July 2, 2025 • 43 mins
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Jam packed epsiode so grab your wine. KT and Kayla sit down and talk all things Love Island USA! Is Olandria insecure? Is Clarke in the wrong in any of this? Will Nicolandria ever be a real thing? The ladies also discuss B Simone's recent podcast episode and what is considered a "bad friend". And lastly, KT talks about how a guy she had been talking to ended up on one of those "Are We Dating the Same Man?" Facebook pages. The Tea is hot so tune in!!!
Jam packed epsiode so grab your wine. KT and Kayla sit down and talk all things Love Island USA! Is Olandria insecure? Is Clarke in the wrong in any of this? Will Nicolandria ever be a real thing? The ladies also discuss B Simone's recent podcast episode and what is considered a "bad friend". And lastly, KT talks about how a guy she had been talking to ended up on one of those "Are We Dating the Same Man?" Facebook pages. The Tea is hot so tune in!!!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Petty Ish Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Welcome back to Petty Ish. I'm Kayla.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Hi, I'm Kayla.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
How was your week? Kayla?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Good? I just came back from the East Coast.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
How was your first time home in like four years?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Yeah, it was like almost two, I think, But it
was really like it was bittersweet because I just miss home,
you know, Like it was niceeing all my friends and
my family, but bitter because I had to come back here.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
And not that I don't like it here and not
that I'm not happy here, but I think this has
just been a really tough year.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, with the.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Fires and then I go was sick, and then like
now the ice raids, and it's just like LA is
just this isn't the time to be in La right now.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
So it was very peaceful going home.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
I got to go to my hometown radio station too,
and I'm on there on the weekends. But I got
to go there and see like all my friends that
that work there, And I grew up listening to that
radio station, so I've always dreamed of being on there.
So now that I have a weekend slot, it's so
cool and I actually got to be there and do
it live.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
This time.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So I love that.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Yeah, it was really nice. It was a quick trip.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I I were you there, It was only like three days,
four days. It wasn't And the reason why I didn't
take a longer time is because I had just taken
two weeks or three weeks off for being sick, and
even though that's sick time and this is vacation, I
just felt weird taking off a week so soon after
all that. So I was just like, I'll go for
the family reunion, see who I can see at the time,
(01:44):
and then just come back. So hopefully this is later
this year, I'll be able to go back and stay longer.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Yeah, I cry every single time I come back to
La Like, and I've been living here for going on
six years in January, and every time I leave my
family and I'm back on a flight, it's years just coming.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I love it here.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
I love the people, and I love my friends. But yeah,
home is almost where the heart is. Home is where
life is.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Yeah I know.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
And so everyone's like, well, do you think you'll move back?
And I'm like, no, I don't think I've completed what
I've needed to be done here in.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
La I still love my job.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I still love everything about this, but eventually, who's to say,
you know, who's to say what will happen in the future.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
So yeah, that's my mindset exactly.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Like I love LA, I don't think it's forever, but
I definitely don't feel complete or I gotten everything I
was supposed to get out of moving.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Yes, so far away from everything I'm used to.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
It was just like being home. It felt like home.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
I don't think this place has ever felt like home
home for me. Yeah, And I think it's just because
I have no family out here. Yeah, and I don't
know if it ever will. It just seems like a
place where it's just so fast, and it just seems
like a place where to pursue your dreams, do the
big shit, and then go get out.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Yeah. I love, love, love my community here.
Speaker 5 (02:59):
I feel like I've did a decent job back creating
my own family out here, including yourself, Like you're a
part of my family out here.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
But home is home.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Yeah, home is different, different, especially like with me getting
sick kind of was a wake up call for me. Yeah,
I don't know, like what everything kind of changed after that,
And not that I didn't have a good support system
out here.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
But like.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I would, I would feel bad, like I don't know
how to say it.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
I feel bad asking continuously asking friends for things, right
whereas family is forever. I can comment Auntie at whatever
time and she'll come and help me out if I'm
feeling not well. And so a lot of the times
when I'm having like and I don't feel well, like
I just don't say anything. And so I think, I think,
(03:48):
like eventually it's gonna be time for me to not
saying my loops is gonna get so bad that I
can't like live on my own, But like, I think
it's just makes more sense and.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
It's more realistic to go home eventually.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah, eventually eventually.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
And your mom also told you when you got sick,
like Hayler bring that as Yeah, yeah, that's another reason. Yeah,
so we'll see, yeah, we'll say, we'll say home is
always there, though, and la is always here.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
You know, nothing changing, and you killed it or you're
killing it out here.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Still so so much more to do, so much more
to do, and you know I'm here as as you know.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Anyway, I can see, I guess how about you.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I got tongue tied in that sense. My week was good.
Speaker 5 (04:25):
I went to Atlanta for the first time ever, visited
my bestie. Her kid turned too, so I went to
second birthday party. Atlanta was hot, the food was good,
the vibes were great. Sunday I spent an extra day there.
Oh you know what, Yeah, I spent an extra day
in Atlanta because my bestie had to go to Seattle
(04:48):
for work or something like that, and it was like
Father's Day weekend, so I didn't want to spend the
time with her husband. So I got a hotel, I
rented a car, and I was like, I'm trying to
explore Atlanta by myself, explore the city, and and Sunday
came and I just felt like I don't want to
do anything. Actually, I just got some food. I had
the perfect view of the airport. I had a bottle
(05:08):
of wine. I just watched planes take off all Sunday.
Like I'm like, what a waste of a trip to Atlanta?
Like I did nothing. But my other best friend from
high school lives Aliena now, so it was nice to
catch up for her with her. I haven't seen her
in years. So she came to my hotel room and
we kicked it for a few hours. That was really nice.
Atlanta is actually really nice. But I did have an
issue with my Touro. So I rented a car, and
(05:29):
it's my least to my petty thing because we took
off for a little while, obviously because you know, we
were both away. But I did a few petty things
this week. So I rented a Touro. Have you used
to row before?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
So I rented a Touro And it's people who airbnbf cars,
So people who have extra cars, they just let you
pick them up.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Whatever.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
I rented one from the airport and as I'm leaving
the airport, it charged me fifty dollars like where they
parked the car to exit the airport. And I'm just
like fifty dollars, Like that's crazy. So I messaged the
guy this host, like, hey, I had to be fifty
dollars for where you parked the car. How can I
expect reimbursement? Like how do you plan on reimbursing me?
He never responded, never responded, So it's my trip came
to an end.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
It's time for me to return the car.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
When he did respond, he told me the car takes
premium gas and this is where I expect you to
park it to pick it up. Fuck your gas, fuck
your car, Like I just paid fifty dollurs where you
parked cars. I was so mad. I didn't put gas
in the car. I parked it wherever because find your car.
I don't give a shit, like I just had to
be fifty hours of parking, super petty. And then I
(06:32):
gave him a one star review because he just like
wasn't responsive.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I was so mad.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
So he got the review, and I guess he got
mad at me about that and messaged me like I
was going to reimburse you for some of what you
paid for the parking, but since you gave that one
star review, here's the invoice for the gas that you
didn't put.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
In the car.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
Here's an invoice where you parked the car in an
inconvenience feet and where you parked to pay the dollars.
That's petty, And I'm like, I'm not doing shit. I'm
not paying shit. I'm calling to a never called to
a row. They like, you got an invoice, We're going
to send it to collections if you don't pay it.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Damn, I'm not paying that ship.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
I'm so mad about this fifty dollars parking Like I'm so,
I'm telling you I will never use toorrow again.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Why don't you apologize to him and maybe he'll.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
That's my ass, apologize him for what he made me
pay fifty dollars. You don't pick up a car and
then have to pay for where they parked it.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Oh my gosh. Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
Yeah, so I can't use Toro and now I might
have an invoice going to collections, but I'm hoping like
they just talking that ship to try to get me
to pay it, Like you're really going to send this
whele fifty dollars.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
You can always take it's to small claims court.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
I'm not paying that ship. I'm telling you that right now.
I'm not paying that ship. So we'll see what happens.
That's my petty thing of the week. And I don't
know if I'm petty he's I think he's petty.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
For for Yeah, you both petty, that was a whole lot.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
That was a whole lot.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
I was like, okay, all right, I guess I can't
use to ro anymore, but whatever, what about you do anything?
Speaker 2 (07:48):
I petty over the break because we haven't been.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Here allowed to talk about this.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Oh yeah, we have to talk about.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
It because it's supposed to We'll we'll, we'll do code
the way we can do.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I don't kicked.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
I don't care because you know this isn't This is
in every city, right, it's not just Laing. I don't
know why we can't talk about it because everybody knows about.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
It, all right, I mean everybody knows about it.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Doesn't everybody know about it? It's in every city.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Did you know about it before?
Speaker 3 (08:14):
No?
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Actually, oh god, I think I didn't know about it.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
I think you didn't know about it too. I think
I told you about it.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
Yeah, I told you about it because I had another
situation with that group.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Well, listen, this is what happened.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
There's this group called what's it called Are We Dating
the Same Man?
Speaker 5 (08:29):
Yeah, something like that, something about it's about dating in
the city that you're in. It's a it's a group
for dating in the city that you're in, and it's
kind of a group of community of like people. If
you are dating somebody, or if you're interested in somebody,
or if you know something about somebody, typically of the
male gender, you can post that into the group and
(08:49):
they'll respond like, Oh that's my boyfriend or oh that's
my ex.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
I think it's a very helpful group because I'm here
in La baby for everybody.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
I was never posting anybody that I was ever dating
in there, like are you kidding me?
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Well, from now on, I think I might.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
I was going to ask you, girl, I want to
ask you that off air actually, like are you would
you ever do it?
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I was, especially because my whole man was just posting
are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (09:12):
And I was like, oh, I get a tax familiar.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I get a text from Kayla.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Right, and it's a screen a screen grab of posts
that was posted in there, and it was like, I
don't I forget what it said. But the girl was like, Hey,
does anybody know anything about this guy? It seems a
little bit too good to be true. I just want
to know if I should pursue or something like that.
Why was there seventy one comments and counting seventy one
(09:41):
comments and counting people's talking about, oh, I've seen him
up here before. Another woman was in there talking about
oh yeah, I used to talk to him. Here's a
screenshot of our of our text messages. He's in my
inbox right now, like it was a bunch of different stuff,
right and Kayla says it to me, and the whole time.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
It's the guy that I've been talking to for the
past six months.
Speaker 5 (10:02):
And I met him and I thought he was very nice.
I really did, and I thought he well, we thought
like he loved you. He loved you so much, and
he expressed it. And turns out he was expressing that
to a lot of.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
People, the whole lot of people here in La.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
But the thing is, I don't really care because this
is somebody that I never cared about, and I had
always felt bad because I felt like I was the
f boy in the situation.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
I would ignore him. I just wasn't feeling it.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
There was something about him that I just wasn't quite
sure of, and I was like, I'll keep him, sorry,
but I was like, I'll keep him around for drinks
whenever on board or for this or for that. But
like I never could really click with him. I remember
I said, I didn't really like his person now, it
was just something that wasn't right. But also he wasn't
consistent from the moment that I met him. He like
(10:51):
was would always make all these big promises, Oh I'm
gonna do this, I'm gonna take you here, and then
cancel like an hour before.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
That's like my biggest pet peace. Yeah right, it's a fax.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
So I was over it, like I was over at
month one. But sometimes he would put you know, like
you know, we would have made up for drinks or
and it became to the point where like I wouldn't
really respond to his text messages or I would like
I would ghost him for a few weeks, and he
would always come back and be like please baby, like
I missed you, blah blah blah. I had to block
him one time because he was doing too much. He
(11:22):
called me off of a block number, like he was
really trying all the.
Speaker 5 (11:26):
Efforts to get in touch with you. You are not cutting
me off. I am not getting out of your life,
like I love you.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
And he even told me he loved me one time,
and I was like, what, like, I don't even talk
to you, like I give you the bare minimum?
Speaker 1 (11:37):
What do you mean you? But okay, Cayley, but all right,
let's say it again.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
So I don't really care, so it doesn't really bother
me about this situation. Because I actually like and then
while I was talking to him, was talking to other
people as well, so it didn't really matter to me.
But I still decided to crash out because I wanted to.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Right, because that's what Kayla's do.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
So I see that and everyone's like, Kayla, how are you?
What are you about to do? What do you just
ignore it?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
You don't even really talk to the last time you've
seen him was two months ago anyway, or a month ago,
And I was like, no, this nigga was just in
my phone like three days ago, talking about when I
was out at Morton's with a friend and he's talking
about come to third base, come to third base, And
you know what.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
I almost went. What if I had went, Kayla.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
You would have got some free drinks, had a great time.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
And then so I'm on the Facebook app but whatever,
Like you never had to set your wallet. He was fun,
But Kayla, honestly, like you never spoke too fondly of him.
I did it from day one, like he put you
off when when he said something that you didn't like,
you were like, wait a.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Minute, oh wait should I say what?
Speaker 2 (12:44):
I think? I don't know?
Speaker 5 (12:45):
You forgot about that? Yeah, that was like, that was
before y'all even took each other seriously.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Think that set the tone for the whole relationship.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
I forgot about this and that's probably why I have
such a bad taste in my mouth from him. He
is not black. He could pass for black, but he
is Mexican, right, and he's cute. But I had to
ask him. I was like, are you mixed with some
type of black? Because he just looks like the eyes,
like the skim complexion like he. I was like, you
are not full Mexican. You have something black and you
(13:17):
and so when he he said no, and then we
were having a conversation and he says the N word
so freely and I said what did you just say?
And he's like, oh, my bad. And I was like,
don't ever say that again, like please, you know. He
was like, well, it's a part of my vocabulary. And
(13:38):
if you can't handle that, then we can't date click
block period, call me.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Off of a block number.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
I won't say it.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
I'm sorry, give me an ex trying to give me
an explanation, Blase Black.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
He was like, you know, it's just where I grew
up from.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
It's where I came from, Like you know, I grew
up in the hood. I'm all my friends were black,
and it's just all. It's all I know. And I
was like, I can understand that because a lot of
people here in LA actually do say their word, and
they are not black culture. It's a culture thing out here,
which is so foreign to me from the East Coast.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
We hear you say that out there.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Oh you're getting beat up right, Like it's I don't
care if you were, you will have five black friends.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
You're not.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
I note.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
I really hate that our trauma word like something that
caused our people so much trauma that you can never
say about another another race. You can't call another race
or any other ethnicity there there you know, trigger word.
But ours is just a part of pop culture. And
I just like we are the only people that that
happens to. Ye, it's so infuriating, but continue your story.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Yeah, so I had to say I understand that, but like,
at least around me, I don't feel comfortable, So you
can't say that here is And.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
I don't know why. I think after that, I was.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
Like that the idea of being in a relationship with
him or what that was done for, And that's when
I started fading away, and then I guess I link
right back up with him when I was bored with
for some drinks and whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
So that that, I think, you.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Know, that's how.
Speaker 5 (15:02):
That's how when you when you first start dating again,
that's how you get your feet wet a little bit.
You know, you play around with the first one a
little bit. What you're willing to take now, willing to
take what you can get away with, but you can't
get away with.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
I think he was the perfect person for that.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Yeah, he really was the first person I started dating
after my ex because I took a whole year off
and then it was and then it was this guy, and.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
I think he was He was a good He was
a good one.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Yes, you didn't care because I did not care exactly exactly.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
But I thought it was funny how in a Facebook group,
one girl posted a screenshot of a message that she
he said to her, and it was it was like,
ooh Jesus, let me hit it again. And she was like,
you remember the last time that that happened? We did
it and he goes, no, what she goes, you lasted
two seconds?
Speaker 1 (15:43):
He goes, won't happen again?
Speaker 2 (15:47):
And then another comment like, girl, his two pumps ain't
worth it?
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Yes at all? Stop if I listen.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
So to wrap this up, I mean, of course I
had to say something to him.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Are you kidding me? Like I just talked to you
three days ago, so I thought you love me. I went,
I just you moving nasty out here.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Your profile is up for eighty nine thousand women in
LA to state, and I hope you know that we.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Are on to you. You are nasty, you are pathetic
two pumps. Oh jeez, oh jeez. Yeah, I went in.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
I didn't need to do that, but I respond. He
responded with a drake meme, I hate thee yes what
the part of the drink is like looking at his
phone and he's like, wow, that's hit us.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
All you have to say? So I had to go
again and no response.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
You probably blocked okay, I mean I blocked you.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
But also like I think he got out it as
a as a two point there. There were other accusations
in the in the in the comments there.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Grin oh shit, Cayla said, yeah, so that that's what
it was.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
That's that's another thing I said out here.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
That was like you moving nasty out here, and you
aren't grinder, like you can't be moving nasty y'ut here
and they expect not to be called out.
Speaker 5 (17:12):
Like and then I don't know if you saw one
of theotle comments was like people be up in here
lying half y'all don't even notice man, why y'all in
these comments? And it's just like which one of your
friends joined this group to say that? And two That's
one reason why I wouldn't post my man in that group,
because I feel like there are a lot of shady
people out there that don't want to see you happy.
(17:33):
They'll see your fine man. I'd be like, oh, he's available,
he's good. Let me comment some ship and then find
it myself. That's the only reason I wouln't. I would
hope not I post my man.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
I would hope not because the point of the group
is just like to help other women.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Why are you intentionally.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Joy and a girls girl.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
That's crazy to you until it happens to you.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Right exactly. So I'm like, you know, what if I
meant to find out something me and God.
Speaker 5 (17:57):
I've been finding out things before this Facebook group, Lord knows,
Lord knows. Actually I got invited to my ex's celebrity
basketball game over the past weekend.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
I saw.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
That's funny.
Speaker 5 (18:09):
If you was like you, it would have been a
great If you weren't in Maryland, you would have had
a blast.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
It was a very good time. K I wanted you
to come.
Speaker 5 (18:17):
But yeah, I was like, I can never date a
basketball player. The amount of women that were there squeezing him,
like grabbing his arms, like I know they weren't all
female friendships. I'm like, oh Jesus, what was I dealing with.
I was probably getting played left and right with that
one too. But I wouldn'tost him in a Facebook group
because when I don't want to see it into.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Like, oh shit, that would want to break exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Why did you go?
Speaker 5 (18:44):
I was invited and it was something to do. It
was a great networking opportunity. And you know, if I
could just you know, see him when I say, hey,
I have a boyfriend, now.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
You know, get a reaction. I didn't. I didn't get it.
Only sounds like a nice spelling. You should have invited.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
Him, Oh my goodness.
Speaker 5 (19:01):
Okay, yeah, next time will next time I will so
But it was a really, really, really good time. It
was actually the funniest basketball game I've ever been to
in the history of life. Both teams were just really,
really bad, so it was it seemed like a comedy game.
I don't think they were intentionally bad, but it was
just very It was a.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Really good time. I think you would have.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Blast oh had fun?
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Yeah, good time.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Petty things our listeners have done.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
This girl tried to walk out of my salon without
paying after I spent six hours on her knot list Braise,
So I chased her with scissors and cut us cut
off as much as I could.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I've seen this on TikTok a lot.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I've seen it a few times as well.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
People really be out here like trying to walk out
after you. That's why I feel like you should pay
up front.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
You think maybe half upfront.
Speaker 5 (19:50):
I just I also don't appreciate having to pay if
you didn't do it right, or if you didn't do
what I asked for Now I'm not getting a really
fun so I think I go both ways. But the
thing that did bother me when I saw the one
on TikTok was it was like a fourteen year old
or fifteen year old, did you see her? And she
got dragged by her stylist back down the steps because
they said that she was trying to run out.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
She claims that she wasn't.
Speaker 5 (20:10):
She was going outside to get the money from whoever,
and the silas like dragged her back down, not buy
her air.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
She didn't have to drag her.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
She dragged. But I don't think she knew that she
was a child.
Speaker 5 (20:21):
And the stylust was like nineteen to be fair, so
like maybe fifteen or nineteen. But at the same time,
she's like, oh, yeah, you just never know who you're
putting your hands on. And if it was like my
little sister or that's a problem, that's a huge problem.
But what do you think you're on the stylis side.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
I just I was.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
I mean, yeah, I would run after you too, and
with scissors and try to cut us much off? Are
you kidding me? Like you're not about to walk out
on me? Like period, you know you won't give me
my three hundred dollars.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
It's not cheap.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Yeah, it's not cheap and it's not easy. But this
happens a lot from back from where I'm from. Yeah,
they didn't really, they did it in Philly a lot.
Sorry to call out Philly, but be back hilarious. Yeah,
so I don't know.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
It's shasty. Didn't get a service trying to pay for it?
That is a nasty work. So what you get, you get. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (21:03):
I can't stand my boss. She does everything in her
power to make my life miserable. I asked my therapist
how I handled this situation, and she told me to
kill them with kindness. Oh my god, I didn't see
the kindness part. So I decided to bring my boss
lunch one day. But it was a restaurant I knew
she hated. Oh I love that.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
That's good, that's cute, that's like wholesome, petty.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Yeah, but if it was me, I noticed that you're
trying to that.
Speaker 5 (21:27):
You're trying to play me right, like you know said,
I hated that rest.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
So why would you be like work for you, extra
work for you? Okay, let's talk about Love Island.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Can I just say that Love Island is consuming every
bit of my brain lately. It's all I can think about.
It's all I don't look at me like that.
Speaker 5 (21:50):
No, I was literally thinking like their marketing is excellent.
Because even if you've never heard of this show or
you've never watched the show, like it's all over your feed,
every platform you're in, and it's literally taking over the world.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
Nick Alandria is like, what I Oh my god, I
want that to happen so bad.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
You have no idea.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Oh my god, it's not just like my sister. Really,
I don't see it.
Speaker 5 (22:10):
But I also don't watch every episode like I watch,
and Alia tells me everything, So I don't watch all
of them. But when I do watch, they had a
hot kiss. It was hot and sexy, and I think
Sierra and Nick are really like, you.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
Know, I feel like, deep down the reason why I
feel like I feel like Nick was going off of
Olandria's vibe and she was so obsessed with Taylor that
she wouldn't even open herself up to even as the
possibility of being with Nick. So but he shut it
down before she could. So she was like, he was like,
we should just be friends. But I think he he said,
(22:44):
you're the most beautiful girl that I've ever laid my
eyes on, the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in
my lifetime.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Like I think he really the way.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
That he kisses her and then challenges, like the way
he looks at her hot, I can't I don't believe
that he just doesn't feel any thing for her, but
I think he knows how obsess she is with Taylor.
Speaker 1 (23:03):
Which can we talk. We've all been to a Landria
at one point.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I hate that for us.
Speaker 3 (23:09):
I hate I need my girl Alandria to stand up,
stand up, stand up.
Speaker 5 (23:14):
Jalen loved her, Jalen was all about her. There's literally
no connection with Olandria and Taylor, Like when they kiss
is so awkward. I suffer from secondhand embarrassment every single time.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
Well, I mean it's clear to us as the viewers,
because not only do we see what's happening on our screen,
we hear his confessionals, we hear how he talks to
Nick about Olandria, so we know he's not physically attracted
to her unfortunately right, But she doesn't know these things.
So in her head, like she thinks, oh, we're just
slow if I hear the words slow burn one worth
time shut okay, she thinks that well, that they're just
(23:50):
a slow burn, but it's gonna manifest into something that's blah.
But we know, on the other hand that it's not.
You're right about the kisses, like he like, ah, what
the fuck is this.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
I hate it.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
I hate it.
Speaker 5 (24:01):
And I thought he just wasn't a good kisser until
I saw all the way he was with Clark. I said, oh, uh, huh,
you're not just socially awkward. Oh you're not just a
bad kisser, Like you got it. You just really don't like.
Speaker 3 (24:14):
Her right Like he was kissing all on her forehead,
like the tongued all like rubbing.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
Over the body language like leaning in, like all over
each other, super cuddled up, and well that's well.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
My thing is like, why couldn't he have said this
from the beginning, like if he wasn't attracted.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
And that's the thing, the problem that I have with
this cast.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
They are more interested in that one hundred thousand dollars
than trying to actually actually find real connections because it's
not that bad to be single, Like they're gonna bring
a bombshell and you can try to connect with other people.
You could have tried for somebody at Huddo or Hannah
or somebody like you didn't have to stay with the Landria,
but instead you did. You breadcrumbed her, and you gave
her the idea that this was actually gonna be something.
(24:54):
So now she's cutting off any possibility with anybody else.
Speaker 5 (24:58):
I feel as though Olen is drop dead gorgeous, like
literally so flawlessly beautiful body, face, smile, cheekbones, everything. I
think that she is highly insecure because I think that
she wants Taylor to want her back so badly. And
I know you say it's clear to us as the viewers,
(25:18):
but I think also sometimes the way he acts, in
the way he moves with you is telling to you
as well. You just don't want to see it, or
you want to win his love because you had somebody
who is genuinely all about you and you didn't want
to give that a chance. Maybe it was too easy,
or maybe you like being treated like you're less then,
but for forever reason, she wanted to win tailor because
he didn't want her. It's like I need to be
wanted by you who doesn't want me, And I ain't
(25:40):
know psychiatrists not working radio, you know. I just that's
just how I feel. I just she does it. She
has no reason in this world's be insecure. And you
could be as beautiful as you want to be in
my eyes, like you could be as beautiful as you
want to be in the world's eyes. But if you
don't believe it for yourself or you don't see it,
then you're just you just don't believe it, you don't
see it, and you're gonna be there.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
What gave me that inkling is how she was, like,
you know, I've been single for five years. I've had
to be strong my whole life. And you can tell
that she has so much pented up hurt and trauma
of some sort. Not trying to diagnose anybody, but you
can tell, you know, because she didn't. She didn't even
like we haven't even seen her breakdown and cry and
(26:19):
in those situations when.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
She got sent home.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
But you can tell that she's always had to be
that strong friend. She's always had to.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Be strong for other people, and so she refuses to
let anybody see her vulnerable side.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
But I agree, I feel like, I mean, I've.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
Been Orlandria before, where I've I want it so badly,
I have I romanticized it in my head so much
that I want to make it work at all costs,
and I will ignore the red the red flags for Orlandria.
I mean, she she said, well, why don't we have
a handshake. I don't have a handshake with anybody, And
he said, well, maybe you're just not like ha ha
ha haa in her face, that's not funny.
Speaker 5 (26:57):
Every every joke has a hint or a bit of truth,
and he really don't like her.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
And I was recently talking to somebody who would make
little jokes like that, and I would just be like, Oh,
that's just his personality or that's just him, like he's
just a roaster, low key. But like, I just feel
like the person that you care about you handle with
care and tenderness, and you don't make any type of
jokes that were remotely even close to like hurt their
feelings like that. And so him saying something like that,
(27:23):
I think he meant it.
Speaker 5 (27:25):
Yeah, it's so hard for me because like the way
you said, he meant it was real funny. But I
feel like, because I'm the youngest of five siblings, I
have three older brothers, and if you have brother child,
you just have brothers, you know what it's like, like
there's no mercy given from your siblings.
Speaker 2 (27:40):
So you kind of like.
Speaker 5 (27:40):
Expect that in friendships too, if you get close enough
to roast each other. But I do, I do, So
I struggle to find that line for when it's like
when you love me like a sister and you're joking
with me like that, or when you're really trying to
play with me right now, right, So I just I
don't tolerate it from romantic interest, like I don't like that,
Like my boyfriend better never do that.
Speaker 3 (27:59):
And like their conversations weren't even there was nothing of substance.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
It was more about like, how are you feeling? Yeah,
we're just slow burning.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Like if I had so awkward yeah, but so awkward
friend zoned her.
Speaker 3 (28:13):
He did, and so all in all, the that's the
very last episode that we saw as of right now,
we're recording this on Sunday. The episode has not come
out yet, so that's where we're reacting to what we
saw on Friday.
Speaker 5 (28:23):
Right because by the time drops on Wednesday's gonna be
three episodes out since then.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
Yeah, no two because Wednesday two right on.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Oh well, she might have stood up by then, but yeah,
Like she got up on that stage and basically begged
him to choose her and did the whole photo booth
thing with the kiss on the back, and he kind
of basically just was like, you know, and then he
(28:54):
chose Clark and it was just I don't know, it's
just it was very sad.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
I'm interested to see their dynamic.
Speaker 5 (28:59):
Now on the good question, I know, I know we're
wrapping this up, this part up, but do you feel
like Clark was wrong?
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Like, do you think Clark's a bad guy?
Speaker 3 (29:08):
I feel like she went there. She did she she
did what she was meant to do there. Right, that's
the point of love Island is to an a bombshell. Right,
is to take your man, explore a connection.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
She did what she had to do.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
But I don't appreciate her slick comments, her side eye
talking about hi, good morning Islanders.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
Yet we caught that Clark cat.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
Oh No, when ORLANDI Orlandria and Nick woke up and
was like, good morning Islanders, she walks off.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
And goes, good morning Islanders. O we peeps, we peep.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
I mean I feel you, I feel you. I feel you.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Also, what was funny when uh Taylor chose you?
Speaker 5 (29:48):
She started laughing. No, it was who wouldn't be happy
they were chosen? It's like, I'm so giddy, that's me.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
This is not the.
Speaker 2 (29:58):
I got the man. I came in for love. I
got me some tailor.
Speaker 5 (30:03):
Yeah, I'm sorry, to that girl, I gotta put yourself
in Clark's shoes.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
And her and Taylor had a real connection. You mean it.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
You go into this house, you have a real connection
with a man that you find fun. You don't know
about this past yeat with this girl. You don't give
a ship. I want this man.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
This man chooses you like you're happy.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
I understand.
Speaker 3 (30:22):
But it's like the microaggression towards Landria Orlandria right, It's
like the maybe she just got resting b face at
the end of the day.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
I don't really fuck with Alandria. She my competition. MA,
man might choose you. I don't fuck with you. Listen.
Speaker 5 (30:36):
I'm a girl's girl, through and through, through and through.
They had no friendship. She knows that man. She wants
that man.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
I just think Clark is getting unecessary hate.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
I said what I said, no, And also she went
in the confessional talking about I don't like being called
a test.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
I don't. I'm a test.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
She ain't.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
Yeah, that's the point of a cossup, right is to
be tested. You are a test. I just like, I
just feel like she needs to fix her face. She
needs to stop with like the just like she looks
like she got an attitude all the time. Stop with
the slick comments. Honestly, the next time we get to vote,
she and Taylor will be exploring their connection at Fiji International.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
Airport, America, sending them home.
Speaker 3 (31:21):
Right, that's it, that's it, that's all all right, all right,
let's get into Betty Award of the Week. Okay, So
I want to give mine to bad Baby. No, everyone
in bad Baby's comments. So she recently tweeted out what
female rapper ruins every song they get on with someone.
I'm trying to see something, and everyone in the comments,
(31:42):
including me, commented.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
You, Tayla, shut up, that is so funny. That is
so funny.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
Did I don't think? She deleted and everyone was like you,
that's it.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
That's I don't know.
Speaker 5 (31:58):
If you saw this interview with you. Simone's trending lately.
So she did an interview on a podcast with her
best friend. I didn't listen to the entirety of the interview.
I will be honest in that. But what TikTok has
taught me while was this best friend is opening up
to be someone about all the struggles that she's been
through and be someone's response.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
For me with so Patty being a best friend with
a celebrity, everybody thinks that, oh, because you're connected to
this person, then your life is just as.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
Grand as theirs or you. You guys stay helping you.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
Maybe didn't have a job, living with my parents, a
single mom. All this happened to me this past year, Jesus.
And then it's like to not have resentment in my
heart towards you because I saw you do this for
other people. I saw you give a check to somebody
to help them through whatever they went through. And it's
like God, like, nobody didn't give me a hand out.
But guess what that wasn't your responsibility. God had to
(32:54):
take me through that for my own season, for my
own thing. I had to get my car repossessed, Jesus,
I had to go through the fool stamps line. I
had to be on medicaid because whatever. He I'm building
my story too. But it's like, as a friend who
somebody who has it, it's hard to dig this.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
They're probably shocked that not even.
Speaker 5 (33:13):
Saying this right now, Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, be someone did
not give that one fuck Like I don't know if
you saw her facial expressions like it just she wasn't
there for her best friend in my eyes, like that
just is crazy work to me. Her response was super baddy.
Be someonch trended right now for a lot right now.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
Have you been seeing it?
Speaker 1 (33:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (33:32):
I feel like this whole situation is just showing that
Be Simone is not a good friend. And I will
say it just like that.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:37):
There was another situation where the other woman was talking
about how she called up be Simones to talk about
an accomplishment that she just you know, acquired or whatever,
and Be Simone had a very bland reaction hung up,
and she said that she had to call her back
after she prayed because she had some type of like
resentment in her heart because she wasn't involved at all
(33:58):
in uh like whatever accolade that her friend had won.
Speaker 5 (34:03):
And then for her to call her back and say,
I have the process. We have the process of how
this made me feel, like the way the news that
you just gave me made me feel? Yeah, how dare
you make my good news about you in your feelings
in this moment?
Speaker 2 (34:13):
Like that's crazy work right there.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
I would have never admitted that.
Speaker 3 (34:16):
I think that's that that would that is just crazy
to even like say out loud, but like the fact.
Speaker 2 (34:21):
That all, yeah, but she realized how crazy that is.
Speaker 3 (34:26):
How do you like not celebrate your friend? That just
shows that she might be like a low key hater,
Like why do you feel like the need to take
a take credit for your friend's accomplishments or be involved
in Her response to that was basically, she wants to
see everybody win as a whole. Everybody should be helping
every it should be a team, everybody's pulling weight. And
(34:47):
so the fact that she wasn't involved in a big
moment of her friend's life.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
I guess made her feel left out.
Speaker 5 (34:53):
I guess, but what Yeah, No, I think that I
can't tell if it's petty or personality, but she's not
a good friend. And then also she came off really
desperate in the interview with the baby. I don't know
if you saw that one either, but it was everybody
know that he knows that'd be someone who has had
(35:13):
a crush on the baby since the beginning of time.
So they were doing an interview together and she kept
trying to just make little remarks here and there to
see how far she could get out of the friendship zone.
He kept placing her right back there.
Speaker 2 (35:24):
Like you're my friend. Yeah, you're attractive, but you're just
my friend.
Speaker 5 (35:29):
So I think she has a lot of healing that
needs to be done, and I don't know what that is,
Like maybe the accomplishments or maybe the the money of
it all makes it feel makes her feel like worthy
of something, because yeah, yeah, she's she's not a good friend.
I don't know if she's what that looking for is
or what you want to be to other people or
in their life. But you have no control over that one.
Speaker 3 (35:51):
Yeah, I just don't think she's a good person, damn
at all. I really don't. Because I was done with
her when she was shitting on people with nine to five,
you know, and I thought it was very ironic how
she was just like make it make it seem like
we're not good enough or we're not entrepreneurs because we
work for somebody else. But then she gets on this
podcast now years later, and she's talking about how she
(36:12):
had to leave Bloomingdale's.
Speaker 2 (36:13):
For H and M crying because she at H.
Speaker 3 (36:16):
Yeah, I just think that we're continuously seeing her character
and I don't know, I just I personally have never
seen anything that I like.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
She always rubbed me the wrong way, and I used
to be a fan.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Yeah, and I had to turn away from her, especially
after her and her friend Megan kind of split up,
because I really like their podcast because it was about
God and.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Like witnessing and being a Christian.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
And then you know, you could kind of see b
Simone like slipping into like just like her own world
and getting wrapped up in things and it changing her.
And I think that's why her and Megan had to
split up, right, And now you're kind of seeing why.
Speaker 5 (36:49):
Yeah, I didn't judge it for the nine to five
thing too much. To be honest with you, I got
what she was saying, not that you know, she spoke
down on anybody with a nine to five. She just
said for her, she wants an entrepreneur who can get
her life in her mind mindset. I love the nine
to five I respected obviously I'm part of it, but
I didn't think that she uh she met with she.
I thought she came off wrong at that moment. But
what was off putting for me was I noticed that
(37:11):
she has a business mindset with everything, and she will
profit on any and everything whether it's God at the time,
whether it's oh, I just lost a close friend.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
I'm doing you know, private, that's right.
Speaker 3 (37:21):
Yeah, yeah, that jacky Oh passed away and she was
didn't her funeral close friends.
Speaker 5 (37:27):
I thought it was like you could join the exclusive
OnlyFans whatever and see me talk about how I'm feeling
in this moment losing my best friend. Baby, personal stories
about Jackie and that was That's what was off putting
for me.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Sim from me.
Speaker 3 (37:40):
But I forgot about that. Yeah, that I think she lost.
That's where she lost a lot of people, and she
lost a lot.
Speaker 1 (37:47):
Of her friends too. Yeah, like they cut her off
after that.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
That was that was that was really distasteful.
Speaker 5 (37:52):
That's why there's nothing that's off limits when it comes
to money with you, like like you'll do anything, so.
Speaker 2 (37:58):
Holywater, you know. Now I'm in the yeah.
Speaker 5 (38:00):
So, but she gives my Petty Award this week for
that Jesus, Jesus, I don't know if it's petty or
just awful.
Speaker 2 (38:06):
Will you give it too.
Speaker 3 (38:07):
I'm gonna give it to the comments of that baby
because I just don't like vision.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
All right, I like that one. Let's do it.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Yeah, pey, okay, bye?
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Okay, bye. Now that's getting a petty mail. Dear Kayla
and Kayla.
Speaker 5 (38:32):
I've got a situation that might fall squarely in the
petty category, but I need an outside opinion before I
turn into the villain of this friendship. One of my
close friends, let's call her Jazz. She has a habit
of forgetting the venmo me back. I'll cover coffee, concert tickets,
group dinners, and she always says I'll send it later. Spoiler,
she rarely does. The amounts aren't huge, but it's adding
(38:54):
up and worse. It's making me feel like the front
version of a tab at a bar than no one
intends to close. So now I've started going silent when
the check comes, no offers, no reaching for my card.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
I just sit back and smile. Is that patty? Should
I confront her?
Speaker 5 (39:10):
Or am I perfectly justified in going full best and
going full passive aggressive accountant? Help me sort this out
before I invoice her for emotional damage.
Speaker 3 (39:21):
I definitely think it's a conversation, you know, because I
don't know. I just feel like when a deal comes
to money, I don't play at all. So yeah, I
think if that's actually your friend, you should be able
to say hey, like or me, I would say it
in a joking way, girl, I picked up the last
few times?
Speaker 1 (39:37):
When is your turn?
Speaker 4 (39:38):
You know?
Speaker 3 (39:39):
Also I don't know her financial situation too, so maybe
like a real conversation is worth having, Hey girl, Like,
you know, I paid for this, this, this, and this,
Like I'm not asking for you to pay me back
right away, but is there ever gonna be a time
where you do?
Speaker 4 (39:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (39:54):
I like that.
Speaker 5 (39:54):
I think I think definitely confront of it, confronting it.
I hate passive aggression, like especially depending on like some
I call a friend, I'm not about the passive aggressive
with It's always a conversation with me.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
So I feel like I'll be like, hey, girl, when
you're gonna vemmo me? Yeah, exactly like you good? Can
you vemmo me? Or what's up?
Speaker 5 (40:13):
You got something like that? But no, passive aggressive and
friendship don't go in the same sentence for me. But yeah,
good luck with that girl.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
Good luck?
Speaker 2 (40:20):
All right?
Speaker 1 (40:21):
What you got coming up this week?
Speaker 2 (40:23):
My men's coming to town.
Speaker 5 (40:24):
I'm so excited. I just said, doing him very much.
And because I'm in love, that's all I'm focused on
right now. So okay, whatever else is whatever, what about you?
Speaker 3 (40:36):
I can't even think right now, right nothing, I guess.
I mean it's for the July weekend next week, so
I'm going. All I know is that I'm going to
a day party next weekend with a bunch of people.
This upcoming week, I don't have any interviews because it's
a short week, so I really don't got nothing but
love Island fun.
Speaker 2 (40:52):
Yeah, I and we'll see them next week.
Speaker 5 (40:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
Make sure you follow us at the Pettyish podcast
Speaker 1 (40:57):
Kayla Thomas forty at Austin Fie
The Petty Ish Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Welcome back to Petty Ish. I'm Kayla.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Hi, I'm Kayla.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
How was your week? Kayla?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Good? I just came back from the East Coast.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
How was your first time home in like four years?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Yeah, it was like almost two, I think, But it
was really like it was bittersweet because I just miss home,
you know, Like it was niceeing all my friends and
my family, but bitter because I had to come back here.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
And not that I don't like it here and not
that I'm not happy here, but I think this has
just been a really tough year.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, with the.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Fires and then I go was sick, and then like
now the ice raids, and it's just like LA is
just this isn't the time to be in La right now.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
So it was very peaceful going home.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
I got to go to my hometown radio station too,
and I'm on there on the weekends. But I got
to go there and see like all my friends that
that work there, And I grew up listening to that
radio station, so I've always dreamed of being on there.
So now that I have a weekend slot, it's so
cool and I actually got to be there and do
it live.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
This time.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So I love that.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Yeah, it was really nice. It was a quick trip.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I I were you there, It was only like three days,
four days. It wasn't And the reason why I didn't
take a longer time is because I had just taken
two weeks or three weeks off for being sick, and
even though that's sick time and this is vacation, I
just felt weird taking off a week so soon after
all that. So I was just like, I'll go for
the family reunion, see who I can see at the time,
(01:44):
and then just come back. So hopefully this is later
this year, I'll be able to go back and stay longer.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Yeah, I cry every single time I come back to
La Like, and I've been living here for going on
six years in January, and every time I leave my
family and I'm back on a flight, it's years just coming.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I love it here.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
I love the people, and I love my friends. But yeah,
home is almost where the heart is. Home is where
life is.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Yeah I know.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
And so everyone's like, well, do you think you'll move back?
And I'm like, no, I don't think I've completed what
I've needed to be done here in.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
La I still love my job.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I still love everything about this, but eventually, who's to say,
you know, who's to say what will happen in the future.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
So yeah, that's my mindset exactly.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Like I love LA, I don't think it's forever, but
I definitely don't feel complete or I gotten everything I
was supposed to get out of moving.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Yes, so far away from everything I'm used to.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
It was just like being home. It felt like home.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
I don't think this place has ever felt like home
home for me. Yeah, And I think it's just because
I have no family out here. Yeah, and I don't
know if it ever will. It just seems like a
place where it's just so fast, and it just seems
like a place where to pursue your dreams, do the
big shit, and then go get out.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Yeah. I love, love, love my community here.
Speaker 5 (02:59):
I feel like I've did a decent job back creating
my own family out here, including yourself, Like you're a
part of my family out here.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
But home is home.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Yeah, home is different, different, especially like with me getting
sick kind of was a wake up call for me. Yeah,
I don't know, like what everything kind of changed after that,
And not that I didn't have a good support system
out here.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
But like.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I would, I would feel bad, like I don't know
how to say it.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
I feel bad asking continuously asking friends for things, right
whereas family is forever. I can comment Auntie at whatever
time and she'll come and help me out if I'm
feeling not well. And so a lot of the times
when I'm having like and I don't feel well, like
I just don't say anything. And so I think, I think,
(03:48):
like eventually it's gonna be time for me to not
saying my loops is gonna get so bad that I
can't like live on my own, But like, I think
it's just makes more sense and.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
It's more realistic to go home eventually.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah, eventually eventually.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
And your mom also told you when you got sick,
like Hayler bring that as Yeah, yeah, that's another reason. Yeah,
so we'll see, yeah, we'll say, we'll say home is
always there, though, and la is always here.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
You know, nothing changing, and you killed it or you're
killing it out here.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Still so so much more to do, so much more
to do, and you know I'm here as as you know.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Anyway, I can see, I guess how about you.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I got tongue tied in that sense. My week was good.
Speaker 5 (04:25):
I went to Atlanta for the first time ever, visited
my bestie. Her kid turned too, so I went to
second birthday party. Atlanta was hot, the food was good,
the vibes were great. Sunday I spent an extra day there.
Oh you know what, Yeah, I spent an extra day
in Atlanta because my bestie had to go to Seattle
(04:48):
for work or something like that, and it was like
Father's Day weekend, so I didn't want to spend the
time with her husband. So I got a hotel, I
rented a car, and I was like, I'm trying to
explore Atlanta by myself, explore the city, and and Sunday
came and I just felt like I don't want to
do anything. Actually, I just got some food. I had
the perfect view of the airport. I had a bottle
(05:08):
of wine. I just watched planes take off all Sunday.
Like I'm like, what a waste of a trip to Atlanta?
Like I did nothing. But my other best friend from
high school lives Aliena now, so it was nice to
catch up for her with her. I haven't seen her
in years. So she came to my hotel room and
we kicked it for a few hours. That was really nice.
Atlanta is actually really nice. But I did have an
issue with my Touro. So I rented a car, and
(05:29):
it's my least to my petty thing because we took
off for a little while, obviously because you know, we
were both away. But I did a few petty things
this week. So I rented a Touro. Have you used
to row before?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
So I rented a Touro And it's people who airbnbf cars,
So people who have extra cars, they just let you
pick them up.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Whatever.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
I rented one from the airport and as I'm leaving
the airport, it charged me fifty dollars like where they
parked the car to exit the airport. And I'm just
like fifty dollars, Like that's crazy. So I messaged the
guy this host, like, hey, I had to be fifty
dollars for where you parked the car. How can I
expect reimbursement? Like how do you plan on reimbursing me?
He never responded, never responded, So it's my trip came
to an end.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
It's time for me to return the car.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
When he did respond, he told me the car takes
premium gas and this is where I expect you to
park it to pick it up. Fuck your gas, fuck
your car, Like I just paid fifty dollurs where you
parked cars. I was so mad. I didn't put gas
in the car. I parked it wherever because find your car.
I don't give a shit, like I just had to
be fifty hours of parking, super petty. And then I
(06:32):
gave him a one star review because he just like
wasn't responsive.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I was so mad.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
So he got the review, and I guess he got
mad at me about that and messaged me like I
was going to reimburse you for some of what you
paid for the parking, but since you gave that one
star review, here's the invoice for the gas that you
didn't put.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
In the car.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
Here's an invoice where you parked the car in an
inconvenience feet and where you parked to pay the dollars.
That's petty, And I'm like, I'm not doing shit. I'm
not paying shit. I'm calling to a never called to
a row. They like, you got an invoice, We're going
to send it to collections if you don't pay it.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Damn, I'm not paying that ship.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
I'm so mad about this fifty dollars parking Like I'm so,
I'm telling you I will never use toorrow again.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Why don't you apologize to him and maybe he'll.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
That's my ass, apologize him for what he made me
pay fifty dollars. You don't pick up a car and
then have to pay for where they parked it.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Oh my gosh. Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
Yeah, so I can't use Toro and now I might
have an invoice going to collections, but I'm hoping like
they just talking that ship to try to get me
to pay it, Like you're really going to send this
whele fifty dollars.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
You can always take it's to small claims court.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
I'm not paying that ship. I'm telling you that right now.
I'm not paying that ship. So we'll see what happens.
That's my petty thing of the week. And I don't
know if I'm petty he's I think he's petty.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
For for Yeah, you both petty, that was a whole lot.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
That was a whole lot.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
I was like, okay, all right, I guess I can't
use to ro anymore, but whatever, what about you do anything?
Speaker 2 (07:48):
I petty over the break because we haven't been.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Here allowed to talk about this.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Oh yeah, we have to talk about.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
It because it's supposed to We'll we'll, we'll do code
the way we can do.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I don't kicked.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
I don't care because you know this isn't This is
in every city, right, it's not just Laing. I don't
know why we can't talk about it because everybody knows about.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
It, all right, I mean everybody knows about it.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Doesn't everybody know about it? It's in every city.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Did you know about it before?
Speaker 3 (08:14):
No?
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Actually, oh god, I think I didn't know about it.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
I think you didn't know about it too. I think
I told you about it.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
Yeah, I told you about it because I had another
situation with that group.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Well, listen, this is what happened.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
There's this group called what's it called Are We Dating
the Same Man?
Speaker 5 (08:29):
Yeah, something like that, something about it's about dating in
the city that you're in. It's a it's a group
for dating in the city that you're in, and it's
kind of a group of community of like people. If
you are dating somebody, or if you're interested in somebody,
or if you know something about somebody, typically of the
male gender, you can post that into the group and
(08:49):
they'll respond like, Oh that's my boyfriend or oh that's
my ex.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
I think it's a very helpful group because I'm here
in La baby for everybody.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
I was never posting anybody that I was ever dating
in there, like are you kidding me?
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Well, from now on, I think I might.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
I was going to ask you, girl, I want to
ask you that off air actually, like are you would
you ever do it?
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I was, especially because my whole man was just posting
are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (09:12):
And I was like, oh, I get a tax familiar.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I get a text from Kayla.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Right, and it's a screen a screen grab of posts
that was posted in there, and it was like, I
don't I forget what it said. But the girl was like, Hey,
does anybody know anything about this guy? It seems a
little bit too good to be true. I just want
to know if I should pursue or something like that.
Why was there seventy one comments and counting seventy one
(09:41):
comments and counting people's talking about, oh, I've seen him
up here before. Another woman was in there talking about
oh yeah, I used to talk to him. Here's a
screenshot of our of our text messages. He's in my
inbox right now, like it was a bunch of different stuff,
right and Kayla says it to me, and the whole time.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
It's the guy that I've been talking to for the
past six months.
Speaker 5 (10:02):
And I met him and I thought he was very nice.
I really did, and I thought he well, we thought
like he loved you. He loved you so much, and
he expressed it. And turns out he was expressing that
to a lot of.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
People, the whole lot of people here in La.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
But the thing is, I don't really care because this
is somebody that I never cared about, and I had
always felt bad because I felt like I was the
f boy in the situation.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
I would ignore him. I just wasn't feeling it.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
There was something about him that I just wasn't quite
sure of, and I was like, I'll keep him, sorry,
but I was like, I'll keep him around for drinks
whenever on board or for this or for that. But
like I never could really click with him. I remember
I said, I didn't really like his person now, it
was just something that wasn't right. But also he wasn't
consistent from the moment that I met him. He like
(10:51):
was would always make all these big promises, Oh I'm
gonna do this, I'm gonna take you here, and then
cancel like an hour before.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
That's like my biggest pet peace. Yeah right, it's a fax.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
So I was over it, like I was over at
month one. But sometimes he would put you know, like
you know, we would have made up for drinks or
and it became to the point where like I wouldn't
really respond to his text messages or I would like
I would ghost him for a few weeks, and he
would always come back and be like please baby, like
I missed you, blah blah blah. I had to block
him one time because he was doing too much. He
(11:22):
called me off of a block number, like he was
really trying all the.
Speaker 5 (11:26):
Efforts to get in touch with you. You are not cutting
me off. I am not getting out of your life,
like I love you.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
And he even told me he loved me one time,
and I was like, what, like, I don't even talk
to you, like I give you the bare minimum?
Speaker 1 (11:37):
What do you mean you? But okay, Cayley, but all right,
let's say it again.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
So I don't really care, so it doesn't really bother
me about this situation. Because I actually like and then
while I was talking to him, was talking to other
people as well, so it didn't really matter to me.
But I still decided to crash out because I wanted to.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Right, because that's what Kayla's do.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
So I see that and everyone's like, Kayla, how are you?
What are you about to do? What do you just
ignore it?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
You don't even really talk to the last time you've
seen him was two months ago anyway, or a month ago,
And I was like, no, this nigga was just in
my phone like three days ago, talking about when I
was out at Morton's with a friend and he's talking
about come to third base, come to third base, And
you know what.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
I almost went. What if I had went, Kayla.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
You would have got some free drinks, had a great time.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
And then so I'm on the Facebook app but whatever,
Like you never had to set your wallet. He was fun,
But Kayla, honestly, like you never spoke too fondly of him.
I did it from day one, like he put you
off when when he said something that you didn't like,
you were like, wait a.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Minute, oh wait should I say what?
Speaker 2 (12:44):
I think? I don't know?
Speaker 5 (12:45):
You forgot about that? Yeah, that was like, that was
before y'all even took each other seriously.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Think that set the tone for the whole relationship.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
I forgot about this and that's probably why I have
such a bad taste in my mouth from him. He
is not black. He could pass for black, but he
is Mexican, right, and he's cute. But I had to
ask him. I was like, are you mixed with some
type of black? Because he just looks like the eyes,
like the skim complexion like he. I was like, you
are not full Mexican. You have something black and you
(13:17):
and so when he he said no, and then we
were having a conversation and he says the N word
so freely and I said what did you just say?
And he's like, oh, my bad. And I was like,
don't ever say that again, like please, you know. He
was like, well, it's a part of my vocabulary. And
(13:38):
if you can't handle that, then we can't date click
block period, call me.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Off of a block number.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
I won't say it.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
I'm sorry, give me an ex trying to give me
an explanation, Blase Black.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
He was like, you know, it's just where I grew
up from.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
It's where I came from, Like you know, I grew
up in the hood. I'm all my friends were black,
and it's just all. It's all I know. And I
was like, I can understand that because a lot of
people here in LA actually do say their word, and
they are not black culture. It's a culture thing out here,
which is so foreign to me from the East Coast.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
We hear you say that out there.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Oh you're getting beat up right, Like it's I don't
care if you were, you will have five black friends.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
You're not.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
I note.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
I really hate that our trauma word like something that
caused our people so much trauma that you can never
say about another another race. You can't call another race
or any other ethnicity there there you know, trigger word.
But ours is just a part of pop culture. And
I just like we are the only people that that
happens to. Ye, it's so infuriating, but continue your story.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Yeah, so I had to say I understand that, but like,
at least around me, I don't feel comfortable, So you
can't say that here is And.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
I don't know why. I think after that, I was.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
Like that the idea of being in a relationship with
him or what that was done for, And that's when
I started fading away, and then I guess I link
right back up with him when I was bored with
for some drinks and whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
So that that, I think, you.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Know, that's how.
Speaker 5 (15:02):
That's how when you when you first start dating again,
that's how you get your feet wet a little bit.
You know, you play around with the first one a
little bit. What you're willing to take now, willing to
take what you can get away with, but you can't
get away with.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
I think he was the perfect person for that.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Yeah, he really was the first person I started dating
after my ex because I took a whole year off
and then it was and then it was this guy, and.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
I think he was He was a good He was
a good one.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Yes, you didn't care because I did not care exactly exactly.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
But I thought it was funny how in a Facebook group,
one girl posted a screenshot of a message that she
he said to her, and it was it was like,
ooh Jesus, let me hit it again. And she was like,
you remember the last time that that happened? We did
it and he goes, no, what she goes, you lasted
two seconds?
Speaker 1 (15:43):
He goes, won't happen again?
Speaker 2 (15:47):
And then another comment like, girl, his two pumps ain't
worth it?
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Yes at all? Stop if I listen.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
So to wrap this up, I mean, of course I
had to say something to him.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Are you kidding me? Like I just talked to you
three days ago, so I thought you love me. I went,
I just you moving nasty out here.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Your profile is up for eighty nine thousand women in
LA to state, and I hope you know that we.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Are on to you. You are nasty, you are pathetic
two pumps. Oh jeez, oh jeez. Yeah, I went in.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
I didn't need to do that, but I respond. He
responded with a drake meme, I hate thee yes what
the part of the drink is like looking at his
phone and he's like, wow, that's hit us.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
All you have to say? So I had to go
again and no response.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
You probably blocked okay, I mean I blocked you.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
But also like I think he got out it as
a as a two point there. There were other accusations
in the in the in the comments there.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Grin oh shit, Cayla said, yeah, so that that's what
it was.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
That's that's another thing I said out here.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
That was like you moving nasty out here, and you
aren't grinder, like you can't be moving nasty y'ut here
and they expect not to be called out.
Speaker 5 (17:12):
Like and then I don't know if you saw one
of theotle comments was like people be up in here
lying half y'all don't even notice man, why y'all in
these comments? And it's just like which one of your
friends joined this group to say that? And two That's
one reason why I wouldn't post my man in that group,
because I feel like there are a lot of shady
people out there that don't want to see you happy.
(17:33):
They'll see your fine man. I'd be like, oh, he's available,
he's good. Let me comment some ship and then find
it myself. That's the only reason I wouln't. I would
hope not I post my man.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
I would hope not because the point of the group
is just like to help other women.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Why are you intentionally.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Joy and a girls girl.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
That's crazy to you until it happens to you.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Right exactly. So I'm like, you know, what if I
meant to find out something me and God.
Speaker 5 (17:57):
I've been finding out things before this Facebook group, Lord knows,
Lord knows. Actually I got invited to my ex's celebrity
basketball game over the past weekend.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
I saw.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
That's funny.
Speaker 5 (18:09):
If you was like you, it would have been a
great If you weren't in Maryland, you would have had
a blast.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
It was a very good time. K I wanted you
to come.
Speaker 5 (18:17):
But yeah, I was like, I can never date a
basketball player. The amount of women that were there squeezing him,
like grabbing his arms, like I know they weren't all
female friendships. I'm like, oh Jesus, what was I dealing with.
I was probably getting played left and right with that
one too. But I wouldn'tost him in a Facebook group
because when I don't want to see it into.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Like, oh shit, that would want to break exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Why did you go?
Speaker 5 (18:44):
I was invited and it was something to do. It
was a great networking opportunity. And you know, if I
could just you know, see him when I say, hey,
I have a boyfriend, now.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
You know, get a reaction. I didn't. I didn't get it.
Only sounds like a nice spelling. You should have invited.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
Him, Oh my goodness.
Speaker 5 (19:01):
Okay, yeah, next time will next time I will so
But it was a really, really, really good time. It
was actually the funniest basketball game I've ever been to
in the history of life. Both teams were just really,
really bad, so it was it seemed like a comedy game.
I don't think they were intentionally bad, but it was
just very It was a.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Really good time. I think you would have.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Blast oh had fun?
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Yeah, good time.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Petty things our listeners have done.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
This girl tried to walk out of my salon without
paying after I spent six hours on her knot list Braise,
So I chased her with scissors and cut us cut
off as much as I could.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I've seen this on TikTok a lot.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I've seen it a few times as well.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
People really be out here like trying to walk out
after you. That's why I feel like you should pay
up front.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
You think maybe half upfront.
Speaker 5 (19:50):
I just I also don't appreciate having to pay if
you didn't do it right, or if you didn't do
what I asked for Now I'm not getting a really
fun so I think I go both ways. But the
thing that did bother me when I saw the one
on TikTok was it was like a fourteen year old
or fifteen year old, did you see her? And she
got dragged by her stylist back down the steps because
they said that she was trying to run out.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
She claims that she wasn't.
Speaker 5 (20:10):
She was going outside to get the money from whoever,
and the silas like dragged her back down, not buy
her air.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
She didn't have to drag her.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
She dragged. But I don't think she knew that she
was a child.
Speaker 5 (20:21):
And the stylust was like nineteen to be fair, so
like maybe fifteen or nineteen. But at the same time,
she's like, oh, yeah, you just never know who you're
putting your hands on. And if it was like my
little sister or that's a problem, that's a huge problem.
But what do you think you're on the stylis side.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
I just I was.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
I mean, yeah, I would run after you too, and
with scissors and try to cut us much off? Are
you kidding me? Like you're not about to walk out
on me? Like period, you know you won't give me
my three hundred dollars.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
It's not cheap.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Yeah, it's not cheap and it's not easy. But this
happens a lot from back from where I'm from. Yeah,
they didn't really, they did it in Philly a lot.
Sorry to call out Philly, but be back hilarious. Yeah,
so I don't know.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
It's shasty. Didn't get a service trying to pay for it?
That is a nasty work. So what you get, you get. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (21:03):
I can't stand my boss. She does everything in her
power to make my life miserable. I asked my therapist
how I handled this situation, and she told me to
kill them with kindness. Oh my god, I didn't see
the kindness part. So I decided to bring my boss
lunch one day. But it was a restaurant I knew
she hated. Oh I love that.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
That's good, that's cute, that's like wholesome, petty.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Yeah, but if it was me, I noticed that you're
trying to that.
Speaker 5 (21:27):
You're trying to play me right, like you know said,
I hated that rest.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
So why would you be like work for you, extra
work for you? Okay, let's talk about Love Island.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Can I just say that Love Island is consuming every
bit of my brain lately. It's all I can think about.
It's all I don't look at me like that.
Speaker 5 (21:50):
No, I was literally thinking like their marketing is excellent.
Because even if you've never heard of this show or
you've never watched the show, like it's all over your feed,
every platform you're in, and it's literally taking over the world.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
Nick Alandria is like, what I Oh my god, I
want that to happen so bad.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
You have no idea.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Oh my god, it's not just like my sister. Really,
I don't see it.
Speaker 5 (22:10):
But I also don't watch every episode like I watch,
and Alia tells me everything, So I don't watch all
of them. But when I do watch, they had a
hot kiss. It was hot and sexy, and I think
Sierra and Nick are really like, you.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
Know, I feel like, deep down the reason why I
feel like I feel like Nick was going off of
Olandria's vibe and she was so obsessed with Taylor that
she wouldn't even open herself up to even as the
possibility of being with Nick. So but he shut it
down before she could. So she was like, he was like,
we should just be friends. But I think he he said,
(22:44):
you're the most beautiful girl that I've ever laid my
eyes on, the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in
my lifetime.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Like I think he really the way.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
That he kisses her and then challenges, like the way
he looks at her hot, I can't I don't believe
that he just doesn't feel any thing for her, but
I think he knows how obsess she is with Taylor.
Speaker 1 (23:03):
Which can we talk. We've all been to a Landria
at one point.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I hate that for us.
Speaker 3 (23:09):
I hate I need my girl Alandria to stand up,
stand up, stand up.
Speaker 5 (23:14):
Jalen loved her, Jalen was all about her. There's literally
no connection with Olandria and Taylor, Like when they kiss
is so awkward. I suffer from secondhand embarrassment every single time.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
Well, I mean it's clear to us as the viewers,
because not only do we see what's happening on our screen,
we hear his confessionals, we hear how he talks to
Nick about Olandria, so we know he's not physically attracted
to her unfortunately right, But she doesn't know these things.
So in her head, like she thinks, oh, we're just
slow if I hear the words slow burn one worth
time shut okay, she thinks that well, that they're just
(23:50):
a slow burn, but it's gonna manifest into something that's blah.
But we know, on the other hand that it's not.
You're right about the kisses, like he like, ah, what
the fuck is this.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
I hate it.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
I hate it.
Speaker 5 (24:01):
And I thought he just wasn't a good kisser until
I saw all the way he was with Clark. I said, oh, uh, huh,
you're not just socially awkward. Oh you're not just a
bad kisser, Like you got it. You just really don't like.
Speaker 3 (24:14):
Her right Like he was kissing all on her forehead,
like the tongued all like rubbing.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
Over the body language like leaning in, like all over
each other, super cuddled up, and well that's well.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
My thing is like, why couldn't he have said this
from the beginning, like if he wasn't attracted.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
And that's the thing, the problem that I have with
this cast.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
They are more interested in that one hundred thousand dollars
than trying to actually actually find real connections because it's
not that bad to be single, Like they're gonna bring
a bombshell and you can try to connect with other people.
You could have tried for somebody at Huddo or Hannah
or somebody like you didn't have to stay with the Landria,
but instead you did. You breadcrumbed her, and you gave
her the idea that this was actually gonna be something.
(24:54):
So now she's cutting off any possibility with anybody else.
Speaker 5 (24:58):
I feel as though Olen is drop dead gorgeous, like
literally so flawlessly beautiful body, face, smile, cheekbones, everything. I
think that she is highly insecure because I think that
she wants Taylor to want her back so badly. And
I know you say it's clear to us as the viewers,
(25:18):
but I think also sometimes the way he acts, in
the way he moves with you is telling to you
as well. You just don't want to see it, or
you want to win his love because you had somebody
who is genuinely all about you and you didn't want
to give that a chance. Maybe it was too easy,
or maybe you like being treated like you're less then,
but for forever reason, she wanted to win tailor because
he didn't want her. It's like I need to be
wanted by you who doesn't want me, And I ain't
(25:40):
know psychiatrists not working radio, you know. I just that's
just how I feel. I just she does it. She
has no reason in this world's be insecure. And you
could be as beautiful as you want to be in
my eyes, like you could be as beautiful as you
want to be in the world's eyes. But if you
don't believe it for yourself or you don't see it,
then you're just you just don't believe it, you don't
see it, and you're gonna be there.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
What gave me that inkling is how she was, like,
you know, I've been single for five years. I've had
to be strong my whole life. And you can tell
that she has so much pented up hurt and trauma
of some sort. Not trying to diagnose anybody, but you
can tell, you know, because she didn't. She didn't even
like we haven't even seen her breakdown and cry and
(26:19):
in those situations when.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
She got sent home.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
But you can tell that she's always had to be
that strong friend. She's always had to.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Be strong for other people, and so she refuses to
let anybody see her vulnerable side.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
But I agree, I feel like, I mean, I've.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
Been Orlandria before, where I've I want it so badly,
I have I romanticized it in my head so much
that I want to make it work at all costs,
and I will ignore the red the red flags for Orlandria.
I mean, she she said, well, why don't we have
a handshake. I don't have a handshake with anybody, And
he said, well, maybe you're just not like ha ha
ha haa in her face, that's not funny.
Speaker 5 (26:57):
Every every joke has a hint or a bit of truth,
and he really don't like her.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
And I was recently talking to somebody who would make
little jokes like that, and I would just be like, Oh,
that's just his personality or that's just him, like he's
just a roaster, low key. But like, I just feel
like the person that you care about you handle with
care and tenderness, and you don't make any type of
jokes that were remotely even close to like hurt their
feelings like that. And so him saying something like that,
(27:23):
I think he meant it.
Speaker 5 (27:25):
Yeah, it's so hard for me because like the way
you said, he meant it was real funny. But I
feel like, because I'm the youngest of five siblings, I
have three older brothers, and if you have brother child,
you just have brothers, you know what it's like, like
there's no mercy given from your siblings.
Speaker 2 (27:40):
So you kind of like.
Speaker 5 (27:40):
Expect that in friendships too, if you get close enough
to roast each other. But I do, I do, So
I struggle to find that line for when it's like
when you love me like a sister and you're joking
with me like that, or when you're really trying to
play with me right now, right, So I just I
don't tolerate it from romantic interest, like I don't like that,
Like my boyfriend better never do that.
Speaker 3 (27:59):
And like their conversations weren't even there was nothing of substance.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
It was more about like, how are you feeling? Yeah,
we're just slow burning.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Like if I had so awkward yeah, but so awkward
friend zoned her.
Speaker 3 (28:13):
He did, and so all in all, the that's the
very last episode that we saw as of right now,
we're recording this on Sunday. The episode has not come
out yet, so that's where we're reacting to what we
saw on Friday.
Speaker 5 (28:23):
Right because by the time drops on Wednesday's gonna be
three episodes out since then.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
Yeah, no two because Wednesday two right on.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Oh well, she might have stood up by then, but yeah,
Like she got up on that stage and basically begged
him to choose her and did the whole photo booth
thing with the kiss on the back, and he kind
of basically just was like, you know, and then he
(28:54):
chose Clark and it was just I don't know, it's
just it was very sad.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
I'm interested to see their dynamic.
Speaker 5 (28:59):
Now on the good question, I know, I know we're
wrapping this up, this part up, but do you feel
like Clark was wrong?
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Like, do you think Clark's a bad guy?
Speaker 3 (29:08):
I feel like she went there. She did she she
did what she was meant to do there. Right, that's
the point of love Island is to an a bombshell. Right,
is to take your man, explore a connection.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
She did what she had to do.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
But I don't appreciate her slick comments, her side eye
talking about hi, good morning Islanders.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
Yet we caught that Clark cat.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
Oh No, when ORLANDI Orlandria and Nick woke up and
was like, good morning Islanders, she walks off.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
And goes, good morning Islanders. O we peeps, we peep.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
I mean I feel you, I feel you. I feel you.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Also, what was funny when uh Taylor chose you?
Speaker 5 (29:48):
She started laughing. No, it was who wouldn't be happy
they were chosen? It's like, I'm so giddy, that's me.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
This is not the.
Speaker 2 (29:58):
I got the man. I came in for love. I
got me some tailor.
Speaker 5 (30:03):
Yeah, I'm sorry, to that girl, I gotta put yourself
in Clark's shoes.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
And her and Taylor had a real connection. You mean it.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
You go into this house, you have a real connection
with a man that you find fun. You don't know
about this past yeat with this girl. You don't give
a ship. I want this man.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
This man chooses you like you're happy.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
I understand.
Speaker 3 (30:22):
But it's like the microaggression towards Landria Orlandria right, It's
like the maybe she just got resting b face at
the end of the day.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
I don't really fuck with Alandria. She my competition. MA,
man might choose you. I don't fuck with you. Listen.
Speaker 5 (30:36):
I'm a girl's girl, through and through, through and through.
They had no friendship. She knows that man. She wants
that man.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
I just think Clark is getting unecessary hate.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
I said what I said, no, And also she went
in the confessional talking about I don't like being called
a test.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
I don't. I'm a test.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
She ain't.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
Yeah, that's the point of a cossup, right is to
be tested. You are a test. I just like, I
just feel like she needs to fix her face. She
needs to stop with like the just like she looks
like she got an attitude all the time. Stop with
the slick comments. Honestly, the next time we get to vote,
she and Taylor will be exploring their connection at Fiji International.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
Airport, America, sending them home.
Speaker 3 (31:21):
Right, that's it, that's it, that's all all right, all right,
let's get into Betty Award of the Week. Okay, So
I want to give mine to bad Baby. No, everyone
in bad Baby's comments. So she recently tweeted out what
female rapper ruins every song they get on with someone.
I'm trying to see something, and everyone in the comments,
(31:42):
including me, commented.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
You, Tayla, shut up, that is so funny. That is
so funny.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
Did I don't think? She deleted and everyone was like you,
that's it.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
That's I don't know.
Speaker 5 (31:58):
If you saw this interview with you. Simone's trending lately.
So she did an interview on a podcast with her
best friend. I didn't listen to the entirety of the interview.
I will be honest in that. But what TikTok has
taught me while was this best friend is opening up
to be someone about all the struggles that she's been
through and be someone's response.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
For me with so Patty being a best friend with
a celebrity, everybody thinks that, oh, because you're connected to
this person, then your life is just as.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
Grand as theirs or you. You guys stay helping you.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
Maybe didn't have a job, living with my parents, a
single mom. All this happened to me this past year, Jesus.
And then it's like to not have resentment in my
heart towards you because I saw you do this for
other people. I saw you give a check to somebody
to help them through whatever they went through. And it's
like God, like, nobody didn't give me a hand out.
But guess what that wasn't your responsibility. God had to
(32:54):
take me through that for my own season, for my
own thing. I had to get my car repossessed, Jesus,
I had to go through the fool stamps line. I
had to be on medicaid because whatever. He I'm building
my story too. But it's like, as a friend who
somebody who has it, it's hard to dig this.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
They're probably shocked that not even.
Speaker 5 (33:13):
Saying this right now, Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, be someone did
not give that one fuck Like I don't know if
you saw her facial expressions like it just she wasn't
there for her best friend in my eyes, like that
just is crazy work to me. Her response was super baddy.
Be someonch trended right now for a lot right now.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
Have you been seeing it?
Speaker 1 (33:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (33:32):
I feel like this whole situation is just showing that
Be Simone is not a good friend. And I will
say it just like that.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:37):
There was another situation where the other woman was talking
about how she called up be Simones to talk about
an accomplishment that she just you know, acquired or whatever,
and Be Simone had a very bland reaction hung up,
and she said that she had to call her back
after she prayed because she had some type of like
resentment in her heart because she wasn't involved at all
(33:58):
in uh like whatever accolade that her friend had won.
Speaker 5 (34:03):
And then for her to call her back and say,
I have the process. We have the process of how
this made me feel, like the way the news that
you just gave me made me feel? Yeah, how dare
you make my good news about you in your feelings
in this moment?
Speaker 2 (34:13):
Like that's crazy work right there.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
I would have never admitted that.
Speaker 3 (34:16):
I think that's that that would that is just crazy
to even like say out loud, but like the fact.
Speaker 2 (34:21):
That all, yeah, but she realized how crazy that is.
Speaker 3 (34:26):
How do you like not celebrate your friend? That just
shows that she might be like a low key hater,
Like why do you feel like the need to take
a take credit for your friend's accomplishments or be involved
in Her response to that was basically, she wants to
see everybody win as a whole. Everybody should be helping
every it should be a team, everybody's pulling weight. And
(34:47):
so the fact that she wasn't involved in a big
moment of her friend's life.
Speaker 1 (34:51):
I guess made her feel left out.
Speaker 5 (34:53):
I guess, but what Yeah, No, I think that I
can't tell if it's petty or personality, but she's not
a good friend. And then also she came off really
desperate in the interview with the baby. I don't know
if you saw that one either, but it was everybody
know that he knows that'd be someone who has had
(35:13):
a crush on the baby since the beginning of time.
So they were doing an interview together and she kept
trying to just make little remarks here and there to
see how far she could get out of the friendship zone.
He kept placing her right back there.
Speaker 2 (35:24):
Like you're my friend. Yeah, you're attractive, but you're just
my friend.
Speaker 5 (35:29):
So I think she has a lot of healing that
needs to be done, and I don't know what that is,
Like maybe the accomplishments or maybe the the money of
it all makes it feel makes her feel like worthy
of something, because yeah, yeah, she's she's not a good friend.
I don't know if she's what that looking for is
or what you want to be to other people or
in their life. But you have no control over that one.
Speaker 3 (35:51):
Yeah, I just don't think she's a good person, damn
at all. I really don't. Because I was done with
her when she was shitting on people with nine to five,
you know, and I thought it was very ironic how
she was just like make it make it seem like
we're not good enough or we're not entrepreneurs because we
work for somebody else. But then she gets on this
podcast now years later, and she's talking about how she
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had to leave Bloomingdale's.
Speaker 2 (36:13):
For H and M crying because she at H.
Speaker 3 (36:16):
Yeah, I just think that we're continuously seeing her character
and I don't know, I just I personally have never
seen anything that I like.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
She always rubbed me the wrong way, and I used
to be a fan.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Yeah, and I had to turn away from her, especially
after her and her friend Megan kind of split up,
because I really like their podcast because it was about
God and.
Speaker 1 (36:34):
Like witnessing and being a Christian.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
And then you know, you could kind of see b
Simone like slipping into like just like her own world
and getting wrapped up in things and it changing her.
And I think that's why her and Megan had to
split up, right, And now you're kind of seeing why.
Speaker 5 (36:49):
Yeah, I didn't judge it for the nine to five
thing too much. To be honest with you, I got
what she was saying, not that you know, she spoke
down on anybody with a nine to five. She just
said for her, she wants an entrepreneur who can get
her life in her mind mindset. I love the nine
to five I respected obviously I'm part of it, but
I didn't think that she uh she met with she.
I thought she came off wrong at that moment. But
what was off putting for me was I noticed that
(37:11):
she has a business mindset with everything, and she will
profit on any and everything whether it's God at the time,
whether it's oh, I just lost a close friend.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
I'm doing you know, private, that's right.
Speaker 3 (37:21):
Yeah, yeah, that jacky Oh passed away and she was
didn't her funeral close friends.
Speaker 5 (37:27):
I thought it was like you could join the exclusive
OnlyFans whatever and see me talk about how I'm feeling
in this moment losing my best friend. Baby, personal stories
about Jackie and that was That's what was off putting
for me.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Sim from me.
Speaker 3 (37:40):
But I forgot about that. Yeah, that I think she lost.
That's where she lost a lot of people, and she
lost a lot.
Speaker 1 (37:47):
Of her friends too. Yeah, like they cut her off
after that.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
That was that was that was really distasteful.
Speaker 5 (37:52):
That's why there's nothing that's off limits when it comes
to money with you, like like you'll do anything, so.
Speaker 2 (37:58):
Holywater, you know. Now I'm in the yeah.
Speaker 5 (38:00):
So, but she gives my Petty Award this week for
that Jesus, Jesus, I don't know if it's petty or
just awful.
Speaker 2 (38:06):
Will you give it too.
Speaker 3 (38:07):
I'm gonna give it to the comments of that baby
because I just don't like vision.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
All right, I like that one. Let's do it.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Yeah, pey, okay, bye?
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Okay, bye. Now that's getting a petty mail. Dear Kayla
and Kayla.
Speaker 5 (38:32):
I've got a situation that might fall squarely in the
petty category, but I need an outside opinion before I
turn into the villain of this friendship. One of my
close friends, let's call her Jazz. She has a habit
of forgetting the venmo me back. I'll cover coffee, concert tickets,
group dinners, and she always says I'll send it later. Spoiler,
she rarely does. The amounts aren't huge, but it's adding
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up and worse. It's making me feel like the front
version of a tab at a bar than no one
intends to close. So now I've started going silent when
the check comes, no offers, no reaching for my card.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
I just sit back and smile. Is that patty? Should
I confront her?
Speaker 5 (39:10):
Or am I perfectly justified in going full best and
going full passive aggressive accountant? Help me sort this out
before I invoice her for emotional damage.
Speaker 3 (39:21):
I definitely think it's a conversation, you know, because I
don't know. I just feel like when a deal comes
to money, I don't play at all. So yeah, I
think if that's actually your friend, you should be able
to say hey, like or me, I would say it
in a joking way, girl, I picked up the last
few times?
Speaker 1 (39:37):
When is your turn?
Speaker 4 (39:38):
You know?
Speaker 3 (39:39):
Also I don't know her financial situation too, so maybe
like a real conversation is worth having, Hey girl, Like,
you know, I paid for this, this, this, and this,
Like I'm not asking for you to pay me back
right away, but is there ever gonna be a time
where you do?
Speaker 4 (39:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (39:54):
I like that.
Speaker 5 (39:54):
I think I think definitely confront of it, confronting it.
I hate passive aggression, like especially depending on like some
I call a friend, I'm not about the passive aggressive
with It's always a conversation with me.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
So I feel like I'll be like, hey, girl, when
you're gonna vemmo me? Yeah, exactly like you good? Can
you vemmo me? Or what's up?
Speaker 5 (40:13):
You got something like that? But no, passive aggressive and
friendship don't go in the same sentence for me. But yeah,
good luck with that girl.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
Good luck?
Speaker 2 (40:20):
All right?
Speaker 1 (40:21):
What you got coming up this week?
Speaker 2 (40:23):
My men's coming to town.
Speaker 5 (40:24):
I'm so excited. I just said, doing him very much.
And because I'm in love, that's all I'm focused on
right now. So okay, whatever else is whatever, what about you?
Speaker 3 (40:36):
I can't even think right now, right nothing, I guess.
I mean it's for the July weekend next week, so
I'm going. All I know is that I'm going to
a day party next weekend with a bunch of people.
This upcoming week, I don't have any interviews because it's
a short week, so I really don't got nothing but
love Island fun.
Speaker 2 (40:52):
Yeah, I and we'll see them next week.
Speaker 5 (40:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
Make sure you follow us at the Pettyish podcast
Speaker 1 (40:57):
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