't you'll only use your phone
for pictures?
Speaker 2 (34:06):
Okay, gotcha, cameras.
Speaker 1 (34:08):
Not the Sephie camera. Ye're right, you're right, you're right, right.
Speaker 2 (34:12):
Right, you're right, all right, Well you should we get
into penny where we eat. Let's do it, Okay, I'll
go first. I think this whole Trump versus Elon thing
is so hilarious. Like, first of all, they were so
besties during the campaign, right, they were, you know, best friends.
He even made him a part of his cabinet or
what was he like the secretary of some type of
like doze or I don't even know.
Speaker 4 (34:33):
I checked out January when when everything switched over, but
sounds about right.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
Yeah, So they were like best friends. They recently had
a falling out. I don't even know what about specifically,
but Elon, you know, quit his job in Trump's administration.
Now he's threatening to leave the party, the Republican Party altogether,
and so they're going back and forth on Twitter, which
I think it's hilarious. Like Trump's like, there'll be serious
consequences if if Elon goes against me. He doesn't want it,
(35:01):
like they're really going back and forth. I think the
whole thing is just extremely, extremely petty, and.
Speaker 4 (35:06):
I think it's just so funny that it's like y'all
used to say women would be too emotional to run
the country because we react too much on our emotions,
And look at these two billionaire men going back and
for two boyfriends that just broke up.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
I can't even stand it. I literally can't.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
It's a lot. Also, since Elon left Trump's administration, his
network went down by like five billion or five million
or something like that.
Speaker 4 (35:27):
That's why some people are speculating that this is like
a publicity stunt, because like Elon may want to get
his moneys back up, and him being associated with Trump
kind of knocked his value down. So they're saying this
maybe a publicity stunt, or we'll be like, oh, Elon's
against Trump. Now let's all by Teslas, And I'm seeing
way too much Teslas with f Elon on the back
of them. So I don't think that's gonna happen anytime soon.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
You might be right, it's gotta be yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (35:52):
Last week I voted Natalie Nune over Offset, and I
have regretted it and not.
Speaker 1 (35:56):
Been able to sleep at night ever since, which is
why I looked.
Speaker 4 (36:00):
Today because off Set and Cardi B are giving me
all the petty guds that I need right now.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
So have you seen the latest?
Speaker 4 (36:07):
Yes, I'm gonna give my Petty Award to my girl
Cardi B because she did her son's hair or got
her son's hair done just like her new man Stepan Diggs,
and cast Offset to completely spiral. He tweeted, now, when
somebody died for playing with my son, then call me
a crash out. I don't care how I look trolling
(36:28):
with my kids and it's bad, And then he deleted
all his social media because he needed to. I think
that the public is not on his side. I don't
think the public is going to be on his side.
Somebody even commented, like, you so absent in these kids lives.
Don't even realize your son's hair has been like that
for like months.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
I don't know if that's true or not.
Speaker 4 (36:46):
But the internet's fucking ruthless and Cardi B and Stefan Diggs.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
My chest hurts and that's not even my ex yo.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
It's funny as hell.
Speaker 1 (36:54):
I forgot.
Speaker 2 (36:54):
I don't know who it was. Who was Los Angeles Confidential? Yes, okay,
So he put a side by side of like Stephan
Diggs and then Cardi B's some with the same hairstyle.
Then he tagged off set and was like, what you
gonna do? Or like just inserting himself into the mix
is just hell.
Speaker 4 (37:13):
They keep posting like videos of of Stefan Diggs working
out and then Offset with like smaller rates struggling, Like
I feel bad for Offset, but at the end of
the day, like you made your bed and this is
you lying. I hope that you are a lesson for
all niggas to come, Like, don't do the girl that
treats you right.
Speaker 2 (37:28):
Like that you cheated on her set for years and
she took you back multiple times. Now she's with a
fine ass man that treats her right, and she wants
to show him off, so fucking be it.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
And one thing she said that I really want to
She's like I had to get rid of him because
he was a liability. Like nobody could say anything to me,
I about my money. I'm successful, I'm beautiful, I can
wrap Like nobody could say shit to me except for you.
Speaker 1 (37:50):
Like that's the only thing people had on me. You
became a liability. You had to go.
Speaker 2 (37:54):
And I'm just like I love that.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
That's a bar. That's a bar. He gets it. I'm
a stick to myself. I think yeah, I think so too.
Speaker 2 (38:04):
Yeah to the tea. Why okay, lak.
Speaker 1 (38:18):
Bye, Yes, Carnie love you. Yes, all right, let's get
in to this petty mail.
Speaker 4 (38:23):
Dear Kayline, Kaylan Jordan, My boyfriend always leaves exactly one
sip of juice or milk in the fridge, just enough
that it technically isn't empty, but obviously not enough for
anyone to use. I've asked him why, and he says, well,
he didn't finish it, like sir, you finished it for
all practical purposes. I've started doing the same thing back,
(38:45):
like leaving one chip in the bag won by the leftovers,
et cetera. Now he's annoying and saying, I'm being childish?
Am I patty? Or am I just playing his game?
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Love that so much?
Speaker 2 (38:56):
He's not being considered of you. Yes, she's being petty. Yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (39:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (39:03):
I think it's funny.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
I think it's super hilarious, but I do think that
it's just going to be a lot of tip for
tap if one of y'all don't just exactly except the
other one.
Speaker 1 (39:10):
A lot of empty bags in the house, right.
Speaker 4 (39:14):
I do commend their self control, though, because I was
never saving one chip ever, kidding me figure it out.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
I'm drinking. I'm meeting it all right, But good luck girl,
I like your patty.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Good luck. Thank you guys so much for listening. We
have fun. What do you guys have coming up this week?
Speaker 4 (39:30):
I gotta go to Atlanta fun. Yeah, I've never been
my first time, so I'm really excited.
Speaker 2 (39:36):
Okay, yeah, Jordan.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
I'm meeting a very important celebrity this week. You should
cold awesome.
Speaker 2 (39:48):
God, that's gonna be amazing.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
That's gonna be a lot of fun. What about you, Kayla.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
I have a lot of interviews this week, a lot,
but a lot of baby artists, which are my favorite.
I like the up and coming artists. I love of
just sitting down and picking their brains. They're so much
more open than the than the season artist, like yeah,
because they sometimes the season artists will come in and
not really want to talk, you know, but like the
babies are, you know, they're hungry, they want to share
(40:13):
about themselves, and so I love like conversations. So I
have about three interviews. I'm airing my Adam Levigne interview
this week too.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
Five is back.
Speaker 2 (40:21):
So I got a really big interview last week that
will come out this week, and I'm really excited about that.
And I think that's it. Just focusing on me, and
that's it. Trying not to.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
Cry, no crying, no crying. You're right here here, Hi, Jordan.
Speaker 4 (40:40):
Make sure you follow us at the Pettish Podcast, follow
me at Kayla Auston.
Speaker 2 (40:44):
At Kayla Thomas forty at
Speaker 1 (40:46):
Jordan Jackson three and the next week Bye,
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