May 28, 2025 • 40 mins
Heyyyy!
In this epsiode KT, Kayla and Producer Jordyn discuss how their crazy week has been. KT talks about a spirtual encounter with her hairstylist, Jordyn explains why she blocked a reality TV star, and Kayla talks about having her peace disturbed at a recent event. The ladies also talk about Latto's new song "SOMEBODY" and when it's appropriate to discuss or ask about someones body count.
Enjoy!
In this epsiode KT, Kayla and Producer Jordyn discuss how their crazy week has been. KT talks about a spirtual encounter with her hairstylist, Jordyn explains why she blocked a reality TV star, and Kayla talks about having her peace disturbed at a recent event. The ladies also talk about Latto's new song "SOMEBODY" and when it's appropriate to discuss or ask about someones body count.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Petty Is Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Welcome back to.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
I'm Kayla And yeah, last week was fine.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
How you feeling now, like we need to know?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Yeah, okay, so the latest, I mean, I'm still I
think it's kind of the same. I am still doing
physical therapy. I am still.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Doing stretching classes.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Because what happens when I walk is like I will
say thank you Lord, and I'm like literally praying for
my healing. But before it was like I couldn't feel
anything from the waist down that includes my whole entire
leg and my feet. Now it's to the point now
where I get and.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
It was consistent, like it never went away, right, And
so after I went to the hospital got ib id treatment.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Now'm on like medication. It's not like my whole body.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
It will be sporadically my like right now, my fingers
are numb, ye like very they're asleep right my feet
are because you see how I'm like, not my feet
aren't on the ground right now, they're hanging because they
need to be planted on the ground.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Wow, or they'll completely go sleep.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
That's wow.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yeah, It's just like it's just weird nerve things that
are still I guess learning to come back and I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
So for a while my fingers get like this, like
it's very hard to type. Yeah, it's very hard to
Oh my god, it's just so fucking annoying. But yeah,
stretching classes have been helping because when I walk for
long periods of time, I start getting crampy and what
is this a hamstring?
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Yeah? Sure, So.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Stretching has been like so hack, look at that hair.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Well, I think you saw her her instagram where she
doesn't her transition.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
You don't. I feel like we you said, love it
like your hair?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Oh unless your hair, because you know how you go
to the hairstylist and you don't like it at first.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I gotta girl you a little bit.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
But that looks bombs so bomb. Thank you guys.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
This girl I met at this there's like a new
braid house in North Hollywood, and it's so hard to
find like a good hair person in at least around
here in the valley. So my brother put me on
to this girl who does really good corn roads.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
So I slid in.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I was like, what's up?
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Can you do my hair? She's like, yeah, let me know.
She could do any style and it wasn't that expensive either.
I thought I was gonna be throwing down at least
oh couple hundred, but it wasn't too bad.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
How much was that?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
This came out to two forty?
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Wow? That is really good in la Yeah hurt?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Whoa that me?
Speaker 2 (02:45):
I don't know, unheard of, unheard of.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
You won't even know how much mine was. I'm not
gonna tell you.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
You're not, so you're saying it was more than two fifty?
Was in more than three? Yeah? Five damn six, damn thousand?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
It was like eight hundred something.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
But I had been saving up for this.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Hair, mind you, I have been saving up for this
specific style because they're called bor bor braids, so bombed
and it's all human hair. There's no synthetic at all. Wow,
Like not even in the braid part. And so you
can see like the braid stops like right here, sure,
and then the rest is hair. So it's like paying
for the time, the bundles, the hair like everything. And
I knew it would be like this, so I literally
(03:27):
like saved up for this like and put it away.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
How long you're going to rock you for?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
It couldna last like three months?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
And the touch up is free.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Oh damn, you know I'm not gonna hold you. Like
I locked my hair up almost two years ago. I
really miss getting braids. I know I can get like
box braids and stuff over them, but corn roads, I
don't think I'll be able to rock like that. Yeah,
And it's something that I'm definitely grieving seeing this new
style of braids, Kayla. I've been seeing like a lot
of girls with those braids, and like, ye, because they're
(03:56):
not bohemian, They're not boho Laura. The trend that keeps
on giving and I'm like, oh, I want to give
it a go.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
But but like I feel like, whenever you get your
I don't know how Halley and Chloe Bailey's stylus does
it with their thick locks, does braids on top of it.
I feel like that would be mad expensive though, because
of money. Yeah, I feel like that's talking like a
thousand something.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Yeah. I mean, I'm trying to save up and get it,
but I just also I'm super protective about it too,
Like I don't want anything to damage it or weigh
it down or throw off the energy that I feel
like I have with my hair, because I feel like
locks are like a energy thing. See, I feel as
though hair is energy. And I feel as though when
I'm not adding any products or any extensions, like I'm
(04:43):
not adding anything. It's literally just me raw dogging every day.
And I just feel like a deeper connection to than myself.
I don't know. I feel like these locks were actually
like evolution for myself. And I can't describe it. But
lock Nation, I'm sure knows what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I have to say that I I can't relate.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
But I've heard a lot of people say, like who
have locks, say that it's it's a different type of feeling.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
It's it's very freeing.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yeah, it's I lived the life of an Asian woman.
I don't wear scarf. I go to sleep, I wake up.
I mean I probably should, but I don't. And but
I say all that to say I love these They're soufering.
I work out, I do whatever I need to do.
I didn't do anything today, I just shank you. But
still I still grieve that old look because you guys,
(05:28):
you come in with different looks, you switch it up.
I could just do like a bun down to different styles,
but and I haven't. I haven't been comfortable enough to
add the extensions of the colors or anything. But you
girls are making me feel like, maybe come and sell me.
I think I'm officially locked. I think I can do
it now.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
I'm scared.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Yeah, but do you guys ever have issues with and
this is like very transparent with like psoriasis or like
bad dandriff dude.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Yes, yeah, Okay, it's like that.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
I had to get specific not even oils, like a
specific type of product to make sure that I have
a good scalp treatment because I have a sensitive scalp.
So when it's like exposed to the sun, especially, I'm
worried about these because they're corner rolls. I haven't gotten
corners since I was like twelve, so whenever it's exposed
to the sun, itchy. It's like the gel build up
(06:16):
is crazy, like and even oil isn't great for it
because doesn't that create even more danger from buildup?
Speaker 1 (06:22):
It's like what do you put on your hair while
you have braids?
Speaker 4 (06:26):
I just I still oil little, even though I know
it's bad, but I love to. I always get like
a damp microfibercloth and dab it in between the like
my scalp.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Okay, and it helps a lot.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
So I was getting these done right, and she washed
my hair and then she goes, do you have dandriff?
And I was like, yeah, yeah I do and she
was like uhs you kind of jumped out at me
said oh shit.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
She was like it scared me, like she said three
D and I was like, what do you mean? She
was like they're big and I was like wait wait.
She was like, let's try to wash your hair again.
And I was so embarrassed but soft, like what do
you mean?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
And so and then I was like, wow, I really
need to do something about this because even when I
it's noticeable when I have braids too, it's just like
white and just like thick dan drift. And I'm like,
do I have that thing called soriasis or something like that?
So I ordered this like psoriasis like cream that TikTok
influenced me to buy. And immediately it's like it's cooling
effect on your hand.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
WHOA. Immediately do you see any dangel And you've had
those for a few weeks, that's.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Great, And usually every day it's some new like build
up new, like it's dry, Oh my gosh, it's yeah,
it's a miracle.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
All right, dry scout, girly, check out what's the product though,
ship Okay.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Wait, let me see what it's called, because I just
I literally just had it, like I find a.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
Huge like you know, I he was don't scratching my
head or like the tapper. Yeah, and it's so embarrassing,
but like it needs to be done. So whatever this
product is, and it saves my for my nogh, that's
all that.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
No more embarrassing head scratching, even though I will say
I never noticed dandardphone either of.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
You girls, but mine is there. It's there. Okay, it's
called I don't know how to say this. Cyboric. Oh yeah,
Syboric Dermatitis and Psoriasis treatment cream by roy by Royce Derm.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
That's gonna pop up on my TikTok feed right.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Just because I said it. Somebody's listening. But yeah, man,
I just wanted to say that because.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Well, you clear, just scout, you're feeling better? Are You're
still a little numb? But I want to know have
you had time to be petty? Oh week?
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Oh okay, y'all, let me tell you this guy that
I'm in Dayton, Well actually not anymore because now I'm
in a more serious situation. But before this was like
my first guy that I was talking to dating since
I came off of my year of just healing and
myself whatever. And I've never dated a Latino man. So
(09:08):
he was like so different than anything I've used to
I'm used to, and I loved it. He was you know,
he's great, he's very, very handsome, but I realized that
he is just very I don't know, he has very toxic.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Ways, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
And yeah, so I've went through these phases where I
block him and he calls me the on the no caller.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
I d like we just stick together plastic.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
And I've never taken it serious because I knew, like
this was not something that I want to be in
right and this was just fun and maybe you shouldn't
have done that because it seems like he was more
into it than I was.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
So most recently, when I was sick, he made all
these promises like he was gonna come do this for me,
and like come to my house and clean my house
and do this and I'll be there take care of you,
and lah did not show up.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Like I didn't want to check in on you, no, he.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Didn't, like, he didn't physically come like he said he
was going to. No, And but again, don't really care
because I don't really don't. I don't, yeah exactly, I
don't really even want to entertain that anymore, because for
what I.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Will say, he was very cute. It is very cute
and nice.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Oh yeah, you didn't meet him a few months ago.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Yeah, oh well, but but it was just aggravating when
people say that they're gonna do something and they don't write.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
And this is notorious of him.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
He would always make these promises like these grand and
one of the reasons why I ended it with him,
it's like, you make these grand gestures like you're gonna
do this and pick me up in a in a
black car that never shows up. Like he had this
whole thing planned out for New Year's Eve that fell
through an hour before, and so me and my friend
were freaking stranded, like making all these promises that just
don't happen. So that's why you keep getting blogged.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
I hate empty promises. Nobody's asking for this lip service,
nobody's asking for you to offer any of this, So
why do it just to get my hopes up? Just
to let me down exactly.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
So most recently after that, I was like, you know,
he didn't show up while I was sick and I
was the extra sensitive. So block right called me on
him or texted me recently off of a block number
no call ord and was like, I miss you, mommy,
And I was like, until you can answer why you
keep doing this? You're getting like, don't hit my phone
(11:23):
period And then he was like I will or something
like that. He said fair enough, and I was like,
so you're not gonna tell me and he goes, I
just I'm just not waking up like I will in
a minute. And I said, you have a ten minute
countdown or you're getting blocked again. Hell yeah, ten minute
countdowns to getting blocked yet.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
And how long freeze I'm blocked again? No, you're right.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
I am onto something else and better. And once that
is like completely solidified that he is getting.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Completely exited, did you live?
Speaker 4 (11:53):
Like?
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Is that was that the O? This nigga's in Hollywood
till it's down the road.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
There's no excuse, literally, not one.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
One freeway exit. Go on, come on.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
That's crazy, that's crazy. But I am taking a page
out of your book. So recently, I feel as though
I was being let down. This guy just keeps making
empty promises. It's just becoming something I never wanted it
to be. So I'm just like, you know what, I
think that we're better off as friends. I'm down to,
you know, catch up every now and again, but this
romantic door is closed. I'm good on you. You just
(12:25):
you're not doing what I need you to do. And
of course whenever you say that, that's when they start
giving you what you need and what you've been asking for.
And it's like, now I want to act the way
you've been asking me to act. It's just like I'm
past that phase to fall for that trick, but I
appreciate your effort. And one day he was just going
really od like let's do coffee, let's do lunch. I
cancel your plans, let's do let's go hike, let's do whatever,
(12:46):
And I'm just like, I can I'm not canceling my plans.
I have something slid a fly, But when I'm done,
maybe i'll hit you up. The night ended much later
than I thought it would, but he kept calling and
texting and I just didn't respond and just didn't show
up after I did promise. I'm like, I pmise you.
I'm gonna hit you what I'm done. I promise you
will hang out later today you'll see me, I promise you.
And then I decided to let him down, like he
lets me down your phone call and I will and
(13:07):
I respond to nice.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Yeah these niggas how they do.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
So yeah, that was my petty thing. Did you do anything, patty?
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Do not say? Batties was floors?
Speaker 4 (13:20):
Okay, so it does have something to do with reality
TV here, well, here we go. I'm learning from you too.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
I okay, so I'm actually learning from us. That's not
so bad.
Speaker 4 (13:30):
No, like here real, it's valid. I was watching this
reality TV show. This girl on the TV fished me
off so bad, like had me yelling at the TV.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
I walked her on Instagram. That is the step. I
hated that bitch, but like I feel like she deserved
for being a step. Further, who was the girl?
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Her name is Avery.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
It's called Battle Camp, but she's also from the Mall
if you watch it on Netflix.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
I've seen the Mall. Which season of the Mall.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
I don't know, but like she's like very small. She
has like he's like I have to go back and Mark,
I'll show you a photo.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
I'll show you a photo of her, not.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Try to see your page.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
She can she okay, hear me out the reason why.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
On the show, she was like going after this one
girl who she is a black queen, the only black
queen on that show. It was like her and another
dude who were like the only brown people on the show.
And that girl she slipped up in one of the
challenges and after that and that was her teammate just
talked about her and was going behind everybody, like behind
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her back, no conversation with the actual girl she had
an issue with, and like, try to vote her off.
Try to get everybody to vote her off. That's some petty.
I did not like it, and I had my boyfriend
block him blow her tail. Was like, bro, we were
both talking about her, were like, bro, get her off
my phone. I don't even want to see her. I
don't want to ever see her face. And she got
(14:57):
voted off the same episode period. Avery, Avery like you
you don't know me, but I'll you.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
I hate it.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
I love it, petty.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Think of the week period.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Go ahead, Jordan, we got one petty thing.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Our listeners done. Someone said.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
My coworker asked me to post his missing child on
my Instagram. I said, sorry, that doesn't match my aesthetic.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Oh ship, that's awful. That's like really bad girl.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
You know you wouldn't post on your man post a
missing child, now you. Social media is not the real
worlds real child. It's the person that salesperson right there
that you don't know, you don't know, you don't know them,
and they say, hey, can you post on your main
page my child's missing?
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Like you can get a story out of me?
Speaker 2 (15:45):
Damn not. I mean I might delete it, like maybe
you know, but I post it. You won't.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
I'll posted my story I posted on my story. Maybe
not on my feed, y'all?
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Why why you would posted on my feet?
Speaker 1 (16:02):
Like a week or two. Maybe I'll make like a
highlight out of no real.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Highlight a little oh my god, oh my.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
God, just kidding. This is for entertainment.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Anyway, ladies, how is your week?
Speaker 3 (16:25):
My week was great? Do you you know how to
take care of plants? You know I can YouTube it
because I said this last week. But I'm trying to
learn how to be a plant mom. Someone gifted me
like all this foliage from my house, just for you know,
add healing to my space. And it's just I know
someone who who is a green, who has a green thumb.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
I just met them yesterday.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I need all the tips I can get. So that's
what I'm going through. I'm still one recovering, trying to
learn how to be a plant.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Mom.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Oh, I did want to tell you this story about
how like when I was getting my hair done, besides
her saying yeah, before besides her saying that my dander
scared her and jumped out at her, it was probably
like the most healing that I felt and most peaceful
I felt since I got sick. It was right before
Wango Tango. I said, what do we wanted to get
(17:14):
my hair done? And like I said, I saved up
to get my hair get these bor braids. And she
does people's like she does Kayla Nicole's hair. She does
like all these celebrities hair. And I just loved her
work and really wanted to get it done. And we
sat down and we were talking, and mind you, we
have like eight hours that we're gonna be sitting in
the chair, and she was playing worship music. So that
was the one thing that stuck out to me and
(17:34):
I loved and it was just straight worship music. But
you know, I was telling her a little bit about
my situation and we were just key king back and
forth and were just you know, learned that we really
are connected and like we have the same personality and
so we had a great time just talking and she
was telling me about her love life.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
But then she was just like can I pray for you?
She was like, can I pray for you?
Speaker 3 (17:56):
And then she was like, Kayla, like I truly believe that,
like you're here for reason that I was meant to
tell you this. And she was just like speaking all
this life into me and all these Bible verses, and
then she pulled up like this Bible app and it
just started reading all of Matthew and it was about healing,
and like I think it was Matthew, but whatever. When
the woman touched the garb of Jesus and just knew
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and had the faith that she was healed, then we
listened to a sermon that just made me cry and
we were literally just in that in that hair salon,
just crying, like literally just I was bawling my eyes out,
just her like laying her hands on me and praying
for me, and then what her situation that I don't
want to put on camera, but like her situation as well,
and so we were crying for that and praying for
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healing for that situation, and it was just like a
moment that I think just needed to happen. And also
we were just like it wasn't supposed to happen, Like
she was trying to cancel me the day before. Wow,
I know, but she said something that was about to
come up, and so I we ended up rescheduling and
it just almost didn't happen. But she was like, I've
never been so happy that, you know, a hair appointment
(19:00):
and it actually worked out because this is like what
I needed and I know this is what you needed.
So I just want to say thank you to Jolie
Hair Beauty Bariodricia.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
She just made me feel so much at peace for
the first time in a long term.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
I love that. I love that so much, God bless her.
I wish how many successes.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Yes, I mean like doing hair, like you said, it's
so healing, right.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Whoever it is, and whoever's doing your hair too, Like
that's a transfer of energy. So if you have like
a mean person doing your hair and she's so negative,
like that kind of transfers onto you and like the
locks that you're carrying.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
So I just feel like I got like the holy hair.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
A thousand percent. I think, like ancestrally, I think that's
how women have connected with each other throughout the years,
just especially I think in our culture, breeding and moisturizing
and healing the hair while healing the spirit and just
building a friendship. It feels beautiful. It feels like like
not even of this earth. Like I love those kind
of interactions.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
I was telling my hair girl yesterday we were sharing
this not like we were just talking about hair, and
I was like, I love love going to different hair
hairstylist and hair braiders because I just love hearing everybody's story.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
I love you never know what's gonna come out of
a conversation when you're getting your hair.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
Done exactly all those hours together.
Speaker 4 (20:11):
Yeah, and I love every single story. And I love
just like talking and crying is definitely up in there laughing.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (20:20):
I love like swapping stories and sure it's so it
is healing. Yeah, it hits a different.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
I learned how to to listen to my gut, even
if it may hurt someone's feelings. So I went to
a show and I was going to sit on one
side of the theater, but at the last minute, I
just went to the other side of the theater and
sat in the front. And I noticed these girls having
super loud conversation behind me, and I'm talking to my sister, like,
(20:48):
you know, maybe we should move well maybe she said
that's when saying we should move to the other side
like we wanted to originally. I'm like, you know, let's
just say, like, I'm sure they'll be quiet when the
show starts. The show started, and it was literally just
like I know, like literally for like three hours straight,
(21:12):
kicking my chair react. I mean, it was a good show,
it really was, but I don't need you to react
to every single thing, every single scene, every single joke.
Nobody's here to hear your reactions to it. And I
feel like she was like one of those attention grabbing people.
It's like she wanted to be curious out now, couldn't
be hell not. I'm so thankful this show was free.
(21:34):
But if I would have listened to my gut and
that felt like I would hurt their feelings. By moving
before the show started, I would have saved myself a
lot of heartaches. So going forward, listen to your gut,
because I mean, granted, the show was free from me,
and I'm so thankful for the for the person that
gave me the tickets. But never again have you, guys,
ever experienced that where you didn't listen to your gut.
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You didn't move your seat because you didn't want to
hurt the person you were next to his feelings or
the person you were in front of.
Speaker 4 (22:00):
Going dude, the way when movie theaters and airplanes, people
kicking my seat is probably the biggest pet peeve I have. Like,
but I love so I won't say anything to them,
but I will literally give them the nastiest stink guy.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Yeah over the shoulders. Yeah that's a good one. It is.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
Yeah, even her stank face is so cute, so cute.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Like I'm terrified. I did give a few side eyes.
You know, she trying to take pictures. Her like phone
is like right over my shoulder.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
I'm just like somebody in the place. She must be
like fucking or something.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I pray, I pray that's why you're acting that way,
because you can't just go out in public and think
that that's proper decorum. I just feel like I felt
like I came off so uppity and stuck up because
I'm just I can't even react to the show because
I'm so annoyed with your voice like nails on a chalkboard.
Yeah yeah, yeah, So let's see a gut chall movie.
Your seat, fuck the other people. Man, you can't do
it in an airplane, though. I heard. If you ever
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switch seats on an airplane and the person like goes
into the bathroom or whatever in smokes, let's say, and
gets on the no fly list, and they like realize
the seat they were in, you'll be banned from the
airline because that was that's your assigned seat.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
But even if you show your ID improved that, it
wasn't you.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
No. Yeah, I heard a story where somebody is like
on the no fly list because somebody did that. They
switched seats with them, went to the bathroom, vaped. Now
this person like tried to fly home from wherever they
were going. They're like, nah, you can't fly like your
your band And they weren't able to get off the
band list last I checked. I don't know if they
fixed it. Since then. But yeah, that'll be a whole headache.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
That's a lot, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (23:31):
The most we have our loyal airlines that we dedicate to,
Like I like Southwest, I like American, I like Spirit,
Spirit Delta.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
Listen, Spirit at least stays in don't least at least
Spirit stays in the air.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
Spirit.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
I mean, I ain't gonna say I'm above a Spirit
because sometimes those prices me flight pricing. But I hate
it every single time, Like I hate I hate Spirit.
It's just like the teacher. I'm because I'm tall. Yeah,
so I'm like I'm tight next to the person.
Speaker 3 (24:04):
But they just said that they're doing something where they're
putting more leg room.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Oh I need that.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
And I think also, like give me a damn pretzel,
give me a cookie. Don't charge me seven dollars. American
gives snacks.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
So Spirit Airlines announce a seat with extra legroom to
be available starting this summer.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
HOWE want money, I'll charge in for that seaton per
I mean, you know, probably.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
Just another twenty dollars.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
They're cheap, but and in my bag because I ain't
got time for you, Spirit, I really don't.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
I mean, listen, Spirit was.
Speaker 3 (24:34):
Just named as one of the highest the highest rating
safest in.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Yea's wrong.
Speaker 3 (24:40):
Listen, and everybody has got on me for years for
flying Spirit because I am cheap dot com. But again,
Spirit ain't have no problem like American.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
I think American.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
It wasn't American the one with the Woeman DC.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Maybe yeah, probably, but listen, I will say Spirit is
better than Frontier. Frontier is literally the worst of the worst.
I don't know if you've ever flown Frontier, but I
just flew it to Vegas because prices flight pricing. So
they were on a fucking power trip like form A
one a single fly line or I'm not born in
this flight. Everybody needs to if you're in zone one,
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are you're in zone three or four? Sit down getting
this single file like we're not students, bro figure out
how to do it. Seven people got on the plane.
I paid for a carry on there like we ran
out of baggage space. Everybody has to check their bag.
I had to check my bag at the end of
the line. I was in zone one. I was like spiraiting,
never treat me like this. I will never be Backfrontier.
But I'm flying in front here again this stop for
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the week. She said, I'm gonna go on my side
on side talking about.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Okay, can we talk about Did you guys see Lotto
on Tyler stream the other day?
Speaker 4 (25:50):
Yeah, with the with the Sparklers, the girls.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Yes, yeah, Wait what happened?
Speaker 4 (25:54):
So?
Speaker 3 (25:55):
I mean like a lot of celebrities are now going
to streamers for interviews now, they are retiring going to
us and they're going to streamers because I guess it's
like a direct it's direct to consumer, right, it's live right.
So a lot of was promoting her new song Somebody.
She went on there with her sister. It was super cute,
but Tyler called her out for constantly flexing her body count.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Listen to this, do you care?
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Do you care how many bodies your girl got?
Speaker 3 (26:30):
No?
Speaker 2 (26:30):
I don't know. I don't got nothing to do. Man,
What the said? Why are you always saying a muse
that's little not oh my mother? And I stopped that
and stopped saying that. Bro, stop saying what are you
always saying this song? How much bodies you got? Though?
Who gives a fuck? Whoever said I said I have
a low body count? You always nigga seem me if
you could count your bodies on one hand, I can.
Why does that matter?
Speaker 4 (26:51):
Though?
Speaker 2 (26:51):
Same reason?
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Why? But are you fuck your nigga today?
Speaker 2 (26:55):
But listen? Why does that? Listen?
Speaker 4 (26:59):
Listen my music?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Listen. If I go, listen, I go, I'm gonna pop.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
My real life in real listen.
Speaker 2 (27:08):
Why does that matter? And it's and it's and it's
up to us.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
To doesn't matter that you got on bo tag on
your feet.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
I don't give a puck if I believe me, my
believe me. Listen, listen.
Speaker 4 (27:21):
But you don't got to say that.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
Though, Okay, I don't know why he's upset.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Yeah, I don't know why either. I think listen.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
The The idea about body count has always been to
a topic should you talk about it? Should you ask
somebody what their body count is? Should should it be
a secret? When should you tell people what your body
count is or whoever that you're talking to? What do
you guys personally think about body counts in general?
Speaker 2 (27:46):
I think the topic is juvenile. It's a little high school.
I haven't had a man ask me that in a really, really,
really long time that wasn't a controlling type of person.
And I think it's an automatic turn off if somebody
does ask me that, and in return, I'm not asking
you that because I don't care.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
But it's so, isn't that what Tyler is saying, though
he's saying, why do you have to announce it Facebook?
Speaker 2 (28:12):
I don't think she was just saying I don't And
I don't know how many times she spoke on it,
but she just said does a girl's body count matter?
I think that was what she said. And he said,
why you always bringing up your body count? We know
it's low. I didn't. I didn't understand why he came
with that as opposed to just say yeah or no,
I care or I don't.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
It sounded like to me that he was upset that
she was constantly flexing it, that she she can count
it on one hand, and so he was like what
the way I processed it was like him saying, like,
why should a body count matter in general? So why
do you keep bragging that yours is low? Are you
shaming other people for her? You being more than on
your hand? And so I guess it's also how you
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interpret it. I mean, he's very aggressive with the way
he said, but Lotto does constantly talk about her body count.
I can count it on one hand. I can count
on one hand, And I mean, good for her.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
It's a defense mechanism because obviously, like with the music
she brings out, a lot of people have like that
judgment like oh, you're this, you're that, You're you're outside
to leaving other people.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
So maybe she just wants to make it clear like
she's a girl.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
Maybe, I mean, I get it. I just feel like
everybody kind of has their things. Like we know, Megan
Thee Stallion is a monster in the sack. She talks
about it all the time. I'll look you in your eyes,
I'll ride it on my tippy toes, I'll do all this.
And I'm sure she's not lying. And I'm not gonna say,
megane Stallion, why are way?
Speaker 1 (29:28):
Why are you ride dick so good?
Speaker 2 (29:29):
Like teach me? I'm kidding she's anyway? Uh so Yeah.
I just I feel like they all have their go
to But I feel as though maybe he feels insecure
about that, maybe because he can't get with her, or
because his girl maybe has a higher body count. I
don't know why he so works up about the thing
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that she chooses to talk about the most, but it
just came off as insecurity on his end. And I
didn't take her as bashing anybody with a high body
count because she didn't say anything about anybody else. She
just literally asked ques uestion, if she's proud of her
having five bodies? Isn't she like twenty one though twenty two?
Speaker 1 (30:04):
I think she's like twenty four to twenty five. She's
mad young.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
Yeah, so anyway, if she's proud about having a young
a low body count and brag about it, girl go
off like if I just think it sparks insecurities and others, Yeah,
and it says a lot more about them.
Speaker 3 (30:17):
You are in a relationship, did you have that conversation
with your boyfriend? Like, Hey, how many people were did
you have before me?
Speaker 2 (30:24):
No?
Speaker 4 (30:25):
I did ask like before obviously, like if sex is involved.
I was like, hey, are you safe or are you good?
That's all I care about. You have your gun checked?
Speaker 1 (30:34):
Am I good? Are we good? That's it.
Speaker 4 (30:36):
I never asked about his background because it's none of
my business. I would rather not know, right right, So
if I know, I'm be sad or I don't want
to be upset.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
I have in the past.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
I've definitely asked, I don't ask like in the beginning
stages when you're not my man. I think I asked
like years into the relationship, like we're I think we're
just having one of those conversations where you just, you know,
go back into your past.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
Never have I ever some shit like that. I'm always
trying to play those games.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Yeah, And I'm pretty sure I asked, like, so, what's
your BodyCount? And then I heard it was like in
the thirties, and I was like, oh, okay, they had
but like that was my boyfriend at that point for
a long time, Like I he knows everything.
Speaker 1 (31:12):
He knew everything about me at the time.
Speaker 3 (31:14):
Like, I don't think that's necessarily a bad conversation to
have when you're with somebody for that long, Like I
don't think it's, but maybe it's kind of a turn
off in the beginning.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
Yeah, I think the intention behind the question. Again, if
we're just talking shooting the shit, it's like, oh, do
you ever get bit by a dog? How many people
do you fucking in your life? Whatever? Like that's fine,
But if it's like how many people have you slept
with before I proceed with you, that's when I think
it comes off, and I think maybe that's how I
asked the question when I was like a teenager and
I'm dating people, but I'm far from a teenager now,
and I just would not you know, Yeah, but you
(31:44):
are with your man since you were guys were younger
like teenagers, right, Uh not my carimlin. No, oh well
then there's that.
Speaker 4 (31:51):
It's like it's like what you said, like when you're
playing games and you just want to just joke around
if you're ready for that conversation, for sure, but it's nothing.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
I love, it's ready for a good never have I
ever or like one of those are we really strangers?
Speaker 4 (32:05):
I have? I have?
Speaker 1 (32:06):
I have to go to give it to you. We
should play it on air.
Speaker 3 (32:11):
We should do on this because one, it is a
conversation that like really makes you look at yourself and
your friends. Yeah, and it's not and none of it's
ever Are we really stranger? It's none of it.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Most of it's not sexual at all.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
And it's like it just makes you think about yourself and
the way that you are with your friends and who
you who you are as a person in relationships and
so yeah, man, I've cried over that game with some
of my friends.
Speaker 4 (32:39):
I think that was the game I played right before
I got into a relationship with my boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
I brought you together, It's it's, it's a good time.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
I didn't play it in person, but I would love to.
And I ordered substance to which I feels like just
a little bit deeper, feels like a therapy session, like
the questions that ask just like it's hitting you in
the deep triggers or the deep wounds of yourself, like
who broke you?
Speaker 4 (33:00):
You?
Speaker 2 (33:00):
I think that was broken?
Speaker 1 (33:02):
But wow, I think that would be an essession for
me and you, Like, I'm surprised we haven't done something
like that would be really fun.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
We should do that. We should totally do that.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
But is that something we would want to do on air.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
Probably, I mean it'll probably be like an editing job
because like I don't want to say that. Yeah, but
I would totally love Maybe we should do it like
privately first and see what questions we want for the microphone.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
Oh that's good, right, that's good? Why? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (33:28):
I love being a girl. So do you give me
a Patty Award this week? Two girl?
Speaker 3 (33:33):
Okay, So Petty Award of the Week is so last
week I talked about the eleven inmates that broke out
of jail, and before they left, they rolled on the walls.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
We innocent. What was the other one that was too easy?
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Or yeah?
Speaker 1 (33:48):
Yeah, So now.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
They have caught majority of them, I think like eight
out of eleven. First of all, one of the guys
didn't he went home, like why do you want to
go home?
Speaker 1 (33:57):
He went to his block. And then another guy was
like found at a bar on like bourbon Bourbon streak.
Speaker 2 (34:04):
I'm not mad at the bar guy I was locked
up for. I don't know. You don't know what this
person witness. I need a stiff drink before I hit
the road. You know, no hit the road, I would
be out of the country. Are you getting my escape
from jail? I'm not going to my usual spots down
the street? Okay? You guys know now to travel, you
need like a real ID in a passport.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
What you think these guys got They just have jail.
Like what are y'all thinking, let's go to a different state.
You're not going to the local everybody and their mom
knows your orange jumpsuit.
Speaker 1 (34:33):
Yeah, come on, I'm trying.
Speaker 2 (34:35):
To defend these I mean, I just not defend the criminals.
But I just feel like, you know, it's it's easier
said than done. I ain't got no money. I came
out here in my red suit, I mean orange suit.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
I'm just living up because I know I'm getting caught,
so fucking let me just like.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
Yeah, that's that's a lot jail.
Speaker 3 (34:53):
Okay, So but my petty award. The police officers have
been taking like as they catch them, they've been taking
pictures with them, like posing m like there's some type
of show ponies.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
I'm just I will say. Social media has taken a
life of its own. Why are these police officers has
taken pictures with these freaking I mean, I guess if
you did right, like my job is like secure this place,
and you wrote that was too easy by or whatever
the hell they wrote, Like yeah, I might be a
little plais The police office is people too. I guess.
Speaker 3 (35:22):
The one guy that they caught, he like went home
and changed back into his like twoenty and fifteen outfit,
like it was him and like.
Speaker 2 (35:29):
These shark pants.
Speaker 3 (35:30):
Shark pants like those have been out since I was
in high school.
Speaker 2 (35:38):
You know, y'all, y'all expect him to have the latest gear.
I've been there for seventeen years, you know, I just
I'm so happy to see some night give me my
fancy pants. That's what he says.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
So that's who my petty ord is.
Speaker 2 (35:51):
That is really petty. I don't know if this is
petty or just next level disgusting, because I just really
don't like this person too much or his views whenever
he'speak in the public. When now I see his head,
his head, his name in the headline, I'm just like,
I don't even want to read it, but I read
this one. Did y'all see Boosie's comments about Cassie and
what she thinks. So yeah, so he says, I think
(36:12):
Cassie and her husband masterminded this takedown of Diddy and
his money. I think her husband had been trying to
get her to do this for years to Diddy, but
she didn't want to and she didn't want to do
it because she knew what will come out. Then as
a couple, y'all become broke. Now the plot becomes riller
by the month. I think the last straw was the
Didty in Karsha relationship when she saw Krisha with that
(36:34):
sign supporting her man at the awards That did that?
Did it? A woman scorned is a dangerous, evil motherfucker? Yeah,
I said it, So.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Hate him for what?
Speaker 2 (36:45):
And didn't the FBI pick this up? Like, isn't Cassie
just testifying on a case that the FBI likely subpoened
her for It's.
Speaker 3 (36:52):
Done Cassie versus Diddy. It's literally the state or the
government versus Diddy.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
You think Cassie like was like, you know, FBI like
and paid. All the other victims that came forward relate
like it's just so sick.
Speaker 4 (37:03):
See, and that's why a lot of girls don't be
speaking up because of comeback like shit like this.
Speaker 2 (37:09):
Not only do I have to combat my attacker and
the most traumatic thing that's ever happened to me, I
have to combat the public who is also saying awful
things about me.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
Even though it's on record, like one of the things
like that whole hotel scene.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Awful video, eighteen minutes of a video.
Speaker 4 (37:23):
Exactly like, come on, you don't question her, she's already
going through it.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
Yeah, I wouldn't say that's petty, that's just an asshole comment.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
He is an asshole, he really is. So I got
see you in then, Okay, Yeah, Hey, hey.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Bye, Okay.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
Found out.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
That's the perfect.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
All right.
Speaker 1 (37:57):
Now let's get into this petty mail.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
Dear Kayla and Kayla and Jordan. I was with my
children's father for ten years, never married, on and off,
never live together. He wants me to cancel child support.
He doesn't want to help me out with the bills.
We're trying to make it work. Should I cancel the
child support and give him an ultimatum to live with me?
Or is that forcing a situation? Please be kind, kayla's'll
(38:22):
fix your face.
Speaker 1 (38:23):
Wait.
Speaker 3 (38:24):
So we're trying to make it work like their relationship,
but he doesn't want to pay bills.
Speaker 2 (38:30):
He doesn't want to pay child support.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Okay, so okay, I got I gotta got it, got it.
Speaker 2 (38:34):
So if we're living together, you won't have to pay
child support because you would be taking on the bills.
But I'll only take you off child support if you
agree to live with me and help me with these bills.
I say, hell no, we won't go take don't take
him off child support? Like that's to support that your
child is taking care of, to ensure that your child
is taken care of. I just think things can happen
with this is a court assigned thing. You have to
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do this, and if the relationship works out, the relationship
works out. But I don't think while you're in the
bill holding faces of trying to make it work, you
should take it off of child support based off of
you know.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
Yeah, I've seen this happen many times with like people
that I know, some of my friends, and no, it's
best to just keep them how it is, you know,
and if you then eventually, if you do get married,
then I say, if you're married, but you never know
what could happen. They can switch up at any time too,
you know, when the relationship falls through, and then then
what then you have to go through the courts all
over again. I have been through the child support process
(39:29):
with my best friend, and I know how long it takes,
and I know how grueling it is. And if the
and if the guy doesn't pay child support, it still
takes a long time to I guess, like subpoena him
and for him to like for the government to get
involved in take action.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
I'm talking years years.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
So don't take him off because it's gonna get hard
to put him back on if something changes.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
Yeah, that's I agree. That didn't even consider no I.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
Agree with Yeah yeah easy, all right, Well, make sure
you a podcast. Follow me at the Kayla Austin I'm
Kayla Thomas forty and follow us on Instagram at The
Pettish Podcast. Jordan Jordan Jackson with three a period, follow
our girl, our producer.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
Period and we'll see you next time. Bye bye
The Petty Is Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Welcome back to.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
I'm Kayla And yeah, last week was fine.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
How you feeling now, like we need to know?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Yeah, okay, so the latest, I mean, I'm still I
think it's kind of the same. I am still doing
physical therapy. I am still.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Doing stretching classes.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Because what happens when I walk is like I will
say thank you Lord, and I'm like literally praying for
my healing. But before it was like I couldn't feel
anything from the waist down that includes my whole entire
leg and my feet. Now it's to the point now
where I get and.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
It was consistent, like it never went away, right, And
so after I went to the hospital got ib id treatment.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Now'm on like medication. It's not like my whole body.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
It will be sporadically my like right now, my fingers
are numb, ye like very they're asleep right my feet
are because you see how I'm like, not my feet
aren't on the ground right now, they're hanging because they
need to be planted on the ground.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Wow, or they'll completely go sleep.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
That's wow.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yeah, It's just like it's just weird nerve things that
are still I guess learning to come back and I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
So for a while my fingers get like this, like
it's very hard to type. Yeah, it's very hard to
Oh my god, it's just so fucking annoying. But yeah,
stretching classes have been helping because when I walk for
long periods of time, I start getting crampy and what
is this a hamstring?
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Yeah? Sure, So.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Stretching has been like so hack, look at that hair.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Well, I think you saw her her instagram where she
doesn't her transition.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
You don't. I feel like we you said, love it
like your hair?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Oh unless your hair, because you know how you go
to the hairstylist and you don't like it at first.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I gotta girl you a little bit.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
But that looks bombs so bomb. Thank you guys.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
This girl I met at this there's like a new
braid house in North Hollywood, and it's so hard to
find like a good hair person in at least around
here in the valley. So my brother put me on
to this girl who does really good corn roads.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
So I slid in.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I was like, what's up?
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Can you do my hair? She's like, yeah, let me know.
She could do any style and it wasn't that expensive either.
I thought I was gonna be throwing down at least
oh couple hundred, but it wasn't too bad.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
How much was that?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
This came out to two forty?
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Wow? That is really good in la Yeah hurt?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Whoa that me?
Speaker 2 (02:45):
I don't know, unheard of, unheard of.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
You won't even know how much mine was. I'm not
gonna tell you.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
You're not, so you're saying it was more than two fifty?
Was in more than three? Yeah? Five damn six, damn thousand?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
It was like eight hundred something.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
But I had been saving up for this.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Hair, mind you, I have been saving up for this
specific style because they're called bor bor braids, so bombed
and it's all human hair. There's no synthetic at all. Wow,
Like not even in the braid part. And so you
can see like the braid stops like right here, sure,
and then the rest is hair. So it's like paying
for the time, the bundles, the hair like everything. And
I knew it would be like this, so I literally
(03:27):
like saved up for this like and put it away.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
How long you're going to rock you for?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
It couldna last like three months?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
And the touch up is free.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Oh damn, you know I'm not gonna hold you. Like
I locked my hair up almost two years ago. I
really miss getting braids. I know I can get like
box braids and stuff over them, but corn roads, I
don't think I'll be able to rock like that. Yeah,
And it's something that I'm definitely grieving seeing this new
style of braids, Kayla. I've been seeing like a lot
of girls with those braids, and like, ye, because they're
(03:56):
not bohemian, They're not boho Laura. The trend that keeps
on giving and I'm like, oh, I want to give
it a go.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
But but like I feel like, whenever you get your
I don't know how Halley and Chloe Bailey's stylus does
it with their thick locks, does braids on top of it.
I feel like that would be mad expensive though, because
of money. Yeah, I feel like that's talking like a
thousand something.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Yeah. I mean, I'm trying to save up and get it,
but I just also I'm super protective about it too,
Like I don't want anything to damage it or weigh
it down or throw off the energy that I feel
like I have with my hair, because I feel like
locks are like a energy thing. See, I feel as
though hair is energy. And I feel as though when
I'm not adding any products or any extensions, like I'm
(04:43):
not adding anything. It's literally just me raw dogging every day.
And I just feel like a deeper connection to than myself.
I don't know. I feel like these locks were actually
like evolution for myself. And I can't describe it. But
lock Nation, I'm sure knows what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I have to say that I I can't relate.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
But I've heard a lot of people say, like who
have locks, say that it's it's a different type of feeling.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
It's it's very freeing.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yeah, it's I lived the life of an Asian woman.
I don't wear scarf. I go to sleep, I wake up.
I mean I probably should, but I don't. And but
I say all that to say I love these They're soufering.
I work out, I do whatever I need to do.
I didn't do anything today, I just shank you. But
still I still grieve that old look because you guys,
(05:28):
you come in with different looks, you switch it up.
I could just do like a bun down to different styles,
but and I haven't. I haven't been comfortable enough to
add the extensions of the colors or anything. But you
girls are making me feel like, maybe come and sell me.
I think I'm officially locked. I think I can do
it now.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
I'm scared.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Yeah, but do you guys ever have issues with and
this is like very transparent with like psoriasis or like
bad dandriff dude.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Yes, yeah, Okay, it's like that.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
I had to get specific not even oils, like a
specific type of product to make sure that I have
a good scalp treatment because I have a sensitive scalp.
So when it's like exposed to the sun, especially, I'm
worried about these because they're corner rolls. I haven't gotten
corners since I was like twelve, so whenever it's exposed
to the sun, itchy. It's like the gel build up
(06:16):
is crazy, like and even oil isn't great for it
because doesn't that create even more danger from buildup?
Speaker 1 (06:22):
It's like what do you put on your hair while
you have braids?
Speaker 4 (06:26):
I just I still oil little, even though I know
it's bad, but I love to. I always get like
a damp microfibercloth and dab it in between the like
my scalp.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Okay, and it helps a lot.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
So I was getting these done right, and she washed
my hair and then she goes, do you have dandriff?
And I was like, yeah, yeah I do and she
was like uhs you kind of jumped out at me
said oh shit.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
She was like it scared me, like she said three
D and I was like, what do you mean? She
was like they're big and I was like wait wait.
She was like, let's try to wash your hair again.
And I was so embarrassed but soft, like what do
you mean?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
And so and then I was like, wow, I really
need to do something about this because even when I
it's noticeable when I have braids too, it's just like
white and just like thick dan drift. And I'm like,
do I have that thing called soriasis or something like that?
So I ordered this like psoriasis like cream that TikTok
influenced me to buy. And immediately it's like it's cooling
effect on your hand.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
WHOA. Immediately do you see any dangel And you've had
those for a few weeks, that's.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Great, And usually every day it's some new like build
up new, like it's dry, Oh my gosh, it's yeah,
it's a miracle.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
All right, dry scout, girly, check out what's the product though,
ship Okay.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Wait, let me see what it's called, because I just
I literally just had it, like I find a.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
Huge like you know, I he was don't scratching my
head or like the tapper. Yeah, and it's so embarrassing,
but like it needs to be done. So whatever this
product is, and it saves my for my nogh, that's
all that.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
No more embarrassing head scratching, even though I will say
I never noticed dandardphone either of.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
You girls, but mine is there. It's there. Okay, it's
called I don't know how to say this. Cyboric. Oh yeah,
Syboric Dermatitis and Psoriasis treatment cream by roy by Royce Derm.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
That's gonna pop up on my TikTok feed right.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Just because I said it. Somebody's listening. But yeah, man,
I just wanted to say that because.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Well, you clear, just scout, you're feeling better? Are You're
still a little numb? But I want to know have
you had time to be petty? Oh week?
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Oh okay, y'all, let me tell you this guy that
I'm in Dayton, Well actually not anymore because now I'm
in a more serious situation. But before this was like
my first guy that I was talking to dating since
I came off of my year of just healing and
myself whatever. And I've never dated a Latino man. So
(09:08):
he was like so different than anything I've used to
I'm used to, and I loved it. He was you know,
he's great, he's very, very handsome, but I realized that
he is just very I don't know, he has very toxic.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Ways, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
And yeah, so I've went through these phases where I
block him and he calls me the on the no caller.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
I d like we just stick together plastic.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
And I've never taken it serious because I knew, like
this was not something that I want to be in
right and this was just fun and maybe you shouldn't
have done that because it seems like he was more
into it than I was.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
So most recently, when I was sick, he made all
these promises like he was gonna come do this for me,
and like come to my house and clean my house
and do this and I'll be there take care of you,
and lah did not show up.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Like I didn't want to check in on you, no, he.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Didn't, like, he didn't physically come like he said he
was going to. No, And but again, don't really care
because I don't really don't. I don't, yeah exactly, I
don't really even want to entertain that anymore, because for
what I.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Will say, he was very cute. It is very cute
and nice.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Oh yeah, you didn't meet him a few months ago.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Yeah, oh well, but but it was just aggravating when
people say that they're gonna do something and they don't write.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
And this is notorious of him.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
He would always make these promises like these grand and
one of the reasons why I ended it with him,
it's like, you make these grand gestures like you're gonna
do this and pick me up in a in a
black car that never shows up. Like he had this
whole thing planned out for New Year's Eve that fell
through an hour before, and so me and my friend
were freaking stranded, like making all these promises that just
don't happen. So that's why you keep getting blogged.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
I hate empty promises. Nobody's asking for this lip service,
nobody's asking for you to offer any of this, So
why do it just to get my hopes up? Just
to let me down exactly.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
So most recently after that, I was like, you know,
he didn't show up while I was sick and I
was the extra sensitive. So block right called me on
him or texted me recently off of a block number
no call ord and was like, I miss you, mommy,
And I was like, until you can answer why you
keep doing this? You're getting like, don't hit my phone
(11:23):
period And then he was like I will or something
like that. He said fair enough, and I was like,
so you're not gonna tell me and he goes, I
just I'm just not waking up like I will in
a minute. And I said, you have a ten minute
countdown or you're getting blocked again. Hell yeah, ten minute
countdowns to getting blocked yet.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
And how long freeze I'm blocked again? No, you're right.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
I am onto something else and better. And once that
is like completely solidified that he is getting.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Completely exited, did you live?
Speaker 4 (11:53):
Like?
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Is that was that the O? This nigga's in Hollywood
till it's down the road.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
There's no excuse, literally, not one.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
One freeway exit. Go on, come on.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
That's crazy, that's crazy. But I am taking a page
out of your book. So recently, I feel as though
I was being let down. This guy just keeps making
empty promises. It's just becoming something I never wanted it
to be. So I'm just like, you know what, I
think that we're better off as friends. I'm down to,
you know, catch up every now and again, but this
romantic door is closed. I'm good on you. You just
(12:25):
you're not doing what I need you to do. And
of course whenever you say that, that's when they start
giving you what you need and what you've been asking for.
And it's like, now I want to act the way
you've been asking me to act. It's just like I'm
past that phase to fall for that trick, but I
appreciate your effort. And one day he was just going
really od like let's do coffee, let's do lunch. I
cancel your plans, let's do let's go hike, let's do whatever,
(12:46):
And I'm just like, I can I'm not canceling my plans.
I have something slid a fly, But when I'm done,
maybe i'll hit you up. The night ended much later
than I thought it would, but he kept calling and
texting and I just didn't respond and just didn't show
up after I did promise. I'm like, I pmise you.
I'm gonna hit you what I'm done. I promise you
will hang out later today you'll see me, I promise you.
And then I decided to let him down, like he
lets me down your phone call and I will and
(13:07):
I respond to nice.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Yeah these niggas how they do.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
So yeah, that was my petty thing. Did you do anything, patty?
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Do not say? Batties was floors?
Speaker 4 (13:20):
Okay, so it does have something to do with reality
TV here, well, here we go. I'm learning from you too.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
I okay, so I'm actually learning from us. That's not
so bad.
Speaker 4 (13:30):
No, like here real, it's valid. I was watching this
reality TV show. This girl on the TV fished me
off so bad, like had me yelling at the TV.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
I walked her on Instagram. That is the step. I
hated that bitch, but like I feel like she deserved
for being a step. Further, who was the girl?
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Her name is Avery.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
It's called Battle Camp, but she's also from the Mall
if you watch it on Netflix.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
I've seen the Mall. Which season of the Mall.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
I don't know, but like she's like very small. She
has like he's like I have to go back and Mark,
I'll show you a photo.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
I'll show you a photo of her, not.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Try to see your page.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
She can she okay, hear me out the reason why.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
On the show, she was like going after this one
girl who she is a black queen, the only black
queen on that show. It was like her and another
dude who were like the only brown people on the show.
And that girl she slipped up in one of the
challenges and after that and that was her teammate just
talked about her and was going behind everybody, like behind
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her back, no conversation with the actual girl she had
an issue with, and like, try to vote her off.
Try to get everybody to vote her off. That's some petty.
I did not like it, and I had my boyfriend
block him blow her tail. Was like, bro, we were
both talking about her, were like, bro, get her off
my phone. I don't even want to see her. I
don't want to ever see her face. And she got
(14:57):
voted off the same episode period. Avery, Avery like you
you don't know me, but I'll you.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
I hate it.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
I love it, petty.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Think of the week period.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Go ahead, Jordan, we got one petty thing.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Our listeners done. Someone said.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
My coworker asked me to post his missing child on
my Instagram. I said, sorry, that doesn't match my aesthetic.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Oh ship, that's awful. That's like really bad girl.
Speaker 3 (15:26):
You know you wouldn't post on your man post a
missing child, now you. Social media is not the real
worlds real child. It's the person that salesperson right there
that you don't know, you don't know, you don't know them,
and they say, hey, can you post on your main
page my child's missing?
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Like you can get a story out of me?
Speaker 2 (15:45):
Damn not. I mean I might delete it, like maybe
you know, but I post it. You won't.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
I'll posted my story I posted on my story. Maybe
not on my feed, y'all?
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Why why you would posted on my feet?
Speaker 1 (16:02):
Like a week or two. Maybe I'll make like a
highlight out of no real.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Highlight a little oh my god, oh my.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
God, just kidding. This is for entertainment.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Anyway, ladies, how is your week?
Speaker 3 (16:25):
My week was great? Do you you know how to
take care of plants? You know I can YouTube it
because I said this last week. But I'm trying to
learn how to be a plant mom. Someone gifted me
like all this foliage from my house, just for you know,
add healing to my space. And it's just I know
someone who who is a green, who has a green thumb.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
I just met them yesterday.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I need all the tips I can get. So that's
what I'm going through. I'm still one recovering, trying to
learn how to be a plant.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Mom.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Oh, I did want to tell you this story about
how like when I was getting my hair done, besides
her saying yeah, before besides her saying that my dander
scared her and jumped out at her, it was probably
like the most healing that I felt and most peaceful
I felt since I got sick. It was right before
Wango Tango. I said, what do we wanted to get
(17:14):
my hair done? And like I said, I saved up
to get my hair get these bor braids. And she
does people's like she does Kayla Nicole's hair. She does
like all these celebrities hair. And I just loved her
work and really wanted to get it done. And we
sat down and we were talking, and mind you, we
have like eight hours that we're gonna be sitting in
the chair, and she was playing worship music. So that
was the one thing that stuck out to me and
(17:34):
I loved and it was just straight worship music. But
you know, I was telling her a little bit about
my situation and we were just key king back and
forth and were just you know, learned that we really
are connected and like we have the same personality and
so we had a great time just talking and she
was telling me about her love life.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
But then she was just like can I pray for you?
She was like, can I pray for you?
Speaker 3 (17:56):
And then she was like, Kayla, like I truly believe that,
like you're here for reason that I was meant to
tell you this. And she was just like speaking all
this life into me and all these Bible verses, and
then she pulled up like this Bible app and it
just started reading all of Matthew and it was about healing,
and like I think it was Matthew, but whatever. When
the woman touched the garb of Jesus and just knew
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and had the faith that she was healed, then we
listened to a sermon that just made me cry and
we were literally just in that in that hair salon,
just crying, like literally just I was bawling my eyes out,
just her like laying her hands on me and praying
for me, and then what her situation that I don't
want to put on camera, but like her situation as well,
and so we were crying for that and praying for
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healing for that situation, and it was just like a
moment that I think just needed to happen. And also
we were just like it wasn't supposed to happen, Like
she was trying to cancel me the day before. Wow,
I know, but she said something that was about to
come up, and so I we ended up rescheduling and
it just almost didn't happen. But she was like, I've
never been so happy that, you know, a hair appointment
(19:00):
and it actually worked out because this is like what
I needed and I know this is what you needed.
So I just want to say thank you to Jolie
Hair Beauty Bariodricia.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
She just made me feel so much at peace for
the first time in a long term.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
I love that. I love that so much, God bless her.
I wish how many successes.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Yes, I mean like doing hair, like you said, it's
so healing, right.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Whoever it is, and whoever's doing your hair too, Like
that's a transfer of energy. So if you have like
a mean person doing your hair and she's so negative,
like that kind of transfers onto you and like the
locks that you're carrying.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
So I just feel like I got like the holy hair.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
A thousand percent. I think, like ancestrally, I think that's
how women have connected with each other throughout the years,
just especially I think in our culture, breeding and moisturizing
and healing the hair while healing the spirit and just
building a friendship. It feels beautiful. It feels like like
not even of this earth. Like I love those kind
of interactions.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
I was telling my hair girl yesterday we were sharing
this not like we were just talking about hair, and
I was like, I love love going to different hair
hairstylist and hair braiders because I just love hearing everybody's story.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
I love you never know what's gonna come out of
a conversation when you're getting your hair.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
Done exactly all those hours together.
Speaker 4 (20:11):
Yeah, and I love every single story. And I love
just like talking and crying is definitely up in there laughing.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (20:20):
I love like swapping stories and sure it's so it
is healing. Yeah, it hits a different.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
I learned how to to listen to my gut, even
if it may hurt someone's feelings. So I went to
a show and I was going to sit on one
side of the theater, but at the last minute, I
just went to the other side of the theater and
sat in the front. And I noticed these girls having
super loud conversation behind me, and I'm talking to my sister, like,
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you know, maybe we should move well maybe she said
that's when saying we should move to the other side
like we wanted to originally. I'm like, you know, let's
just say, like, I'm sure they'll be quiet when the
show starts. The show started, and it was literally just
like I know, like literally for like three hours straight,
(21:12):
kicking my chair react. I mean, it was a good show,
it really was, but I don't need you to react
to every single thing, every single scene, every single joke.
Nobody's here to hear your reactions to it. And I
feel like she was like one of those attention grabbing people.
It's like she wanted to be curious out now, couldn't
be hell not. I'm so thankful this show was free.
(21:34):
But if I would have listened to my gut and
that felt like I would hurt their feelings. By moving
before the show started, I would have saved myself a
lot of heartaches. So going forward, listen to your gut,
because I mean, granted, the show was free from me,
and I'm so thankful for the for the person that
gave me the tickets. But never again have you, guys,
ever experienced that where you didn't listen to your gut.
(21:55):
You didn't move your seat because you didn't want to
hurt the person you were next to his feelings or
the person you were in front of.
Speaker 4 (22:00):
Going dude, the way when movie theaters and airplanes, people
kicking my seat is probably the biggest pet peeve I have. Like,
but I love so I won't say anything to them,
but I will literally give them the nastiest stink guy.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Yeah over the shoulders. Yeah that's a good one. It is.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
Yeah, even her stank face is so cute, so cute.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Like I'm terrified. I did give a few side eyes.
You know, she trying to take pictures. Her like phone
is like right over my shoulder.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
I'm just like somebody in the place. She must be
like fucking or something.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I pray, I pray that's why you're acting that way,
because you can't just go out in public and think
that that's proper decorum. I just feel like I felt
like I came off so uppity and stuck up because
I'm just I can't even react to the show because
I'm so annoyed with your voice like nails on a chalkboard.
Yeah yeah, yeah, So let's see a gut chall movie.
Your seat, fuck the other people. Man, you can't do
it in an airplane, though. I heard. If you ever
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switch seats on an airplane and the person like goes
into the bathroom or whatever in smokes, let's say, and
gets on the no fly list, and they like realize
the seat they were in, you'll be banned from the
airline because that was that's your assigned seat.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
But even if you show your ID improved that, it
wasn't you.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
No. Yeah, I heard a story where somebody is like
on the no fly list because somebody did that. They
switched seats with them, went to the bathroom, vaped. Now
this person like tried to fly home from wherever they
were going. They're like, nah, you can't fly like your
your band And they weren't able to get off the
band list last I checked. I don't know if they
fixed it. Since then. But yeah, that'll be a whole headache.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
That's a lot, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (23:31):
The most we have our loyal airlines that we dedicate to,
Like I like Southwest, I like American, I like Spirit,
Spirit Delta.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
Listen, Spirit at least stays in don't least at least
Spirit stays in the air.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
Spirit.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
I mean, I ain't gonna say I'm above a Spirit
because sometimes those prices me flight pricing. But I hate
it every single time, Like I hate I hate Spirit.
It's just like the teacher. I'm because I'm tall. Yeah,
so I'm like I'm tight next to the person.
Speaker 3 (24:04):
But they just said that they're doing something where they're
putting more leg room.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Oh I need that.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
And I think also, like give me a damn pretzel,
give me a cookie. Don't charge me seven dollars. American
gives snacks.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
So Spirit Airlines announce a seat with extra legroom to
be available starting this summer.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
HOWE want money, I'll charge in for that seaton per
I mean, you know, probably.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
Just another twenty dollars.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
They're cheap, but and in my bag because I ain't
got time for you, Spirit, I really don't.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
I mean, listen, Spirit was.
Speaker 3 (24:34):
Just named as one of the highest the highest rating
safest in.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Yea's wrong.
Speaker 3 (24:40):
Listen, and everybody has got on me for years for
flying Spirit because I am cheap dot com. But again,
Spirit ain't have no problem like American.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
I think American.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
It wasn't American the one with the Woeman DC.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Maybe yeah, probably, but listen, I will say Spirit is
better than Frontier. Frontier is literally the worst of the worst.
I don't know if you've ever flown Frontier, but I
just flew it to Vegas because prices flight pricing. So
they were on a fucking power trip like form A
one a single fly line or I'm not born in
this flight. Everybody needs to if you're in zone one,
(25:18):
are you're in zone three or four? Sit down getting
this single file like we're not students, bro figure out
how to do it. Seven people got on the plane.
I paid for a carry on there like we ran
out of baggage space. Everybody has to check their bag.
I had to check my bag at the end of
the line. I was in zone one. I was like spiraiting,
never treat me like this. I will never be Backfrontier.
But I'm flying in front here again this stop for
(25:39):
the week. She said, I'm gonna go on my side
on side talking about.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Okay, can we talk about Did you guys see Lotto
on Tyler stream the other day?
Speaker 4 (25:50):
Yeah, with the with the Sparklers, the girls.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Yes, yeah, Wait what happened?
Speaker 4 (25:54):
So?
Speaker 3 (25:55):
I mean like a lot of celebrities are now going
to streamers for interviews now, they are retiring going to
us and they're going to streamers because I guess it's
like a direct it's direct to consumer, right, it's live right.
So a lot of was promoting her new song Somebody.
She went on there with her sister. It was super cute,
but Tyler called her out for constantly flexing her body count.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Listen to this, do you care?
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Do you care how many bodies your girl got?
Speaker 3 (26:30):
No?
Speaker 2 (26:30):
I don't know. I don't got nothing to do. Man,
What the said? Why are you always saying a muse
that's little not oh my mother? And I stopped that
and stopped saying that. Bro, stop saying what are you
always saying this song? How much bodies you got? Though?
Who gives a fuck? Whoever said I said I have
a low body count? You always nigga seem me if
you could count your bodies on one hand, I can.
Why does that matter?
Speaker 4 (26:51):
Though?
Speaker 2 (26:51):
Same reason?
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Why? But are you fuck your nigga today?
Speaker 2 (26:55):
But listen? Why does that? Listen?
Speaker 4 (26:59):
Listen my music?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Listen. If I go, listen, I go, I'm gonna pop.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
My real life in real listen.
Speaker 2 (27:08):
Why does that matter? And it's and it's and it's
up to us.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
To doesn't matter that you got on bo tag on
your feet.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
I don't give a puck if I believe me, my
believe me. Listen, listen.
Speaker 4 (27:21):
But you don't got to say that.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
Though, Okay, I don't know why he's upset.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Yeah, I don't know why either. I think listen.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
The The idea about body count has always been to
a topic should you talk about it? Should you ask
somebody what their body count is? Should should it be
a secret? When should you tell people what your body
count is or whoever that you're talking to? What do
you guys personally think about body counts in general?
Speaker 2 (27:46):
I think the topic is juvenile. It's a little high school.
I haven't had a man ask me that in a really, really,
really long time that wasn't a controlling type of person.
And I think it's an automatic turn off if somebody
does ask me that, and in return, I'm not asking
you that because I don't care.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
But it's so, isn't that what Tyler is saying, though
he's saying, why do you have to announce it Facebook?
Speaker 2 (28:12):
I don't think she was just saying I don't And
I don't know how many times she spoke on it,
but she just said does a girl's body count matter?
I think that was what she said. And he said,
why you always bringing up your body count? We know
it's low. I didn't. I didn't understand why he came
with that as opposed to just say yeah or no,
I care or I don't.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
It sounded like to me that he was upset that
she was constantly flexing it, that she she can count
it on one hand, and so he was like what
the way I processed it was like him saying, like,
why should a body count matter in general? So why
do you keep bragging that yours is low? Are you
shaming other people for her? You being more than on
your hand? And so I guess it's also how you
(28:49):
interpret it. I mean, he's very aggressive with the way
he said, but Lotto does constantly talk about her body count.
I can count it on one hand. I can count
on one hand, And I mean, good for her.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
It's a defense mechanism because obviously, like with the music
she brings out, a lot of people have like that
judgment like oh, you're this, you're that, You're you're outside
to leaving other people.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
So maybe she just wants to make it clear like
she's a girl.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
Maybe, I mean, I get it. I just feel like
everybody kind of has their things. Like we know, Megan
Thee Stallion is a monster in the sack. She talks
about it all the time. I'll look you in your eyes,
I'll ride it on my tippy toes, I'll do all this.
And I'm sure she's not lying. And I'm not gonna say,
megane Stallion, why are way?
Speaker 1 (29:28):
Why are you ride dick so good?
Speaker 2 (29:29):
Like teach me? I'm kidding she's anyway? Uh so Yeah.
I just I feel like they all have their go
to But I feel as though maybe he feels insecure
about that, maybe because he can't get with her, or
because his girl maybe has a higher body count. I
don't know why he so works up about the thing
(29:50):
that she chooses to talk about the most, but it
just came off as insecurity on his end. And I
didn't take her as bashing anybody with a high body
count because she didn't say anything about anybody else. She
just literally asked ques uestion, if she's proud of her
having five bodies? Isn't she like twenty one though twenty two?
Speaker 1 (30:04):
I think she's like twenty four to twenty five. She's
mad young.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
Yeah, so anyway, if she's proud about having a young
a low body count and brag about it, girl go
off like if I just think it sparks insecurities and others, Yeah,
and it says a lot more about them.
Speaker 3 (30:17):
You are in a relationship, did you have that conversation
with your boyfriend? Like, Hey, how many people were did
you have before me?
Speaker 2 (30:24):
No?
Speaker 4 (30:25):
I did ask like before obviously, like if sex is involved.
I was like, hey, are you safe or are you good?
That's all I care about. You have your gun checked?
Speaker 1 (30:34):
Am I good? Are we good? That's it.
Speaker 4 (30:36):
I never asked about his background because it's none of
my business. I would rather not know, right right, So
if I know, I'm be sad or I don't want
to be upset.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
I have in the past.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
I've definitely asked, I don't ask like in the beginning
stages when you're not my man. I think I asked
like years into the relationship, like we're I think we're
just having one of those conversations where you just, you know,
go back into your past.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
Never have I ever some shit like that. I'm always
trying to play those games.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Yeah, And I'm pretty sure I asked, like, so, what's
your BodyCount? And then I heard it was like in
the thirties, and I was like, oh, okay, they had
but like that was my boyfriend at that point for
a long time, Like I he knows everything.
Speaker 1 (31:12):
He knew everything about me at the time.
Speaker 3 (31:14):
Like, I don't think that's necessarily a bad conversation to
have when you're with somebody for that long, Like I
don't think it's, but maybe it's kind of a turn
off in the beginning.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
Yeah, I think the intention behind the question. Again, if
we're just talking shooting the shit, it's like, oh, do
you ever get bit by a dog? How many people
do you fucking in your life? Whatever? Like that's fine,
But if it's like how many people have you slept
with before I proceed with you, that's when I think
it comes off, and I think maybe that's how I
asked the question when I was like a teenager and
I'm dating people, but I'm far from a teenager now,
and I just would not you know, Yeah, but you
(31:44):
are with your man since you were guys were younger
like teenagers, right, Uh not my carimlin. No, oh well
then there's that.
Speaker 4 (31:51):
It's like it's like what you said, like when you're
playing games and you just want to just joke around
if you're ready for that conversation, for sure, but it's nothing.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
I love, it's ready for a good never have I
ever or like one of those are we really strangers?
Speaker 4 (32:05):
I have? I have?
Speaker 1 (32:06):
I have to go to give it to you. We
should play it on air.
Speaker 3 (32:11):
We should do on this because one, it is a
conversation that like really makes you look at yourself and
your friends. Yeah, and it's not and none of it's
ever Are we really stranger? It's none of it.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
Most of it's not sexual at all.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
And it's like it just makes you think about yourself and
the way that you are with your friends and who
you who you are as a person in relationships and
so yeah, man, I've cried over that game with some
of my friends.
Speaker 4 (32:39):
I think that was the game I played right before
I got into a relationship with my boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
I brought you together, It's it's, it's a good time.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
I didn't play it in person, but I would love to.
And I ordered substance to which I feels like just
a little bit deeper, feels like a therapy session, like
the questions that ask just like it's hitting you in
the deep triggers or the deep wounds of yourself, like
who broke you?
Speaker 4 (33:00):
You?
Speaker 2 (33:00):
I think that was broken?
Speaker 1 (33:02):
But wow, I think that would be an essession for
me and you, Like, I'm surprised we haven't done something
like that would be really fun.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
We should do that. We should totally do that.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
But is that something we would want to do on air.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
Probably, I mean it'll probably be like an editing job
because like I don't want to say that. Yeah, but
I would totally love Maybe we should do it like
privately first and see what questions we want for the microphone.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
Oh that's good, right, that's good? Why? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (33:28):
I love being a girl. So do you give me
a Patty Award this week? Two girl?
Speaker 3 (33:33):
Okay, So Petty Award of the Week is so last
week I talked about the eleven inmates that broke out
of jail, and before they left, they rolled on the walls.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
We innocent. What was the other one that was too easy?
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Or yeah?
Speaker 1 (33:48):
Yeah, So now.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
They have caught majority of them, I think like eight
out of eleven. First of all, one of the guys
didn't he went home, like why do you want to
go home?
Speaker 1 (33:57):
He went to his block. And then another guy was
like found at a bar on like bourbon Bourbon streak.
Speaker 2 (34:04):
I'm not mad at the bar guy I was locked
up for. I don't know. You don't know what this
person witness. I need a stiff drink before I hit
the road. You know, no hit the road, I would
be out of the country. Are you getting my escape
from jail? I'm not going to my usual spots down
the street? Okay? You guys know now to travel, you
need like a real ID in a passport.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
What you think these guys got They just have jail.
Like what are y'all thinking, let's go to a different state.
You're not going to the local everybody and their mom
knows your orange jumpsuit.
Speaker 1 (34:33):
Yeah, come on, I'm trying.
Speaker 2 (34:35):
To defend these I mean, I just not defend the criminals.
But I just feel like, you know, it's it's easier
said than done. I ain't got no money. I came
out here in my red suit, I mean orange suit.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
I'm just living up because I know I'm getting caught,
so fucking let me just like.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
Yeah, that's that's a lot jail.
Speaker 3 (34:53):
Okay, So but my petty award. The police officers have
been taking like as they catch them, they've been taking
pictures with them, like posing m like there's some type
of show ponies.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
I'm just I will say. Social media has taken a
life of its own. Why are these police officers has
taken pictures with these freaking I mean, I guess if
you did right, like my job is like secure this place,
and you wrote that was too easy by or whatever
the hell they wrote, Like yeah, I might be a
little plais The police office is people too. I guess.
Speaker 3 (35:22):
The one guy that they caught, he like went home
and changed back into his like twoenty and fifteen outfit,
like it was him and like.
Speaker 2 (35:29):
These shark pants.
Speaker 3 (35:30):
Shark pants like those have been out since I was
in high school.
Speaker 2 (35:38):
You know, y'all, y'all expect him to have the latest gear.
I've been there for seventeen years, you know, I just
I'm so happy to see some night give me my
fancy pants. That's what he says.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
So that's who my petty ord is.
Speaker 2 (35:51):
That is really petty. I don't know if this is
petty or just next level disgusting, because I just really
don't like this person too much or his views whenever
he'speak in the public. When now I see his head,
his head, his name in the headline, I'm just like,
I don't even want to read it, but I read
this one. Did y'all see Boosie's comments about Cassie and
what she thinks. So yeah, so he says, I think
(36:12):
Cassie and her husband masterminded this takedown of Diddy and
his money. I think her husband had been trying to
get her to do this for years to Diddy, but
she didn't want to and she didn't want to do
it because she knew what will come out. Then as
a couple, y'all become broke. Now the plot becomes riller
by the month. I think the last straw was the
Didty in Karsha relationship when she saw Krisha with that
(36:34):
sign supporting her man at the awards That did that?
Did it? A woman scorned is a dangerous, evil motherfucker? Yeah,
I said it, So.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Hate him for what?
Speaker 2 (36:45):
And didn't the FBI pick this up? Like, isn't Cassie
just testifying on a case that the FBI likely subpoened
her for It's.
Speaker 3 (36:52):
Done Cassie versus Diddy. It's literally the state or the
government versus Diddy.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
You think Cassie like was like, you know, FBI like
and paid. All the other victims that came forward relate
like it's just so sick.
Speaker 4 (37:03):
See, and that's why a lot of girls don't be
speaking up because of comeback like shit like this.
Speaker 2 (37:09):
Not only do I have to combat my attacker and
the most traumatic thing that's ever happened to me, I
have to combat the public who is also saying awful
things about me.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
Even though it's on record, like one of the things
like that whole hotel scene.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Awful video, eighteen minutes of a video.
Speaker 4 (37:23):
Exactly like, come on, you don't question her, she's already
going through it.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
Yeah, I wouldn't say that's petty, that's just an asshole comment.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
He is an asshole, he really is. So I got
see you in then, Okay, Yeah, Hey, hey.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Bye, Okay.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
Found out.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
That's the perfect.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
All right.
Speaker 1 (37:57):
Now let's get into this petty mail.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
Dear Kayla and Kayla and Jordan. I was with my
children's father for ten years, never married, on and off,
never live together. He wants me to cancel child support.
He doesn't want to help me out with the bills.
We're trying to make it work. Should I cancel the
child support and give him an ultimatum to live with me?
Or is that forcing a situation? Please be kind, kayla's'll
(38:22):
fix your face.
Speaker 1 (38:23):
Wait.
Speaker 3 (38:24):
So we're trying to make it work like their relationship,
but he doesn't want to pay bills.
Speaker 2 (38:30):
He doesn't want to pay child support.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Okay, so okay, I got I gotta got it, got it.
Speaker 2 (38:34):
So if we're living together, you won't have to pay
child support because you would be taking on the bills.
But I'll only take you off child support if you
agree to live with me and help me with these bills.
I say, hell no, we won't go take don't take
him off child support? Like that's to support that your
child is taking care of, to ensure that your child
is taken care of. I just think things can happen
with this is a court assigned thing. You have to
(38:56):
do this, and if the relationship works out, the relationship
works out. But I don't think while you're in the
bill holding faces of trying to make it work, you
should take it off of child support based off of
you know.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
Yeah, I've seen this happen many times with like people
that I know, some of my friends, and no, it's
best to just keep them how it is, you know,
and if you then eventually, if you do get married,
then I say, if you're married, but you never know
what could happen. They can switch up at any time too,
you know, when the relationship falls through, and then then
what then you have to go through the courts all
over again. I have been through the child support process
(39:29):
with my best friend, and I know how long it takes,
and I know how grueling it is. And if the
and if the guy doesn't pay child support, it still
takes a long time to I guess, like subpoena him
and for him to like for the government to get
involved in take action.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
I'm talking years years.
Speaker 3 (39:45):
So don't take him off because it's gonna get hard
to put him back on if something changes.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
Yeah, that's I agree. That didn't even consider no I.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
Agree with Yeah yeah easy, all right, Well, make sure
you a podcast. Follow me at the Kayla Austin I'm
Kayla Thomas forty and follow us on Instagram at The
Pettish Podcast. Jordan Jordan Jackson with three a period, follow
our girl, our producer.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
Period and we'll see you next time. Bye bye
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