June 4, 2025 • 34 mins
Hey Petty people!
In this episode we cover the challenges of dating in LA, Muni Long's comments on Black Women, and our plans for tackling the 2nd half of the year! Grab some wine and enjoy!
In this episode we cover the challenges of dating in LA, Muni Long's comments on Black Women, and our plans for tackling the 2nd half of the year! Grab some wine and enjoy!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Petty Is Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Welcome back to another episode of petty Ish.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
I'm Kayla, I'm Kayla, and I'm Jordan's.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Kayla.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Has it been a shitty ass a week for anybody else?
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
No, actually has been a really good week.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Oh, I'm glad to tell us about it.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Oh what did happen this week?
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Just?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Work was really good this week more or less.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
And I had an amazing date that lasted ten hours.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Yeah, yeah, it was great. It was great.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
I don't want to get too much into detail because
Laura knows, but I'm.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
On cloud nine right now for the most part.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
I love her for you.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Yeah, yeah, it was great. It was great. How was
your week?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
It was rough? Oh no, it was very rough. That's
all of a say.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
It's a new month, though, so we got to like
switch our attitudes around right now.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Well that's what I said.
Speaker 6 (01:05):
When I woke up, I was like, I'm going to
The first six months were rough, especially with me being
sick like that took the majority of it.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
The fires took all of January, and now, like you know, letting.
Speaker 6 (01:17):
People go, oh well it hurts, it hurts, but yeah,
I'm determined to make the next six months different in
my attitude. I want to get back into working out
because I haven't done that in.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Like two months.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Okay, now talk about it.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
I stopped dancing.
Speaker 6 (01:36):
Yeah, I just want to get back to me and
feeling like myself.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Isn't it kind of interesting the second you kind of
like start dating or just expanding your social life or
your romantic life, you kind of neglect things that you've
really found to enjoy with yourself, because when you're single,
you got nothing but time to focus on yourself and
do everything you want to do. And then the second
somebody gets your attention or your interest, is like, I
don't want to do that stuff anymore.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I want to hang with you, to talk to you.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
And it's like you lose the stuff that made you
happy to begin with when it was just yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 6 (02:06):
No, it makes complete sense, And it actually is probably
exactly what I did, yeah, for the past six months,
because I just started dating in what December? Yeah, yeah,
it was super recent. But all last year when I
was focused on myself, I was okay, yeah, all this
month when I was like all last year when I
was focused on myself, I was in pilateus consistently. I
was doing dance every Sunday. I was like just so
(02:29):
felt so light and free. And then I started dating
and things just I lose my piece, Okay, I just
lose my peace every single time.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
It never felt And yeah, you know, I I'm dating
more than one person, you know, not that I'm I'm
not committed to anybody in this chapter. So some of
them are realious, funny dudies, and this really time to
just let them go. You know, you like one thing
about them, whether it's their height or their complexion, or
(02:58):
their power, their six or whatever the case may be. Yeah,
and you choose like look and ignore just the bulging,
bright red flags that are just there. And I'm ready to,
you know, chop off the roster. I'm so ready, I'm
so ready to lock in with this just one person.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
Yes, I'm happy for you that you are finding the
one that you think is checks all the boxes, because
Lord knows out here now that I am de finally
dating in La it is it is what selling dreams.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Okay, all right, the City of Dreams. It's it's.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
I was talking to one of my friends and they
were saying, like they traveled somewhere for like maybe a
month or so, and then came back to La and
she was like, I forgot how freaking gorgeous and bad?
I am, like, La will make you feel like you
look like a fucking troll sometimes.
Speaker 7 (03:52):
Didn't we talk about this, yes, Ja, like I'll tell
you we need to We need to travel. You don't
find your man out there just probably like it's or
they have to come here.
Speaker 6 (04:04):
I don't know, yeah, because out here I feel like,
what are we competing with the Kim Kardashians, the bbls,
the Ari Fletchers, you know what I mean? So when
that is the standard here and then you have like
regular looking people, yeah, oh no, not you, Okay, But
(04:25):
I don't get to you know what I mean, Like
we don't have bbls, we don't have like you were
natural and stuff like that. So when we it is
rare for a guy to I don't know, like somebody
who is natural.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Nowadays, I feel like.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
I mean, I don't know, I do feel like the
natural is coming back, but I just feel like La is.
It's so hard just because a lot of people are
focused on their careers and making something of themselves in
this town, and a lot of people it's so many
people out here. Like if the second somebody acts up
(04:56):
or does something that I don't care for, I have
the next person I can call. And you and I
have both been guilty of that ourselves, where it's like, oh,
this person's not at the right all right. I mean,
I'm gonna let this person take me out tonight and
I'll have a great time with that person. And it's
just a way to avoid any kind of pain and
any kind of hurt. But sometimes it's unavoidable because they're like, yeah,
I actually don't want to play this dance anymore.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
It's like, wait, excuse me, what do you.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Mean you want to dance some more? I want to
keep going, right, I.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Wasn't done being toxic in your life. If you're done
with my toxicity, it's just crazy.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
It's crazy.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
But I do also think it's either their focus on
their careers or they just want to have fun and
no commitment and not be tied down. And I think
at our big age too, it's even more devastating. We
were just talking about it. It's even more devastating at
thirty one, thirty three whatever old, rather than when we
were twenty four or twenty five, because it's like now
(05:49):
we're ready for a family. You meet somebody and visualize
that this could be the one, this could be it,
and then it doesn't work out. It just hits different
because as you get older, you feel like the options
are getting like scarcer and scarcer.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah, that's why, honestly, full transparency. Because we are family.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
I am dating something I've never really expected, like out
of my type, like yeah right, someone sorry that just
isn't someone I typically go for, like you know what
I've been going for, what I typically go for for
a long time now, and this is just completely different
as far as age and everything. And I'm just saying
(06:30):
it's just been more successful so far.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
But I don't want to speak too soon, Lorna.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
You can talk about it and then all of a
sudden two weeks later, okay, bring them around friends and family,
and then all of a sudden three weeks later, you
don't talk to him no more.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
All right, embarrassing That don't embarrass me, But yeah, I
just we'll see what happens. We'll see what happens. I
feel like because also last time I hung out, he
was like, hey, can I where can I listen to
your radio shows.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I'm just like, I gave him the names.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Really don't give him petty ish I did.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
We talk about it, I know.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
And I and we literally said, like where he's never
going to listen, But then I told him what the
names were and where to find it. I don't know
why I did these things to myself. I don't I'm
not loyal to myself. But the Margarita at me and
I'm like, here's here's my secrets.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Yeah, we'll see after he actually listens.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Jordan, how was your week?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Uh?
Speaker 7 (07:26):
Yeah, pretty fast. I went to Vegas for Memorial Day weekend.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Fun. It was fun.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
Yeah, it was cool. I kept it cute, kept it classy.
But we were outside till four am.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
You look so cute. Thank you. Your outfits were everything.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
I think the outfits are what I was planning like
the last three months, because I've also been on this
health grind journey since February and I've told myself to
walk in by May. So that was the goal and
I think I executed.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
You look great, you ladies.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Wait, I need to lock in.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
It's all about I mean, I've tried the interimitt a
fasting and I took it. I started taking it seriously
because I did it every so often, and then I
would get angry and ill. Okay, let's just try to
get past the angry.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
And what's intermedia fasting?
Speaker 7 (08:17):
You just like based out like what time you're gonna
take your meals in different windows. For me, I did.
I did a twenty four hour fast for like two
days a week, and then every other day I would
do like I'd eat at twelve and then finish my
last meal at seven and that's it until twelve pm.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Again.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Okay, I don't got the discipline for all that.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
I love you with my best friend.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
DoorDash is my number one app on my phone.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
See that's where I go wrong, And that is what
I think I need is fast or like get rid
of is DoorDash because I'm so like, oh it's okay,
Like I can just order this and it'll be quicker.
I don't have to mess up my my kitchen and
I'm saving money.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Like saving money is where you lost me, because I's.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
The way that groceries are so expensive.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Like groceries are so expensive, it's like you might as
well eat out because it's gonna be the exact same.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Maybe not well, no, because the groceries last year, you know,
a little bit at a time.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
It's not like, can you feed into my delusion?
Speaker 2 (09:14):
No, I would as well because I get mad at
I jor dash insomnia cookies. I'm like, why the hell
did I just pay forty dollars or six cookies? Like disgusting?
But I eat those sugar cookies in bed with my
eyes closed. Forty dollars poor and it fulfills you whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Yeah, but I do. I look up to you, Jordan.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
I aspire to intermediate fast one day one day.
Speaker 7 (09:41):
One day, I'll prep my meals one day.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
People can tell me to do that and to do
the hello fresh type of things like or they just
deliver it.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
But I don't feel like those are good.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
They are great. They are Yeah, They're I HelloFresh. I'm
a hellow fresh girly.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
It makes you feel like you're cooking, so you don't
completely lose the skill even though they send you every
single ingredient and like step by step what to do,
and the food is actually really really tasty. Once we
get about three meals three meals a week, so three
dinners out of the week and then door dash and
so I'm new cookies the other four days and you
live your life?
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Is that how your stomach so flat?
Speaker 2 (10:18):
Oh it used to be? Honey, I am. I haven't
worked out. I have lost my body. I have lost myself.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Same me too. What's up?
Speaker 6 (10:27):
New month, new nigga, new everything, new body, new stomach.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
We're gonna lock in the last six months. I'm taking.
Speaker 6 (10:40):
Yes, I'm not taking anywhere else because I'm let me
tell you, I take it. El's after l these past
few months. Oh my god, I have never taken so
much else in the life.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Life.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Life in life has been lifing, life has been lifing.
But to your the person I'm dating is actually a
little bit shorter. And my cousin told me, like, I
can't gain any weight because I can't be thicker than
him and taller than him. She says, yo you, She's like,
you gotta climb a mountain or something. So so we
got to get back into the bloody swing of things
because I gotta keep mine.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
I got to tow him back up.
Speaker 6 (11:10):
Wait, have you seen that meme on Instagram where it's
like a woman and the man are sitting side by
side with their thighs and this that the woman's sides
are thick as hell, and then the guys like that
like you.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Oh no, god, no, he's no where are the same.
I just can't lose myself. I can't game. That's me though, Yeah,
little one, he short or just skinny are both shorter
than you.
Speaker 7 (11:34):
No, he's like two inches taller than me.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
So when you were heels, he's shorter. How do you feel?
I don't know. I love it.
Speaker 7 (11:41):
I don't know, Like I just I've gotten past all
the people just saying ship and I'm like, you know, whatever.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
I did it as a short king and I didn't.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Wasn't he still taller than you? Okay?
Speaker 8 (11:51):
He was?
Speaker 1 (11:52):
But what I put on heels not really?
Speaker 3 (11:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (11:54):
Okay, yeah, I love a good heel though, Like I
told him, I'm sorry, but I have to worry.
Speaker 6 (12:00):
He's like yeah, and if he's like confident in himself,
he'll be totally okay with that. And like like if
you are short, like at least rocket and wear it, well.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
That part right?
Speaker 2 (12:11):
Well, did you have time to be petty this week
outside of you know, getting taking the ls and the fastness?
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Okay? I have one?
Speaker 6 (12:17):
So my uh friend got married, and before she got married,
I was telling her, you know, don't put all your
eggs in this basket with him, you know what I mean, Like,
just keep your options open because I just don't gonna
work out.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
But now they marry, okay.
Speaker 6 (12:34):
And so now every time that I post on my
close friends another failed situation ship or that I'm going
on a date with somebody and I actually like somebody,
she's like, don't put all your eggs in that back.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Real petty.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Yeah that hurts. That hurts.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
And then when it doesn't work out, I'm like, fuck you, right,
she laughing.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
That's hilarious. I love that.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
So as y'all know, my man, my man, I was
on a date and I felt as though the waitress.
You ever felt like the waitress like isn't talking to
you but talking to the man that you're with instead
of talking to you or giving you eye contact. Yeah,
So I experienced that and I just really didn't appreciate it.
So when she walked away, I told my date like, Hey,
I feel as though she's being a little disrespectful to me,
(13:21):
and I want you to tell me everything you want
me to say to her, like whatever you want to
eat or order or drink. Let me know and I'll
tell her. I don't talk to her anymore going forward. Oh.
So she came back to the table. She was like,
are you guys okay? Do you need anything? And I said,
he said he needs another Cadillac. Oh you know what's that, margarita.
Or he wants some more chips.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
He wants to stake and lobster and he.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Will not tip you if you talk to him. Don't
play with me, girl, don't do it. So I felt
like yeah, and I love the fact that he obliged.
That was very attractive. Oh, because your loyalty is me
and thank you. I got goose, just like wow, thanks guys.
I think that was so powerful.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Have you guys?
Speaker 2 (14:01):
You guys experienced that though, right, Like you're on a
date and the waitress like it's kind of big, a
little bit too friendly to your man and kind of
thinking like why. I was getting the energy like why
are you with her? Like why don't you? And I
could have been crazy because I am that, but don't
do that.
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Don't do that.
Speaker 5 (14:16):
Oh.
Speaker 6 (14:16):
I like how he set up for you and I
love it, Jordan, No, no, for me, that's okay, girl.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Why our listeners are petty enough.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Our listener wrote, I found out my ex was cheating
on me, so I hammered, FU love.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
Your ex into his wall. Damn, that's that's hammered.
Speaker 7 (14:42):
I was like, what do you mean?
Speaker 3 (14:44):
That's crazy? All on the wall. That's a f.
Speaker 7 (14:47):
You you crazy trying to call someone to fix out
of the sombers.
Speaker 6 (14:54):
My coworker shared that she hates when she sneezes and
no one says bless you. Since I don't like her,
I put extra pepper. I put extra pepper in my
food and made sure to say bless you to everyone
but her when they were sneezing.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Oh that's really petty. That's petty these stories.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
And I don't like when people don't bless me when
I sneeze. I do feel offended by that, Like you
don't you don't care if I died.
Speaker 6 (15:16):
I saw somebody turn up. This was real quick story.
This was at a remote for Kiss and We. It
was like a like T mobile or something, and so
it was me and the street teamers and I was
on the mic and I was hosting, and it wasn't
a lot of people coming through, but it was basically
for the grand opening of this new Tea mobile and
this really like ratchet lady comes with her son, and
(15:37):
I guess she had gotten into an argument inside, so
she was already heated. She walks outside, she sneezes, and
nobody says bless you. I didn't hear the sneeze. But
then she turned to the street teamers and everybody was outside, like, so,
no one's gonna say bless me, So no one.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Y'all got and just cussed everybody out.
Speaker 6 (15:56):
Hopped in her car was still yelling, going at it
with the T mobile workers.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
She speeds off.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
Yeah, like, oh god lord, I hate it, but not
that much.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
That's a little excessive.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
It's not that serious. I never was crazy.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
My boyfriend disrespected me, so I cheated on him while
wearing his hoodie. I made the new guy finish on
his hoodie, and then I broke up with my boyfriend
and gave him his hoodie back onwashed.
Speaker 7 (16:21):
Oh whoa wait wait, whoa disrespected? We need more context
on the disrespect because what is that.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
I think you were disrespectful?
Speaker 6 (16:31):
Like that is next level, Like, yeah, we need to
know what the disrespect was, because if it wasn't like
that level, then you did too much, like.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
She did on him and finished on his hoodie and
then gave the hoodie back.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
I aspire to be that savage.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
That's crazy. Oh my god, she has to think she's
that bitch. Clearly she is.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
And I'm kidding that that's really that's next level. That's
next level. So did y'all see what money Along was
saying about black women?
Speaker 7 (16:58):
No, but I'm saw on Twitter that people don't like.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
Yeah, I hear that she's canceled. I know she had
to limit her comments. So apparently he ain't not money
Long canceler. Didn't you get canceled before? And can I
just say, I really just got into the song hours
and hours and hours and I really like it.
Speaker 6 (17:12):
You are hours and hours late. I know, right, it's
like two years ago, right.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
I listened to it every morning and I just started
as of last week. And now the woman's canceled, and
I wish she could have just waited a few months
before she did this. So apparently she says only black
women don't like her personality.
Speaker 8 (17:32):
It's only ever black women that say they don't like
my personality. You noticed that because I'm being myself. I'm
at cause just like your ragny mom and your aunties
with them, and she came, but it's going wrong with
my personality.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
You don't like me, You'll like yourself exactly.
Speaker 5 (17:52):
Take a look at a MERYLJ.
Speaker 7 (17:53):
You don't like you?
Speaker 3 (17:59):
Are you okay? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:01):
And she says that it's only black women that make
her feel this way, and she kind of doubled down afterwards,
and black women are really pissed. They're just saying that,
you know, without us, you wouldn't even be successful. I
believe that she was alternative before she made hits like
Hours and Hours, and that music wasn't really succeeding or
(18:22):
landing well, so that she goes into the R and
B realm and now she's kind of shitting on the
women that made her on a level that she is.
I feel like I see that too often, where people
get to the level they've been aspiring to get to,
and then they should on the community that made them.
Speaker 5 (18:35):
Just that.
Speaker 6 (18:37):
Yeah, that is that was very harsh. I felt like
that was that was a lot, and I do agree.
I think I would be offended to. I don't ever
First of all, I don't ever see anybody coming for
money long money, long, not.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Too much on us, baby girl, not too much.
Speaker 4 (18:54):
You better watch what you say out here and talking
about as only black women that don't like your personality.
You might be because it's only black women.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
That know you.
Speaker 4 (19:02):
It's only black women that ever gave you a damn chance.
But that can be stopped. We can take that card
back if you'd like to see who really supports you
out here. I mean, Moudi Long was on her live today.
I guess she was getting some trolls in her comments,
and instead of her just dealing with them trolls as
a black woman, she wanted to let it be known
that it's only black women that don't like her. I
(19:24):
think it was only black women that supported your ass too.
Didn't nobody like Hours and Hours and all these songs
till we liked it?
Speaker 1 (19:32):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
No one liked your music till we liked it. And
now because you think you got other people of diverse
communities liking your music, you don't really want to recognize who.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
Madeor shit hot. You bumped your head, little girl.
Speaker 4 (19:47):
Instead of you talking about black women, you need to
be talking about the people that troll you, because black
women also supported you.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
But we don't have to though we don't have to.
Speaker 5 (19:58):
Sherry. Never stop with Sherry. Your duets are off and
I can't stitch the video. Also can't save it or
else I would have done that. First of all, it's money,
not mooney. Nice to meet you, and the first question
(20:22):
that I have for you, Miss Sherry, is you said
you you better watch what you say or what glad
you agree that disrespect will not be tolerated because I
can resonate with you there it won't. I know I
look young because I drink water and mine my business,
(20:49):
but I'm thirty six years old. I'll be thirty seven
in September. I've been growing and taking care of myself
for a long time. Ain't nobody gonna talk to me
like that. I don't care who you is, No, ma'am,
I'm gonna get you passed because you don't know me.
But as you get to know me on Beyonce's Internet,
(21:12):
you will see.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
So she never like addressed like what she said about
black women and that I feel like she kind of
sidestepped it with the I'm grown and what are you
gonna do? I said what I said type shit and
set of acknowledge in like this community who supported you
actually feels offended by your words.
Speaker 6 (21:27):
Right, It's so possible that people just actually don't like
her personality. I don't feel I feel like for her
to say that, I mean, it's the same personality. She's
basically saying that I have the same personality that all
black women have. So what do you mean by that?
Speaker 2 (21:43):
And why are moms and aunties gotta have ashy ankles
like just because we don't like your personality.
Speaker 3 (21:49):
I don't know the girl's personality, but.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
I mean, I think we got a glimpse of it
right then and there.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
That's that's fair. That's fair, mind you.
Speaker 6 (21:55):
She's she's very warranted and okay for being strong and
sure of herself and confident, and she can clap back.
But I don't know some people, and it's the Internet,
people are gonna voice their opinions.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Who cares.
Speaker 6 (22:09):
I'm sure there are white people and Asians that don't
like her either, But to call out black women and
say it's just black women like, I highly doubt that.
I think you she just has a unlikable personality to
certain people, and that's okay.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Not everybody's gonna like you, and.
Speaker 7 (22:23):
That's I swear that's got to be like her response,
that is just who she's around, like, and she took
the trolls thinking that that's everybody. And I hate trolls
on Instagram, but like, don't come after usru.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Yeah, somebody said, I personally think that she should address
the people hating on her and not black women as
a whole, not her biding the hand that literally put
her where she is. Her breakout song was made viral
by the same woman she claims to hate her.
Speaker 6 (22:50):
Yeah, because like if she talking about me and I
like her, I mean I like her music a lot.
I loved her when she was She performed at the
iHeart Radio Music Awards and killed it, and I know
people had something to say about that. I think, honestly,
what it is she has been like a target for
so long that she's just fed up. It hasn't just
been about her personality. People were saying just at the
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I Hearady Music Awards that she couldn't sing and that
she said it counted terrible. When she was doing a
tribute to I Forgot Who Will were Yes, Yes, that
went viral, so and people had something to say before that.
So I think she's just tired, and maybe she's just
noticing it, but black people. But I'm sure there are
the few black women that said something, but I'm sure
it's it's everybody.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
And that's fair like that that does add up, and
that does take a toll on you when people continuously
come at you and you're just trying to live in
your dream and living your purpose and you got to
read it. I just feel like, as a black woman,
you know how hard it is for us already to
fight the stereotypes and you know, not be labeled a
certain way. And I just hate when it's one of
our own that gets on public public platform and does
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the you know, supremacist work for them.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
You know, don't disrespect my auntie or my mama.
Speaker 3 (23:59):
Oh you know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (24:00):
Thee so And she's also cooperating with the fact that
she does have a nasty attitude, is what she's saying.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
It's like I get drunk in the first club. Yeah,
she was like business.
Speaker 6 (24:10):
When I had the same attitude as your auntie. So
what are you saying, Like, what kind of a stank
attitude my aunts? You don't got to stay gtt to you.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
I don't.
Speaker 6 (24:20):
I think she was just she's hurt. I don't know
what it's like to be in the public. I like
that people they all feel like they need to clap
back at every little thing that somebody says.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
Where she went wrong was pointing out black women.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
That's nice that you're, like, you know, trying to see
where she's coming from and why she's lashing out that way.
It's just supposed to just taking a person as a
black woman like, well, she said that, I'm done.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
Because I guess I've.
Speaker 6 (24:45):
Seated a lot in her. Yeah, she's she always seems
on edge. It has to come from somewhere right.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
Rough life to live to constantly on edge. But I
guess I'm gonna listen to hours and hours.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
I know because you went love? Is that why you
even listening to it recently? Because you're in love?
Speaker 6 (25:03):
I'm in my I'm in my depressing era. So now
I'm listening to Jenne Ego and like.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
Summer Walker and like.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
Sad girl music.
Speaker 1 (25:11):
Sad girl music in there, she had she gets it too.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
But you know, when I was going through my sad thing,
lizz O really made me happy.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
So when you're ready, just put on that listo.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Lizzo cussed, me out. When I interviewed her five years I.
Speaker 3 (25:23):
Remember that so hard, hard to listen.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
She said, she changed, so I'll give her another chance.
Speaker 7 (25:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (25:29):
Also, like whenever I'm like going through a breakup or whatever,
worship music is, Oh my gosh, it's better because like
the sad music puts you deeper into your feelings, right,
so worship music helps to bring a new perspective and whatnot.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
That's very true. It's very true. I got the victim.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
I got the victim.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
Period. You got a petty award.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Okay, I want to give mine to Natalie Nunn. She
Natalie Nun.
Speaker 6 (25:57):
She went off on Skai Sinnat because basic like she
wants to collaborate with him so bad. She wants the
baddies to be on his stream whatever. And I guess
he left her on red and so she didn't like that.
Speaker 9 (26:08):
No, my song was number one on TikTok, Like you
just keep kind of playing with me and the baddies.
And but again, let's get back to the dms in
February when we were filming Batties Going Wild, and you
kept dming me saying you wanted to do something with
the baddies, and and then you go around me. I
feel like you just kind of like are playing like
you're playing with the batties. I have one stream where
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one of your boys, I don't know their names, I
love them all, no shade, but he was like, pose
for me, ask that, and you were like, you know
what it is if you're a streamer. You know my
song was number one on TikTok, Like you just keep
kind of playing with me and the baddies. And but again,
let's get back to the DMS in February when.
Speaker 6 (26:48):
Okay, anyway, she was basically saying that, just going off
like she normally does. And then you know how kay
Saat really had his streamer university thing and she was like, well,
I'm gonna do a baddies university. Oh Jesus, trying to
take his whole thing and infinite tad. You know, Natalie
is the ultimate petty girl, so I just thought that
whole rant was funny.
Speaker 7 (27:08):
She's always trying to get involved with the youngons.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Bro, He's gonna stay relevant. Okay, who is the most
relevant person right now? Because I tell you she took
that Bad Girls Club season and made it a fucking marathon.
Speaker 6 (27:19):
Is running with that commend her because she has been
doing this for take this baddies thing for like fifteen years,
despite getting older when you should be letting that go.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
Yep, No, still drinking straight.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
From the bottle. Okay, kind of beating your ass.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
But in at thirty six, I can't my back hurt.
Speaker 2 (27:37):
Last time my fault, I was like twenty five, Like
never again?
Speaker 1 (27:40):
All right, what's yours?
Speaker 3 (27:41):
Mine is Offset?
Speaker 2 (27:43):
So, as you know, Cardi b she launched her new
relationship with Stefon Diggs and they were together at a
nixt game and then it speculated that shortly thereafter Offset
released the disc track, so the line was next rich
nigga might take her. And they're saying that's a distract
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because she moved on with another rich person and now
their court side at the game. However, you know you
cheated a lot of times. Come on, Yeah, it's like
you've humiliated her enough and people are going to move
on with their lives.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
And Cardi's hot, so now she has.
Speaker 6 (28:22):
Another Come on, now she's a rich woman, better baby daddy,
indeed better patty baby daddy. So who gets it? Jordan,
you be the one Natalie or Offset?
Speaker 3 (28:36):
Offset?
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Offset really.
Speaker 7 (28:42):
Go on a live true and talk about it.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
That was patty for me.
Speaker 6 (28:46):
I think, Natalie, okay, why yes?
Speaker 3 (29:04):
I love that sound. I can't get enough petty mail.
Speaker 5 (29:07):
Right.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
Hey, Kaitlin and Kayla, I've got a small, okay, maybe
petty issue at work that's driving me slowly insane and
I need your advice. There's a coworker in my office,
let's call her Gen, who's totally lovely, super friendly and
good at her job, no drama. The problem she types
like she's trying to murder her keyboard. I mean it's loud,
like imagine someone angrily playing a typewriter in the middle
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of a library. At first, I figured I was just
being overly sensitive, so I tried noise canceling headphones, moving
my desk further away, even timing my breaks around hers.
Speaker 3 (29:40):
It's been no luck.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
I've dropped a few gentle hints, like wow, your keyboard
must be really CLICKI but she just laughs and said, yeah,
I type fast when I'm in a zoom. I feel
ridiculous making a big deal out of this. It's just typing, right,
but its NonStop is distracting, and honestly, it's starting to
make me irrationally annoyed at everything she does. I don't
want to be that coworker who complains about dumb stuff.
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But also, my last nerve is hanging on by a thread.
So am I being petty? Should I just suck it
up in deal? Or is there a polite way to
bring this up without looking like a total diva? Thanks
for keeping me saying on my commute, I don't think.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
She's being petty.
Speaker 6 (30:17):
I mean like, I feel like when you are in
your workspace, you need to do what you need to
do to be efficient in what you're doing right, And
if you have certain distractions, I feel like they should
be addressed, they should.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Be called out. And if it's really bothering you, why
not ask to move your desk?
Speaker 3 (30:33):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (30:33):
So don't even go to her. Clearly that's her way of,
you know, doing things. You're working, Hey, can I move
my desk to a more quieter area, go to your
boss or something like that.
Speaker 3 (30:43):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
I also think that there's like this little film thing
that you could put over a keyboards, like silence it.
Maybe order her one of those, you know, as a gift,
because you said she's nice and she's not like a
bad person. It's just typing that makes you kind of
dislike her. So I'd be like, hey, girl, I got
you this gift. She's going to make your keyboard just
a little bit more so so I can lock in.
Speaker 6 (31:02):
I like that one too, Yeah, that way, because also
asking to move kind of creates a little bit of
she's gonna be like, well, why you why don't you
want your cubicle next to mine anymore?
Speaker 1 (31:11):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (31:11):
So maybe try that, But also another conversation of just
straight up yo, I can't work with it, like you
make a joke, Like I would say to Kayla, you're
you're doing too much like I can't work. Is there
a way that we can figure this out? And if
she's really nice and doubt like she'll, she'll try to
change or figure out a solution.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
But I don't think you're petty for being annoyed by it.
It sounds super annoying. So yeah, just a plight way
to go about it.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
I think you agree. I totally agree. Period. Well, make
sure you follow us at the Pettyish Podcast.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
Yeah, I'm at Kayla Thomas forty.
Speaker 3 (31:45):
I'm at the Kayla Austin.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
Wait, what do y'all have coming up this week?
Speaker 3 (31:47):
Oh shit, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
I don't either. What is Sunday?
Speaker 2 (31:53):
Yeah, I think I haven't got a busy week coming up,
going to Atlanta soon and living my life.
Speaker 6 (32:01):
Okay, that's her way of saying, you'll see, you'll see.
I'm getting back into this is my first time with that.
I'm gonna work out like, I'm actually going to go
to the gym. I'm actually gonna try to do pilates
maybe like a beginner's class, and really just focus on
myself again because curious I've lost myself in the past
six months.
Speaker 7 (32:21):
Yeah, I'm in the works of getting a new job,
so let's see how that goes.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
Good luck with that big girl job, ASA.
Speaker 1 (32:29):
Okay, good vibes your way, I'll take them all. Thanks
for listening.
Speaker 6 (32:35):
We appreciate you as always, and we will talk to
you next episode.
Speaker 3 (32:39):
Bye to
Speaker 6 (33:36):
Tan
The Petty Is Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Welcome back to another episode of petty Ish.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
I'm Kayla, I'm Kayla, and I'm Jordan's.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Kayla.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Has it been a shitty ass a week for anybody else?
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
No, actually has been a really good week.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Oh, I'm glad to tell us about it.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Oh what did happen this week?
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Just?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Work was really good this week more or less.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
And I had an amazing date that lasted ten hours.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Yeah, yeah, it was great. It was great.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
I don't want to get too much into detail because
Laura knows, but I'm.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
On cloud nine right now for the most part.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
I love her for you.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Yeah, yeah, it was great. It was great. How was
your week?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
It was rough? Oh no, it was very rough. That's
all of a say.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
It's a new month, though, so we got to like
switch our attitudes around right now.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Well that's what I said.
Speaker 6 (01:05):
When I woke up, I was like, I'm going to
The first six months were rough, especially with me being
sick like that took the majority of it.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
The fires took all of January, and now, like you know, letting.
Speaker 6 (01:17):
People go, oh well it hurts, it hurts, but yeah,
I'm determined to make the next six months different in
my attitude. I want to get back into working out
because I haven't done that in.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Like two months.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Okay, now talk about it.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
I stopped dancing.
Speaker 6 (01:36):
Yeah, I just want to get back to me and
feeling like myself.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Isn't it kind of interesting the second you kind of
like start dating or just expanding your social life or
your romantic life, you kind of neglect things that you've
really found to enjoy with yourself, because when you're single,
you got nothing but time to focus on yourself and
do everything you want to do. And then the second
somebody gets your attention or your interest, is like, I
don't want to do that stuff anymore.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I want to hang with you, to talk to you.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
And it's like you lose the stuff that made you
happy to begin with when it was just yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 6 (02:06):
No, it makes complete sense, And it actually is probably
exactly what I did, yeah, for the past six months,
because I just started dating in what December? Yeah, yeah,
it was super recent. But all last year when I
was focused on myself, I was okay, yeah, all this
month when I was like all last year when I
was focused on myself, I was in pilateus consistently. I
was doing dance every Sunday. I was like just so
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felt so light and free. And then I started dating
and things just I lose my piece, Okay, I just
lose my peace every single time.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
It never felt And yeah, you know, I I'm dating
more than one person, you know, not that I'm I'm
not committed to anybody in this chapter. So some of
them are realious, funny dudies, and this really time to
just let them go. You know, you like one thing
about them, whether it's their height or their complexion, or
(02:58):
their power, their six or whatever the case may be. Yeah,
and you choose like look and ignore just the bulging,
bright red flags that are just there. And I'm ready to,
you know, chop off the roster. I'm so ready, I'm
so ready to lock in with this just one person.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
Yes, I'm happy for you that you are finding the
one that you think is checks all the boxes, because
Lord knows out here now that I am de finally
dating in La it is it is what selling dreams.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Okay, all right, the City of Dreams. It's it's.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
I was talking to one of my friends and they
were saying, like they traveled somewhere for like maybe a
month or so, and then came back to La and
she was like, I forgot how freaking gorgeous and bad?
I am, like, La will make you feel like you
look like a fucking troll sometimes.
Speaker 7 (03:52):
Didn't we talk about this, yes, Ja, like I'll tell
you we need to We need to travel. You don't
find your man out there just probably like it's or
they have to come here.
Speaker 6 (04:04):
I don't know, yeah, because out here I feel like,
what are we competing with the Kim Kardashians, the bbls,
the Ari Fletchers, you know what I mean? So when
that is the standard here and then you have like
regular looking people, yeah, oh no, not you, Okay, But
(04:25):
I don't get to you know what I mean, Like
we don't have bbls, we don't have like you were
natural and stuff like that. So when we it is
rare for a guy to I don't know, like somebody
who is natural.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Nowadays, I feel like.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
I mean, I don't know, I do feel like the
natural is coming back, but I just feel like La is.
It's so hard just because a lot of people are
focused on their careers and making something of themselves in
this town, and a lot of people it's so many
people out here. Like if the second somebody acts up
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or does something that I don't care for, I have
the next person I can call. And you and I
have both been guilty of that ourselves, where it's like, oh,
this person's not at the right all right. I mean,
I'm gonna let this person take me out tonight and
I'll have a great time with that person. And it's
just a way to avoid any kind of pain and
any kind of hurt. But sometimes it's unavoidable because they're like, yeah,
I actually don't want to play this dance anymore.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
It's like, wait, excuse me, what do you.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Mean you want to dance some more? I want to
keep going, right, I.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Wasn't done being toxic in your life. If you're done
with my toxicity, it's just crazy.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
It's crazy.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
But I do also think it's either their focus on
their careers or they just want to have fun and
no commitment and not be tied down. And I think
at our big age too, it's even more devastating. We
were just talking about it. It's even more devastating at
thirty one, thirty three whatever old, rather than when we
were twenty four or twenty five, because it's like now
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we're ready for a family. You meet somebody and visualize
that this could be the one, this could be it,
and then it doesn't work out. It just hits different
because as you get older, you feel like the options
are getting like scarcer and scarcer.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah, that's why, honestly, full transparency. Because we are family.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
I am dating something I've never really expected, like out
of my type, like yeah right, someone sorry that just
isn't someone I typically go for, like you know what
I've been going for, what I typically go for for
a long time now, and this is just completely different
as far as age and everything. And I'm just saying
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it's just been more successful so far.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
But I don't want to speak too soon, Lorna.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
You can talk about it and then all of a
sudden two weeks later, okay, bring them around friends and family,
and then all of a sudden three weeks later, you
don't talk to him no more.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
All right, embarrassing That don't embarrass me, But yeah, I
just we'll see what happens. We'll see what happens. I
feel like because also last time I hung out, he
was like, hey, can I where can I listen to
your radio shows.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I'm just like, I gave him the names.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Really don't give him petty ish I did.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
We talk about it, I know.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
And I and we literally said, like where he's never
going to listen, But then I told him what the
names were and where to find it. I don't know
why I did these things to myself. I don't I'm
not loyal to myself. But the Margarita at me and
I'm like, here's here's my secrets.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Yeah, we'll see after he actually listens.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Jordan, how was your week?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Uh?
Speaker 7 (07:26):
Yeah, pretty fast. I went to Vegas for Memorial Day weekend.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Fun. It was fun.
Speaker 7 (07:32):
Yeah, it was cool. I kept it cute, kept it classy.
But we were outside till four am.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
You look so cute. Thank you. Your outfits were everything.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
I think the outfits are what I was planning like
the last three months, because I've also been on this
health grind journey since February and I've told myself to
walk in by May. So that was the goal and
I think I executed.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
You look great, you ladies.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Wait, I need to lock in.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
It's all about I mean, I've tried the interimitt a
fasting and I took it. I started taking it seriously
because I did it every so often, and then I
would get angry and ill. Okay, let's just try to
get past the angry.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
And what's intermedia fasting?
Speaker 7 (08:17):
You just like based out like what time you're gonna
take your meals in different windows. For me, I did.
I did a twenty four hour fast for like two
days a week, and then every other day I would
do like I'd eat at twelve and then finish my
last meal at seven and that's it until twelve pm.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Again.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Okay, I don't got the discipline for all that.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
I love you with my best friend.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
DoorDash is my number one app on my phone.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
See that's where I go wrong, And that is what
I think I need is fast or like get rid
of is DoorDash because I'm so like, oh it's okay,
Like I can just order this and it'll be quicker.
I don't have to mess up my my kitchen and
I'm saving money.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Like saving money is where you lost me, because I's.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
The way that groceries are so expensive.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Like groceries are so expensive, it's like you might as
well eat out because it's gonna be the exact same.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Maybe not well, no, because the groceries last year, you know,
a little bit at a time.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
It's not like, can you feed into my delusion?
Speaker 2 (09:14):
No, I would as well because I get mad at
I jor dash insomnia cookies. I'm like, why the hell
did I just pay forty dollars or six cookies? Like disgusting?
But I eat those sugar cookies in bed with my
eyes closed. Forty dollars poor and it fulfills you whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Yeah, but I do. I look up to you, Jordan.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
I aspire to intermediate fast one day one day.
Speaker 7 (09:41):
One day, I'll prep my meals one day.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
People can tell me to do that and to do
the hello fresh type of things like or they just
deliver it.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
But I don't feel like those are good.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
They are great. They are Yeah, They're I HelloFresh. I'm
a hellow fresh girly.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
It makes you feel like you're cooking, so you don't
completely lose the skill even though they send you every
single ingredient and like step by step what to do,
and the food is actually really really tasty. Once we
get about three meals three meals a week, so three
dinners out of the week and then door dash and
so I'm new cookies the other four days and you
live your life?
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Is that how your stomach so flat?
Speaker 2 (10:18):
Oh it used to be? Honey, I am. I haven't
worked out. I have lost my body. I have lost myself.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Same me too. What's up?
Speaker 6 (10:27):
New month, new nigga, new everything, new body, new stomach.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
We're gonna lock in the last six months. I'm taking.
Speaker 6 (10:40):
Yes, I'm not taking anywhere else because I'm let me
tell you, I take it. El's after l these past
few months. Oh my god, I have never taken so
much else in the life.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Life.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Life in life has been lifing, life has been lifing.
But to your the person I'm dating is actually a
little bit shorter. And my cousin told me, like, I
can't gain any weight because I can't be thicker than
him and taller than him. She says, yo you, She's like,
you gotta climb a mountain or something. So so we
got to get back into the bloody swing of things
because I gotta keep mine.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
I got to tow him back up.
Speaker 6 (11:10):
Wait, have you seen that meme on Instagram where it's
like a woman and the man are sitting side by
side with their thighs and this that the woman's sides
are thick as hell, and then the guys like that
like you.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Oh no, god, no, he's no where are the same.
I just can't lose myself. I can't game. That's me though, Yeah,
little one, he short or just skinny are both shorter
than you.
Speaker 7 (11:34):
No, he's like two inches taller than me.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
So when you were heels, he's shorter. How do you feel?
I don't know. I love it.
Speaker 7 (11:41):
I don't know, Like I just I've gotten past all
the people just saying ship and I'm like, you know, whatever.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
I did it as a short king and I didn't.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Wasn't he still taller than you? Okay?
Speaker 8 (11:51):
He was?
Speaker 1 (11:52):
But what I put on heels not really?
Speaker 3 (11:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (11:54):
Okay, yeah, I love a good heel though, Like I
told him, I'm sorry, but I have to worry.
Speaker 6 (12:00):
He's like yeah, and if he's like confident in himself,
he'll be totally okay with that. And like like if
you are short, like at least rocket and wear it, well.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
That part right?
Speaker 2 (12:11):
Well, did you have time to be petty this week
outside of you know, getting taking the ls and the fastness?
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Okay? I have one?
Speaker 6 (12:17):
So my uh friend got married, and before she got married,
I was telling her, you know, don't put all your
eggs in this basket with him, you know what I mean, Like,
just keep your options open because I just don't gonna
work out.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
But now they marry, okay.
Speaker 6 (12:34):
And so now every time that I post on my
close friends another failed situation ship or that I'm going
on a date with somebody and I actually like somebody,
she's like, don't put all your eggs in that back.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Real petty.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Yeah that hurts. That hurts.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
And then when it doesn't work out, I'm like, fuck you, right,
she laughing.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
That's hilarious. I love that.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
So as y'all know, my man, my man, I was
on a date and I felt as though the waitress.
You ever felt like the waitress like isn't talking to
you but talking to the man that you're with instead
of talking to you or giving you eye contact. Yeah,
So I experienced that and I just really didn't appreciate it.
So when she walked away, I told my date like, Hey,
I feel as though she's being a little disrespectful to me,
(13:21):
and I want you to tell me everything you want
me to say to her, like whatever you want to
eat or order or drink. Let me know and I'll
tell her. I don't talk to her anymore going forward. Oh.
So she came back to the table. She was like,
are you guys okay? Do you need anything? And I said,
he said he needs another Cadillac. Oh you know what's that, margarita.
Or he wants some more chips.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
He wants to stake and lobster and he.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
Will not tip you if you talk to him. Don't
play with me, girl, don't do it. So I felt
like yeah, and I love the fact that he obliged.
That was very attractive. Oh, because your loyalty is me
and thank you. I got goose, just like wow, thanks guys.
I think that was so powerful.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Have you guys?
Speaker 2 (14:01):
You guys experienced that though, right, Like you're on a
date and the waitress like it's kind of big, a
little bit too friendly to your man and kind of
thinking like why. I was getting the energy like why
are you with her? Like why don't you? And I
could have been crazy because I am that, but don't
do that.
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Don't do that.
Speaker 5 (14:16):
Oh.
Speaker 6 (14:16):
I like how he set up for you and I
love it, Jordan, No, no, for me, that's okay, girl.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Why our listeners are petty enough.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Our listener wrote, I found out my ex was cheating
on me, so I hammered, FU love.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
Your ex into his wall. Damn, that's that's hammered.
Speaker 7 (14:42):
I was like, what do you mean?
Speaker 3 (14:44):
That's crazy? All on the wall. That's a f.
Speaker 7 (14:47):
You you crazy trying to call someone to fix out
of the sombers.
Speaker 6 (14:54):
My coworker shared that she hates when she sneezes and
no one says bless you. Since I don't like her,
I put extra pepper. I put extra pepper in my
food and made sure to say bless you to everyone
but her when they were sneezing.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Oh that's really petty. That's petty these stories.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
And I don't like when people don't bless me when
I sneeze. I do feel offended by that, Like you
don't you don't care if I died.
Speaker 6 (15:16):
I saw somebody turn up. This was real quick story.
This was at a remote for Kiss and We. It
was like a like T mobile or something, and so
it was me and the street teamers and I was
on the mic and I was hosting, and it wasn't
a lot of people coming through, but it was basically
for the grand opening of this new Tea mobile and
this really like ratchet lady comes with her son, and
(15:37):
I guess she had gotten into an argument inside, so
she was already heated. She walks outside, she sneezes, and
nobody says bless you. I didn't hear the sneeze. But
then she turned to the street teamers and everybody was outside, like, so,
no one's gonna say bless me, So no one.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
Y'all got and just cussed everybody out.
Speaker 6 (15:56):
Hopped in her car was still yelling, going at it
with the T mobile workers.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
She speeds off.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
Yeah, like, oh god lord, I hate it, but not
that much.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
That's a little excessive.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
It's not that serious. I never was crazy.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
My boyfriend disrespected me, so I cheated on him while
wearing his hoodie. I made the new guy finish on
his hoodie, and then I broke up with my boyfriend
and gave him his hoodie back onwashed.
Speaker 7 (16:21):
Oh whoa wait wait, whoa disrespected? We need more context
on the disrespect because what is that.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
I think you were disrespectful?
Speaker 6 (16:31):
Like that is next level, Like, yeah, we need to
know what the disrespect was, because if it wasn't like
that level, then you did too much, like.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
She did on him and finished on his hoodie and
then gave the hoodie back.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
I aspire to be that savage.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
That's crazy. Oh my god, she has to think she's
that bitch. Clearly she is.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
And I'm kidding that that's really that's next level. That's
next level. So did y'all see what money Along was
saying about black women?
Speaker 7 (16:58):
No, but I'm saw on Twitter that people don't like.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
Yeah, I hear that she's canceled. I know she had
to limit her comments. So apparently he ain't not money
Long canceler. Didn't you get canceled before? And can I
just say, I really just got into the song hours
and hours and hours and I really like it.
Speaker 6 (17:12):
You are hours and hours late. I know, right, it's
like two years ago, right.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
I listened to it every morning and I just started
as of last week. And now the woman's canceled, and
I wish she could have just waited a few months
before she did this. So apparently she says only black
women don't like her personality.
Speaker 8 (17:32):
It's only ever black women that say they don't like
my personality. You noticed that because I'm being myself. I'm
at cause just like your ragny mom and your aunties
with them, and she came, but it's going wrong with
my personality.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
You don't like me, You'll like yourself exactly.
Speaker 5 (17:52):
Take a look at a MERYLJ.
Speaker 7 (17:53):
You don't like you?
Speaker 3 (17:59):
Are you okay? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:01):
And she says that it's only black women that make
her feel this way, and she kind of doubled down afterwards,
and black women are really pissed. They're just saying that,
you know, without us, you wouldn't even be successful. I
believe that she was alternative before she made hits like
Hours and Hours, and that music wasn't really succeeding or
(18:22):
landing well, so that she goes into the R and
B realm and now she's kind of shitting on the
women that made her on a level that she is.
I feel like I see that too often, where people
get to the level they've been aspiring to get to,
and then they should on the community that made them.
Speaker 5 (18:35):
Just that.
Speaker 6 (18:37):
Yeah, that is that was very harsh. I felt like
that was that was a lot, and I do agree.
I think I would be offended to. I don't ever
First of all, I don't ever see anybody coming for
money long money, long, not.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Too much on us, baby girl, not too much.
Speaker 4 (18:54):
You better watch what you say out here and talking
about as only black women that don't like your personality.
You might be because it's only black women.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
That know you.
Speaker 4 (19:02):
It's only black women that ever gave you a damn chance.
But that can be stopped. We can take that card
back if you'd like to see who really supports you
out here. I mean, Moudi Long was on her live today.
I guess she was getting some trolls in her comments,
and instead of her just dealing with them trolls as
a black woman, she wanted to let it be known
that it's only black women that don't like her. I
(19:24):
think it was only black women that supported your ass too.
Didn't nobody like Hours and Hours and all these songs
till we liked it?
Speaker 1 (19:32):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (19:33):
No one liked your music till we liked it. And
now because you think you got other people of diverse
communities liking your music, you don't really want to recognize who.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
Madeor shit hot. You bumped your head, little girl.
Speaker 4 (19:47):
Instead of you talking about black women, you need to
be talking about the people that troll you, because black
women also supported you.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
But we don't have to though we don't have to.
Speaker 5 (19:58):
Sherry. Never stop with Sherry. Your duets are off and
I can't stitch the video. Also can't save it or
else I would have done that. First of all, it's money,
not mooney. Nice to meet you, and the first question
(20:22):
that I have for you, Miss Sherry, is you said
you you better watch what you say or what glad
you agree that disrespect will not be tolerated because I
can resonate with you there it won't. I know I
look young because I drink water and mine my business,
(20:49):
but I'm thirty six years old. I'll be thirty seven
in September. I've been growing and taking care of myself
for a long time. Ain't nobody gonna talk to me
like that. I don't care who you is, No, ma'am,
I'm gonna get you passed because you don't know me.
But as you get to know me on Beyonce's Internet,
(21:12):
you will see.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
So she never like addressed like what she said about
black women and that I feel like she kind of
sidestepped it with the I'm grown and what are you
gonna do? I said what I said type shit and
set of acknowledge in like this community who supported you
actually feels offended by your words.
Speaker 6 (21:27):
Right, It's so possible that people just actually don't like
her personality. I don't feel I feel like for her
to say that, I mean, it's the same personality. She's
basically saying that I have the same personality that all
black women have. So what do you mean by that?
Speaker 2 (21:43):
And why are moms and aunties gotta have ashy ankles
like just because we don't like your personality.
Speaker 3 (21:49):
I don't know the girl's personality, but.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
I mean, I think we got a glimpse of it
right then and there.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
That's that's fair. That's fair, mind you.
Speaker 6 (21:55):
She's she's very warranted and okay for being strong and
sure of herself and confident, and she can clap back.
But I don't know some people, and it's the Internet,
people are gonna voice their opinions.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Who cares.
Speaker 6 (22:09):
I'm sure there are white people and Asians that don't
like her either, But to call out black women and
say it's just black women like, I highly doubt that.
I think you she just has a unlikable personality to
certain people, and that's okay.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Not everybody's gonna like you, and.
Speaker 7 (22:23):
That's I swear that's got to be like her response,
that is just who she's around, like, and she took
the trolls thinking that that's everybody. And I hate trolls
on Instagram, but like, don't come after usru.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Yeah, somebody said, I personally think that she should address
the people hating on her and not black women as
a whole, not her biding the hand that literally put
her where she is. Her breakout song was made viral
by the same woman she claims to hate her.
Speaker 6 (22:50):
Yeah, because like if she talking about me and I
like her, I mean I like her music a lot.
I loved her when she was She performed at the
iHeart Radio Music Awards and killed it, and I know
people had something to say about that. I think, honestly,
what it is she has been like a target for
so long that she's just fed up. It hasn't just
been about her personality. People were saying just at the
(23:10):
I Hearady Music Awards that she couldn't sing and that
she said it counted terrible. When she was doing a
tribute to I Forgot Who Will were Yes, Yes, that
went viral, so and people had something to say before that.
So I think she's just tired, and maybe she's just
noticing it, but black people. But I'm sure there are
the few black women that said something, but I'm sure
it's it's everybody.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
And that's fair like that that does add up, and
that does take a toll on you when people continuously
come at you and you're just trying to live in
your dream and living your purpose and you got to
read it. I just feel like, as a black woman,
you know how hard it is for us already to
fight the stereotypes and you know, not be labeled a
certain way. And I just hate when it's one of
our own that gets on public public platform and does
(23:53):
the you know, supremacist work for them.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
You know, don't disrespect my auntie or my mama.
Speaker 3 (23:59):
Oh you know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (24:00):
Thee so And she's also cooperating with the fact that
she does have a nasty attitude, is what she's saying.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
It's like I get drunk in the first club. Yeah,
she was like business.
Speaker 6 (24:10):
When I had the same attitude as your auntie. So
what are you saying, Like, what kind of a stank
attitude my aunts? You don't got to stay gtt to you.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
I don't.
Speaker 6 (24:20):
I think she was just she's hurt. I don't know
what it's like to be in the public. I like
that people they all feel like they need to clap
back at every little thing that somebody says.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
Where she went wrong was pointing out black women.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
That's nice that you're, like, you know, trying to see
where she's coming from and why she's lashing out that way.
It's just supposed to just taking a person as a
black woman like, well, she said that, I'm done.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
Because I guess I've.
Speaker 6 (24:45):
Seated a lot in her. Yeah, she's she always seems
on edge. It has to come from somewhere right.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
Rough life to live to constantly on edge. But I
guess I'm gonna listen to hours and hours.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
I know because you went love? Is that why you
even listening to it recently? Because you're in love?
Speaker 6 (25:03):
I'm in my I'm in my depressing era. So now
I'm listening to Jenne Ego and like.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
Summer Walker and like.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
Sad girl music.
Speaker 1 (25:11):
Sad girl music in there, she had she gets it too.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
But you know, when I was going through my sad thing,
lizz O really made me happy.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
So when you're ready, just put on that listo.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Lizzo cussed, me out. When I interviewed her five years I.
Speaker 3 (25:23):
Remember that so hard, hard to listen.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
She said, she changed, so I'll give her another chance.
Speaker 7 (25:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (25:29):
Also, like whenever I'm like going through a breakup or whatever,
worship music is, Oh my gosh, it's better because like
the sad music puts you deeper into your feelings, right,
so worship music helps to bring a new perspective and whatnot.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
That's very true. It's very true. I got the victim.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
I got the victim.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
Period. You got a petty award.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Okay, I want to give mine to Natalie Nunn. She
Natalie Nun.
Speaker 6 (25:57):
She went off on Skai Sinnat because basic like she
wants to collaborate with him so bad. She wants the
baddies to be on his stream whatever. And I guess
he left her on red and so she didn't like that.
Speaker 9 (26:08):
No, my song was number one on TikTok, Like you
just keep kind of playing with me and the baddies.
And but again, let's get back to the dms in
February when we were filming Batties Going Wild, and you
kept dming me saying you wanted to do something with
the baddies, and and then you go around me. I
feel like you just kind of like are playing like
you're playing with the batties. I have one stream where
(26:30):
one of your boys, I don't know their names, I
love them all, no shade, but he was like, pose
for me, ask that, and you were like, you know
what it is if you're a streamer. You know my
song was number one on TikTok, Like you just keep
kind of playing with me and the baddies. And but again,
let's get back to the DMS in February when.
Speaker 6 (26:48):
Okay, anyway, she was basically saying that, just going off
like she normally does. And then you know how kay
Saat really had his streamer university thing and she was like, well,
I'm gonna do a baddies university. Oh Jesus, trying to
take his whole thing and infinite tad. You know, Natalie
is the ultimate petty girl, so I just thought that
whole rant was funny.
Speaker 7 (27:08):
She's always trying to get involved with the youngons.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Bro, He's gonna stay relevant. Okay, who is the most
relevant person right now? Because I tell you she took
that Bad Girls Club season and made it a fucking marathon.
Speaker 6 (27:19):
Is running with that commend her because she has been
doing this for take this baddies thing for like fifteen years,
despite getting older when you should be letting that go.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
Yep, No, still drinking straight.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
From the bottle. Okay, kind of beating your ass.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
But in at thirty six, I can't my back hurt.
Speaker 2 (27:37):
Last time my fault, I was like twenty five, Like
never again?
Speaker 1 (27:40):
All right, what's yours?
Speaker 3 (27:41):
Mine is Offset?
Speaker 2 (27:43):
So, as you know, Cardi b she launched her new
relationship with Stefon Diggs and they were together at a
nixt game and then it speculated that shortly thereafter Offset
released the disc track, so the line was next rich
nigga might take her. And they're saying that's a distract
(28:04):
because she moved on with another rich person and now
their court side at the game. However, you know you
cheated a lot of times. Come on, Yeah, it's like
you've humiliated her enough and people are going to move
on with their lives.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
And Cardi's hot, so now she has.
Speaker 6 (28:22):
Another Come on, now she's a rich woman, better baby daddy,
indeed better patty baby daddy. So who gets it? Jordan,
you be the one Natalie or Offset?
Speaker 3 (28:36):
Offset?
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Offset really.
Speaker 7 (28:42):
Go on a live true and talk about it.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
That was patty for me.
Speaker 6 (28:46):
I think, Natalie, okay, why yes?
Speaker 3 (29:04):
I love that sound. I can't get enough petty mail.
Speaker 5 (29:07):
Right.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
Hey, Kaitlin and Kayla, I've got a small, okay, maybe
petty issue at work that's driving me slowly insane and
I need your advice. There's a coworker in my office,
let's call her Gen, who's totally lovely, super friendly and
good at her job, no drama. The problem she types
like she's trying to murder her keyboard. I mean it's loud,
like imagine someone angrily playing a typewriter in the middle
(29:30):
of a library. At first, I figured I was just
being overly sensitive, so I tried noise canceling headphones, moving
my desk further away, even timing my breaks around hers.
Speaker 3 (29:40):
It's been no luck.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
I've dropped a few gentle hints, like wow, your keyboard
must be really CLICKI but she just laughs and said, yeah,
I type fast when I'm in a zoom. I feel
ridiculous making a big deal out of this. It's just typing, right,
but its NonStop is distracting, and honestly, it's starting to
make me irrationally annoyed at everything she does. I don't
want to be that coworker who complains about dumb stuff.
(30:02):
But also, my last nerve is hanging on by a thread.
So am I being petty? Should I just suck it
up in deal? Or is there a polite way to
bring this up without looking like a total diva? Thanks
for keeping me saying on my commute, I don't think.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
She's being petty.
Speaker 6 (30:17):
I mean like, I feel like when you are in
your workspace, you need to do what you need to
do to be efficient in what you're doing right, And
if you have certain distractions, I feel like they should
be addressed, they should.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Be called out. And if it's really bothering you, why
not ask to move your desk?
Speaker 3 (30:33):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (30:33):
So don't even go to her. Clearly that's her way of,
you know, doing things. You're working, Hey, can I move
my desk to a more quieter area, go to your
boss or something like that.
Speaker 3 (30:43):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
I also think that there's like this little film thing
that you could put over a keyboards, like silence it.
Maybe order her one of those, you know, as a gift,
because you said she's nice and she's not like a
bad person. It's just typing that makes you kind of
dislike her. So I'd be like, hey, girl, I got
you this gift. She's going to make your keyboard just
a little bit more so so I can lock in.
Speaker 6 (31:02):
I like that one too, Yeah, that way, because also
asking to move kind of creates a little bit of
she's gonna be like, well, why you why don't you
want your cubicle next to mine anymore?
Speaker 1 (31:11):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (31:11):
So maybe try that, But also another conversation of just
straight up yo, I can't work with it, like you
make a joke, Like I would say to Kayla, you're
you're doing too much like I can't work. Is there
a way that we can figure this out? And if
she's really nice and doubt like she'll, she'll try to
change or figure out a solution.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
But I don't think you're petty for being annoyed by it.
It sounds super annoying. So yeah, just a plight way
to go about it.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
I think you agree. I totally agree. Period. Well, make
sure you follow us at the Pettyish Podcast.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
Yeah, I'm at Kayla Thomas forty.
Speaker 3 (31:45):
I'm at the Kayla Austin.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
Wait, what do y'all have coming up this week?
Speaker 3 (31:47):
Oh shit, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
I don't either. What is Sunday?
Speaker 2 (31:53):
Yeah, I think I haven't got a busy week coming up,
going to Atlanta soon and living my life.
Speaker 6 (32:01):
Okay, that's her way of saying, you'll see, you'll see.
I'm getting back into this is my first time with that.
I'm gonna work out like, I'm actually going to go
to the gym. I'm actually gonna try to do pilates
maybe like a beginner's class, and really just focus on
myself again because curious I've lost myself in the past
six months.
Speaker 7 (32:21):
Yeah, I'm in the works of getting a new job,
so let's see how that goes.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
Good luck with that big girl job, ASA.
Speaker 1 (32:29):
Okay, good vibes your way, I'll take them all. Thanks
for listening.
Speaker 6 (32:35):
We appreciate you as always, and we will talk to
you next episode.
Speaker 3 (32:39):
Bye to
Speaker 6 (33:36):
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Crime Junkie
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.