Who TF Did She Marry?

Welcome back! In this episode KT and Kayla give their thoughts on the viral Tik Tok series by creator Reesa Teesa called "Who TF Did I marry?" In the 50 part series she talks about her pathalogically lying ex husband and the abuse she endured while married to him. This leads into further discussion about liars, the craziest lies they've been told, ignoring red flags, and more. Enjoy!

Episode Transcript

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The Petty Is Podcast. Welcome backto another episode of petty Ish. My
name is Kayla, ka't see youwhatever, okay, and I'm Kayla and
I am bronchitis free. You haven'tgough now once, honey, don't chase

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it. It's still a little missedon something in there. I'm so happy
because my boss gave me four daysoff. What did you do? Palm
Springs, Joshua Tree, Catalina Island? Where'd you go? Girl? The
pen? I was like basically inquarantine. It was nice because she was
like, Cayl, I need youto clear all that up, So why

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don't you stay home? She waslike don't go out, no, nope,
no being out in the streets.Like stay home, sit down,
And that's what I did. Andit was so nice. She was like,
don't bring that over here. Yeah, because it was it was a
lot going on. And I stillsound a little naisally. I still have
a lot of mucus here that stillneeds to come out, something like Nettie
potting it up sexy sexy, Butyeah, I will say I just that

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that's really a testament to your workethic though, because you did not want
to take off or call out.You're like, I remember the one day
you were really sick. You werelike, I think I'm gonna call out
tonight. We gotta do Patty issh. I think it's the pettish for released
a little bit later, and youwere like, I ended up going to
work and I just died the wholetime. So you are a worker me.
Yeah, I mean I've been sickfor like a month and I've been
pushing through, like I don't liketaking off. Plus I know that I

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have a lot of things coming upthis year where I have to take off
for a wedding, a cruise,so I don't want to I don't want
to take off at all. Soand you see what rest does for you,
because now one sixty yeah, man, like for real, like it
was, it was just so nicebeing able to just lay in bed and
just not have to think about myradio show or an interview or nothing like

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that. Like I could literally justtake my medicine in my dym on like
a freaking inhaler. I wanna I'mon, Like I was on steroids at
one point, I was on antibioticsat one point, taking all these different
vitamins, Like it was just Ifelt like I was drugged up but just
focusing on my health. It was. It was just like a nice quarantine
type of vibe. Well did youhave time to be petty while you were
in bed? Oh girl, I'mabout to be petty. I am actively

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preparing to do my fifty part serieson why the fuck did I date my
ex? Oh my god, RiciaTisa, what's her name? She inspired
me. I love her. Ilove oh my god, so like I
was like, if she can makeeighty six thousand dollars off of this or
whatever she's making. Oh, Igot a story too, And I don't

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know if that's a rumor or not, but definitely my only regret because I
feel like her story and we willget into it was beyond any kind of
liar I have experienced. And Ithought I dated King Liar Daddy, but
she really dated King Liar Daddy,and I just regret. I just regret

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not taking notes because she's like Ikept voice notes. I was doing a
voice diary. I didn't start journalingto after my situation. If I wouldn't
had a clear cut timeline, Iwould have been rich. But I do.
I do have six chapters of abook written seven seven chapters of a
book written, but is it aboutyour life? It's about my life.
But he has a whole chapter calledSatan or satan oh because that's what I

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needed him in my book because heis the devil. So we are authors.
Now, Yeah, we're gonna beI got dreams, I got goals,
and my book is gonna be likethis, Okay, I'm excited to
read it. But I thought thesame thing too. I was like,
I didn't start recording in my situationthe craziness until like the very end when
it was getting bad. But hadI like really documented kept voice notes of

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everything throughout the three years that Iwas like, man, I would be
rich, though, I tell you. And then you think you're gonna remember
this stuff because it's so traumatic.You're like, I'm never gonna forget this
because who does this happen to?But next thing you know, you're in
your thirties. It happen when youwere eighteen to twenty. Like, I
don't know, I don't know whathappened. I can't even tell you anymore.
I just know what some bullshit.So she had like a clear hut
story. Well we're going to getinto that because she was. She's actually

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kind of brilliant the way that sheexplained her story. But we're going to
get into that. What petty thingdid you do? Okay? So I
wasn't to to to petty. Igot invited to a party. And when
I first moved here, I dealtwith some guy who said that he didn't
want a relationship, he was toofocused on his career. And then he
got in a relationship and it wasn'tme ouch. But then, honestly,

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to look back at it, Idon't even think he was really my type.
I just got here. I waslost whatever. So fast forward,
I went to a party and himand his girlfriend that he said he didn't
want were invited to the same party. Yeah, and I know she knows
who I am. And obviously whenyou're in the room with somebody who hooked
up with your man, it's alittle a little awkward. I keep a
seeing this stare at me. Youknow how I am when I'm around my

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friends. I'm a big personality,I'm loud, I'm tall, you know,
and she's no you know, she'sshort, And I just kept fearing
for I was not short, wasnot the short people, but I just
felt her like I don't know,staring at me, or whenever I looked
up, like she was kind ofin my vicinity and I just avoided her
like the plague, Like whenever Irealized she was close to me, I

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will walk to the other side ofthe room or the other side of the
party, And well, you wereavoiding drama. And I don't think she
was trying to be I don't knowif she was like trying to keep your
enemies closer. See if I wantto talk to her, I think she
would have welcomed me to you know, keep me close to you rather than
somebody who doesn't like you or whatever. But I'm not open to friendship or
any kind of conversation with you atall, even though you seem like a
really cool girl. You're pretty,she say, funny, But no,
I don't want to be a friendto Yeah, no, thank you.

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We shared the same enies like Idon't want to be your coochie cousin.
I just don't. And then like, you know, I don't. I
don't like the stairs in the Idon't know what conversations we had, Like
I haven't sat on that man's facingyears. Just what do you really think
that she I really don't know.She probably doesn't care. She's probably so
secure and so happy because she hasthat man, and I hope she is.
But just the story I told,like, I just I don't want

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to the story that you were tellingyou. Yeah, I just, I
just don't want to be your friend. And I just I don't know what
with the story, or what theenergy is, or what he might have
told her, none of that.I know nothing. My name, I
know nothing, but I do knowthat I don't want to be near you
or your friends. So I'm justgonna ain't nothing wrong with that. I
don't even think that's petty. Ithink that's smart, right, because I
just we're not really friends for real, for real, we always gonna have

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thoughts in the back of our heads. So there was no hay or anything.
No God for what are No,I don't see you. Sorry,
you don't exist. You're not likecute anyway, No, she really is.
She really is cute. But don'ttalk about him. Oh yeah,
no, he's not that cute.He's not cute at all. But he
is smart, and I like smartpetty things our listeners have done. Okay,
so somebody said I found out mywife is still seeing the guy that

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she met online. I also foundout that he is married that she Sorry,
I found out my wife is stillseeing the guy that she met online.
I also found out that he ismarried as well. So I went
and had a nice, lovely conversationwith the wife. And wait until they
see we made reservations at the tablenext to them tonight. Ooh, I
love that. I know we're supposedto like Boycott and r Kelly, but

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that reminds me of sharing Urkel.Same girl you ever heard? That's yeah
there. He's like, you're justtelling me up with you, and I'm
going to show up too. Shewon't know what to do. Yes,
I wish I was there. Iwish i'd be a fly on the wall.
That is Chestnut Checkers right there.It's like, you guys think you
got one up on us. Thinkyou're gonna gallop around the city, you
know, flaunting your hidden relationship.Think again, I'm a show right next

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to you. Okay, I'll beeating steak and lobster together, stop by
side. I really want to beout to eat one day and just see
something like that. I see thevideos online all the time where the wife
confronts the cheating man while they Ijust want to be at a dinner and
look over to the table and seethat guy on the wall. Do you
fly on the wall? I sprinkledthirty dollars of one Wait what? I

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sprinkled thirty dollars of one dollar powdered, dehydrated mashed potato packets all my axes
lawn the night before the night beforeit rained. And watch his yard becoming
overnight potato pits. Yao, whoa? What? How do people think of
these things? Why? I likewish. I wish when I was petty

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or and had more energy, Iknew about it. I don't think I
got the energy or the time tobe getting like a bunch of packets and
like going across your lawn looking likea crazy per. I literally need to
nap just by reading this, Like, I just don't have the energy to
do that. But when I didand I was my crazy girl, I
wish I didn't like y'all. Y'alldoing it right, y'all doing absolutely right
right outside of the uh watching fiftyhours of TikTok and who did I marry?

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And being sick? Did you doanything else this week? No,
I didn't. What else did Ido? Honestly, Like from Thursday.
From Thursday to yesterday, I wasliterally at home and it was so nice.
I watched TV. I caught upone all my shows say on the
same lines of like weird ex relationships. Have you ever seen a lover killer

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stalker or something like that? Idid watch that. That's a Netflix thing,
Yes, number two. It's aNeverlace documentary, and I think it's
really funny because both uh in recentTisa situation and in that story, they
met on plenty of Fish, thedating apps, so avoid plenty of Fish.
I think I'm done with dating appsaltogether, honestly, Like I've done

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it, and it seems like everytime I get out of relationship, I
jump on a dating app right andthen I meet somebody. It's like the
small talk that I hate, andthen it's just like we meet up and
then you're a crazy person, andthen it's just I'm so drained from swiping
and picking people like it's a grocerystore. I don't think. I think
I'm done forever, especially hearing allthese horror stories how you never truly know

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somebody honestly, but you conna besomebody in person, and I know that
might be cause like that, whydo we meet our access and why I'm
at mine on a lot on thedating app and well bumpo, well,
yes that goes back. That's whyI'm like, I'm done. I I
don't know if I'm done, becauseI definitely I don't want to die alone,
but I also don't want to beand no fun shit like what these

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people are dealing with. And thennow that you got me on TikTok,
and I do blame you one hundredpercent just to keep you at any kind
of question, Kaylen Thomas, itis your fault that I have this new
addiction. You just see like,oh, these terrible first dates that these
people went on in these terrible storiesand these terrible relationships and these terrible manipulators,
and it's just like I am sohappy going to bed by nine pm
and watching my Netflix. Yeah phonebeing dry as hell. I prefer honestly,

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like before, I'm telling you beforeand in my past, whenever I
got out of something, I alwaysfelt the need to jump into something new.
And I don't know if it's becauseI wanted the attention. I always
wanted somebody in my phone. Iwanted somebody to say good morning or something
like that, so I'd always jumpedto a dating app. But this is
the first time in my adult lifethat I can honestly say I have no

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desire for mail attention. I haveat so I'm and I think because I
just drained all my energy in mylast relationship. And I'm I'm such a
piece being in my onesie all day, with my hair looking crazy, watching
Netflix, doing my meditation, andnot having to worry about somebody else's happiness.
And it is the most refreshing andpeaceful feeling I have ever felt in

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my adult years. And I don'tthink that I can trade that anytime soon.
You know what, I think,I agree with you. I've always
had someone like I've never been alone. Like I've been single, but never
really alone or lonely. I alwaysI've always had somebody I can call or
you know whatever. And this isthe first time I think the top of
twenty twenty four, I made myselfa promise where I moved here for a

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reason. I want to see moreout of this, and in order to
get more out of this, Igot to cut off the distractions and the
things that are no longer serving me. I don't know if I want to
claim celibacy, but I kind ofwant to claim celibacy, like I just
feel so uninterested. It just doesn'teven excite me when it's like, oh,
you know that that chase or thatthat hookup or that going I have
no interest in it at all.I'm so focused right now. In fact,

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I caught up with a friend atthe gym the other day and she's
like, Heyla, what's going onwith you? And I immediately started talking
about work and dreams and goals,and she's like, well, outside of
work, what's going on with you? And I'm like, that's it.
Nothing. I know, I havenothing because that's just really what I want
to focus on right now. AndI'm so much happier. And I also
feel when you don't focus and chaseand accept what's not for you, that's

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how you make room for what isfor you. Absolutely, so, if
I'm meant to have what I desire, I'll have it, but I'm not
settling for any substitution in the meantimein between time. And this's the first
time I've come to not accepting substitutions. I love that, and you know
what this whole Resa Tisa thing.And I was gonna say this later,
but it kind of ties into whatyou were saying. Seeing the fruit.

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Her story happened four years ago,and here she is sitting down in front
of a camera putting her story onTikTok. She literally thought she would get
a couple hundred views, and nowtens of millions of people have listened to
her story. I wonder if shewishes like she would have gotten her make
Not that she didn't look great,but I just wonder if she wishes,
with the millions of views that shewould have just gotten her makeup done or
something. She is keep going dothat I left your yeah is beautiful.

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Don't do that, Kayla stopping shewas, Yeah, she was in a
bonnet inside. I just I justwonder, like, I'm not saying she
looks bad, but if you're gonnago millions of you, no, you
wish you did the makeup. I'mjust asking I would have wished I did
the makeup if I got millions ofyous. But I'm not saying she looks
bad or anything. I'm just curious. Yeah. So, but the point
that I was trying to make isthat look at the fruit of her staying

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strong and telling her story. Allthese years later, she's making so much
money off of her story, andshe's she's overcome the hardest time of her
life, and now four years later, in an unexpected way, Yeah,
and a whole unexpected way, herlife has completely turned around. And so
like the season that you're in rightnow and you're you're working and and you're

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you're doing all that you can andyou're grinding. Who knows where you're gonna
be in four years and what cancome off of like I ain't got fool
ye Okay, you're right, you'reright, You're one thousand percent right.
No, but it's it's it's true. It's like and she was plan not
yours. That's true. You're right, you're a thousand percent right. And
she was kept saying in that video, like, you know, he had
all this money, and well,I'm living I'll get to my week at
the end of this this. Let'sjust getting a RecA tisa, Okay,

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I feel she was saying, Iwas living paycheck to paycheck and he had
all the money and he this andlike, now, now, who's living
paycheck to paycheck? No? Iain't got no money RW smelly Yeah,
exactly. All right, So let'sget into it. So, if you
haven't heard of Resa Tisa in herseries Who the Fuck Did I Marry?
On TikTok, you have been livingunder a rock. I invite you to

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go look on TikTok right now.I mean everybody is talking about this,
and I'm talking about everybody from alldifferent walks of life, white black,
Like this has reached so many people, even if you're not on TikTok,
because they have a whole YouTube it'slike a podcast. Oh yeah. People
are doing think pieces about it,People are doing podcasts about it, like
it's crazy. And I think ithas touched so many people because in one
way or another, everybody can relateto her story in some way, maybe

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not encountering in a path achological liarto the extend what he did, but
in some way we all can relateto something, whether it's a liar or
it's a cheater, or finding somethingin a text message or promises that were
not kept. So this woman,her name is Riesa Tisa. She decided
to tell a story about her pathologicalex husband that she married. It was

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like during quarantine she met him ona dating app. They hit it off
really really well, and they decidedto quarantine together. I want to say,
like a month after date after meeting, and I do want to clarify.
I don't think that she met himon plenty of Fish. I think
she met him on Facebook and Hinge. He had two different names on both
the dating sites. I th that'smaybe his ex wife or something. They
met on plenty of Fish. Sohe was on plenty of Fish too,

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But that's not how RecA Tisa TisaResa met him right, okay, And
so yeah, they met it.They moved in together, and right off
the bat there was just like alot of red fags and a lot of
lies. They ended up getting married. I want to say, the whole
relationship only lasted of them getting marriedfrom January twenty twenty, twenty twenty one
to August to the twenty one theywere divorced. Yeah, so I'm gonna

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play click a little snippet, mindyou. This is a fifty part series,
so literally five over five hours ofstorytelling, and man, Kayla watched
I watched all of it. Ididn't even speed it up, Oh I
did. I watched it all she'salways too slow. She did, but
I you know what, I lovethe way that she articulated and explained it,
Like that's a true storyteller right there. She didn tell a story,

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but just listen to some These werejust like some of the lies that she
encountered. And then we're gonna discussit's a VP at his company. He
had been transferred from California major condimentcompany, but he said that his job
was VP at that company. Itis fair to note he paid every bill.

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He paid all the bills. Hegave me spending money, like even
though we were quarantined locked down inmy little townhouse. Again, this story
was always he's looking for he's he'strying to buy a house. So when
we got together, it was weneed to buy a house together, like
this is forever, We're gonna havea family. Let's go ahead and find

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a house. So the lie wasis that he was a He was a
VP at his company, and hemaintained that lie every day. True this
he was a temp. He calledme from work all the time. I
may have to make a different videoto explain how he was able to lie

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with the work stuff. So hewould call me and He would pretend to
reprimand employees who couldn't see that hehad a bluetooth thing in his ear.
He would pretend to reprimand them infront of me. He would pretend to
take phone calls from the company presidentwho needed his help on something. He

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forged that he showed me from thecompany president asking him, you know,
we need to get this up andrunning. We need to do this project.
We need to do that. Itis scary how brilliant he was and
how much energy he put into theLIE. But he was a temp.
He was a temp forklift driver.There's nothing wrong with a forklift driver,

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but he was pretending to be aVP. Third Lie Housing, He told
me he was looking to buy ahouse. We got together and we started
looking at houses. I found abeautiful five bedroom, six bath house in
Smirna, Georgia that was gorgeous.It was it was brand new construction build

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and I love the house. Thehouse was listed for six hundred and ninety
nine thousand. He showed me paperworkfrom Chase Bank saying that he was approved
for a mortgage for seven hundred andfifty thousand. Yeah. I watched as
he put in an all cash offeron this six hundred and ninety nine thousand

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dollars house. I watched him signhis name to a legally binding document for
an all cash offer. The reasonwhy the house fell through was because the
builder did not want to finish thebasement. We were requesting that the basement
get finished. He did not wantto, so he declined our offer and

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took the offer of another couple whodidn't need the basement finished. That's the
only reason why that house fell through. He pretended to be his own executive
assistant, and so he said,you know, mister James is in a
board meeting, but I'm his executiveassistant, David, how can I help
you? You can let me knowwhat's going on. Obviously, the doctor
wouldn't do that, so she justsaid, you know, please let him

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know that Miss so and so willbe ready for pickup in an hour and
a half. He told the doctorhe's in a board meeting until about for
about another thirty minutes and then he'llbe on his way. I should have
only been in the hospital for anhour and a half. I was there
for three hours because again he wasa temp forklift driver, so he couldn't

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get off work but I didn't knowthat at the time. And that's not
even worse of the lies. Likethat's so scrape scraping the surface. And
when people said that, they're like, you gotta watch all fifty parts.
It gets crazy, it gets crazy, and I'm just like, people are
so dramatic, And then my jawwas on the floor as she said continuously.

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Yeah. Throughout that story, therewere situations where he would make up
family members. I think he saidhe had two sisters. He does not
have two sisters. He has abrother and an older brother and a twin.
He would pretend to He would pretendto talk to his brother on the
phone every single morning, like clockwork, at six am, before they went

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to work. He would have fullon conversations with this brother. Ha ha
ha ha yeah, man oh heyRisha. Someone said said hi, oh
tell him. I said hi oh. She said hi right like, and
no one was on the other line. Crazy, laughing, fucking crazy.
The worst part for me, outsideof all the deaths, because she said

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that he's had at one point hisgrandmam got sick with COVID and passed away,
and he was super distraught about it. Couldn't like just depressed then she
does research finds out his grandma passedaway in two thousand and eight and just
none of that happened. That wasalarming. But she actually suffered a miscarriage
with their within their marriage, andit was super painful, as she went

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to a lot of detail about it. He acted as though they had a
son together, and when his familywould ask to meet the son, he
would act like it just wasn't possible. Because X Y and Z as opposed
to acknowledging this woman's trauma. Itwas sick. Who makes up a kid

(22:03):
like a deceased kid at that,you know what I mean? Knowing how
bad that she wanted so many things. I mean, he would take her
to car shopping. Yeah, shekept saying, I want a dark blue
BMW with koanak inside interior. Andthey would test drive and test drive and
test drive. And she says thatI feel like he got off on the

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fact that he showed her the world, all the possibilities and the potential,
knowing that she would never ever getany of that. Showing her the houses,
you know, viewing homes and callingreal liteurs and putting in cash offers
and showing fake bank statements knowing thatin reality, he doesn't have that kind

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of money. The bank statements wereliterally googleable screenshots on Google Images, and
she said that he got off onher excitement about these things. So me
promised and you, kyl, I'mabout to buy you this house and this
expensive luxury vehicle, and me gettingso happy and putting in details and decorations
and the exact car I wanted andthe exact colors I wanted, and you

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promising me these things knowing I wasnever going to get them. And that's
his he he that's how he getshis rocks off. Sick bro absolutely sick.
So it ended up coming out thathe has done this for a very
long time. He's been doing thissince he was a child. He made
it seem like he has this big, happy family, you know, close

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with all his aunts and cousins.And it turns out, you know,
after Reesa did her research and inthe end, when she got out of
the relationship, she started calling peopleup and trying to find out the truth.
His family does not fuck with him. His family actually cut him off.
He hasn't talked to some of thefamily members that he claimed to talk
to every single day in years whichis absolutely insane. Insane. In fact,

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when he even went missing for alittle while, she would reach out
to certain families and friends that hesaid were my best friends and my brothers,
and these people wanted nothing to dowith him. In fact, they
showed no concern that that nobody knewwhere this man was. Like if he
was dead, they didn't care.It would not care. And that's your
brother and your best friend. Yeah, you see why I don't trust people
that don't have friends like That's thattype of shit right there, Like why

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doesn't anybody fuck with you? Right? Because you do shit like that?
Right. He's had two other wives. He claimed that he lived in California,
did a Randy goal at San DiegoState that never happened. He never
had the pictures of the house.Yeah, never even stepped foot in California.
Oh my gosh. Like, Imean, I could go on and
on and on and on about allthe things that she was saying, but
like the things that just stood outto me and is just like the lying

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about the bank statements, the phonecalls, pretending you're a VP when you
are not claiming that you have allthis money when you do, not showing
realatures and people and putting fake socialsecurity numbers down like stuff that can really
get you in trouble. He actuallyhad a criminal history and apparently he personated

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way back in the day. Heimpersonated a police officer, and so he
had to do like he violated hisprobation, so he had to do weekend
jail visits or something like that.Yeah, so you went to jail every
weekend and he would come home duringthe week. And even when she asked
him about that, he's like,I don't know what that is. I
never even heard or week in jail. But she has his paperwork literally in
her hand or in his bag orwhatever. And what also would stout to

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me was how fast he was withhis life. Oh well, she confronted
him and she would be like,Yo, you never went to what was
it California State something, She neverwent to San Diego State, or you
didn't live in San Diego. Idon't there's no record of you. I
was a private citizen. My dadpaid for private citizenship, and like just
didn't immediately, didn't even blink,just like lives on top of alibis.

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Have you ever encountered somebody like that? I have never in my life.
She calls that a pathological liar.And the difference between like pathological liar and
like a chronic liar or a habitualliar. Pathological is actually like it's like
a illness. It's an illness,it's a mental illness, and I guess
they can't help it. And achronicle liar is somebody who lies just to
get out of whatever. You know, I've dealt with chronic liars. I

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mean, I mean, who hasn'tor you know, uh, chronic liars
or what's the other word, chronicalNo, chronological habitual liar, habitual liar.
I dealt with that, But tothis level, I think this man
needs to be in a sane asylumlike this is, this is I don't
even know the did't even think thatthis is real? Scares me. I

(26:29):
feel my my ex was a liar. He was, but not not to
that extent. I would never claimthat. I do feel like my first
boyfriend doesn't know when he's lying.I don't know if it's to that.
What do you mean, doesn't knowthat he's lying though, I don't know
if he knows that he's lying.I don't live in his mind, but
I just feel like the way youanswer so quickly and the way it just

(26:52):
it just seems like you you genuinelybelieve this, and I don't. Again,
I don't know. I don't livein his mind. I don't talk
to him as often as I usedto. But I would love to do
like a study on this, orlike talk to somebody behavior all little scientists
about the mind of somebody who doesthat, because I do believe it to
some extent. He might have believedhis lives he lives in a fantasy world.

(27:14):
And you know what also came outthat uh, she called him Legion.
Legion had a twin brother who hadthe life that he was kind of
portraying. So he was a VPof a company, he did have a
family, he did have a house, a four bedroom house. He did
he did have the luxury vehicle.And it was literally like he was wishing
or he had the life of hisbrother. And I don't know, maybe

(27:38):
it had to do with some traumathat he had to do as a kid.
I know somebody else spoke out,because mind you, I've been all
over this team and now all thefamily members are coming out. But Chris,
the older brother, had said thatwhen they were younger, the twin
was always more successful, the twinwas always more liked, and Legion was
the one that was bullied and alwayscompaired to his twin brother. So I

(28:02):
guess that can be kind of traumaticin some type of way to I mean,
I don't know. I'm not atwin, so I wouldn't know,
but like, okay, I thinkjust being a sibling would do that if
you get compared to your always overachieved. But I still don't think that that's
the excuse. Yeah, because iteven transcends, like you could. So

(28:22):
it had to happen before his twinwas the vice president or before his friend.
I mean his twin was, youknow, married with kids, so
you've been this person because like he'sbeen doing it since he was little.
So I really think it's a chemicalimbalance. It's nothing his twin achieved,
It's nothing anybody said to him tomake him feel less than I think that
that's just who I mean with imaginewith with air imaginary people, you there
has to be a little bit ofchemical imbalancing, like come on there and

(28:45):
not even fact because I do thatsometimes if I'm walking down the street by
myself, I will definitely have afull blown conversation on the phone, like
because I'm scared, especially at night, like I don't want to be approached
by men. So I will havea full blown conversation with my girl until
I get to my car. Mygirl will be and me. But doing
it for every day for forty minutesand engaging other people, like that's scary.
That a hard movie. Yeah,And side note, I hope that

(29:08):
she gets paid. She did allof this, she gets well, I
know she's getting paid from TikTok,but Netflix might become a knocking on her
door. I was also in alive where people were raising money to send
her to London because he had promisedher. Yes, he had promised her
a trip to London. I thinkhe had printed out brochures and flyers like,
oh, we're going in March andhere's how I Tenerary And obviously London

(29:30):
did not happen. So this livewas a bunch of people, like you
know, raising money five thousand dollarsto send her to London, and they
did reach that goal. So atthe end of the day, I know
that she is going to get everythingthat she ever wanted, because that's how
God works, you know what Imean, God is gonna bring you up
out of that rough and look ather life now, she's a woman strong

(29:51):
in faith too. Yeah. Readinga lot of the comments, though,
I feel a little bad for her. People seem to be blaming her or
attacking her, like how did younot know? And she's being so vulnerable
side note, So I'm a littlebit embarrassed even put my story out there
after something like hers was out there, Like, my mind is nothing in
comparison to hers, And the commentsjust didn't seem to be very empathetic to

(30:11):
her at all. They seemed veryjudgmental to her. And do you feel
like on any level this was herfault? I don't. I mean there's
certain situations, but who doesn't ignorered flags? Okay? And I hate
the people who are doing acting allholier than thou. I was in a
very nasty live today who was aboutseven hundred people in this live? Yeah,
I was in it. I waslike watching the yeah, and it

(30:33):
was about some hundred people, andthe person who was hosting a live was
just this very nasty woman and talkingabout how Resa Tisa was just so thirsty
for love and she forced something thatwasn't God's will, and she put herself
into this situation because he was payingher bills. She was like, I
don't feel sorry for this woman becauseshe should have been out after the first

(30:53):
house fell through and ra d There'sso many red flags that she missed,
and I don't want to hear nothingthat she has to say. This is
her own fault. And I thinkthat's so harsh to say, because I
know we've all been in a situationwe were blinded by love, and she
did love this guy, she did, and she ignored the red flags for
the sake of wanting her happy ending. And then she said something so profound

(31:17):
in part fifty, and she said, I just wanted it to be my
turn. I thought it was myturn. And what do I mean by
turn? We all see it onsocial media, the white picket fence and
the kids in the house, andI just thought, this is actually,
this is my time. And sometimeswhen you have that mindset, it's like
you kind of force things to happenbecause you want it so bad. And

(31:38):
I've done that too. I wouldsay my last relationship, I wanted it
so bad. I wanted this tobe my happy ever after I was like,
this is it, this is gonnabe it for me, And even
though there were so many things screamingat me like heyla get out of the
situation, I was like, no, I'm gonna make this my happy ever
after. And then you know,it just erupts in my face ten times

(31:59):
more. So. You can't faultsomebody for that. You can't fault for
somebody for loving hard. I agreethat the way you started that, like
that's so nasty. I don't believethat nobody's ever had their heart break broken.
But even if you had it,and say that the first time you
were in the relationship, you struckgold, you got married, you got
the dream to judge somebody who's beingso vulnerable and again acknowledging every single thing

(32:23):
they did wrong the entire time,saying I know I wasn't perfect. I
know I did this even certain times. She's like, I know I'm sharing
this story with you, and Iknow you guys want to hear it,
but it's overwhelming for me because thisis my life. You could see that
she was just emotional about that somebody'sbeing vulnerable and honest and helping so many
people who aren't as perfect as youclearly because you were so perfect you got
to write the first time, andwe all pray to be like you,

(32:44):
to tear that person down and belike, you're so stupid. That's the
reason people don't share them their storiesbecause of people like you, And that's
why people don't get help because ofpeople like you. And I highly doubt
that you've never done anything stupid orless than smart where you have the right
to point your finger at somebody else, like, oh, well, that's
what you get, that's what youdeserve because I know everything. I do
everything that God wants me to do, to do according to his plan.

(33:06):
I am God's favorite child and Ilive his Like, no, you're not,
bitch, you so too, soshut up and get off Live.
Like if you saw Holdier in thenow and be in church to do a
miracles and shit, why are youon Live tearing this other woman down who's
just trying to help people? Yeah, And like that's what her intention was
from the beginning. She said,if this can just help one person,
Like, that's all I care about. So what were some of the things

(33:27):
that you have been lied to about? One of my favorite stories that I
find hilarious today is when I firststarted dating my ex, I was going
through my skateboard rocker, blackmail polishphase which will never see EMO phase,
embarrassed and will never see the lightof that. And he told me that
he could skateboard and he could playguitar. And I loved that he could

(33:51):
play guitar. I thought that waslike the sexiest thing, that he could
play guitar, and I went togo visit him at college. He went
to Rowan, University of New Jersey. At that point, I visited him
in his roommate was playing the guitarin the next room and he's like moving
his fingers like, oh, Ican't get that part. That's just so
hard for me. This man hadno guitar knowledge whatsoever, does not know
how to play the instrument ever ownthe instrument, but he would like move

(34:13):
his fingers like damn, that's justso hard. I just can't get that
one. Stop girl. He waslike lies on top of alibis. I
wish I could just think, likeagain, keyed my car and then drove
me around to find who did it? Like yo, baby cars died,
go find and then like literally gettingoff the car asking people you see me
by key car. That's on thekind of level of reach t ship.

(34:35):
Literally, like honestly, when Iwatch these documentaries, I'm like, Yo,
that's that's my ex. Like wow, I literally that's why his name
is Satan in my book, Likehe's not human, yo. And it's
always the guys who were who startthe relationship by I don't lie. What
do I gotta lie for whatever?I hate liars. I hate liars,
like, oh, if a guysays that to you, run because you

(34:57):
know it's a lie. My exwould he wouldn't lie about little things,
but he would lie about things likeI guess in our relationship. I remember
one time I caught him. Iwas looking over his shoulder while he was
on his phone and I saw hisex's name in his DMS and I was
like, okay, I thought,y'all didn't speak what's this right a flag?

(35:23):
And I asked him about it andshe was like, oh, it's
nothing like she just you know,she hits me up every once in a
while, just responding to some ofmy stories. I was like, but
she doesn't follow you. You guysdon't follow each other. What are you
saying? Lie? Number one?There was another instance where I found text

(35:45):
messages between the two of them.He told me that he doesn't he doesn't
talk to her anymore, and Iwent through his phone one day and saw
that he was he went to ahaunted house with her. Mind you,
that night that he had told methat he was going to a house with
all his boys and even called mefrom the haunted house and was like,
Hey, yeah, I'm here withthe boys. Wow, the boys having

(36:07):
a good time. I love youso much. I'm gonna call you later.
Come to find you own bathroom.She was, She was probably in
the bathroom. But I saw picturesof them too, at the selfie booth
at the haunted house, right,right, so stupid. When I found
out that my ex was on Tinder, he was like, I got hacked.
He was like, you know,I you know, I'm in cyber

(36:29):
school for cybersecurity, and you knowthese things, these things happen. You
know, I study this kind ofstuff all the time. Like somebody,
So somebody took pictures from your Instagram. Yeah, but you don't have anything
uploaded on your Instagram. You don'tpost on Instagram. So how did they
get get these specific photos? Youknow? They had they have into my
iCloud and oh lord lord, likethe lies of lies upon lies. It's

(36:53):
crazy. My ex had an iPhonebefore I had one. It was before
iPhones were like super popular and everybodyone. He told me that you can't
put it on silence. That's notpossible. So no, his phone's not
on silent. He also told methat you can't delete text messages on the
new iPhone. They make it soyou can't delete text messages. So I
can go through his phone and he'snot deleting anything because it's not possible.

(37:14):
And my friend, what year wasthis, two thy ten, two thousand
and nine? You can also hada knife, No, you could do
all those things. He's lying tome. My friend also had an iPhone.
I'm like, yeah, he saysthat you can't delete. You can't.
She's like, yes you can,Kayla. And I'm like thought that
she was crazy as opposed to justrealizing that he's the motherfucking But isn't it
crazy though, how we actually convinceourselves to believe their lies. There were

(37:37):
so many instances where I, ohthere was because there was another did you
do you remember that whole trend whereit was like, look at your boyfriend's
Explore page and that will tell youwhat he's looking at or what he's interacting
with. And so mine know,my friends did it, and like she
was like, yeah, my man'sExplore page is full of like cooking videos
and workout videos. I go onmy ex's Explorer page ass cheeks to work

(38:00):
in bbls like all these like this, all these big booty butts and all
this like toerking and just inappropriate pornstuff, right, And I asked him
about it, and I was like, so this is the stuff that you're
interacting with, and he would lieand be like, oh no, Like
I'm in a group chat with myboys and they send this stuff. I
can't help what they send. Youknow, in order for it to prey

(38:23):
on your Explore page, you haveto comment and like, because that's how
the algorithm. You have to engagewith it, like, that's how the
algorithm works. But he convinced meso well, and he was so serious
in his lie that I was like, maybe he's right. Maybe you know,
if people do send these things ina group chat, maybe that's just
how it appears on your Explore page. When he was just so good at

(38:45):
convincing me that I would convince myself, oh yeah, you're right. He's
saying it so seriously and matter offactly, like it must be the truth.
It's hard not to believe when theydeliver it so convincingly. I remember
my ex was talking to a girlnamed Ashley. His brother's name was Amir,
and he had Ashley saved as AmirAnd I remember Amir called him and

(39:06):
he picks up and it's a girl'svoice, like is that a girl?
And I, you know, cursedhim out do the most hung up on
her? You know it was itwas it was My brother called his brother
back, like wasn't I just onthe phone with you? Yeah? You
was just on the phone with me, Like they all are incahoots together,
like like we was just like see, I was just on the phone with

(39:28):
him, Like what are you freakingout for? It wasn't a guy,
he was him? It was him? Or wasn't a girl it was him?
And it was like later it wasfound out that it was Ashley,
a girl I went to high schoolwith, and they would have conversations about
me while you're keeping on me withher, Like wow, it all.
I hate how the homeboys were soin sync oh with without missing a beat.

(39:50):
And that reminds me of a timeafter that I had found my eggs
with his eggs and they had wentto the haunted house, and I knew
I didn't know what had went downto that haunted house, and think coulda
happen? I don't know if heactually hooked up with her or whatever.
And I remember asking his best friendone time after I got back together with
him, throw him a whole surprisebirthday party. I said, can you
be honest with me, like didhe cheat on me? Like do you

(40:13):
think that he would actually cheat?No? He loves you, you,
you were his world. He wouldnever not only his boys, not only
his boys. The mother, that'sa fucking word. Their mother will lie,
lie and lie the other girl outthe back door while she's telling you,

(40:37):
sweetie, there's cookies in the oven. I can't with these bitches.
With these bitches so freaking little,which blows my mind because it's like as
a woman, as a girl,like are you that's her baby? That's
what Remember we were having this conversationin another podcast and I said, like
if my son was actively cheating onhis girl and it was in my house

(40:57):
and I seen it, and Iwas close with the girl. If what
I said something, and I knowa lot of people were like, you
know, back and forth. No, I wouldn't say anything because I have
my loyalties to my son. That'show I feel, and I and I
tussled with it, you know whatI mean. I don't think I would
flat right ould be like my son'scheating, but I would definitely be like,
you deserve better get yourself out ofthe situation, because because at the
end of the day, before anythingelse, I'm a girl's girl. I

(41:19):
don't know what it's like to bea parent. Maybe you will change when
I have a son, but Ican't go I can't imagine going to the
extent of covering up for his cheating. Like no, no, yeah,
I'm definitely not to the point whereI'm going to cover up for anybody's cheating.
I'm definitely not snitching on my family. That's just not how I rule.
I mean, I don't have kidsnow, but I know I wouldn't
do that to my siblings or mycousins or my I'm not doing that to
my family period. I will talkto them though, like, yo,

(41:43):
you're moving in a fucked up way. But I definitely just feel That's why
when I go into situations, myfirst loyalty and responsibility is to myself because
I know that their responsibility and loyaltyisn't to me until they prove prove such.
But yeah, I don't. Idon't trust moms. I don't trust
sisters. I don't trust because I'mI know you, everybody's sister. I

(42:04):
know everybody's just daughter. I knowI ain't got time. I ain't got
time none, absolutely not. Sowhen it comes to this, Resa,
tis the situation. Do you feellike you have in some ways the mindset
and behavior patterns that she has,Whereas I think maybe she put the fact
that he was paying her bills overthe fact that you know he was lying.

(42:25):
It's so easy when you're not ina situation to be like, oh,
never, I know better, ButI could have me fooled. If
you come into my house and you'repaying all my bills money, and then
you're showing me screenshots and you're like, I would have felt for it.
I in one thousand percent would havefell for it, and I would have
believed him when he said, oh, that didn't work out because of X,
Y, and Z because I livepaychecks paycheck, I don't buy houses.

(42:45):
I don't know what this means.I don't know realtors like I'm like,
my man, take the lead withthat shit, and I don't.
I don't think that that's so impossibleto I think it was really really easy
to fall for absolutely, and Ifeel like I definitely have some behavior patterns,
and I think that's why a lotof my relationships have ended the same
way. And I am just nowrealizing, Okay, why am I attracting

(43:07):
the same type of person? Whyam I attracting the same narcissistic type of
person? What is it about methat's attracting these type of people? And
it's like I saw myself a lotin recenties and a lot of situations.
I feel like to hear people callher dumb and stupid, it's like I

(43:27):
felt for her, and especially inPart fifty and I want to play a
little bit of it. It spoketo me and it helped me put in
perspective, kind of into perspective myown situation. Being single sucks, okay,
in my opinion, sometimes it sucks, but being married to the wrong

(43:49):
person is a type of hell.No one should have to go through.
You should not have to be marriedto someone that does not like you.
You should not have to be marriedto someone it doesn't even love you.
And I know what that is like. I know what it's like to be
told a babe, you know Ilove you. And yet I swear I

(44:09):
think that man sat back in therecliner with his WWE Championship Roman Reigns belt
and laughed his ass off at meevery day like damn, she really believed
it. Ha ha. I reallydo think that all because at the time

(44:35):
I wanted it to be my turn, and I hoped it was my turn.
And when people say, well,what do you mean by that,
I just meant we all see it, whether it's social media or real life,
we all see where the woman had. She'd been through some stuff,
but she finally met someone who appreciates, loves and respects her, and it

(44:58):
is a beautiful thing. I hadhoped that when I met him it was
my turn for that, and insteadinstead of being obedient, I wanted to
be right and I wanted to dowhat I wanted to do, and the
cost of that decision was heavy.Yeah, I think it's awful when you

(45:25):
get caught up in the dream andthe societal expectations of what we should have
by certain ages, and what otherpeople have and what social media you know,
looks like. But I just Ican't see anything that she did wrong,
because when it's your husband, aren'tyou supposed to act like that?
Like if this is the person Ithink it is, and I be like,
I just I still can't see whatshe did wrong. But one thing

(45:49):
I did learn out of all thisis that no matter how you better wrapped
up, you're into something. Whenyou open your eyes and you're over it,
you're over it, and there's nothingcan be done to get you back
into that person's arms. That personwill likely end up homeless, like sure
what he did in jail, orjust the fuck away from you? Like
once you open your eyes, you'relike, yeah, this isn't it.
Yeah? I mean I just sawthe beauty in her story, and I

(46:13):
know she touched so many people becauseshe touched me. I mean, my
story is nowhere near hers, ButI can relate to wanting something so badly
that you paint this pretty picture inyour head and you ignore the red flags
and you create your own, yourown happy ending that's against God's will and
because you're comparing yourself to the nextperson. And in my case, like

(46:34):
I come from a Christian university whereeverybody gets married with under a year.
My whole cheering team, I thinkme and one other girl the only ones
that aren't married in r No.They're all over the place. But so
yeah, it's it's it's it's sohard. But like the way that I
see it is look at her.Now, she's gonna get that BMW,

(46:54):
she's gonna get that house, she'sgonna get that to her story that caused
her so much pain made her closeto one hundred thousand dollars, and I'm
sure this is beyond her wildest dreams. And that just shows you that no
matter what, God has got you, because her crazy story ended up being
her biggest blessing because not only hadshe touched the lives of so many people

(47:15):
and probably saved a lot of lives, but she is now getting everything that
she ever dreamed of and she didit on her own, without somebody else
having to help her, without anybodypaying her bills. And I don't know,
I think that's inspiring for anybody that'sgone through a hard time or a
hard relationship. Especially me, it'slike, my time is coming. I

(47:35):
don't have to force it. Idon't have to, you know, create
scenarios in my head. When it'sGod's time, it'll happen. And I
just outside of all that, sheis going to get the life that she
deserves and everything that she prayed for. Thankfully, she also helps so many
people. Because you're seeing this man'sface, he's not ugly, to be
honest with you, yeah he is. No, he's ugly because you know

(47:58):
his actions if you were to seehim also, I think he is.
I think he is ugly. No, Kayla, you're not. He's ugly
because you know his action. He'sKayla, Kayla, Tayla. Okay.
His nostrils is not the worst.I don't think. I don't the worst
is that was that worst? Too? Okay? Stop? No, I
don't think. I don't think thathe's like butterface McGee, like he's not

(48:22):
like when you look at him,he's not an ugly guy. And I'm
assuming he's in his fifties. Maybeno, all right, whatever, that's
what I thought. But I knowbecause she put her story out there and
because he went viral and now hisex wives are speaking out and all this
family members speaking out. This manis not going to be able to get
God willing because there are some dummiesout there, but he's not gonna get
a date from a respectable woman.Oh. Ever, again he is done

(48:45):
for. And you see that hetrying to hop back online and say,
oh, she lying, I lefther because she cheated on me, and
I call her cheating in the houselike you she said you was gonna say,
baby, yeah, we know yourgame. Baby, give it out.
Lying lies on top of lives ontop of lives on Legion. The
liar proceeds documents like you gotta comewith something, you can't come with a

(49:09):
thirty second video saying it's not true. It ain't true. So he's done
for. A lot of people weresaying, like the girl who found Legion
should not have done that. Itwas not her place, it was not
And but I'm glad she did.I feel like everybody needed to know who
he was. And I think thatthat's so inappropriate because again, she's not
saying this for a reason. Thisis something that's much closer to her.

(49:30):
And if he does get mad andretaliates, it's not gonna be against you.
The person released it, that's gonnabe against her, and that's her
story and that's not just not yourplace to tell. I'm here for like
doing the research, maybe sending itin the group chat to your girls,
like oh my god, I foundthem. But to do that online,
you're bugging, You're bugging. ButI think, now, at this point,
what is he gonna do. There'sso many eyes on him. He's

(49:50):
not many people, there's so manypeople. I think, like at this
point, if he were to dosomething everybody knows he would, there's no
way. So murder suicides don't happen. He can't take her out and take
himself out too, Like it justit's too dangerous. It's just again,
you're not close enough to the situation, not you, Kayla, but the
person who released it to even knowwhat, like what can happen or what
can't happen. You don't know howcrazy this man is. You don't know

(50:10):
the threats he's made. I knowthat his ex wife didn't want to be
found by him. She knows,that's very clear. The one LaToya who
made the video said how much workshe had to do on herself and how
she did like, so this man'sdangerous and for you to put that what's
name Usa Tessa in date like itjust Tisa. It just is so not
so thoughtless, so thoughtless just forwhat likes and clicking. Yeah, now

(50:30):
you got your followers, you gotyour likes, and what if something happens
to her? Now what I neededto face the name? Okay, I
needed to see who I was thinkingabout it in my dreams. I definitely
dreamed about this whole situation. Yeah, well five hours will do that.
Listen, this whole thing has invadedmy life. Okay. I have been
doing so much research on this.I haven't gone down rabbit hole. I'veter
wrap up this page. I didthis. New characters have been unlocked.

(50:52):
I've been on this live, thislive. I've been moderating this panel like
too much. I'm new to theticker Talker. So I'm like, I
saw the one video. I thinkit was like part fourteen. I'm like,
oh wow, that's interesting, andI kept scrolling. Then I get
like a few days later, thistwo minute voice note from Taylor like Kayla,
you have to watch this and goesinto all this detail. Next thing
you know, I'm like hooked,three o'clock in the morning, like,

(51:12):
oh hooked, everybody. I canso listen at the end of the day
if you see me with a whythe fuck did I marry? Why the
fuck did I get in the relationship? Yes, with my little ex.
Don't be surprised. So I'm tryingto get that money. I'm trying to
get that money. Okay, Iasked getting some petty award of the week?
Well mine was Reesa Tisa. Iknow we just talked about her for

(51:35):
about a past hour, but Ihave to give it to her. I
don't think she did this. Idon't think she did this to be petty.
But I think that she gets thepetty Award of the week just because
she aired out her ex husband,destroyed his character all in four days,
and she did it very classically.So I have to give it to her
as self explanatory as to why.All right, respect respect my petty award.

(51:59):
Have you heard of this man whoapparently stayed in the airbnb over the
weekend. I think it was aSuper Bowl weekend, but I could be
lying. I could have been aSuper Hoos. Anyway, stayed at the
Airbnb over the weekend and left theairbnb host a bad review after he had
too many people in there, sothe airbnb host tried to charge him more.
He refused to pay gave her abad review. So Sis went to

(52:20):
the security cameras took a pick ofhim with another woman he was with at
the airbnb and sent that to hiswife. Oh check, yes, but
now she had a lawsuit for thatass. I was going through that part
out. But yeah, she getissue. I definitely getting seen and she
will lose. You think, so, yeah, that's invasion of privacy right

(52:42):
there? Are you kidding me?You take a picture of us? But
then again, if it's her property, does it count well? The plaintiffs
marriage has suffered as a result,according to the complaints, So if he
files for a divorce or if hehas to pay money, I'm sure she's
not gonna get off Scott free isScott? Yeah? But I think that
that was super duper duper petty justbecause you got a negative review to blast

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the man's household. I like that, That's something I would do. I
think that that one went. Ithink she's helping the world. She's doing
this, She's doing God's work.She is doing God's work. That ain't
petty. All right, We'll giveit to airbnbab petty all right, let's
get into a petty nail. Amberfrom Maryland writes, Dear Kayla and Kayla

(53:25):
dating a guy for about a yearthat separated from his baby mom slash ex
wife, and I recently found outthat he slept with her twice in the
past year while we were dating.His excuse was that she kept forcing him
and him and I were fighting atthe time. Do men just always want
their baby mama's back. I'm soconfused. I never saw the signs,

(53:45):
and I don't have a child either. I found out because I found a
new specific brand of condoms at hisbaby mom's house when I dropped off their
daughter, and I asked him whatwas going on, and he admitted to
the infidels, are you kidding me? She forced him to have sex with
it, Like that's the that's theexcuse that you come up with, Hale,
You never tripped and fallen in somevagina all the time. I hate

(54:09):
so much i am a lesbian asof today, I'm a munch Okay,
I'm not because it's just the liesand the audacity for me, like it
is never ending. And I knowthat there are some good guys out there,
and I don't mean to go ona think piece right now, but

(54:29):
like, hearing things like this reallypissed me off. Yeah, look at
your body language. Get the hands. I'm here for it. Hearing stuff
like this really pisses me off,and it really triggers me because it's like
the audacity and if they really thinkthat we're stupid enough to believe, oh,
she forced me to have so sheforced you, she opened up her
like force you to insert like itdoesn't happen like that, and you must

(54:49):
think that I'm stupid and you gotme fucked up if you think that I'm
actually gonna believe something like this.But it's the audacity of them, and
it's like it's never ending. I'mnot gonna say, oh you' I think
I'm that stupid, But to havehim asked to say that to you,
and then you write a podcast askingfor clarification when clearly, yeah, girl,
you little, you a little off. Let's spash your baby. He's

(55:12):
a fuck boy and you need toleave. Malonya. I ain't even got
no kids together. He' gonna befucking his baby mom. Toty end of
time because he got to deal withher toty end of time. And if
he's still fucking her now every time, y'all fight girl, get about it.
Bye man. All right, wellwe're out of here. Thank you
so much for listening. What yougot cone up this week? Oh I
want to say last week I didget a chance to stay at Marongo.
I didn't get to get somebody becausewe got into all the drama, but
I stayed at Morongo Becauseino and itwas so fun. I got the job,

(55:37):
gifted me a room in Palm Springsand I got to spend my weekend
there and that was just amazing.I got to meet some of the head
chefs at Morongo and they gave mebird nest soup, which is very expensive.
Apparently I ain't paid for it.Obviously was work there, but it's
made out of like bird nests,and birds make their nests out of like
their spit. It was like girlright, and I didn't know that until

(55:58):
after I ate the soup, butit was it's really good. I ate
me some birds spit. I don'teven know birds could spit. So this
I'm going to get back to thegym. More work, work, work,
and yeah, that's all I canthink of right now. Okay,
I want to finally get back intothe gym too. It has been I

(56:20):
mean eight am is a little much, you know, I get off at
one am in the morning, butI want to because I want to do
I want to do a group thinglike that. That's why I have been
loving pilates. But I've been sickand I've been so busy, so I
have not worked out in a month, so I want to get back to
that either tomorrow or Thursday. It'sraining out in La so I have no
motivation to do anything when it's rainingor step foot outside because nobody can drive,

(56:43):
and it's just disgusting. It's likea whole other level than when it's
like in the East Coast, wherethey normally can't like they break. It's
not normal here and people act likeit's not normal. So I don't like
to go outside when it's raining here. It's hard to explain if you don't
live here, so I don't know. I'll see how it is. But
other than this, I had myinterview today, so I'm pretty much good
for the rest of the week.I want to heal up and get this
nasal congestion completely gone and so Ican get back to my life. But

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other than that, that's it.Thank you so much for listening. We
would have know your thoughts in thisrecent TISA situation. So email us.
You can always d m us atthe Pettish Podcast. But man, let's
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(57:30):
We need to you know, postsome of those stuff there too.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah was that some shape? I
don't know, it came off alittle bit that that you didn't I'm sorry
that. Yeah, you're right,we're bad. I'm Kayla Thomas Austin