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This podcast was recorded in the IHeart Radio line of Podcasting Center. It's
your girl, Courtneyo, It's yourbig dog, Matt Sanders. The difference
between me and you say, what'syour truth? What everybody else is thinking?
That say whatever comes to your mind, We get sin and shop it
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up. But today we got timeilloy. Well yo yo yo, wow.
It's your girl COURTNEYO and it's yourbig dog Matt Sanders, and we
are here for another episode of SporadicThoughts. We told y'all we was gonna
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come back this weekend. We wasnot playing right here. That's good feedback
from last week talking about the singlemoms and the suns. Yeah, it
was real good feedback. I wentthrough and read some of the comments and
you know, people were really engaged, so you know it was well,
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yeah, nobody was out of ages. Yeah, like, okay, we
spoken, We respected each other's spaces. Yeah, and it's like, okay,
we can have an adult conversation aboutthese things. There's nothing wrong with
that. Yeah, we can definitelydo that. Well, you have an
adult conversation right with a little fuckeryin there every now and again. Yeah,
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So what's going on with you today? You know, I woke up
feeling really great right myself. It'sgonna be a great day. I'm gonna
claim it. It's gonna be agreat day. Yeah, I mean a
day to see ye hey, whenthey put that little song in your heart,
you know what I mean? Youjust you gotta go with the flow.
Yeah. But I do want togive a shout out to Maya,
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Sharita Smith and lack Nip for bringingNaka here Yes Today, which is um
it's a home buyers program and Ithink the participation in that was really really
high and it's actually getting people intohome ownership in Linema. It's it focuses
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on like low income or minorities.Because Srida did the research. Mayor Smith,
I'm sorry, she did the researchand are you know, I gotta
get wrong her, you know whatI mean, she did the research and
it was found out that really onlyfifty percent of people in line my own
home, really and the way rentis getting now, it's like like you
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might as well buy a house ata cheaper rate. And I'm even stuck
into that because right it was alwaysconvenient for me because I didn't have to
deal right right now, I've seenyeah, for real, and one thing
that I've been seeing two of mydude move war been posted given information.
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Yeah, a lot of these casthere handing out eviction notices. Seeing that
five days before, you know theywant you out, and then they only
doing that so they could get somebodyelse in there and raise the rent.
So if you've been at a houseand you kind of grandfathered into that price,
they just put you out. Well, you know, the squatter laws
in Ohio are something different. I'velearned firsthand. Yeah, right, hey,
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just sit there. They can't donothing, go through the whole process.
Don't even tripped. Don't trip justsit, know your laws and know
your rights. There you go period. But you know, it's a very
good home I mean a very goodprogram because it's one of those cases where
no matter your income. But theydo have a grant for the city of
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Lima, and I think if youmake under fifty five thousand or something,
they'll give you fifteen thousand. Right, they'll give you fifteen thousand to help
cover your costs. And the onlystipulation is you have to live in that
property, you know, for fiveyears. So to those that qualify,
that's a great program. Um,Yeah, this is Knacker. But that
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program for m LIMA, you couldgo down to the municipal building, to
the Neighborhoods Association. I want tosay, I might be right, Yeah,
the glass building go down here.Yeah right. I asked him about
that program, um, because thatI wish I qualified. I mean,
you know, yeah, definitely themoving go you know yeah, and it
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starts that generational wealth you know,yea investment. So go ahead and get
your peace. It's going pretty good. I can't complain about it. Woke
up and went to the gym,did some some booty work, booty WoT
work. So yeah, I'm tryingto get my you knowin thing back.
So yeah, I said, tighteningup, and then I got a little
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fluffy, you know, I hadthis foot injury. So yeah, you
foot out of people's asses, norright? For sure? For sure?
Absolutely? So yes, I knowit's been a couple of weeks. Um,
this topic has been spoken about.Okay, let's talk about it.
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I did want to touch on itthough, So for those of you that
are not familiar, what's going onat Fulton County Jail and Atlanta. Yeah,
there was a gentleman named was ShaunThompson and Unfortunately he was pronounced and
ceased off of bad bugs eating right, Like, I don't understand that.
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Um, he was incarcerated. Ididn't get into for what because it doesn't
even mattter what Just because you're incarcerat, it doesn't mean you shouldn't be treated
with dignity, lord, right,And to literally be eaten up by bad
bugs, it had to be badbad um. I believe every officer that
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did day round. Yeah, right, all the wardens, deputy wardens,
uh, everyone within that hierarchy,they used to be to the fullest,
including the state absolutely, because that'sthat's pure neglect and it's just it's,
man, yeah, that's inhumane.And I think you said he was like
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on the mental ward Yes, soyou know we both worked in corrections and
when I'm doing my mom I wasdoing my lock checks and counts and everything
you want to make sure people.I know he had to look see and
that's the part. It's like,okay, so let's just say I'm gonna
went two days and they found outhe was there because it probably had to
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be more. Man, you're tryingto tell me every thirty minute someone right,
didn't mark down? Yeah, Andthen like I don't know what they
do in Georgia, but I knowwhat they did in Ohio. It was
every half hour and you had todocument it in a long book. So
for the life of me, Icannot understand. Like, so y'all just
locked him up at it like like, because that lets me know that you
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didn't even try to feed him.I mean, that's at least a dare
two that you didn't go by.Here goes some child. You're just like
hand who Yeah, they are,Like, man, y'all gotta forget what
we always want to go to Atlanta, but we gotta remember where Atlanta is.
So yeah, you know, don'ttrip, but just don't man.
People deserve humane treatment. I don'tcare what the situation is. And if
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you have a job, do yourjob, because the ain't no way in
the world. He should have beeneaten by bad bugs and pretty much left
for dead. Like I didn't evenknow it could get that bad out right,
How do you how do you evenget to that point? Yeah,
definitely family. They probably can't evenhave an open cast movie. Wanted to
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um in the coression system. Um, there's times where you'll see things you'd
like, all right, me,wait, a minute, you know,
check the next cround just to seewhat's going on. But this was an
extensive amount of time. Um,and him being on the mental health unit.
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Yeah, a red flag right therebecause they probably have to do checks
even more. Yeah, you definitelywould want to. Yeah. And the
conditions of how the cell looked,yeah, like okay, so I wanna
speak on that. Okay, Soit's not uncommon to see a cell look
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like that in a mental unit unfortunately. Yeah, but it doesn't stay like
that for long, right, becauseyou will catch you two three day like
that, like all right, whatwe're doing, you don't want to do
whatever? Now we're gonna have tocome in and clean it up, right,
And honestly, it looked like itwas beyond human control. That was
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like structural control, Like you meanto tell me these conditions like this,
and you know they're dealing with overcrowdingand everything, like man peeped this out
of you an Atlanta area of FultonCounty. They keep your ass out of
trouble. Trouble because they're not playingat all. Ain't fair and they will
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literally leave you for dead. Well, yeah, I want to a lighter
note, yeah right, yeah,definitely. Yeah, what's going on in
the world. Um, shoot,I really been kind of under a rock
sometimes I don't like to watch thenews because it's so sad, it's so
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depressing. So if everything, yes, it is the point where you,
like, you know what, I'mscared to go outside. I want to
do this and I don't do thatabsolutely, But I tell you what I
have noticed. What have you noticedin my in my a media world,
let my media world, though,But um, I haven't seen that recently,
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I say, made the past maybefive to ten years, we've seen
a lot more children named after theirmothers. The last name. The last
name that, like, um,I thought traditionally you're supposed to thinking again,
yeah, yeah, again in atraditional world. Yeah, I think
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that's I think you just said itright, right, we are no longer
living in a traditional world. Andlike, even with my last name,
Like, I don't know what mymom was thinking. In nineteen eighty my
mom had got married to somebody whoselast name was Owens. Okay, my
mom's maiden last name is Ingram.My dad's last name is Williams. So
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how in the hell should I evenbe Owens. I'm gonna have to have
a talk with my mom. Didyou hate this stud this much? It
could have been that, Hey,I wouldn't us all have the same same
black but still, um could havebeen that could have been that, you
know, that was corny. Idon't know. Honestly, I think relate
them. M I don't know.It's I don't think I can claim a
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child that doesn't have my last putthat out the big dogs, period.
Yeah, and I always you know, my boys got their dad's last name.
Whynot? And then especially by mebeing out, you know, fake
Owens definitely wasn't gonna give them mylast name to carry on. And my
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oldest brother he got like my mom'smaiden last name, and my middle brother
where Owens is and we are bothneither owns is. So she should have
just changed her last name back orit didn't even matter, Like, I
mean, how y'all feel about that? Do you do? Do y'all feel
like once you birth the child womenhood, they're supposed to have your last name
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or the father's last name. Yeah, let us know. I can't see
it. I ain't going for it. I can't see it. Yeah,
I'm definitely pro the father's last name. You know, it's not even that
serious. It's not. But Idon't think, you know, we'll blame
it, like we said on anon traditional right, Yeah, nothing is
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the same as it ever was.Everything is definitely different. But it kind
of like it kind of scares meto where we're going to, Like yeah,
it's like like what are we whatare we going to get to?
You know what I mean? Likewe are you racing and eradicating? We're
just writing our own history now basically. I mean, you know, I
will say this though, Um,most other countries, though, they do
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the mother's last name if you're notmarried, Okay, and that makes sense.
You know that dama's baby daddy's made, you know. So I mean,
yeah, I don't know. Ijust don't really have a yeah answer
for that one. It's just different. I guess how you feel about taking
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them, Like when you're married,you take your husband's last name. I
see women with the apostrophee like yeah, like walk right. I mean,
I guess they're trying to still keeptheir identity somewhat. And I got one
of my friends, one of mygood friends I went to school with,
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she uses her maiden last night,okay, you know, and I guess
if I was married, I wouldn'thave a problem because I ain't know on
one's any damnay, so it reallywouldn't matter. But I think a lot
of women, like you said,nothing is traditional anymore, right, right,
And when we burned our brawls infor women's right, that was one
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of the things that kind of wentalong with that. But I do you
see it a lot more of thehyphenated name or just not even like when
when when we'll dudes start taking onwhy you didn't say Matt Day. But
that's because that's the scary part becausenow we're in the day and as where
men will be more commonly probably takenon women's last name. And and that's
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what we talk about how last weekthe roles are reversed person. Yeah,
and it's funny because we're talking aboutsome simple stuff and just to hear how
simple that is, is it?Yeah? It really can be complex.
Like the whole role of everything ischanging now. Is that by design or
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for what I think it's getting forced? You know, they push in a
certain agenda, you know, um, and we're seeing a lot more of
it, you know, I understandyou know that we have to break down
to of the it's like there's stilla few that it's just that's just desertinating.
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Yeah, like, come on now, y'all, we gotta maintain a
little dignity. Yeah, definitely.I got a question. Huh so when
you're in love, how do youknow you're in love? Oh? Yeah,
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right, like, how do youknow when your love Facebook? How
do you know you're in love?I think it's everybody will probably give a
different answer. Okay, I thinkeverybody would definitely give a different answer,
because you can love somebody and notbe in love with somebody. True,
Let's let's let's talk on that firstand then keep never gonna dissect the level
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of that. I think relationships gothrough that just because you go through ups
and downs. And I think truly, if you really love somebody, you
never stop loving them. Okay,I don't care what happens. Even if
you and that person are to breakup, you still would love to see
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that person. Yeah, go on, right, yeah, genuinely still have
love for that person. It mightnot be the same magnitude, right,
it was exactly well okay, yeah, and who's yeah, that's kind of
heavy too, because being in loveand loving someone's completely two different things,
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and a lot of people have gottenthere before. Yeah, a lot of
people have dealt with that. Alot of people have seen that. Uh
you hear, I've heard Okay,for example, I've seen movies. I
love her, but I'm in lovewith her, right, you get my
love? So you know what Imean. It kind of makes sense to
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me, which is weird, don'tyou makes sense like, Okay, you
can still love that person but bein love with this person. Yeah,
And I think like in love witha person, it's like a romantic type
love, like I'm falling head overheels in love with this person, Like
I'm thinking about this person, likeI will move, like I feel this
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person in my spirit, you know, like sometimes you can get a whiff
of a person. Yeah you don'tsmell. Oh my god, Like where
are you right? Yeah? SoI think it's different capacities. And I
think during relationships, you fall inlove with a person and you fall out
of love. And you're right becauseyou you you can fall in love and
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fall out, but you you gottakeep falling in love, right, And
plus the person you fell in lovewith, they shouldn't be the same person
four years later. They should beadd on to what they we're in addition
to it, like I love thatperson, I'm in love with that,
but damn, I now I'm inlove with this person. Canal you know,
so you do change, you knowthen, and I think the capacity
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to love people changes. M Nowyou think it's more like beneficial or superficial
or is it just um maybe yougo through more and it gives you a
deeper love I think so. Okay, yeah, I would say that,
And that's kind of why I don'tbelieve in unconditional love, Like all love
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has conditions, true your daughter being, and we're supposed to love unconditionally,
but unfortunately there there's conditions to thislove, Like if you keep on doing
me bad and doing me wrong,I'm not gonna be in love with you.
Like I'm not gonna have that sameromantic love for you. I might
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love you because we together, butthat don't mean so so you don't went
from love to lust? No,no, not that, but it can
you know, diminish I guess,Yeah, it's levels to this ship.
And I think the thing is youhave to find ways to keep it.
Yeah, you gotta keep finding waysto keep falling in love with that person
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that you in love with. Yeah. And like they said on Love Jones,
like when we say that love hasdied, right, I think people
are just saying they've exhausted the possibility, right, yeah, possibility, just
exhausted the possibility so well. Imean we say that to say, when
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does Courtney Oh no, she's inlove? Who? Yeah? Yeah that
right there. Um, I'm agiver, okay, you know, and
when Courtney Owens is love like thatperson, it is the only person that
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I'm thinking about, Okay, LikeI just feel you and like I said,
in my spirit, like yeah rightyou know, huh yeah, Okay.
How does Matt know I know I'min love when somehow, not even
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trying to everything I say comes backto that person. Yeah, oh yeah,
yeah she do that too. Yeah. Nice cut you're looking dog?
Yeah you know he says she likedto cut. You know, you'd be
like, you know what I couldjust tell like when I look at couples
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body language and even like when youlook at pictures like I sometimes I'll see
couples and you know they're so inlove, but the body language isn't saying
that, Like they might both conthe league be on their phones all the
time or like I'm observing, likeI'm out, I see people and if
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they really own their phone like you, you should be able to That's wild
that you said that, because ummy oldest son's mother. We have a
picture at like prom and it wascrazy, like maybe two years ago.
He had to do a project.He's like, you need to picture you
and mind blah blah blah. AndI found one and I'm looking at it.
I'm like, damn, you cansee how goofy and love we were
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like it was. It was amazingto see it, like the no then
and look back now like damn,yeah, that's wild, Like it's written
all over him he was, andthat was like young love, why puppy
love? Yeah right, it waswild though. So y'all body language can
tell, uh, you tell,and even how you talk about your person
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when you're not around your person,how you talk about that person to other
people. Definitely, you know,definitely, definitely what you accept, how
you put it out. That's alwaysbeen a thing too, like see fairly
be trying to act like they're toohard to be invoved. Yeah, I
don't understand that's the goal. Whenyou told somebody you can go get here
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and we wouldn't go got here.Yeah, that's the goal. Yeah,
everybody needs somebody there you go,everybody, somebody for everybody, trust and
believe that. I mean, Idon't know, man, I mean there
has to be okay, somebody,You're right, I said it right,
there's somebody for everybody, Okay,okay, Um, I don't know,
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man. Yeah. Or do youthink that some people are just destined to
be alone and not even though okay, let me say, let me put
this, let me make this clear. Alone and lonely is two different things.
Message. Now that's a message.Yeah, because like when you're alone,
you are learning to enjoy the companyof yourself. You're comfortable being with
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yourself. You might be comfortable likegoing out to get something to eat or
something, because you're comfortable. You'realone, probably by choice, maybe not
by choice. But it's not lonely, like I know a lot of a
lot more happy being alone, butlonely and right, and then at the
end of the day, nobody isalone alone I mean true. I mean
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I don't know, I've seen too, but I was just like, you're
just gonna be alone your Yeah,from the way that, Yeah, they
weighs it just ain't conducive with correctyeah, yeah, you know, and
maybe they're fine with that, youknow. Yeah, that's the goal.
Yeah, yeah, I don't.I don't want to be like that.
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I don't want to be alone andI don't want to be lonely. No,
it neither one. Yeah, Ithink everything you do, you know,
um, it's to enjoy that memoryand share with someone. Yeah,
absolutely, why else you know doyou do it? Yeah? You feel
good, you want to copy somewhere, you can do this, but if
you can't enjoy it with the peoplethat matter to you did and it's like
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real superficial. Yeah, you know, people be like, oh yeah,
these millionaires just committed suicide. Justthen the third why have I had that
money down't care? Yeah? Nobodyenjoy it with right, like you just
never know, Like it ain't evenabout anybody. You can you can wake
up, take this supermodel or whatever. Greece. Yeah, you got hello
hello stories, but you remember whowith right, You ain't got nobody to
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share with, And you had allthese superficial relationships that at the end of
the day, they don't even matterexactly. But you know, yeah,
different strokes for different folks, youknow, different different folks. Um,
look, we all sentimental to day. I feel a little update on up
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the score, up the score.Listen. Yes, when I tell y'all,
this movie is just beautiful. It'sa great storyline. All these shot
good and and and it's for themost part nine all lama. Yeah,
we got some talent out here,y'all. Like I'm really, I'm so
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excited to just to share it withthe world, but really to see like
we got something. Yeah, gotthe movie edited, got about twenty more
you know, to go. Asof right now, we're still stuck on
an hour and seven minutes duration,but I think we squeeze another fifteen Yeah,
definitely. But everything is good,you know. Just send some emails
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out for music releases, shout outto the ones we've already got placement.
We still have about three four morespots left looking for the right songs.
It doesn't mean your songs aren't goodif you didn't get approved or however you
want to say. It just meansthat it didn't fit what I was looking
for in the movie. Right,everything has to make sense if you watch
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movies. Music is every everything.Yeah, I see my cousin Todd.
Hell, here you know that's mymusic. Man, send music, cousins,
right, don't because you know howmovies come on and it's just music,
right, go ahead and send thatstuff on end so we can get
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Don't send that to my beats though, Don't send that right, but going
in the fouls and find it.But yeah, I am excited and I
am so happy for you for bringingthat idea and that opportunity to us here
in Lyma. And just you know, being on the movie set and shooting
a movie that's how did you letyou talk about your experience? Oh my
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god, an awful, awesome,not awful colleague, right am, Now,
it was an awesome experience from youknow, earning my lines, meeting
the cast and meshing with people andhaving a good synergy. Yeah, we
ate on the set. We justkicked it, and yeah it was real
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good. And I've always wanted toact. Okay, you know it's act,
you know what I mean. I'ma good doctor, corney or the
good doctor. But that's always beenone of my things that I would love
to do. And I'm happy tobe a part with hobbies into careers and
I believe wholeheartedly we got us aclassic y'allah and the storyline so fire.
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I remember the first time I readit and to read through I'm like,
oh god, yeah, it's definitelydope. You're gonna love it. I
had a chance to get you know, the jump, and I was like,
shit, yeah, I'm go aheadand jumping the movie too. So
I did a little quick can yeahyou know, wouldn't you? And it
was cool. I liked it,you know what I mean? The big
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all got to be an artist.I made a song. Let you hear
that. Okay, boy got barsyou want to hit head go? But
everything is great. Um it's comingsoon, you know. Um should have
a trailer out two to three weeks. Okay, look, we got a
trailer coming out. We big ship. Yeah. Score absolutely up to score
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what we're putting down. Comment letus know what you would like to speak
about. Absolutely. We are hereto keep you up your mind sporadically.
And we just kind of chilled todaybecause sometimes what we do last night,
last time, we was so serious. People probably left this conversation and you
know, started drama and broke upa little bit, all type of stuff.
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So we talked about love to thisepisode. So we don't bring y'allah.
That's all. That's what we're gonnado. We're gonna be the glue
if that holds you together, right, the big dog mat and and it's
your girl, Corneo PA's here's mysnares. This podcast was recorded in the
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iHeartRadio Podcasting Center. Thanks for listening.
This podcast was recorded in the IHeart Radio line of Podcasting Center. It's
your girl, Courtneyo, It's yourbig dog, Matt Sanders. The difference
between me and you say, what'syour truth? What everybody else is thinking?
That say whatever comes to your mind, We get sin and shop it
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up. But today we got timeilloy. Well yo yo yo, wow.
It's your girl COURTNEYO and it's yourbig dog Matt Sanders, and we
are here for another episode of SporadicThoughts. We told y'all we was gonna
(00:51):
come back this weekend. We wasnot playing right here. That's good feedback
from last week talking about the singlemoms and the suns. Yeah, it
was real good feedback. I wentthrough and read some of the comments and
you know, people were really engaged, so you know it was well,
(01:11):
yeah, nobody was out of ages. Yeah, like, okay, we
spoken, We respected each other's spaces. Yeah, and it's like, okay,
we can have an adult conversation aboutthese things. There's nothing wrong with
that. Yeah, we can definitelydo that. Well, you have an
adult conversation right with a little fuckeryin there every now and again. Yeah,
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So what's going on with you today? You know, I woke up
feeling really great right myself. It'sgonna be a great day. I'm gonna
claim it. It's gonna be agreat day. Yeah, I mean a
day to see ye hey, whenthey put that little song in your heart,
you know what I mean? Youjust you gotta go with the flow.
Yeah. But I do want togive a shout out to Maya,
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Sharita Smith and lack Nip for bringingNaka here Yes Today, which is um
it's a home buyers program and Ithink the participation in that was really really
high and it's actually getting people intohome ownership in Linema. It's it focuses
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on like low income or minorities.Because Srida did the research. Mayor Smith,
I'm sorry, she did the researchand are you know, I gotta
get wrong her, you know whatI mean, she did the research and
it was found out that really onlyfifty percent of people in line my own
home, really and the way rentis getting now, it's like like you
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might as well buy a house ata cheaper rate. And I'm even stuck
into that because right it was alwaysconvenient for me because I didn't have to
deal right right now, I've seenyeah, for real, and one thing
that I've been seeing two of mydude move war been posted given information.
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Yeah, a lot of these casthere handing out eviction notices. Seeing that
five days before, you know theywant you out, and then they only
doing that so they could get somebodyelse in there and raise the rent.
So if you've been at a houseand you kind of grandfathered into that price,
they just put you out. Well, you know, the squatter laws
in Ohio are something different. I'velearned firsthand. Yeah, right, hey,
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just sit there. They can't donothing, go through the whole process.
Don't even tripped. Don't trip justsit, know your laws and know
your rights. There you go period. But you know, it's a very
good home I mean a very goodprogram because it's one of those cases where
no matter your income. But theydo have a grant for the city of
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Lima, and I think if youmake under fifty five thousand or something,
they'll give you fifteen thousand. Right, they'll give you fifteen thousand to help
cover your costs. And the onlystipulation is you have to live in that
property, you know, for fiveyears. So to those that qualify,
that's a great program. Um,Yeah, this is Knacker. But that
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program for m LIMA, you couldgo down to the municipal building, to
the Neighborhoods Association. I want tosay, I might be right, Yeah,
the glass building go down here.Yeah right. I asked him about
that program, um, because thatI wish I qualified. I mean,
you know, yeah, definitely themoving go you know yeah, and it
(04:30):
starts that generational wealth you know,yea investment. So go ahead and get
your peace. It's going pretty good. I can't complain about it. Woke
up and went to the gym,did some some booty work, booty WoT
work. So yeah, I'm tryingto get my you knowin thing back.
So yeah, I said, tighteningup, and then I got a little
(04:55):
fluffy, you know, I hadthis foot injury. So yeah, you
foot out of people's asses, norright? For sure? For sure?
Absolutely? So yes, I knowit's been a couple of weeks. Um,
this topic has been spoken about.Okay, let's talk about it.
(05:18):
I did want to touch on itthough, So for those of you that
are not familiar, what's going onat Fulton County Jail and Atlanta. Yeah,
there was a gentleman named was ShaunThompson and Unfortunately he was pronounced and
ceased off of bad bugs eating right, Like, I don't understand that.
(05:43):
Um, he was incarcerated. Ididn't get into for what because it doesn't
even mattter what Just because you're incarcerat, it doesn't mean you shouldn't be treated
with dignity, lord, right,And to literally be eaten up by bad
bugs, it had to be badbad um. I believe every officer that
(06:04):
did day round. Yeah, right, all the wardens, deputy wardens,
uh, everyone within that hierarchy,they used to be to the fullest,
including the state absolutely, because that'sthat's pure neglect and it's just it's,
man, yeah, that's inhumane.And I think you said he was like
(06:25):
on the mental ward Yes, soyou know we both worked in corrections and
when I'm doing my mom I wasdoing my lock checks and counts and everything
you want to make sure people.I know he had to look see and
that's the part. It's like,okay, so let's just say I'm gonna
went two days and they found outhe was there because it probably had to
(06:45):
be more. Man, you're tryingto tell me every thirty minute someone right,
didn't mark down? Yeah, Andthen like I don't know what they
do in Georgia, but I knowwhat they did in Ohio. It was
every half hour and you had todocument it in a long book. So
for the life of me, Icannot understand. Like, so y'all just
locked him up at it like like, because that lets me know that you
(07:10):
didn't even try to feed him.I mean, that's at least a dare
two that you didn't go by.Here goes some child. You're just like
hand who Yeah, they are,Like, man, y'all gotta forget what
we always want to go to Atlanta, but we gotta remember where Atlanta is.
So yeah, you know, don'ttrip, but just don't man.
People deserve humane treatment. I don'tcare what the situation is. And if
(07:32):
you have a job, do yourjob, because the ain't no way in
the world. He should have beeneaten by bad bugs and pretty much left
for dead. Like I didn't evenknow it could get that bad out right,
How do you how do you evenget to that point? Yeah,
definitely family. They probably can't evenhave an open cast movie. Wanted to
(07:59):
um in the coression system. Um, there's times where you'll see things you'd
like, all right, me,wait, a minute, you know,
check the next cround just to seewhat's going on. But this was an
extensive amount of time. Um,and him being on the mental health unit.
(08:20):
Yeah, a red flag right therebecause they probably have to do checks
even more. Yeah, you definitelywould want to. Yeah. And the
conditions of how the cell looked,yeah, like okay, so I wanna
speak on that. Okay, Soit's not uncommon to see a cell look
(08:41):
like that in a mental unit unfortunately. Yeah, but it doesn't stay like
that for long, right, becauseyou will catch you two three day like
that, like all right, whatwe're doing, you don't want to do
whatever? Now we're gonna have tocome in and clean it up, right,
And honestly, it looked like itwas beyond human control. That was
(09:01):
like structural control, Like you meanto tell me these conditions like this,
and you know they're dealing with overcrowdingand everything, like man peeped this out
of you an Atlanta area of FultonCounty. They keep your ass out of
trouble. Trouble because they're not playingat all. Ain't fair and they will
(09:22):
literally leave you for dead. Well, yeah, I want to a lighter
note, yeah right, yeah,definitely. Yeah, what's going on in
the world. Um, shoot,I really been kind of under a rock
sometimes I don't like to watch thenews because it's so sad, it's so
(09:43):
depressing. So if everything, yes, it is the point where you,
like, you know what, I'mscared to go outside. I want to
do this and I don't do thatabsolutely, But I tell you what I
have noticed. What have you noticedin my in my a media world,
let my media world, though,But um, I haven't seen that recently,
(10:09):
I say, made the past maybefive to ten years, we've seen
a lot more children named after theirmothers. The last name. The last
name that, like, um,I thought traditionally you're supposed to thinking again,
yeah, yeah, again in atraditional world. Yeah, I think
(10:31):
that's I think you just said itright, right, we are no longer
living in a traditional world. Andlike, even with my last name,
Like, I don't know what mymom was thinking. In nineteen eighty my
mom had got married to somebody whoselast name was Owens. Okay, my
mom's maiden last name is Ingram.My dad's last name is Williams. So
(10:54):
how in the hell should I evenbe Owens. I'm gonna have to have
a talk with my mom. Didyou hate this stud this much? It
could have been that, Hey,I wouldn't us all have the same same
black but still, um could havebeen that could have been that, you
know, that was corny. Idon't know. Honestly, I think relate
them. M I don't know.It's I don't think I can claim a
(11:18):
child that doesn't have my last putthat out the big dogs, period.
Yeah, and I always you know, my boys got their dad's last name.
Whynot? And then especially by mebeing out, you know, fake
Owens definitely wasn't gonna give them mylast name to carry on. And my
(11:43):
oldest brother he got like my mom'smaiden last name, and my middle brother
where Owens is and we are bothneither owns is. So she should have
just changed her last name back orit didn't even matter, Like, I
mean, how y'all feel about that? Do you do? Do y'all feel
like once you birth the child womenhood, they're supposed to have your last name
(12:03):
or the father's last name. Yeah, let us know. I can't see
it. I ain't going for it. I can't see it. Yeah,
I'm definitely pro the father's last name. You know, it's not even that
serious. It's not. But Idon't think, you know, we'll blame
it, like we said on anon traditional right, Yeah, nothing is
(12:26):
the same as it ever was.Everything is definitely different. But it kind
of like it kind of scares meto where we're going to, Like yeah,
it's like like what are we whatare we going to get to?
You know what I mean? Likewe are you racing and eradicating? We're
just writing our own history now basically. I mean, you know, I
will say this though, Um,most other countries, though, they do
(12:50):
the mother's last name if you're notmarried, Okay, and that makes sense.
You know that dama's baby daddy's made, you know. So I mean,
yeah, I don't know. Ijust don't really have a yeah answer
for that one. It's just different. I guess how you feel about taking
(13:11):
them, Like when you're married,you take your husband's last name. I
see women with the apostrophee like yeah, like walk right. I mean,
I guess they're trying to still keeptheir identity somewhat. And I got one
of my friends, one of mygood friends I went to school with,
(13:31):
she uses her maiden last night,okay, you know, and I guess
if I was married, I wouldn'thave a problem because I ain't know on
one's any damnay, so it reallywouldn't matter. But I think a lot
of women, like you said,nothing is traditional anymore, right, right,
And when we burned our brawls infor women's right, that was one
(13:56):
of the things that kind of wentalong with that. But I do you
see it a lot more of thehyphenated name or just not even like when
when when we'll dudes start taking onwhy you didn't say Matt Day. But
that's because that's the scary part becausenow we're in the day and as where
men will be more commonly probably takenon women's last name. And and that's
(14:20):
what we talk about how last weekthe roles are reversed person. Yeah,
and it's funny because we're talking aboutsome simple stuff and just to hear how
simple that is, is it?Yeah? It really can be complex.
Like the whole role of everything ischanging now. Is that by design or
(14:41):
for what I think it's getting forced? You know, they push in a
certain agenda, you know, um, and we're seeing a lot more of
it, you know, I understandyou know that we have to break down
to of the it's like there's stilla few that it's just that's just desertinating.
(15:05):
Yeah, like, come on now, y'all, we gotta maintain a
little dignity. Yeah, definitely.I got a question. Huh so when
you're in love, how do youknow you're in love? Oh? Yeah,
(15:26):
right, like, how do youknow when your love Facebook? How
do you know you're in love?I think it's everybody will probably give a
different answer. Okay, I thinkeverybody would definitely give a different answer,
because you can love somebody and notbe in love with somebody. True,
Let's let's let's talk on that firstand then keep never gonna dissect the level
(15:52):
of that. I think relationships gothrough that just because you go through ups
and downs. And I think truly, if you really love somebody, you
never stop loving them. Okay,I don't care what happens. Even if
you and that person are to breakup, you still would love to see
(16:15):
that person. Yeah, go on, right, yeah, genuinely still have
love for that person. It mightnot be the same magnitude, right,
it was exactly well okay, yeah, and who's yeah, that's kind of
heavy too, because being in loveand loving someone's completely two different things,
(16:40):
and a lot of people have gottenthere before. Yeah, a lot of
people have dealt with that. Alot of people have seen that. Uh
you hear, I've heard Okay,for example, I've seen movies. I
love her, but I'm in lovewith her, right, you get my
love? So you know what Imean. It kind of makes sense to
(17:03):
me, which is weird, don'tyou makes sense like, Okay, you
can still love that person but bein love with this person. Yeah,
And I think like in love witha person, it's like a romantic type
love, like I'm falling head overheels in love with this person, Like
I'm thinking about this person, likeI will move, like I feel this
(17:26):
person in my spirit, you know, like sometimes you can get a whiff
of a person. Yeah you don'tsmell. Oh my god, Like where
are you right? Yeah? SoI think it's different capacities. And I
think during relationships, you fall inlove with a person and you fall out
of love. And you're right becauseyou you you can fall in love and
(17:47):
fall out, but you you gottakeep falling in love, right, And
plus the person you fell in lovewith, they shouldn't be the same person
four years later. They should beadd on to what they we're in addition
to it, like I love thatperson, I'm in love with that,
but damn, I now I'm inlove with this person. Canal you know,
so you do change, you knowthen, and I think the capacity
(18:12):
to love people changes. M Nowyou think it's more like beneficial or superficial
or is it just um maybe yougo through more and it gives you a
deeper love I think so. Okay, yeah, I would say that,
And that's kind of why I don'tbelieve in unconditional love, Like all love
(18:34):
has conditions, true your daughter being, and we're supposed to love unconditionally,
but unfortunately there there's conditions to thislove, Like if you keep on doing
me bad and doing me wrong,I'm not gonna be in love with you.
Like I'm not gonna have that sameromantic love for you. I might
(18:56):
love you because we together, butthat don't mean so so you don't went
from love to lust? No,no, not that, but it can
you know, diminish I guess,Yeah, it's levels to this ship.
And I think the thing is youhave to find ways to keep it.
Yeah, you gotta keep finding waysto keep falling in love with that person
(19:17):
that you in love with. Yeah. And like they said on Love Jones,
like when we say that love hasdied, right, I think people
are just saying they've exhausted the possibility, right, yeah, possibility, just
exhausted the possibility so well. Imean we say that to say, when
(19:40):
does Courtney Oh no, she's inlove? Who? Yeah? Yeah that
right there. Um, I'm agiver, okay, you know, and
when Courtney Owens is love like thatperson, it is the only person that
(20:02):
I'm thinking about, Okay, LikeI just feel you and like I said,
in my spirit, like yeah rightyou know, huh yeah, Okay.
How does Matt know I know I'min love when somehow, not even
(20:23):
trying to everything I say comes backto that person. Yeah, oh yeah,
yeah she do that too. Yeah. Nice cut you're looking dog?
Yeah you know he says she likedto cut. You know, you'd be
like, you know what I couldjust tell like when I look at couples
(20:44):
body language and even like when youlook at pictures like I sometimes I'll see
couples and you know they're so inlove, but the body language isn't saying
that, Like they might both conthe league be on their phones all the
time or like I'm observing, likeI'm out, I see people and if
(21:06):
they really own their phone like you, you should be able to That's wild
that you said that, because ummy oldest son's mother. We have a
picture at like prom and it wascrazy, like maybe two years ago.
He had to do a project.He's like, you need to picture you
and mind blah blah blah. AndI found one and I'm looking at it.
I'm like, damn, you cansee how goofy and love we were
(21:30):
like it was. It was amazingto see it, like the no then
and look back now like damn,yeah, that's wild, Like it's written
all over him he was, andthat was like young love, why puppy
love? Yeah right, it waswild though. So y'all body language can
tell, uh, you tell,and even how you talk about your person
(21:55):
when you're not around your person,how you talk about that person to other
people. Definitely, you know,definitely, definitely what you accept, how
you put it out. That's alwaysbeen a thing too, like see fairly
be trying to act like they're toohard to be invoved. Yeah, I
don't understand that's the goal. Whenyou told somebody you can go get here
(22:17):
and we wouldn't go got here.Yeah, that's the goal. Yeah,
everybody needs somebody there you go,everybody, somebody for everybody, trust and
believe that. I mean, Idon't know, man, I mean there
has to be okay, somebody,You're right, I said it right,
there's somebody for everybody, Okay,okay, Um, I don't know,
(22:41):
man. Yeah. Or do youthink that some people are just destined to
be alone and not even though okay, let me say, let me put
this, let me make this clear. Alone and lonely is two different things.
Message. Now that's a message.Yeah, because like when you're alone,
you are learning to enjoy the companyof yourself. You're comfortable being with
(23:07):
yourself. You might be comfortable likegoing out to get something to eat or
something, because you're comfortable. You'realone, probably by choice, maybe not
by choice. But it's not lonely, like I know a lot of a
lot more happy being alone, butlonely and right, and then at the
end of the day, nobody isalone alone I mean true. I mean
(23:32):
I don't know, I've seen too, but I was just like, you're
just gonna be alone your Yeah,from the way that, Yeah, they
weighs it just ain't conducive with correctyeah, yeah, you know, and
maybe they're fine with that, youknow. Yeah, that's the goal.
Yeah, yeah, I don't.I don't want to be like that.
(23:56):
I don't want to be alone andI don't want to be lonely. No,
it neither one. Yeah, Ithink everything you do, you know,
um, it's to enjoy that memoryand share with someone. Yeah,
absolutely, why else you know doyou do it? Yeah? You feel
good, you want to copy somewhere, you can do this, but if
you can't enjoy it with the peoplethat matter to you did and it's like
(24:18):
real superficial. Yeah, you know, people be like, oh yeah,
these millionaires just committed suicide. Justthen the third why have I had that
money down't care? Yeah? Nobodyenjoy it with right, like you just
never know, Like it ain't evenabout anybody. You can you can wake
up, take this supermodel or whatever. Greece. Yeah, you got hello
hello stories, but you remember whowith right, You ain't got nobody to
(24:41):
share with, And you had allthese superficial relationships that at the end of
the day, they don't even matterexactly. But you know, yeah,
different strokes for different folks, youknow, different different folks. Um,
look, we all sentimental to day. I feel a little update on up
(25:02):
the score, up the score.Listen. Yes, when I tell y'all,
this movie is just beautiful. It'sa great storyline. All these shot
good and and and it's for themost part nine all lama. Yeah,
we got some talent out here,y'all. Like I'm really, I'm so
(25:23):
excited to just to share it withthe world, but really to see like
we got something. Yeah, gotthe movie edited, got about twenty more
you know, to go. Asof right now, we're still stuck on
an hour and seven minutes duration,but I think we squeeze another fifteen Yeah,
definitely. But everything is good,you know. Just send some emails
(25:45):
out for music releases, shout outto the ones we've already got placement.
We still have about three four morespots left looking for the right songs.
It doesn't mean your songs aren't goodif you didn't get approved or however you
want to say. It just meansthat it didn't fit what I was looking
for in the movie. Right,everything has to make sense if you watch
(26:06):
movies. Music is every everything.Yeah, I see my cousin Todd.
Hell, here you know that's mymusic. Man, send music, cousins,
right, don't because you know howmovies come on and it's just music,
right, go ahead and send thatstuff on end so we can get
(26:26):
Don't send that to my beats though, Don't send that right, but going
in the fouls and find it.But yeah, I am excited and I
am so happy for you for bringingthat idea and that opportunity to us here
in Lyma. And just you know, being on the movie set and shooting
a movie that's how did you letyou talk about your experience? Oh my
(26:48):
god, an awful, awesome,not awful colleague, right am, Now,
it was an awesome experience from youknow, earning my lines, meeting
the cast and meshing with people andhaving a good synergy. Yeah, we
ate on the set. We justkicked it, and yeah it was real
(27:11):
good. And I've always wanted toact. Okay, you know it's act,
you know what I mean. I'ma good doctor, corney or the
good doctor. But that's always beenone of my things that I would love
to do. And I'm happy tobe a part with hobbies into careers and
I believe wholeheartedly we got us aclassic y'allah and the storyline so fire.
(27:37):
I remember the first time I readit and to read through I'm like,
oh god, yeah, it's definitelydope. You're gonna love it. I
had a chance to get you know, the jump, and I was like,
shit, yeah, I'm go aheadand jumping the movie too. So
I did a little quick can yeahyou know, wouldn't you? And it
was cool. I liked it,you know what I mean? The big
(28:00):
all got to be an artist.I made a song. Let you hear
that. Okay, boy got barsyou want to hit head go? But
everything is great. Um it's comingsoon, you know. Um should have
a trailer out two to three weeks. Okay, look, we got a
trailer coming out. We big ship. Yeah. Score absolutely up to score
(28:29):
what we're putting down. Comment letus know what you would like to speak
about. Absolutely. We are hereto keep you up your mind sporadically.
And we just kind of chilled todaybecause sometimes what we do last night,
last time, we was so serious. People probably left this conversation and you
know, started drama and broke upa little bit, all type of stuff.
(28:51):
So we talked about love to thisepisode. So we don't bring y'allah.
That's all. That's what we're gonnado. We're gonna be the glue
if that holds you together, right, the big dog mat and and it's
your girl, Corneo PA's here's mysnares. This podcast was recorded in the
(29:18):
iHeartRadio Podcasting Center. Thanks for listening.
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