October 21, 2025 • 5 mins
Ben Rogers, Jeff “Skin” Wade, Kevin “KT” Turner, and Krystina Ray dive into a viral Reddit thread that exposes the weirdest, creepiest, and most baffling things men have done on first dates.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the love shack, David. Then it's getting ladies
talking love life and a white Mercedes. Maybe let us
be nice to you advice and you welcome to the
love shack. Lady life can gets crazy, you need to
Sexpert's Rowinghouse says.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Let me handle the bad problems for you, all right.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
So, uh, there was a post on Reddit where it
was basically, what's the biggest ick you've had on a
first date?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
All right?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
So, and it's it was on a Reddit thing where
it was like ask women you know, so you have
women explaining some bad things that have happened to them
on first dates. Because look, I think this rules out.
I just want to say, first, don't let a few
bad apples ruin all of humanity. Not every man is
John Wayne Gacy, you know, not every man is a
(00:58):
bad guy. I think I think we get painted in
a bad light as strong men because of a few
bad apples.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
So I want to get that out of the way first.
Would you guys agree, I'm confused by the strong men.
Understand what you're saying, but I like, we're not We're
just simple men. We're just normal men. Yeah, We're just
normal man. We're just normal innocent.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Men hard times.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's right about that. Yeah, I am
actually not hard you figure out, thank you, he's not complicated.
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
So example one of a woman saying too much on
the internet on Reddit, heme out and patted my hand
like a cat.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Super impersonation.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
What if it was, sir, per and he just wasn't
in this costume?
Speaker 4 (01:56):
You forgot?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Oh man, I've always wearing my Carolina panther. It's a
red flag. It could just been a play that was missed,
you know, a missed play, a bad decision. But it
also could just be that he maybe thinks he's.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
A Cat's good furries are real, bro, they absolutely are.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
God, that's like serial killer vibes. Though, if a guy
did that, I would be terrified.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Do you identify as a cat and I identify as
a serial killer? He's like, I'm not even a cat person.
You think what's going on here?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Example two, he told me he wasn't wearing any underwear
out of the blue.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
All right, that seems like a good play. Respect. I
do that all the time. Same, I do that. I
just walk into a meeting to say, that's a Bill
Murray play. Yeah, exactly, what's wrong with that, Christina?
Speaker 4 (02:45):
If you do it, I could see it on a
funny aspect. Maybe if he's joking like, hey, by the way,
I'm not wearing any underwear. All right, cool, thanks for
the intel.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
We have a friend who I think has borderline Tourette's
with that. It's probably a Diagno, Jeff Cavanaugh's his name.
That's the type of thing I think he would just say,
because he just says what's on his mind, no matter what.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Yeah, it works for him.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
He'll just sit there and tell you how much in
debt he is from the pool that he installed, how
much the pool cost, how much the house costs when
he got it, how much he currently.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Makes now in between sandwich bites.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Oh yeah, by the way, I'm not wearing any underwear.
Example three, This guy had a whole basket of hot
wings and licked his fingers constantly. Never went to the
restaurant to wash his hands. When we left. He wanted
to hold.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
Hands, but did she offer him a wipe?
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Like, hey, do you need a wow? That's a bold
first date thing. Would you like a wife? Did you
like a wipe? Turn around? All right, grab your ankles.
Changed a lot of divers when you're eating wings wet
naps okay, which, by the way, that sounds offensive. I
(04:02):
gotta do.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
So many wet napps with being an arc electic. It's tough.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
It's a pretty good joke. Actually, in hindsight, i'd like
to you have to give it time. I'd like to
circle back on that one. And for those who don't know,
I have a very rare disease called nark. Oh no,
I don't have to explain it. Don't have to explain it.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Number four, he gave me a sample of his beat
boxing skills at the table.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Sorry, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Okay, what woman that you dated thirty five years ago
was supposed to go on Reddit?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
You? I thought that would impress trash.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
I bet whoever did that loss to bet.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
That's that's probably That's really good too.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
You gotta go on a date with someone and just
beat box out of nowhere.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Example five.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
I was reapplying my lip gloss after dinner and he
asked me if he could smell it. So I gave
him my lip gloss and then he licked the app.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
No, we'll troll with that.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Oh what that's weird?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Why that's how I always do it. That is confusing, though,
I don't understand what he got out of that. He
thought it was like flavored, It smelled good. He thought
it's like a like a lullipop. I'm stopped up. I
can only taste this to understand what it is.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I know, I'm looking at things here. There's a few
more that I have here that are interesting. I think
I would like to push, and we'll do part two tomorrow.
Are you guys okay with that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Push, push, He's gonna push, He's gonna push, all right.
Coming up next, it's the Today Game. You must listen live.
And then are the Cowboys about to make a trade.
Welcome to the love shack, David. Then it's getting ladies
talking love life and a white Mercedes. Maybe let us
be nice to you advice and you welcome to the
love shack. Lady life can gets crazy, you need to
Sexpert's Rowinghouse says.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Let me handle the bad problems for you, all right.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
So, uh, there was a post on Reddit where it
was basically, what's the biggest ick you've had on a
first date?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
All right?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
So, and it's it was on a Reddit thing where
it was like ask women you know, so you have
women explaining some bad things that have happened to them
on first dates. Because look, I think this rules out.
I just want to say, first, don't let a few
bad apples ruin all of humanity. Not every man is
John Wayne Gacy, you know, not every man is a
(00:58):
bad guy. I think I think we get painted in
a bad light as strong men because of a few
bad apples.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
So I want to get that out of the way first.
Would you guys agree, I'm confused by the strong men.
Understand what you're saying, but I like, we're not We're
just simple men. We're just normal men. Yeah, We're just
normal man. We're just normal innocent.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Men hard times.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's right about that. Yeah, I am
actually not hard you figure out, thank you, he's not complicated.
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
So example one of a woman saying too much on
the internet on Reddit, heme out and patted my hand
like a cat.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Super impersonation.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
What if it was, sir, per and he just wasn't
in this costume?
Speaker 4 (01:56):
You forgot?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Oh man, I've always wearing my Carolina panther. It's a
red flag. It could just been a play that was missed,
you know, a missed play, a bad decision. But it
also could just be that he maybe thinks he's.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
A Cat's good furries are real, bro, they absolutely are.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
God, that's like serial killer vibes. Though, if a guy
did that, I would be terrified.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Do you identify as a cat and I identify as
a serial killer? He's like, I'm not even a cat person.
You think what's going on here?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Example two, he told me he wasn't wearing any underwear
out of the blue.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
All right, that seems like a good play. Respect. I
do that all the time. Same, I do that. I
just walk into a meeting to say, that's a Bill
Murray play. Yeah, exactly, what's wrong with that, Christina?
Speaker 4 (02:45):
If you do it, I could see it on a
funny aspect. Maybe if he's joking like, hey, by the way,
I'm not wearing any underwear. All right, cool, thanks for
the intel.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
We have a friend who I think has borderline Tourette's
with that. It's probably a Diagno, Jeff Cavanaugh's his name.
That's the type of thing I think he would just say,
because he just says what's on his mind, no matter what.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Yeah, it works for him.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
He'll just sit there and tell you how much in
debt he is from the pool that he installed, how
much the pool cost, how much the house costs when
he got it, how much he currently.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Makes now in between sandwich bites.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Oh yeah, by the way, I'm not wearing any underwear.
Example three, This guy had a whole basket of hot
wings and licked his fingers constantly. Never went to the
restaurant to wash his hands. When we left. He wanted
to hold.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
Hands, but did she offer him a wipe?
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Like, hey, do you need a wow? That's a bold
first date thing. Would you like a wife? Did you
like a wipe? Turn around? All right, grab your ankles.
Changed a lot of divers when you're eating wings wet
naps okay, which, by the way, that sounds offensive. I
(04:02):
gotta do.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
So many wet napps with being an arc electic. It's tough.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
It's a pretty good joke. Actually, in hindsight, i'd like
to you have to give it time. I'd like to
circle back on that one. And for those who don't know,
I have a very rare disease called nark. Oh no,
I don't have to explain it. Don't have to explain it.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Number four, he gave me a sample of his beat
boxing skills at the table.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Sorry, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Okay, what woman that you dated thirty five years ago
was supposed to go on Reddit?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
You? I thought that would impress trash.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
I bet whoever did that loss to bet.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
That's that's probably That's really good too.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
You gotta go on a date with someone and just
beat box out of nowhere.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Example five.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
I was reapplying my lip gloss after dinner and he
asked me if he could smell it. So I gave
him my lip gloss and then he licked the app.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
No, we'll troll with that.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Oh what that's weird?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Why that's how I always do it. That is confusing, though,
I don't understand what he got out of that. He
thought it was like flavored, It smelled good. He thought
it's like a like a lullipop. I'm stopped up. I
can only taste this to understand what it is.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I know, I'm looking at things here. There's a few
more that I have here that are interesting. I think
I would like to push, and we'll do part two tomorrow.
Are you guys okay with that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Push, push, He's gonna push, He's gonna push, all right.
Coming up next, it's the Today Game. You must listen live.
And then are the Cowboys about to make a trade.
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