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This podcast was recorded in the IHeart Radio line of Podcasting Center. It's
your girl, Courtneyo. It's yourbig dog man saying this the difference between
me and you say, what's yourtruth? What everybody else is thinking?
That say whatever comes to your mind. We get sick and shop it up.
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But today we got time. Ilove that grain. Yo yo yo.
It's your girl, COURTNEYO. Andit's finally the big Dogs and we
are here for another episode of sporadicthoughts. And we gonna pick some brains
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and I'm gonna pick Maxx brain andhes gonna pick my brain, and day
let's scoop. But you're not slowemotion, slow emotion. How the decent
day going on so far? Yeah, me too, come up and walking
on the reservoir, just clearing mythoughts and getting my mind together. Yeah,
you know, but I can't dothat walk. That walk scares man,
dude, you know I can seehow it can be. Yeah,
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I'll be thinking about like Freddy Kruegerand Jason and everybody was popping off the
woods on the reservoir so little geesethem. Yeah then too, Yeah,
No, I cannot do the reservoirwalk. I will walk to hell on
hot coast walk the reservoir at that. But about yourself, I'm good.
You know, I just got upand actually went to the gym today.
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I hadn't been to came back fromI'm the Beautiful Jamaica. So yeah,
I said, let me go aheadand get back into my routine. So
I went a head and knocked itout this morning. Then, you know
a little better rock and roll foshow. Yeah, what's on your mind?
We got today? A lot ison my mind today. We got
a lot to digress and pick aparttoday. But first I want to start
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with miss Harley Rustle. Carly,Carly, Carly, I mean, Carly
set us back a thousand years,man. Yeah, and and I hate
that, you know. And andI really owe a an apology to every
every white male with a big beardthat drives a pickup truck, free carle
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Confederate flag toting man because I justknew that they ain't kidnapped Carly. So
I just want to say, Iapologize since who are you down a little
bit? But miss Carly Russell,Carly Russell, she um disappeared out of
thin lair in Alabama. That's right, That is definitely not the state to
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disappear in because we all know thehistory of things, you know, and
places like that. And she claimedthat she had seen a baby in the
highway, toddler like baby maybe alongthe major highway, and she stopped to
help the child and then was justyou know, disappeared in thin air.
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Yeah, right, Yeah, thebaby was like the bait that she used,
and um, and all of asudden, she just you know,
pops buck back up at home,and everybody, like, we put out
a nationwide hunt Facebook hot we weresearching for you. Yeah, we were
searching for her because you know,like it's a lot of women, black
women, especially black people that havejust disappeared in thin air. So you
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know, we were trying to findyou. Yeah, really was the hunt.
We were on the hunt for Carly. And it turns out that everything
was a lie. Like she hadresearched the movie Taken and like how to
abduct somebody's type stuff. Yeah,and like it turns out I think she
was mad at her boyfriend or somethinglike that. So that's what we're doing.
Fight Like, girl, you couldhave just put your phone on do
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not disturb. See. But thiswhole story of a baby on a highway.
Yeah, so just American on fiveright, and didn't you see it.
I don't know, what's say,two year old, three year old
baby just walking. That's kind ofsuspect, right, Yeah, it really
was. And honestly, when Ifirst heard it, I didn't want to
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believe it was not true. ButI'm like, yeah, yeah, you
know, you're just like whatever.Yeah, I'm trying to get to give
her the benefit of it now.And man, yeah, so she really
thought or thumpted it it because that'swhat she on. She thinketed it.
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It'd be smart to say there wasa baby. That's the best she could
come a baby. Yeah, andthen she was at like the red roof
in and they were keeping the workershad said they've seen her or something.
But yeah, I'm just I'm upsetwith Carly because like, if you wanted
to just take a break, yeahfrom life, you should have did that
without all of that do not disturbit. Could have lost anything in the
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room for about two three days,James, Yeah, you know, you
could have did a whole lot ofthings. Yeah, And you know what,
I hate to make a joke outof it and make a mockery out
of it because you know, shemay have been dealing with some real mental
health issues or you know, orjust pressure. Sometimes you get pressure and
you just want to check out fora moment, but just check out without
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the story. Yeah yeah, andyou know what, her life will probably
be hell afterwards. And I feelsorry for every person that becomes missing after
this because it's like the chod WolfStore. Yeah for real. So I'm
just upset. I'm praying for you, Cardie. I'm praying for your your
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mental strength and everything. But damn, Carley, I've seen her boyfriend said,
uh, you know, try tobehoove about her mental capacity all that.
Yeah, I mean, but damn, what did you need a little
bit on everybody? Yeah, I'mreal, I want say bully, but
they're gonna you got some jokes comingyour way. Yeah you really do,
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Carly. You earned it, honey. I've seen they were calling her Carly
Smellett. Yeah, I've seen that, and they had like the picture where
her face just transferred to I mean, what make people just make up stuff
like that? Like that's that's isthat your five minutes of fame? What's
really deep? Like you couldn't havethought it was gonna come out the way
you thought it was going to likethere was no way possible. And then
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I heard like after she got abductedfrom her story, she ended up like
being by her cousin's house or somethinglike that. What a yeah, what
a coincidence? Yeah, and didn'tlike her parents and brother day all on
TV crime and everything, like,man if I had been Carly's mom,
Like, girl, what's wrong withyou? A chestise? Yeah, like
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y'all have had me all on TV. We crying and putting out ap beats
for you, and it had earbeing proved like I ain't raised you this
ye like you always with you?Why you always lying? She should have
made it gonna pick a switch infront of everybody that we appreciate that.
I hate to hear that sometimes beinglike that, I guess, I mean,
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damn. Another note is want totalk about some uh, these these
black queens kind of messing up alittle. Okay, what we got I
didn't capture the woman's name, butwe do have a Houston resident that was
getting down with the trend and gettingdown and Dubie, what's going out there
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to see the whole beautiful scenery andjust get her snapchat on She's never a
little too much. Obviously she did. Yeah, apparently we have a woman
that was arrested for screaming too loudand basically, uh, I look at
it. Basically she was her voiceto a man. Yeah. You know
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some of these these Middle Eastern countries, they still have that that that rule
of thumb rule. They can beattheir wives with nothing bigger than hum.
And you know, a woman raisingtheir voice to a man, especially in
public in them country. Yeah,and that and that's like, you know,
when you go to other countries,you follow their rules, like your
big American eyes entitled self. Itdoes not matter when you go over to
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a foreign country. And like shewas renting a car and they wouldn't give
her her something back, something fromwhere she got a little ratch you Yeah,
basically, and she got loud andthey clink clink locked her up and
I think she faced them like acouple of years in prison. Definitely screaming,
Yeah, definitely a man in publicallegedly allegedly. Yeah, but I
mean you always got know the rulesof the game for you play, Yeah,
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you really do. Just can't goand not know what's going on in
some places, you know, Um, she messed around and actually be let
me order a hamburger or something likeman cows is sacred over ye. Yeah.
So that's one thing that I've alwaysbeen. You know, um,
I'll say mind conscious of my wife, or we're gonna pick you know where
we're going whatever whatever take the kidswould have. We gotta make sure these
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kids is acting right, yeah,because I gotta make sure you know,
they adn't how they're doing that,and I gotta, yeah it, discipline
them in and then it'd be likethat ain't what's happening now I'm in the
claim because they ain't got no hometraining real, yeah, or you gotta
humble yourselves with these countries like thatmight have worked in America definitely, you
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know it would have worked. That'sjust how we get down. But especially
like why people forget it's Middle Eastyea. And the the view of women's
totally different. They don't burn theirbrawls, like there's no woman's liberation as
country just like probably not getting lookedat this property right just now two twenty
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three like this century, yeah,definitely, So you definitely gotta when you
travel to four one, you haveto adapt to their rules. They don't
adapt to you right right that go, and you know they can't wait to
get an American. Yeah, exactly, just like you know the Brittany Grenn
situation. When you go over tothe other countries, you gotta follow their
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rules, same type of thing.You know. You know what Americans been
messing out the past couple of monthsa matter of fact, off the subject,
but on the subject of messing up. We had an American soldier that
was from my understanding, he was, I guess dismissed from the army in
Korea. You know, they gotthat DMZ line, but he thought to
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be a bright idea across that NorthKorea line. And now he got it.
Saily as detained in Korea. Weneed somebody you have to exchange for
something. Oh wow, yeah,he crossing. Why do people like do
you think you are above the law? Yeah? When I heard, I
was like, ain't no way.Yeah, that's just like he was asking
for it. Oh man, whyyou want to play with like your kore
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playing Russian roulette right North Korea witha little Yeah, that's what you want
to play with the haircut like it'swild. Yeah, that's yeah. They
completely under dictatorship and control and Idon't heard a lot of wild stuff.
Man, I don't heard like yourhouse burned down, you better go running
there and save their picture of thepresident. Seriously, no laws, so
like a law like they have peoplethat readily come up and just check your
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house makes your dream? No duston his picture? You got some dust?
You going to jail? Then theyhave it work two three generations like
mama can go and your kid cango. You all go to jail like
for real, And that's you know, and it makes sense because that's why
I realized a lot of Asian culture. They'd be like, you shame my
family, and they'd be real seriousbecause we all can go to jail for
your goofy as you know what I'msaying. Yeah, it makes sense when
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they'd be like, no, youyou're shone from the family or you bringing
shame. Wow, I'm not going. And that's just their culture, it
really is. It's weird dust youknow what I mean. That's that's a
law to them. That's a law, like like the law law heartage right
there. Ever realize that, butdamn that's crazy. That's why. Yeah.
I mean, my little bro,we were looking at some stuff.
I'm like, that's a lot justoh my god. They only have a
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like I only say, like threeor four channels on TV and they're allowed
to watch on like an hour interneta day normally under control control. Yeah,
damn't. I don't know. IfI'm put a career on my bucket
list, I wouldn't. You know, well, you talk it was cool,
but yeah nor Korea no, no, no, the rules of the
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game where you played, absolutely,That's all I can say about that.
Yes, M. So what youbumping? What's new? What? What?
You've been listening to music? Wi? Um? You know, I'm
a school so I'm still stuck,okay, kind of listening more it might
come on, but you know,I'm a m I've been listening to Summer
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Walker Scissor and then really I've beenin the mood of making my own music.
So yeah, I'm back on that. You know what. It's crazy
because the big though I thought aboutgetting that bootlight, might as well might
as well, yeah tracks down,just listen to my yeah for real,
So I've really been on my own, my own thing. Well, I
mean, what's new today? Uh? I like that Little Dirk album.
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I mean it's like a month ortwo old. Okay, yea almost healing.
That was a good one. Um, you can actually really listen to
it out. Um ain't all superkill killed right? Yeah? Um?
And you like, um like adevout Muslim now or something. Uh yeah
he's been out. Yeah yeah,he's been for a little while, but
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you know he let it be known. Um No, A lot of that
Gunna album is uh magan that's beenoff that. There's a lot of people
listening to the Gunna album now thereis, And I don't know why they
feel like they can't. And Ifeel like, if you already listening to
R Kelly, huh, why can'tyou listen to you? You know in
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the game. And that's kind ofthing that brings me to the Kodak Black
and UM six nine situation where youknow a lot of people were screaming they
don't want to work with Kodak nomore because he worked with him. Man
with the Kodak saying he said,man, I'm not even getting ready to
move, like we just a million, were going a million on the verse
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and Kodak Black like, well,it's the money, the money, the
money. Yeah, you know whatI'm saying, Like he ain't went against
nothing, you know what I'm saying, um, and like, UM,
I don't know why y'all also stuckon that because in the streets, y'all
deal with rats. Listen every day. Listen. I'm gonna say this is
this is a shot, but nota shot baby, shot out. I
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ain't never seen where someone can justyou know, right up on somebody,
snitch on somebody, and then theystill be in the same environment, the
same in your face still and nowyou like, that's the man that told
on me. Like, yeah,it's a different you know what I'm saying,
Like, I ain't never seen nothinglike this church. Uh, it
appears that that rules don't apply nomore, you know what I'm saying.
It opened my eyes. And there'sa few, Yeah, there's a few
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I like, but you know,the big dog, the civilians. So
I stay in my lane for sure. That's why I like it out.
But I ain't into all the otherpolitics because I'm not a street person,
you know what I mean. Idon't get my money in the streets.
So you know that's the definition tostreet person and me get your money in
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the streets. He's a street guy. Now, I don't get my money
in streets. I don't have to. I'm sure it's there if I needed
to, But I'm gonna keep rockingout so I can have the longevity in
it, right right right, Yeah, because my street dudes, I know
they either did or locked up.That's the end goal. That's that's like
there's no other way around it.Or like fifty years old trying to work.
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Yeah, and like factories just startingout, people fall in love with
the lifestyle. Do people forgetting likeyou like pitching about to hunt it up?
Why you still gotta be in thegame if you there's something to make
that money legal? Like why don'tyou want to have to constantly live in
fear of you getting caught somebody tellingon you or you know what I mean,
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somebody coming to take what you gotbecause they're looking at you with jealous
of envious eyes, Like why doyou want to live like that forever in
your life? After a while,it comes a time where you gotta I
mean, I believe you know you'dbe like, damn, I just made
this, You're gonna quick can't herehere, So you're kind of like,
oh, I just get some morebecause then it came easy. But you
gotta realize, like it ain't gonnalast forever. You gotta legalize its kind
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of way, something like aren't youup being here? Right up? So
go ahead and figure it out whereyou can continue having a cash flow.
Yeah, absolutely illegal. Illegal,that's the key word. Legal. Yeah,
real, it's possible. I've seenit happen, so that's mad while
But yeah, I listened to theGun album. I love it. It's
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dope. Have to check it out. You know, he says some things
in there, knowledge good. He'skilling young thugs, that business business and
you know what, Matt, Idon't even really listen to like that rap
anymore because I say that, Imean, I don't mean like that,
but I just don't check them fortythree you know what I mean? Like
that? Right? Like I hearmy sons listening to that. It might
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be a catchy song. Yeah,yeah, I don't move you no more
like that. Just don't move melike that, no more like what what
degrees on easily? Yeah, that'sone of my workout wuts. Yeah,
yeah, for sure, absolutely upuntil then I'm get all that for sure.
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But yo, listen on a seriousnote, Florida, what the hell
are y'all doing? And what thehell are y'all thinking, yeah, break
that down, because Florida is wilding. They are actually putting in their curriculum
and it's already passed. They they'reputting it in their curriculum to teach kids
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that black people benefited off slavery.I have one question they school curriculum?
How who? Who? Who?Who? Who thought of this? Yeah?
How? How? And they somany approvals first of all? Yeah,
and benefited how in what way?And y'all ain't tored them streets up
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yet, y'all ain't y'all ain't rightfor that? Yeah, like benefited off
of slavery? How? Okay?Because like during slavery and even after slavery,
we all know why Jim Crow lawswere created. Definitely because black people
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had all of the skills after slavery, they did everything right you, So
is that what you call it benefit? Like like we were forced to do
that shit, sixteen seventeen hour daysgetting beaten, Like, oh you've been
if you learned a skill trade,Yeah, you learned how to cook,
Yeah, you learn how to youknow, mechanics stuff, you know,
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plumber stuff. Like, no,you can't say it some benefit, y'all?
And who who? Who is theperson that see, I'm not to
do more recent that was starting tohit me a little bit, like there's
no way that should have got toprove that anyway got to the table,
right, That shouldn't even to thetable, right. And it's the whole
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critical race theory. You know they'retrying to say now that um like when
they teach this stuff in school,white kids are made to feel less.
No, no, that's not it'shistory. You got to teach everything.
You can't just tell something history.You got you got to all the history.
Yeah, and it's already been erased. So so you now you're telling
me you can erase it and justreplace it with something that it's totally false.
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And that goes to back like weneed to start teaching our children like
our own history, forget curriculum likethat. That that's that's a message right
there. That's just let us knowthat that stuff starts in the home,
definitely, And all the people inFlorida should be protesting this and it should
be going hard. You know,we might need to stir some and you're
ready. He starts off with Floridabecause y'all ain't standing up right. Florida
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need some milk over there. Yeah, it's just not adding up, you
know. Um for them to evensuggest, yeah, did not teach the
proper stuff and then to be like, well, it's let it be known
that they benefited. Yeah, andyou know what, it was already fabricated
anyway. Definitely, So now you'rejust gonna go ahead and just change it.
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That's just the climate we live in. And um, and that brings
me back to the country singer JasonAldean, Right, and that's been heavy
topic on Facebook topic right now.Yeah, and um, like even some
of my friends, I'm just kindof looking at him like you don't see
okay, so this is perfect allright, Okay, so I can hear
your perspective on So Jason Aldean,let me tell him a little Bason Aldean
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is a gentleman who is in countrymusic. Um, he wrote a song
I believe it's called small Town andhe's speaking about well, okay, but
what she's looking at the lyrics though, but I'll tell you about Mark Okay.
So he's speaking about, you know, basically, you know, the
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things that they're going on, likehey, when we had those riots,
when we were standing up protesting andthings of that nature. He's saying,
yeah, try that ship in asmall town. But I look at it
as well, he's entitled to hishis his freedom of speech. Absolutely,
he's speaking on what he knows andwhat he sees. So in our culture
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or just in the hip hop culture, or in any music gendre, people
are speaking on what they know,what they see. So there's no difference
to me of him of like,let's just say, Koda back, since
we're talking money, he talked aboutrunning drills and popping peels and selling drugs.
That's his environment, Okay, andthen momady, that's what he's speaking
about. You know. Um theymight even say something about allegedly maybe kill
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a copper F twelve. Yeah,he's that's that's what you wanna talk about.
I don't hate Jason's doing nothing wrong. I think what it is is
that it's because it's coming from wellit's coming from this side of the politics,
that it's like, yeah, andthis is what's been on pressing.
Watched the video and like it wasshot in front of the courthouse in Tennessee
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where like a lot of black peoplewere hung and yeah, the video it
has like snapshots of the Black LivesMatter pro test. But my take on
it, like, okay, everybodyisn't tied up to freedom of speech,
but it reminds me of a sundowntown. Now, are you familiar with the
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sundowntown? Now, Back in theday, there was towns where black people
were literally not allowed in once thesun go down. Ohio is actually one
of those towns I heard while Buchaneis like that science see black as yeah
for real, and like black people, if you got caught in these towns
after those hours, you were literallykilled yea, yeah, tortured and killed.
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So like a lot of the symbolism, it just reminded me of that,
and I just want to know whatyou had to know, Like it
definitely has to me a prejudice motive. But I can't be upset because the
things that he talks about we dodisplay you know, we do kill black
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on black crime, we do doall this, and then promoted so by
him saying, try all this sillyshit in our town or whatever. Hey,
that's just what he feels. Heknows it might be a small city
or rule se like we're about thisand you know what, little boys,
and right, that's and that's whatI was getting ready to say, I
think the more white people I've seentalk about it made it a black and
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white issue, because I've seen oneperson say, well, what about Cardi
B singing wap? Like when youjust made it a black and white issue
right there when you said that,I mean that's wild. They use that
right, yeah, like anything andand and that's his environment, that's his
environment. And my take with stufflike that is I have a choice not
to listen to the ship facts,and I don't get on Facebook and argue
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with people's opinions because everybody feels howthey feel. Because when little Baby made
that song the bigger picture, whichwas dope, Yeah, they could take
that as that as well too,or anyone can take that as as anything.
But I don't got a problem withwith the with the man singing his
song. Yeah, I just don'tlisten to the saying his truth. Hey
go get the bread broy to me. You know that was a good business
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play in my mind, like,oh, fam found him away, get
to the bag and he knew whohis uh demograph was and who support it
was. Then when we talk aboutbeing in the projects with pissy hallways and
mattresses, flipping on mattresses, weknew who are demography and all of that.
You know, it's unfortunate what itis, but yeah, that's just
speaking the truth, babe. Whatever, Like, don't listen to it.
I seen he had like thirteen millionviews in like eight days days. I'm
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like, damn, way to goahead, and um, controversy sales.
You know, it was almost likea controversy sales. Definite, yeah it
does. And then on the flipside it when he I think he made
another song back in the day aboutescaping from a small town. Okay,
so you know what I mean,boys, just deeper and dee, deeper
and deeper. You know what Ithink about that. That's that's a good
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topic. We want to know whatthe enquire minds about that. I feel
like the two that, you know, just freedom of speech has been taking
away, like people, everybody's sosoft, so sensitive, like yeah,
absolutely, you don't really we can'tsay what the folks on our mind.
And then we got nothing. NowI'll be on a complete you know,
dictatorship. Yeah for real, Like, hey, like you have a choice
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to listen to it definitely or notlisten to period, right, and hey,
it is what it is. Weall know what the country was built
on so good surprised mostly surprises meanymore. No, I don't, don't
absolutely speaking of control, y'all.Cut you cut that movie, the Tybron
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that was and you know what,even the music in there, okay,
the music in the back okay,And I gotta go home again and watch
it to pick it apart. Butbut this is what I've seen and clone
and why did they clone Tyrone?It's like the man Okay, it's controlling
everything about Definitely black people, definitely, And okay, first it was the
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chicken and you know what I thoughtof the Popeye's Chicken sandwich craze. Definitely
a y'all cut up for that,damn Popeye's Chicken. And what else?
Did I see? The purple juice? And you know what I thought about
Lean and Communion church? And whatelse did I see? The pimp?
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The whore and a drug dealer?And guess what else I picked apart the
perm Definitely the power. Yeah yeah, And it's like, okay, we
could put all this stuff into allthese products and people don't even know and
have mind controls exactly. It's apart of the plan that you know.
But they hit a lot of keypoints reminded me like, Okay, they're
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pushing a certain way to control.Yeah, you know what I mean.
Like the perm to me was likewhen they put the products to control people's
mind or whatever in the movie.It was a simulation, you know what
what we were trying to do.I believe UM as a as a whole
a black man. Yeah, Likewe can have a lot of we got
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beautiful natural hair, yeah, butto be assimilated in tu this country,
we felt like we had to havestraight hair. Yeah, you know.
And even like now studies are comingout where women have five roids and you
know when casting from palms. Yeah, you know what I mean. So
the more we try to assimilate,the more it actually hurts us. And
even Um with the white substance,you know, that reminded me of like
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the Black Panther era when they seenthe black panthers on top distributing food to
the communities. What did they do. They flooded the hood with dogs,
They flooded it and it en rightyeah right right chicken literally, So it's
just like a mind control thing.And then with the cloning, like you
know, with so many reports nowsaying that different people are being cloned.
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And I don't want to say toomuch because I don't want like our I
don't want to think graz but um. And you know when people make these
movies, you think they just pulledthat shut out of the Scott. Oh
this gotta be something, okay.So I was always talked. There's always
a little bit of truth in ajoke. So there's always a little bit
of truth in these movies that belike, oh, it can't be and
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you realize fifteen years later, likeoh, snaps, now we got this.
Yeah like the movie, Yeah,now we got this. But the
Oregon Harveston, We're already able topick our children's eye colors and things like
that. So why wouldn't they beable to clone people? You know?
And I don't know who they isto go whoever they you know, the
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world be able to you know what, I'm gonna have to go on TikTok
and see what the people are sayingabout the breakdown of this movie. Like
I said, I gotta go backand watch it again. And it's a
lot of hidden messages and there isand this Jimmie Foxes in this movie,
soup bro. That's why they wastalking about James. You know, um,
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I thought it was dope. Itwas something different. Um. But
it was also like a pay attentionthough. Yeah, and even um,
like with religion. Remember when peoplein the church and they passing the communion
around, and it's basically saying thatinstead of like or we use religion to
oppress people, religion was used tooppress people. And we continue to fall
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in that trap because we put ourfaith in all these mystical definitely you know,
ideologies instead of being the spiritual beingsthat we should and and we sometimes
have a tendency you see. Youknow, we sometimes have a tendency to
fall into those traps and we're livingfor this whole Yeah, you know what.
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But see because now you sporadically,they had to give us on who
they is, right, America hadto have America had to give us hope.
A person without hope won't do nothing. You know what I'm saying.
They had to give us hope,so I would with the hope was that
within the religion that they America fedus. Yeah, so we start and
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then you know, they taught usthat our true spirituality religions were evil,
which you know, the more welearned. We learned that they aren't.
And even when people get the holyghost right that comes from voodoo Dutch,
they you know, say it wasevil, but it's people being yeah,
I don't want to say possessed,but like a spiritual getting getting out.
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Yeah, yeah, it happens,and people don't even realize what's going on.
And it's just a lot of symbolizedsymbolism in that movie. And I
really got to go back and dissectit and pick it apart. It was
really dope, y'all. Y'all checkthat out on Netflix. Yeah who And
even like when Erica Badou was singingcall I got a bag just to switch
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up to work, right, youhear it? That was the first thing
I thought of when I heard that, and I was like, oh,
they was thinking the same thing.I like, it's it kind of reminds
me of them the Jordan Peel andthe Quentin Tarantino movies, like where You've
really got to watch. It wasalways like a layer and a message into
something and it's just like you justsee the service right now, but what
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about Yeah, I can't wait tohear other people's opinions and breakdowns on the
movie. In Yeah, I'm gonnago to TikTok. I know it's there,
I said, I know it's there. Um, I got you know
what you know? I think Ican't say I'm putting my foot in my
mouth, but I'm always somehow pokingthe bear. And uh, it happened
like that because I am a personthat that says was on my mind exactly
(32:28):
how I'm thinking and how I'm feeling. So last week I made a post
and I spoke about I'm not teachingmy son's to be a stepfather. You
know what I mean. Um,I'm leaving by example and you know,
now they'll be able to see andunderstand that power and importance of a family
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and and you know, being responsibleand just what hard work and sacrifice you
know pays off and a lot ofh I'm gonna say it's a lot of
single mothers. I was like,what you mean, because I think they
felt like I was attacking them.And no, it wasn't an attack on
single mothers. Um, because it'snothing wrong you know, having a stepfather.
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I had a stepfather, not wronghaving a stepfather. But what I
was pretty much saying, I guesswithout saying it, but needed to clarify
a little more, a little moredetail was that. Okay, so I'm
not teaching my sons to be astepfather all right. Now, what that
means to me is keep your shipin your pants. Most marriages end on
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you know, infidelity, you know, and in finances. But infidelity is
up there now. I've always beena person that believed in marriage. You
know what I'm saying. Um,I've married my children's mothers, you feel
me, And I'm teaching them marriagebefore children. And that's something I strongly
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believed in and believe in and um, even though it might not have been
displayed from my first Uh, Idon't know, you know what I'm saying,
but that's what I that's what Ibelieve in. Though. So if
you don't see yourself, you know, being married to this this woman and
having a future like that, youdon't need to be thinking about trying to
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have a kid. Another thing isin my mind. I was always taught
too, if you ain't wanting todie for it, then you don't need
that. Yeah. So hey,and you know, as a single mom
boys almost grown, I don't seehow a single mom could attack you because
I teach my boys the same thinglike, if you want to have kids,
didn't be with that woman. It'sjust just less stress. It's less
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stress, and it's the building ofa family unit. That's the strongest thing,
that's the greatest threat to the wholeparadigm of things is a family unit.
And if I could do it allover again, of course I would
want the whole You know what Imean, Things happen, So don't think
that the big dog saying oh justthat. No no, no, no,
no no. I'm just saying Iwant my children to think marriage and
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then kids and what comes with that. I'm showing them by example. You
know, I'm giving them what Ididn't have. Okay. Now, also
on the other end of it,when you go into a relationship when someone
else has children. Okay, sonow you not only you know, have
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feelings and emotions with this child andthis and the mother. But what if
you guys, don't make it rightand then now not only do you lose
your woman, but you also losethat kid, that child. You have
no right to see that. Youknow that don't have no right that's that
Now you're not the biological parents.So now you you get hurt twice.
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So by me saying that is basicallyjust don't be a stepfather, Just be
a father to Joe kids with women, like take some time out single moms.
You don't have to jump into arelationship with every man you meet,
Like your kids don't have to meetevery man that you date, because when
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you date those men and you breakup with those men, you didn't sever
the bond that that child and thatyou know your mate, Like, you
can't do that to people. Likeeverybody gets emotionally attached. So if you
don't see a future with this person, why you got them hanging around your
house and with your kids, Likeit gets harder to rip that band aid
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off. Yeah, it's a realharder. Yeah, And I don't think
people think about that. Like whenyou with somebody and you break up with
them and you ain't been around yourkids and everything, Like your child is
breaking up with that person, andyou know they might see that person out
in public trying to speak to themand wave at them, and the adult
if the asshole they throw a madshape to. Definitely, you know,
I seen that. You know't gotto go through all of that and see
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I feel like I need to speakon it a little bit. But y'all
just gonna get the book Truth ofa Law. So it's on Amazon right
now for like six ninety five.I got it for the load. Just
get it. But I was marriedto my oldest son's mother, you know.
Um, and people, oh yougotta know he's second marriage. No
no, no, no no.You know, situations happened where the more
(37:15):
stories you disappeared for two years,you know. Unfortunately, Um, addiction
can do that. Yeah, sothings just didn't go as planned. It
was just time to move forward.It wasn't you know, because of and
you tried it. I mean right, So that's how that didn't go and
didn't work. More, go gocheck it out, you know, definitely
(37:37):
it might be a t it mightbe a TV series coming up. And
I'm a mama right massage, Butnow you know, um, I see,
UM, it's hurtful to know thatmy child is being raised by someone
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or was raised by someone else.Um, you know, some long story,
but that's hurtful. You know.I'm like, damn, you know,
or even when I before I metmy my my my current wife Kayla,
before you know, I'm dating andyou know, I just had that
one child and and then I'm playingstep daddy to other people's kids, and
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it got to a point I wasmore of the parents than they were.
I'm like, I can be doingthis with my own child. Yeah,
And that's when I made my mindup, Like, nah, bro,
well I'm gonna make sure that myson. No, don't be a stepfather
and not even just be your homeyou know. Or I didn't see some
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guys be better stepfathers than real fatherand that's good, it is needed,
it isn't needed. I'm not sayingthat step I'm not not even in a
good sense. Yeah, Like you'retaking care of all these other kids and
kids I'm saying the time with otherpeople's children, and you got your own
ship. You can be doing thatway. Real men shut out to Jay
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White, you know, he saidyou said it and it was fact.
What real men don't want to takecare of their own man, Listen,
I never got that don't make senseto me. I don't care what relationship
you have with the mother. Ijust don't care about that, Like none
of that should even matter. Likeif your child is not in your life,
then you have every right to fight. It's hard for your child,
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And I don't care how hard.It gets. It is no dollar amount
or no amount of money that canno I dig it. And it's it's
not a high percentage of men thatreally want to be the really tried.
Let's just say five percent. Idon't know that's much as Okay them thember
was has that I've really been trying, and the other you just fall into
(39:50):
that category because they used to seeingthat. Yeah you know what I'm saying.
I happened to be one of them. Man, I'm trying, trying.
I got denied from a military judge. They have my child, you
know, at my my my hearing, You're like, oh you're young.
Mother told me I'm African American andI'm in the military. I don't have
nobody kise like go to Iraq towatch him. I was like, wow,
I mean my mama might depended shoutout to me. Yea, my
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mom my opinion. She traveled withme in the military. Yeah, man,
she's smart. And they still donot know. But you know,
um, there are a few,you know, but let's not get it
twisted. A majority just ain'tle andyeah, and now you know, I
see more single dads than ever.Yeah, you know that's that's it's becoming
(40:36):
a thing, and it's unfortunate,yeah, but it's becoming a thing now
single dads, you know. AndI applaud definitely, And I applaud you
guys because a lot of men won'tstep up to the plate, definitely,
the beat the child off with theirmama, their sister, auntie, whatever.
A lot of these guys are steppingup to the plate and really doing
it. Like I'm seeing more dadsat the parent teacher conferences and football games
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and everything. Now I don't wantto say, but I am. Statistics
have shown that children being raised bya single parent, they come, they
become more successful when they're being raisedby their father. So with that being
said, that just lets you knowhow important is to have a male or
the father in the household. Um, not saying women can't, but there's
just certain things that they might graspyou And you know what, because leadership,
(41:22):
because man lead, you know.So it might just be because some
some of that. Yah. Lookevery time Alex, we gotta get a
new mic, that's why. Butnah, but that's a statistic though,
you know, I just want tothrow that out there that you know,
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um, they're more successful when they'reraised by a father than they are by
the mother. And that's not ashot. Yeah, it's just a fact,
and it is. It's needed,It's definitely needed, definitely needed.
And you know, I worked anddid a lot because I had to with
my So I don't ever want themto get the get into mind a state
of saying like, well, mymom did it all. You ain't no
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better than my mom. So Idon't ever want it because I had to
be in that state times and Ihad to realize that, Yeah, your
mom had to do all that becauseshe had no choice. Yeah, and
shout out to my queen, becauseI do be holding that standard sometimes like
my mom. I'm gonna used tomy mom did like yo, mama,
(42:24):
bad woman, right and the chickenside. But I get in that moment
that's and that's because that's what yousaw. That's what I saw, and
you like what my mom did itall and we turned out all right.
But you can't think like that,like nobody want to can get training and
condition. But I'm glad that I'mable to start realizing it and waking up
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from that you know, cycle behavior, that it wasn't the right way to
go about it. You can keepdone, but it doesn't. It's not
the right way to go about it. Absolutely, So yeah, I'm trying
to play my part the best thatI can without, you know, for
the most part, the example ofwhat to do. And I don't know
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how I'm doing, but they're stillbreathing, they eat right. I'm gonna
just apologize now some heathens later.I did all I can do, and
then, you know, that's howI'll be feeling with my boys. I'm
like, where everybody out right,everybody working anybody else? So, hey,
I guess I did what I hadto do. Older son just turned
twenty one. Like them, Ididn't raise the whole legal human you know
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what I mean. Like, I'vebeen responsible for this skid for twenty one
years and he turned out pretty allright. So hey, wasn't all good,
but it wasn't all bad. Boomsporadic thoughts. Yes, indeed.
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and I'm gonna pick Maxx brain andhes gonna pick my brain, and day
let's scoop. But you're not slowemotion, slow emotion. How the decent
day going on so far? Yeah, me too, come up and walking
on the reservoir, just clearing mythoughts and getting my mind together. Yeah,
you know, but I can't dothat walk. That walk scares man,
dude, you know I can seehow it can be. Yeah,
(01:11):
I'll be thinking about like Freddy Kruegerand Jason and everybody was popping off the
woods on the reservoir so little geesethem. Yeah then too, Yeah,
No, I cannot do the reservoirwalk. I will walk to hell on
hot coast walk the reservoir at that. But about yourself, I'm good.
You know, I just got upand actually went to the gym today.
(01:33):
I hadn't been to came back fromI'm the Beautiful Jamaica. So yeah,
I said, let me go aheadand get back into my routine. So
I went a head and knocked itout this morning. Then, you know
a little better rock and roll foshow. Yeah, what's on your mind?
We got today? A lot ison my mind today. We got
a lot to digress and pick aparttoday. But first I want to start
(01:56):
with miss Harley Rustle. Carly,Carly, Carly, I mean, Carly
set us back a thousand years,man. Yeah, and and I hate
that, you know. And andI really owe a an apology to every
every white male with a big beardthat drives a pickup truck, free carle
(02:21):
Confederate flag toting man because I justknew that they ain't kidnapped Carly. So
I just want to say, Iapologize since who are you down a little
bit? But miss Carly Russell,Carly Russell, she um disappeared out of
thin lair in Alabama. That's right, That is definitely not the state to
(02:46):
disappear in because we all know thehistory of things, you know, and
places like that. And she claimedthat she had seen a baby in the
highway, toddler like baby maybe alongthe major highway, and she stopped to
help the child and then was justyou know, disappeared in thin air.
(03:09):
Yeah, right, Yeah, thebaby was like the bait that she used,
and um, and all of asudden, she just you know,
pops buck back up at home,and everybody, like, we put out
a nationwide hunt Facebook hot we weresearching for you. Yeah, we were
searching for her because you know,like it's a lot of women, black
women, especially black people that havejust disappeared in thin air. So you
(03:34):
know, we were trying to findyou. Yeah, really was the hunt.
We were on the hunt for Carly. And it turns out that everything
was a lie. Like she hadresearched the movie Taken and like how to
abduct somebody's type stuff. Yeah,and like it turns out I think she
was mad at her boyfriend or somethinglike that. So that's what we're doing.
Fight Like, girl, you couldhave just put your phone on do
(03:58):
not disturb. See. But thiswhole story of a baby on a highway.
Yeah, so just American on fiveright, and didn't you see it.
I don't know, what's say,two year old, three year old
baby just walking. That's kind ofsuspect, right, Yeah, it really
was. And honestly, when Ifirst heard it, I didn't want to
(04:18):
believe it was not true. ButI'm like, yeah, yeah, you
know, you're just like whatever.Yeah, I'm trying to get to give
her the benefit of it now.And man, yeah, so she really
thought or thumpted it it because that'swhat she on. She thinketed it.
(04:38):
It'd be smart to say there wasa baby. That's the best she could
come a baby. Yeah, andthen she was at like the red roof
in and they were keeping the workershad said they've seen her or something.
But yeah, I'm just I'm upsetwith Carly because like, if you wanted
to just take a break, yeahfrom life, you should have did that
without all of that do not disturbit. Could have lost anything in the
(05:00):
room for about two three days,James, Yeah, you know, you
could have did a whole lot ofthings. Yeah, And you know what,
I hate to make a joke outof it and make a mockery out
of it because you know, shemay have been dealing with some real mental
health issues or you know, orjust pressure. Sometimes you get pressure and
you just want to check out fora moment, but just check out without
(05:21):
the story. Yeah yeah, andyou know what, her life will probably
be hell afterwards. And I feelsorry for every person that becomes missing after
this because it's like the chod WolfStore. Yeah for real. So I'm
just upset. I'm praying for you, Cardie. I'm praying for your your
(05:44):
mental strength and everything. But damn, Carley, I've seen her boyfriend said,
uh, you know, try tobehoove about her mental capacity all that.
Yeah, I mean, but damn, what did you need a little
bit on everybody? Yeah, I'mreal, I want say bully, but
they're gonna you got some jokes comingyour way. Yeah you really do,
(06:08):
Carly. You earned it, honey. I've seen they were calling her Carly
Smellett. Yeah, I've seen that, and they had like the picture where
her face just transferred to I mean, what make people just make up stuff
like that? Like that's that's isthat your five minutes of fame? What's
really deep? Like you couldn't havethought it was gonna come out the way
you thought it was going to likethere was no way possible. And then
(06:29):
I heard like after she got abductedfrom her story, she ended up like
being by her cousin's house or somethinglike that. What a yeah, what
a coincidence? Yeah, and didn'tlike her parents and brother day all on
TV crime and everything, like,man if I had been Carly's mom,
Like, girl, what's wrong withyou? A chestise? Yeah, like
(06:53):
y'all have had me all on TV. We crying and putting out ap beats
for you, and it had earbeing proved like I ain't raised you this
ye like you always with you?Why you always lying? She should have
made it gonna pick a switch infront of everybody that we appreciate that.
I hate to hear that sometimes beinglike that, I guess, I mean,
(07:15):
damn. Another note is want totalk about some uh, these these
black queens kind of messing up alittle. Okay, what we got I
didn't capture the woman's name, butwe do have a Houston resident that was
getting down with the trend and gettingdown and Dubie, what's going out there
(07:40):
to see the whole beautiful scenery andjust get her snapchat on She's never a
little too much. Obviously she did. Yeah, apparently we have a woman
that was arrested for screaming too loudand basically, uh, I look at
it. Basically she was her voiceto a man. Yeah. You know
(08:01):
some of these these Middle Eastern countries, they still have that that that rule
of thumb rule. They can beattheir wives with nothing bigger than hum.
And you know, a woman raisingtheir voice to a man, especially in
public in them country. Yeah,and that and that's like, you know,
when you go to other countries,you follow their rules, like your
big American eyes entitled self. Itdoes not matter when you go over to
(08:26):
a foreign country. And like shewas renting a car and they wouldn't give
her her something back, something fromwhere she got a little ratch you Yeah,
basically, and she got loud andthey clink clink locked her up and
I think she faced them like acouple of years in prison. Definitely screaming,
Yeah, definitely a man in publicallegedly allegedly. Yeah, but I
mean you always got know the rulesof the game for you play, Yeah,
(08:48):
you really do. Just can't goand not know what's going on in
some places, you know, Um, she messed around and actually be let
me order a hamburger or something likeman cows is sacred over ye. Yeah.
So that's one thing that I've alwaysbeen. You know, um,
I'll say mind conscious of my wife, or we're gonna pick you know where
we're going whatever whatever take the kidswould have. We gotta make sure these
(09:09):
kids is acting right, yeah,because I gotta make sure you know,
they adn't how they're doing that,and I gotta, yeah it, discipline
them in and then it'd be likethat ain't what's happening now I'm in the
claim because they ain't got no hometraining real, yeah, or you gotta
humble yourselves with these countries like thatmight have worked in America definitely, you
(09:31):
know it would have worked. That'sjust how we get down. But especially
like why people forget it's Middle Eastyea. And the the view of women's
totally different. They don't burn theirbrawls, like there's no woman's liberation as
country just like probably not getting lookedat this property right just now two twenty
(09:52):
three like this century, yeah,definitely, So you definitely gotta when you
travel to four one, you haveto adapt to their rules. They don't
adapt to you right right that go, and you know they can't wait to
get an American. Yeah, exactly, just like you know the Brittany Grenn
situation. When you go over tothe other countries, you gotta follow their
(10:15):
rules, same type of thing.You know. You know what Americans been
messing out the past couple of monthsa matter of fact, off the subject,
but on the subject of messing up. We had an American soldier that
was from my understanding, he was, I guess dismissed from the army in
Korea. You know, they gotthat DMZ line, but he thought to
(10:35):
be a bright idea across that NorthKorea line. And now he got it.
Saily as detained in Korea. Weneed somebody you have to exchange for
something. Oh wow, yeah,he crossing. Why do people like do
you think you are above the law? Yeah? When I heard, I
was like, ain't no way.Yeah, that's just like he was asking
for it. Oh man, whyyou want to play with like your kore
(11:00):
playing Russian roulette right North Korea witha little Yeah, that's what you want
to play with the haircut like it'swild. Yeah, that's yeah. They
completely under dictatorship and control and Idon't heard a lot of wild stuff.
Man, I don't heard like yourhouse burned down, you better go running
there and save their picture of thepresident. Seriously, no laws, so
like a law like they have peoplethat readily come up and just check your
(11:20):
house makes your dream? No duston his picture? You got some dust?
You going to jail? Then theyhave it work two three generations like
mama can go and your kid cango. You all go to jail like
for real, And that's you know, and it makes sense because that's why
I realized a lot of Asian culture. They'd be like, you shame my
family, and they'd be real seriousbecause we all can go to jail for
your goofy as you know what I'msaying. Yeah, it makes sense when
(11:43):
they'd be like, no, youyou're shone from the family or you bringing
shame. Wow, I'm not going. And that's just their culture, it
really is. It's weird dust youknow what I mean. That's that's a
law to them. That's a law, like like the law law heartage right
there. Ever realize that, butdamn that's crazy. That's why. Yeah.
I mean, my little bro,we were looking at some stuff.
I'm like, that's a lot justoh my god. They only have a
(12:07):
like I only say, like threeor four channels on TV and they're allowed
to watch on like an hour interneta day normally under control control. Yeah,
damn't. I don't know. IfI'm put a career on my bucket
list, I wouldn't. You know, well, you talk it was cool,
but yeah nor Korea no, no, no, the rules of the
(12:30):
game where you played, absolutely,That's all I can say about that.
Yes, M. So what youbumping? What's new? What? What?
You've been listening to music? Wi? Um? You know, I'm
a school so I'm still stuck,okay, kind of listening more it might
come on, but you know,I'm a m I've been listening to Summer
(12:52):
Walker Scissor and then really I've beenin the mood of making my own music.
So yeah, I'm back on that. You know what. It's crazy
because the big though I thought aboutgetting that bootlight, might as well might
as well, yeah tracks down,just listen to my yeah for real,
So I've really been on my own, my own thing. Well, I
mean, what's new today? Uh? I like that Little Dirk album.
(13:16):
I mean it's like a month ortwo old. Okay, yea almost healing.
That was a good one. Um, you can actually really listen to
it out. Um ain't all superkill killed right? Yeah? Um?
And you like, um like adevout Muslim now or something. Uh yeah
he's been out. Yeah yeah,he's been for a little while, but
(13:37):
you know he let it be known. Um No, A lot of that
Gunna album is uh magan that's beenoff that. There's a lot of people
listening to the Gunna album now thereis, And I don't know why they
feel like they can't. And Ifeel like, if you already listening to
R Kelly, huh, why can'tyou listen to you? You know in
(13:58):
the game. And that's kind ofthing that brings me to the Kodak Black
and UM six nine situation where youknow a lot of people were screaming they
don't want to work with Kodak nomore because he worked with him. Man
with the Kodak saying he said,man, I'm not even getting ready to
move, like we just a million, were going a million on the verse
(14:22):
and Kodak Black like, well,it's the money, the money, the
money. Yeah, you know whatI'm saying, Like he ain't went against
nothing, you know what I'm saying, um, and like, UM,
I don't know why y'all also stuckon that because in the streets, y'all
deal with rats. Listen every day. Listen. I'm gonna say this is
this is a shot, but nota shot baby, shot out. I
(14:45):
ain't never seen where someone can justyou know, right up on somebody,
snitch on somebody, and then theystill be in the same environment, the
same in your face still and nowyou like, that's the man that told
on me. Like, yeah,it's a different you know what I'm saying,
Like, I ain't never seen nothinglike this church. Uh, it
appears that that rules don't apply nomore, you know what I'm saying.
It opened my eyes. And there'sa few, Yeah, there's a few
(15:09):
I like, but you know,the big dog, the civilians. So
I stay in my lane for sure. That's why I like it out.
But I ain't into all the otherpolitics because I'm not a street person,
you know what I mean. Idon't get my money in the streets.
So you know that's the definition tostreet person and me get your money in
(15:30):
the streets. He's a street guy. Now, I don't get my money
in streets. I don't have to. I'm sure it's there if I needed
to, But I'm gonna keep rockingout so I can have the longevity in
it, right right right, Yeah, because my street dudes, I know
they either did or locked up.That's the end goal. That's that's like
there's no other way around it.Or like fifty years old trying to work.
(15:52):
Yeah, and like factories just startingout, people fall in love with
the lifestyle. Do people forgetting likeyou like pitching about to hunt it up?
Why you still gotta be in thegame if you there's something to make
that money legal? Like why don'tyou want to have to constantly live in
fear of you getting caught somebody tellingon you or you know what I mean,
(16:15):
somebody coming to take what you gotbecause they're looking at you with jealous
of envious eyes, Like why doyou want to live like that forever in
your life? After a while,it comes a time where you gotta I
mean, I believe you know you'dbe like, damn, I just made
this, You're gonna quick can't herehere, So you're kind of like,
oh, I just get some morebecause then it came easy. But you
gotta realize, like it ain't gonnalast forever. You gotta legalize its kind
(16:38):
of way, something like aren't youup being here? Right up? So
go ahead and figure it out whereyou can continue having a cash flow.
Yeah, absolutely illegal. Illegal,that's the key word. Legal. Yeah,
real, it's possible. I've seenit happen, so that's mad while
But yeah, I listened to theGun album. I love it. It's
(16:59):
dope. Have to check it out. You know, he says some things
in there, knowledge good. He'skilling young thugs, that business business and
you know what, Matt, Idon't even really listen to like that rap
anymore because I say that, Imean, I don't mean like that,
but I just don't check them fortythree you know what I mean? Like
that? Right? Like I hearmy sons listening to that. It might
(17:22):
be a catchy song. Yeah,yeah, I don't move you no more
like that. Just don't move melike that, no more like what what
degrees on easily? Yeah, that'sone of my workout wuts. Yeah,
yeah, for sure, absolutely upuntil then I'm get all that for sure.
(17:52):
But yo, listen on a seriousnote, Florida, what the hell
are y'all doing? And what thehell are y'all thinking, yeah, break
that down, because Florida is wilding. They are actually putting in their curriculum
and it's already passed. They they'reputting it in their curriculum to teach kids
(18:18):
that black people benefited off slavery.I have one question they school curriculum?
How who? Who? Who?Who? Who thought of this? Yeah?
How? How? And they somany approvals first of all? Yeah,
and benefited how in what way?And y'all ain't tored them streets up
(18:41):
yet, y'all ain't y'all ain't rightfor that? Yeah, like benefited off
of slavery? How? Okay?Because like during slavery and even after slavery,
we all know why Jim Crow lawswere created. Definitely because black people
(19:02):
had all of the skills after slavery, they did everything right you, So
is that what you call it benefit? Like like we were forced to do
that shit, sixteen seventeen hour daysgetting beaten, Like, oh you've been
if you learned a skill trade,Yeah, you learned how to cook,
Yeah, you learn how to youknow, mechanics stuff, you know,
(19:23):
plumber stuff. Like, no,you can't say it some benefit, y'all?
And who who? Who is theperson that see, I'm not to
do more recent that was starting tohit me a little bit, like there's
no way that should have got toprove that anyway got to the table,
right, That shouldn't even to thetable, right. And it's the whole
(19:44):
critical race theory. You know they'retrying to say now that um like when
they teach this stuff in school,white kids are made to feel less.
No, no, that's not it'shistory. You got to teach everything.
You can't just tell something history.You got you got to all the history.
Yeah, and it's already been erased. So so you now you're telling
me you can erase it and justreplace it with something that it's totally false.
(20:07):
And that goes to back like weneed to start teaching our children like
our own history, forget curriculum likethat. That that's that's a message right
there. That's just let us knowthat that stuff starts in the home,
definitely, And all the people inFlorida should be protesting this and it should
be going hard. You know,we might need to stir some and you're
ready. He starts off with Floridabecause y'all ain't standing up right. Florida
(20:30):
need some milk over there. Yeah, it's just not adding up, you
know. Um for them to evensuggest, yeah, did not teach the
proper stuff and then to be like, well, it's let it be known
that they benefited. Yeah, andyou know what, it was already fabricated
anyway. Definitely, So now you'rejust gonna go ahead and just change it.
(20:52):
That's just the climate we live in. And um, and that brings
me back to the country singer JasonAldean, Right, and that's been heavy
topic on Facebook topic right now.Yeah, and um, like even some
of my friends, I'm just kindof looking at him like you don't see
okay, so this is perfect allright, Okay, so I can hear
your perspective on So Jason Aldean,let me tell him a little Bason Aldean
(21:15):
is a gentleman who is in countrymusic. Um, he wrote a song
I believe it's called small Town andhe's speaking about well, okay, but
what she's looking at the lyrics though, but I'll tell you about Mark Okay.
So he's speaking about, you know, basically, you know, the
(21:36):
things that they're going on, likehey, when we had those riots,
when we were standing up protesting andthings of that nature. He's saying,
yeah, try that ship in asmall town. But I look at it
as well, he's entitled to hishis his freedom of speech. Absolutely,
he's speaking on what he knows andwhat he sees. So in our culture
(22:02):
or just in the hip hop culture, or in any music gendre, people
are speaking on what they know,what they see. So there's no difference
to me of him of like,let's just say, Koda back, since
we're talking money, he talked aboutrunning drills and popping peels and selling drugs.
That's his environment, Okay, andthen momady, that's what he's speaking
about. You know. Um theymight even say something about allegedly maybe kill
(22:26):
a copper F twelve. Yeah,he's that's that's what you wanna talk about.
I don't hate Jason's doing nothing wrong. I think what it is is
that it's because it's coming from wellit's coming from this side of the politics,
that it's like, yeah, andthis is what's been on pressing.
Watched the video and like it wasshot in front of the courthouse in Tennessee
(22:49):
where like a lot of black peoplewere hung and yeah, the video it
has like snapshots of the Black LivesMatter pro test. But my take on
it, like, okay, everybodyisn't tied up to freedom of speech,
but it reminds me of a sundowntown. Now, are you familiar with the
(23:10):
sundowntown? Now, Back in theday, there was towns where black people
were literally not allowed in once thesun go down. Ohio is actually one
of those towns I heard while Buchaneis like that science see black as yeah
for real, and like black people, if you got caught in these towns
after those hours, you were literallykilled yea, yeah, tortured and killed.
(23:32):
So like a lot of the symbolism, it just reminded me of that,
and I just want to know whatyou had to know, Like it
definitely has to me a prejudice motive. But I can't be upset because the
things that he talks about we dodisplay you know, we do kill black
(23:56):
on black crime, we do doall this, and then promoted so by
him saying, try all this sillyshit in our town or whatever. Hey,
that's just what he feels. Heknows it might be a small city
or rule se like we're about thisand you know what, little boys,
and right, that's and that's whatI was getting ready to say, I
think the more white people I've seentalk about it made it a black and
(24:18):
white issue, because I've seen oneperson say, well, what about Cardi
B singing wap? Like when youjust made it a black and white issue
right there when you said that,I mean that's wild. They use that
right, yeah, like anything andand and that's his environment, that's his
environment. And my take with stufflike that is I have a choice not
to listen to the ship facts,and I don't get on Facebook and argue
(24:40):
with people's opinions because everybody feels howthey feel. Because when little Baby made
that song the bigger picture, whichwas dope, Yeah, they could take
that as that as well too,or anyone can take that as as anything.
But I don't got a problem withwith the with the man singing his
song. Yeah, I just don'tlisten to the saying his truth. Hey
go get the bread broy to me. You know that was a good business
(25:02):
play in my mind, like,oh, fam found him away, get
to the bag and he knew whohis uh demograph was and who support it
was. Then when we talk aboutbeing in the projects with pissy hallways and
mattresses, flipping on mattresses, weknew who are demography and all of that.
You know, it's unfortunate what itis, but yeah, that's just
speaking the truth, babe. Whatever, Like, don't listen to it.
I seen he had like thirteen millionviews in like eight days days. I'm
(25:26):
like, damn, way to goahead, and um, controversy sales.
You know, it was almost likea controversy sales. Definite, yeah it
does. And then on the flipside it when he I think he made
another song back in the day aboutescaping from a small town. Okay,
so you know what I mean,boys, just deeper and dee, deeper
and deeper. You know what Ithink about that. That's that's a good
(25:48):
topic. We want to know whatthe enquire minds about that. I feel
like the two that, you know, just freedom of speech has been taking
away, like people, everybody's sosoft, so sensitive, like yeah,
absolutely, you don't really we can'tsay what the folks on our mind.
And then we got nothing. NowI'll be on a complete you know,
dictatorship. Yeah for real, Like, hey, like you have a choice
(26:11):
to listen to it definitely or notlisten to period, right, and hey,
it is what it is. Weall know what the country was built
on so good surprised mostly surprises meanymore. No, I don't, don't
absolutely speaking of control, y'all.Cut you cut that movie, the Tybron
(26:33):
that was and you know what,even the music in there, okay,
the music in the back okay,And I gotta go home again and watch
it to pick it apart. Butbut this is what I've seen and clone
and why did they clone Tyrone?It's like the man Okay, it's controlling
everything about Definitely black people, definitely, And okay, first it was the
(26:57):
chicken and you know what I thoughtof the Popeye's Chicken sandwich craze. Definitely
a y'all cut up for that,damn Popeye's Chicken. And what else?
Did I see? The purple juice? And you know what I thought about
Lean and Communion church? And whatelse did I see? The pimp?
(27:18):
The whore and a drug dealer?And guess what else I picked apart the
perm Definitely the power. Yeah yeah, And it's like, okay, we
could put all this stuff into allthese products and people don't even know and
have mind controls exactly. It's apart of the plan that you know.
But they hit a lot of keypoints reminded me like, Okay, they're
(27:42):
pushing a certain way to control.Yeah, you know what I mean.
Like the perm to me was likewhen they put the products to control people's
mind or whatever in the movie.It was a simulation, you know what
what we were trying to do.I believe UM as a as a whole
a black man. Yeah, Likewe can have a lot of we got
(28:03):
beautiful natural hair, yeah, butto be assimilated in tu this country,
we felt like we had to havestraight hair. Yeah, you know.
And even like now studies are comingout where women have five roids and you
know when casting from palms. Yeah, you know what I mean. So
the more we try to assimilate,the more it actually hurts us. And
even Um with the white substance,you know, that reminded me of like
(28:26):
the Black Panther era when they seenthe black panthers on top distributing food to
the communities. What did they do. They flooded the hood with dogs,
They flooded it and it en rightyeah right right chicken literally, So it's
just like a mind control thing.And then with the cloning, like you
know, with so many reports nowsaying that different people are being cloned.
(28:47):
And I don't want to say toomuch because I don't want like our I
don't want to think graz but um. And you know when people make these
movies, you think they just pulledthat shut out of the Scott. Oh
this gotta be something, okay.So I was always talked. There's always
a little bit of truth in ajoke. So there's always a little bit
of truth in these movies that belike, oh, it can't be and
(29:10):
you realize fifteen years later, likeoh, snaps, now we got this.
Yeah like the movie, Yeah,now we got this. But the
Oregon Harveston, We're already able topick our children's eye colors and things like
that. So why wouldn't they beable to clone people? You know?
And I don't know who they isto go whoever they you know, the
(29:30):
world be able to you know what, I'm gonna have to go on TikTok
and see what the people are sayingabout the breakdown of this movie. Like
I said, I gotta go backand watch it again. And it's a
lot of hidden messages and there isand this Jimmie Foxes in this movie,
soup bro. That's why they wastalking about James. You know, um,
(29:51):
I thought it was dope. Itwas something different. Um. But
it was also like a pay attentionthough. Yeah, and even um,
like with religion. Remember when peoplein the church and they passing the communion
around, and it's basically saying thatinstead of like or we use religion to
oppress people, religion was used tooppress people. And we continue to fall
(30:15):
in that trap because we put ourfaith in all these mystical definitely you know,
ideologies instead of being the spiritual beingsthat we should and and we sometimes
have a tendency you see. Youknow, we sometimes have a tendency to
fall into those traps and we're livingfor this whole Yeah, you know what.
(30:38):
But see because now you sporadically,they had to give us on who
they is, right, America hadto have America had to give us hope.
A person without hope won't do nothing. You know what I'm saying.
They had to give us hope,so I would with the hope was that
within the religion that they America fedus. Yeah, so we start and
(31:00):
then you know, they taught usthat our true spirituality religions were evil,
which you know, the more welearned. We learned that they aren't.
And even when people get the holyghost right that comes from voodoo Dutch,
they you know, say it wasevil, but it's people being yeah,
I don't want to say possessed,but like a spiritual getting getting out.
(31:23):
Yeah, yeah, it happens,and people don't even realize what's going on.
And it's just a lot of symbolizedsymbolism in that movie. And I
really got to go back and dissectit and pick it apart. It was
really dope, y'all. Y'all checkthat out on Netflix. Yeah who And
even like when Erica Badou was singingcall I got a bag just to switch
(31:45):
up to work, right, youhear it? That was the first thing
I thought of when I heard that, and I was like, oh,
they was thinking the same thing.I like, it's it kind of reminds
me of them the Jordan Peel andthe Quentin Tarantino movies, like where You've
really got to watch. It wasalways like a layer and a message into
something and it's just like you justsee the service right now, but what
(32:05):
about Yeah, I can't wait tohear other people's opinions and breakdowns on the
movie. In Yeah, I'm gonnago to TikTok. I know it's there,
I said, I know it's there. Um, I got you know
what you know? I think Ican't say I'm putting my foot in my
mouth, but I'm always somehow pokingthe bear. And uh, it happened
like that because I am a personthat that says was on my mind exactly
(32:28):
how I'm thinking and how I'm feeling. So last week I made a post
and I spoke about I'm not teachingmy son's to be a stepfather. You
know what I mean. Um,I'm leaving by example and you know,
now they'll be able to see andunderstand that power and importance of a family
(32:52):
and and you know, being responsibleand just what hard work and sacrifice you
know pays off and a lot ofh I'm gonna say it's a lot of
single mothers. I was like,what you mean, because I think they
felt like I was attacking them.And no, it wasn't an attack on
single mothers. Um, because it'snothing wrong you know, having a stepfather.
(33:14):
I had a stepfather, not wronghaving a stepfather. But what I
was pretty much saying, I guesswithout saying it, but needed to clarify
a little more, a little moredetail was that. Okay, so I'm
not teaching my sons to be astepfather all right. Now, what that
means to me is keep your shipin your pants. Most marriages end on
(33:37):
you know, infidelity, you know, and in finances. But infidelity is
up there now. I've always beena person that believed in marriage. You
know what I'm saying. Um,I've married my children's mothers, you feel
me, And I'm teaching them marriagebefore children. And that's something I strongly
(33:58):
believed in and believe in and um, even though it might not have been
displayed from my first Uh, Idon't know, you know what I'm saying,
but that's what I that's what Ibelieve in. Though. So if
you don't see yourself, you know, being married to this this woman and
having a future like that, youdon't need to be thinking about trying to
(34:21):
have a kid. Another thing isin my mind. I was always taught
too, if you ain't wanting todie for it, then you don't need
that. Yeah. So hey,and you know, as a single mom
boys almost grown, I don't seehow a single mom could attack you because
I teach my boys the same thinglike, if you want to have kids,
didn't be with that woman. It'sjust just less stress. It's less
(34:45):
stress, and it's the building ofa family unit. That's the strongest thing,
that's the greatest threat to the wholeparadigm of things is a family unit.
And if I could do it allover again, of course I would
want the whole You know what Imean, Things happen, So don't think
that the big dog saying oh justthat. No no, no, no,
no no. I'm just saying Iwant my children to think marriage and
(35:08):
then kids and what comes with that. I'm showing them by example. You
know, I'm giving them what Ididn't have. Okay. Now, also
on the other end of it,when you go into a relationship when someone
else has children. Okay, sonow you not only you know, have
(35:29):
feelings and emotions with this child andthis and the mother. But what if
you guys, don't make it rightand then now not only do you lose
your woman, but you also losethat kid, that child. You have
no right to see that. Youknow that don't have no right that's that
Now you're not the biological parents.So now you you get hurt twice.
(35:51):
So by me saying that is basicallyjust don't be a stepfather, Just be
a father to Joe kids with women, like take some time out single moms.
You don't have to jump into arelationship with every man you meet,
Like your kids don't have to meetevery man that you date, because when
(36:12):
you date those men and you breakup with those men, you didn't sever
the bond that that child and thatyou know your mate, Like, you
can't do that to people. Likeeverybody gets emotionally attached. So if you
don't see a future with this person, why you got them hanging around your
house and with your kids, Likeit gets harder to rip that band aid
(36:34):
off. Yeah, it's a realharder. Yeah, And I don't think
people think about that. Like whenyou with somebody and you break up with
them and you ain't been around yourkids and everything, Like your child is
breaking up with that person, andyou know they might see that person out
in public trying to speak to themand wave at them, and the adult
if the asshole they throw a madshape to. Definitely, you know,
I seen that. You know't gotto go through all of that and see
(36:54):
I feel like I need to speakon it a little bit. But y'all
just gonna get the book Truth ofa Law. So it's on Amazon right
now for like six ninety five.I got it for the load. Just
get it. But I was marriedto my oldest son's mother, you know.
Um, and people, oh yougotta know he's second marriage. No
no, no, no no.You know, situations happened where the more
(37:15):
stories you disappeared for two years,you know. Unfortunately, Um, addiction
can do that. Yeah, sothings just didn't go as planned. It
was just time to move forward.It wasn't you know, because of and
you tried it. I mean right, So that's how that didn't go and
didn't work. More, go gocheck it out, you know, definitely
(37:37):
it might be a t it mightbe a TV series coming up. And
I'm a mama right massage, Butnow you know, um, I see,
UM, it's hurtful to know thatmy child is being raised by someone
(38:01):
or was raised by someone else.Um, you know, some long story,
but that's hurtful. You know.I'm like, damn, you know,
or even when I before I metmy my my my current wife Kayla,
before you know, I'm dating andyou know, I just had that
one child and and then I'm playingstep daddy to other people's kids, and
(38:21):
it got to a point I wasmore of the parents than they were.
I'm like, I can be doingthis with my own child. Yeah,
And that's when I made my mindup, Like, nah, bro,
well I'm gonna make sure that myson. No, don't be a stepfather
and not even just be your homeyou know. Or I didn't see some
(38:44):
guys be better stepfathers than real fatherand that's good, it is needed,
it isn't needed. I'm not sayingthat step I'm not not even in a
good sense. Yeah, Like you'retaking care of all these other kids and
kids I'm saying the time with otherpeople's children, and you got your own
ship. You can be doing thatway. Real men shut out to Jay
(39:06):
White, you know, he saidyou said it and it was fact.
What real men don't want to takecare of their own man, Listen,
I never got that don't make senseto me. I don't care what relationship
you have with the mother. Ijust don't care about that, Like none
of that should even matter. Likeif your child is not in your life,
then you have every right to fight. It's hard for your child,
(39:27):
And I don't care how hard.It gets. It is no dollar amount
or no amount of money that canno I dig it. And it's it's
not a high percentage of men thatreally want to be the really tried.
Let's just say five percent. Idon't know that's much as Okay them thember
was has that I've really been trying, and the other you just fall into
(39:50):
that category because they used to seeingthat. Yeah you know what I'm saying.
I happened to be one of them. Man, I'm trying, trying.
I got denied from a military judge. They have my child, you
know, at my my my hearing, You're like, oh you're young.
Mother told me I'm African American andI'm in the military. I don't have
nobody kise like go to Iraq towatch him. I was like, wow,
I mean my mama might depended shoutout to me. Yea, my
(40:15):
mom my opinion. She traveled withme in the military. Yeah, man,
she's smart. And they still donot know. But you know,
um, there are a few,you know, but let's not get it
twisted. A majority just ain'tle andyeah, and now you know, I
see more single dads than ever.Yeah, you know that's that's it's becoming
(40:36):
a thing, and it's unfortunate,yeah, but it's becoming a thing now
single dads, you know. AndI applaud definitely, And I applaud you
guys because a lot of men won'tstep up to the plate, definitely,
the beat the child off with theirmama, their sister, auntie, whatever.
A lot of these guys are steppingup to the plate and really doing
it. Like I'm seeing more dadsat the parent teacher conferences and football games
(40:57):
and everything. Now I don't wantto say, but I am. Statistics
have shown that children being raised bya single parent, they come, they
become more successful when they're being raisedby their father. So with that being
said, that just lets you knowhow important is to have a male or
the father in the household. Um, not saying women can't, but there's
just certain things that they might graspyou And you know what, because leadership,
(41:22):
because man lead, you know.So it might just be because some
some of that. Yah. Lookevery time Alex, we gotta get a
new mic, that's why. Butnah, but that's a statistic though,
you know, I just want tothrow that out there that you know,
(41:42):
um, they're more successful when they'reraised by a father than they are by
the mother. And that's not ashot. Yeah, it's just a fact,
and it is. It's needed,It's definitely needed, definitely needed.
And you know, I worked anddid a lot because I had to with
my So I don't ever want themto get the get into mind a state
of saying like, well, mymom did it all. You ain't no
(42:02):
better than my mom. So Idon't ever want it because I had to
be in that state times and Ihad to realize that, Yeah, your
mom had to do all that becauseshe had no choice. Yeah, and
shout out to my queen, becauseI do be holding that standard sometimes like
my mom. I'm gonna used tomy mom did like yo, mama,
(42:24):
bad woman, right and the chickenside. But I get in that moment
that's and that's because that's what yousaw. That's what I saw, and
you like what my mom did itall and we turned out all right.
But you can't think like that,like nobody want to can get training and
condition. But I'm glad that I'mable to start realizing it and waking up
(42:47):
from that you know, cycle behavior, that it wasn't the right way to
go about it. You can keepdone, but it doesn't. It's not
the right way to go about it. Absolutely, So yeah, I'm trying
to play my part the best thatI can without, you know, for
the most part, the example ofwhat to do. And I don't know
(43:10):
how I'm doing, but they're stillbreathing, they eat right. I'm gonna
just apologize now some heathens later.I did all I can do, and
then, you know, that's howI'll be feeling with my boys. I'm
like, where everybody out right,everybody working anybody else? So, hey,
I guess I did what I hadto do. Older son just turned
twenty one. Like them, Ididn't raise the whole legal human you know
(43:32):
what I mean. Like, I'vebeen responsible for this skid for twenty one
years and he turned out pretty allright. So hey, wasn't all good,
but it wasn't all bad. Boomsporadic thoughts. Yes, indeed.
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