April 9, 2025 • 37 mins
Happy Wednesday! In this episode KT and Kayla introduce their new producer Jordn! They also talk feminine hygiene/education and why it's not discussed enough.
Are you saving your kid or your spouse? Plus are we supposed to suck our way to the top? What does that even mean? They get into it. Enjo!
Are you saving your kid or your spouse? Plus are we supposed to suck our way to the top? What does that even mean? They get into it. Enjo!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Petty Is Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi, welcome back to another episode of petty Ish.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
I am Kayla, I'm kayla. What's that episode two? And
we outside were you look cute?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
You look cute? I love your scarface T shirt. That's
such a good movie.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
This bitch line. She never seen it.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
I thought we were going to say that. And when
the bankrophones is rolling, don't do that.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
It's okay, I seen it either an you wear the shirt?
Is our black card revoked?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I don't know. Is it a black movie? Is this
it's a white man?
Speaker 1 (00:42):
What scarface?
Speaker 4 (00:43):
I think it's like a mob movie, like Italian. You
just rocked with the shirt's mad?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Great?
Speaker 4 (00:51):
They look great. Anyhow, what's the prettiest thing you've seen
this week?
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Okay, the pettiest thing that I've seen this week. I
don't know if my friend will be said if I
tell this story?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Should I tell you? Well, we lose friends on this podcast.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
That's what the fact, that's what our like thumbnail should
be Pettyish, where we lose friends because of shit said?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Sure do we love you guys though.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
So fuck it?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
So my friend was telling me that she's dealing with
this guy. They have been in a situation for a
long time, but he only hits her up like late
at night, you know. Yeah, it's one of those and
she actually genuinely likes him, but like she doesn't hear
from him during the day and he'll be like, oh,
I was working and stuff like that, just doesn't make
efforts to communicate with her. But when it's time, when
those scary hours come, it's like, hey, babe, what's up?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Can I come through? Uh so yeah, So one day, uh,
she was feeling a little in the mood and.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
He texted her, was like, hey, can I come over?
And she but she had a used to Oh no,
she had a use infection. She was on antibiotics forty
So can you have sex while you're on.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
You can't do anything with it. I think it's literally
the worst.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I don't even think that it would be comfortable, you know, And.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
It's like just mad like gunk falling out of it,
especially if you use like a monaster where you put
the stuff in and it's just like falling out.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Oh, it's so gross. He's infectionous.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Yeah, but she said come through and they did the
do She even uh let him.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Like that's what she said.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
That's what he gets when I text you back for
thirty eight hours.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
I just want to ask this, like, did you kiss
him afterwards?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Right because you're eating your own yees?
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Yeah, because I think you're both doing it, you know?
And is he cut off now? Like was that the
final goodbye? Was that going out with a bang? Or
was that like I don't know, I'm gonna call you
back because you ate this thing, right? East infection him?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
That was the end of the story.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Oh Jesus, we need to have her on the show.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Is that like that's gross? That's can he get stick
from that?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
He probably gonna get the East infection.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
His throat is probably on his uvula, that's the thing.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
It grows in moist areas. You know, I know everything
about you know everything about everything about.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Listen. They are very normal women.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I haven't had one in years.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
I had one.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
A year ago.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Okay, yeah, no, they sucked. I'm so grateful I haven't
had one in a long time. I'm taking I take
vaginal probiotics.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I take a free and a probiotic.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Yes too, yes, andrek butcha yeah, yogurt. You know what.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Side note, I will say that vaginal health is not
talked about, was not talked about enough for me. That's
true when I was growing up and I actually told
my mom about this. I was like, Mom, some of
the things that I'm learning about, like our vaginal health,
I'm learning at thirty years old. And she was like, Kayla,
you think like my mom taught us about, you know,
(03:41):
any of this? And she was like, she didn't even
tell me what pads were.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
So when I don't know if she was business, but
like that it was way back in the day, Like
my mom never told her about a pat or a tampon,
so when she would have her period, she would be
using napkins. I don't know, I just it wasn't maybe taught.
I don't know if it was. It's our community or
it's just my but.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Well, I feel like medicine is like so patriarchal, Like
everything was studied by men's bodies, so I feel like
they don't even really know a lot about women's bodies.
And then you feel so shameful about it or like
embarrassed by things that other women feel embarrassed about because
they're not talking about it public because medicine mainly studies men.
But I will say my mom was a real one,
like I lost her, but I remember when I first
got my period, I would ask her every single question.
(04:24):
She would answer it like is what supposed to be
in the toilet? She's like, you're on your period, right.
I'm like, She's like, okay, yeah, this is how you
do a path, this is how you do this, how
you do that. And then she told my brothers when
I got my period, I was.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Like, girl, what are you doing?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
But she was a real one, And I think that
vaginal health and vaginal care should be talked about more often.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Well, I think that they should do it, like talk
about it also in school, like how to properly clean
it and wash it because some you know what somebody
told me. They didn't know that you weren't allowed You
weren't supposed to wash inside.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
No they were No. Did they say that, right?
Speaker 3 (04:54):
They did.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You're not supposed to watch it, but they thought that
you were that burns and.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Also that is what causes use infections.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yeah, because your vagina is a self cleaning oven.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
And I remember I can't remember what friend it was,
but I you know, sometimes as girls, you go to
the bathroom with your friends.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
You're in the toilet with them. Like I'm a very
comfortable person.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
So I've been in the bathroom with plenty of my
friends as they pee and I can't remember what friend
it was, but she literally wiped like back to front
and I'm like.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
You don't do that, don't do that, and she.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Was like why not?
Speaker 3 (05:23):
And I'm like, how do you not know that You're
not supposed to wipe?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
You white front to back, front.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
To back front.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
But I will say, like, I mean a lot of
people just were not taught, and it's it's very sad,
but TikTok has made it a very safe community for
me to learn about like probiotics and prebiotics and also
like different pH balance balancing washes and stuff like that.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
I will stream about Honeypot until my vulga horns that fallout,
Like I am a Honeypot advocate.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I use the wipes, I use the soap.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
It is made by people for vaginas with vaginas, made
bay people with vaginas, four people with vagina, and it
just it's the best thing I've ever had. I used
their pads. I use like everything, Honeypot, Honeypot, honeypotp I
love it. Keep you super healthy in the vagina. But
let me tell you about my friend. I'm about to
lose because this is this is the pettiest.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Thing I've seen this week.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I'm sorry, I'll be mad, but okay. So she was
talking to a guy and they were talking for a
little while, so she knew like his address and certain
his birthday, certain things about him that you learn about
people as you date them, right, But then he got
like rude and just goes to her one day and
she did not respond well to that. So Sis literally
signed him up for scientology and the military. What yes,
(06:36):
And you know like when you scientology, like when you
show interest, like they don't back up off you, Like
they'll call your phone NonStop. Same with the military, like
you want to be a part of this, how can
we get.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Like they try to get out there recruited.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
He's like, and she like never spoke to him again,
but she gave them his address, his phone number, his birthday,
Like she signed him up for these.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Things, says thank you for your service, sir.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
And I like, I like the way she did that, Like,
don't hurt my feelings. I'm not mad at psytologists. You'll
be mad at me for it.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
So he will be over there in Iraq, okay, shooting.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
And will and will be careful, be careful, all right,
petty is things that our listener has done. Someone said,
I met the girl who was talking to my man.
So what I did was plan a date with my
boyfriend at Third Base in Hollywood. Oh, I love the
local y when he came to me. When he came
me and the girl confronted him, he ran out of
(07:28):
the bar. Me and her are now best friends.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
I love a girl's girl.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
I love a girl's girl when they don't make the
other girl the enemy and they realized that the guy
is the wild Yes, exactly, shall see you ill lot
the way you handle that.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I like that.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
I heard my ex friend was having a party at
the Bowling Alley.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
She's new in town.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
I planned the party there the same day at the
same time, and I brought all my friends. We were
so loud that she left her own party.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
This sounds like some high school shit. That's mean girl behavior.
Speaker 5 (07:59):
It.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Yeah, if that's not your friend, like, why do you
still want to be in the same space as her?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
That's just like corny corny.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Yeah, I would feel like I got too much pride
to be like doing something like that, because you know,
she knows that it was on purpose.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Like you just you look a little sweetie.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
We love you.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
You look a little carny.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Thanks for listening and writing us.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Anyway, my boyfriend cheated on me. He was living in America.
He was living in America illegally.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
I took him to Mexico and left and left him there.
Oh damn not with all the immigration stuff going on
right now, it's.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Pretty that's fucked up. But don't cheat on you, right
pt Tea, How was your week?
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Kt?
Speaker 1 (08:45):
My week was very, very good. So what's today?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
March thirtieth. My birthday is in exactly a week, so
I'm excited. Yeah, I'm gonna have a little birthday party
on Friday and then Saturday, you, me and a few
others of us are going to go to somewhere. But yeah,
so I'm excited about my birthday.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
What else? I got my hair done this week.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I had my hair embraids since the fires.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Wow those braids look good though, yeah they they Yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
And I also want to say, Kayla, you throw the
best house parties in the world. So I cannot wait
for your birthday, like it's always at friends Giving was crazy,
super Bowl was lit, Like I don't, I don't friends
Giving specifically. I think I had what fifty people in
that house. I got so anxious because there were so
many people in that little apartment and I didn't know
(09:38):
how it would work, how people would be comfortable. But
once everybody got like in their system, nobody cared that
they were literally like shoulder to should We literally were like, yeah,
my little balcony. Yeah, so that's where the mar was.
That's where it was a good time.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
So everybody come through all Friday, you're text me for
the addie. But yeah, So I got my hair done
for the first time in like three months. I've had
raising for such a long time. But I got my
hair trimmed for the first time, Kayla, in five years,
and that.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
You know, that is absolutely terrible, the difference. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
And like I don't know why I have neglected my
hair for so long.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Like usually I'll just like put it in braids or
slap on a wig, and so like I never wore
my natural hair out for me to care enough to
get a trim, yeah, and I never so pressed it, right,
So I was like, what's so I can just wait
wait wait, but like when you see it out, you
can see this what ends and it's affecting the growth now,
and so I was like, I need to get this
chopped off immediately. So I did, and I finally got
(10:37):
a much needed trim, and I'm hoping now that my
hair can grow because I want to wear my natural
hair out more and try to find cute styles.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Like like this that is so cute.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I love that I can do because I don't always
want to put wear a wig anymore. I can't do it.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
And it looks so good on you though you wait
till you see my birthday, you inspire me to buy
a couple of weeks yes, and yours look good.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
They did, and it was over.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
But do you think now that your hair has grown
so much, you can put the wig over your life?
Speaker 3 (11:06):
I can't. I really can't.
Speaker 4 (11:07):
I tried, and and I I also really I'm not
good at like corn rolling my hair down or like
braiding it down, so it's like stucks in my head.
I'm not good at that, which is why I kind
of locked up to begin with, because I'm just over
doing my hair. This is like so easy solo maintenance.
But I don't think it can fit over my locks anymore.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
It don't matter.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Look at your hair, Kayla.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Wait till you should see I'm gonna take it down.
And we've done recording like it's getting so I never
wear it down.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
And it's only been about a year and a half since.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
You Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love it. I love it.
Decision I could have made child, But yeah, your hair
looks really really good like that, and I cannot wait
to see your birthday wig. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
What about you? Would you do this week?
Speaker 4 (11:39):
What did I do this week? I really haven't, No,
I would. I have been very I made it. I
promise to myself at the top of twenty twenty five
that I want to be very consistent with my workouts
and I'm really gonna go three days a week. I
have felt that every single week until last week. I
went all three days. So I'm really proud of myself
because I have gained so much weight, Kayla. When I
tell you it is such an expensive problem I have.
(11:59):
I can't fit any of my jeans, I can barely
fit my shirts. I got back rolls out the wazoo, girl,
Like literally, it's Okay, like I've accepted it. I am
of a woman of a woman of a certain age
now and when I eat, it really does impact my figure.
And I do not know how to eat right, and
I love food so much that I don't know if
I'll ever learn. So I really got to be on
(12:19):
top of my workout routine. I don't think I'm ever
going to be able to fit my jeans again. I
really love those genes.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
You're thick in the right places.
Speaker 4 (12:27):
Though I do carry it well, it's just it's just
about like getting new clothes to fit this new body
that I'm not used to having.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
So workout work and yeah, that's it.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
That's all.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
That's all I want to talk about on the microphone
about this week, even though other things happen.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
We've had we've had some incidents this week.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
I can't wait till you resolve it. Neither.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
I'm gonna resolve it this week coming up period.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Anyhow, Okay, can we talk about this breakfast club situation.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
I can't get enough dolling.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
I have been wanting to talk about this and it
came out. And also this is a little touchy because
this is our gotta be careful for our company, but
a lot of people have been, you know, asking my
thoughts about it. At the end of the day, I'm
very glad that both Jess Hilarious and Laura and La
Rosa were able to come together and resolve the situation
because you saw their music video that they put.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
It out The Boys.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, So it seems like things have been resolved.
But for those of you who don't know that, everybody
knows the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
Everybody knows. It's one of the biggest shows radio shows
in the country.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
So, Jess Hilarious has replaced Angela Yee and is now.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
The third member of The Breakfast Club. As soon as
she got hired, she got pregnant and went on maternity leave.
So her replacement was somebody who was like kind of
like the runner up for the position, Lauren la Rosa,
who was so good.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
It was literally between the two of them.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
I think it was between her and Clarissa Jordan. Like
Lauren wasn't really a threat.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
I thought Lauren was was one of the ones that
was consistent.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
But it was like the final two was her in
the Clarissa Jordan I think her name is because that's
why this is my mindset. I think that's why Jess
chose Lauren because or Lauren because she felt like, you know,
it was between her and Clarisa at the end of
the day, like those were the top two choices.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
But I feel like Lauren.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
Studied where Jess lacked was playing chestnut checkers because she's like, oh,
I missed this job, like give me a chance, give
me the opportunity.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
And she rose to the occasion.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
I mean, Lauren was there for the three months that
Jess was out and she came back before she like
when she auditioned, like she was great, but she came
back and you could tell that she I don't know,
elevated in a way.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
She was really on top of her news game.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
Mind you, she's from TMZ, so she knows like she's
a journalist.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
She's a true journalist, like she does this right.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
So yeah, and she can't and everyone in on social
media was like, wow, like we really like this Lauren girl,
Like she can read better than Jess.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
Hilarious she could.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
She's better, she's more articulate, we get the facts, like
she's gorea at interviewing, and so it was kind of
like a oh, we don't want Jess back type of thing.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Right, there was a lot of.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Noise and a lot of chatter from a lot of
different people, a lot of celebrities weighing in that maybe
have beef withessilarious. So she comes back and people are
wanting Lauren more. Lauren actually stays on the show and
doesn't go anywhere, so it kind of confused even me,
Like it's like, oh, so is she the fourth member?
Speaker 1 (15:17):
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (15:17):
Is she?
Speaker 3 (15:18):
You know?
Speaker 2 (15:19):
And she was still doing Jess with the Mess, so
it wasn't really just with the Mess anymore. And then
you can kind of tense, like feel the friction on air,
you know what I mean, Like you could tell that
there was some type of.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Yeah, like they were talking over each other.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Jess would be like Lauren shut up and tell her,
like to shush on air, so you could tell that
there was something going on anyway, everybody saw it. But
long story Shortessilarious. One day went on Instagram Live went
Off said that iHeart is run like a high school.
That Laura she didn't really like Lauren in the beginning.
She didn't make sure to say, you know, I'm not
knocking the girl. She's great at what she does, but
(15:54):
like there was no communication to her on what Lauren's
role was. Is she staying, is she helping? Is she
a senior news producer? Is she the fourth member of
the breakfast club? Because it seemed like to Jess that
she was getting pushed out.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
Right and I didn't misspeak. It wasn't clear her name
is Claudia Jordan. Sorry my bad, Just want to correct
that Claudia Jordan wasn't running up. But yeah, it's just
honestly loving Basketball is one of my favorite movies. One
of the lines was never let a freshman still your spot,
And I just feel like Jess was like, that's something
that women fear, and it's so unfortunate that when you
get pregnant, you gotta take the time off you want
to focus on your newborn. She's definitely, I'm sure still
(16:29):
going through postpartum. She just had the baby and then
you come to work and it's just like a toxic
work environment.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
I know.
Speaker 4 (16:35):
She said that she didn't even like being in the
studio anymore. That's why she was accepting all the stand
up jobs. And I've seen her do stand up. It's
definitely her talent. It's where she excels. I find Jess hilarious,
freaking hilarious, but it's just so unfortunate that you have
a baby, you do something for your life, and you
come back and now your job is jeopardized.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
And I just feel like women.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
Should be protected in that in that sense, but also
another side of the argument is giving social media stars
journalists journalist jobs, because it's just like it really is
something that you go to school for, something you study,
and it no matter how popular you are, how much
you can speak to social media.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
That doesn't always translate to radio.
Speaker 4 (17:12):
And I think that's kind of where Jess like that
that was one of her her shortcomings. I feel like
she kind of should have like locked in studied read
out loud all day and hooked on for really she
really should have practiced like reading and and uh speaking.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
This is the this is no thing.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
No yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
But she did get better from when she You know.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
The thing is they were hired for different reasons, right.
Jess wasn't hired to be the journalist and to report
the news. She was hired for the comedic relief. Now,
I agree with you with the whole influencer thing because
I've seen it happen firsthand. They're trying to replace That's
the thing about radio where it's so like it's sketchy
and it's it's iffy, and it's scary for us who
(17:58):
love the art, and we still they want to replace
us with influencers who have three million views on TikTok
because they think that they their followers will translate over
to radio. And that's not necessarily the smartest thing, because
radio is more than just getting on the mic and talking.
It's it's a fucking art, it's a job. It's and
you can see that firsthand. And the difference between Jess
and Lauren, who you know what I mean, who has
(18:20):
the experience in the journalism right exactly. Also with Jess,
like she's getting a rude awakening up to what this
what this radio world is like, you know, like her
crash out like that, like one.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
I wouldn't have done.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
That because these heads of all companies, you don't talk
about them, Okay, especially on Instagram Life. I saw your
millions of followers. So I think she just doesn't know
the game of radio and.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
How to just carry yourself in a corporate profess like
this at the end of the day. Radio is fun,
it's it's definitely a fun job, but it's a corporate
it's a corporation at the end of the day, and
you going on Instagram live bashing your bosses and bashing
your coworkers. I feel like when I was watching the
video and you sent a lot to me, I felt like,
I don't think I should be seeing this, Like I
don't think I should be privy to this information. That
(19:08):
should be like a meeting where it's like, Yo, let's
go into the office. We got to talk about what
the fuck is going on here because this isn't about
to fly, because what can I, as viewers do just
just have an opinion and yeah, ash the bosses with you,
Like what is that Like, that's not going to get
your contract for you. That's going to do the opposite,
I think, And then to go on the breakfast club
and then like have a roundtable discussion about it.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
It was kind of I was like, this is like awkward.
This should be a meeting.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
I felt so bad for her though, like cause I
felt like what she was saying was making clear sense,
but they were acting like they didn't understand where she
was coming from, Like they were confused as to where
she was coming from. And I know that feeling firsthand,
where you're trying to say something, you're being invalidated, and
all you could do is cry because it's just like
y'all can't hear me, like and it's.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Like you don't want to cry, you don't want to
look pussy. But at the end of the day, like.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
I hit this story, Jesus said, at the end of
the day, that's all you can do.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
Like your body just kind of does that as a reaction,
and it so listen.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
I feel for both parties.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
I don't like the way Jess handled it, but I
think she was absolutely validated. Without feelings, I wouldn't want
to come back to my job that I thought was
safe and I like, literally feel like I'm getting pushed
out and no one's telling me what's up.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
You know.
Speaker 4 (20:19):
And then the segment you created your baby, that was
your baby before you even got on the radio show,
some other girl is delivering.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
Like huh yeah, it's yeah. I would have I would
have crashed.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Out behind the scenes, behind the scenes. But I also
admire how Lauren handled it, handled it. It was so
professional and that's just what she is she's a professional
and then but so yeah, like ultimately, I'm glad that
they worked it out. It seemed like they posted a
picture with Angie Martinez, so I guess the three of
them had had a women's meeting and talked about it.
Plus they came out the Boy's Mind music video.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
So cute.
Speaker 4 (20:50):
I just want to see if Jess will get her
contract renewed when it's up, and maybe it was renewed already.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
I don't know, but I really am curious as if
she will.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
I don't know, maybe she'll find out if this were
I think if this, if radio is for her, it's
not for everybody.
Speaker 4 (21:02):
Very past tense, like like I wanted the Breakfast Club.
I really worked hard, Like she was speaking like it
was already done. Yeah, try to let it go.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
And also she's still doing her comedy things. She's constantly
on the road and stuff. So it's like maybe I
don't know, who knows how long show be on the
Breakfast Club. What's really her passion? Is it radio or
is it comedy? So we'll see either way for the
time being, I hope that they all. I love that
show so much and I just it was just done
so publicly. I was like, we have to talk about it, indeed,
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and especially because we're in the radio industry, Like it's
just it can get so messy, especially women against women,
and I talked about this on the podcast. I've seen
so many women try to put other people, other women
against each other so that they can get to the top.
Everybody's trying to get to that number one market and
doesn't matter who you step on to get there, and
there's so much cattiness with some women. There are some
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others that like and most who help each other out.
We do have that, like women in Radio Company and
the event that that's thrown every single year. But I've
just seen it so many times and so it was
heartbreaking to see this happen on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
It was heartbreaking, but it was just growth. I feel
like I can't I can't do anything but tip my
hat to how these women handled it. Even when they
were having the discussion, neither one of them tore the
other one down. It was it was just like, this
is my perspective, this is your perspective. And I think
they found the mutual respect for each other and weren't caddy.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
So I do respect that. So shouts to growth in womanhood.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
Yes, sides note, can we take a little detour because
our producer just walked in?
Speaker 4 (22:28):
Or we got a producer not asked me? The season
three with a producer and a new logo?
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Season four, I definitely. I definitely double checked last night.
It's definitely season four. Season four. Okay, So we thought
this year, you know, because Kayla and I are so
busy and it's hard to do things on our own
and we're not the most consistently well what we thought
we needed some help and there was no one better
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that we would love to work within.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
Our friend who we love so much.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
She's all our coworker, but we all hang out outside
of this as well, and we love her.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Her name is Jordan. What's up?
Speaker 5 (23:06):
Oh my gosh, It's such an honor to just sit
in and listen to you guys and be a part
of the team.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
I'm like, oh yeah, the woman supporting woman. That's how
it should be about yourself, Jordan.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
I mean, I've been.
Speaker 5 (23:20):
At iHeart for almost two years and just make him
trying to do my best to be helpful to everyone
and make my rounds, and you guys are amazing. My
first time I met Kayla. Yeah she had.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (23:37):
It was like an overnight shift and I think you
caught me like dead looking at the computers. And I
think from that point on you were just like, man,
come over, let's like come to my party. Met both
Kayla's at the party, at the function, and it was
so fun.
Speaker 3 (23:51):
One of Kayla's legendary house parties.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
Oh yeah, baby, going up, you know you know, no,
you know, yes, we're excited to have you one. She
does social media, she's done social media for other people
as well, and we're just excited for her to help
us out, give us some new ideas and just bring
a new fresh perspective to petty Ish and we'll have
her on the show too.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Just just say something, are you petty?
Speaker 4 (24:15):
Yeah, Jordan, I want to know the pettish thing you
you could think of that you've done.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
Oh man, shes.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
So cute that she's an angel. She's not like that.
Speaker 4 (24:24):
Nobody is an angel. I know you did something, Patty Jordan,
but give us your tea.
Speaker 5 (24:29):
Girl. It's so hard because I always, like, I always
think of the other side, and I'm so sensitive, like
some some negative stuff around me. I kind of walk
away from it, and I think about it for days
on it. I mean, I could change my perspective.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
No, you don't need to, don't let us.
Speaker 5 (24:51):
Thing is watching with no regrets Zeus Network, the Baddies.
I think that's my therapy. Like I'll be watching that
every Monday, you little angel.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
Anything of the week is watching watch.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
No you didn't, girl, but I would love to know.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
I want to.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
I want to.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
When you're mad at your man, is there anything that
you would do just to get on his nerve a
little bit.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Or just take out his shoe strings?
Speaker 5 (25:23):
Like, yeah, I'll throw the pillow on the floor where
he sleeps.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
I guess I would hate to be not on the floor.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
We're the ones that's trying to mature. Maybe we should
be more.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
Like right right, right this baby.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
You've never slashed any tires or no man.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Never put baloney on the car to pel the paint off.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Never like jolly ranchers on the windshields to make a break.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
That's a good idea, sugar in the gas.
Speaker 5 (25:53):
Never been mad like mad as someone like Like when
I got cheated on in my relationship before time ago,
I cried and.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
I went back. It's okay.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
We all have.
Speaker 5 (26:11):
That.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
Okay, the way you are.
Speaker 2 (26:18):
Period, Well, Jordan, we love you and we're glad that
you're on board.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
Don't let us corrupt you.
Speaker 4 (26:26):
Yeah, just just give us content and edit. Don't don't
be petty like us. We want to be like you.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
Okay, real quick, before we wrap this up, I want
to ask you, guys a question that has been going viral.
What do you save your child over your spouse if
they were drowning?
Speaker 6 (26:44):
Listen to this, wife, biblically speaking, is completely different. The
way that you show up in your relationship, how you
show up for your partner, the things that you go through,
and how you grow through the things that life throws
at you is completely different than when you're just married.
So that being said, scenario out. You're on a boat
in the middle of the ocean with your wife and
your child and it's still a young child. Both of
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them get lodged into the water. You're gonna save your wife?
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Why?
Speaker 6 (27:12):
It's my wife, period, That's it.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
I love my wife before I love my child.
Speaker 4 (27:18):
How could I choose my child over something of someone
that created you?
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Respectfully, I gotta make another mm hmm. Okay, So how
do you guys feel about that.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
I want that kind of love to find me. That's romantic.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
What would you guys do if you were in that situation?
Speaker 3 (27:40):
So I will.
Speaker 4 (27:41):
I know one of my close friends when they had
a baby, because you know that could be a traumatic experience.
She asked her husband, like, if there's anything that goes wrong,
save the baby. He said, absolutely not. I'm saving you
first and foremost. Like that's it, Like you are this
thing called life for me. So I kind of love
that love. But me, I mean, I am saving my child.
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Like I feel like women are just connected to their children,
like I carried it.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
It's a part of me.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
It's crazy because I one of the comments someone said
it was men will always choose their woman, the woman
will always choose their kids. And I think like the
resentment that I would have towards my husband for not
saving my kid would break us apart anyway. And I
do understand what he's saying though, because biblically speaking, like
the your spouse is supposed to come before your child.
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There's been so many scenarios on social media. On social
media where they're asked like who comes first, like who
gets to who gets who gets priority?
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Who do you feed first.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
So you have you're making dinner and you give your
kids your their food first or your husband, and technically
you're supposed to serve your husband first and then the kid,
like it is known biblically that the husband comes before.
But I don't know, like I would, I don't know.
And then of course there are some women in the
comments like save me. We can make another one like da.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
Like save me. But also it's like the kid I have,
I've lived a life. What do you think, Jordan?
Speaker 5 (29:04):
Yeah, I was thinking like it. I guess it depends
on how old the kid is. Yeah, I mean I
think by instinct would be the kid. I was even
thinking like if my brother was in that situation, like
my younger brother, if you if they were, I have
to save my bro because we still have life to live,
right right, But I don't know the kid most definitely, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (29:25):
But also at the same time, like say, your kids
an asshole, are like a psycho, you know, and like disrespectful,
you know, like if you if you have the kid
that calls you a bit, you know, fuck you get
like if you have that kind of kid, then what then?
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Sorry?
Speaker 4 (29:45):
But yeah, I feel like the kid's gonna grow up,
live their own life, get their own wife, and forget
about you after a certain amount of time. Anyway, right, Like,
so I see both sides of want to save your
spouse because my spouse chose me.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
You were kind of just given to me.
Speaker 4 (29:58):
But I would definitely going back, would take my kid though,
because I want to have an asshole kid.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
Cross fingers crosser. I love it.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
We want to know your thoughts.
Speaker 2 (30:10):
You can hit up on socials at the Pettish podcast.
Thank you, Jordan's we.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Love You, I love you, I appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
And You're definitely gonna be on more episodes pop it
every once in a while.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
He love you, love you all right?
Speaker 3 (30:24):
Do we want to do the week two?
Speaker 1 (30:28):
I am going to do Erica Bado?
Speaker 2 (30:32):
Okay, So she was at the Women Billboard Women in
Music event and somebody here from iHeart asked her a question,
one piece of advice you would give to women in
the music industry?
Speaker 4 (30:43):
One piece of advice suck hard, girls, suck.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Hard, penis.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
I don't know what she means by that, What does
that mean? I don't know if that's really petty?
Speaker 3 (30:56):
Explain?
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Okay, So I have some thoughts about this so the
question was advice for women in the industry, right, suck hard?
Speaker 3 (31:04):
Like what am I?
Speaker 5 (31:05):
Am?
Speaker 4 (31:05):
I sucking hard at my craft? Am I sucking the
penis hard to get to where I want to go?
Speaker 1 (31:08):
Exactly?
Speaker 3 (31:09):
Answer?
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Is she telling us that we need to sleep our
way to the top.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
I can't do that?
Speaker 2 (31:13):
Or like gas people up, glaze them, suck that, you know,
metaphorically speak and be like, oh you're sucking is dick,
but you're not actually like you're second your kiss ass.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Yeah yeah, yeah, that that's just that's some weird device.
I love you, miss Bado, but what what are we saying?
I don't understand. I need I need explanation.
Speaker 4 (31:31):
All right, my petty award is going to I don't
know if you saw this video, but but Clarissa Shields
was on Instagram live in the gym and a guy
literally told her to use her headphones?
Speaker 3 (31:45):
Can you use that punch? Can you mind if you
accept work hurting me because her? How can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (31:54):
You have your head and I still hear you.
Speaker 3 (31:57):
Can tell you that you don't want me to come.
I'm still going to be I'm just asking what do
you hear my voice? You still gonna hear my voice
and her voice.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
I'm her.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
Okay, you don't hear nobody waiting mama. Okay, I don't
know how you hear. You got his handpoine grown the
woman is told to speak lower. I don't know what's
wrong with you people.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
I feel like he does know that Clarisa's shows is
like a professional boxer and could have kicked his ass.
But like, why would you ask somebody to use their
heaphones while they're talking? What is that gonna do?
Speaker 1 (32:26):
Yeah? I don't think he unders like what was that?
Speaker 3 (32:28):
It was that? So I'm gonna give Matt Petty Awards
to that guy.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
Yeah, but good for him for okay whatever, So who
gets it?
Speaker 4 (32:34):
I'm gonna give it to that guy because I don't
know if miss is petty or just like being sassy.
So I'm gonna have to say that was I'm gonna
give it to my guy.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
Okay, I'll give it to him too, all right, cety.
Speaker 4 (32:44):
Four seasons and son got no sounder, But it's okay,
it's all right. Give Petty mal Dear Kayla and Kayla,
I need your thoughts on this one. First of all,
they're so happy to have us back, and I'm really grateful.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
I love you.
Speaker 4 (32:56):
But today I was helping my boyfriend recover his Google account.
He lost his phone and was struggling to log in,
but had previously logged into my phone. I texted him
to let him know I got in, and his first
response was, don't bleed my porn with a little fun emoji,
and she said, now, I totally thought this was a joke,
so I playfully replied that was the first thing I
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was going to do, and he said, I spent a
lot of time on making my videos.
Speaker 3 (33:23):
Huh, don't.
Speaker 4 (33:25):
At this point, I couldn't tell whether he was joking,
and I asked what videos he was talking about. He
said that he had BDSM videos that he made with
his ex, and then he went into some detail and
was telling me how good it is and he wishes
there was more porn like that. He also asked if
I wanted to watch it with him and said he
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thinks I'd like it. I'm appalled I could have lived
my life not knowing this even existed.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
On top of.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
All that, the video is with the girl he cheated
on me with years ago.
Speaker 3 (33:59):
Should this a del breaker?
Speaker 1 (34:02):
Oh my gosh. It just kept getting worse and worse.
What in the world breaker?
Speaker 2 (34:08):
First of all, why you make your own porn videos?
You have a picture, you have a video that you
created with your ex that you still watch, which means
you're fantasizing and seeing your ex, which makes me feel
like one you're kind of cheating on me, makes me
feel insecure.
Speaker 4 (34:24):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (34:24):
And why are you saying telling me this.
Speaker 4 (34:26):
So casually and then asking if I want to watch
it with you and telling me how good it was?
Speaker 1 (34:31):
Are you serious the fact that it's such a yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:34):
I'm about to call the cops because you.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Don't have a phone. You're gonna have a life, Okay, she's.
Speaker 4 (34:40):
Not gonna Okay, Oh, let's do a BDM.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
You know what happen. A fuck is called let me,
let me tie you up, let's go.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
This is kind of crazy, And I hope that, like
immediately you leave because this sounds like just like a
such a disrespectful situation. He's had this on his phone
for such a long time and he's telling you about
it so casually, and it makes me and say that
you can't delete it?
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I mean it's kind.
Speaker 3 (35:02):
Of yeah, girl, delete it. First of all, fuck him
and never talk to him again.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
Yeah, yeah deleted, does see Patty, so he doesn't have
that video and.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
Yeah, move on, would you like to have something? I'm sorry, girl,
I'm so.
Speaker 1 (35:13):
That just gave me flashback.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
So when I my ex, I saw thousands of screenshots
of porn and he is recently deleted, maybe not thousands,
but like hundreds of like pictures.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Like the website like porn hub xn XX.
Speaker 2 (35:25):
Yeah, huh, keep on keep on, Kyla, I'm gone, I'm so.
Basically what he would do was he was he would
watch porn throw on his browser and then take pictures
of the video titles and like the screenshot picture so
that he could go back for later. But it was
like hundreds and it made me uncomfortable because I got
a visual representation of what he was watching. I looked
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nothing like the girls I looked, and it was just
so much that it was just like it made me
feel icky.
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Yeah, what kind of porn was it?
Speaker 1 (35:55):
It was all types? Like was it like it was
no no gay porn or eything.
Speaker 2 (35:58):
I was thought I was gonna find something that's okay,
but it wasn't any of that. But it just one
it was like it just made me feel weird because
it's like, this is so much why do you have
to take a screenshot of it?
Speaker 4 (36:09):
I found in my ex's phone sexy videos and pictures,
little pictures that people like post it online, like on Instagram,
like say you take a bikini pic or something like that.
So it's like girls that we know that you're you're
in the hidden album.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
I was like, that's worse because that's for me.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
It was girls that he will never it and it's
like exactly, but the fact that you know these girls,
that's even more.
Speaker 4 (36:30):
And I didn't even know that if the girls do that,
they were in his phone like under that kind of
you know.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Which makes it even more creepy.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
Exactly. Lock the man, not throw away the kids.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
Oh my goodness, motherfucker's out here. All right, Well we
are getting out of here. Thank you so much for listening. Yeah,
have a great week.
Speaker 4 (36:47):
Make sure you follow us at the Pettish Podcast and
follow me.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
At I'm at Kayla Thomas forty.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
Follow Jordan She's at Jordan Jackson's but with a why
so yeah, oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (36:59):
You can chud you know, Sorry, sure, Jordan Jackson, the
y and three n okay.
Speaker 2 (37:06):
Three of them and We're excited for this season and
we'll talk to you soon.
Speaker 1 (37:10):
Bye bye,
The Petty Is Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi, welcome back to another episode of petty Ish.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
I am Kayla, I'm kayla. What's that episode two? And
we outside were you look cute?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
You look cute? I love your scarface T shirt. That's
such a good movie.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
This bitch line. She never seen it.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
I thought we were going to say that. And when
the bankrophones is rolling, don't do that.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
It's okay, I seen it either an you wear the shirt?
Is our black card revoked?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I don't know. Is it a black movie? Is this
it's a white man?
Speaker 1 (00:42):
What scarface?
Speaker 4 (00:43):
I think it's like a mob movie, like Italian. You
just rocked with the shirt's mad?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Great?
Speaker 4 (00:51):
They look great. Anyhow, what's the prettiest thing you've seen
this week?
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Okay, the pettiest thing that I've seen this week. I
don't know if my friend will be said if I
tell this story?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Should I tell you? Well, we lose friends on this podcast.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
That's what the fact, that's what our like thumbnail should
be Pettyish, where we lose friends because of shit said?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Sure do we love you guys though.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
So fuck it?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
So my friend was telling me that she's dealing with
this guy. They have been in a situation for a
long time, but he only hits her up like late
at night, you know. Yeah, it's one of those and
she actually genuinely likes him, but like she doesn't hear
from him during the day and he'll be like, oh,
I was working and stuff like that, just doesn't make
efforts to communicate with her. But when it's time, when
those scary hours come, it's like, hey, babe, what's up?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Can I come through? Uh so yeah, So one day, uh,
she was feeling a little in the mood and.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
He texted her, was like, hey, can I come over?
And she but she had a used to Oh no,
she had a use infection. She was on antibiotics forty
So can you have sex while you're on.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
You can't do anything with it. I think it's literally
the worst.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
I don't even think that it would be comfortable, you know, And.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
It's like just mad like gunk falling out of it,
especially if you use like a monaster where you put
the stuff in and it's just like falling out.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Oh, it's so gross. He's infectionous.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Yeah, but she said come through and they did the
do She even uh let him.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Like that's what she said.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
That's what he gets when I text you back for
thirty eight hours.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
I just want to ask this, like, did you kiss
him afterwards?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Right because you're eating your own yees?
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Yeah, because I think you're both doing it, you know?
And is he cut off now? Like was that the
final goodbye? Was that going out with a bang? Or
was that like I don't know, I'm gonna call you
back because you ate this thing, right? East infection him?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
That was the end of the story.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Oh Jesus, we need to have her on the show.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Is that like that's gross? That's can he get stick
from that?
Speaker 3 (02:47):
He probably gonna get the East infection.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
His throat is probably on his uvula, that's the thing.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
It grows in moist areas. You know, I know everything
about you know everything about everything about.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Listen. They are very normal women.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I haven't had one in years.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
I had one.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
A year ago.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Okay, yeah, no, they sucked. I'm so grateful I haven't
had one in a long time. I'm taking I take
vaginal probiotics.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I take a free and a probiotic.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Yes too, yes, andrek butcha yeah, yogurt. You know what.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Side note, I will say that vaginal health is not
talked about, was not talked about enough for me. That's
true when I was growing up and I actually told
my mom about this. I was like, Mom, some of
the things that I'm learning about, like our vaginal health,
I'm learning at thirty years old. And she was like, Kayla,
you think like my mom taught us about, you know,
(03:41):
any of this? And she was like, she didn't even
tell me what pads were.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
So when I don't know if she was business, but
like that it was way back in the day, Like
my mom never told her about a pat or a tampon,
so when she would have her period, she would be
using napkins. I don't know, I just it wasn't maybe taught.
I don't know if it was. It's our community or
it's just my but.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Well, I feel like medicine is like so patriarchal, Like
everything was studied by men's bodies, so I feel like
they don't even really know a lot about women's bodies.
And then you feel so shameful about it or like
embarrassed by things that other women feel embarrassed about because
they're not talking about it public because medicine mainly studies men.
But I will say my mom was a real one,
like I lost her, but I remember when I first
got my period, I would ask her every single question.
(04:24):
She would answer it like is what supposed to be
in the toilet? She's like, you're on your period, right.
I'm like, She's like, okay, yeah, this is how you
do a path, this is how you do this, how
you do that. And then she told my brothers when
I got my period, I was.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Like, girl, what are you doing?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
But she was a real one, And I think that
vaginal health and vaginal care should be talked about more often.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Well, I think that they should do it, like talk
about it also in school, like how to properly clean
it and wash it because some you know what somebody
told me. They didn't know that you weren't allowed You
weren't supposed to wash inside.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
No they were No. Did they say that, right?
Speaker 3 (04:54):
They did.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You're not supposed to watch it, but they thought that
you were that burns and.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Also that is what causes use infections.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yeah, because your vagina is a self cleaning oven.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
And I remember I can't remember what friend it was,
but I you know, sometimes as girls, you go to
the bathroom with your friends.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
You're in the toilet with them. Like I'm a very
comfortable person.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
So I've been in the bathroom with plenty of my
friends as they pee and I can't remember what friend
it was, but she literally wiped like back to front
and I'm like.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
You don't do that, don't do that, and she.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Was like why not?
Speaker 3 (05:23):
And I'm like, how do you not know that You're
not supposed to wipe?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
You white front to back, front.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
To back front.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
But I will say, like, I mean a lot of
people just were not taught, and it's it's very sad,
but TikTok has made it a very safe community for
me to learn about like probiotics and prebiotics and also
like different pH balance balancing washes and stuff like that.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
I will stream about Honeypot until my vulga horns that fallout,
Like I am a Honeypot advocate.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I use the wipes, I use the soap.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
It is made by people for vaginas with vaginas, made
bay people with vaginas, four people with vagina, and it
just it's the best thing I've ever had. I used
their pads. I use like everything, Honeypot, Honeypot, honeypotp I
love it. Keep you super healthy in the vagina. But
let me tell you about my friend. I'm about to
lose because this is this is the pettiest.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Thing I've seen this week.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I'm sorry, I'll be mad, but okay. So she was
talking to a guy and they were talking for a
little while, so she knew like his address and certain
his birthday, certain things about him that you learn about
people as you date them, right, But then he got
like rude and just goes to her one day and
she did not respond well to that. So Sis literally
signed him up for scientology and the military. What yes,
(06:36):
And you know like when you scientology, like when you
show interest, like they don't back up off you, Like
they'll call your phone NonStop. Same with the military, like
you want to be a part of this, how can
we get.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Like they try to get out there recruited.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
He's like, and she like never spoke to him again,
but she gave them his address, his phone number, his birthday,
Like she signed him up for these.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Things, says thank you for your service, sir.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
And I like, I like the way she did that, Like,
don't hurt my feelings. I'm not mad at psytologists. You'll
be mad at me for it.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
So he will be over there in Iraq, okay, shooting.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
And will and will be careful, be careful, all right,
petty is things that our listener has done. Someone said,
I met the girl who was talking to my man.
So what I did was plan a date with my
boyfriend at Third Base in Hollywood. Oh, I love the
local y when he came to me. When he came
me and the girl confronted him, he ran out of
(07:28):
the bar. Me and her are now best friends.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
I love a girl's girl.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
I love a girl's girl when they don't make the
other girl the enemy and they realized that the guy
is the wild Yes, exactly, shall see you ill lot
the way you handle that.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I like that.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
I heard my ex friend was having a party at
the Bowling Alley.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
She's new in town.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
I planned the party there the same day at the
same time, and I brought all my friends. We were
so loud that she left her own party.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
This sounds like some high school shit. That's mean girl behavior.
Speaker 5 (07:59):
It.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Yeah, if that's not your friend, like, why do you
still want to be in the same space as her?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
That's just like corny corny.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Yeah, I would feel like I got too much pride
to be like doing something like that, because you know,
she knows that it was on purpose.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Like you just you look a little sweetie.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
We love you.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
You look a little carny.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Thanks for listening and writing us.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Anyway, my boyfriend cheated on me. He was living in America.
He was living in America illegally.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
I took him to Mexico and left and left him there.
Oh damn not with all the immigration stuff going on
right now, it's.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Pretty that's fucked up. But don't cheat on you, right
pt Tea, How was your week?
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Kt?
Speaker 1 (08:45):
My week was very, very good. So what's today?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
March thirtieth. My birthday is in exactly a week, so
I'm excited. Yeah, I'm gonna have a little birthday party
on Friday and then Saturday, you, me and a few
others of us are going to go to somewhere. But yeah,
so I'm excited about my birthday.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
What else? I got my hair done this week.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I had my hair embraids since the fires.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Wow those braids look good though, yeah they they Yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
And I also want to say, Kayla, you throw the
best house parties in the world. So I cannot wait
for your birthday, like it's always at friends Giving was crazy,
super Bowl was lit, Like I don't, I don't friends
Giving specifically. I think I had what fifty people in
that house. I got so anxious because there were so
many people in that little apartment and I didn't know
(09:38):
how it would work, how people would be comfortable. But
once everybody got like in their system, nobody cared that
they were literally like shoulder to should We literally were like, yeah,
my little balcony. Yeah, so that's where the mar was.
That's where it was a good time.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
So everybody come through all Friday, you're text me for
the addie. But yeah, So I got my hair done
for the first time in like three months. I've had
raising for such a long time. But I got my
hair trimmed for the first time, Kayla, in five years,
and that.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
You know, that is absolutely terrible, the difference. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
And like I don't know why I have neglected my
hair for so long.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Like usually I'll just like put it in braids or
slap on a wig, and so like I never wore
my natural hair out for me to care enough to
get a trim, yeah, and I never so pressed it, right,
So I was like, what's so I can just wait
wait wait, but like when you see it out, you
can see this what ends and it's affecting the growth now,
and so I was like, I need to get this
chopped off immediately. So I did, and I finally got
(10:37):
a much needed trim, and I'm hoping now that my
hair can grow because I want to wear my natural
hair out more and try to find cute styles.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Like like this that is so cute.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I love that I can do because I don't always
want to put wear a wig anymore. I can't do it.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
And it looks so good on you though you wait
till you see my birthday, you inspire me to buy
a couple of weeks yes, and yours look good.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
They did, and it was over.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
But do you think now that your hair has grown
so much, you can put the wig over your life?
Speaker 3 (11:06):
I can't. I really can't.
Speaker 4 (11:07):
I tried, and and I I also really I'm not
good at like corn rolling my hair down or like
braiding it down, so it's like stucks in my head.
I'm not good at that, which is why I kind
of locked up to begin with, because I'm just over
doing my hair. This is like so easy solo maintenance.
But I don't think it can fit over my locks anymore.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
It don't matter.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Look at your hair, Kayla.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Wait till you should see I'm gonna take it down.
And we've done recording like it's getting so I never
wear it down.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
And it's only been about a year and a half since.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
You Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love it. I love it.
Decision I could have made child, But yeah, your hair
looks really really good like that, and I cannot wait
to see your birthday wig. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
What about you? Would you do this week?
Speaker 4 (11:39):
What did I do this week? I really haven't, No,
I would. I have been very I made it. I
promise to myself at the top of twenty twenty five
that I want to be very consistent with my workouts
and I'm really gonna go three days a week. I
have felt that every single week until last week. I
went all three days. So I'm really proud of myself
because I have gained so much weight, Kayla. When I
tell you it is such an expensive problem I have.
(11:59):
I can't fit any of my jeans, I can barely
fit my shirts. I got back rolls out the wazoo, girl,
Like literally, it's Okay, like I've accepted it. I am
of a woman of a woman of a certain age
now and when I eat, it really does impact my figure.
And I do not know how to eat right, and
I love food so much that I don't know if
I'll ever learn. So I really got to be on
(12:19):
top of my workout routine. I don't think I'm ever
going to be able to fit my jeans again. I
really love those genes.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
You're thick in the right places.
Speaker 4 (12:27):
Though I do carry it well, it's just it's just
about like getting new clothes to fit this new body
that I'm not used to having.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
So workout work and yeah, that's it.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
That's all.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
That's all I want to talk about on the microphone
about this week, even though other things happen.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
We've had we've had some incidents this week.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
I can't wait till you resolve it. Neither.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
I'm gonna resolve it this week coming up period.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Anyhow, Okay, can we talk about this breakfast club situation.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
I can't get enough dolling.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
I have been wanting to talk about this and it
came out. And also this is a little touchy because
this is our gotta be careful for our company, but
a lot of people have been, you know, asking my
thoughts about it. At the end of the day, I'm
very glad that both Jess Hilarious and Laura and La
Rosa were able to come together and resolve the situation
because you saw their music video that they put.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
It out The Boys.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, So it seems like things have been resolved.
But for those of you who don't know that, everybody
knows the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
Everybody knows. It's one of the biggest shows radio shows
in the country.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:32):
So, Jess Hilarious has replaced Angela Yee and is now.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
The third member of The Breakfast Club. As soon as
she got hired, she got pregnant and went on maternity leave.
So her replacement was somebody who was like kind of
like the runner up for the position, Lauren la Rosa,
who was so good.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
It was literally between the two of them.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
I think it was between her and Clarissa Jordan. Like
Lauren wasn't really a threat.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
I thought Lauren was was one of the ones that
was consistent.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
But it was like the final two was her in
the Clarissa Jordan I think her name is because that's
why this is my mindset. I think that's why Jess
chose Lauren because or Lauren because she felt like, you know,
it was between her and Clarisa at the end of
the day, like those were the top two choices.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
But I feel like Lauren.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
Studied where Jess lacked was playing chestnut checkers because she's like, oh,
I missed this job, like give me a chance, give
me the opportunity.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
And she rose to the occasion.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
I mean, Lauren was there for the three months that
Jess was out and she came back before she like
when she auditioned, like she was great, but she came
back and you could tell that she I don't know,
elevated in a way.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
She was really on top of her news game.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
Mind you, she's from TMZ, so she knows like she's
a journalist.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
She's a true journalist, like she does this right.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
So yeah, and she can't and everyone in on social
media was like, wow, like we really like this Lauren girl,
Like she can read better than Jess.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
Hilarious she could.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
She's better, she's more articulate, we get the facts, like
she's gorea at interviewing, and so it was kind of
like a oh, we don't want Jess back type of thing.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Right, there was a lot of.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Noise and a lot of chatter from a lot of
different people, a lot of celebrities weighing in that maybe
have beef withessilarious. So she comes back and people are
wanting Lauren more. Lauren actually stays on the show and
doesn't go anywhere, so it kind of confused even me,
Like it's like, oh, so is she the fourth member?
Speaker 1 (15:17):
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (15:17):
Is she?
Speaker 3 (15:18):
You know?
Speaker 2 (15:19):
And she was still doing Jess with the Mess, so
it wasn't really just with the Mess anymore. And then
you can kind of tense, like feel the friction on air,
you know what I mean, Like you could tell that
there was some type of.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Yeah, like they were talking over each other.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Jess would be like Lauren shut up and tell her,
like to shush on air, so you could tell that
there was something going on anyway, everybody saw it. But
long story Shortessilarious. One day went on Instagram Live went
Off said that iHeart is run like a high school.
That Laura she didn't really like Lauren in the beginning.
She didn't make sure to say, you know, I'm not
knocking the girl. She's great at what she does, but
(15:54):
like there was no communication to her on what Lauren's
role was. Is she staying, is she helping? Is she
a senior news producer? Is she the fourth member of
the breakfast club? Because it seemed like to Jess that
she was getting pushed out.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
Right and I didn't misspeak. It wasn't clear her name
is Claudia Jordan. Sorry my bad, Just want to correct
that Claudia Jordan wasn't running up. But yeah, it's just
honestly loving Basketball is one of my favorite movies. One
of the lines was never let a freshman still your spot,
And I just feel like Jess was like, that's something
that women fear, and it's so unfortunate that when you
get pregnant, you gotta take the time off you want
to focus on your newborn. She's definitely, I'm sure still
(16:29):
going through postpartum. She just had the baby and then
you come to work and it's just like a toxic
work environment.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
I know.
Speaker 4 (16:35):
She said that she didn't even like being in the
studio anymore. That's why she was accepting all the stand
up jobs. And I've seen her do stand up. It's
definitely her talent. It's where she excels. I find Jess hilarious,
freaking hilarious, but it's just so unfortunate that you have
a baby, you do something for your life, and you
come back and now your job is jeopardized.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
And I just feel like women.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
Should be protected in that in that sense, but also
another side of the argument is giving social media stars
journalists journalist jobs, because it's just like it really is
something that you go to school for, something you study,
and it no matter how popular you are, how much
you can speak to social media.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
That doesn't always translate to radio.
Speaker 4 (17:12):
And I think that's kind of where Jess like that
that was one of her her shortcomings. I feel like
she kind of should have like locked in studied read
out loud all day and hooked on for really she
really should have practiced like reading and and uh speaking.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
This is the this is no thing.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
No yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
But she did get better from when she You know.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
The thing is they were hired for different reasons, right.
Jess wasn't hired to be the journalist and to report
the news. She was hired for the comedic relief. Now,
I agree with you with the whole influencer thing because
I've seen it happen firsthand. They're trying to replace That's
the thing about radio where it's so like it's sketchy
and it's it's iffy, and it's scary for us who
(17:58):
love the art, and we still they want to replace
us with influencers who have three million views on TikTok
because they think that they their followers will translate over
to radio. And that's not necessarily the smartest thing, because
radio is more than just getting on the mic and talking.
It's it's a fucking art, it's a job. It's and
you can see that firsthand. And the difference between Jess
and Lauren, who you know what I mean, who has
(18:20):
the experience in the journalism right exactly. Also with Jess,
like she's getting a rude awakening up to what this
what this radio world is like, you know, like her
crash out like that, like one.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
I wouldn't have done.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
That because these heads of all companies, you don't talk
about them, Okay, especially on Instagram Life. I saw your
millions of followers. So I think she just doesn't know
the game of radio and.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
How to just carry yourself in a corporate profess like
this at the end of the day. Radio is fun,
it's it's definitely a fun job, but it's a corporate
it's a corporation at the end of the day, and
you going on Instagram live bashing your bosses and bashing
your coworkers. I feel like when I was watching the
video and you sent a lot to me, I felt like,
I don't think I should be seeing this, Like I
don't think I should be privy to this information. That
(19:08):
should be like a meeting where it's like, Yo, let's
go into the office. We got to talk about what
the fuck is going on here because this isn't about
to fly, because what can I, as viewers do just
just have an opinion and yeah, ash the bosses with you,
Like what is that Like, that's not going to get
your contract for you. That's going to do the opposite,
I think, And then to go on the breakfast club
and then like have a roundtable discussion about it.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
It was kind of I was like, this is like awkward.
This should be a meeting.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
I felt so bad for her though, like cause I
felt like what she was saying was making clear sense,
but they were acting like they didn't understand where she
was coming from, Like they were confused as to where
she was coming from. And I know that feeling firsthand,
where you're trying to say something, you're being invalidated, and
all you could do is cry because it's just like
y'all can't hear me, like and it's.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Like you don't want to cry, you don't want to
look pussy. But at the end of the day, like.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
I hit this story, Jesus said, at the end of
the day, that's all you can do.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
Like your body just kind of does that as a reaction,
and it so listen.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
I feel for both parties.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
I don't like the way Jess handled it, but I
think she was absolutely validated. Without feelings, I wouldn't want
to come back to my job that I thought was
safe and I like, literally feel like I'm getting pushed
out and no one's telling me what's up.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
You know.
Speaker 4 (20:19):
And then the segment you created your baby, that was
your baby before you even got on the radio show,
some other girl is delivering.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
Like huh yeah, it's yeah. I would have I would
have crashed.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Out behind the scenes, behind the scenes. But I also
admire how Lauren handled it, handled it. It was so
professional and that's just what she is she's a professional
and then but so yeah, like ultimately, I'm glad that
they worked it out. It seemed like they posted a
picture with Angie Martinez, so I guess the three of
them had had a women's meeting and talked about it.
Plus they came out the Boy's Mind music video.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
So cute.
Speaker 4 (20:50):
I just want to see if Jess will get her
contract renewed when it's up, and maybe it was renewed already.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
I don't know, but I really am curious as if
she will.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
I don't know, maybe she'll find out if this were
I think if this, if radio is for her, it's
not for everybody.
Speaker 4 (21:02):
Very past tense, like like I wanted the Breakfast Club.
I really worked hard, Like she was speaking like it
was already done. Yeah, try to let it go.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
And also she's still doing her comedy things. She's constantly
on the road and stuff. So it's like maybe I
don't know, who knows how long show be on the
Breakfast Club. What's really her passion? Is it radio or
is it comedy? So we'll see either way for the
time being, I hope that they all. I love that
show so much and I just it was just done
so publicly. I was like, we have to talk about it, indeed,
(21:30):
and especially because we're in the radio industry, Like it's
just it can get so messy, especially women against women,
and I talked about this on the podcast. I've seen
so many women try to put other people, other women
against each other so that they can get to the top.
Everybody's trying to get to that number one market and
doesn't matter who you step on to get there, and
there's so much cattiness with some women. There are some
(21:51):
others that like and most who help each other out.
We do have that, like women in Radio Company and
the event that that's thrown every single year. But I've
just seen it so many times and so it was
heartbreaking to see this happen on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
It was heartbreaking, but it was just growth. I feel
like I can't I can't do anything but tip my
hat to how these women handled it. Even when they
were having the discussion, neither one of them tore the
other one down. It was it was just like, this
is my perspective, this is your perspective. And I think
they found the mutual respect for each other and weren't caddy.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
So I do respect that. So shouts to growth in womanhood.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
Yes, sides note, can we take a little detour because
our producer just walked in?
Speaker 4 (22:28):
Or we got a producer not asked me? The season
three with a producer and a new logo?
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Season four, I definitely. I definitely double checked last night.
It's definitely season four. Season four. Okay, So we thought
this year, you know, because Kayla and I are so
busy and it's hard to do things on our own
and we're not the most consistently well what we thought
we needed some help and there was no one better
(22:56):
that we would love to work within.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
Our friend who we love so much.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
She's all our coworker, but we all hang out outside
of this as well, and we love her.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Her name is Jordan. What's up?
Speaker 5 (23:06):
Oh my gosh, It's such an honor to just sit
in and listen to you guys and be a part
of the team.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
I'm like, oh yeah, the woman supporting woman. That's how
it should be about yourself, Jordan.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
I mean, I've been.
Speaker 5 (23:20):
At iHeart for almost two years and just make him
trying to do my best to be helpful to everyone
and make my rounds, and you guys are amazing. My
first time I met Kayla. Yeah she had.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (23:37):
It was like an overnight shift and I think you
caught me like dead looking at the computers. And I
think from that point on you were just like, man,
come over, let's like come to my party. Met both
Kayla's at the party, at the function, and it was
so fun.
Speaker 3 (23:51):
One of Kayla's legendary house parties.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
Oh yeah, baby, going up, you know you know, no,
you know, yes, we're excited to have you one. She
does social media, she's done social media for other people
as well, and we're just excited for her to help
us out, give us some new ideas and just bring
a new fresh perspective to petty Ish and we'll have
her on the show too.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Just just say something, are you petty?
Speaker 4 (24:15):
Yeah, Jordan, I want to know the pettish thing you
you could think of that you've done.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
Oh man, shes.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
So cute that she's an angel. She's not like that.
Speaker 4 (24:24):
Nobody is an angel. I know you did something, Patty Jordan,
but give us your tea.
Speaker 5 (24:29):
Girl. It's so hard because I always, like, I always
think of the other side, and I'm so sensitive, like
some some negative stuff around me. I kind of walk
away from it, and I think about it for days
on it. I mean, I could change my perspective.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
No, you don't need to, don't let us.
Speaker 5 (24:51):
Thing is watching with no regrets Zeus Network, the Baddies.
I think that's my therapy. Like I'll be watching that
every Monday, you little angel.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
Anything of the week is watching watch.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
No you didn't, girl, but I would love to know.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
I want to.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
I want to.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
When you're mad at your man, is there anything that
you would do just to get on his nerve a
little bit.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Or just take out his shoe strings?
Speaker 5 (25:23):
Like, yeah, I'll throw the pillow on the floor where
he sleeps.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
I guess I would hate to be not on the floor.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
We're the ones that's trying to mature. Maybe we should
be more.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
Like right right, right this baby.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
You've never slashed any tires or no man.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Never put baloney on the car to pel the paint off.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Never like jolly ranchers on the windshields to make a break.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
That's a good idea, sugar in the gas.
Speaker 5 (25:53):
Never been mad like mad as someone like Like when
I got cheated on in my relationship before time ago,
I cried and.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
I went back. It's okay.
Speaker 4 (26:08):
We all have.
Speaker 5 (26:11):
That.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
Okay, the way you are.
Speaker 2 (26:18):
Period, Well, Jordan, we love you and we're glad that
you're on board.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
Don't let us corrupt you.
Speaker 4 (26:26):
Yeah, just just give us content and edit. Don't don't
be petty like us. We want to be like you.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
Okay, real quick, before we wrap this up, I want
to ask you, guys a question that has been going viral.
What do you save your child over your spouse if
they were drowning?
Speaker 6 (26:44):
Listen to this, wife, biblically speaking, is completely different. The
way that you show up in your relationship, how you
show up for your partner, the things that you go through,
and how you grow through the things that life throws
at you is completely different than when you're just married.
So that being said, scenario out. You're on a boat
in the middle of the ocean with your wife and
your child and it's still a young child. Both of
(27:07):
them get lodged into the water. You're gonna save your wife?
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Why?
Speaker 6 (27:12):
It's my wife, period, That's it.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
I love my wife before I love my child.
Speaker 4 (27:18):
How could I choose my child over something of someone
that created you?
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Respectfully, I gotta make another mm hmm. Okay, So how
do you guys feel about that.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
I want that kind of love to find me. That's romantic.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
What would you guys do if you were in that situation?
Speaker 3 (27:40):
So I will.
Speaker 4 (27:41):
I know one of my close friends when they had
a baby, because you know that could be a traumatic experience.
She asked her husband, like, if there's anything that goes wrong,
save the baby. He said, absolutely not. I'm saving you
first and foremost. Like that's it, Like you are this
thing called life for me. So I kind of love
that love. But me, I mean, I am saving my child.
(28:02):
Like I feel like women are just connected to their children,
like I carried it.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
It's a part of me.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
It's crazy because I one of the comments someone said
it was men will always choose their woman, the woman
will always choose their kids. And I think like the
resentment that I would have towards my husband for not
saving my kid would break us apart anyway. And I
do understand what he's saying though, because biblically speaking, like
the your spouse is supposed to come before your child.
(28:30):
There's been so many scenarios on social media. On social
media where they're asked like who comes first, like who
gets to who gets who gets priority?
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Who do you feed first.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
So you have you're making dinner and you give your
kids your their food first or your husband, and technically
you're supposed to serve your husband first and then the kid,
like it is known biblically that the husband comes before.
But I don't know, like I would, I don't know.
And then of course there are some women in the
comments like save me. We can make another one like da.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
Like save me. But also it's like the kid I have,
I've lived a life. What do you think, Jordan?
Speaker 5 (29:04):
Yeah, I was thinking like it. I guess it depends
on how old the kid is. Yeah, I mean I
think by instinct would be the kid. I was even
thinking like if my brother was in that situation, like
my younger brother, if you if they were, I have
to save my bro because we still have life to live,
right right, But I don't know the kid most definitely, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (29:25):
But also at the same time, like say, your kids
an asshole, are like a psycho, you know, and like disrespectful,
you know, like if you if you have the kid
that calls you a bit, you know, fuck you get
like if you have that kind of kid, then what then?
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Sorry?
Speaker 4 (29:45):
But yeah, I feel like the kid's gonna grow up,
live their own life, get their own wife, and forget
about you after a certain amount of time. Anyway, right, Like,
so I see both sides of want to save your
spouse because my spouse chose me.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
You were kind of just given to me.
Speaker 4 (29:58):
But I would definitely going back, would take my kid though,
because I want to have an asshole kid.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
Cross fingers crosser. I love it.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
We want to know your thoughts.
Speaker 2 (30:10):
You can hit up on socials at the Pettish podcast.
Thank you, Jordan's we.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Love You, I love you, I appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
And You're definitely gonna be on more episodes pop it
every once in a while.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
He love you, love you all right?
Speaker 3 (30:24):
Do we want to do the week two?
Speaker 1 (30:28):
I am going to do Erica Bado?
Speaker 2 (30:32):
Okay, So she was at the Women Billboard Women in
Music event and somebody here from iHeart asked her a question,
one piece of advice you would give to women in
the music industry?
Speaker 4 (30:43):
One piece of advice suck hard, girls, suck.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Hard, penis.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
I don't know what she means by that, What does
that mean? I don't know if that's really petty?
Speaker 3 (30:56):
Explain?
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Okay, So I have some thoughts about this so the
question was advice for women in the industry, right, suck hard?
Speaker 3 (31:04):
Like what am I?
Speaker 5 (31:05):
Am?
Speaker 4 (31:05):
I sucking hard at my craft? Am I sucking the
penis hard to get to where I want to go?
Speaker 1 (31:08):
Exactly?
Speaker 3 (31:09):
Answer?
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Is she telling us that we need to sleep our
way to the top.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
I can't do that?
Speaker 2 (31:13):
Or like gas people up, glaze them, suck that, you know,
metaphorically speak and be like, oh you're sucking is dick,
but you're not actually like you're second your kiss ass.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Yeah yeah, yeah, that that's just that's some weird device.
I love you, miss Bado, but what what are we saying?
I don't understand. I need I need explanation.
Speaker 4 (31:31):
All right, my petty award is going to I don't
know if you saw this video, but but Clarissa Shields
was on Instagram live in the gym and a guy
literally told her to use her headphones?
Speaker 3 (31:45):
Can you use that punch? Can you mind if you
accept work hurting me because her? How can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (31:54):
You have your head and I still hear you.
Speaker 3 (31:57):
Can tell you that you don't want me to come.
I'm still going to be I'm just asking what do
you hear my voice? You still gonna hear my voice
and her voice.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
I'm her.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
Okay, you don't hear nobody waiting mama. Okay, I don't
know how you hear. You got his handpoine grown the
woman is told to speak lower. I don't know what's
wrong with you people.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
I feel like he does know that Clarisa's shows is
like a professional boxer and could have kicked his ass.
But like, why would you ask somebody to use their
heaphones while they're talking? What is that gonna do?
Speaker 1 (32:26):
Yeah? I don't think he unders like what was that?
Speaker 3 (32:28):
It was that? So I'm gonna give Matt Petty Awards
to that guy.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
Yeah, but good for him for okay whatever, So who
gets it?
Speaker 4 (32:34):
I'm gonna give it to that guy because I don't
know if miss is petty or just like being sassy.
So I'm gonna have to say that was I'm gonna
give it to my guy.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
Okay, I'll give it to him too, all right, cety.
Speaker 4 (32:44):
Four seasons and son got no sounder, But it's okay,
it's all right. Give Petty mal Dear Kayla and Kayla,
I need your thoughts on this one. First of all,
they're so happy to have us back, and I'm really grateful.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
I love you.
Speaker 4 (32:56):
But today I was helping my boyfriend recover his Google account.
He lost his phone and was struggling to log in,
but had previously logged into my phone. I texted him
to let him know I got in, and his first
response was, don't bleed my porn with a little fun emoji,
and she said, now, I totally thought this was a joke,
so I playfully replied that was the first thing I
(33:17):
was going to do, and he said, I spent a
lot of time on making my videos.
Speaker 3 (33:23):
Huh, don't.
Speaker 4 (33:25):
At this point, I couldn't tell whether he was joking,
and I asked what videos he was talking about. He
said that he had BDSM videos that he made with
his ex, and then he went into some detail and
was telling me how good it is and he wishes
there was more porn like that. He also asked if
I wanted to watch it with him and said he
(33:46):
thinks I'd like it. I'm appalled I could have lived
my life not knowing this even existed.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
On top of.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
All that, the video is with the girl he cheated
on me with years ago.
Speaker 3 (33:59):
Should this a del breaker?
Speaker 1 (34:02):
Oh my gosh. It just kept getting worse and worse.
What in the world breaker?
Speaker 2 (34:08):
First of all, why you make your own porn videos?
You have a picture, you have a video that you
created with your ex that you still watch, which means
you're fantasizing and seeing your ex, which makes me feel
like one you're kind of cheating on me, makes me
feel insecure.
Speaker 4 (34:24):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (34:24):
And why are you saying telling me this.
Speaker 4 (34:26):
So casually and then asking if I want to watch
it with you and telling me how good it was?
Speaker 1 (34:31):
Are you serious the fact that it's such a yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:34):
I'm about to call the cops because you.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Don't have a phone. You're gonna have a life, Okay, she's.
Speaker 4 (34:40):
Not gonna Okay, Oh, let's do a BDM.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
You know what happen. A fuck is called let me,
let me tie you up, let's go.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
This is kind of crazy, And I hope that, like
immediately you leave because this sounds like just like a
such a disrespectful situation. He's had this on his phone
for such a long time and he's telling you about
it so casually, and it makes me and say that
you can't delete it?
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I mean it's kind.
Speaker 3 (35:02):
Of yeah, girl, delete it. First of all, fuck him
and never talk to him again.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
Yeah, yeah deleted, does see Patty, so he doesn't have
that video and.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
Yeah, move on, would you like to have something? I'm sorry, girl,
I'm so.
Speaker 1 (35:13):
That just gave me flashback.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
So when I my ex, I saw thousands of screenshots
of porn and he is recently deleted, maybe not thousands,
but like hundreds of like pictures.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Like the website like porn hub xn XX.
Speaker 2 (35:25):
Yeah, huh, keep on keep on, Kyla, I'm gone, I'm so.
Basically what he would do was he was he would
watch porn throw on his browser and then take pictures
of the video titles and like the screenshot picture so
that he could go back for later. But it was
like hundreds and it made me uncomfortable because I got
a visual representation of what he was watching. I looked
(35:46):
nothing like the girls I looked, and it was just
so much that it was just like it made me
feel icky.
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Yeah, what kind of porn was it?
Speaker 1 (35:55):
It was all types? Like was it like it was
no no gay porn or eything.
Speaker 2 (35:58):
I was thought I was gonna find something that's okay,
but it wasn't any of that. But it just one
it was like it just made me feel weird because
it's like, this is so much why do you have
to take a screenshot of it?
Speaker 4 (36:09):
I found in my ex's phone sexy videos and pictures,
little pictures that people like post it online, like on Instagram,
like say you take a bikini pic or something like that.
So it's like girls that we know that you're you're
in the hidden album.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
I was like, that's worse because that's for me.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
It was girls that he will never it and it's
like exactly, but the fact that you know these girls,
that's even more.
Speaker 4 (36:30):
And I didn't even know that if the girls do that,
they were in his phone like under that kind of
you know.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Which makes it even more creepy.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
Exactly. Lock the man, not throw away the kids.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
Oh my goodness, motherfucker's out here. All right, Well we
are getting out of here. Thank you so much for listening. Yeah,
have a great week.
Speaker 4 (36:47):
Make sure you follow us at the Pettish Podcast and
follow me.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
At I'm at Kayla Thomas forty.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
Follow Jordan She's at Jordan Jackson's but with a why
so yeah, oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (36:59):
You can chud you know, Sorry, sure, Jordan Jackson, the
y and three n okay.
Speaker 2 (37:06):
Three of them and We're excited for this season and
we'll talk to you soon.
Speaker 1 (37:10):
Bye bye,
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