July 30, 2025 • 41 mins
Jam packed episode today so get your wine! KT and Kayla sit down and talk about the Tea App and how Kayla's brother was put on there. They also discuss men with short-man syndrome, men who try to bully and humble women, and KT's new partniship with Tik Tok Live. Other topics include Taylor from Love Island pushing Clarke's head on Live.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Petty Ish Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Welcome back to another episode of Petty Ish. I'm Kyla,
I'm kylay petty this week.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Kayla did I?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Yeah? Actually last night boo yeah, okay, So I it's
very what I hit about living in like a community
apartment complex, no washroom dryers.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Mind you.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
We have so many residents in our apartment complex, but
I can count on two hands how many dryers we have.
I think we have eight total. It's actually insane, and
I want to say about eight nine dryers, ten dryers total.
It's ridiculous, and we have all complained, Oh, we come on,
you need to get more dryers. You have like five
hundred people living in this apartment complex, and it's not fair.
(00:47):
So what I have learned is that it's best to do,
you know, my laundry at night. Yeah, like late at
night when no one's up. And it's fine because I
get off work late anyway. But last night I decided
I got off work at nine because the show ended
up ends early on Fridays, and I did laundry. But
some lady was like rushing me. Oh no, she was
(01:09):
rushing me because I was taking up like all of
the washing machines I didn't think that anybody, no one
ever used them at that time Friday night, and so
she was rushing me. She was like standing behind me,
just waiting, like tapping her foot, just waiting for me
to like finish using the washers. And I wasn't using
every single one I was. I think I was using
like four out of like six, ok, right, whatever, And
(01:30):
so I decided, so once I moved all my stuff
from the washer to the dryer, I decided to leave
my stuff in the dry and all the dryers people
will just be leaving their stuff in there, right, and
so there was like hardly any dryers available, and I
decided to leave my stuff in there so that she
would have to wait for somebody else to get a
dryer for you, because my stuff is still in there
(01:52):
right now.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I would have literally stick your stuff out, like I'm
not even like I have not.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Gotten it yet. And this was last seightd at like
ten pm.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
It's like the late afternoon on a Saturday today. I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Yeah, I don't know why I didn't get this morning.
I was too lazy. I should not have done left
it in there for literally almost twenty four hours.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
That's a little messed up.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Okay, I just went overboard a little bit, Patty.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Is what you're gonna do? Your stuff is probably on
top of the drive. It was my clue. Probably, Yeah,
your stuff is on top of that for sure.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
For sure, what'd you do?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
So? I love food, as you know, so when somebody
offers me something to eat, I eat it, especially if
it's somebody who I know is an amazing cook. So
I was at this thing, not an important thing, but
don't think no less, and somebody offered me something to
eat and they're like, Kayla, you better not waste it,
and I'm like, listen, I'm not gonna waste it. Let
me eat. I was starving. I ate it. And I
didn't realize at the time that it was shrooms because
(02:41):
I just came into the middle of the conversation and
saw them sharing something. And I'm a greedy person, so
that let me get a little bit bite. And it
was shroomed.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
So I'm like, oh, what was it? What did it
look like?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
To you know?
Speaker 1 (02:50):
What it was?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
It was like it was a shroom You didn't know
it was. I just didn't. I just thought it was
like food, Like I tell you, it was like a kitchen.
It was like mad snacks. It was mad food going around.
I just didn't think twice about it. So I'm like,
let me eat this because I love to eat. And
they're like, Kayla, there's no going back now, and I'm
like ha ha, like not even like thinking they're joking
with me. When I tell you an hour later.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I was la la la galaxy mother.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Like it took everything in me just to be a human,
Like I'm like to converse with other people. There's this
one person there that I really just never really felt
comfortable around. And I don't know if you've ever been
on like when you do shrooms, you can kind of
like tell energies, you know, like some people you just
don't feel comfortable around, Like your body just talks to you.
I don't know how to speak, how to.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Ye like it heightens your senses.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
It does. There's this one person that always made me
uncomfortable and I just kind of went to go sit
by myself for a second and collect myself and feel
the air on my face. And that person was outside
as well. And when I tell you, when he tried
to speak to me, I literally got up and ran.
I don't even know where the energy came from, but
it was generally like true, like don't speak to me.
And I don't know if that's petty or not, but
(03:56):
that person is bad as jujual I told me like
he is not somebody to be around.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
That's probably what is wrong with it.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Literally, I look like the crazy person, but I think
it was his energies. And again, I don't know if
that's petty or not.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Crush your senses, girl, They're never wrong, even on shroom.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Period petty things our listeners have done.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Someone said my ex paid a gay man to post
me on his story saying that he hooked up with me.
She did this because I cheated on her. Now everyone
thinks I'm dl.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Oh wow, oh wow, oh that's kind of bad. Actually
loved that. I love that. Sorry, sorry, Charlie, you ain't
never been an allegation. A few years ago, I found
out my ex was cheating, but instead of crashing out,
I screenshot the proof, made a fake account and told
him to pay me or I'll tell his girlfriend. He
(04:43):
paid me one thousand dollars within eighteen minutes her dad period.
I yes, I would have been like, hey man, just
so you know, I cheated on my ex. She crazy,
she about to send you some shit. This is exactly
why I cheated it on her, Like that's how I
would have played it.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
But you must he must have done something real. A
thousand dollars.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Maybe he's rich though, maybe a thousand dollars Like this
is oh my.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
God, that's a lot of money, and this is a
cover up, a cheating. You might as well just take
the l and like her, don't.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Be all right?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
So how is your weak?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Okayla? My equo is really really really good. I feel
like a lot of things are moving forward, as you know,
I've spoken about this opportunity in Vegas that's definitely rolling along,
that should be kicking off in January. So I'm really
really excited about day. And then on top of that,
just other blessings happening in my life where it's I'm
trying to figure out how to navigate them. I've officially
(05:34):
exchange love yous with my buffering and so that's always
so exciting, and just really really future plans being spoken
as far as you know, moving to Arizona, which I
don't know how that works with the Vegas thing. It's
just a lot going on in the air. But I'm
really happy about all of it.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
I'm excited for you. Take your time. There's no need
to rush like you guys just got together. I know
you're right, like like in such a love bubble, it's
like I want to move, but like your career, what's
this opportunity that you have. I know, I'm sorry, I
just got to speak somebody you're but this opportunity that
she has in Vegas is something that she has been
praying for for such a long time. And no man
(06:16):
should come before that first, like get that bag first,
and then we can start thinking. If he loves you,
he'll be there in a year or two whenever you
guys want to, but complete this mission that you set
out years and years ago for.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You're right, you're right, And I did just renew my
lease in our life for another year. So even if
I do go to Arizona, it's not till like a
year or so from now. And you were so right
about the Vegas thing, because that can change my life,
my future children's lives, lives of my grandchildren. So I
definitely wouldn't let that fall to the wayside. But I
do think that I've found.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
My Who's I love that? Son?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Come in.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I'm just knna Gayayl's pregnant. It's twenty twenty seven.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Maybe maybe, Oh let's see period. How about your week?
You're not pregnant, so what's going on? No, I'm not
pregnant me either, girl? Have mercy.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Okay, A lot happened this week. I have I got
another viral video on TikTok.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Oh video. I think I missed this one.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Jackson Wang. The Jackson Wang video. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
It has close to a million views on TikTok right now.
Jackson Wayne was so great. It was such a great interview,
and you know, he came in to promote his album
magic Man two and he actually debuted his album live
on the radio with me and Jojo. I think I
talked about this last episode, but we also filmed a
(07:30):
TikTok while we were there. I was just like, hey,
you want to do this trend and he was like sure,
and it just like took off. So that was like
a big win for me. Speaking of TikTok, actually I'll
get into that a little bit, but I want to
say acon I met him this week?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Oh was he was? He here?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
He was here at like eleven o'clock at night. So really, well,
I do the night show. So I'm here like by myself.
So when I show up to work, I'm like sweatpants, sweatshirt.
I don't care how I look because literally is me
ej until he leaves, my pretty sir and like the
cleaning lady. That's it, all right, So you were out.
(08:08):
So it's fine, fine, But it was so funny because Chuck,
who's next door at Real Netty two three, was interviewing
a Kon. And the crazy thing is he had told
me the day before I'm bringing him in, and I
was like, okay, bet, like, I'm gonna make sure I
look presentable. I forgot. I forgot. So he comes, I'm
sitting here doing my show and he peeks in. Chuck
(08:28):
peeks in, and it was like and I was like,
oh my god, Akon. He was like, come outside, come outside,
and I'm like, oh my god. So I dig into
my purse for.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Some ear rings.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Oh god, I take into the person for some earrings.
I was about to spray some stuff. I was about
to like like some perfume, put like commanded blah blah.
Before I could even do any of that he brings
a kN in and I'm like made putting on my
ear ring and Chuck goes, oh no, no, no, don't
get yourself together. Now I'm like for failure but a kon.
Speaker 5 (08:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
So basically he was like, give me a hug. He's
super tall.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
He's like six ft four three, Like he didn't get
like three hotter.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, Like, I don't know why I always thought that
he was short. Yeah, no, he's like he's really tall.
But he came with his artists. He has a label
or something like that, so he was really there to
put his new artists on, so they were there. He
came like a whole posse. He was like a bunch
of niggas in here, and it was like six seven
niggas yes, and I'm like, oh my god, So uh
(09:27):
said hi to everybody. We exchanged instagrams as well, and yeah,
it was it was cool. I was like, whatever, it's random.
I heart whatever, random night at iHeart noreaking deal. But also,
I really want to talk about what's going on with
my partnership with TikTok Oh.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Yeah, I saw that on your story.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
So by the time this comes out, I'll be able
to talk about it. So starting this week, we are
doing the biggest online talent show competition that has ever
been done. And I'm a excited because iHeartRadio is teaming
up with TikTok to push this forward. It's one of
a kind. It hasn't been done before. This collaboration with
(10:08):
TikTok and iHeart has been like a year or so
in the making, So much planning has gone into this,
Like I went to TikTok a couple of weeks ago.
I'll be going again, but they have chosen me Jojo
and EJ to be kind of like the face of
what this is. And so my role as they're sponsoring
my show, and I'm also going to be doing a
lot of lives. I'll be going live on TikTok a lot.
(10:30):
So make sure you follow the Kiss FM YouTube channel
and mine Kayla Underscore Thomas forty. What did I say,
I meant TikTok TikTok.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
But basically, so this is for any aspiring singer. If
you you have a chance for a record deal of
a lifetime, so.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
Your time is about to be blown off right now.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
So basically you could possibly get a record deal. You'll
win five thousand dollars and be able to perform at
our iHeart Radio Theater. Yeah, so this is what you
gotta do. You basically just got to go live on TikTok,
post a video of you performing an original song on TikTok, right,
use the hashtag next up Live music between now and
(11:11):
August eleventh. All right, So this will basically earn you
the chance to possibly be in the top twelve and
perform as a finalist at our iHeartRadio Theater in the fall.
And then also you'll get to have an interview with
either Me or Jojo. You'll also have your song on
the radio. Some of our judges are the best of
the best in the radio game, so beata our program
director of Kiss, We'll get to judge your song, Tom Pullman,
(11:33):
who is the president of iHeart as well. So it's
a really huge yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Wait, so is it Jess singers or is it like
can you be a rapper or a reggaetone.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Artist, any singer, songwriter, any genre, It does not matter.
If you like, you know, have that passion for music,
you can enter into this contest and it's really cool.
So yeah, so EJ will also be a semi final
Judge Jojo as well, and they'll you'll have opportunities to
come on live with me and sing for us. Yeah,
(12:02):
it'll be that'd be a lot of fun. So I'm excited.
I'm excited to go live on TikTok. It's going to
be fun and it's going to be pushed out to
so many people just to basically the premise of this
whole thing is to get more people to go live
on TikTok. Yeah, TikTok has their own it's like TikTok
and then there's TikTok Live. There's two separate entities, and
(12:23):
so they're trying to encourage more people to utilize that
and become an influencer in that way. So this is
a great opportunity. So if you can sing, if you
can do your thing, it doesn't have to be a
pop song. It can be like you said, it can
be a country song if you're a country singer. If
you've got talent, we want to see it. So again,
you big one, Yeah, so again, go live on TikTok.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Could be life changing for somebody. Yeah, absolutely will be
life changing for somebody.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah, it will. I mean, it gets perform in front
of all the big wigs that I heart, and these
are the people that put your stuff on the radio,
singing in front of Biata, like she gets to hand
pick and choose like, oh I really like that song,
let's just like and then it gets to be on
Kiss FM, which is the biggest radio station in the country,
you know what I mean. So this is a big,
big opportunity that could kick start something. And the way
(13:11):
that life is, I mean, like this generation is going
more and more things are online. So it's basically an
online version of American Idol or the Voice. Think of
it like that, you know, like people go on and
have their big break and then people American Idol finalists
like become huge, right but who but who watches TV
(13:32):
like that anymore?
Speaker 2 (13:33):
So who's the TV live I mean, the TikTok live
Kelly Clarkson. Who is the person's going to be discovered
in this realm now because we're discovering people on the
television shows anymore because that's not as popular. Freaming is
where it's at what you do in chat and be famous.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Exactly period, That's what it is.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Yeah, I mean I don't know who I was having
this conversation with but they were saying, like, yeah, I
don't know the last time that I watched cable TV.
It's really sad because they just canceled. I don't know
if you heard, Yeah I did. They canceled Late Night
with Stephen Colbert. Yes, they did.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
And I mean these were shows that I never thought
will go anywhere. And I do see kind of the
celebrity impact dying down a little bit. So I don't
know if that's what canceled e News or they just
don't have the money, but times are definitely shifting. I
even saw it on Twitter that there is the first
slur for robots. Now they're calling them clankers. So in
twenty twenty fifty seven, we probably won't be allowed to
(14:26):
say that word. It's like it's so offensive to AI,
Like we are living in the future. Oh, Mike, and
you're a part of that's slur for clankers. That's what
they called the robots. Well you just said it, girl,
It's not a suck. Yeah, it's when I'm on at
reality shows twenty years from now. They got to cancel her.
She said clankers three times in an interview.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
So funny, but to that point though, Like E News
comes on at eleven thirty at night, right, and what
that show is about is reporting celebrity news. By that time,
we already know you know what I'm saying. I wake
up and a TikTok is my social media news. So
waiting until eleven thirty at night to hear you know
what I mean? I hate that for them because I've
always wanted to be on E News. Like now they're
(15:03):
out of a job. But like it's just the way
the world is now. TikTok is our E news. Twitter,
Instagram is our E news.
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Yeah, I found out about all the celebrity deaths this
week because of social media. It was just like all
these deaths coming, It's insane. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
But speaking of social media, did you hear about this
tea app?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
I did? I did? Well? You sent me something?
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah, the tea app was good. First of all, this
tea app, mind you has been around for years?
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Did you have one?
Speaker 1 (15:30):
Did I have one? What a tea app? I downloaded
it this week when I heard.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
About Oh got it? Okay, so you didn't have it beforehand?
There's been around for a while. This has been around
for a while.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
I didn't know. I thought it just happened this week,
but apparently it's been around for two years. But all
of a sudden, you know, us black people got a
heart of it and it just went okay. So basically
the tea app is where it's like kind of like
the are we Dating the same Man Facebook page that
has been around for years.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
So it's an app where women can get on there
and just basically expostmen or just warned people. It's not
really for exposing men, but I don't know, like they
can share stories, you can post reviews, you can put
a red flager of.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Dating, like you could throw you from dating this person.
It was great, he was a too pump chump, whatever
the case may be. He gave flowers though. That's the
kind of reviews you see on the tea app.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
I'm assuming yes, you could also do background checks and
do phone number of lookups on there.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Oh shit.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
So as soon as I heard about this, I'm like,
oh bet, I'm putting everybody, like everybody that does me
wrong here in La on air. So there's a weight list.
So I'm currently on the weight list right now, but
you have to take it as soon as they that
you have to fill out this questionnaire and prove that
you're a woman by taking a picture when you do it.
And so apparently this tea app like a few days
(16:44):
later got hacked and a bunch of women's like selfies
that they took to get into the app that leaked
along with issued IDs.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Wow wow wow. And it's like I'm seeing the discourse
happen on social media now where it's just like, why
can't this is why women choose the bear. Why can't
we have a safe space we just air men out
without you hacking this app and releasing our personal information.
You gentlemen are dangerous and we need to warn each other.
It's sad that we just can't have nice things.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Yeah, like what angry man did this?
Speaker 2 (17:15):
I'm sure his name is like Bill or something. It
sounds like something.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Did you see that They even made their own app.
They try to make their own app. I was like
it was called box something box Yeah, like eat the Box.
I don't remember. I saw it on taketap, but it
was like box something, box curve or something like that.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
All I'm seeing is a space in the market right now.
So the tea app got shut down, it got hacked.
People aren't trusting that we should start our own Kayla.
They call it. Oh, I like it. I like it.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Something incorporates the tea is Why did my brother call
me up this week talking about like panicking. It's like, Kayla, Man,
someone said, I'm on the tea app and Houston, no
I know, and he's like mad. He was like, it's
(18:07):
just a bunch of bitter, bitter women that didn't get chose.
That you just mad because you didn't get chose. You
different Because I'm about to pull up to Houston by
my brother. My brother, we gotta talk about this real quick,
Like which.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
One are y'a in that nasty I was crying. I
guess he was. Actually.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
I was like, do you know if you had red
flags or green flags? He don't know. He was like,
I don't know, but I'm trying to I'm trying to
get to the bottom of this. I'm gonna find out
who posted me'm I was like, are you treating anybody
wrong over there in Houston? He was just like, man,
it's just people who didn't get chose. You didn't get chose,
you didn't get chose. I'm like, bro, how many people
didn't get chose.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Wait, so the tea app is by city kind of yes,
So if you join the tea app, if you get
off the waiting and listen, it's you know, it'll be
only for ls. It's only for so you will never
be able to see your brother. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
I don't know if you can like type in a
different zip code and pretend you're there.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I have no idea too. People travel. Maybe I want
to hook up in the city.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
Yeah, it should be work, just like a dating app.
You know, I can be here in LA and I
can change my location to Pennsylvania if I want it. Right, So,
I don't know. I'm still on the witless So you're.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Gonna find out. Damn didn't get chose, But you know
who did get chose, Clark, And you know who's being
disrespected right now, Clark. Did you see Taylor pushing her
head down on that live continuously? Was that the definition
of triggering or was that the definition of sugaring? Keep
your hands off that girl?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
Yeah, it was really really weird. I actually like saw
it right away. I think I was in the live
but they were drunk. Still no excuse. But anytime Clark
would say something he would playfully come into the camera
and like push your head, and everybody in the comments
was like, stop touching her that way, you know. But
not only would he touch her head, he would say
something like slick to her, tomb her something hills, yeah,
(19:55):
like oh, y'all, y'all don't notice. But the first time
I met her she had a broken heel, like okay,
but went after her like so hard.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
But he comes out from the richest family in Alabama
or something like that. Did you hear that? Okay, So
maybe he is used to a certain aesthetic when it
comes to his women. No excuse, I'm just trying to
think of how his mind works. But it does bring
me back to when he tried to humble Landria when
he said, what do you say nobody likes you or
something like that, because you like it right, right right,
and then he laughed about it. So I think that's
(20:23):
kind of his sense of humor. But I think a
few episodes back, we were saying, like, you know, sometimes
there's a little bit of hint, a little bit of
truth in every joke, and some things that'll be like,
all right, I don't think you're kidding with me anymore,
Like you really don't want me to feel good about myself.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
You know what sticks out to me about this whole
situation how Taylor told Clark, I feel like I don't
have to be on my p's and q's with you,
or I feel like I can be like a little
kidd with you. So essentially, he was basically saying with
Alandra he felt like he had to be like this
upstanding guy, but with Clark, he could be his true, authentic,
kitty self, so.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
I don't have to try what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
So basically, it made it seem like Clark he can
be his nasty self, he can do his jokes that
usually fly with other women, but it wouldn't have flowed
with Orlandier because she holds herself to a different standard.
That makes sense, But now that's no shade to Clark
at all, but it just it shows you how differently
he views the two women. It's like, I can be joking, joky, funny, funny,
(21:19):
put my hands on Clark, but I can't do that
with Alandria. And I just think in general, like that's
not how to be as a man anyway, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Kind of goes with teaching people how to treat you,
you know, So maybe I don't know what Clark gives off,
because Clark, to me, doesn't give off the type of
woman that would accept being mushed. But I don't know
her in the way that Taylor does. But I guess
Landria gave a certain Alarai's like I'm teaching you that
I'm not the one that you're gonna mush because I
just can't see him doing that to her and her
laughing along with it exactly. But even I think Clark
was getting annoyed with it as well. She did seem
(21:49):
like she was joking on the live after a while,
She's like, they're getting pissed at you, like stop, Yeah,
he kept interrupting her stories, and I just I think
that a man humbling you may not be labeled as abuse,
but it's like the closest step outside of abuse, Like
it's just right underneath it, and it's just it's not
something anyone should have to deal with.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Yeah. I dealt with it with one of the last
guys that I dated, and I didn't know how to
take it at first because I'm a roaster as well,
Like I love a relationship where we can kid back
and forth where we can roast each other, but to
a certain extent, you know, sometimes it gets a little
bit too far, and I can become a little bit sensitive,
especially like if I really really like you and some
(22:30):
of the things that you're saying or hurting my feelings, like.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
I don't know, like I don't want you to see
me that way. Yes, like that exactly.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
So this guy that I was dating, and I one
time brought it up to him because he would say
little things and it would just like I'm like, ouch,
Like is why is he saying that to me? And
I'm supposed to be somebody that he really really likes,
Like that's just not somebody something that you would say
to somebody that you like. And I remember bringing it
up to him and he was just like, oh, sorry,
this is just my personality. I know, I have an
abrasive personality, and I tried. I never want to try
(22:59):
to change somebody's personality, so I never asked him to change,
but I just was like, I don't know if I
can deal with it. So that was one of the
red flags for me that I was like, can I
deal with this maybe potentially for the rest of my life?
Can I deal with somebody who has this personality that
they get off their love language is making me feel
low right in a way, and I just to the
(23:19):
point where I couldn't And I remember one time I
blew up on him because I just couldn't take it anymore.
And I was like, I don't even know if you
like me or not, Like and you say these things.
You say you like me a lot, you say I'm
the best girl I've had in a while, but you
say these things trying to be jokey, joky, funny, funny,
and it's like contradicts.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Right, Are you trying to humble me?
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Is that what you're trying to do? Because I don't
think that you're joking with me, because I feel like
you know, me and my boyfriend, we do joke around,
but it's never in a humbling way. Like, for example,
the first time I stayed at his house, I kept
having to ask him for things like, oh, you know,
do you have a towel? It like a shower, do
you have water? Do you have this? He said, Hey, HII,
how about you give me a list of the things
that you don't need. I think that'll be a lot shorter,
But he's like kidding, and I think that's funny, but
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it's never like about who I am as a person
or like what I look like.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Like.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
He doesn't joke about things like that, and I think
that's kind of the line. It's like we could joke
about certain circumstances with each other where maybe I'm acting
a certain way or you're acting a certain way, and
we do kind of have that little healthy back and forth.
But when it's like, m you had on broken hills
the first time I met you, where oh yeah, that
wig was not looking good, Like I don't that's not funny. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
One time I confronted him about all this and I
was just like, it's not funny to me, and he
was like, I'm sorry. This is the personality that I
had to build to be able to get through life.
I'm sorry, Like he was like, I don't mean to
be like this, but literally, like I've had to put
up a protective wall all myself, like while all of
my life to deal with being comfortable in my own body,
(24:41):
and so this is like what they do. Yeah, and
he is very short. He was five foot He is
five foot five, which is the one of the shortest
men I've ever dated, So like, I'm five foot three,
he's still taller than me. I'm five with one and
so but on with heels were like this same height.
And so he's very short. And you know, most women
don't want to even look at somebody who's five foot five, right,
(25:03):
So I think he has short man syndrome. And it
came out a lot in the way that he spoke
to me, spoke to his friends. He just had a
very bold, loud, over the top personality, and it felt
like he had to overcompensate for his highgray by being
a bully.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
See, I think everybody kind of has their reasonings for
why they are how they are. Like, I know sometimes
I can joke with my friends a little bit too much,
but I want I am the youngest of five siblings
and the youngest of thirteen grandchildren. So all we did
was rip on each other my entire upbringing. Like I
grew up being humbled. I came out of the womb
being humbled. Like I don't know if you know, but
growing up with three older brothers is not for the week.
(25:42):
I got my ass beat, I got my ass torn apart,
made fun of like my biggest fears, locked in closets,
whatever the case may be. So I know sometimes I
can be a little bit too joky joking with my
friends at times too, But I think it's a part
of learning how teaching somebody how to treat you, and
then also respecting other people's boundaries because not everybody grew
(26:02):
up in your family or not everybody had the experiences
you had. So I appreciate him being able to explain
that that I'm short and I'm insecure or whatever in
his own words. But it's a way where it's like,
you know, I do have this, but I'm going to
work on it for you, rather than that's just what
it is. That's how my personality is, right when I
have to deal with it or don't. And you have
the right to be that way as well, but you're
going to lose a lot more people that.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
Way, I think exactly. And that's what he did say
to him. He was like, I'll work on it, you know.
That's but I think he took that as me being
too sensitive and it never really changed. Like once that's
your your person once that's how you are, Like what
was he twenty nine to thirty, Like it's hard to
change right, and so I just just like, you know what,
I just knew it wasn't gonna work. Yeah, it just
was beginning to be too much. And he literally came
(26:44):
off as a bully. I didn't like the way that
he talked to other people. Even at my birthday party,
none of my friends liked him because he didn't engage
with anybody, which is crazy because he is a cool person.
He is very outgoing. But he just wall hugged the
entire time, and I just.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
For being drunk.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Yeah, yeah, everybody felt that way. And I think it
was because, you know, he just felt like he needed
to put on this like cool dude, big dude, just
in case people were looking at him. Maybe because but
nobody was even thinking about your height. If you're a
nice person, who gives who cares? I liked you for you.
You didn't have to do the most just because you
felt insecure because I bigged you up every time I
(27:23):
got the chance to.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
Yeah, and I have a short king as well, who
I think if I were a Hills in a bun
good night Irene.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
But how tall is he?
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (27:32):
I think he's he's five seven.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
I try to say he was five ten. I said Sarah,
stop it stop it don't embarrass us, Okay, but I
would say, like five to seven, maybe that's not even short.
But I'm tall. I'm a tall girl, so it's short
for me, and it's short to me. And we look,
you know, like he looks short next to me. But
he is so bossy and like he is such a boss.
He has accomplished so much, he runs so much like
(27:55):
he is the alpha. And but it's not like a character.
It's just like genuinely who he is that I forget
height unless he brings up like I don't realize that
he's short, unless he makes a joke about it. But
it doesn't even come from an insecure place. It's just like, oh,
like if I bring up a story about somebody I
used to say, oh, you dated six two, way too
tall for you. That's not good look. But he'll say
something like that. But he's never like, oh, I need
to overcompensate for my height, because I just think that
(28:16):
naturally his masculinity just does.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
That exactly so. And my best friend Lucy has also
has a short king. Right, he's very yeah, exactly, but
he is like five foot. I want to say, say
the same time. Maybe five foot five, but he is
such a boss and he the way he carries himself,
people look up to him exactly. People want to be
around him. Literally, people know his name and nobody even
(28:43):
thinks about his height at all because he is just
that guy. Like when you say, all you have to
do is say his first name, and it's like, oh,
he's going to be around I want to be around him,
you know what I mean. Yeah, So he just has
this rr about him, but he's not. He's not a bully.
He doesn't have short man syndrome where he like feels
like he has to over composite for his type by
being mean to people. You know, He's a genuinely nice guy.
(29:04):
And so when I encountered this dude, I just couldn't understand.
I was like, you're cute, You're nice, you had things
going for you, Like, just be kind more people will
be nice, more people will want to be around you.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
Yeah. Yeah, I think that I don't know what's going
on with the with this bullying. I don't know if
it's well, bullies have always been around, but I feel
like also social media and computers make a big, a
big play a big role in it. Like, did you
see the Neon interview this week on The Breakfast Club. Yeah,
and he was such a bully in the chat, and
he was so nasty to black people and black women,
(29:34):
and do you see the way Jess Hilarious like handled
it because they were expecting him to apologize. So yeah,
I don't know if you guys have seen, but he
went on The Breakfast Club and I guess he was
a streamer that that message Charlemagne, and Charlemagne didn't know
too much about him, but they invited him on the
show because, like you said, streaming is the way of
the world these days, so it's a good thing to
have a streamer on this show, especially a popular one
like Neon. And when they did the research, they realized
(29:55):
all his racist rants where you called black women monkeys,
fucking whares, black bitch and found a monkey named after
Kai Sanad like just super uncaught his mom, Harriet Tubman
is part black, he's part black.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
No, he called Kai Sanat's mom this Morrie.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Yeah. So then he was around a bunch of black people,
you know, Charlemagne, Jess Hilarious, Loren and DJ Envy, and
they had no time for him. Nobody shook his hand.
They held him absolutely accountable for the things he said.
They played some of his things back, and when I
tell you, he got so uncomfortable for somebody who was
so tough online, he became such a little bitch in
that moment. Yeah, and then kind of ranted on the
(30:35):
chat like they so dispectful. Nobody even shook my hand.
It's all right, chat, it's all right. But I love
Justic's video that she put together about him, like I'm
not apologizing, And here's why I played his clips and
then played her getting him together. And I think that's
what every really needs to be held accountable and somebody
to get you together, because I don't think Neon's gonna
act like that going forward.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
No, And he's using that as like, oh I was young,
that was young. It was like two years ago. Like
I don't want to hear that at all, right, that's
not I thought the way that jess Hanna that was
also amazing, Like she pulled out the receipts because people
forgot people needed to see and hear for themselves what
exactly he said. Because at first, after the Breakfast Club interview,
there are a lot of people, even black people who
(31:13):
were on his side, like, wow, they didn't have to
go that hard. You know, he already apologized forgive and
forget like they did too much. But then Jess pulled
out the receipts and said, look at this, this was
two years ago, right, you know what I mean? And
then people like, WHOA, my bad. No, you didn't need
to apologize, because that was like really disgusting.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
I love us as the people. I think we are
very forgiving people, were very welcoming people into our culture,
and sometimes you just forgive a little bit too hard
because that man deserves none of our grease. I can't
believe that he even has black people that work for him,
because that would I would want to be nowhere near
you with the things you say and.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
Do at stupid at all. I do believe people deserve forgiveness,
but it just didn't seem sincere to me. These You
gotta be careful with these streamers. They'll do and say
anything for clicks and views. And I don't know what
was your purpose of even going up to the breakfast club.
You should have known that they were going to call
you out. I mean it's a breakfast.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
Because he had something important to promote and that's the
biggest radio show in the country, or one of the
biggest radio shows in the country.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
Well the main fucking river. When they bring up they
always look into your past and bring stuff up. You
know who Charlemagne is.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
You thought you were going to be caddle motherfucker.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
He got off there. He was like, I was tearing up.
It's Charlemagne. You went into the lions Den. That's your
own fault.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
Yeah, yeah, And it was really nice to watch. I
love the way they treated you, and I was going
to give them the Petty Award of the Week, but
I decided to change mind last minute. I'm gonna give
it to the black people. No for real, because why
y'all asking like this? Haul Cogan passed away. Rest in
peace to that man, right on the ten year anniversary
of his racist rant.
Speaker 4 (32:39):
Oh yeah, there's no question about that. In fact, today,
the day that he died, is actually the anniversary of
the scandal where he got exposed for saying those racist comments.
Speaker 3 (32:48):
Talking about his daughter Brooke accused of sleeping with an
African American. I mean, I am a racist to a point,
but then when it comes to nice people and whatever,
then says I mean, I'd rather if she was going
to suck, I'd rather have her marry an eight foot
worth a hundred million dollars like a basketball player.
Speaker 4 (33:12):
He also helped prevent the Wrestler's Union from being formed,
meaning that he was a union buster. His daughter Brooke
came out not too long ago and said that she
was being verbally and physically abused by both of her parents.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
That's crazy, and.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
Why I'd rather you f a inner that's eight foot
an eight foot inner, like that's what was bleeped out.
If you couldn't make that up and make that out.
But yeah, so he was a racist swat who died
ten years on his or ten year anniversary of his
racist rant, and a lot of the black people are like,
we don't give a fuck about your death, and they're
playing brook Brook Cogan's song because they obviously had some
(33:47):
mostroous relationships. Are like, this is the only way I
want to remember Hawk Cogan by pushing brook song to
the top of the TikTok none at all, y'all real
put that me in? Is it that needs to show
some respect.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
I'm gonna give my Petty Award to astronomer so we
all know the situation with the Coldplay affair, the CEO
and the head of HR they both end up resigning.
So they put out their first video last night and
it's the first one since the scandal, and they hired
Gwyneth Paltrow to be their temporary spokesperson. So this is
(34:19):
the video.
Speaker 5 (34:23):
Thank you for your interest in Astronomer. Hi, I'm Gwyneth Paltrow.
I've been hired on a very temporary basis to speak
on behalf of the three hundred plus employees at Astronomer.
Astronomer has gotten a lot of questions over the last
few days and they wanted me to answer the most
common ones. Yes, Astronomer is the best place to run
(34:46):
apatche airflow, unifying the experience of running data mL and
AI pipelines at scale.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
So basically she just goes on to answer questions about Astronomer.
But what makes it petty is Gwyneth Paltrow is is
the ex wife of Chris Martin of Coldplay, and allegedly
their marriage ended because of infidelity. It's kind of an
Astronomer in a way, saying checkmate to cold Play. Okay
(35:15):
plays in this beef cold Play Astronomer Kay listen if anything,
cold Play did you guys a favor. They exposed the
exposed the affair and put Astronomer on the mat because
nobody was checking for Astronomer before. I just thought that
was so funny. So Petty and their PR team definitely
deserves a raise.
Speaker 2 (35:33):
So that is hilarious. I all I can think about
when I think of Gwyneth Paltrow is her selling a
vagina that I mean a vagina, selling a candle that
smells like her vagina.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
That's what I remember.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
I remember.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
I remember some of her movies like Challow Howe, but
I thought that she wasn't a very likable celebrity. But
that's so funny on Astronomer's part. I'm still going to
give it to the black people.
Speaker 1 (35:55):
That's I think. I'm gonna give it to them to
Petty a word of the way.
Speaker 2 (36:01):
Yeah, yeah, funny, cute. Dear Kayla and Kayla. I ran
into the man that knowingly gave me herpes last night
while I was dancing with my girls. He blocked me
shortly after I told him I had contradicted it. We
(36:24):
had been hooking. Oh shit, contracted better funey matter. No,
he blocked me after I told him I contracted, and
I contradicted it. We had been hooking up for a
few months. He did not disclose prior.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (36:37):
When I told him that I had, he copped up
to having an active sore. He is one of those
influence that believes his own bullshit. I confronted him in
the club. He was like, sorry, I didn't say hello
because I didn't know if you genuinely wanted to kick
to say hello or kick my ass. So I guess
he had some back and forth. She's really proud of
herself for confronting him in a way that she did.
She was strong enough to say this to his face
with her full chest. What an absolute piece of shit?
(36:59):
Should I have done more? No?
Speaker 1 (37:02):
I mean what, not at all. Like, I'm glad that
you got that off your chest, said what you wanted
to say, and I hope you never see him again.
I'm so sorry about that man. Like people out here,
especially in LA are fucking dirty, and I think it's
as an influencer, I hope you expose him and put
him online on the tea app or somewhere. Oh my god,
that's what I was gonna say, literally, because more people
(37:23):
if he's not disclosing his status. I'm sure he's doing
it to so many other women.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
And she did send him a picture, send a picture
of him in the email.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Oh, I'll put on the t app.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
He's really handsome too, so really be careful with that
because to have unprotected set sex with an active sword
is just absolutely disgusting. And then to block you when
you confronted him. Oh, can't you get like a long suit?
I think that is legal if you knew you had
something and you give it to somebody. I don't know
if that's a no.
Speaker 1 (37:49):
You can literally, So she's yeah, she shouldn't get a lawyer.
Fresh charges, girl, get that money something period. That's freaking crazy.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
What you got coming up this week?
Speaker 1 (38:01):
Just like the Yes TikTok live stuff. So make sure
you follow me on there follow kiss as well. And
that's really all my brain is like thinking about that week.
I'm going tonight to celebrate my friend's birthday. Next week,
I'll be in Huntington Beach for the US Open US
Open of Surfit Surfing. Is that how you say it? Yeah,
(38:22):
I'll be broadcasting live all weekend, so I'll be out
there in Huntington Beach. If you guys are in the area,
definitely come see and yeah, that's it, what about you.
Speaker 2 (38:29):
My man experienced a tragedy, so I will be being
comforting to him this week because he lost his best friend,
which is absolutely terrible. So I'll be a good girlfriend
and hang out with him. And then we are broadcasting
live this weekend to celebrate the birthday of the Folk
Reporter at Disconso's Restaurant Own Bull Sure, and I'm super
(38:52):
excited about that because both my shows will be broadcasting
from there, and you have one or the other that's
broadcasting live, So two back to back shows at one
of my favorite spots that me and my sister actually
go to like three four times a week because it's
right down the street from the house. So yeah, it's
going to be a good week.
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Hey, thank you guys so much for listening again again again,
please follow on TikTok. I would love all the support
with this. I would need this to be great because
I want to do more with TikTok and hopefully I
can become one of their main influencers through all of this.
So definitely go support. We love you. Make sure you
follow me on socials at Kayla Thomas forty.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
Follow me at the Kayla Austin, and make sure you
follow at the Pettish Podcast.
Speaker 1 (39:26):
Op to you next week.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Bye, my Tan
The Petty Ish Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Welcome back to another episode of Petty Ish. I'm Kyla,
I'm kylay petty this week.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Kayla did I?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Yeah? Actually last night boo yeah, okay, So I it's
very what I hit about living in like a community
apartment complex, no washroom dryers.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Mind you.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
We have so many residents in our apartment complex, but
I can count on two hands how many dryers we have.
I think we have eight total. It's actually insane, and
I want to say about eight nine dryers, ten dryers total.
It's ridiculous, and we have all complained, Oh, we come on,
you need to get more dryers. You have like five
hundred people living in this apartment complex, and it's not fair.
(00:47):
So what I have learned is that it's best to do,
you know, my laundry at night. Yeah, like late at
night when no one's up. And it's fine because I
get off work late anyway. But last night I decided
I got off work at nine because the show ended
up ends early on Fridays, and I did laundry. But
some lady was like rushing me. Oh no, she was
(01:09):
rushing me because I was taking up like all of
the washing machines I didn't think that anybody, no one
ever used them at that time Friday night, and so
she was rushing me. She was like standing behind me,
just waiting, like tapping her foot, just waiting for me
to like finish using the washers. And I wasn't using
every single one I was. I think I was using
like four out of like six, ok, right, whatever, And
(01:30):
so I decided, so once I moved all my stuff
from the washer to the dryer, I decided to leave
my stuff in the dry and all the dryers people
will just be leaving their stuff in there, right, and
so there was like hardly any dryers available, and I
decided to leave my stuff in there so that she
would have to wait for somebody else to get a
dryer for you, because my stuff is still in there
(01:52):
right now.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I would have literally stick your stuff out, like I'm
not even like I have not.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Gotten it yet. And this was last seightd at like
ten pm.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
It's like the late afternoon on a Saturday today. I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Yeah, I don't know why I didn't get this morning.
I was too lazy. I should not have done left
it in there for literally almost twenty four hours.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
That's a little messed up.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Okay, I just went overboard a little bit, Patty.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Is what you're gonna do? Your stuff is probably on
top of the drive. It was my clue. Probably, Yeah,
your stuff is on top of that for sure.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
For sure, what'd you do?
Speaker 2 (02:19):
So? I love food, as you know, so when somebody
offers me something to eat, I eat it, especially if
it's somebody who I know is an amazing cook. So
I was at this thing, not an important thing, but
don't think no less, and somebody offered me something to
eat and they're like, Kayla, you better not waste it,
and I'm like, listen, I'm not gonna waste it. Let
me eat. I was starving. I ate it. And I
didn't realize at the time that it was shrooms because
(02:41):
I just came into the middle of the conversation and
saw them sharing something. And I'm a greedy person, so
that let me get a little bit bite. And it
was shroomed.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
So I'm like, oh, what was it? What did it
look like?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
To you know?
Speaker 1 (02:50):
What it was?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
It was like it was a shroom You didn't know
it was. I just didn't. I just thought it was
like food, Like I tell you, it was like a kitchen.
It was like mad snacks. It was mad food going around.
I just didn't think twice about it. So I'm like,
let me eat this because I love to eat. And
they're like, Kayla, there's no going back now, and I'm
like ha ha, like not even like thinking they're joking
with me. When I tell you an hour later.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I was la la la galaxy mother.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Like it took everything in me just to be a human,
Like I'm like to converse with other people. There's this
one person there that I really just never really felt
comfortable around. And I don't know if you've ever been
on like when you do shrooms, you can kind of
like tell energies, you know, like some people you just
don't feel comfortable around, Like your body just talks to you.
I don't know how to speak, how to.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Ye like it heightens your senses.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
It does. There's this one person that always made me
uncomfortable and I just kind of went to go sit
by myself for a second and collect myself and feel
the air on my face. And that person was outside
as well. And when I tell you, when he tried
to speak to me, I literally got up and ran.
I don't even know where the energy came from, but
it was generally like true, like don't speak to me.
And I don't know if that's petty or not, but
(03:56):
that person is bad as jujual I told me like
he is not somebody to be around.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
That's probably what is wrong with it.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Literally, I look like the crazy person, but I think
it was his energies. And again, I don't know if
that's petty or not.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Crush your senses, girl, They're never wrong, even on shroom.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Period petty things our listeners have done.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Someone said my ex paid a gay man to post
me on his story saying that he hooked up with me.
She did this because I cheated on her. Now everyone
thinks I'm dl.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Oh wow, oh wow, oh that's kind of bad. Actually
loved that. I love that. Sorry, sorry, Charlie, you ain't
never been an allegation. A few years ago, I found
out my ex was cheating, but instead of crashing out,
I screenshot the proof, made a fake account and told
him to pay me or I'll tell his girlfriend. He
(04:43):
paid me one thousand dollars within eighteen minutes her dad period.
I yes, I would have been like, hey man, just
so you know, I cheated on my ex. She crazy,
she about to send you some shit. This is exactly
why I cheated it on her, Like that's how I
would have played it.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
But you must he must have done something real. A
thousand dollars.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Maybe he's rich though, maybe a thousand dollars Like this
is oh my.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
God, that's a lot of money, and this is a
cover up, a cheating. You might as well just take
the l and like her, don't.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Be all right?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
So how is your weak?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Okayla? My equo is really really really good. I feel
like a lot of things are moving forward, as you know,
I've spoken about this opportunity in Vegas that's definitely rolling along,
that should be kicking off in January. So I'm really
really excited about day. And then on top of that,
just other blessings happening in my life where it's I'm
trying to figure out how to navigate them. I've officially
(05:34):
exchange love yous with my buffering and so that's always
so exciting, and just really really future plans being spoken
as far as you know, moving to Arizona, which I
don't know how that works with the Vegas thing. It's
just a lot going on in the air. But I'm
really happy about all of it.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
I'm excited for you. Take your time. There's no need
to rush like you guys just got together. I know
you're right, like like in such a love bubble, it's
like I want to move, but like your career, what's
this opportunity that you have. I know, I'm sorry, I
just got to speak somebody you're but this opportunity that
she has in Vegas is something that she has been
praying for for such a long time. And no man
(06:16):
should come before that first, like get that bag first,
and then we can start thinking. If he loves you,
he'll be there in a year or two whenever you
guys want to, but complete this mission that you set
out years and years ago for.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You're right, you're right, And I did just renew my
lease in our life for another year. So even if
I do go to Arizona, it's not till like a
year or so from now. And you were so right
about the Vegas thing, because that can change my life,
my future children's lives, lives of my grandchildren. So I
definitely wouldn't let that fall to the wayside. But I
do think that I've found.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
My Who's I love that? Son?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Come in.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I'm just knna Gayayl's pregnant. It's twenty twenty seven.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Maybe maybe, Oh let's see period. How about your week?
You're not pregnant, so what's going on? No, I'm not
pregnant me either, girl? Have mercy.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Okay, A lot happened this week. I have I got
another viral video on TikTok.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Oh video. I think I missed this one.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Jackson Wang. The Jackson Wang video. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
It has close to a million views on TikTok right now.
Jackson Wayne was so great. It was such a great interview,
and you know, he came in to promote his album
magic Man two and he actually debuted his album live
on the radio with me and Jojo. I think I
talked about this last episode, but we also filmed a
(07:30):
TikTok while we were there. I was just like, hey,
you want to do this trend and he was like sure,
and it just like took off. So that was like
a big win for me. Speaking of TikTok, actually I'll
get into that a little bit, but I want to
say acon I met him this week?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Oh was he was? He here?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
He was here at like eleven o'clock at night. So really, well,
I do the night show. So I'm here like by myself.
So when I show up to work, I'm like sweatpants, sweatshirt.
I don't care how I look because literally is me
ej until he leaves, my pretty sir and like the
cleaning lady. That's it, all right, So you were out.
(08:08):
So it's fine, fine, But it was so funny because Chuck,
who's next door at Real Netty two three, was interviewing
a Kon. And the crazy thing is he had told
me the day before I'm bringing him in, and I
was like, okay, bet, like, I'm gonna make sure I
look presentable. I forgot. I forgot. So he comes, I'm
sitting here doing my show and he peeks in. Chuck
(08:28):
peeks in, and it was like and I was like,
oh my god, Akon. He was like, come outside, come outside,
and I'm like, oh my god. So I dig into
my purse for.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Some ear rings.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Oh god, I take into the person for some earrings.
I was about to spray some stuff. I was about
to like like some perfume, put like commanded blah blah.
Before I could even do any of that he brings
a kN in and I'm like made putting on my
ear ring and Chuck goes, oh no, no, no, don't
get yourself together. Now I'm like for failure but a kon.
Speaker 5 (08:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
So basically he was like, give me a hug. He's
super tall.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
He's like six ft four three, Like he didn't get
like three hotter.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, Like, I don't know why I always thought that
he was short. Yeah, no, he's like he's really tall.
But he came with his artists. He has a label
or something like that, so he was really there to
put his new artists on, so they were there. He
came like a whole posse. He was like a bunch
of niggas in here, and it was like six seven
niggas yes, and I'm like, oh my god, So uh
(09:27):
said hi to everybody. We exchanged instagrams as well, and yeah,
it was it was cool. I was like, whatever, it's random.
I heart whatever, random night at iHeart noreaking deal. But also,
I really want to talk about what's going on with
my partnership with TikTok Oh.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Yeah, I saw that on your story.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
So by the time this comes out, I'll be able
to talk about it. So starting this week, we are
doing the biggest online talent show competition that has ever
been done. And I'm a excited because iHeartRadio is teaming
up with TikTok to push this forward. It's one of
a kind. It hasn't been done before. This collaboration with
(10:08):
TikTok and iHeart has been like a year or so
in the making, So much planning has gone into this,
Like I went to TikTok a couple of weeks ago.
I'll be going again, but they have chosen me Jojo
and EJ to be kind of like the face of
what this is. And so my role as they're sponsoring
my show, and I'm also going to be doing a
lot of lives. I'll be going live on TikTok a lot.
(10:30):
So make sure you follow the Kiss FM YouTube channel
and mine Kayla Underscore Thomas forty. What did I say,
I meant TikTok TikTok.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
But basically, so this is for any aspiring singer. If
you you have a chance for a record deal of
a lifetime, so.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
Your time is about to be blown off right now.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
So basically you could possibly get a record deal. You'll
win five thousand dollars and be able to perform at
our iHeart Radio Theater. Yeah, so this is what you
gotta do. You basically just got to go live on TikTok,
post a video of you performing an original song on TikTok, right,
use the hashtag next up Live music between now and
(11:11):
August eleventh. All right, So this will basically earn you
the chance to possibly be in the top twelve and
perform as a finalist at our iHeartRadio Theater in the fall.
And then also you'll get to have an interview with
either Me or Jojo. You'll also have your song on
the radio. Some of our judges are the best of
the best in the radio game, so beata our program
director of Kiss, We'll get to judge your song, Tom Pullman,
(11:33):
who is the president of iHeart as well. So it's
a really huge yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Wait, so is it Jess singers or is it like
can you be a rapper or a reggaetone.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Artist, any singer, songwriter, any genre, It does not matter.
If you like, you know, have that passion for music,
you can enter into this contest and it's really cool.
So yeah, so EJ will also be a semi final
Judge Jojo as well, and they'll you'll have opportunities to
come on live with me and sing for us. Yeah,
(12:02):
it'll be that'd be a lot of fun. So I'm excited.
I'm excited to go live on TikTok. It's going to
be fun and it's going to be pushed out to
so many people just to basically the premise of this
whole thing is to get more people to go live
on TikTok. Yeah, TikTok has their own it's like TikTok
and then there's TikTok Live. There's two separate entities, and
(12:23):
so they're trying to encourage more people to utilize that
and become an influencer in that way. So this is
a great opportunity. So if you can sing, if you
can do your thing, it doesn't have to be a
pop song. It can be like you said, it can
be a country song if you're a country singer. If
you've got talent, we want to see it. So again,
you big one, Yeah, so again, go live on TikTok.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Could be life changing for somebody. Yeah, absolutely will be
life changing for somebody.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah, it will. I mean, it gets perform in front
of all the big wigs that I heart, and these
are the people that put your stuff on the radio,
singing in front of Biata, like she gets to hand
pick and choose like, oh I really like that song,
let's just like and then it gets to be on
Kiss FM, which is the biggest radio station in the country,
you know what I mean. So this is a big,
big opportunity that could kick start something. And the way
(13:11):
that life is, I mean, like this generation is going
more and more things are online. So it's basically an
online version of American Idol or the Voice. Think of
it like that, you know, like people go on and
have their big break and then people American Idol finalists
like become huge, right but who but who watches TV
(13:32):
like that anymore?
Speaker 2 (13:33):
So who's the TV live I mean, the TikTok live
Kelly Clarkson. Who is the person's going to be discovered
in this realm now because we're discovering people on the
television shows anymore because that's not as popular. Freaming is
where it's at what you do in chat and be famous.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Exactly period, That's what it is.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Yeah, I mean I don't know who I was having
this conversation with but they were saying, like, yeah, I
don't know the last time that I watched cable TV.
It's really sad because they just canceled. I don't know
if you heard, Yeah I did. They canceled Late Night
with Stephen Colbert. Yes, they did.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
And I mean these were shows that I never thought
will go anywhere. And I do see kind of the
celebrity impact dying down a little bit. So I don't
know if that's what canceled e News or they just
don't have the money, but times are definitely shifting. I
even saw it on Twitter that there is the first
slur for robots. Now they're calling them clankers. So in
twenty twenty fifty seven, we probably won't be allowed to
(14:26):
say that word. It's like it's so offensive to AI,
Like we are living in the future. Oh, Mike, and
you're a part of that's slur for clankers. That's what
they called the robots. Well you just said it, girl,
It's not a suck. Yeah, it's when I'm on at
reality shows twenty years from now. They got to cancel her.
She said clankers three times in an interview.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
So funny, but to that point though, Like E News
comes on at eleven thirty at night, right, and what
that show is about is reporting celebrity news. By that time,
we already know you know what I'm saying. I wake
up and a TikTok is my social media news. So
waiting until eleven thirty at night to hear you know
what I mean? I hate that for them because I've
always wanted to be on E News. Like now they're
(15:03):
out of a job. But like it's just the way
the world is now. TikTok is our E news. Twitter,
Instagram is our E news.
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Yeah, I found out about all the celebrity deaths this
week because of social media. It was just like all
these deaths coming, It's insane. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
But speaking of social media, did you hear about this
tea app?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
I did? I did? Well? You sent me something?
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah, the tea app was good. First of all, this
tea app, mind you has been around for years?
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Did you have one?
Speaker 1 (15:30):
Did I have one? What a tea app? I downloaded
it this week when I heard.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
About Oh got it? Okay, so you didn't have it beforehand?
There's been around for a while. This has been around
for a while.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
I didn't know. I thought it just happened this week,
but apparently it's been around for two years. But all
of a sudden, you know, us black people got a
heart of it and it just went okay. So basically
the tea app is where it's like kind of like
the are we Dating the same Man Facebook page that
has been around for years.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
So it's an app where women can get on there
and just basically expostmen or just warned people. It's not
really for exposing men, but I don't know, like they
can share stories, you can post reviews, you can put
a red flager of.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Dating, like you could throw you from dating this person.
It was great, he was a too pump chump, whatever
the case may be. He gave flowers though. That's the
kind of reviews you see on the tea app.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
I'm assuming yes, you could also do background checks and
do phone number of lookups on there.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Oh shit.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
So as soon as I heard about this, I'm like,
oh bet, I'm putting everybody, like everybody that does me
wrong here in La on air. So there's a weight list.
So I'm currently on the weight list right now, but
you have to take it as soon as they that
you have to fill out this questionnaire and prove that
you're a woman by taking a picture when you do it.
And so apparently this tea app like a few days
(16:44):
later got hacked and a bunch of women's like selfies
that they took to get into the app that leaked
along with issued IDs.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Wow wow wow. And it's like I'm seeing the discourse
happen on social media now where it's just like, why
can't this is why women choose the bear. Why can't
we have a safe space we just air men out
without you hacking this app and releasing our personal information.
You gentlemen are dangerous and we need to warn each other.
It's sad that we just can't have nice things.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Yeah, like what angry man did this?
Speaker 2 (17:15):
I'm sure his name is like Bill or something. It
sounds like something.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Did you see that They even made their own app.
They try to make their own app. I was like
it was called box something box Yeah, like eat the Box.
I don't remember. I saw it on taketap, but it
was like box something, box curve or something like that.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
All I'm seeing is a space in the market right now.
So the tea app got shut down, it got hacked.
People aren't trusting that we should start our own Kayla.
They call it. Oh, I like it. I like it.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Something incorporates the tea is Why did my brother call
me up this week talking about like panicking. It's like, Kayla, Man,
someone said, I'm on the tea app and Houston, no
I know, and he's like mad. He was like, it's
(18:07):
just a bunch of bitter, bitter women that didn't get chose.
That you just mad because you didn't get chose. You
different Because I'm about to pull up to Houston by
my brother. My brother, we gotta talk about this real quick,
Like which.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
One are y'a in that nasty I was crying. I
guess he was. Actually.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
I was like, do you know if you had red
flags or green flags? He don't know. He was like,
I don't know, but I'm trying to I'm trying to
get to the bottom of this. I'm gonna find out
who posted me'm I was like, are you treating anybody
wrong over there in Houston? He was just like, man,
it's just people who didn't get chose. You didn't get chose,
you didn't get chose. I'm like, bro, how many people
didn't get chose.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Wait, so the tea app is by city kind of yes,
So if you join the tea app, if you get
off the waiting and listen, it's you know, it'll be
only for ls. It's only for so you will never
be able to see your brother. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
I don't know if you can like type in a
different zip code and pretend you're there.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I have no idea too. People travel. Maybe I want
to hook up in the city.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
Yeah, it should be work, just like a dating app.
You know, I can be here in LA and I
can change my location to Pennsylvania if I want it. Right, So,
I don't know. I'm still on the witless So you're.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Gonna find out. Damn didn't get chose, But you know
who did get chose, Clark, And you know who's being
disrespected right now, Clark. Did you see Taylor pushing her
head down on that live continuously? Was that the definition
of triggering or was that the definition of sugaring? Keep
your hands off that girl?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
Yeah, it was really really weird. I actually like saw
it right away. I think I was in the live
but they were drunk. Still no excuse. But anytime Clark
would say something he would playfully come into the camera
and like push your head, and everybody in the comments
was like, stop touching her that way, you know. But
not only would he touch her head, he would say
something like slick to her, tomb her something hills, yeah,
(19:55):
like oh, y'all, y'all don't notice. But the first time
I met her she had a broken heel, like okay,
but went after her like so hard.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
But he comes out from the richest family in Alabama
or something like that. Did you hear that? Okay, So
maybe he is used to a certain aesthetic when it
comes to his women. No excuse, I'm just trying to
think of how his mind works. But it does bring
me back to when he tried to humble Landria when
he said, what do you say nobody likes you or
something like that, because you like it right, right right,
and then he laughed about it. So I think that's
(20:23):
kind of his sense of humor. But I think a
few episodes back, we were saying, like, you know, sometimes
there's a little bit of hint, a little bit of
truth in every joke, and some things that'll be like,
all right, I don't think you're kidding with me anymore,
Like you really don't want me to feel good about myself.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
You know what sticks out to me about this whole
situation how Taylor told Clark, I feel like I don't
have to be on my p's and q's with you,
or I feel like I can be like a little
kidd with you. So essentially, he was basically saying with
Alandra he felt like he had to be like this
upstanding guy, but with Clark, he could be his true, authentic,
kitty self, so.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
I don't have to try what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
So basically, it made it seem like Clark he can
be his nasty self, he can do his jokes that
usually fly with other women, but it wouldn't have flowed
with Orlandier because she holds herself to a different standard.
That makes sense, But now that's no shade to Clark
at all, but it just it shows you how differently
he views the two women. It's like, I can be joking, joky, funny, funny,
(21:19):
put my hands on Clark, but I can't do that
with Alandria. And I just think in general, like that's
not how to be as a man anyway, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Kind of goes with teaching people how to treat you,
you know, So maybe I don't know what Clark gives off,
because Clark, to me, doesn't give off the type of
woman that would accept being mushed. But I don't know
her in the way that Taylor does. But I guess
Landria gave a certain Alarai's like I'm teaching you that
I'm not the one that you're gonna mush because I
just can't see him doing that to her and her
laughing along with it exactly. But even I think Clark
was getting annoyed with it as well. She did seem
(21:49):
like she was joking on the live after a while,
She's like, they're getting pissed at you, like stop, Yeah,
he kept interrupting her stories, and I just I think
that a man humbling you may not be labeled as abuse,
but it's like the closest step outside of abuse, Like
it's just right underneath it, and it's just it's not
something anyone should have to deal with.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Yeah. I dealt with it with one of the last
guys that I dated, and I didn't know how to
take it at first because I'm a roaster as well,
Like I love a relationship where we can kid back
and forth where we can roast each other, but to
a certain extent, you know, sometimes it gets a little
bit too far, and I can become a little bit sensitive,
especially like if I really really like you and some
(22:30):
of the things that you're saying or hurting my feelings, like.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
I don't know, like I don't want you to see
me that way. Yes, like that exactly.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
So this guy that I was dating, and I one
time brought it up to him because he would say
little things and it would just like I'm like, ouch,
Like is why is he saying that to me? And
I'm supposed to be somebody that he really really likes,
Like that's just not somebody something that you would say
to somebody that you like. And I remember bringing it
up to him and he was just like, oh, sorry,
this is just my personality. I know, I have an
abrasive personality, and I tried. I never want to try
(22:59):
to change somebody's personality, so I never asked him to change,
but I just was like, I don't know if I
can deal with it. So that was one of the
red flags for me that I was like, can I
deal with this maybe potentially for the rest of my life?
Can I deal with somebody who has this personality that
they get off their love language is making me feel
low right in a way, and I just to the
(23:19):
point where I couldn't And I remember one time I
blew up on him because I just couldn't take it anymore.
And I was like, I don't even know if you
like me or not, Like and you say these things.
You say you like me a lot, you say I'm
the best girl I've had in a while, but you
say these things trying to be jokey, joky, funny, funny,
and it's like contradicts.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Right, Are you trying to humble me?
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Is that what you're trying to do? Because I don't
think that you're joking with me, because I feel like
you know, me and my boyfriend, we do joke around,
but it's never in a humbling way. Like, for example,
the first time I stayed at his house, I kept
having to ask him for things like, oh, you know,
do you have a towel? It like a shower, do
you have water? Do you have this? He said, Hey, HII,
how about you give me a list of the things
that you don't need. I think that'll be a lot shorter,
But he's like kidding, and I think that's funny, but
(23:58):
it's never like about who I am as a person
or like what I look like.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Like.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
He doesn't joke about things like that, and I think
that's kind of the line. It's like we could joke
about certain circumstances with each other where maybe I'm acting
a certain way or you're acting a certain way, and
we do kind of have that little healthy back and forth.
But when it's like, m you had on broken hills
the first time I met you, where oh yeah, that
wig was not looking good, Like I don't that's not funny. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
One time I confronted him about all this and I
was just like, it's not funny to me, and he
was like, I'm sorry. This is the personality that I
had to build to be able to get through life.
I'm sorry, Like he was like, I don't mean to
be like this, but literally, like I've had to put
up a protective wall all myself, like while all of
my life to deal with being comfortable in my own body,
(24:41):
and so this is like what they do. Yeah, and
he is very short. He was five foot He is
five foot five, which is the one of the shortest
men I've ever dated, So like, I'm five foot three,
he's still taller than me. I'm five with one and
so but on with heels were like this same height.
And so he's very short. And you know, most women
don't want to even look at somebody who's five foot five, right,
(25:03):
So I think he has short man syndrome. And it
came out a lot in the way that he spoke
to me, spoke to his friends. He just had a
very bold, loud, over the top personality, and it felt
like he had to overcompensate for his highgray by being
a bully.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
See, I think everybody kind of has their reasonings for
why they are how they are. Like, I know sometimes
I can joke with my friends a little bit too much,
but I want I am the youngest of five siblings
and the youngest of thirteen grandchildren. So all we did
was rip on each other my entire upbringing. Like I
grew up being humbled. I came out of the womb
being humbled. Like I don't know if you know, but
growing up with three older brothers is not for the week.
(25:42):
I got my ass beat, I got my ass torn apart,
made fun of like my biggest fears, locked in closets,
whatever the case may be. So I know sometimes I
can be a little bit too joky joking with my
friends at times too, But I think it's a part
of learning how teaching somebody how to treat you, and
then also respecting other people's boundaries because not everybody grew
(26:02):
up in your family or not everybody had the experiences
you had. So I appreciate him being able to explain
that that I'm short and I'm insecure or whatever in
his own words. But it's a way where it's like,
you know, I do have this, but I'm going to
work on it for you, rather than that's just what
it is. That's how my personality is, right when I
have to deal with it or don't. And you have
the right to be that way as well, but you're
going to lose a lot more people that.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
Way, I think exactly. And that's what he did say
to him. He was like, I'll work on it, you know.
That's but I think he took that as me being
too sensitive and it never really changed. Like once that's
your your person once that's how you are, Like what
was he twenty nine to thirty, Like it's hard to
change right, and so I just just like, you know what,
I just knew it wasn't gonna work. Yeah, it just
was beginning to be too much. And he literally came
(26:44):
off as a bully. I didn't like the way that
he talked to other people. Even at my birthday party,
none of my friends liked him because he didn't engage
with anybody, which is crazy because he is a cool person.
He is very outgoing. But he just wall hugged the
entire time, and I just.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
For being drunk.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Yeah, yeah, everybody felt that way. And I think it
was because, you know, he just felt like he needed
to put on this like cool dude, big dude, just
in case people were looking at him. Maybe because but
nobody was even thinking about your height. If you're a
nice person, who gives who cares? I liked you for you.
You didn't have to do the most just because you
felt insecure because I bigged you up every time I
(27:23):
got the chance to.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
Yeah, and I have a short king as well, who
I think if I were a Hills in a bun
good night Irene.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
But how tall is he?
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (27:32):
I think he's he's five seven.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
I try to say he was five ten. I said Sarah,
stop it stop it don't embarrass us, Okay, but I
would say, like five to seven, maybe that's not even short.
But I'm tall. I'm a tall girl, so it's short
for me, and it's short to me. And we look,
you know, like he looks short next to me. But
he is so bossy and like he is such a boss.
He has accomplished so much, he runs so much like
(27:55):
he is the alpha. And but it's not like a character.
It's just like genuinely who he is that I forget
height unless he brings up like I don't realize that
he's short, unless he makes a joke about it. But
it doesn't even come from an insecure place. It's just like, oh,
like if I bring up a story about somebody I
used to say, oh, you dated six two, way too
tall for you. That's not good look. But he'll say
something like that. But he's never like, oh, I need
to overcompensate for my height, because I just think that
(28:16):
naturally his masculinity just does.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
That exactly so. And my best friend Lucy has also
has a short king. Right, he's very yeah, exactly, but
he is like five foot. I want to say, say
the same time. Maybe five foot five, but he is
such a boss and he the way he carries himself,
people look up to him exactly. People want to be
around him. Literally, people know his name and nobody even
(28:43):
thinks about his height at all because he is just
that guy. Like when you say, all you have to
do is say his first name, and it's like, oh,
he's going to be around I want to be around him,
you know what I mean. Yeah, So he just has
this rr about him, but he's not. He's not a bully.
He doesn't have short man syndrome where he like feels
like he has to over composite for his type by
being mean to people. You know, He's a genuinely nice guy.
(29:04):
And so when I encountered this dude, I just couldn't understand.
I was like, you're cute, You're nice, you had things
going for you, Like, just be kind more people will
be nice, more people will want to be around you.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
Yeah. Yeah, I think that I don't know what's going
on with the with this bullying. I don't know if
it's well, bullies have always been around, but I feel
like also social media and computers make a big, a
big play a big role in it. Like, did you
see the Neon interview this week on The Breakfast Club. Yeah,
and he was such a bully in the chat, and
he was so nasty to black people and black women,
(29:34):
and do you see the way Jess Hilarious like handled
it because they were expecting him to apologize. So yeah,
I don't know if you guys have seen, but he
went on The Breakfast Club and I guess he was
a streamer that that message Charlemagne, and Charlemagne didn't know
too much about him, but they invited him on the
show because, like you said, streaming is the way of
the world these days, so it's a good thing to
have a streamer on this show, especially a popular one
like Neon. And when they did the research, they realized
(29:55):
all his racist rants where you called black women monkeys,
fucking whares, black bitch and found a monkey named after
Kai Sanad like just super uncaught his mom, Harriet Tubman
is part black, he's part black.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
No, he called Kai Sanat's mom this Morrie.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Yeah. So then he was around a bunch of black people,
you know, Charlemagne, Jess Hilarious, Loren and DJ Envy, and
they had no time for him. Nobody shook his hand.
They held him absolutely accountable for the things he said.
They played some of his things back, and when I
tell you, he got so uncomfortable for somebody who was
so tough online, he became such a little bitch in
that moment. Yeah, and then kind of ranted on the
(30:35):
chat like they so dispectful. Nobody even shook my hand.
It's all right, chat, it's all right. But I love
Justic's video that she put together about him, like I'm
not apologizing, And here's why I played his clips and
then played her getting him together. And I think that's
what every really needs to be held accountable and somebody
to get you together, because I don't think Neon's gonna
act like that going forward.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
No, And he's using that as like, oh I was young,
that was young. It was like two years ago. Like
I don't want to hear that at all, right, that's
not I thought the way that jess Hanna that was
also amazing, Like she pulled out the receipts because people
forgot people needed to see and hear for themselves what
exactly he said. Because at first, after the Breakfast Club interview,
there are a lot of people, even black people who
(31:13):
were on his side, like, wow, they didn't have to
go that hard. You know, he already apologized forgive and
forget like they did too much. But then Jess pulled
out the receipts and said, look at this, this was
two years ago, right, you know what I mean? And
then people like, WHOA, my bad. No, you didn't need
to apologize, because that was like really disgusting.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
I love us as the people. I think we are
very forgiving people, were very welcoming people into our culture,
and sometimes you just forgive a little bit too hard
because that man deserves none of our grease. I can't
believe that he even has black people that work for him,
because that would I would want to be nowhere near
you with the things you say and.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
Do at stupid at all. I do believe people deserve forgiveness,
but it just didn't seem sincere to me. These You
gotta be careful with these streamers. They'll do and say
anything for clicks and views. And I don't know what
was your purpose of even going up to the breakfast club.
You should have known that they were going to call
you out. I mean it's a breakfast.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
Because he had something important to promote and that's the
biggest radio show in the country, or one of the
biggest radio shows in the country.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
Well the main fucking river. When they bring up they
always look into your past and bring stuff up. You
know who Charlemagne is.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
You thought you were going to be caddle motherfucker.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
He got off there. He was like, I was tearing up.
It's Charlemagne. You went into the lions Den. That's your
own fault.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
Yeah, yeah, And it was really nice to watch. I
love the way they treated you, and I was going
to give them the Petty Award of the Week, but
I decided to change mind last minute. I'm gonna give
it to the black people. No for real, because why
y'all asking like this? Haul Cogan passed away. Rest in
peace to that man, right on the ten year anniversary
of his racist rant.
Speaker 4 (32:39):
Oh yeah, there's no question about that. In fact, today,
the day that he died, is actually the anniversary of
the scandal where he got exposed for saying those racist comments.
Speaker 3 (32:48):
Talking about his daughter Brooke accused of sleeping with an
African American. I mean, I am a racist to a point,
but then when it comes to nice people and whatever,
then says I mean, I'd rather if she was going
to suck, I'd rather have her marry an eight foot
worth a hundred million dollars like a basketball player.
Speaker 4 (33:12):
He also helped prevent the Wrestler's Union from being formed,
meaning that he was a union buster. His daughter Brooke
came out not too long ago and said that she
was being verbally and physically abused by both of her parents.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
That's crazy, and.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
Why I'd rather you f a inner that's eight foot
an eight foot inner, like that's what was bleeped out.
If you couldn't make that up and make that out.
But yeah, so he was a racist swat who died
ten years on his or ten year anniversary of his
racist rant, and a lot of the black people are like,
we don't give a fuck about your death, and they're
playing brook Brook Cogan's song because they obviously had some
(33:47):
mostroous relationships. Are like, this is the only way I
want to remember Hawk Cogan by pushing brook song to
the top of the TikTok none at all, y'all real
put that me in? Is it that needs to show
some respect.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
I'm gonna give my Petty Award to astronomer so we
all know the situation with the Coldplay affair, the CEO
and the head of HR they both end up resigning.
So they put out their first video last night and
it's the first one since the scandal, and they hired
Gwyneth Paltrow to be their temporary spokesperson. So this is
(34:19):
the video.
Speaker 5 (34:23):
Thank you for your interest in Astronomer. Hi, I'm Gwyneth Paltrow.
I've been hired on a very temporary basis to speak
on behalf of the three hundred plus employees at Astronomer.
Astronomer has gotten a lot of questions over the last
few days and they wanted me to answer the most
common ones. Yes, Astronomer is the best place to run
(34:46):
apatche airflow, unifying the experience of running data mL and
AI pipelines at scale.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
So basically she just goes on to answer questions about Astronomer.
But what makes it petty is Gwyneth Paltrow is is
the ex wife of Chris Martin of Coldplay, and allegedly
their marriage ended because of infidelity. It's kind of an
Astronomer in a way, saying checkmate to cold Play. Okay
(35:15):
plays in this beef cold Play Astronomer Kay listen if anything,
cold Play did you guys a favor. They exposed the
exposed the affair and put Astronomer on the mat because
nobody was checking for Astronomer before. I just thought that
was so funny. So Petty and their PR team definitely
deserves a raise.
Speaker 2 (35:33):
So that is hilarious. I all I can think about
when I think of Gwyneth Paltrow is her selling a
vagina that I mean a vagina, selling a candle that
smells like her vagina.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
That's what I remember.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
I remember.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
I remember some of her movies like Challow Howe, but
I thought that she wasn't a very likable celebrity. But
that's so funny on Astronomer's part. I'm still going to
give it to the black people.
Speaker 1 (35:55):
That's I think. I'm gonna give it to them to
Petty a word of the way.
Speaker 2 (36:01):
Yeah, yeah, funny, cute. Dear Kayla and Kayla. I ran
into the man that knowingly gave me herpes last night
while I was dancing with my girls. He blocked me
shortly after I told him I had contradicted it. We
(36:24):
had been hooking. Oh shit, contracted better funey matter. No,
he blocked me after I told him I contracted, and
I contradicted it. We had been hooking up for a
few months. He did not disclose prior.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (36:37):
When I told him that I had, he copped up
to having an active sore. He is one of those
influence that believes his own bullshit. I confronted him in
the club. He was like, sorry, I didn't say hello
because I didn't know if you genuinely wanted to kick
to say hello or kick my ass. So I guess
he had some back and forth. She's really proud of
herself for confronting him in a way that she did.
She was strong enough to say this to his face
with her full chest. What an absolute piece of shit?
(36:59):
Should I have done more? No?
Speaker 1 (37:02):
I mean what, not at all. Like, I'm glad that
you got that off your chest, said what you wanted
to say, and I hope you never see him again.
I'm so sorry about that man. Like people out here,
especially in LA are fucking dirty, and I think it's
as an influencer, I hope you expose him and put
him online on the tea app or somewhere. Oh my god,
that's what I was gonna say, literally, because more people
(37:23):
if he's not disclosing his status. I'm sure he's doing
it to so many other women.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
And she did send him a picture, send a picture
of him in the email.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Oh, I'll put on the t app.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
He's really handsome too, so really be careful with that
because to have unprotected set sex with an active sword
is just absolutely disgusting. And then to block you when
you confronted him. Oh, can't you get like a long suit?
I think that is legal if you knew you had
something and you give it to somebody. I don't know
if that's a no.
Speaker 1 (37:49):
You can literally, So she's yeah, she shouldn't get a lawyer.
Fresh charges, girl, get that money something period. That's freaking crazy.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
What you got coming up this week?
Speaker 1 (38:01):
Just like the Yes TikTok live stuff. So make sure
you follow me on there follow kiss as well. And
that's really all my brain is like thinking about that week.
I'm going tonight to celebrate my friend's birthday. Next week,
I'll be in Huntington Beach for the US Open US
Open of Surfit Surfing. Is that how you say it? Yeah,
(38:22):
I'll be broadcasting live all weekend, so I'll be out
there in Huntington Beach. If you guys are in the area,
definitely come see and yeah, that's it, what about you.
Speaker 2 (38:29):
My man experienced a tragedy, so I will be being
comforting to him this week because he lost his best friend,
which is absolutely terrible. So I'll be a good girlfriend
and hang out with him. And then we are broadcasting
live this weekend to celebrate the birthday of the Folk
Reporter at Disconso's Restaurant Own Bull Sure, and I'm super
(38:52):
excited about that because both my shows will be broadcasting
from there, and you have one or the other that's
broadcasting live, So two back to back shows at one
of my favorite spots that me and my sister actually
go to like three four times a week because it's
right down the street from the house. So yeah, it's
going to be a good week.
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Hey, thank you guys so much for listening again again again,
please follow on TikTok. I would love all the support
with this. I would need this to be great because
I want to do more with TikTok and hopefully I
can become one of their main influencers through all of this.
So definitely go support. We love you. Make sure you
follow me on socials at Kayla Thomas forty.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
Follow me at the Kayla Austin, and make sure you
follow at the Pettish Podcast.
Speaker 1 (39:26):
Op to you next week.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Bye, my Tan
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