September 3, 2025 • 44 mins
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KT, Kayla and Jordyn sit down and discuss the new Neftlix documentary "Unknown Number: The High School Catfish. Other topics include people hating and rage baiting online, and big moves they're making in their lives. Enjoy!
KT, Kayla and Jordyn sit down and discuss the new Neftlix documentary "Unknown Number: The High School Catfish. Other topics include people hating and rage baiting online, and big moves they're making in their lives. Enjoy!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Petty Ish Podcast. Welcome back to another episode of
Petty Ish. I'm Kayla, I'm Kayla. What's that girl?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Girl?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I think I'm having a better week. Oh you look beautiful.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
I'm loving the early two thousands fashion that's coming back.
He has pretty to tax They're so perfect. You a
better week this week?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I am? Was I emotional? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
It was emotion Yeah, we had a more happy hour
and we just like talked. That was I think that was, like,
yeah that was last week was yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I was.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I was just like having imposture syndrome super bad. I
was like just counting myself out, feeling like I wasn't
good enough for a lot of things. And like the
social media pressure that is such a third world problem.
First world Oh you don't have that, bish, you don't
(00:58):
have that. But like it's like in the grand scheme
of life, it's not that serious, but in the work
that we do, it is. And so that's been keeping
me up. But I will say this past week, yeah,
it was. It was definitely a better week. I mean,
I just have to I'm really good at like now
that I'm in therapy, reframing my thoughts, dam reframing my
(01:19):
thoughts and changing them, Like, Okay, Kayla, you got if
you're gonna cry, then you have to equally as much
do something about it. So you're upset about your social
media and you're not growing, Okay, what are you gonna
do about it? So like I've been extra focused on
that and yeah, I don't know. It's doing the most
that I can.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
It's kind of the reality of this too shall pass.
Speaker 5 (01:38):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
You hear that saying all the time, and sometimes when
you're in it, it's hard to see that. But like
last week I felt like not so great, and this
week I'm on top of the world. So it's like
it just always passes through.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
How it's never permanent.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
How have you been dealing with the loss of a friend? Oh,
now that it's been a couple of weeks.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
You know, I processed, and again, people are experiences, they
aren't possessions. I pre cate the chapter that was had
with that, but honestly, I do have amazing friends in
my life. It's okay. I have plenty of other friends.
And I felt it. I allowed myself to feel it.
I didn't act too cool or I don't care or
(02:16):
I'm better than caring. I cared it hurt me. I
allowed myself to feel that and I let it go.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Look at us all grown right, But I think I
do think like I saw this TikTok that said, once
you hit thirty, you just don't care anymore, yo, or
you don't care as much. Like we were so upset
over friends and possessions, material things, all these things when
we were in our twenties. But when you're thirty, as
to this point, it's just like we legit don't have
(02:43):
the energy to put into Why isn't this person like me?
Or why is it you know, why is this happening?
Speaker 4 (02:49):
You know, like acting like you care about that is
just I mean, even caring about that is just genuinely
so exhausting. And one thing I'm learning is, you know,
childhood was amazing and there's nothing like childhood.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
But the older you get, the more freedom you have.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Like my boyfriend is in his fifties and the level
of I don't give a fuck that he has, I'm like,
I can't wait to reach that. You are so free.
I don't think he's petty anymore.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
But are you? Did you do anything petty this week?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Did I do any pettiness? Honestly, I can't think of
a single thing that I've done. I actually have not
talked to a lot of people this week, honestly did not.
I can't think of a single thing that I've done,
or that I've seen or nothing.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Because you focused radio. Okay, oh yeah, wait what was
that that was? You don't care when people don't listen
to Oh that was such a good video.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I was like, I need to get my name.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Okay, I can Okay, maybe this will be a little
bit petty. So I got that from some no, because
when it comes to social media, everybody takes from everybody, right,
so like it's just a trending sound. But I saw
it off of somebody. Somebody had just did it about
like Taylor Swift. Like her caption was, I don't listen
to Taylor Swift and then of course the audio is
(04:02):
but nobody cares.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Nobody, nobody cares.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
You don't get an award because you don't listen to
And I saw that, I was like, that would be
great for radio, and I switched it. And I don't
know she felt some type of way, but she was
like looking at my stories, like because I posted it
right after she posted hers which is probably like it exactly,
but she probably was like, oh, she stole this from me,
which I absolutely liked.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
And that's what social media is for. It's not you
did it like verbatim word for word. Her captions her
shit like yeah, you made it yours. Yeah, and I
thought it was super. It did go up, Sure it
did out about you. So you know, I'm accepting that
people aren't my friends anymore. So I'm removing a bunch
of people out of my close friends. When I first
moved here, you know, I had this small little family
(04:44):
that I've created, and going on almost six years now,
a lot of those relationships have kind of changed and
I'm not as close as I once was with these people.
And I'm just accepting where I am currently. And you
can't see my close friends anymore.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
No, we don't get access to that point part of
my life.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Okay, because I post personal things there sometimes right exactly.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah, and didn't she like let me stop.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I mean, it was a bunch of people I took
out at least four, but yeah, she was one of them.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
To both of them, are.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
I mean, I don't understand why I'm hitting girl.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
They like we were saying how she had my sister
from seeing her page. But you got a stray like
they shot you for no reason. I was like, I
don't look at your stories anyway. So okay, wait, another
petty thing you did? Petty th because our listeners have done.
I just had my bachelorette this weekend and I wanted
to post a recap on my Instagram. One of my
(05:34):
friends really hated the photo that I wanted to post,
so I crapped her out of it instead. Yeah, I
respect that. I don't think that that's petty if you
didn't like the picture. But I look great in it.
I'm not posting you. I'm posting myself. What are you
mad about?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
I got all right.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I said that I dated a Disney actor who cheated
on me. That was two years ago, but every so
often I go to his IMBD and make him shorter.
Now you can do that.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Yeah, you can edit people's IMDBs.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Oh, let me change the guy that I went on
a date with. You know, the guy that went hiking with.
He has a IMDb. Men, Remember he swore up and
down that he like is like this big time. A
list actor can provide for his whole family from his
acting game. Oh yeah, things on there?
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Make them sure? Make him sure. That's hilarious.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
That's funny.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
My ex and I just broke up.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
I knew he would eventually change the Netflix past words
since he pays for it, So last night I replaced
his icon with a clown emoji.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Oh I love that.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
That's cue.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
That's funny.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
That's like very very harmless.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Yeah, that's cute. That's cute.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
So what you do this week?
Speaker 4 (06:42):
I produced for somebody knew this week. I had actually
a couple extra shows this week. It's been actually a
really kind of busy week. This week for me show Eyes,
which is fun. I really do love radio. I have
a lot of fun doing the shows. But I work
with this KTLA guy. His name is Andy Rousemeyer. I
really struggle out his last but he now officially got
(07:02):
a show on the radio and I got to work
with him for the first time. He was absolutely amazing,
And he bought in this restaurant tour named Francisco, who
invited me to a piano bar.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
It's Florence Asterier and Piano Bar.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
They do this thing every week where they'll play live music,
give out like appetizers and drinks, and I'm actually going
this upcoming week, so I was just able to kind
of expand my community. I'm going to get that restaurant
tour on another one of my shows.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
And I've decided that since I.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Took the time to focus on myself and spend time
with myself, I no longer mind going to these things
alone because I made a.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Promise to myself.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
I'm not going to miss any more opportunities because I
have no one to go with. That is old, that
is outdated. Some blessings are just for you. And although
you want to share these blessings and it's really cool experiences,
I get, if I can't share them, it's okay to
receive the blessing and enjoy it just on my own.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
So yeah, and you're good at making friends and having
conversations with people too.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
So you're you're that that's you.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
No, you are too shut up, Kayla, I'm friendly.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I don't make friends. You make friends.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
So but I will in an environment where you have
to put on essentially right like you will be able
to have a conversation with somebody and it'd be an
engaging conversation. You're not gonna hug the wall.
Speaker 4 (08:19):
So especially if I get a couple of glasses of wine.
I mean, then I'm social social Sally.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
What about you? How was your week?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
It was a good week. Like I said, I have
been really really locked in. I feel like I have
been talked. I usually talk to my best friends on
the phone like every single day, and I don't. I
feel like I don't even talk to Brittany or anybody.
But I had a very good interview, which I'm very
excited to come out this week. Mind you, I've been
doing a lot of girl groups and boy bands, so
I had Full Circle Boys and then I had I
(08:46):
had Frequency. That Frequency interview really did. Yeah, yeah, let's
go to Frequency first. So Frequency is it the winners
of Building the Band on Netflix? Yes, Yes, they came
in and it was such a cool It was our
first interview ever as a girl group together, and it
was it was just cute, Like I always really connect
(09:06):
with younger girls, especially when they come in an interview,
like we just I automatically connect with them, and so
it was a great interview. I was excited to put
it out because everybody has been watching the show. It's
very popular, and so I knew it would do numbers,
and it did. And it got me like a lot
of followers on Instagram, but more so, like the comments
on the YouTube post itself were really really nice and
(09:30):
probably something that I really needed to hear in this
moment where I have been feeling a lot of imposture syndrome.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
So you read the comments this time around and they
worked to your benefit.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Yes, that's great, mind you. I never read comments. I
don't even watch interviews back because I just don't like
to do it.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Yeah, but somebody was like, you know this interview, can
we take a moment to you know, acknowledge how good
the interviewer is, Like the best I've seen in a while.
And a lot of people have said this to me
over the past couple of months, like that, I am
very good, and I know I'm very good.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
At Hello time Russian Jordan to go on tour together.
That was crazy.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
And then Jordan commented on the video and followed you
we did it girl, Yeah, she sure did. So that
was so. I've had some really cool things happen this week.
And then girl Set is a new girl group that
just came out and their debut single came out on Friday,
So I will be I was also their first interview,
and so that interview is gonna come out this week,
(10:25):
and I'm excited about that one, just because I guess
with the girl with these girl groups and boy bands
come like these crazy well sorry to call you crazy crazy,
but there's these crazy fanatic fans and so like anytime
you post a picture with them or a video, they
like they follow. So it's been great for me, like
social media wise that I'm very I'm very proud of myself.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
Can we also say the looks have been serving? You
have been switching up yours. Oh, we have been switching
them up and I love it. Like you were short
last week, you're long this week you had this big
hair like like kind of I don't know up kind of.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
It was so cute.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Yeah, it took me. Brad season is over for me.
And it's so funny because I came in with like
this this wig. They're all wigs, all right, let's just
go Like I came in and they didn't recognize me
in this building. They were like, hayla, I'm like, come on, guys,
we do that. I've been here for three years, like
you guys right, Because then I like, I'll take this
wig off and put a short one on and come
in the next day with short hair and they don't understand.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Right, and how did you do that?
Speaker 4 (11:22):
It's kind of like the Cardi B trial, which she's like,
you were blonde, you were short, now you're brunette.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
What's going on?
Speaker 1 (11:27):
She's like, it's well, I thought that was very I
didn't like that. No, no, I thought that was very
racist of him.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
I think the whole trial was trying to show her,
put her in a light that she was trying not
to be in.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
He was completely condescending. Yes hire interview.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I mean, you know it's a wig, like, come on, now,
you're not stupid. But well, what did that add to
the trial? Is my thing? Like, what did knowing that
she had black hair yesterday and blonde today? What did
that do for the case?
Speaker 3 (11:55):
I mean it did nothing.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
He even trying to say it to her right now,
Say what you said to her right now? She's like, what, Like,
I mean, I he looked like a fuddyduddy. At the
end of it, on Cardi B's fandom went up, like
everybody's loving Cardi in her personalities. I feel like we
haven't seen it in a little while, and I think
that's what made her her before she was even her, Like,
people were following her on Instagram because of that amazing, funny,
witty personality and it got to see that right before
her album drop.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
So it was amazing for Cardi.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
I mean, this is a great album roll out for her.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
This guy I will not be hiring as my lawyer.
It's like, you're terrible, terrible.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
But yeah, So other than that, I watched this Netflix documentary.
It's called Unknown Number The High School Catfish.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
It's about an hour and a half on Netflix.
Speaker 4 (12:34):
It's not like a series like they typically do, like
it's one one documentary.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yes, I watched it, and I have never been that
hooked to a documentary and then felt so disgusting afterwards.
Spoil alerts ahead. If you have not watched it, you
might want to turn this off because we're going to
talk about it bye. But in the end, we know
that it turned out to be the mother that was
sending this high school, this thirteen year old girl these
text messages. So backstory on the on the Dot documentary. Basically,
(13:01):
this thirteen year old girl named Lauren was she was
thirteen and now she's fifteen.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Oh so it happened.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
It happens over the course of five years of two years.
Got it, so maybe she's like sixteen now, got it?
So she was thirteen that when it first began, which
is crazy, and she was she was dating Thistle, this
other kid in her class, and she started around Halloween times.
She started getting text messages like your boy, what's his name?
Owen or something like that, Owen doesn't want you, Owen
(13:28):
doesn't like you, he was with me last weekend. We
and all these explicit words too, like we he ate
my last week No word that thirteen thirteen year old
shouldn't even know what to or how to do. Oh
my god, you know what I'm saying. And so those
text messages accumulated over the course of two years, and
they got worse and worse and worse. When it finally
(13:49):
got to the FBI two years later, they had seven
hundred and fifty pages of text messages from this person
of them just harassing her, telling her to unlive herself,
telling her to that she's fat, that she just nobody
wants her on this planet. Owen doesn't love her, Owen
loves me. There was a time where they had to
they broke up Because of it, Owen started dating another
(14:11):
girl in a different city. The catfish ended up finding
that girlfriend's number in messaging her and harassing her and
her family, so he had in that relationship.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
So this mother was obsessed with her boyfriend or was
she obsessed with her daughter?
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Well at the end, so in the end we found
out that it was the mom that died. Her explanation was,
Oh my goodness, I feel sick to my stomach, she said.
I mean, we all make mistakes. I mean, she goes.
I mean, it's just like somebody drinking and driving. It's
just like someone breaking the law. Like we've all broken
the law at one point in time for.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
Two years straight to your own child. I don't know
if that's comparable to this. I don't know if that's
the I don't know if that's that's the thing. So
the diagnosis I understand because I didn't watch the documentary itself,
but I did hear about this story when it first
came out Netflix on Netflix.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
I'm sure they made it amazing. It gave you much
more detail.
Speaker 4 (15:02):
So I did understand this girl was being trolled for
years and pushed to you know, her harm herself and
then it came out that her mother was doing that,
and they said that it was kind of like Munchausen,
which is when you make your child or somebody that
you love physically sick, or you make them believe that
they're physically sick when they have nothing going on, just
so they can depend on you and you could take
care of them. So he says, kind of like mental
(15:24):
health munch Housings, where they're trying to beat you down
emotionally or mentally so that you can lean on me.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
For support and you'll always need me.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
Yeah, But to follow that to the next girlfriend kind
of adds another layer on that because if it was
just about you wanting your daughter to depend on you
because this person's bullying her online, weird not okay, but
all right, I can understand that diagnoses, but why do
that to the next girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
So it also brings into the fact that maybe she
was obsessed with the boyfriend as well.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
So she's not only mentally ill munch Housings, she's a
pedophile because the boy is thirteen.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Yeah, and I don't know why they didn't touch on
that more than they should have. Hey, Jordan, welcome to
the pot.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Say oh you got your coffee cheers here's.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
But yeah, So I don't know why they didn't touch
on that more in the documentary, they basically chalked it
up to was it munchild how you say it? But
when you see the girl's reaction when the police sat
her down with her mom and said this is your
mom doing it, she looked like she disassociated. She stared
off into space and didn't say a word. It looked
like she didn't even have a reaction. Her mom cuddles her,
(16:33):
starts like like grooming her and like petting her like
this and pulling her hair.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
I'm infuriated.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
The dad comes home, he finds out what happens. He goes,
you need to leave. You need to get out of
this house to the mom, you need to get out
of the out of this house now, and she's like,
I can't leave my baby. And the girl is literally
sitting there and she's like, that's her mom, just sitting there.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Yes, that's her mom.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
And then at the end of the documentary, she says,
I want to have a relationship with my mom. I
feel like I need her, I love her, and I
can't wait to see her.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
She's young, Bros.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Exactly so it's really sad to see all these people
on TikTok, Like I mean, even I was like, girl,
like I wake up? Sorry I was. I was like,
girl like, wake up. Why did no one crash out enough?
You know people, nobody crashed out enough for me? Like,
had I heard that my mom was doing that in
that moment, I feel like I would have been like,
(17:25):
wait a minute, what, my mom? You were the one
telling me to kill myself for all these years, Like
I don't know if she couldn't process it fast enough
that that was her reaction, But the fact that she
still wants to her mom to be in her life
is just very I don't know, and it's very trial.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
I want to I just understand the like being that
young and having your whole world shattered, you're not going
to know how to process that, Like I totally understand freezing,
and then the person who always comforted you comforts you again.
It's kind of like when you're in an abusive relationship.
They say it takes about seven times before you actually
leave a fish. So it's kind of like that moment
(18:02):
where I'm not really accepting this as truth, like I
love you, I love you with that.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
You're my mom. I just it's so oh my god.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
But I know that fast forward ten years from now,
they're definitely gonna be one of those new contact relationships
and she's gonna, you know, have a I don't know
what social media's platform is gonna be popular at that
point in time, but she's going to be a star
on that platform talking about how to cut your mom
out of your life.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
And this is what she went through.
Speaker 4 (18:25):
And they made a documentary about me back in the day,
and she's gonna get her coin from this story. I
think that it will come to that. But in the meantime,
she needs to go to a lot of therapy because.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
That is betrayal on another level.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Yeah, and the mom only went to jail for a year.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
That's it. Yeah, I mean, I guess nothing.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Happened, but yeah, literally, so I don't know, it's just
it's really disheartening. But what made me the most sad
was that she never really apologized. I mean, she cried,
of course, manipulated the situation saying like you know, like
I just you know, I'm just going through a lot
of things and you know, I'm getting my mental health together.
It was just something it'd been a very dark place.
(19:01):
But I don't think anybody's dark place has led them
to hurt their own I mean, we have heard of
stories where parents do crazy things to their children, but like,
oh my gosh, like when did you have the time
to write these text messages and then comfort your daughter
and then write these another text message? Like that took
a lot of work And it turns out that she
had lost her job that she didn't even tell her
husband about.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
So for two years, her husband, father, the girl's father
or yes.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
They were all together, big happy family. I guess she
was pretending to go off to work and uh didn't
ever have a job at this time.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
So help, Beyoncey.
Speaker 4 (19:34):
I feel like we're talking about somebody that's just clearly
mentally ill, Like there is no we're not going to
be able to make logic out of this situation. This
woman needs help, yes, and it's so unfortunate. Like sometimes
I feel like people should have to take like a
mental test before they can even reproduce, Like you should
be able, you should be tested before you because like
now this little girl has the girl with all these
(19:55):
issues that she never asked for because your mentally ill
as had her and it destroyed her.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
It reminds me of the situation here in California. You
guys have been following about baby Horrow. Is that his name? Emmanuel,
Emmanuel Horra. He was killed by his parents and the
stepdad allegedly, yes, mom's stepdad.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
They created this whole fake thing of the mom, you know,
going to a grocery store. She said that, you know,
somebody walked up to her said o la and stole
her baby.
Speaker 5 (20:26):
Wasn't he like only four months old?
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Yeah, something like that, like mad young. But she says, like,
who has time to say ola and then steal a baby?
Knock ola? Knock her out, steal a baby?
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Like.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
It turns out they looked at the security cameras. The
bitch just fell out on her own. She all, she
just like fell out and ran into the girl. Like
not a funny situation, but like.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Huh literally, I can't like.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
And then there was this one TikTok where we're losing
faith in humanity. But she's like, you know, people, child
care is expensive, like nobody's out here still in disabled children,
Like it's it's it's expensive.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
It's a lot.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
And the woman just didn't even try to get her
story together. And then the father, I don't know if
you heard this part. He's in jail and they put
him in jail with an informant who he thinks is
to sell me in a friend because these cops are
so smart. So he's like making friends with him, and
he's like, you know, I wish my son was still here,
acting regretful, but I think he also said things that
also alludes to the fact that he might be guilty,
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So he kind of got himself in some trouble with
that one.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
I mean, it's just it's terrible. Then he said that
he actually like rolled over and killed.
Speaker 4 (21:30):
Because he has abusive history of a child beforehand who's
disabled because of him.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
Isn't that his actual daughter? So basically what happened son, No,
that's his stepson. But though from the previous marriage his
actual daughter. I think she he actually like I wouldn't
say he says it was accidental, but like dropped her
broker ribs. Now she's literally a vegetable. She has to
have a caretaker twenty four to seven and will live
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like that for the rest of her life because of
her father.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
And if he was tested ahead of time, he probably
wouldn't have been able to reproduce, just putting that out
there again. And if you would have known that he
had this history, he should have been like, you know,
I don't know, maybe sterole or whatever, like you shouldn't
be able to reproduce if you put your child in
that position.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
Now you're out here having more kids. Now this kid's missing. Yeah, sad.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
It's just really sad. I've been just like on a
wormhole and TikTok of all these different that story the now,
the one about the have you seen a Catfish?
Speaker 3 (22:25):
One?
Speaker 1 (22:26):
No, the Cabins documentary, go home and watch it's called
Unknown Number, the Unknown Number, the high School Catfish.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
And it's high school catfish.
Speaker 1 (22:34):
Oh yeah, okay, so yeah, unknown color. But yeah, it's
it's it's very, very very difficult. Also on TikTok, you
were talking about how this date, this girl went on
a date and she completely so.
Speaker 4 (22:43):
I actually know this girl, like we've partied together a
few times, and I see her on my Instagram fyp
for you Paige for the cool Kids, and she popped
up as she's telling this story about how she went
on a church date and she the date was she
was she was supposed to make up at nine and thirty.
She was ready till about nine point forty. She got ready,
she went to the car, and then she wanted to
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stop for Starbucks, and he said we had to be
the church by ten, but he let her stop for Starbucks.
Then they finally get to the church parking lot and
she needs to do her face, so she's doing her
lip gloss and putting oil on the bottom of her feet,
which I'm not sure what that means. She says she
had to do all that before she walked into the building,
and he like, is getting frustrated because they have to
get into church, and he left her and went into
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the church without her, like, bro, we got to get there.
So she got upset. She felt like he wasn't being
patient with her. She ended up calling her best friend
to pick her up from the date, and he came
out and saw her cry and was like, yo, come in,
and she was like, no, you left me, da da da.
So everybody in the comments is telling her that she
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is wrong, she is standing on business. They are also
calling her the devil. Jezebel, you never wanted to go
to church.
Speaker 3 (23:53):
You are a.
Speaker 4 (23:53):
Demon like they are, you know, the internet's crazy. So
she changed her name to the Gazabelle Spirit. And I'm
just like, I don't know if you're like rage biting says,
are you really you really feel this way? And we're
not close enough for me to be like, girl, what's
up with that? Like we're not that but yeah, she's
getting torn apart. I just I wonder for her mental health,
like is this reality?
Speaker 3 (24:11):
Did you really? You can't really feel like you right now?
Situation syste you.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Just can't well. First of yeah, it's like you were
purposely late to all these things. It's like you were
trying to be late. It's like you had no consideration
for the guy that was taking you on a date
to church. Why are y'all going on to a data church?
Speaker 3 (24:27):
I would love a data church. Really, yeah that's super cute, but.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
Hallelu But I do feel like, yeah, if you, if you,
if you weren't ready till ten minutes after you were
supposed to be ready, and then making him stop for Starbucks,
which I did him to do that. Anyway, I wouldn't
have been like, no, we're not going to Starbucks, like
we'll go after church, like I to go get my
praise one.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Yeah, what about the feet thing? What is that? How
do you put oil on the feet?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
That's why they're the dole.
Speaker 4 (24:54):
I don't know what that means either. My feet you
got a little moisturizing, But do you do that? But
your date like, don't you do that?
Speaker 3 (25:01):
Before you leave?
Speaker 2 (25:02):
That?
Speaker 4 (25:02):
She was like you know, She's like, and you know,
I had my lip gloss and you know how we
put the oil on the bottom of our feet.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
And I'm like, who's we? Who does that?
Speaker 1 (25:11):
Explain that to me, especially in front of somebody else.
I mean, I think it's like very disrespectful. She was wrong.
She's probably rage baiting, bye girl.
Speaker 3 (25:17):
But TikTok a good check. So if you've rage beating,
get your coins.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Story. Can I tell you handle the heat?
Speaker 4 (25:26):
Though the heat is hot? I think she's getting death threats,
Like I'm sure it's real.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
At this point, I think I can because I have
gone viral a couple of times. We have gone viral
a couple of times for our videos, and people say
some nasty things. I've just trained myself to just to
not watch it or not look at it. I think
at this point in my career with all my videos,
like going up. I literally don't, and I've developed tough
skin too, Like somebody was making fun of they said
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that something about my mouth or something like that that
normally would have upset me, like her mouth is so big,
why she always why is her mouth always like open?
And it's just like it's very unattractive her mouth. And
I was just reading this, and I normally would have
cried my eyes out, like a couple of years ago,
but this said, I was just like, okay, but like,
who's interviewing big time brush right now? Not you like
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to drop, You're watching me interview? So whatever.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
It's kind of like what Taylor Swift said in that
two hour Travis Scott Taylor Swift interview.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
I watched you watch all day.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
I didn't, but I had to watch a lot a
good amount of it for show prep because I had
to get a lot of sound clips from it. But
she did say that she does a really good job
at disassociating and being protective of her energy, and her
comments have been turned off for five years.
Speaker 3 (26:32):
Yeah, like I don't miss it.
Speaker 4 (26:33):
Side note, I think that they have a true, genuine, healthy,
beautiful love. The body language, the things that were being said,
like the eye contact endlessly, the laughing at each other's humor.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
I just, oh yeah, I loved it. They were so
key together. And some people were also saying that there's
no connection, there's no chemistry there, and I didn't know,
and I couldn't understand that. I was like, this is
the perfect example of like what do you what do
you want her to do? Be all over him, like
stucking his face Like no, they genuinely seem like their friends.
That's and foremost, they seem so comfortable with each other, right,
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And they were somehow being able to make a true
lasting relationship despite being the most famous people in the world.
And I can't imagine how hard that must have been,
but they did it.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
People are so miserable, Like I was talking to somebody, Actually,
she's like I hate tailor shift.
Speaker 3 (27:18):
She's a devil. She's like so evil, she's that.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
I'm just like, first of all, like let's be you
don't know these people, like I don't like little Boozy,
but I'm not. I hate like what to invest all
this energy and like it's just weird. And I just
feel like people don't like things that they can't reach,
you know, Like it's just I think It's just Taylor's
not thinking about you or anybody else.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Honestly, she probably's happy dough.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
By the way, speaking of the sour dough, I really
think that was an Easter egg for her performing at
the super Bowl.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Why why together?
Speaker 1 (27:53):
Because the forty nine ers, that's where the super Bowl
is gonna be in San Francisco, their mascot is sourdough. Sam.
Oh what the heck?
Speaker 3 (28:00):
Okay, all right, get it? I do.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
I mean it may be something as small, but she
kept saying, all I think about nowadays is sour dough.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
All Right, we'll see. I mean, I think that she's
a very intentional woman. I think she's a very smart woman.
But I also do think that women because doctor Wendy
just went through a sour dough face like years ago,
like maybe a few a year ago. She kept bringing
me sour dough bread that she was baking at home.
So when white woman loves sourdough.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Bread, who teddy and word of the week, I'm gonna
give mine.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
I don't know if you saw this story, but this
kid was at a tennis match and one of the
players and excuse me, I'm not a sports girl, So
don't give me the line about these people's names.
Speaker 3 (28:37):
But one of the.
Speaker 4 (28:38):
Players maybe gave a hat to the crowd, assigned hat
to the crowd. He gave it to this little kid.
This grown man next to him snatched the hat out
of his hand. The kid's like, give me my hip,
and the grown man didn't. So the internet isn't an
uproar like what grown up stills from a kid.
Speaker 3 (28:54):
So he's getting a lot of backlash.
Speaker 4 (28:55):
The player wanted to find the kid so he could
give him a hat and meet him and make right,
you know, And I think the player had done that
with the kids since then. So we find the grown
man who snatched this little kid's hat. And instead of
being like I was wrong, I had a lapse of judgment.
Speaker 3 (29:10):
I was in the moment. This is his quote.
Speaker 4 (29:15):
The recent incident at the tennis match has caused a disappropriate,
disproportionate online uproar. It's all about the famous hat. Of course,
Yes I took it, Yes I did it quickly. But
I've always said life and life first come, first served.
I understand that some people might not like it, but
please let me make a glob but please let's not
make a global scandal out of a hat. It's just
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a hat. If you were faster, you would have it.
Regarding online hate, I remind you that insulting a public
figure is subject to legal liability. All offensive comments, slanders,
and insinuations will be analyzed for the possibility of taking
this matter to court.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
He's the CEO of Polish, so he's a millionaire.
Speaker 4 (29:57):
And I feel like he thinks that if you threaten
him being at his status, you will pay for it.
And I am not apologizing and be quicker than that kid,
and I think that's Petty's fuck.
Speaker 5 (30:07):
That's so crazy to me. I can't believe he's bullying
a kid in person and online.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
What are like, what are we doing? What are we doing?
Speaker 3 (30:15):
Why would you receive? Lay?
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Literally was like, be faster.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
Kid, you gotta be quicker than that. Like that's crazy.
Speaker 5 (30:22):
Sorry, I'm ten, You're like two hundred bounds, Like what's
going on here?
Speaker 1 (30:29):
I mean whatever. That just shows what type of person
he is in his character anyway.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
And I won't be supporting and Polish whatever the fuck that.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
Is right, mine is going to go to Ace Green.
I am so fucking sick of Love Island. I am
sick of all the drama. That is after this, but
I cannot stop like tuning in. Ace is the villain
in my eyes, the villain of season seven. I didn't
like him from the jump. I've always been on the
Ace hate train, and it turns out that I was
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correct because he switched up on all of his friends.
So this is he went on Speedy's Interview or Speedy's
podcast and basically outed his friends Nick Landria basically and
said that they didn't even think that they were real.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
You feel like Olandria and Nick's relationship is real? Is
this you thinking or is this your answer? I'm going
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to assume that that's your answer. Is that tough for
you because Olandria is someone that you consider to be
a close friend.
Speaker 6 (31:41):
Yeah, yeah, everything is tough for me because again we
just like, she just came out here for Shotty's birthday
and we all spent a time together at the Cloud
and we all cakeing and shit like that. So I
have a line of respect for Landra. But again, from
the last conversation that I've had with you know, Nick,
it was a matter of if it's it's not a
romantic spark, they just they just, you know what I'm saying,
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They find each other attractive.
Speaker 2 (32:05):
Nicko Lanzia's relationship. You've expressed your in silence, you've expressed
your opinions on that. Do you think that the other
relationships that have come from Love Island are real?
Speaker 6 (32:16):
Yeah, Taylor and Clark, I know that's that's for sure real,
and the other ones not so much?
Speaker 1 (32:23):
Or hm hmm, what do you think?
Speaker 4 (32:30):
I think it is the villain of season seven, and
I think that I think I think that that was
corny for him to do that. I don't I don't
think that he should have done that on such a
public platform. If you had an issue with something that
Nick said, then you should have spoken to Nick about it.
Going about it that way was a little bit corny.
But from the outside looking in, maybe maybe they weren't
as close as we thought. They're inside living it and
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the videos have come out since he said that, and
they're like, we're not together. Whenever they talk about the future,
Landry's like, how do you see your life in ten years?
She didn't even bring up Nick. So the outside was
painting this picture of them. He's on the inside, he's
keeping it real when the world don't respect real, and
that's just what it is.
Speaker 5 (33:08):
Yeah, I was gonna agree with what you were saying about.
You know, Ace knows them more, like way better than
we do. And I feel like nowadays everybody's just trying
to troll or you know, put up a front for
social media and play the role. So I think Nick
and Alandry are doing good. I guess on socials they're together.
It's cute, but you can tell they're not exclusive. Exclusive.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
But yeah, Ace was.
Speaker 3 (33:34):
He he was a villain for that inside all the
other couples did break up.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Yeah, yeah, him and Shelley cool. My thing is, just
like you keep saying throughout this entire interview, Alandri is
my dog. She was one of my best friends in
the villa. I love Alandra. I have so much respect
for Alandra. She was just at the birthday party with
Shelley and Ace. Right, this is supposed to be your friend,
and you are outwardly even if they say they are
scamming us, scam me. I love him thenk Alandria, Okay,
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I don't give the fuck. It doesn't matter, right, but
to betray your friend like that on a national platform
like that is the most disgusting thing. Like, let's say,
like I was faking a relationship with somebody, and I'm
just for the money, right, And I'm in a relationship
with this guy for the money, right. And I tell Kayla,
and I'm getting all the money and I'm getting both
of us drinks. It would and you came on this
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platform or another podcast and said, Kayla is h she's
just with him for the money, even though even though
it is the truth, Why the fuck would you betray
me like that? And you call me your dog?
Speaker 4 (34:32):
So when you bring a Landry into it, You're right,
it's it's rustrating. But I understand it's landa because I'm
telling you multiple times.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
I watched the whole thing. He kept saying. Alandri is
my girl. She was one of my closest friends him
and Nick. I don't understand what happened with that relationship,
but who cares. I don't really care. It's the fact
that you disrespected Landria, and I love the fact that
her mom was underneath a TikTok comment. TikTok that was
basically saying if I was Alandria Nick's parents, I would
sit them down and be like, these people are not
your friend. Miss Felicia commented and was like I did
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just that with up with Uhlandria, So I.
Speaker 4 (35:05):
Just hope it does an effect her and Shelley because
I love that was one of my favorite love stories
outside of the entire villa. And sometimes your partners can
make you forget what you too genuinely have, and Shelley
isn't to be billing for that at the same time,
she might be like my ma and my Mey and
my man.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Yeah, unfortunately, I feel like that's what it's gonna have
to be, like like him publicly bashing Nick and saying
Nick's no longer my friend. If Landri and Nicker are
like actually together, let's say in perfect world they are
Alandri is gonna have to go with Nick, right, and
then Shelley is gonna have to go with Ace, right.
Speaker 4 (35:34):
But I'm not with my man right now, Like, let's
let's do dinner, let's just lunch, me and you like
but lives outside of the friends.
Speaker 1 (35:43):
But what do you think conversations will be like when you, like,
you guys were on Love Island together, They're like.
Speaker 4 (35:48):
What endorsements you get this week? What photo shoots you
got coming up? You slayed that last one. I love
your makeup? How your eyebrows, Like, come on, that's how
much to talk aboutside of these men?
Speaker 1 (35:57):
I don't know, not when the Ace directly took shots
at Orlandria. Yes, it's like, I'm gonna look at you
and be like, why aren't you checking your man?
Speaker 3 (36:09):
I did check my man. We had a conversation, but
I'm not leaving him.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
Well, then, I don't know what to tell you to
watch perspective. If your man said something a bad about me?
Could I still be your friend? Like on national national level?
Could I still sit with Kayla and be? Could I
still sit with Kayla and be like.
Speaker 3 (36:34):
I would be?
Speaker 1 (36:35):
We could still, but we couldn't.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
You went in the situation in La where you didn't
funk with Man, but you love Sis and you were
still friends with Sis, and you're still friends with Sis
till this day.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
Wait tell me, Oh okay, No, I stopped talking to
her for like a long time.
Speaker 3 (36:52):
Yeah, but you came.
Speaker 5 (36:53):
Back because you needed to.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
Both of you guys needed.
Speaker 3 (36:56):
Yes, I'm just saying the strongest and the landry between
you and.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
But okay, So I for like a year I had
to like distancelf myself from her because I just it
was just too much I mean, everybody had a distance,
but I did. Yes, I did come back because I
felt like she needed me and I did miss her.
But there was a big boundary. I don't want to
talk about your man. I don't want to see your man.
He's not invited to my parties. I don't want to
know nothing. And of course the lines did get blurred,
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so it was kind of impossible.
Speaker 3 (37:30):
Yeah you know, yeah.
Speaker 4 (37:32):
But there are things to talk about outside of the
outside of our men, and I just think that I
hope that these women can can can remain friends and
then bring Serena into it and be just fabulous as Yeah,
that's my perfect row. All right, let's get into some
petty mail. Dear Kayla, Kayla and Jordan. I've been dating
this guy for two and a half months. We talked daily,
he takes me out every week. We clarified that we
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were only sleeping with each other and no one else.
But I just saw that he updated his dating app
and added a new one. I just I just want
to know the best way to bring this up to
him without sounding crazy.
Speaker 1 (38:07):
I mean, you can be like me and post them
on social media.
Speaker 3 (38:12):
I just don't that Cale was bugging she emptied the clip.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
I think if you guys haven't dated for two and
a half months, y'all talk daily, y'all are only sleeping
with each other. Why isn't a relationship? That's that shit
about twenty twenty five? Like, why are we playing these games?
We're in a relationship without the title, And I'm scared
to ask you about you know, your dating profile, but
I'm not scared to let you inside of me and
give you access to my bloodstream or my old Like
that's ridiculous, Like you're scared to talk to this man,
but you're not scared to fuck him. Like, I don't
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get that. Twenty twenty five is got very good. So girl,
if you can fuck him, you can talk to him.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
Yeah, just bring it up. Hey, I so I noticed this,
Like can we clarify what we aren't and what we
are doing?
Speaker 4 (38:51):
And if he makes you sound crazy, he's guessed likeing
you because you have every right to question that.
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Yeah, or just put them on social media?
Speaker 5 (38:57):
Two and a half months.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
You don't think that's long gonna have to say something?
Speaker 5 (39:01):
No, So that's like I just fresh out of a relationship,
wouldn't know. But I feel like two and a half
months and you're meeting someone on an app, I feel like, wait,
probably till month five when you're okay, maybe I don't
really believe in the titles either.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
Maybe when you're below thirty, below thirty, I want to
know what we are two months. I don't got time.
I need in like two to three years. Maybe if
you're in high school or you're in college that age
and you can say, okay, yes.
Speaker 4 (39:32):
Yeah, I just Kayla Pitt your my engagement ring yesterday.
I'm like, listen, I'm not I'm not here playing with it.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
All right, Jordan, when you get to this age, like
I don't got time, Like we need to be on
the same path from day one, and if we're not,
I'm getting the fuck out. What do we want?
Speaker 4 (39:46):
But I do appreciate the younger perspective because I've lost her,
so remind me what twenty something?
Speaker 3 (39:52):
Yeah, I mean you'd be.
Speaker 5 (39:53):
Like, I'll just give them another month or two to
confirm it, but I mean that conversation is important, Like,
all right, we are two and a half months in.
I see the app is still on your phone, and
I still still see that it's active. Can we talk
about who you're talking to? If you're talking to anyone,
or do you have it there for security purposes? Can
you offload the app? Like those are genuine questions, but
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I agree, like if you're if you're screwing them, I
feel you should talk to them too.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
I'm right anytime I'm fucking with somebody, like I need
to know if I'm the only one and I have
the I have the no, I have the right to
know at like the day one saving for safety purposes,
then it's up to you to decide if you want
to still fuck with him knowing that he's with other people,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (40:35):
My first conversation with my boyfriend, I said, I am
dating intentionally, I am dating for marriage, I am dating
for children.
Speaker 3 (40:39):
What are your intentions with me?
Speaker 4 (40:41):
And first first time meeting like literally I'm not Yeah,
games games.
Speaker 1 (40:46):
Not be I did that too, and he ended up
switching up in four four months later, so you.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Never know, you never know. All Right, Well that's that.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
Well we are going to a pettyish happy hour. I
don't think when's the last time we all like just
sat down when we hid, So we're gonna do it again.
Talk about the future. Petty ish goals that we have
going into the last half of the year and then
into the new year and stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (41:11):
Most importantly, eat, drink.
Speaker 1 (41:13):
And drinks anything y'all have coming up.
Speaker 4 (41:16):
This week, I'm going to Me and my boyfriend are
reading in Vegas, and I want to recreate the first
thing we met.
Speaker 3 (41:23):
So I want to eat on top of the world.
Speaker 4 (41:25):
I want to go to the bar we went to
and when I didn't let him into the room, I
want to let him into the room play.
Speaker 3 (41:33):
Get it for me.
Speaker 5 (41:36):
This week same will samel work work, work, but the
rehearsal that I host at it's starting this Friday, so
I'm prepping with getting to know the artist. And yeah,
I'm but I'll be on that stage i'd be hosting.
Speaker 1 (41:54):
I Love that for you. I got a Fantasy football
draft tomorrow. I also have two interviews tomorrow and then
the rest should be pretty easy. Oh, this weekend is
one of my friend's birthday. It's a new friend, so
we're gonna go to everyday people one Sunday Saturday, DJ
Head is having events, so he's gonna have me come
and meet some people. And so yeah, this upcome weekend
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should be pretty busy.
Speaker 5 (42:17):
Sounds like Yeah, I love a good work, like it's
like party but still work.
Speaker 2 (42:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (42:22):
I like that.
Speaker 1 (42:23):
That's what I love about our industry. But we out
of here.
Speaker 4 (42:25):
I make sure you follow us at the Pettish Podcast,
follow me at p K.
Speaker 5 (42:29):
Louston, Kayla Thomas Forty, Jordan Jackson, Luthrian Bye I
Speaker 2 (43:13):
T
The Petty Ish Podcast. Welcome back to another episode of
Petty Ish. I'm Kayla, I'm Kayla. What's that girl?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Girl?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I think I'm having a better week. Oh you look beautiful.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
I'm loving the early two thousands fashion that's coming back.
He has pretty to tax They're so perfect. You a
better week this week?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (00:30):
I am? Was I emotional? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
It was emotion Yeah, we had a more happy hour
and we just like talked. That was I think that was, like,
yeah that was last week was yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I was.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I was just like having imposture syndrome super bad. I
was like just counting myself out, feeling like I wasn't
good enough for a lot of things. And like the
social media pressure that is such a third world problem.
First world Oh you don't have that, bish, you don't
(00:58):
have that. But like it's like in the grand scheme
of life, it's not that serious, but in the work
that we do, it is. And so that's been keeping
me up. But I will say this past week, yeah,
it was. It was definitely a better week. I mean,
I just have to I'm really good at like now
that I'm in therapy, reframing my thoughts, dam reframing my
(01:19):
thoughts and changing them, Like, Okay, Kayla, you got if
you're gonna cry, then you have to equally as much
do something about it. So you're upset about your social
media and you're not growing, Okay, what are you gonna
do about it? So like I've been extra focused on
that and yeah, I don't know. It's doing the most
that I can.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
It's kind of the reality of this too shall pass.
Speaker 5 (01:38):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
You hear that saying all the time, and sometimes when
you're in it, it's hard to see that. But like
last week I felt like not so great, and this
week I'm on top of the world. So it's like
it just always passes through.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
How it's never permanent.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
How have you been dealing with the loss of a friend? Oh,
now that it's been a couple of weeks.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
You know, I processed, and again, people are experiences, they
aren't possessions. I pre cate the chapter that was had
with that, but honestly, I do have amazing friends in
my life. It's okay. I have plenty of other friends.
And I felt it. I allowed myself to feel it.
I didn't act too cool or I don't care or
(02:16):
I'm better than caring. I cared it hurt me. I
allowed myself to feel that and I let it go.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Look at us all grown right, But I think I
do think like I saw this TikTok that said, once
you hit thirty, you just don't care anymore, yo, or
you don't care as much. Like we were so upset
over friends and possessions, material things, all these things when
we were in our twenties. But when you're thirty, as
to this point, it's just like we legit don't have
(02:43):
the energy to put into Why isn't this person like me?
Or why is it you know, why is this happening?
Speaker 4 (02:49):
You know, like acting like you care about that is
just I mean, even caring about that is just genuinely
so exhausting. And one thing I'm learning is, you know,
childhood was amazing and there's nothing like childhood.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
But the older you get, the more freedom you have.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Like my boyfriend is in his fifties and the level
of I don't give a fuck that he has, I'm like,
I can't wait to reach that. You are so free.
I don't think he's petty anymore.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
But are you? Did you do anything petty this week?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Did I do any pettiness? Honestly, I can't think of
a single thing that I've done. I actually have not
talked to a lot of people this week, honestly did not.
I can't think of a single thing that I've done,
or that I've seen or nothing.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Because you focused radio. Okay, oh yeah, wait what was
that that was? You don't care when people don't listen
to Oh that was such a good video.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I was like, I need to get my name.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Okay, I can Okay, maybe this will be a little
bit petty. So I got that from some no, because
when it comes to social media, everybody takes from everybody, right,
so like it's just a trending sound. But I saw
it off of somebody. Somebody had just did it about
like Taylor Swift. Like her caption was, I don't listen
to Taylor Swift and then of course the audio is
(04:02):
but nobody cares.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Nobody, nobody cares.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
You don't get an award because you don't listen to
And I saw that, I was like, that would be
great for radio, and I switched it. And I don't
know she felt some type of way, but she was
like looking at my stories, like because I posted it
right after she posted hers which is probably like it exactly,
but she probably was like, oh, she stole this from me,
which I absolutely liked.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
And that's what social media is for. It's not you
did it like verbatim word for word. Her captions her
shit like yeah, you made it yours. Yeah, and I
thought it was super. It did go up, Sure it
did out about you. So you know, I'm accepting that
people aren't my friends anymore. So I'm removing a bunch
of people out of my close friends. When I first
moved here, you know, I had this small little family
(04:44):
that I've created, and going on almost six years now,
a lot of those relationships have kind of changed and
I'm not as close as I once was with these people.
And I'm just accepting where I am currently. And you
can't see my close friends anymore.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
No, we don't get access to that point part of
my life.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Okay, because I post personal things there sometimes right exactly.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah, and didn't she like let me stop.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
I mean, it was a bunch of people I took
out at least four, but yeah, she was one of them.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
To both of them, are.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
I mean, I don't understand why I'm hitting girl.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
They like we were saying how she had my sister
from seeing her page. But you got a stray like
they shot you for no reason. I was like, I
don't look at your stories anyway. So okay, wait, another
petty thing you did? Petty th because our listeners have done.
I just had my bachelorette this weekend and I wanted
to post a recap on my Instagram. One of my
(05:34):
friends really hated the photo that I wanted to post,
so I crapped her out of it instead. Yeah, I
respect that. I don't think that that's petty if you
didn't like the picture. But I look great in it.
I'm not posting you. I'm posting myself. What are you
mad about?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
I got all right.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I said that I dated a Disney actor who cheated
on me. That was two years ago, but every so
often I go to his IMBD and make him shorter.
Now you can do that.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Yeah, you can edit people's IMDBs.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Oh, let me change the guy that I went on
a date with. You know, the guy that went hiking with.
He has a IMDb. Men, Remember he swore up and
down that he like is like this big time. A
list actor can provide for his whole family from his
acting game. Oh yeah, things on there?
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Make them sure? Make him sure. That's hilarious.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
That's funny.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
My ex and I just broke up.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
I knew he would eventually change the Netflix past words
since he pays for it, So last night I replaced
his icon with a clown emoji.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Oh I love that.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
That's cue.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
That's funny.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
That's like very very harmless.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Yeah, that's cute. That's cute.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
So what you do this week?
Speaker 4 (06:42):
I produced for somebody knew this week. I had actually
a couple extra shows this week. It's been actually a
really kind of busy week. This week for me show Eyes,
which is fun. I really do love radio. I have
a lot of fun doing the shows. But I work
with this KTLA guy. His name is Andy Rousemeyer. I
really struggle out his last but he now officially got
(07:02):
a show on the radio and I got to work
with him for the first time. He was absolutely amazing,
And he bought in this restaurant tour named Francisco, who
invited me to a piano bar.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
It's Florence Asterier and Piano Bar.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
They do this thing every week where they'll play live music,
give out like appetizers and drinks, and I'm actually going
this upcoming week, so I was just able to kind
of expand my community. I'm going to get that restaurant
tour on another one of my shows.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
And I've decided that since I.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Took the time to focus on myself and spend time
with myself, I no longer mind going to these things
alone because I made a.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Promise to myself.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
I'm not going to miss any more opportunities because I
have no one to go with. That is old, that
is outdated. Some blessings are just for you. And although
you want to share these blessings and it's really cool experiences,
I get, if I can't share them, it's okay to
receive the blessing and enjoy it just on my own.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
So yeah, and you're good at making friends and having
conversations with people too.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
So you're you're that that's you.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
No, you are too shut up, Kayla, I'm friendly.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I don't make friends. You make friends.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
So but I will in an environment where you have
to put on essentially right like you will be able
to have a conversation with somebody and it'd be an
engaging conversation. You're not gonna hug the wall.
Speaker 4 (08:19):
So especially if I get a couple of glasses of wine.
I mean, then I'm social social Sally.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
What about you? How was your week?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
It was a good week. Like I said, I have
been really really locked in. I feel like I have
been talked. I usually talk to my best friends on
the phone like every single day, and I don't. I
feel like I don't even talk to Brittany or anybody.
But I had a very good interview, which I'm very
excited to come out this week. Mind you, I've been
doing a lot of girl groups and boy bands, so
I had Full Circle Boys and then I had I
(08:46):
had Frequency. That Frequency interview really did. Yeah, yeah, let's
go to Frequency first. So Frequency is it the winners
of Building the Band on Netflix? Yes, Yes, they came
in and it was such a cool It was our
first interview ever as a girl group together, and it
was it was just cute, Like I always really connect
(09:06):
with younger girls, especially when they come in an interview,
like we just I automatically connect with them, and so
it was a great interview. I was excited to put
it out because everybody has been watching the show. It's
very popular, and so I knew it would do numbers,
and it did. And it got me like a lot
of followers on Instagram, but more so, like the comments
on the YouTube post itself were really really nice and
(09:30):
probably something that I really needed to hear in this
moment where I have been feeling a lot of imposture syndrome.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
So you read the comments this time around and they
worked to your benefit.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Yes, that's great, mind you. I never read comments. I
don't even watch interviews back because I just don't like
to do it.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Yeah, but somebody was like, you know this interview, can
we take a moment to you know, acknowledge how good
the interviewer is, Like the best I've seen in a while.
And a lot of people have said this to me
over the past couple of months, like that, I am
very good, and I know I'm very good.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
At Hello time Russian Jordan to go on tour together.
That was crazy.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
And then Jordan commented on the video and followed you
we did it girl, Yeah, she sure did. So that
was so. I've had some really cool things happen this week.
And then girl Set is a new girl group that
just came out and their debut single came out on Friday,
So I will be I was also their first interview,
and so that interview is gonna come out this week,
(10:25):
and I'm excited about that one, just because I guess
with the girl with these girl groups and boy bands
come like these crazy well sorry to call you crazy crazy,
but there's these crazy fanatic fans and so like anytime
you post a picture with them or a video, they
like they follow. So it's been great for me, like
social media wise that I'm very I'm very proud of myself.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
Can we also say the looks have been serving? You
have been switching up yours. Oh, we have been switching
them up and I love it. Like you were short
last week, you're long this week you had this big
hair like like kind of I don't know up kind of.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
It was so cute.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Yeah, it took me. Brad season is over for me.
And it's so funny because I came in with like
this this wig. They're all wigs, all right, let's just
go Like I came in and they didn't recognize me
in this building. They were like, hayla, I'm like, come on, guys,
we do that. I've been here for three years, like
you guys right, Because then I like, I'll take this
wig off and put a short one on and come
in the next day with short hair and they don't understand.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Right, and how did you do that?
Speaker 4 (11:22):
It's kind of like the Cardi B trial, which she's like,
you were blonde, you were short, now you're brunette.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
What's going on?
Speaker 1 (11:27):
She's like, it's well, I thought that was very I
didn't like that. No, no, I thought that was very
racist of him.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
I think the whole trial was trying to show her,
put her in a light that she was trying not
to be in.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
He was completely condescending. Yes hire interview.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I mean, you know it's a wig, like, come on, now,
you're not stupid. But well, what did that add to
the trial? Is my thing? Like, what did knowing that
she had black hair yesterday and blonde today? What did
that do for the case?
Speaker 3 (11:55):
I mean it did nothing.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
He even trying to say it to her right now,
Say what you said to her right now? She's like, what, Like,
I mean, I he looked like a fuddyduddy. At the
end of it, on Cardi B's fandom went up, like
everybody's loving Cardi in her personalities. I feel like we
haven't seen it in a little while, and I think
that's what made her her before she was even her, Like,
people were following her on Instagram because of that amazing, funny,
witty personality and it got to see that right before
her album drop.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
So it was amazing for Cardi.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
I mean, this is a great album roll out for her.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
This guy I will not be hiring as my lawyer.
It's like, you're terrible, terrible.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
But yeah, So other than that, I watched this Netflix documentary.
It's called Unknown Number The High School Catfish.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
It's about an hour and a half on Netflix.
Speaker 4 (12:34):
It's not like a series like they typically do, like
it's one one documentary.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yes, I watched it, and I have never been that
hooked to a documentary and then felt so disgusting afterwards.
Spoil alerts ahead. If you have not watched it, you
might want to turn this off because we're going to
talk about it bye. But in the end, we know
that it turned out to be the mother that was
sending this high school, this thirteen year old girl these
text messages. So backstory on the on the Dot documentary. Basically,
(13:01):
this thirteen year old girl named Lauren was she was
thirteen and now she's fifteen.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Oh so it happened.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
It happens over the course of five years of two years.
Got it, so maybe she's like sixteen now, got it?
So she was thirteen that when it first began, which
is crazy, and she was she was dating Thistle, this
other kid in her class, and she started around Halloween times.
She started getting text messages like your boy, what's his name?
Owen or something like that, Owen doesn't want you, Owen
(13:28):
doesn't like you, he was with me last weekend. We
and all these explicit words too, like we he ate
my last week No word that thirteen thirteen year old
shouldn't even know what to or how to do. Oh
my god, you know what I'm saying. And so those
text messages accumulated over the course of two years, and
they got worse and worse and worse. When it finally
(13:49):
got to the FBI two years later, they had seven
hundred and fifty pages of text messages from this person
of them just harassing her, telling her to unlive herself,
telling her to that she's fat, that she just nobody
wants her on this planet. Owen doesn't love her, Owen
loves me. There was a time where they had to
they broke up Because of it, Owen started dating another
(14:11):
girl in a different city. The catfish ended up finding
that girlfriend's number in messaging her and harassing her and
her family, so he had in that relationship.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
So this mother was obsessed with her boyfriend or was
she obsessed with her daughter?
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Well at the end, so in the end we found
out that it was the mom that died. Her explanation was,
Oh my goodness, I feel sick to my stomach, she said.
I mean, we all make mistakes. I mean, she goes.
I mean, it's just like somebody drinking and driving. It's
just like someone breaking the law. Like we've all broken
the law at one point in time for.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
Two years straight to your own child. I don't know
if that's comparable to this. I don't know if that's
the I don't know if that's that's the thing. So
the diagnosis I understand because I didn't watch the documentary itself,
but I did hear about this story when it first
came out Netflix on Netflix.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
I'm sure they made it amazing. It gave you much
more detail.
Speaker 4 (15:02):
So I did understand this girl was being trolled for
years and pushed to you know, her harm herself and
then it came out that her mother was doing that,
and they said that it was kind of like Munchausen,
which is when you make your child or somebody that
you love physically sick, or you make them believe that
they're physically sick when they have nothing going on, just
so they can depend on you and you could take
care of them. So he says, kind of like mental
(15:24):
health munch Housings, where they're trying to beat you down
emotionally or mentally so that you can lean on me.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
For support and you'll always need me.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
Yeah, But to follow that to the next girlfriend kind
of adds another layer on that because if it was
just about you wanting your daughter to depend on you
because this person's bullying her online, weird not okay, but
all right, I can understand that diagnoses, but why do
that to the next girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
So it also brings into the fact that maybe she
was obsessed with the boyfriend as well.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
So she's not only mentally ill munch Housings, she's a
pedophile because the boy is thirteen.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Yeah, and I don't know why they didn't touch on
that more than they should have. Hey, Jordan, welcome to
the pot.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Say oh you got your coffee cheers here's.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
But yeah, So I don't know why they didn't touch
on that more in the documentary, they basically chalked it
up to was it munchild how you say it? But
when you see the girl's reaction when the police sat
her down with her mom and said this is your
mom doing it, she looked like she disassociated. She stared
off into space and didn't say a word. It looked
like she didn't even have a reaction. Her mom cuddles her,
(16:33):
starts like like grooming her and like petting her like
this and pulling her hair.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
I'm infuriated.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
The dad comes home, he finds out what happens. He goes,
you need to leave. You need to get out of
this house to the mom, you need to get out
of the out of this house now, and she's like,
I can't leave my baby. And the girl is literally
sitting there and she's like, that's her mom, just sitting there.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Yes, that's her mom.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
And then at the end of the documentary, she says,
I want to have a relationship with my mom. I
feel like I need her, I love her, and I
can't wait to see her.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
She's young, Bros.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Exactly so it's really sad to see all these people
on TikTok, Like I mean, even I was like, girl,
like I wake up? Sorry I was. I was like,
girl like, wake up. Why did no one crash out enough?
You know people, nobody crashed out enough for me? Like,
had I heard that my mom was doing that in
that moment, I feel like I would have been like,
(17:25):
wait a minute, what, my mom? You were the one
telling me to kill myself for all these years, Like
I don't know if she couldn't process it fast enough
that that was her reaction, But the fact that she
still wants to her mom to be in her life
is just very I don't know, and it's very trial.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
I want to I just understand the like being that
young and having your whole world shattered, you're not going
to know how to process that, Like I totally understand freezing,
and then the person who always comforted you comforts you again.
It's kind of like when you're in an abusive relationship.
They say it takes about seven times before you actually
leave a fish. So it's kind of like that moment
(18:02):
where I'm not really accepting this as truth, like I
love you, I love you with that.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
You're my mom. I just it's so oh my god.
Speaker 4 (18:09):
But I know that fast forward ten years from now,
they're definitely gonna be one of those new contact relationships
and she's gonna, you know, have a I don't know
what social media's platform is gonna be popular at that
point in time, but she's going to be a star
on that platform talking about how to cut your mom
out of your life.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
And this is what she went through.
Speaker 4 (18:25):
And they made a documentary about me back in the day,
and she's gonna get her coin from this story. I
think that it will come to that. But in the meantime,
she needs to go to a lot of therapy because.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
That is betrayal on another level.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Yeah, and the mom only went to jail for a year.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
That's it. Yeah, I mean, I guess nothing.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Happened, but yeah, literally, so I don't know, it's just
it's really disheartening. But what made me the most sad
was that she never really apologized. I mean, she cried,
of course, manipulated the situation saying like you know, like
I just you know, I'm just going through a lot
of things and you know, I'm getting my mental health together.
It was just something it'd been a very dark place.
(19:01):
But I don't think anybody's dark place has led them
to hurt their own I mean, we have heard of
stories where parents do crazy things to their children, but like,
oh my gosh, like when did you have the time
to write these text messages and then comfort your daughter
and then write these another text message? Like that took
a lot of work And it turns out that she
had lost her job that she didn't even tell her
husband about.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
So for two years, her husband, father, the girl's father
or yes.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
They were all together, big happy family. I guess she
was pretending to go off to work and uh didn't
ever have a job at this time.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
So help, Beyoncey.
Speaker 4 (19:34):
I feel like we're talking about somebody that's just clearly
mentally ill, Like there is no we're not going to
be able to make logic out of this situation. This
woman needs help, yes, and it's so unfortunate. Like sometimes
I feel like people should have to take like a
mental test before they can even reproduce, Like you should
be able, you should be tested before you because like
now this little girl has the girl with all these
(19:55):
issues that she never asked for because your mentally ill
as had her and it destroyed her.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
It reminds me of the situation here in California. You
guys have been following about baby Horrow. Is that his name? Emmanuel,
Emmanuel Horra. He was killed by his parents and the
stepdad allegedly, yes, mom's stepdad.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
They created this whole fake thing of the mom, you know,
going to a grocery store. She said that, you know,
somebody walked up to her said o la and stole
her baby.
Speaker 5 (20:26):
Wasn't he like only four months old?
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Yeah, something like that, like mad young. But she says, like,
who has time to say ola and then steal a baby?
Knock ola? Knock her out, steal a baby?
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Like.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
It turns out they looked at the security cameras. The
bitch just fell out on her own. She all, she
just like fell out and ran into the girl. Like
not a funny situation, but like.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Huh literally, I can't like.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
And then there was this one TikTok where we're losing
faith in humanity. But she's like, you know, people, child
care is expensive, like nobody's out here still in disabled children,
Like it's it's it's expensive.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
It's a lot.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
And the woman just didn't even try to get her
story together. And then the father, I don't know if
you heard this part. He's in jail and they put
him in jail with an informant who he thinks is
to sell me in a friend because these cops are
so smart. So he's like making friends with him, and
he's like, you know, I wish my son was still here,
acting regretful, but I think he also said things that
also alludes to the fact that he might be guilty,
(21:23):
So he kind of got himself in some trouble with
that one.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
I mean, it's just it's terrible. Then he said that
he actually like rolled over and killed.
Speaker 4 (21:30):
Because he has abusive history of a child beforehand who's
disabled because of him.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
Isn't that his actual daughter? So basically what happened son, No,
that's his stepson. But though from the previous marriage his
actual daughter. I think she he actually like I wouldn't
say he says it was accidental, but like dropped her
broker ribs. Now she's literally a vegetable. She has to
have a caretaker twenty four to seven and will live
(21:58):
like that for the rest of her life because of
her father.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
And if he was tested ahead of time, he probably
wouldn't have been able to reproduce, just putting that out
there again. And if you would have known that he
had this history, he should have been like, you know,
I don't know, maybe sterole or whatever, like you shouldn't
be able to reproduce if you put your child in
that position.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
Now you're out here having more kids. Now this kid's missing. Yeah, sad.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
It's just really sad. I've been just like on a
wormhole and TikTok of all these different that story the now,
the one about the have you seen a Catfish?
Speaker 3 (22:25):
One?
Speaker 1 (22:26):
No, the Cabins documentary, go home and watch it's called
Unknown Number, the Unknown Number, the high School Catfish.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
And it's high school catfish.
Speaker 1 (22:34):
Oh yeah, okay, so yeah, unknown color. But yeah, it's
it's it's very, very very difficult. Also on TikTok, you
were talking about how this date, this girl went on
a date and she completely so.
Speaker 4 (22:43):
I actually know this girl, like we've partied together a
few times, and I see her on my Instagram fyp
for you Paige for the cool Kids, and she popped
up as she's telling this story about how she went
on a church date and she the date was she
was she was supposed to make up at nine and thirty.
She was ready till about nine point forty. She got ready,
she went to the car, and then she wanted to
(23:04):
stop for Starbucks, and he said we had to be
the church by ten, but he let her stop for Starbucks.
Then they finally get to the church parking lot and
she needs to do her face, so she's doing her
lip gloss and putting oil on the bottom of her feet,
which I'm not sure what that means. She says she
had to do all that before she walked into the building,
and he like, is getting frustrated because they have to
get into church, and he left her and went into
(23:26):
the church without her, like, bro, we got to get there.
So she got upset. She felt like he wasn't being
patient with her. She ended up calling her best friend
to pick her up from the date, and he came
out and saw her cry and was like, yo, come in,
and she was like, no, you left me, da da da.
So everybody in the comments is telling her that she
(23:46):
is wrong, she is standing on business. They are also
calling her the devil. Jezebel, you never wanted to go
to church.
Speaker 3 (23:53):
You are a.
Speaker 4 (23:53):
Demon like they are, you know, the internet's crazy. So
she changed her name to the Gazabelle Spirit. And I'm
just like, I don't know if you're like rage biting says,
are you really you really feel this way? And we're
not close enough for me to be like, girl, what's
up with that? Like we're not that but yeah, she's
getting torn apart. I just I wonder for her mental health,
like is this reality?
Speaker 3 (24:11):
Did you really? You can't really feel like you right now?
Situation syste you.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Just can't well. First of yeah, it's like you were
purposely late to all these things. It's like you were
trying to be late. It's like you had no consideration
for the guy that was taking you on a date
to church. Why are y'all going on to a data church?
Speaker 3 (24:27):
I would love a data church. Really, yeah that's super cute, but.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
Hallelu But I do feel like, yeah, if you, if you,
if you weren't ready till ten minutes after you were
supposed to be ready, and then making him stop for Starbucks,
which I did him to do that. Anyway, I wouldn't
have been like, no, we're not going to Starbucks, like
we'll go after church, like I to go get my
praise one.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Yeah, what about the feet thing? What is that? How
do you put oil on the feet?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
That's why they're the dole.
Speaker 4 (24:54):
I don't know what that means either. My feet you
got a little moisturizing, But do you do that? But
your date like, don't you do that?
Speaker 3 (25:01):
Before you leave?
Speaker 2 (25:02):
That?
Speaker 4 (25:02):
She was like you know, She's like, and you know,
I had my lip gloss and you know how we
put the oil on the bottom of our feet.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
And I'm like, who's we? Who does that?
Speaker 1 (25:11):
Explain that to me, especially in front of somebody else.
I mean, I think it's like very disrespectful. She was wrong.
She's probably rage baiting, bye girl.
Speaker 3 (25:17):
But TikTok a good check. So if you've rage beating,
get your coins.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Story. Can I tell you handle the heat?
Speaker 4 (25:26):
Though the heat is hot? I think she's getting death threats,
Like I'm sure it's real.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
At this point, I think I can because I have
gone viral a couple of times. We have gone viral
a couple of times for our videos, and people say
some nasty things. I've just trained myself to just to
not watch it or not look at it. I think
at this point in my career with all my videos,
like going up. I literally don't, and I've developed tough
skin too, Like somebody was making fun of they said
(25:51):
that something about my mouth or something like that that
normally would have upset me, like her mouth is so big,
why she always why is her mouth always like open?
And it's just like it's very unattractive her mouth. And
I was just reading this, and I normally would have
cried my eyes out, like a couple of years ago,
but this said, I was just like, okay, but like,
who's interviewing big time brush right now? Not you like
(26:12):
to drop, You're watching me interview? So whatever.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
It's kind of like what Taylor Swift said in that
two hour Travis Scott Taylor Swift interview.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
I watched you watch all day.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
I didn't, but I had to watch a lot a
good amount of it for show prep because I had
to get a lot of sound clips from it. But
she did say that she does a really good job
at disassociating and being protective of her energy, and her
comments have been turned off for five years.
Speaker 3 (26:32):
Yeah, like I don't miss it.
Speaker 4 (26:33):
Side note, I think that they have a true, genuine, healthy,
beautiful love. The body language, the things that were being said,
like the eye contact endlessly, the laughing at each other's humor.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
I just, oh yeah, I loved it. They were so
key together. And some people were also saying that there's
no connection, there's no chemistry there, and I didn't know,
and I couldn't understand that. I was like, this is
the perfect example of like what do you what do
you want her to do? Be all over him, like
stucking his face Like no, they genuinely seem like their friends.
That's and foremost, they seem so comfortable with each other, right,
(27:04):
And they were somehow being able to make a true
lasting relationship despite being the most famous people in the world.
And I can't imagine how hard that must have been,
but they did it.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
People are so miserable, Like I was talking to somebody, Actually,
she's like I hate tailor shift.
Speaker 3 (27:18):
She's a devil. She's like so evil, she's that.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
I'm just like, first of all, like let's be you
don't know these people, like I don't like little Boozy,
but I'm not. I hate like what to invest all
this energy and like it's just weird. And I just
feel like people don't like things that they can't reach,
you know, Like it's just I think It's just Taylor's
not thinking about you or anybody else.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Honestly, she probably's happy dough.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
By the way, speaking of the sour dough, I really
think that was an Easter egg for her performing at
the super Bowl.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Why why together?
Speaker 1 (27:53):
Because the forty nine ers, that's where the super Bowl
is gonna be in San Francisco, their mascot is sourdough. Sam.
Oh what the heck?
Speaker 3 (28:00):
Okay, all right, get it? I do.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
I mean it may be something as small, but she
kept saying, all I think about nowadays is sour dough.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
All Right, we'll see. I mean, I think that she's
a very intentional woman. I think she's a very smart woman.
But I also do think that women because doctor Wendy
just went through a sour dough face like years ago,
like maybe a few a year ago. She kept bringing
me sour dough bread that she was baking at home.
So when white woman loves sourdough.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Bread, who teddy and word of the week, I'm gonna
give mine.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
I don't know if you saw this story, but this
kid was at a tennis match and one of the
players and excuse me, I'm not a sports girl, So
don't give me the line about these people's names.
Speaker 3 (28:37):
But one of the.
Speaker 4 (28:38):
Players maybe gave a hat to the crowd, assigned hat
to the crowd. He gave it to this little kid.
This grown man next to him snatched the hat out
of his hand. The kid's like, give me my hip,
and the grown man didn't. So the internet isn't an
uproar like what grown up stills from a kid.
Speaker 3 (28:54):
So he's getting a lot of backlash.
Speaker 4 (28:55):
The player wanted to find the kid so he could
give him a hat and meet him and make right,
you know, And I think the player had done that
with the kids since then. So we find the grown
man who snatched this little kid's hat. And instead of
being like I was wrong, I had a lapse of judgment.
Speaker 3 (29:10):
I was in the moment. This is his quote.
Speaker 4 (29:15):
The recent incident at the tennis match has caused a disappropriate,
disproportionate online uproar. It's all about the famous hat. Of course,
Yes I took it, Yes I did it quickly. But
I've always said life and life first come, first served.
I understand that some people might not like it, but
please let me make a glob but please let's not
make a global scandal out of a hat. It's just
(29:37):
a hat. If you were faster, you would have it.
Regarding online hate, I remind you that insulting a public
figure is subject to legal liability. All offensive comments, slanders,
and insinuations will be analyzed for the possibility of taking
this matter to court.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
He's the CEO of Polish, so he's a millionaire.
Speaker 4 (29:57):
And I feel like he thinks that if you threaten
him being at his status, you will pay for it.
And I am not apologizing and be quicker than that kid,
and I think that's Petty's fuck.
Speaker 5 (30:07):
That's so crazy to me. I can't believe he's bullying
a kid in person and online.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
What are like, what are we doing? What are we doing?
Speaker 3 (30:15):
Why would you receive? Lay?
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Literally was like, be faster.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
Kid, you gotta be quicker than that. Like that's crazy.
Speaker 5 (30:22):
Sorry, I'm ten, You're like two hundred bounds, Like what's
going on here?
Speaker 1 (30:29):
I mean whatever. That just shows what type of person
he is in his character anyway.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
And I won't be supporting and Polish whatever the fuck that.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
Is right, mine is going to go to Ace Green.
I am so fucking sick of Love Island. I am
sick of all the drama. That is after this, but
I cannot stop like tuning in. Ace is the villain
in my eyes, the villain of season seven. I didn't
like him from the jump. I've always been on the
Ace hate train, and it turns out that I was
(30:55):
correct because he switched up on all of his friends.
So this is he went on Speedy's Interview or Speedy's
podcast and basically outed his friends Nick Landria basically and
said that they didn't even think that they were real.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
You feel like Olandria and Nick's relationship is real? Is
this you thinking or is this your answer? I'm going
(31:32):
to assume that that's your answer. Is that tough for
you because Olandria is someone that you consider to be
a close friend.
Speaker 6 (31:41):
Yeah, yeah, everything is tough for me because again we
just like, she just came out here for Shotty's birthday
and we all spent a time together at the Cloud
and we all cakeing and shit like that. So I
have a line of respect for Landra. But again, from
the last conversation that I've had with you know, Nick,
it was a matter of if it's it's not a
romantic spark, they just they just, you know what I'm saying,
(32:04):
They find each other attractive.
Speaker 2 (32:05):
Nicko Lanzia's relationship. You've expressed your in silence, you've expressed
your opinions on that. Do you think that the other
relationships that have come from Love Island are real?
Speaker 6 (32:16):
Yeah, Taylor and Clark, I know that's that's for sure real,
and the other ones not so much?
Speaker 1 (32:23):
Or hm hmm, what do you think?
Speaker 4 (32:30):
I think it is the villain of season seven, and
I think that I think I think that that was
corny for him to do that. I don't I don't
think that he should have done that on such a
public platform. If you had an issue with something that
Nick said, then you should have spoken to Nick about it.
Going about it that way was a little bit corny.
But from the outside looking in, maybe maybe they weren't
as close as we thought. They're inside living it and
(32:51):
the videos have come out since he said that, and
they're like, we're not together. Whenever they talk about the future,
Landry's like, how do you see your life in ten years?
She didn't even bring up Nick. So the outside was
painting this picture of them. He's on the inside, he's
keeping it real when the world don't respect real, and
that's just what it is.
Speaker 5 (33:08):
Yeah, I was gonna agree with what you were saying about.
You know, Ace knows them more, like way better than
we do. And I feel like nowadays everybody's just trying
to troll or you know, put up a front for
social media and play the role. So I think Nick
and Alandry are doing good. I guess on socials they're together.
It's cute, but you can tell they're not exclusive. Exclusive.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
But yeah, Ace was.
Speaker 3 (33:34):
He he was a villain for that inside all the
other couples did break up.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Yeah, yeah, him and Shelley cool. My thing is, just
like you keep saying throughout this entire interview, Alandri is
my dog. She was one of my best friends in
the villa. I love Alandra. I have so much respect
for Alandra. She was just at the birthday party with
Shelley and Ace. Right, this is supposed to be your friend,
and you are outwardly even if they say they are
scamming us, scam me. I love him thenk Alandria, Okay,
(34:01):
I don't give the fuck. It doesn't matter, right, but
to betray your friend like that on a national platform
like that is the most disgusting thing. Like, let's say,
like I was faking a relationship with somebody, and I'm
just for the money, right, And I'm in a relationship
with this guy for the money, right. And I tell Kayla,
and I'm getting all the money and I'm getting both
of us drinks. It would and you came on this
(34:22):
platform or another podcast and said, Kayla is h she's
just with him for the money, even though even though
it is the truth, Why the fuck would you betray
me like that? And you call me your dog?
Speaker 4 (34:32):
So when you bring a Landry into it, You're right,
it's it's rustrating. But I understand it's landa because I'm
telling you multiple times.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
I watched the whole thing. He kept saying. Alandri is
my girl. She was one of my closest friends him
and Nick. I don't understand what happened with that relationship,
but who cares. I don't really care. It's the fact
that you disrespected Landria, and I love the fact that
her mom was underneath a TikTok comment. TikTok that was
basically saying if I was Alandria Nick's parents, I would
sit them down and be like, these people are not
your friend. Miss Felicia commented and was like I did
(35:02):
just that with up with Uhlandria, So I.
Speaker 4 (35:05):
Just hope it does an effect her and Shelley because
I love that was one of my favorite love stories
outside of the entire villa. And sometimes your partners can
make you forget what you too genuinely have, and Shelley
isn't to be billing for that at the same time,
she might be like my ma and my Mey and
my man.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Yeah, unfortunately, I feel like that's what it's gonna have
to be, like like him publicly bashing Nick and saying
Nick's no longer my friend. If Landri and Nicker are
like actually together, let's say in perfect world they are
Alandri is gonna have to go with Nick, right, and
then Shelley is gonna have to go with Ace, right.
Speaker 4 (35:34):
But I'm not with my man right now, Like, let's
let's do dinner, let's just lunch, me and you like
but lives outside of the friends.
Speaker 1 (35:43):
But what do you think conversations will be like when you, like,
you guys were on Love Island together, They're like.
Speaker 4 (35:48):
What endorsements you get this week? What photo shoots you
got coming up? You slayed that last one. I love
your makeup? How your eyebrows, Like, come on, that's how
much to talk aboutside of these men?
Speaker 1 (35:57):
I don't know, not when the Ace directly took shots
at Orlandria. Yes, it's like, I'm gonna look at you
and be like, why aren't you checking your man?
Speaker 3 (36:09):
I did check my man. We had a conversation, but
I'm not leaving him.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
Well, then, I don't know what to tell you to
watch perspective. If your man said something a bad about me?
Could I still be your friend? Like on national national level?
Could I still sit with Kayla and be? Could I
still sit with Kayla and be like.
Speaker 3 (36:34):
I would be?
Speaker 1 (36:35):
We could still, but we couldn't.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
You went in the situation in La where you didn't
funk with Man, but you love Sis and you were
still friends with Sis, and you're still friends with Sis
till this day.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
Wait tell me, Oh okay, No, I stopped talking to
her for like a long time.
Speaker 3 (36:52):
Yeah, but you came.
Speaker 5 (36:53):
Back because you needed to.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
Both of you guys needed.
Speaker 3 (36:56):
Yes, I'm just saying the strongest and the landry between
you and.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
But okay, So I for like a year I had
to like distancelf myself from her because I just it
was just too much I mean, everybody had a distance,
but I did. Yes, I did come back because I
felt like she needed me and I did miss her.
But there was a big boundary. I don't want to
talk about your man. I don't want to see your man.
He's not invited to my parties. I don't want to
know nothing. And of course the lines did get blurred,
(37:27):
so it was kind of impossible.
Speaker 3 (37:30):
Yeah you know, yeah.
Speaker 4 (37:32):
But there are things to talk about outside of the
outside of our men, and I just think that I
hope that these women can can can remain friends and
then bring Serena into it and be just fabulous as Yeah,
that's my perfect row. All right, let's get into some
petty mail. Dear Kayla, Kayla and Jordan. I've been dating
this guy for two and a half months. We talked daily,
he takes me out every week. We clarified that we
(37:54):
were only sleeping with each other and no one else.
But I just saw that he updated his dating app
and added a new one. I just I just want
to know the best way to bring this up to
him without sounding crazy.
Speaker 1 (38:07):
I mean, you can be like me and post them
on social media.
Speaker 3 (38:12):
I just don't that Cale was bugging she emptied the clip.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
I think if you guys haven't dated for two and
a half months, y'all talk daily, y'all are only sleeping
with each other. Why isn't a relationship? That's that shit
about twenty twenty five? Like, why are we playing these games?
We're in a relationship without the title, And I'm scared
to ask you about you know, your dating profile, but
I'm not scared to let you inside of me and
give you access to my bloodstream or my old Like
that's ridiculous, Like you're scared to talk to this man,
but you're not scared to fuck him. Like, I don't
(38:39):
get that. Twenty twenty five is got very good. So girl,
if you can fuck him, you can talk to him.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
Yeah, just bring it up. Hey, I so I noticed this,
Like can we clarify what we aren't and what we
are doing?
Speaker 4 (38:51):
And if he makes you sound crazy, he's guessed likeing
you because you have every right to question that.
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Yeah, or just put them on social media?
Speaker 5 (38:57):
Two and a half months.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
You don't think that's long gonna have to say something?
Speaker 5 (39:01):
No, So that's like I just fresh out of a relationship,
wouldn't know. But I feel like two and a half
months and you're meeting someone on an app, I feel like, wait,
probably till month five when you're okay, maybe I don't
really believe in the titles either.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
Maybe when you're below thirty, below thirty, I want to
know what we are two months. I don't got time.
I need in like two to three years. Maybe if
you're in high school or you're in college that age
and you can say, okay, yes.
Speaker 4 (39:32):
Yeah, I just Kayla Pitt your my engagement ring yesterday.
I'm like, listen, I'm not I'm not here playing with it.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
All right, Jordan, when you get to this age, like
I don't got time, Like we need to be on
the same path from day one, and if we're not,
I'm getting the fuck out. What do we want?
Speaker 4 (39:46):
But I do appreciate the younger perspective because I've lost her,
so remind me what twenty something?
Speaker 3 (39:52):
Yeah, I mean you'd be.
Speaker 5 (39:53):
Like, I'll just give them another month or two to
confirm it, but I mean that conversation is important, Like,
all right, we are two and a half months in.
I see the app is still on your phone, and
I still still see that it's active. Can we talk
about who you're talking to? If you're talking to anyone,
or do you have it there for security purposes? Can
you offload the app? Like those are genuine questions, but
(40:14):
I agree, like if you're if you're screwing them, I
feel you should talk to them too.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
I'm right anytime I'm fucking with somebody, like I need
to know if I'm the only one and I have
the I have the no, I have the right to
know at like the day one saving for safety purposes,
then it's up to you to decide if you want
to still fuck with him knowing that he's with other people,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (40:35):
My first conversation with my boyfriend, I said, I am
dating intentionally, I am dating for marriage, I am dating
for children.
Speaker 3 (40:39):
What are your intentions with me?
Speaker 4 (40:41):
And first first time meeting like literally I'm not Yeah,
games games.
Speaker 1 (40:46):
Not be I did that too, and he ended up
switching up in four four months later, so you.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Never know, you never know. All Right, Well that's that.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
Well we are going to a pettyish happy hour. I
don't think when's the last time we all like just
sat down when we hid, So we're gonna do it again.
Talk about the future. Petty ish goals that we have
going into the last half of the year and then
into the new year and stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (41:11):
Most importantly, eat, drink.
Speaker 1 (41:13):
And drinks anything y'all have coming up.
Speaker 4 (41:16):
This week, I'm going to Me and my boyfriend are
reading in Vegas, and I want to recreate the first
thing we met.
Speaker 3 (41:23):
So I want to eat on top of the world.
Speaker 4 (41:25):
I want to go to the bar we went to
and when I didn't let him into the room, I
want to let him into the room play.
Speaker 3 (41:33):
Get it for me.
Speaker 5 (41:36):
This week same will samel work work, work, but the
rehearsal that I host at it's starting this Friday, so
I'm prepping with getting to know the artist. And yeah,
I'm but I'll be on that stage i'd be hosting.
Speaker 1 (41:54):
I Love that for you. I got a Fantasy football
draft tomorrow. I also have two interviews tomorrow and then
the rest should be pretty easy. Oh, this weekend is
one of my friend's birthday. It's a new friend, so
we're gonna go to everyday people one Sunday Saturday, DJ
Head is having events, so he's gonna have me come
and meet some people. And so yeah, this upcome weekend
(42:16):
should be pretty busy.
Speaker 5 (42:17):
Sounds like Yeah, I love a good work, like it's
like party but still work.
Speaker 2 (42:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (42:22):
I like that.
Speaker 1 (42:23):
That's what I love about our industry. But we out
of here.
Speaker 4 (42:25):
I make sure you follow us at the Pettish Podcast,
follow me at p K.
Speaker 5 (42:29):
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