August 14, 2025 • 39 mins
This episode was broadcasted live on Tik Tok!
Welcome back! In this episode KT and Kala discuss the "Amy Bradley is Missing" documentary, and the woman who has gone viral for her Tik Tok series about how she fell in love with her therapist. Enjoy!
Welcome back! In this episode KT and Kala discuss the "Amy Bradley is Missing" documentary, and the woman who has gone viral for her Tik Tok series about how she fell in love with her therapist. Enjoy!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Petty Is podcast, right, hey guys, as we do,
I know, and see if we can at least get
one viewer.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Okay, hey, Kayla, Hey Kayla. I don't want to get
started until we get a little at least like two
people in here or something.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
We got one.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Hello, what are we doing today? Okay?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
We're discussing petty things and also the woman who fell
in love with a psychiatrist.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
So I have been all over that tea.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
That has been making me so upset, like so upset.
I just don't think she's getting as much backlash as
she deserves. But maybe it's like she's mentally ill. So
oh she's obviously, but you got me nice to the
mentally ill. But at the same time, like, girl, why did.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
You do that?
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Okay, we'll get into it, okay it and what else?
We're gonna talk about the what's her missing Amy Bradley case,
which is gonna.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Be I am so concased. I am so confused about
that story. There are so many theories and it's just
the math isn't mathing for me, Like I got some
thoughts though.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Yeah, Okay, Well, welcome to another episode of petty Ish.
I am kat I'm Kayla and we are also live
on TikTok. I have started a partnership with TikTok where
we are trying to find the next big superstar.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
How's that been going.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Oh my gosh, it has been a whirlwind.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
So we launched what like two weeks ago, and basically,
if you are a singer, if you are a rapper,
any type of artist, if you are a country singer,
a gospel singer, you can come an audition on TikTok
Live and the top twelve finalists will come and basically
like perform at our iHeartRadio theater in front of all
(01:50):
the big wigs of iHeart. And it's just been amazing.
It's been amazing to see the different genres that come
up in audition. Has been amazing to hear that people's
stories because you know, we ask them to perform original music,
and so we always ask them like, okay, so what
was the story behind you writing this song? Tell me
where you wrote it, why you wrote it. So it's
(02:12):
been a good process. It's been fun.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
That stuff always gets me be so emotional, Like every
time I watch like America's Got Talent or whatever the
case is, when people are living in their gift and
doing it so bravely.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
I always cry every single time.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
So you have such a big job, such a big deal,
You're making people's dreams come true.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
I mean, I'm excited to see who ends up winning
the whole competition. They're gonna get their song played on
the radio. Oh, it's gonna be incredible. So yeah, and
then I also got to go to the TikTok headquarters.
This is my second time going, which was a lot
of fun. And I don't know, just being there, I
don't know, because like when you're on TikTok, like, I
don't know, it's just weird being at the place where
it all happens, where everything is created, seeing the behind
(02:52):
the scenes, the people who actually run it, how things work,
how TikTok, you know, TikTok Live works, and seeing the
studio and the people that come on Hi, let us
know where you guys are from.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
But yeah, so it was really cool.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
We got to sit down and do a podcast and
just talk about the competition and then also talk about,
you know, being radio personality, So that was super super cool.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Being a radio personality is awesome.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
And then I can't imagine actually being in the headquarters
where it all goes down and seeing the magic and
seeing the business side of it and just seeing how
it came on one of the biggest social media platforms
to date, like, yeah, change the way I feel like
other social media platforms wanted to do.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Oh yeah, because then everybody else started copying and whatnot
as they always do, as they always do. So, yes,
welcome in. Let us know where you guys are from.
So this is the Pettish Podcast, and we talk about everything.
It's not all pettyish, it's you do get petty a
little bit. But we talk about our life. We talk
about our careers, our dreams, we talk about our love lives,
(03:53):
which can be chaotic.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Talk about navigating Los Angeles as two girls from the
East Coast and having Oh, Germany.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Hello from Germany. Wow.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
What time is it there?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Like a whole twelve hours ahead? But yeah, So how
is your week? What'd you do?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
What did I do this week?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Well?
Speaker 4 (04:12):
I have been updating that I am newly in love
and it has.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Been absolutely amazing.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Unfortunately, my boyfriend atl Hey, my boyfriend, he had a
tragic loss. Now, if you've ever had a pet or
you've ever experienced pet loss like it genuinely hurts just
as much as human grief. So he's been going through
a really tough time and I've been trying to just
spend as much time with him as possible and give
him things to.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Kill him. There's this book by Beth Bigler called.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
Honoring Our Animals, and it's a book on pet grief,
and it's really been helping him through his journey, giving
him meditation practices. I also got a custom blanket with
his little dog's face on it, like you know, whenever
you miss me, no, I'm here.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
It's absolutely fabulous.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
He's really appreciating being there for him, and I'm happy
that I can show up for him in that way
this week because it's been a tough week for him,
but it's.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Been a good week for me.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
I had both of my shows do a remote at
my favorite restaurant in my area. It's called Disconso on
Willshirt and Los Angeles, and I never had both of
my shows broadcast back to back from the same location.
In that location I actually frequent and enjoy so to
be able to set up one of my host's birthdays
(05:33):
and have the other after party on air and so
many people showed up. It's just showing the growth and
the support of the station. Also a little bit of
a hard week. I don't know if you've seen one
of our coworkers. Yeah, is super super bad accident.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Well, first of all, they went viral because somebody caught
a video of the car on fire.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Right and went everywhere. But is he okay?
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Because I know you work with him closer than I do.
I don't even know if I met him.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Oh my god, he social media that he's so supportive.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
He definitely kept asking about you when you were going
through your loopus and he's just like, you know, well
when you were going through you had that, Sarah. He
definitely wants checking it on you every week and asking
about you. But he was on his way to work
and he didn't show up to his shift and they're
calling him. He's not answering his phone. It's just not
like him at all, uh to do that. And after
(06:30):
the show ended, one of the hosts went to go
find him. They they found his address. They called missing persons.
He was a John Doe at a hospital because his
identification burned up in the fire. Everything burned up in
the fire. They found out that there was a car
that cut him off. He tried to avoid the car,
he hit the median, flipped.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Over, op got a little spilt.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Anyone missed up the keyboard here, but the car flipped
over burst in flames immediately after him in the medium
he was knocked out. If it wasn't for three good
Samaritans that we are still looking for. Please check out
the KFI AM six to forty Instagram and website for
those pictures so we can find those individuals and thank
them and give them for saving our steffush because they
pulled them out of the car and he was unconscious
(07:18):
and they saved him from the flames. His arm was
out of the window at the time, so his arm
is apparently completely mangled, but they wrapped something around it
to save his arm, and they saved his life and
they took him to the hospital. He was pronounced dead
at the scene, but he came back thankfully.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
And yeah, he.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Has a long journey ahead of him. So there's a
go fundme for him, and we're just kind of going
through it as a radio family right now. Wow, because
he's absolutely loved and appreciate it and just one of
the sweetest people you ever will meet.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
Well, I mean, thank god like he you know, survived
it because because could have ended so much differently. But wow,
that's just like an incredible story. And I hope you
guys find the people that helped him.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
Too, Yeah, because it would have been a completely different
narrative had they not saved him, Like it is not
even a question he would no longer be here and
they not risk themselves them out of a flaming car.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Isn't that just so crazy?
Speaker 5 (08:06):
That just shows you like life can change in the
blink of an eye, like anything could happen, you know,
like it doesn't. It just it reminds you to hold
on to your loved ones, tell people who love them.
Because then this because he was on his way to
work on what he thought would be a regular day,
what you guys thought would be a regular day with him.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
And then it just changed. You know. Life is so
fragile for sure.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
But it also restored my faith in humanity because I
kind of think if I was in that position, I
think I would leave to help before I pulled out
myself when the start of recording, But yeah, it was,
it was It was beautiful to show the people coming
together and getting him the help that he needed and
saving his life.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Yeah, he so loved.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
Oh my gosh, Oh my heart is heavy. What did
I do this week?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
This week was just full of work. I like, that's
all I do.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
And then I have my my time to go out
to eat with my friends, like my one day a week.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
But yeah, I mean just everything.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
With this TikTok sponsorship, like going to TikTok and like
you know, getting this campaign and this competition off of
its feet.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
That's all I've really been doing. So it's gonna good week.
But did you do anything, Patty?
Speaker 3 (09:08):
What did I do Patty week? I always make time
for a little bit of Petty.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
So while I was at whatever, I was somewhere and
a friend confided in me and they are going through
some drama.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
That is the.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Tea of the the workplace century chiut. But I did
ask if I use it for show content. Okay, he
said he'll give me the green light when I can.
So we got a couple of weeks, so I'm going
to use that show content. I asked him, I use
it for show content. As he's trying to vent to
me about his drama, I thought that was a little patty.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
He said. He said no, he said no.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
So though this might show how insane I am, Well,
first of I'm not insane, but like, if you need
me to find something or somebody, I can find that
person for you. FBI, I am the v this is
And let me tell you what I did this week.
So my friend used to shalk to this guy and
she has an inkling that he is talking to somebody else,
(10:09):
somebody different, but she doesn't know who, right, no idea.
So you know how on Instagram now you can see
your friends likes. You can see the reels that they like.
Oh yeah, and then those but those reels will pop
up on your feed. Yeah, right, So a reel that
he liked popped up on her feed, and it was
(10:30):
of a girl in the gym doing like squats and stuff.
And she was super cute, super thick, blase blah and
kind of looked.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Like his type.
Speaker 5 (10:40):
I like those videos too, But she also wasn't like
an Instagram model or anything. So she was like a
normal girl, right, So it was like, m how do
you know this girl? So she was like Kayla, like
can you find out information? Can you find out information
about this girl? I was like, I'm on it. She's like, Kayla,
find out if this is the girl he's talking to,
because like she's in his age range. She fits it
description of somebody that she that he would date. Like,
(11:02):
first of all, I need to know who is she?
Does she live in La? Like how did they know
each other? When did they meet? So this is what
I did. So first of all, I was like, Okay,
I gotta find out when he started following her so
I can match the timeline if it was after they
broke up?
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Right, how do you find that out? He sorry?
Speaker 2 (11:24):
So I went back on I wanted her on her
profile and looked at like the.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Somebody what they want to enjoy? This is crazy.
Speaker 5 (11:34):
So I went all the way back into her pictures,
every single picture, and the I wanted to go back
to the first picture that I knew that he liked
and it was recent. So he started liking her pictures
in May, right, So that means he must have followed
her in May?
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Yeah, right they broke up.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Maybe maybe this is a strong possibility.
Speaker 5 (11:53):
So they broke up in April, okay, So it was
like it's the timeline mashed up, right, So I was like, Okay,
she must have started he'd liked her, started like her
pictures around May. He must have you know, followed her
around May. So he's liking all her pictures. I'm looking
in the comments. He doesn't comment on any of her stuff.
I'm like, does this girl live in La?
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Where could they have possibly met? Maybe it's a childhood friend, maybe,
Like I don't know. So I was like, Okay, I
need to figure out where she lives. Right, I go
under her following Listen, okay, listen when you the majority
of people follow local stuff of what where they're living.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Yes, right, So when I lived.
Speaker 5 (12:32):
In Philadelphia, I would follow like all the Philly this,
all phillyd Or like Ben Sayalem this, Jersey this. Now
that I'm here, I'm following La this, La Black on
the block, like different organizations that are in LA. So
I was like, what organizations does she follow?
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Right?
Speaker 5 (12:45):
So she doesn't follow any LA stuff, So I'm like,
is she even in La? I go all the way
back and find out that she graduated from like Boston,
and I saw that she's following a lot of Boston things,
So I'm like, maybe she's in Boston. And then her
most recent sit this is sorry, I'm wrapping this up whatever.
Her most recent posts was her at a concert I
won't say who, right, and she was like, oh, when
(13:08):
me and my friends so and so's concert.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
I was like, okay, when was this concert? I looked
up tour date, yes, and it was in Boston.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Sot.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
She's not even here.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
So I was like, girl, you don't have anything to
worry about. She's not in LA she's in Boston.
Speaker 4 (13:26):
Yes, So that's not the girl he's dealing with. But
he is dealing something with somebody. So I don't think
your work is over because we don't know who it is.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
That was tiring and no more like that was my
creepy like soccer.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
Of the day.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Yeah, that was a lot. Yeah, different, good front.
Speaker 5 (13:42):
Any time, Kaylee, you need to do it, you know, Jordan,
I think I'm good. Anytime I got you, I will
find them I got you.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
Let us know the pettiest things you guys did this week?
Speaker 5 (13:51):
Yes, please let us know the pettiest things. Hi, welcome in, Hey, Emily,
let us know the pettiest things that you have done
this week? So want to get into petty things our
listeners have done?
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Sure?
Speaker 4 (14:02):
Do I refuse to give my roommate back her missing
sock until she admitted to eating the last lights of pizza.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Three months earlier.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Oh you can hold a grids Jesus, okay, sock, someone
else said.
Speaker 5 (14:17):
I labeled my expensive olive oil toenail fungus treatment so
that my other roommates wouldn't touch it.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
I'm not mad.
Speaker 5 (14:25):
I'm not either, because sometimes it's I don't miss living
with people because they'd be taking your condiments, and you
gotta do what you gotta do.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Yeah, yeah, everything's from sure wild.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
Yeah, hi welcomed.
Speaker 4 (14:39):
Okay, my step My step mother died at ten twenty
nine pm, So at eleven o seven pm, I sent
my dad a YouTube link to ding Dong the Witch
is dead, and then I blocked him.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
That's next level. Damn no, that's not funny.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
Whoa I mean? I mean, I guess she.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Got beef with like her mom and her wonder mom.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
Oh my god, I need a little bit more context,
because that's that's a lot.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
That's crazy.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
It is crazy, hormam, I come back to you, so
that that's wild.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
I miss you?
Speaker 3 (15:30):
What what? I don't know what I mean? That's crazy,
all right?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
So I think we should.
Speaker 5 (15:40):
Talk about Amy Bradley. Have you guys watched the documentary
on Netflix? It is insane. It's okay a little watch
it because it's just that crazy and a lot of
people have a lot of different theories. So real quick,
I'll give like an overview of what it is. So
this woman went missing back in nineteen ninety seven, for yeah,
on the cruise ship.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
Which doesn't happen like ever all of a sudden.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
The last time that she was seeing was on the
balcony of her room that she shared with her brother,
her mom, and her dad. Right, her brother and her
had came in from partying all night long. Apparently she
had seven drinks total that on her tab. They come
back into the room around three am. Her brother and
her sit outside on the balcony. They're smoking, they're talking.
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The brother leaves to go to sleep. The dad says
that he woke up around five thirty am and saw
her laying on the lawn chair and saw her move
a little bit, so he knows that he was she
was on the balcony at five point thirty. I guess
he wakes up again at six o'clock and she's gone,
(16:47):
but her shoes are right by the edge of the balcony.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Her cigarettes are still on the table because.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
She's a grown up. She's twenty three years old, rights,
not like a child, right and yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:56):
So then he's like, Okay, whatever, I guess maybe she
went somewhere. So he gets up, gets dressed, and starts
walking around the ship just looking for her. Thirty minutes
later he calls the people and was like, hey, I
can't find my daughter. So and then ever since then
she has not been found. Has anybody heard about this, hi? So?
Speaker 2 (17:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (17:19):
So there's a lot of theories going around. People think
that she was trafficked. A lot of people think that
she might have jumped off the balcony.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
A lot of people think.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
That there could have been an altercation that could have happened.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
She could have ran off with a lover, she could
have done fund.
Speaker 5 (17:36):
Yes, there are some things that were like, oh, she
was flirting with the bass player of the band of
the cruise ship and they were together all night. And
there were different people that had seen her with this guy,
this alleged yellow guy. Somebody seven years later said that
they saw her in was how do you say, karasaka.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Don't get me? The junker I don't know.
Speaker 5 (18:01):
You're somewhere in Mexico and they said that, you know,
she was seen with two men who looked like they
had her held against her will.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (18:13):
So there's a lot of different theories. At this point,
it's been twenty something years. This documentary has kind of
opened everybody's eyes and now people are trying to investigate themselves.
So we want to know if you have seen it
and what your thoughts are. I would love to hear
what your theories are.
Speaker 4 (18:27):
See I don't know because I initially thought I don't
think that she.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
Jumped off.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
I think she might have fallen off, and you know,
it was really drunk that night, smoking on the balcony
and then just fell off, lost her balance and fell off,
which you know does happen sometimes. But then when people
kept saying that they've spotted her and like said that
they've seen her and say her name and asked them
to save her, It's like, if she fell off, then
I feel like there's animals following this ship. I think
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anybody that falls off of a ship, a cruise ship
has a very low chancellor survivalry.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Right, so she wouldn't be seen after that.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Right, well, they said that because of the currents, she
would have washed up.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
So they said, what the sharks were right there.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Well, they said, a shark doesn't eat a whole body.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
It's I'm just saying, yeah, yeah, I mean it's it's
that's a real theory.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
But I just think that plenty of people fall into
the ocean and we don't find their remains.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
So I don't know why we think that she just
there's no way she didn't wash up, you know.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
Like so I think that that could have been a possibility.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
And if that's not the case, then I do think
that she was trafficked because people.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Have seen her.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
She said, my name is Amy Bradley, Save me like that.
That guy told that story. But also people love to
be on Netflix, or maybe they just want to be
part of documentary, you know, But what do you think
about it?
Speaker 5 (19:41):
Well, I mean that was another thing for me. I
feel like so many people failed her. There were so
many people who said, yeah, I saw her, but I
didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to
lose my job in the military or something like that.
That one guy, yeah I saw her, but like I didn't,
I yeah her, and she said help me, but uh,
I was scared, so I didn't say anything, like if
all that is true, there were people after people after
people who failed her.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Right like time after time after time.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
Didn't like the cruise ship director who after you know,
they reported her missing, was like, well, I'm not gonna
make an announcement because that's gonna disturb the twenty four
hundred other people that are on this boat.
Speaker 4 (20:15):
I mean it his defense, it was thirty minutes, and
this is a grown up, Like I would.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
What am I gonna alarm them? So I see that
side of it.
Speaker 5 (20:25):
So a lot of people are saying, why are you
alarmed after thirty minutes?
Speaker 3 (20:30):
That's weird? Why are you alarmed at six? Sah, yeah,
that's weird.
Speaker 4 (20:33):
So you think the dad, why would you check on
her thirty minutes later? Like if you saw her that
at five thirty, why would you wake up at six
and that? Oh let mechug again, make like that's that's
not a normal right thing to do when you wake
up in the morning as and somebody's a grown up, right,
Like it's just.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (20:49):
There are some some speculations out there that because she
was a lesbian and the family I guess wasn't necessarily
accepting of that at that time, that.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
They could have.
Speaker 4 (21:00):
Been pressuring her to find a man and push her
into the direction of all the people that were flirting
with her on the cruise, according to them, and it
made her super depressed of them not accepting her. And
then as we know, again, alcohol is a depressant, and
Laura knows when you're on a cruise, I don't know
if you ever had did you ever look out on
the balcony that jumped like, oh, you know, you don't
do it, but it comes into your mind. So that
(21:24):
is a possibility. And if maybe they did have something
to do with it or did guilt her into doing that,
maybe they do feel bad. And but yeah, maybe because
(21:44):
they didn't accept her lifestyle. They're saying that that could
have been the reason for her no longer wanting to
be here.
Speaker 5 (21:50):
Yeah, I saw that, tu And apparently did you see
how her dad wrote her alleged girlfriend at the time
or something like that, like a three page letter. Oh
that was like not nice, basically condoning their relationships. So yes,
people are saying, okay, well maybe I don't know, like
it could be you know, she was.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
Tired of it all, or that heardship.
Speaker 5 (22:12):
Sorry it wasn't so maybe she said jumped or even
some people thought, okay, did she have an altercation with
her dad? I hate to put that into the atmosphere,
but really like kind of threw me off about this
whole Amy Bradley case is like, why did they leave
the boat? If my daughter is missing and the cruise
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is still going on, I'm staying to the end of
the cruise and I'm staying on the boat to look
for my daughter. They docked at some location and flew home.
That's like the sign of giving up. Am I wrong?
Like that's like, oh, I know she's dead type of
like behavior, not oh my daughter's still alive, Because if
my daughter's still alive, I'm going back to if I
think of my head, my daughter is still alive, I'm
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going back to the place where she was last seen.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Who are the cruise or I'm.
Speaker 5 (22:57):
Gonna search wherever last place we docked where she allegedly
walked off with another man they.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
Went home, and the cruise is so I heard it
was like one of the biggest cruise ships at the time.
So I can only imagine how many people are on
that boat, like there could be a chance you would
need more than one day to find somebody, So to
get off the boat and and fly back home.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Is a super bright red flag.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
But at the same time, again, this family is grieving,
so you want to give grace to that, you know.
Speaker 5 (23:21):
Yeah, I don't know, and I don't know. I just
feel like I would have done things so differently. But
again I've never been in the situation, so I don't.
But it just seemed like they move in the way
of like there it's done. She's not alive, like they
never went back they were she was allegedly seen of
Barbados when that when that photo came out, my self
would be on a flight to Barbados searching the entire.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (23:43):
They never right, and so there's just a lot of
different things. And then now that this whole case, this
whole Amy Bradley case has become so popular again, the
brother Brad is coming out with new theories. So he's
on Twitter saying, and by the way, I saw her
two black women.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
This yesterday.
Speaker 5 (24:03):
I saw her with two black women, like they did
look suspicious. Well, why didn't you say this in the
documentary that's funny. And so and why did you have
the point out that they were black?
Speaker 3 (24:11):
Yeah, I don't like it. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
I mean it could be she was traffick.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
I mean yeah, but it wasn't two black women that didn't.
But you know, I wasn't there. I was six at
the time. But what I will say is I don't
because I just got back from a cruise not so
long ago, and I did research on how many people
go missing on the cruise or how dangerous the cruise.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
Can be, and it does happen.
Speaker 4 (24:35):
So why is this Amy case the one that we're
still talking about today?
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Like what is what is it about this case that
because people go.
Speaker 4 (24:42):
Missing on cruise ships more than people would think. So
it's like, does the cruise ship have a relationship with
these people and sells people to people? I was a
conspiracy theorists in a past life. So yeah, I'm like,
I don't know. I don't what is this with this amything?
Why are we still talking about this twenty years later?
Speaker 5 (25:01):
Hm?
Speaker 3 (25:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (25:02):
I think I don't. I have no idea. I think Also,
there's is just so many layers to it. The fact
that so many people allegedly saw her or she was
doctor Phil.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
Did she jump like?
Speaker 5 (25:11):
And then you add the sexuality part to it. There's
just so many things and it just makes for a
great documentary.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
It was documentary.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
And who knows.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
There have been cold cases like that have been solved
years and years and years later, you know, so who knows.
Maybe this will shed light and help find her, but
also let's try to find all the missing other people.
Speaker 4 (25:29):
That missed on cruise ships. Yeah, that's that's true. Did
you hear though, did I? Because I'm gonna talk about
this woman who fell in love with a psychiatrists.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
I want to talk about the woman who fell in
love with her psychiatrists. Stad you see that?
Speaker 2 (25:43):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (25:43):
So I heard this was like her fourth. Now I'm
going to try and give it over you the best
I can. I believe this was her fourth mental professional
that she had some kind of issue with. But she
was seeing this person once a month for her. And
now there's a psychiologists and a psychiat psychiatrists only that
are pretty much prescribe you medicine where a therapist supposed
to talk you through your recal issues. There's no need
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to talk to your psychiatrists more than once a month,
like as a medication working, Do you need more?
Speaker 3 (26:09):
Do you need less? You good, your bad? Whatever, But
she wanted to see him once a week.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
She was there was a super relationship of unrequired love
where she was trying to make advances and see him
more often and tell him about her dreams or her feelings.
And he was just super professional about everything, even from
her narrative, So I don't I think he dropped her
as a client. They also leaked out this person's you know,
face and everything. He was very handsome. But I heard
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there's a lot of people also attacking him, saying that
his license needs to be revoked and he was completely
unprofessional and his career is now at risk because of
this white woman's narrative about what he said and did.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
And honestly, he said and did nothing wrong.
Speaker 5 (26:49):
I mean, if you watch like the twenty eighth part
she did, she said things like, yeah, he looked at
me a little bit too long and he should have
known that that would give me idea.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
Or something like that.
Speaker 5 (27:00):
Like it was like her her reasonings and her for
saying that he led her on or you know, was
just do stupid you know, like oh yeah, he stayed late.
He made me stay late or had me say we
went over time, like by five minutes, and he should
have been more professional and not done that.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
I told him I had a dream about him, and
he listened like things like that, like what is he
supposed to do?
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Everything he did was completely justified.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
And I think that this woman's again mental health is
questionable obviously, which is why you're probably seeing a psychologist psychiatrist.
Speaker 3 (27:37):
And I'm just more for me. It just creates the narrative.
Speaker 4 (27:42):
Of when sometimes a Caucasian woman cries something, the person
of color is automatically demonized. And his medical professionalism was
questioned and he was being attacked by a complete group
of people just because she said this thing, and it
really does tarnish him when he was just trying to
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be a professional in his craft. And it also is
a story of just unreplied love and how crazy our
minds can really go to convince us that a normal
interaction is you wanting me back, yeah, and you're committing
to that, like to the point where you want to
file a complaint or whatever, like make this whole man
the narrative of your twenty nine part series.
Speaker 3 (28:21):
When he did nothing wrong. Where are your girlfriends?
Speaker 5 (28:25):
Who was there to tell you? Like, girl, you're having
a manic episode. This is but you know what's so crazy?
This isn't like the first I've heard of this situation
before where people fall in love with their therapists because
you're sharing the most intimate parts of you with this person.
They're giving you advice, they're relating to you, they're touching that.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
Part of your brain and your heart.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
That can kind of make you think things that aren't
really happening. Mind you, this happens more often than done.
And also it's kind of why people are now falling
in love with chat tbt as wid as that just
to say it's happening because chatch ebt is feeding into
their delusion, you know, and it's like giving them advice
and it feels like a normal human interaction and then
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all of a sudden they're in love. So yeah, I mean,
it's not uncommon for people to fall in love with
the people that you know help them out.
Speaker 4 (29:17):
Especially if you're again sharing your deepest, darky secrets and
they're not judging you but comforting you, like right, because
it's hard not to be judged when you share those
parts of yourself.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
Lord.
Speaker 4 (29:26):
No, so it's like you understand, you're not judgmental, you're safe.
You cultivate this safe space for me. I can't see
how it happens. But how far are you going to
go with that?
Speaker 2 (29:37):
Exactly?
Speaker 5 (29:38):
Right, exactly and to the point where you're ending somebody
up in jail possibly or like you know, ruining this
man's career. Yeahs just absolutely insane. So this all story
is weird. If you haven't checked out, hi, have you
guys seen the eleven thirty eight part series of The
Girl who Fell Low with her therapist? Let us know
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and let us know your thoughts. It's crazy, absolutely crazy.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
TikTok is crazy and that's what brings me to night. Petty.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
Did you see this woman on TikTok? I was actually
just watching her videos earlier today. She apparently was arguing
with her husband, and when she argues with her husband,
he gets real disrespectful. So in my mind, he's calling
her every name in the book. There's no love here.
Everything is on the table. I might throw your insecurities
in your face, like that's what I imagine when it comes
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to disrespectful. So apparently her husband wasn't on probation and
they got into a really bad fight.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
It got super ugly, and he left, you know. So
she went on.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
The government website or the county website, printed out a
or copied a PDF of a arrest warrant, edited it
so that it said his name, went to the house,
taped it on the front door, and then.
Speaker 3 (30:57):
Went in the house or left.
Speaker 4 (30:59):
Then we came home, we found the letter, and she's like,
he's so dumb, Like you don't realize that they don't
take a warrant for your arrest on your front door.
That's her words, not mine, And she he said that
he was believing like she.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
She went home and she's like, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 4 (31:12):
Like some bullshit man, I'm a fucking warn off my
arrestment and it's like freaking worn off for my arrest man, And.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
He I don't.
Speaker 4 (31:21):
I think he still believes it to this day, Like
she never told him that I'm gonna get happy to
that wife a year right there?
Speaker 3 (31:27):
Because girl, what not a bag war girl?
Speaker 2 (31:31):
That's crazy?
Speaker 5 (31:32):
Okay, I want to give mine to offset Oh god,
oh my goodness. So Cardi B is obviously moving on.
She has her a baller boyfriend, Carriod. She should Stefan Diggs.
I don't even know who he played, but she posted
a photo of him what like yesterday and was like, ethic,
we ball right, just a picture of them because they
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look cute. The season is about to start. Why did
all say post a picture right after of him? It
was like him like this right, and it was like
it said, and we watch it fall boom.
Speaker 2 (32:06):
That wasn't even so right, It was so it was
so corny.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
It was corny.
Speaker 5 (32:11):
Why do you guys every time like you move one,
you move on from them, you're happy. That's when they
want to get bitter and jealous and start doing all
this stuff. But when they actually had.
Speaker 3 (32:20):
You, they treated you like shit.
Speaker 5 (32:25):
They treated you really bad. I don't get it because
they like the chase. They like when you don't want them,
I guess.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
And left and right.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
I also saw him on I think Joe Budden's podcast
where he was like bragging about never leaving a woman
better than when he met her, like he always leaves
her worse off. Wasn't that like an awful thing to
say about thirty?
Speaker 2 (32:46):
How old is off set?
Speaker 3 (32:46):
Don't you have daughters?
Speaker 2 (32:48):
You are too old?
Speaker 5 (32:49):
I cannot stand when dudes over twenty eight act like
this like you're too old.
Speaker 3 (32:54):
Get a family, generous, get a.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Family, like settle down.
Speaker 5 (32:57):
This whole bad boy like the thing that you got
going on is like it's just played out.
Speaker 4 (33:03):
Even if you want to, like you know, play the
field and not settle down, there's a way to do
it honestly and respectfully because there are multiple people that
are dating multiple people at the same time, you know,
so I just think the disrespectful way of it all
is super played out, super corny, Like it says a
lot about people's character at this point.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
I can't even vibe with people that are moving like that.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
This shows like you probably move like that in every
aspect of your life. Yeah, because there's a way to
be open and honest about playing the field.
Speaker 5 (33:27):
I'm gonna give my petty award to your person.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
Is that you want to give the awesome.
Speaker 3 (33:32):
I was gonna give its off set, but you know
that was pretty petty.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Wife.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
Oh the warrant, You're right, absolutely a petty.
Speaker 3 (33:38):
Word out of a week. Now, let's get into petty
mel Dear Kayla and Kayla.
Speaker 4 (33:43):
I'm about to be forty one, and I don't think
I have another heartbreak in me.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
I have.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
I have faith that I would meet the right person,
but it just doesn't seem like that person exists.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
I am so tired.
Speaker 5 (33:54):
If you guys have any advice for this person, let
us know in the comments. Man, I feel like we're all, well,
you were in a relationship, so maybe I say we're
all but like a lot of us and a lot
of my friends are at a certain age, and it's
sad because you know, a lot of people. A lot
of my friends from college got married at twenty four
to twenty five, right, and my best friend Gentry is
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on kid number three, you know. And I'm still living
the life in my thirties here in La like so
you know. So sometimes it does feel hard, and it's
difficult when other people have the things that you want
or you envision that you would have at that point.
But I have become comfortable in knowing that what's for me,
it will be for me in the time that it's
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supposed to be.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
God is he knows the desires of my heart.
Speaker 5 (34:39):
He knows that I want a family, he knows that
I want kids, and he never wants us to be without.
So I feel like maybe it's not my time, and
I honestly don't think it is because I can't imagine
a little thing running around right now. But I'm at
the height of my career. I have so much going on.
Would that be able to you know, beg So I
don't know. Maybe just like you know, pray about it,
(35:01):
but also maybe I also put yourself out there as well.
You can't meet people if you're hidding anything in the house,
So try the dating apps or try to go out
places where you'll meet the like manded men that you
are trying to attract.
Speaker 4 (35:13):
And I also want to just add to that, there
have been so many people in so many studies where
it's like people are creating families more later in life.
Some of the most successful marriages that I know where
people that did get married in their sixties.
Speaker 3 (35:25):
So I think love is medicine. Love is healing.
Speaker 4 (35:28):
Like I think that everything in life just seems better
when you have a love in your life. And to
your point, heartbreak equally is just is like on the
opposite spectrum, just as hard as love feels good. So
I understand wanted to avoid that heartbreak, but I do
think that love is worth it and that experience is
worth it, and that feeling is worth it every single time.
And if you do pull yourself out of the game,
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you're not hurting anybody but yourself ultimately, and you.
Speaker 3 (35:53):
Don't deserve that. Like you deserve love and you'll get love.
Speaker 4 (35:57):
Take a break if you need to, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
breaks fine, but don't give up altogether, because like everybody needs.
Speaker 5 (36:04):
Yeah yeah, Well, if anybody else has any advice, you
can always email.
Speaker 2 (36:07):
Us ask at Pettish podcast dot com.
Speaker 5 (36:09):
But this was fun. Thank you everybody on TikTok for
joining us. This was like definitely interesting a first time.
Maybe we should do this more.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
I like exactly.
Speaker 5 (36:20):
We get real time like interaction, which is super super cool.
So maybe next time we'll go live on the pettyish account.
So it makes you follow us at the Pettish Podcast.
But what do you have coming up?
Speaker 3 (36:32):
Honestly, girl, I don't even know what today is.
Speaker 4 (36:34):
It has been a crazy week. I haven't eaten all day.
I'm sure work, work, work, and more work.
Speaker 2 (36:39):
And you're not gonna see yep with thing.
Speaker 4 (36:41):
He got work work too, he's a workaholic. That's a
that's a thing I want to talk about next week.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
One weekend.
Speaker 5 (36:46):
Okay, Jesus, okay, So I think it's a lighter week
than last week. Thing do I have one interview with
a former American Idol contestant. His name is Bailey Little,
so he's coming in on Tuesday. I think that's my
only interview for the week, which is amazing.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
And then other than.
Speaker 5 (37:04):
That, producer Jordan her birthdays this week, so we got
to celebrate next weekend, So reserve yet calendar wherever she goes,
so that'll be like what Friday, Satday?
Speaker 2 (37:17):
I don't know one of those days.
Speaker 5 (37:18):
But yeah, So thank you guys so much for watching.
This was a lot of fun. I like, I like
going live. And another thing about like TikTok in general
that I have been learning with working with them personally,
is they tell me that the way to grow your
following is to go live. Yes, you can post videos
and content, of course, but more people interact with your
stuff and are likely to follow you if they see
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you live, see you actually in real time if you
have fun topics like talking about the latest episode of
Love Island or getting on here and yapping about the
Amy Bradley case. Like a lot of people have those
same common interests and going live and talking about it
and then having a panel about it and Blase blah
will definitely grow your following.
Speaker 2 (37:57):
So I'm gonna be live more.
Speaker 5 (37:59):
I want to convince her too as well, because we're
going to try to grow her social media as well.
But I would convince anybody also if you want to
join the Next Up Live competition, It's happening now and
we only have one week left to audition. So if
you are a singer, if you are a rapper, if
you're a group, if you're a duo or a solo artist,
all you have to do is go live on TikTok
for thirty minutes.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
That's it.
Speaker 5 (38:21):
You have to sing an original song, host it, use
the hashtag Next Up Live Music, and also get your
followers to send you at least two of the exclusive
iHeart gifts. It's that easy, and then the finalists will
be announced. After that, there'll be blown out here to
Burbank to perform at our iHeart Radio Theater and all
your dreams can come true. So share, tell a friend
(38:42):
this is such an amazing opportunity.
Speaker 2 (38:43):
But thank you for coming on my live so much fun.
Speaker 5 (38:47):
Yes, Pettyish New episodes every single Wednesday. What else they
need to know about our podcast on the.
Speaker 3 (38:52):
Misery follow us on the other one too.
Speaker 4 (38:53):
I don't know if we can say on your either Gators,
but at the Petty at the Petties podcast, Yeah, yeah,
all right, this.
Speaker 3 (39:00):
Is fine fun.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
Bye son, Bye,
The Petty Is podcast, right, hey guys, as we do,
I know, and see if we can at least get
one viewer.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Okay, hey, Kayla, Hey Kayla. I don't want to get
started until we get a little at least like two
people in here or something.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
We got one.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Hello, what are we doing today? Okay?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
We're discussing petty things and also the woman who fell
in love with a psychiatrist.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
So I have been all over that tea.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
That has been making me so upset, like so upset.
I just don't think she's getting as much backlash as
she deserves. But maybe it's like she's mentally ill. So
oh she's obviously, but you got me nice to the
mentally ill. But at the same time, like, girl, why did.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
You do that?
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Okay, we'll get into it, okay it and what else?
We're gonna talk about the what's her missing Amy Bradley case,
which is gonna.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Be I am so concased. I am so confused about
that story. There are so many theories and it's just
the math isn't mathing for me, Like I got some
thoughts though.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Yeah, Okay, Well, welcome to another episode of petty Ish.
I am kat I'm Kayla and we are also live
on TikTok. I have started a partnership with TikTok where
we are trying to find the next big superstar.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
How's that been going.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Oh my gosh, it has been a whirlwind.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
So we launched what like two weeks ago, and basically,
if you are a singer, if you are a rapper,
any type of artist, if you are a country singer,
a gospel singer, you can come an audition on TikTok
Live and the top twelve finalists will come and basically
like perform at our iHeartRadio theater in front of all
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the big wigs of iHeart. And it's just been amazing.
It's been amazing to see the different genres that come
up in audition. Has been amazing to hear that people's
stories because you know, we ask them to perform original music,
and so we always ask them like, okay, so what
was the story behind you writing this song? Tell me
where you wrote it, why you wrote it. So it's
(02:12):
been a good process. It's been fun.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
That stuff always gets me be so emotional, Like every
time I watch like America's Got Talent or whatever the
case is, when people are living in their gift and
doing it so bravely.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
I always cry every single time.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
So you have such a big job, such a big deal,
You're making people's dreams come true.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
I mean, I'm excited to see who ends up winning
the whole competition. They're gonna get their song played on
the radio. Oh, it's gonna be incredible. So yeah, and
then I also got to go to the TikTok headquarters.
This is my second time going, which was a lot
of fun. And I don't know, just being there, I
don't know, because like when you're on TikTok, like, I
don't know, it's just weird being at the place where
it all happens, where everything is created, seeing the behind
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the scenes, the people who actually run it, how things work,
how TikTok, you know, TikTok Live works, and seeing the
studio and the people that come on Hi, let us
know where you guys are from.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
But yeah, so it was really cool.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
We got to sit down and do a podcast and
just talk about the competition and then also talk about,
you know, being radio personality, So that was super super cool.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Being a radio personality is awesome.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
And then I can't imagine actually being in the headquarters
where it all goes down and seeing the magic and
seeing the business side of it and just seeing how
it came on one of the biggest social media platforms
to date, like, yeah, change the way I feel like
other social media platforms wanted to do.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Oh yeah, because then everybody else started copying and whatnot
as they always do, as they always do. So, yes,
welcome in. Let us know where you guys are from.
So this is the Pettish Podcast, and we talk about everything.
It's not all pettyish, it's you do get petty a
little bit. But we talk about our life. We talk
about our careers, our dreams, we talk about our love lives,
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which can be chaotic.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Talk about navigating Los Angeles as two girls from the
East Coast and having Oh, Germany.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Hello from Germany. Wow.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
What time is it there?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Like a whole twelve hours ahead? But yeah, So how
is your week? What'd you do?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
What did I do this week?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Well?
Speaker 4 (04:12):
I have been updating that I am newly in love
and it has.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Been absolutely amazing.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Unfortunately, my boyfriend atl Hey, my boyfriend, he had a
tragic loss. Now, if you've ever had a pet or
you've ever experienced pet loss like it genuinely hurts just
as much as human grief. So he's been going through
a really tough time and I've been trying to just
spend as much time with him as possible and give
him things to.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Kill him. There's this book by Beth Bigler called.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
Honoring Our Animals, and it's a book on pet grief,
and it's really been helping him through his journey, giving
him meditation practices. I also got a custom blanket with
his little dog's face on it, like you know, whenever
you miss me, no, I'm here.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
It's absolutely fabulous.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
He's really appreciating being there for him, and I'm happy
that I can show up for him in that way
this week because it's been a tough week for him,
but it's.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Been a good week for me.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
I had both of my shows do a remote at
my favorite restaurant in my area. It's called Disconso on
Willshirt and Los Angeles, and I never had both of
my shows broadcast back to back from the same location.
In that location I actually frequent and enjoy so to
be able to set up one of my host's birthdays
(05:33):
and have the other after party on air and so
many people showed up. It's just showing the growth and
the support of the station. Also a little bit of
a hard week. I don't know if you've seen one
of our coworkers. Yeah, is super super bad accident.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Well, first of all, they went viral because somebody caught
a video of the car on fire.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Right and went everywhere. But is he okay?
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Because I know you work with him closer than I do.
I don't even know if I met him.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Oh my god, he social media that he's so supportive.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
He definitely kept asking about you when you were going
through your loopus and he's just like, you know, well
when you were going through you had that, Sarah. He
definitely wants checking it on you every week and asking
about you. But he was on his way to work
and he didn't show up to his shift and they're
calling him. He's not answering his phone. It's just not
like him at all, uh to do that. And after
(06:30):
the show ended, one of the hosts went to go
find him. They they found his address. They called missing persons.
He was a John Doe at a hospital because his
identification burned up in the fire. Everything burned up in
the fire. They found out that there was a car
that cut him off. He tried to avoid the car,
he hit the median, flipped.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Over, op got a little spilt.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Anyone missed up the keyboard here, but the car flipped
over burst in flames immediately after him in the medium
he was knocked out. If it wasn't for three good
Samaritans that we are still looking for. Please check out
the KFI AM six to forty Instagram and website for
those pictures so we can find those individuals and thank
them and give them for saving our steffush because they
pulled them out of the car and he was unconscious
(07:18):
and they saved him from the flames. His arm was
out of the window at the time, so his arm
is apparently completely mangled, but they wrapped something around it
to save his arm, and they saved his life and
they took him to the hospital. He was pronounced dead
at the scene, but he came back thankfully.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
And yeah, he.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Has a long journey ahead of him. So there's a
go fundme for him, and we're just kind of going
through it as a radio family right now. Wow, because
he's absolutely loved and appreciate it and just one of
the sweetest people you ever will meet.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
Well, I mean, thank god like he you know, survived
it because because could have ended so much differently. But wow,
that's just like an incredible story. And I hope you
guys find the people that helped him.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
Too, Yeah, because it would have been a completely different
narrative had they not saved him, Like it is not
even a question he would no longer be here and
they not risk themselves them out of a flaming car.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Isn't that just so crazy?
Speaker 5 (08:06):
That just shows you like life can change in the
blink of an eye, like anything could happen, you know,
like it doesn't. It just it reminds you to hold
on to your loved ones, tell people who love them.
Because then this because he was on his way to
work on what he thought would be a regular day,
what you guys thought would be a regular day with him.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
And then it just changed. You know. Life is so
fragile for sure.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
But it also restored my faith in humanity because I
kind of think if I was in that position, I
think I would leave to help before I pulled out
myself when the start of recording, But yeah, it was,
it was It was beautiful to show the people coming
together and getting him the help that he needed and
saving his life.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Yeah, he so loved.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
Oh my gosh, Oh my heart is heavy. What did
I do this week?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
This week was just full of work. I like, that's
all I do.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
And then I have my my time to go out
to eat with my friends, like my one day a week.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
But yeah, I mean just everything.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
With this TikTok sponsorship, like going to TikTok and like
you know, getting this campaign and this competition off of
its feet.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
That's all I've really been doing. So it's gonna good week.
But did you do anything, Patty?
Speaker 3 (09:08):
What did I do Patty week? I always make time
for a little bit of Petty.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
So while I was at whatever, I was somewhere and
a friend confided in me and they are going through
some drama.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
That is the.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Tea of the the workplace century chiut. But I did
ask if I use it for show content. Okay, he
said he'll give me the green light when I can.
So we got a couple of weeks, so I'm going
to use that show content. I asked him, I use
it for show content. As he's trying to vent to
me about his drama, I thought that was a little patty.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
He said. He said no, he said no.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
So though this might show how insane I am, Well,
first of I'm not insane, but like, if you need
me to find something or somebody, I can find that
person for you. FBI, I am the v this is
And let me tell you what I did this week.
So my friend used to shalk to this guy and
she has an inkling that he is talking to somebody else,
(10:09):
somebody different, but she doesn't know who, right, no idea.
So you know how on Instagram now you can see
your friends likes. You can see the reels that they like.
Oh yeah, and then those but those reels will pop
up on your feed. Yeah, right, So a reel that
he liked popped up on her feed, and it was
(10:30):
of a girl in the gym doing like squats and stuff.
And she was super cute, super thick, blase blah and
kind of looked.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Like his type.
Speaker 5 (10:40):
I like those videos too, But she also wasn't like
an Instagram model or anything. So she was like a
normal girl, right, So it was like, m how do
you know this girl? So she was like Kayla, like
can you find out information? Can you find out information
about this girl? I was like, I'm on it. She's like, Kayla,
find out if this is the girl he's talking to,
because like she's in his age range. She fits it
description of somebody that she that he would date. Like,
(11:02):
first of all, I need to know who is she?
Does she live in La? Like how did they know
each other? When did they meet? So this is what
I did. So first of all, I was like, Okay,
I gotta find out when he started following her so
I can match the timeline if it was after they
broke up?
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Right, how do you find that out? He sorry?
Speaker 2 (11:24):
So I went back on I wanted her on her
profile and looked at like the.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Somebody what they want to enjoy? This is crazy.
Speaker 5 (11:34):
So I went all the way back into her pictures,
every single picture, and the I wanted to go back
to the first picture that I knew that he liked
and it was recent. So he started liking her pictures
in May, right, So that means he must have followed
her in May?
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Yeah, right they broke up.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Maybe maybe this is a strong possibility.
Speaker 5 (11:53):
So they broke up in April, okay, So it was
like it's the timeline mashed up, right, So I was like, Okay,
she must have started he'd liked her, started like her
pictures around May. He must have you know, followed her
around May. So he's liking all her pictures. I'm looking
in the comments. He doesn't comment on any of her stuff.
I'm like, does this girl live in La?
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Where could they have possibly met? Maybe it's a childhood friend, maybe,
Like I don't know. So I was like, Okay, I
need to figure out where she lives. Right, I go
under her following Listen, okay, listen when you the majority
of people follow local stuff of what where they're living.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Yes, right, So when I lived.
Speaker 5 (12:32):
In Philadelphia, I would follow like all the Philly this,
all phillyd Or like Ben Sayalem this, Jersey this. Now
that I'm here, I'm following La this, La Black on
the block, like different organizations that are in LA. So
I was like, what organizations does she follow?
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Right?
Speaker 5 (12:45):
So she doesn't follow any LA stuff, So I'm like,
is she even in La? I go all the way
back and find out that she graduated from like Boston,
and I saw that she's following a lot of Boston things,
So I'm like, maybe she's in Boston. And then her
most recent sit this is sorry, I'm wrapping this up whatever.
Her most recent posts was her at a concert I
won't say who, right, and she was like, oh, when
(13:08):
me and my friends so and so's concert.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
I was like, okay, when was this concert? I looked
up tour date, yes, and it was in Boston.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Sot.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
She's not even here.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
So I was like, girl, you don't have anything to
worry about. She's not in LA she's in Boston.
Speaker 4 (13:26):
Yes, So that's not the girl he's dealing with. But
he is dealing something with somebody. So I don't think
your work is over because we don't know who it is.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
That was tiring and no more like that was my
creepy like soccer.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
Of the day.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Yeah, that was a lot. Yeah, different, good front.
Speaker 5 (13:42):
Any time, Kaylee, you need to do it, you know, Jordan,
I think I'm good. Anytime I got you, I will
find them I got you.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
Let us know the pettiest things you guys did this week?
Speaker 5 (13:51):
Yes, please let us know the pettiest things. Hi, welcome in, Hey, Emily,
let us know the pettiest things that you have done
this week? So want to get into petty things our
listeners have done?
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Sure?
Speaker 4 (14:02):
Do I refuse to give my roommate back her missing
sock until she admitted to eating the last lights of pizza.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Three months earlier.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Oh you can hold a grids Jesus, okay, sock, someone
else said.
Speaker 5 (14:17):
I labeled my expensive olive oil toenail fungus treatment so
that my other roommates wouldn't touch it.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
I'm not mad.
Speaker 5 (14:25):
I'm not either, because sometimes it's I don't miss living
with people because they'd be taking your condiments, and you
gotta do what you gotta do.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Yeah, yeah, everything's from sure wild.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
Yeah, hi welcomed.
Speaker 4 (14:39):
Okay, my step My step mother died at ten twenty
nine pm, So at eleven o seven pm, I sent
my dad a YouTube link to ding Dong the Witch
is dead, and then I blocked him.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
That's next level. Damn no, that's not funny.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
Whoa I mean? I mean, I guess she.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Got beef with like her mom and her wonder mom.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
Oh my god, I need a little bit more context,
because that's that's a lot.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
That's crazy.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
It is crazy, hormam, I come back to you, so
that that's wild.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
I miss you?
Speaker 3 (15:30):
What what? I don't know what I mean? That's crazy,
all right?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
So I think we should.
Speaker 5 (15:40):
Talk about Amy Bradley. Have you guys watched the documentary
on Netflix? It is insane. It's okay a little watch
it because it's just that crazy and a lot of
people have a lot of different theories. So real quick,
I'll give like an overview of what it is. So
this woman went missing back in nineteen ninety seven, for yeah,
on the cruise ship.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
Which doesn't happen like ever all of a sudden.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
The last time that she was seeing was on the
balcony of her room that she shared with her brother,
her mom, and her dad. Right, her brother and her
had came in from partying all night long. Apparently she
had seven drinks total that on her tab. They come
back into the room around three am. Her brother and
her sit outside on the balcony. They're smoking, they're talking.
(16:26):
The brother leaves to go to sleep. The dad says
that he woke up around five thirty am and saw
her laying on the lawn chair and saw her move
a little bit, so he knows that he was she
was on the balcony at five point thirty. I guess
he wakes up again at six o'clock and she's gone,
(16:47):
but her shoes are right by the edge of the balcony.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Her cigarettes are still on the table because.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
She's a grown up. She's twenty three years old, rights,
not like a child, right and yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:56):
So then he's like, Okay, whatever, I guess maybe she
went somewhere. So he gets up, gets dressed, and starts
walking around the ship just looking for her. Thirty minutes
later he calls the people and was like, hey, I
can't find my daughter. So and then ever since then
she has not been found. Has anybody heard about this, hi? So?
Speaker 2 (17:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (17:19):
So there's a lot of theories going around. People think
that she was trafficked. A lot of people think that
she might have jumped off the balcony.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
A lot of people think.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
That there could have been an altercation that could have happened.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
She could have ran off with a lover, she could
have done fund.
Speaker 5 (17:36):
Yes, there are some things that were like, oh, she
was flirting with the bass player of the band of
the cruise ship and they were together all night. And
there were different people that had seen her with this guy,
this alleged yellow guy. Somebody seven years later said that
they saw her in was how do you say, karasaka.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Don't get me? The junker I don't know.
Speaker 5 (18:01):
You're somewhere in Mexico and they said that, you know,
she was seen with two men who looked like they
had her held against her will.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (18:13):
So there's a lot of different theories. At this point,
it's been twenty something years. This documentary has kind of
opened everybody's eyes and now people are trying to investigate themselves.
So we want to know if you have seen it
and what your thoughts are. I would love to hear
what your theories are.
Speaker 4 (18:27):
See I don't know because I initially thought I don't
think that she.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
Jumped off.
Speaker 4 (18:34):
I think she might have fallen off, and you know,
it was really drunk that night, smoking on the balcony
and then just fell off, lost her balance and fell off,
which you know does happen sometimes. But then when people
kept saying that they've spotted her and like said that
they've seen her and say her name and asked them
to save her, It's like, if she fell off, then
I feel like there's animals following this ship. I think
(18:55):
anybody that falls off of a ship, a cruise ship
has a very low chancellor survivalry.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Right, so she wouldn't be seen after that.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Right, well, they said that because of the currents, she
would have washed up.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
So they said, what the sharks were right there.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Well, they said, a shark doesn't eat a whole body.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
It's I'm just saying, yeah, yeah, I mean it's it's
that's a real theory.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
But I just think that plenty of people fall into
the ocean and we don't find their remains.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
So I don't know why we think that she just
there's no way she didn't wash up, you know.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
Like so I think that that could have been a possibility.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
And if that's not the case, then I do think
that she was trafficked because people.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Have seen her.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
She said, my name is Amy Bradley, Save me like that.
That guy told that story. But also people love to
be on Netflix, or maybe they just want to be
part of documentary, you know, But what do you think
about it?
Speaker 5 (19:41):
Well, I mean that was another thing for me. I
feel like so many people failed her. There were so
many people who said, yeah, I saw her, but I
didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to
lose my job in the military or something like that.
That one guy, yeah I saw her, but like I didn't,
I yeah her, and she said help me, but uh,
I was scared, so I didn't say anything, like if
all that is true, there were people after people after
people who failed her.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Right like time after time after time.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
Didn't like the cruise ship director who after you know,
they reported her missing, was like, well, I'm not gonna
make an announcement because that's gonna disturb the twenty four
hundred other people that are on this boat.
Speaker 4 (20:15):
I mean it his defense, it was thirty minutes, and
this is a grown up, Like I would.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
What am I gonna alarm them? So I see that
side of it.
Speaker 5 (20:25):
So a lot of people are saying, why are you
alarmed after thirty minutes?
Speaker 3 (20:30):
That's weird? Why are you alarmed at six? Sah, yeah,
that's weird.
Speaker 4 (20:33):
So you think the dad, why would you check on
her thirty minutes later? Like if you saw her that
at five thirty, why would you wake up at six
and that? Oh let mechug again, make like that's that's
not a normal right thing to do when you wake
up in the morning as and somebody's a grown up, right,
Like it's just.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (20:49):
There are some some speculations out there that because she
was a lesbian and the family I guess wasn't necessarily
accepting of that at that time, that.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
They could have.
Speaker 4 (21:00):
Been pressuring her to find a man and push her
into the direction of all the people that were flirting
with her on the cruise, according to them, and it
made her super depressed of them not accepting her. And
then as we know, again, alcohol is a depressant, and
Laura knows when you're on a cruise, I don't know
if you ever had did you ever look out on
the balcony that jumped like, oh, you know, you don't
do it, but it comes into your mind. So that
(21:24):
is a possibility. And if maybe they did have something
to do with it or did guilt her into doing that,
maybe they do feel bad. And but yeah, maybe because
(21:44):
they didn't accept her lifestyle. They're saying that that could
have been the reason for her no longer wanting to
be here.
Speaker 5 (21:50):
Yeah, I saw that, tu And apparently did you see
how her dad wrote her alleged girlfriend at the time
or something like that, like a three page letter. Oh
that was like not nice, basically condoning their relationships. So yes,
people are saying, okay, well maybe I don't know, like
it could be you know, she was.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
Tired of it all, or that heardship.
Speaker 5 (22:12):
Sorry it wasn't so maybe she said jumped or even
some people thought, okay, did she have an altercation with
her dad? I hate to put that into the atmosphere,
but really like kind of threw me off about this
whole Amy Bradley case is like, why did they leave
the boat? If my daughter is missing and the cruise
(22:32):
is still going on, I'm staying to the end of
the cruise and I'm staying on the boat to look
for my daughter. They docked at some location and flew home.
That's like the sign of giving up. Am I wrong?
Like that's like, oh, I know she's dead type of
like behavior, not oh my daughter's still alive, Because if
my daughter's still alive, I'm going back to if I
think of my head, my daughter is still alive, I'm
(22:53):
going back to the place where she was last seen.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Who are the cruise or I'm.
Speaker 5 (22:57):
Gonna search wherever last place we docked where she allegedly
walked off with another man they.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
Went home, and the cruise is so I heard it
was like one of the biggest cruise ships at the time.
So I can only imagine how many people are on
that boat, like there could be a chance you would
need more than one day to find somebody, So to
get off the boat and and fly back home.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Is a super bright red flag.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
But at the same time, again, this family is grieving,
so you want to give grace to that, you know.
Speaker 5 (23:21):
Yeah, I don't know, and I don't know. I just
feel like I would have done things so differently. But
again I've never been in the situation, so I don't.
But it just seemed like they move in the way
of like there it's done. She's not alive, like they
never went back they were she was allegedly seen of
Barbados when that when that photo came out, my self
would be on a flight to Barbados searching the entire.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (23:43):
They never right, and so there's just a lot of
different things. And then now that this whole case, this
whole Amy Bradley case has become so popular again, the
brother Brad is coming out with new theories. So he's
on Twitter saying, and by the way, I saw her
two black women.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
This yesterday.
Speaker 5 (24:03):
I saw her with two black women, like they did
look suspicious. Well, why didn't you say this in the
documentary that's funny. And so and why did you have
the point out that they were black?
Speaker 3 (24:11):
Yeah, I don't like it. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
I mean it could be she was traffick.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
I mean yeah, but it wasn't two black women that didn't.
But you know, I wasn't there. I was six at
the time. But what I will say is I don't
because I just got back from a cruise not so
long ago, and I did research on how many people
go missing on the cruise or how dangerous the cruise.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
Can be, and it does happen.
Speaker 4 (24:35):
So why is this Amy case the one that we're
still talking about today?
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Like what is what is it about this case that
because people go.
Speaker 4 (24:42):
Missing on cruise ships more than people would think. So
it's like, does the cruise ship have a relationship with
these people and sells people to people? I was a
conspiracy theorists in a past life. So yeah, I'm like,
I don't know. I don't what is this with this amything?
Why are we still talking about this twenty years later?
Speaker 5 (25:01):
Hm?
Speaker 3 (25:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (25:02):
I think I don't. I have no idea. I think Also,
there's is just so many layers to it. The fact
that so many people allegedly saw her or she was
doctor Phil.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
Did she jump like?
Speaker 5 (25:11):
And then you add the sexuality part to it. There's
just so many things and it just makes for a
great documentary.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
It was documentary.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
And who knows.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
There have been cold cases like that have been solved
years and years and years later, you know, so who knows.
Maybe this will shed light and help find her, but
also let's try to find all the missing other people.
Speaker 4 (25:29):
That missed on cruise ships. Yeah, that's that's true. Did
you hear though, did I? Because I'm gonna talk about
this woman who fell in love with a psychiatrists.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
I want to talk about the woman who fell in
love with her psychiatrists. Stad you see that?
Speaker 2 (25:43):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (25:43):
So I heard this was like her fourth. Now I'm
going to try and give it over you the best
I can. I believe this was her fourth mental professional
that she had some kind of issue with. But she
was seeing this person once a month for her. And
now there's a psychiologists and a psychiat psychiatrists only that
are pretty much prescribe you medicine where a therapist supposed
to talk you through your recal issues. There's no need
(26:06):
to talk to your psychiatrists more than once a month,
like as a medication working, Do you need more?
Speaker 3 (26:09):
Do you need less? You good, your bad? Whatever, But
she wanted to see him once a week.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
She was there was a super relationship of unrequired love
where she was trying to make advances and see him
more often and tell him about her dreams or her feelings.
And he was just super professional about everything, even from
her narrative, So I don't I think he dropped her
as a client. They also leaked out this person's you know,
face and everything. He was very handsome. But I heard
(26:35):
there's a lot of people also attacking him, saying that
his license needs to be revoked and he was completely
unprofessional and his career is now at risk because of
this white woman's narrative about what he said and did.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
And honestly, he said and did nothing wrong.
Speaker 5 (26:49):
I mean, if you watch like the twenty eighth part
she did, she said things like, yeah, he looked at
me a little bit too long and he should have
known that that would give me idea.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
Or something like that.
Speaker 5 (27:00):
Like it was like her her reasonings and her for
saying that he led her on or you know, was
just do stupid you know, like oh yeah, he stayed late.
He made me stay late or had me say we
went over time, like by five minutes, and he should
have been more professional and not done that.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
I told him I had a dream about him, and
he listened like things like that, like what is he
supposed to do?
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Everything he did was completely justified.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
And I think that this woman's again mental health is
questionable obviously, which is why you're probably seeing a psychologist psychiatrist.
Speaker 3 (27:37):
And I'm just more for me. It just creates the narrative.
Speaker 4 (27:42):
Of when sometimes a Caucasian woman cries something, the person
of color is automatically demonized. And his medical professionalism was
questioned and he was being attacked by a complete group
of people just because she said this thing, and it
really does tarnish him when he was just trying to
(28:02):
be a professional in his craft. And it also is
a story of just unreplied love and how crazy our
minds can really go to convince us that a normal
interaction is you wanting me back, yeah, and you're committing
to that, like to the point where you want to
file a complaint or whatever, like make this whole man
the narrative of your twenty nine part series.
Speaker 3 (28:21):
When he did nothing wrong. Where are your girlfriends?
Speaker 5 (28:25):
Who was there to tell you? Like, girl, you're having
a manic episode. This is but you know what's so crazy?
This isn't like the first I've heard of this situation
before where people fall in love with their therapists because
you're sharing the most intimate parts of you with this person.
They're giving you advice, they're relating to you, they're touching that.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
Part of your brain and your heart.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
That can kind of make you think things that aren't
really happening. Mind you, this happens more often than done.
And also it's kind of why people are now falling
in love with chat tbt as wid as that just
to say it's happening because chatch ebt is feeding into
their delusion, you know, and it's like giving them advice
and it feels like a normal human interaction and then
(29:10):
all of a sudden they're in love. So yeah, I mean,
it's not uncommon for people to fall in love with
the people that you know help them out.
Speaker 4 (29:17):
Especially if you're again sharing your deepest, darky secrets and
they're not judging you but comforting you, like right, because
it's hard not to be judged when you share those
parts of yourself.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
Lord.
Speaker 4 (29:26):
No, so it's like you understand, you're not judgmental, you're safe.
You cultivate this safe space for me. I can't see
how it happens. But how far are you going to
go with that?
Speaker 2 (29:37):
Exactly?
Speaker 5 (29:38):
Right, exactly and to the point where you're ending somebody
up in jail possibly or like you know, ruining this
man's career. Yeahs just absolutely insane. So this all story
is weird. If you haven't checked out, hi, have you
guys seen the eleven thirty eight part series of The
Girl who Fell Low with her therapist? Let us know
(29:58):
and let us know your thoughts. It's crazy, absolutely crazy.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
TikTok is crazy and that's what brings me to night. Petty.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
Did you see this woman on TikTok? I was actually
just watching her videos earlier today. She apparently was arguing
with her husband, and when she argues with her husband,
he gets real disrespectful. So in my mind, he's calling
her every name in the book. There's no love here.
Everything is on the table. I might throw your insecurities
in your face, like that's what I imagine when it comes
(30:30):
to disrespectful. So apparently her husband wasn't on probation and
they got into a really bad fight.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
It got super ugly, and he left, you know. So
she went on.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
The government website or the county website, printed out a
or copied a PDF of a arrest warrant, edited it
so that it said his name, went to the house,
taped it on the front door, and then.
Speaker 3 (30:57):
Went in the house or left.
Speaker 4 (30:59):
Then we came home, we found the letter, and she's like,
he's so dumb, Like you don't realize that they don't
take a warrant for your arrest on your front door.
That's her words, not mine, And she he said that
he was believing like she.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
She went home and she's like, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 4 (31:12):
Like some bullshit man, I'm a fucking warn off my
arrestment and it's like freaking worn off for my arrest man, And.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
He I don't.
Speaker 4 (31:21):
I think he still believes it to this day, Like
she never told him that I'm gonna get happy to
that wife a year right there?
Speaker 3 (31:27):
Because girl, what not a bag war girl?
Speaker 2 (31:31):
That's crazy?
Speaker 5 (31:32):
Okay, I want to give mine to offset Oh god,
oh my goodness. So Cardi B is obviously moving on.
She has her a baller boyfriend, Carriod. She should Stefan Diggs.
I don't even know who he played, but she posted
a photo of him what like yesterday and was like, ethic,
we ball right, just a picture of them because they
(31:52):
look cute. The season is about to start. Why did
all say post a picture right after of him? It
was like him like this right, and it was like
it said, and we watch it fall boom.
Speaker 2 (32:06):
That wasn't even so right, It was so it was
so corny.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
It was corny.
Speaker 5 (32:11):
Why do you guys every time like you move one,
you move on from them, you're happy. That's when they
want to get bitter and jealous and start doing all
this stuff. But when they actually had.
Speaker 3 (32:20):
You, they treated you like shit.
Speaker 5 (32:25):
They treated you really bad. I don't get it because
they like the chase. They like when you don't want them,
I guess.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
And left and right.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
I also saw him on I think Joe Budden's podcast
where he was like bragging about never leaving a woman
better than when he met her, like he always leaves
her worse off. Wasn't that like an awful thing to
say about thirty?
Speaker 2 (32:46):
How old is off set?
Speaker 3 (32:46):
Don't you have daughters?
Speaker 2 (32:48):
You are too old?
Speaker 5 (32:49):
I cannot stand when dudes over twenty eight act like
this like you're too old.
Speaker 3 (32:54):
Get a family, generous, get a.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Family, like settle down.
Speaker 5 (32:57):
This whole bad boy like the thing that you got
going on is like it's just played out.
Speaker 4 (33:03):
Even if you want to, like you know, play the
field and not settle down, there's a way to do
it honestly and respectfully because there are multiple people that
are dating multiple people at the same time, you know,
so I just think the disrespectful way of it all
is super played out, super corny, Like it says a
lot about people's character at this point.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
I can't even vibe with people that are moving like that.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
This shows like you probably move like that in every
aspect of your life. Yeah, because there's a way to
be open and honest about playing the field.
Speaker 5 (33:27):
I'm gonna give my petty award to your person.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
Is that you want to give the awesome.
Speaker 3 (33:32):
I was gonna give its off set, but you know
that was pretty petty.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Wife.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
Oh the warrant, You're right, absolutely a petty.
Speaker 3 (33:38):
Word out of a week. Now, let's get into petty
mel Dear Kayla and Kayla.
Speaker 4 (33:43):
I'm about to be forty one, and I don't think
I have another heartbreak in me.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
I have.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
I have faith that I would meet the right person,
but it just doesn't seem like that person exists.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
I am so tired.
Speaker 5 (33:54):
If you guys have any advice for this person, let
us know in the comments. Man, I feel like we're all, well,
you were in a relationship, so maybe I say we're
all but like a lot of us and a lot
of my friends are at a certain age, and it's
sad because you know, a lot of people. A lot
of my friends from college got married at twenty four
to twenty five, right, and my best friend Gentry is
(34:15):
on kid number three, you know. And I'm still living
the life in my thirties here in La like so
you know. So sometimes it does feel hard, and it's
difficult when other people have the things that you want
or you envision that you would have at that point.
But I have become comfortable in knowing that what's for me,
it will be for me in the time that it's
(34:35):
supposed to be.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
God is he knows the desires of my heart.
Speaker 5 (34:39):
He knows that I want a family, he knows that
I want kids, and he never wants us to be without.
So I feel like maybe it's not my time, and
I honestly don't think it is because I can't imagine
a little thing running around right now. But I'm at
the height of my career. I have so much going on.
Would that be able to you know, beg So I
don't know. Maybe just like you know, pray about it,
(35:01):
but also maybe I also put yourself out there as well.
You can't meet people if you're hidding anything in the house,
So try the dating apps or try to go out
places where you'll meet the like manded men that you
are trying to attract.
Speaker 4 (35:13):
And I also want to just add to that, there
have been so many people in so many studies where
it's like people are creating families more later in life.
Some of the most successful marriages that I know where
people that did get married in their sixties.
Speaker 3 (35:25):
So I think love is medicine. Love is healing.
Speaker 4 (35:28):
Like I think that everything in life just seems better
when you have a love in your life. And to
your point, heartbreak equally is just is like on the
opposite spectrum, just as hard as love feels good. So
I understand wanted to avoid that heartbreak, but I do
think that love is worth it and that experience is
worth it, and that feeling is worth it every single time.
And if you do pull yourself out of the game,
(35:51):
you're not hurting anybody but yourself ultimately, and you.
Speaker 3 (35:53):
Don't deserve that. Like you deserve love and you'll get love.
Speaker 4 (35:57):
Take a break if you need to, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
breaks fine, but don't give up altogether, because like everybody needs.
Speaker 5 (36:04):
Yeah yeah, Well, if anybody else has any advice, you
can always email.
Speaker 2 (36:07):
Us ask at Pettish podcast dot com.
Speaker 5 (36:09):
But this was fun. Thank you everybody on TikTok for
joining us. This was like definitely interesting a first time.
Maybe we should do this more.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
I like exactly.
Speaker 5 (36:20):
We get real time like interaction, which is super super cool.
So maybe next time we'll go live on the pettyish account.
So it makes you follow us at the Pettish Podcast.
But what do you have coming up?
Speaker 3 (36:32):
Honestly, girl, I don't even know what today is.
Speaker 4 (36:34):
It has been a crazy week. I haven't eaten all day.
I'm sure work, work, work, and more work.
Speaker 2 (36:39):
And you're not gonna see yep with thing.
Speaker 4 (36:41):
He got work work too, he's a workaholic. That's a
that's a thing I want to talk about next week.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
One weekend.
Speaker 5 (36:46):
Okay, Jesus, okay, So I think it's a lighter week
than last week. Thing do I have one interview with
a former American Idol contestant. His name is Bailey Little,
so he's coming in on Tuesday. I think that's my
only interview for the week, which is amazing.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
And then other than.
Speaker 5 (37:04):
That, producer Jordan her birthdays this week, so we got
to celebrate next weekend, So reserve yet calendar wherever she goes,
so that'll be like what Friday, Satday?
Speaker 2 (37:17):
I don't know one of those days.
Speaker 5 (37:18):
But yeah, So thank you guys so much for watching.
This was a lot of fun. I like, I like
going live. And another thing about like TikTok in general
that I have been learning with working with them personally,
is they tell me that the way to grow your
following is to go live. Yes, you can post videos
and content, of course, but more people interact with your
stuff and are likely to follow you if they see
(37:39):
you live, see you actually in real time if you
have fun topics like talking about the latest episode of
Love Island or getting on here and yapping about the
Amy Bradley case. Like a lot of people have those
same common interests and going live and talking about it
and then having a panel about it and Blase blah
will definitely grow your following.
Speaker 2 (37:57):
So I'm gonna be live more.
Speaker 5 (37:59):
I want to convince her too as well, because we're
going to try to grow her social media as well.
But I would convince anybody also if you want to
join the Next Up Live competition, It's happening now and
we only have one week left to audition. So if
you are a singer, if you are a rapper, if
you're a group, if you're a duo or a solo artist,
all you have to do is go live on TikTok
for thirty minutes.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
That's it.
Speaker 5 (38:21):
You have to sing an original song, host it, use
the hashtag Next Up Live Music, and also get your
followers to send you at least two of the exclusive
iHeart gifts. It's that easy, and then the finalists will
be announced. After that, there'll be blown out here to
Burbank to perform at our iHeart Radio Theater and all
your dreams can come true. So share, tell a friend
(38:42):
this is such an amazing opportunity.
Speaker 2 (38:43):
But thank you for coming on my live so much fun.
Speaker 5 (38:47):
Yes, Pettyish New episodes every single Wednesday. What else they
need to know about our podcast on the.
Speaker 3 (38:52):
Misery follow us on the other one too.
Speaker 4 (38:53):
I don't know if we can say on your either Gators,
but at the Petty at the Petties podcast, Yeah, yeah,
all right, this.
Speaker 3 (39:00):
Is fine fun.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
Bye son, Bye,
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