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November 26, 2024 16 mins
A story broke about a murder in Celina, and the suspect is someone that Ben and Skin actually grew up with. 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right. It is the Ben and Skin Show ninety
seven point one, the Egle. It's a holiday week. Ben
is on vacation this week, but you have me and
Tizzle and Kray and we are holding it down for you.
We're gonna have a special Thanksgiving edition of The Big
Finish coming up here in about thirty minutes or so.
I am in the mood for Andrews American Pizza Kitchen
for dinner. Badass pizza, and hey, don't take my word

(00:23):
for it, take the word of oh, I don't know
everybody in the city of Dallas. It won the reader's
pull in the Dallas Morning News right there at Preston
and Plano Parkway. So much good pizza. They got five
different kinds, right. They do Detroit, they do Chicago, so
you have the very deep dish styles there. They do
New York style, like the folded over joint. They have

(00:43):
Philly Tavern, which is the thin style, and then Dallas
is their own unique version of pizza, the Dallas Style.
It's part of the Piasso's Pizza lineage. If you've ever
had Piasso pizza back in the day. But man, it
is so good. People love it. They have a kick
ass Bar. They have awesome pasta dishes and they are
going to be open on Thanksgiving. So if you're not
doing Turkey and maybe you want to do some pizza

(01:06):
for everybody, or maybe you do a Thanksgiving lunch or
looking for dinner, they will be open on Thanksgiving. I'm
thinking of going there for Thanksgiving. Man. It's Andrew's American
Pete Kitchen right there at Preston Plano Parkway. But right
now it'd be time for this.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
And now it's time for Basis week Day Up Day
featuring veteran news anchor kt Fontweets. Here are the important
stories he's currently tracking from around the world. All right, so,
three point fifteen on Monday, police were called to the
three thousand block of Seattle Slew Drive in Solina on

(01:43):
report of a burglary that was in progress. They determined
that a man broke into a home and attacked the
woman inside the home. The police say that the man
and woman did know each other, but they don't know
the motive for the attack yet. Responding officers got their
APPREHENDI did the suspect. They located the woman, but she

(02:03):
had sustained several injuries during the attack and she was
pronounced dead at the scene. The man was identified as
fifty three year old Kyle Andrew Stanley. The woman her
name not released by the police. He's been booked into
to the Collin County Jail facing a charge of capital murder.

(02:24):
I saw one report that said that he police apprehended
him without further incident. Yes, Carl Andrew Stanley, Yeah, Carl Andrews.
Carl Andrew Stanley's his name.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
He is a guy that I knew very well because
I played basketball with him. We called him Drew High School.
In high school, his his he was he went to
the same junior high as been and he is was
at the time the most talented white dude I'd ever

(02:57):
seen who and he is a very big man. So
when it says that he attacked this woman and she
sustained injuries that led to her death, realized that this
is a six to seven guy and he is jacked. Okay,
he's a big, big dude. Now, I can also tell

(03:19):
you that he when I knew him well, I actually
talked to him back in March, so it hadn't even
been a full year, and I know that he had
a troubled life. Clearly, if this happens right, Yea. But
when we were kids, he was I wouldn't say that

(03:42):
he was my friend. He was an acquaintance and we
played basketball together. But he was very hard to get
to know because he was a very troubled person. Okay.
And when we were going into junior high, when we
were going from ninth grade into tenth grade, he was
six foot seven and he had a perfect jump shot,

(04:05):
like his form is textbook form. Okay. Our sophomore year,
we didn't have a three point line, and back then
a six to seven guy wouldn't be shooting from the outside,
but he could knock down eighteen footers all day. And
I saw this with my own eyes on a you know,
the free throw line is fifteen feet from the baseline, right,

(04:25):
and there's every three feet there's these little hash marks
that they line people up for free throws. And I
saw him takeoff running when we were fifteen years old,
and he was barefoot, and he took off from the
first hash mark three feet in so twelve feet from
the basket. He took off as a fifteen year old,

(04:47):
and Tomahawk dunked the ball barefoot. Okay. He was the
most outrageous talent. You can imagine he was. He started
as a sophomore and was Sophomore of the Year in
District twelve. Started his varsity as a sophomore from day one,
and he then transferred to South Garland, so we didn't

(05:08):
go to high school with him after that. His dad
was the ran the vocation department at our high school.
And I don't know what happened with the coach, but
every single day for basketball practice, every single day, he
would not show up with shoes and the coach would

(05:30):
make him run bleachers to borrow Chuck Taylor's to practice in. Okay,
So I want you to just I'm trying to set
the picture of a troubled person. He knew every single
day he was going to have to run those bleachers,
and he still wouldn't bring the shoes, and he would
put on those Chuck Taylors and run those bleachers. Okay.

(05:53):
I you know our group of friends, like Ben was
a part of our group of friends, but you know,
half of us were all basketball players. Our school was
kind of weird in that, you know, usually in Texas
it's all about the football players. Like we had a
lot of really good basketball players that also happened to
be popular kids. And so you know, our class, which

(06:16):
had nine hundred kids, we had four guys that were
my age that got d one scholarships to basketball. Crazy
four guys, and Drew was one of them. But Drew
didn't finish with us. Drew transferred out. But he I
can remember one time, and you know, I mean, this

(06:37):
is who's Drew again? Drew is Drew Stanley is who
is in this story? Okay? This Carl, well he it's
Carl Andrew Stanley. He went by Drew. His dad was
Carl Gotch. I guess they went by, you know. And
and anyways, like I said, he he, he and I

(06:58):
were kind of at odds when we were sophomores. He
didn't like me and and but he was a really
angsty guy and everyone called him the boy boy. And
he got mad at me for something. I'm walking with
our group of friends. We're all basketball players, and Drew

(07:18):
is gigantic. I'm probably six foot, one hundred and thirty
five pounds, okay, soaking wet, and I had a mouth
on me. Yeah, and so Drew's mad at me about something,
and I said, easy boy, and he turned around and
he punched me so hard in the chest I thought

(07:38):
it was gonna shatter my entire chest, like it hurt.
And all my friends jumped in and you know, hey, hey,
hold on. You know, nobody threw punches after that. But
it was like to come down, Drew, come down. It's okay,
it's okay, you know. But he was just a guy
that was on edge. And I did have sin empathy,

(08:00):
and I empathized with him because I knew he had
a tough life. And I knew and again he had
all the talent in the world, but he just he
had a tough life, sure, And and I remember one
time later in the year, he threw a party at

(08:21):
his house and a guy was drunk and he kicked
a hole in the sheet rock. Okay, And the next
morning we had a big basketball tournament. We all had
to be at the gym at you know, eight am
to get on the bus. Now I was on jv
he was on varsity. But we all rode the bus
over together, and I remember he showed up with a

(08:44):
bloody lip and blood all over his coat.

Speaker 2 (08:49):
Yeah, so it was is the idea that troubled home life? Yes,
I'm not I'm not excusing this. I'm just saying it
doesn't it doesn't.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
Happen at a vacuum. Yeah, yeah, absolutely, and and uh,
you know, more details are going to come out about
this story.

Speaker 2 (09:10):
Like yeah, and right now is just charged with it
like it, you know, but I mean it's the details
we got there.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
He knew her, Yeah, and so I would suspect that
everything that he's being charged with is legit. I as
we got out of high school, he he, he went,
he got a scholarship, He went and finished at South Garland.
They were really good too, they had a great team,
and he went to uh Steven F. Austin on scholarship

(09:39):
and got kicked off the team. I don't remember the
exact details, but I would run into him from time
to time and we got along fine as we were adults.
You know, whatever happened in high school, you know, you
leave that behind. I can also remember one time one
of our friends who was a really, really talented athlete,

(10:00):
but his knees just gave out on him, you know,
so by the time we were seniors, he just couldn't
do it anymore. But like he was, I mean, this
group of guys that I grew up with. There was
a lot of guys that were incredibly talented physically, like
we were an extraordinary class, but we had a lot
of problems and we didn't achieve anything with our football
team or our basketball team. You've heard Ben go on

(10:20):
and on about our buddy T Mac team. Mac started
red shirt freshmen for Florida State when they won the
national championship in nineteen ninety. Charlie Ward was the quarterback.
He was part of our group. Like we had four
guys go D one in basketball and seven guys go
D one in football and neither team made the playoffs.

Speaker 2 (10:38):
Also, I think, like going back to then, even though
you're five a it was still a little smaller I
think than now and how big everything is. Cause I
can't tell how many times I've seen you and been
know that you have friends from high school, but I've
seen you guys run into people who knew you or
knew one of your parents just out and they know
because of the radio show and that's all that stuff.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
But like, so that's my question, had you had you
seen this guy or I saw him back in March,
so I'm back in March, so before then or yeah,
and all just random and there. In fact, when we
moved to Alan, I bumped into him at the Lifetime
Fitness in Alan. Huh uh, and he was shredded. Like
I was probably forty. We were probably forty back then.

(11:21):
But it's not like, hey man, great to see it.
It was, No, it was very cordial, cordial. And one
thing that I would say that me and Ben are
real lucky, like all of our friends that we grew
up with have taken great pride in us having the show,
and then especially my basketball friends have taken great pride
in us, you know, and me getting on the MAVs broadcast,

(11:43):
and I can tell you Drew was ecstatic for me,
like you know, uh and and like just I want
you to meet my son and we watch you all
the time, and uh. And again he had a troubled life,
and he had a troubled life as a and he
had you know, there's no there's I'm please understand. What

(12:05):
he's done is horrific. No I am not. I am
not excusing this one bit. But I've known this guy
for a long time and at the age of fourteen,
I was like, this is a troubled person, not a
bad person. This is a troubled person, and you know,
sometimes those things they combined with substance abuse or whatever.

(12:29):
And you know, I mean I've had friends tell me
different things about Drew and they may or may not
be true. This obviously is you know, there's probably gonna
be more come out about this. But yeah, when I
would see him, and I saw him probably three times
in the last two or three years, and he would
text me every now and then, just basketball related. Sure,

(12:50):
and again this is not a close friend. This is
a guy that I played basketball with and I knew
and quite frankly, when we were fifteen, I didn't like him.

Speaker 2 (12:59):
Well yeah, you know, and uh but simple as he
saw you on the MAVs broadcast and shot.

Speaker 1 (13:04):
You a text or something. Yeah. Yeah. But but again
as we got older, we were very cordial. And I
mean I never hung out with him or anything like that.
But I mean one time I can remember, when I
was twenty four twenty five, I bumped into him at
a party and we drank together.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
You know, we all see a lot of people though, too,
you know, like, yeah, you know, that's it's it's great.

Speaker 1 (13:21):
Yeah, I think like, uh, you know, just the one
thing I'm trying to convey here is that you know,
sometimes there's just bad people and bad things happen, and
sometimes there's people that end up messed up because of
their situation. And I'm on this group chain right now

(13:42):
with people that knew him well before I knew him,
you know, like grew up with him when they're you know,
really really young, and it's all of it is like
our reaction is shock and sadness and horror, but it's
also at the same time, like almost to a person,
we're like, God, he had a he had a tough life. Yeah, dude.
So anyways, that is uh, And and I feel horrible

(14:06):
I've done this whole thing or Sarah talking, and I
have not sent any condolences to the family.

Speaker 2 (14:10):
They have not made her name public. I don't believe
they haven't they riding an update since this morning. So
and you know, it's what happens to someone you know
has died.

Speaker 1 (14:19):
Here And let me tell you that Drew has a
son that is a teenager and by all accounts, apparently
he's an incredible kid and a baller, like Drew's younger
brother was even better than him, Like they had so
much talent. But man, they had what was going on

(14:43):
home or all that stuff or whatever. They had tough
stuff happening and you you in it and a kid
can't handle that stuff. Well, we've seemed to like this
is a little different.

Speaker 2 (14:52):
But like when people have issues with rage for lack
of a bear term, like if that can't be you know,
corralled in ten, fifteen, twenty seconds, Yeah, awful stuff can happen.

Speaker 1 (15:10):
Yeah, and I can't help but think about, you know,
this person that's died, and if if he physically attacked
her without a weapon and she sustained injuries that killed her,
and knowing how big a man he was, Yeah, that's
a shocking thing to try to even think about it. Yeah,
it's just.

Speaker 2 (15:30):
I'm sure more stuff will come on this, come out
through this. We're going to be best of stuff tomorrow Thanksgiving.
We'll probably have another best of show on Friday. We'll
be back on Monday, Live three six. It's a program
trying to update the programming. No, that was a good
time to do ken, I.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
Thought that was a good time. Yeah, on Monday that
maybe we'll have an update on Monday. Yeah, if you know,
or comes out or maybe we just don't even think
about this anymore until we know the name of the
victim and.

Speaker 2 (16:00):
More about it.

Speaker 1 (16:00):
Yeah, yeah, but it's it's a horrible story, and it's
just like it's us shocking when you it's shocking grew
up with I mean yeah, yeah, I can't even imagine.
I mean, oh, it's crazy. All right. It is the
Ben and Skin Show ninety seven point one K E
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