115. Confidence Looks Good On You- Even in Sweatpants

Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you rebuild. After divorce, it’s easy to forget who you are, but babe, your power never left—you just forgot where you put it. In this episode, Nichole shares real talk, laughs, and 5 confidence-boosting moves to help you find your spark again (and look damn good doing it).

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In this episode of The Nichole Banks Podcast, Nichole gets real about how to rebuild confidence after heartbreak—the messy, funny, unfiltered version no one talks about. Because confidence isn’t found in Spanx or self-help quotes—it’s found in the moments you stop apologizing for being you.

✨ What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why confidence has nothing to do with perfection—and everything to do with permission.
• The truth about how divorce rattles your self-worth (and how to get it back).
• Nichole’s personal story of losing her spark—and the bold moves that brought it roaring back.
• The small, daily habits that make you magnetic again.

???? Nichole’s 5 Confidence-Building Power Moves:

1. Keep promises to yourself. Every time you follow through, you prove you’re trustworthy—to you.
2. Celebrate the small wins. Confidence grows when you notice your progress, not just perfection.
3. Speak kindly to yourself. You can’t hate yourself into loving your life.
4. Get uncomfortable on purpose. Confidence is built through courage, not comfort.
5. Surround yourself with women who remind you who you are—not who you lost.

Because confidence isn’t about having it all together—it’s about daring to begin, even when you don’t.

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